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A Word of
Thanks and Appreciation
T he International Islamic Committee
for Women & Child would like to express
its appreciation for all those who
participated in the drafting of this Charter,
particularly those who volunteered their
time and effort for the sake of Allah, and
the Islamic Development Bank, which
provided financial support for printing the
book, introducing it, and providing
training. Likewise, we would like to
thank the Al-Shareyah Organization for
providing financial support for printing
the Charter, the Malaysian Development
Organization for providing the financial
support necessary to complete the Charter,
and the Islamic International Charitable
Organization for financing the celebration
for the completion of the Charter, in
addition to all those pious people behind
the scenes, who contributed their efforts
and support, seeking the pleasure of Allah
and His reward.
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Board of Contributors
Dr. Abd El-Lateef Professor of Shari‟ah, Faculty of Law,
Aamir University of Zaqaziq; Arab Republic of
Egypt.
Dr. Abdurrahman Professor of Educational Principles,
El-Naqeeb University of Mansurah; Arab Republic
of Egypt.
Dr. Ahmad Assal Vice President of the International Islamic
University; Islamabad, Pakistan.
Dr. Ahmad Part-time Professor, Faculty of Education
El-Mahdi at Al-Azhar and Helwan Universities;
Abd El-Haleem Arab Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Ali Gomaa Mufti of Egypt; Arab Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Fathi Lashin Consultant for the Ministry of Justice;
Arab Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Jamal Al-Din Consultant for the Islamic Fiqh Academy,
Atiyyah Director of the Teaching Fiqh Principles
Project; Jeddah, Kingdom of Saudi
Arabia.
Dr. Makarim Assistant Professor of Literature and
El-Deeri Criticism, Al-Azhar University, Arab
Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Mohammed Islamic thinker and member of the
Emarah Council of Islamic Studies; Al-Azhar
University; Arab Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Muhammad Professor of Comparative Law, Faculty of
Kamal El-Deen Law, University of Alexandria; Arab
Imam Republic of Egypt.
Names have been listed alphabetically.
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Dr. Salah Professor of Sociology and Consultant for
Abd El-Mutaal Social and Criminal Research; Arab
Republic of Egypt.
Dr. Yusuf President of the International Association
Al-Qardawi of Muslim Scholars; Head of the
European Council for Fatwa and
Research, Dublin, Ireland; and Director of
the Seerah and Sunnah Center, University
of Qatar.
Names are listed in alphabetical order.
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Dr. Fatimah Naseef Retired Associate Professor in the Islamic
Studies department of King Abd Al-
Azeez University in Jeddah, and
President of the Women‟s Committee on
Scientific Miracles; Jeddah, Kingdom of
Saudi Arabia.
Consulting Sheikh Former Consultant to the Courts,
Faisal Mawlawi Lebanon and Vice President of the
European Council for Fatwa and
Research; Dublin, Ireland.
Dr. Ghalib Former Minister of Endowments and
Abd Al-Kafi current member of the Yemeni Council of
Al-Qurashi Representatives.
Dr. Khalifa Babiker Former Dean of the Faculty of Islamic
Al-Hassan and Arabic Studies in Dubai, United Arab
Emirates; currently he is a senior expert
for the Islamic Fiqh Academy in Jeddah,
Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.
Dr. Mohammad President of the Board of Scholars,
El-Mukhtar General President of the Shari‟ah
Mohammed Organizations in Egypt, and professor at
El-Mahdi Al-Azhar University; Arab Republic of
Egypt.
Dr. Muhammad Abd Dean of the Faculty of Shari‟ah and
Al-Razzaq Al-Saeed Islamic Studies, Kuwait University;
Ibrahim Al-Tantawi Kuwait.
Dr. Mohammed Professor in the Department of Islamic
Ar-Roki studies in the Faculty of Arts and
Humanities at Mohammed V University
in Rabat, and currently a senior expert at
the Islamic Fiqh Academy in Jeddah.
Dr. Noura Khaalid Associate Professor of Sociology, King
Al-Sa‟d Abd Al-Azeez University; Jeddah,
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Introduction
Introduction
By Dr. Mohammed Emarah
1
This refers to the concept of Allah having designated a Caliph (khalifa) on Earth to
look after and care for creation, using the available resources and wealth with wisdom
for the benefit of all, rather than exploiting them.
Introduction
1
Programme of Action of the International Conference on Population and Development;
Chapter 12, Paragraph 24.
2
Ibid. Chapter 7, Paragraph 2 states, “Reproductive health is a state of complete
physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or
Introduction
infirmity, in all matters relating to the reproductive system and to its functions and
processes. Reproductive health therefore implies that people are able to have a
satisfying and safe sex life and that they have the capability to reproduce and the
freedom to decide if, when and how often to do so. Implicit in this last condition are the
rights of men and women to be informed and to have access to safe, effective,
affordable and acceptable methods of family planning of their choice, as well as other
methods of their choice for regulation of fertility which are not against the law, and the
right of access to appropriate health-care services that will enable women to go safely
through pregnancy and childbirth and provide couples with the best chance of having a
healthy infant. In line with the above definition of reproductive health, reproductive
health care is defined as the constellation of methods, techniques and services that
contribute to reproductive health and well-being by preventing and solving reproductive
health problems. It also includes sexual health, the purpose of which is the enhancement
of life and personal relations, and not merely counseling and care related to
reproduction and sexually transmitted diseases.”
1 Ibid. Chapter 4, Paragraph 20.
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1
Programme of Action of the International Conference on Population and
Development, Chapter 4, Paragraph 26.
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Programme of Action for the International Conference on Population and
Development, Chapter 16, Paragraph 7.
2
Ibid. Chapter 4, Paragraph 9.
3
Ibid. Chapter 16, Paragraph 21.
4
Ibid. Chapter 2.
5
Programme of Action for the International Conference on Population and
Development, Chapter 2.
6
Ibid. Chapter Seven, Paragraph 25.
Introduction
1
Abdullah Al-Nadeem, Al-Ustaadh Magazine, vol. 19, 8 Jamaadi ath-Thaaniyyah,
1310 AH/ 27 December, 1892, p. 439.
Introduction
which includes the mujtahid 1, the issue to which the ijtihad was
applied, and the tools of ijtihaad.
As for the Explanatory Notes, they were composed to
explain and clarify the enormous academic work that is represented
by this Charter, lifting the veil to uncover what is inside, and
uncovering the hidden methodological background in the precise
phrasing of the articles of the Charter.
We ask Allah to use this Charter to bring all goodness to the
Islamic community and to enable it to be implemented according to
its social and familial reality. May He allow it to take its due place
in its pedagogical, legal, and cultural fields, and may it be an active
step towards achieving unity in that which is written about family
affairs in the Islamic world …
And our final supplication is “All praise is due to Allah, the
Lord of all creation.”
1
Mujtahid: A jurist who forms independent decisions in legal or theological matters,
based on the interpretation and application of the main principles of derivation of
Islamic law.
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In the name of Allah the Most
Merciful, the Most Beneficent
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Section One
The Divine Mission of Man
Article (1)
Worshipping Allah and Spreading Civilization on Earth
Allah honored man and distinguished him above many of
His other creations. He chose man to be His caliph on Earth, to
spread civilization therein by working to provide for his physical
and spiritual needs; building a human society governed by the ideal
values of truth, beneficence, and justice; and achieving the
significance of worshipping Allah and having faith in Him Alone,
and setting Him apart from His creation to be obeyed and
worshipped according to the manner of His prophets and
messengers.
Article (2)
Providing Man With the Necessary Qualities to Undertake This
Mission
In order to accomplish his mission on Earth, Allah granted
man the necessary intellectual, psychological, and physical abilities
to make him qualified to fulfill this mission. Likewise, He sent
messengers to lead man to the straightest path of guidance and
success, in this life and in the Hereafter.
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Section Two
Man‟s Divinely Inspired Nature and the Universal
Norms
Article (3)
Possession of Mental Faculties and the Will to Change
Allah created man with the innate tendency to believe in
Him. At the same time, He granted man the intellect and will that
allow him to stray from his fitrah (divinely inspired nature), or to
develop his abilities according to his knowledge, spiritual gifts, and
social conditions. It is the existence of this intellect and this will
that is the precondition for the reward or punishment that man will
be dealt in the Hereafter.
Article (4)
The Equality in the Origin of Creation and the Variation in
Distinguishing Characteristics
Allah created all of mankind equal in the origin of their
creation from one soul. Thus it follows, that they are equal in their
general characteristics. Despite this, Allah‟s wisdom dictated that
they should differ in some of their individual characteristics such as
strength and weakness, talents, and psychological, mental, and
physical abilities.
This human variation in some special characteristics is the
foundation of life, as it causes individuals and societies to get to
know, cooperate, and complete each other; as opposed to being an
invitation to animosity and hatred.
Article (5)
Integration of the Spouses; The Male and the Female
Despite the common origin of humanity's creation from one
soul, Allah, with His Infinite Ability, created a pair from this soul;
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Section Three
The Singular Directive of Shari‟ah for Both Men and
Women, and the Differentiation in Their Roles
Article (6)
The Singularity of the Directive of Obligation and the Equality in
General Rights and Obligations
Equality between men and women in the origin of their
creation necessitates two points:
The first point is that there is complete equality between
men and women in most of life's general issues and each person is
considered a completion of the other‟s person and mission, and a
partner to him in marital and societal life. However, there are some
specific characteristics that set each of them apart in their physical
and psychological makeup such that each is distinguished by that
which is specific to him.
The second point is that in accordance with this origin, the
Shari‟ah directive was issued to both men and women in a single,
unified form with regard to all of the other affairs in which they are
equal; such as the obligation that they have been charged with to
carry out Allah‟s orders and prohibitions, the rulings regarding the
permissible and prohibited, the principles of reward and
punishment, general human rights and obligations, and human
honor. Conversely, the directive was addressed to each of them
individually regarding the affairs that are specific to each party.
Article (7)
The Differentiation in Special Responsibilities
The distinguishing differences between men and women in
their characteristics, talents, and specific physical and
psychological abilities do not grant one of them a higher status than
the other. Rather, this differentiation is based upon each person‟s
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Article (8)
Distribution of Responsibilities and Differentiation in Legal
Status
In order to establish justice and achieve the common
interest, the natural innate characteristics of men and women must
be taken into consideration in the distribution of the responsibilities
and duties that each of them performs in the situations wherein they
are required. This necessarily leads to differentiation in the legal
status of each sex, however, this differentiation is limited to the
scope of said situations.
The family is one of the most important arenas in which the
differences, talents, and physical and psychological constitutions of
each sex stand out.
Article (9)
Societal Welfare Is Achieved by Affirmation of the Innate
Distinguishing Characteristics
Neither logic, nature, nor Shari‟ah permit these differences
and special characteristics to be ignored; to do so would be to
demean the innate nature and deny the natural phenomena that are
physically manifested in reality and in practice, and which are
known to all with certainty and empirical assurance.
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Section 4
Marriage and the Family System
Article (10)
Definition
In Islam, “marriage” is defined as a strong Shari‟ah bond
between a man and a woman that is lasting and continuous, and is
contracted with each party‟s full consent and acceptance according
to the detailed Shari‟ah rulings.
Article (11)
The Prohibition of Unions that Are not Sanctioned by Shari‟ah
“Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage” is the only means by which
it is permissible for a man to be united with a woman, and it is the
only basis for forming a family.
Islam has forbidden all other unions between men and
women, even if they are falsely called marriage, and it has also
forbidden all things that lead to such relationships.
Article (12)
The Development of the Manifestations of Marriage According to
the Elevation of Man
Man‟s creation from a male and a female reveals the Divine
Will in making marriage a human instinct, a social necessity and an
essential system to form families and social bonds between
families.
The manifestations and means of marriage developed
according to the extent of man‟s elevation over the rest of the
creation; becoming a means of purifying man‟s sexual, behavioral,
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Article (13)
The Scope of the Family
In Islam, the family is not limited to the two spouses and
their children. Instead, it extends to the wide network of relatives,
which includes grandparents, siblings, aunts and uncles, and others
who are connected by ties of consanguinity, affinity, or nursing,
regardless of where they are. These ties extend to the extent that
they include the entire society.
Article (14)
The Importance of the Family and the Imperativeness of Having
a Family Leader
The family, as a human group consisting of a male and a
female, is the cornerstone and the primary social unit of society and
within it, the pillars of society and its structural components are
represented. No matter how few or how great the number of its
members, they are all connected by emotional, social, and financial
relationships, and all family members are regulated by a system of
rights and obligations. For this reason, leadership is essential to the
smooth running of family affairs, and this leadership is the
qiwaamah that has been entrusted to men. It is a position of
administration that is subject to the rules and laws of Shari‟ah in the
Book of Allah [the Qur‟an] and the Sunnah of His Messenger (may
blessings and peace be upon him).
Article (15)
The Wisdom Behind the Prohibition of Marriage Between Family
Members
Islam forbids men from marrying their female mahrams 1 due
to the high position that these family ties occupy and due to Islam‟s
great concern for protecting ties of kinship from being severed, and
1
Mahram: One‟s relatives to whom marriage is forbidden due to the proximity of ties
of consanguinity, affinity, or nursing.
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Section Five
The Objectives of the Family
Article (16)
Preservation of Progeny (The Human Race)
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, the primary objective of the
family is preservation of progeny or the human race, to spread
civilization on Earth, and to continue the succession of generations.
Allah instilled sexual desire within the body as it is the natural
means of Shari‟ah legislated procreation, not that it is an aim in and
of itself.
To achieve this purpose, Islam restricted Shari‟ah sanctioned
marriage to that which is between a male and a female, and it
forbade all other forms of unions outside of Shari‟ah sanctioned
marriage. Likewise, homosexual relationships that do not lead to
procreation are also prohibited and birth control is not allowed
without the consent of both spouses.
Article (17)
Achieving Tranquility, Love, and Mercy
In order that the relationship between the spouses does not
become limited to a purely sexual form, Shari‟ah has indicated that
the goals of this relationship include each spouse finding tranquility
with the other, and achieving love and mercy between them.
For this reason Shari‟ah guarantees each family member a
satisfying and happy social life based on affection, love, mercy, and
cooperation, throughout the good times as well as the bad; a life
that achieves stability, psychological tranquility, and mutual trust.
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Article (18)
Protecting Lineage
Attributing each person to his Shari‟ah recognized roots,
maintaining the purity of his lineage, and protecting it from
becoming confused is a goal of Shari‟ah that is independent from
that of preservation of progeny.
In order to achieve this, Islam forbids sexual relations
outside of marriage and prohibits adoption1. Likewise it has
ordained specific rulings, enforcing a waiting period for women
after divorce or being widowed, prohibiting women from
concealing what is in the womb, and defining the procedures for
attributing lineage or refuting it, etc.
Article (19)
The Safeguard of Marriage
Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage protects one‟s chastity2, is a
safeguard, protects one‟s honor, and closes the doors that lead to
sexual corruption by eradicating the anarchy of promiscuity and
immorality.
Article (20)
Protecting Religious Adherence in the Family
The family is the nest for its members, not only by looking
after them physically, but more importantly, by instilling religious
and moral values within them. The family‟s responsibility for this
begins even before the formation of the embryo, with the selection
1
[TN: Adoption in this context refers to the practice of attributing the adopted child to
his adoptive parents as if they were his own biological parents.]
2
[TN: Chastity in this context refers to abstention from illicit sexual activity.]
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Section One
The Muslim Community‟s Responsibility to
Encourage Marriage
Article (21)
The Basis for This Responsibility
The responsibility of the Muslim community for its
members is based on the principle of the relationship between a
whole and its parts, or an entity and its members. Thus, the Muslim
community is made up of families that are connected and cohesive,
like a single body, rather than detached individuals; and this cannot
take place except through marriage.
The Muslim community that adheres to the path of guidance
concerns itself with establishing righteous plans and programs to
encourage marriage - and to encourage it early on, out of concern
for the community's development and strength, and to prevent
immorality.
Article (22)
Facilitating Shari‟ah Ordained Marriage
Islamic Shari‟ah has made it incumbent upon the Muslim
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Article (23)
Encouraging the Youth to Marry
Islamic Shari‟ah encourages youth to get married early to
prevent moral and sexual deviance.
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Section Two
The Muslim Community‟s Responsibility to Protect
and Care for the Family
Article (24)
The Basis for this Responsibility
This responsibility is based on two pillars:
1. It achieves one of the aims of Shari‟ah; Islam has ruled that
the basic rule for marriage is continuity and permanence of
the family and this is the aspect that completes the obligation
to encourage marriage, for marriage cannot meet the aims of
Shari‟ah unless it continues and is protected and cared for.
2. The Muslim community, when it protects the family from
the forces of collapse and deterioration, is at the same time
protecting itself and its social and moral values.
Article (25)
The Balance Between Rights and Responsibilities
It is allowed to clearly and precisely define the stipulations
of each spouse when filling out the marriage contract, taking care to
maintain justice and balance between the rights and obligations of
each party, according to the fundamentals and rulings of Shari‟ah
and in order to protect the family life and its continuity.
Article (26)
Documenting the Marriage Contract
Officially documenting the marriage contract achieves
interests that are affirmed by Shari‟ah and which benefit the society
as it prevents either spouse from denying the marital relationship
and protects the rights of the wife and children.
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Article (27)
Witnessing and Announcing the Marriage Contract
Shari‟ah stipulates that the marriage contract must be
witnessed as a means of including the Muslim community in the
building of the family, and to serve as a sign that differentiates
between those relationships between men and women that are
permissible, and those that are impermissible. Also, the
recommendation that the marriage be announced is a way of
making the contract known and it is a social declaration that a new
family has been formed.
Article (28)
Registering Newborns
Registering newborns with the responsible agency allows
each child to be attributed to his Shari‟ah recognized parents and
guarantees the formation of a valid family with established
affiliations of kinship. Registering newborns also affirms that the
individual belongs to his society and country, while at the same
time achieving societal and governmental respect for his rights.
Article (29)
Combating Relationships That Are not Sanctioned by Shari‟ah
By protecting noble moral and social values and combating
sexual relationships and unsanctioned so-called forms of marriage,
the Muslim community protects the family from breakdown, and
achieves its happiness and stability so that it becomes a nest that is
well suited for the new generation, in addition to being a source of
encouragement for people to seek Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage.
Article (30)
Confronting Deviant Ideas
The Muslim community must confront deviant ideas that
debase the relationship between the man and the woman, lowering
it to one of conflict and competition such that it is merely a material
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Article (31)
Spreading Awareness of the Value of the Marriage Relationship
and its Etiquettes
Spreading awareness of the value of the marital relationship
in Islam and the fact that it is based on love, mercy, psychological
security, and bearing life's burdens together, and that it requires
mutual consultation in those affairs that concern marital life,
protects the family from the causes of disagreement and division.
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Section Three
The Means of Protecting the Family
Article (33)
Shari‟ah‟s Attention to the Marriage Contract
Due to the importance of the family in the building the
society, Shari‟ah places special importance on marriage,
enveloping it in detailed regulations and conditions that are stricter
and greater in number than those of any other contracts.
Article (34)
separation.
Article (35)
The Importance of Offspring to the Stability of the Marriage
Islamic Shari‟ah considers offspring to be one of the most
important aims of marriage and the existence of offspring is an
incentive for the spouses to avoid seeking dissolution of the marital
bond.
Article (36)
Listening to One‟s Conscience and Being Aware That Allah is
Watching
Unlike the social and governmental deterrents, the religious
deterrent has a great effect on the human conscience. The man's
awareness that Allah is constantly watching him and that reward
and punishment await him in the Hereafter prevent him from
severing the ties of marriage or oppressing women. This is
something that cannot be accomplished by practical measures or in
situations to which others are not privy.
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Article (38)
The Effect of Habits and Customs on Marriage Procedures
The family relationships that precede and give birth to
marriage, the preludes to marriage, the standards of compatibility
between the spouses, and the means of successful marital life are
affected by the prevalent customs and culture of the society. Thus,
they must be formed according to Islamic social regulations and
values.
Article (39)
In-Laws‟ Involvement in the Marriage
The in-laws should be involved in the marriage to the extent
that is required by the customs of the social setting. This
involvement should be limited as much as possible, according to
the Shari‟ah regulations, while at the same time spreading
adherence to Islamic values and morals to promote the relationship
between each of the spouses and the other spouse‟s family.
Article (40)
Neighbors and the Extent of Their Effect
The social relationships between neighboring families are
governed by prevalent social principles, and neighbors play an
active role in creating family problems as well as in solving them.
Thus, building relationship with neighbors based on Islamic
principles and values helps to protect the family and hold it
together.
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Article (41)
Social Takaaful (Solidarity) in the Family
Social takaaful between family members plays an integral
role in its cohesion and continuity.
Article (42)
The Importance of Local Institutions
Local institutions play an active role in family affairs, and
this role extends to include institutions that:
1. Encourage and facilitate marriage.
2. Make people aware of the Shari‟ah rulings that pertain to the
family and the social and psychological studies related to it.
3. Provide care for mothers, children, the elderly, wives
involved in marital conflicts, and youth who have problems
with their parents that cannot be solved within the family.
4. Hold meetings for reconciliation between family members.
5. The role of nurseries, schools, the media, and mosques
represents the external training that shapes family members
from within. Thus, they should be given special attention
and enabled to carry out their correct pedagogical roles that
are in accordance with the principles of Islam.
Article (43)
The Standard of Success for Legal Legislation
The standard of success of the legal legislation that regulates
marital relationships is judged by its success in solving marital
problems and its ability to establish justice and maintain balance
between the rights and responsibilities of each spouse within the
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Article (44)
Facilitating Arbitration and Resolving Disagreements
It is the government‟s duty to facilitate the means of
litigation and issuance of quick verdicts in marital conflicts.
Execution of the verdicts in an appropriate and dignified manner as
soon as they are issued should be guaranteed. Also, care should be
taken to maintain good relationships between the families involved
and to prevent any harm to the children.
Article (45)
The Government‟s Responsibility for Successful Family Cohesion
The Government‟s responsibilities include:
1. Establishing various types of social insurance systems.
2. Conducting careful monitoring of the media and prohibiting
the media from presenting bad examples that discourage
youth from thinking about marriage, and encourage
corruption and immorality, which ultimately lead to the
dissolution of the family and its collapse.
3. To see that the educational curriculum that is taught at
different levels includes the level-appropriate scientific
information that is necessary to prepare each student to form
a successful family according to Shari‟ah regulations.
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Section One
Preludes to Marriage
Article (46)
The Definition of "Engagement"
“Engagement” is when a man expresses his desire to marry
a woman and it is accepted by the woman and her guardian, with a
mutual promise to finalize the marriage contract in the future.
Article (47)
The Ramifications of Engagement
Engagement is neither marriage nor is it a quasi-marriage. It
is nothing more than a mutual promise of marriage between a man
and a woman that does not establish any rights or make any
prohibited actions permissible. The only thing that is permitted
between the two people is to look at each other at the time of the
proposal so that they may make sure that they are content with the
other person; during the engagement, however, the woman remains
completely unrelated to the man in all aspects until the marriage
contract is executed.
Article (48)
The Impermissibility of Proposing to a Woman Who is Already
Engaged
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Article (49)
It is Forbidden to Propose to Women Who Are Mahrams 1
It is not permissible for a man to propose to a woman to
whom marriage is permanently prohibited due the proximity of
their relationship by consanguinity, affinity, or nursing. Likewise, it
is not permissible for him to propose to a woman with whom
marriage is temporarily prohibited until the cause of the prohibition
no longer exists. It is also forbidden for him to propose, whether
directly or indirectly, to a woman who is in her waiting period due
to a revocable divorce until after her waiting period is over. As for
a woman who is in the waiting period of a final divorce or the
waiting period after her husband‟s death, it is only permissible to
propose to her in an indirect manner, as opposed to a direct manner.
Also, is not permissible to propose to a woman who is a polytheist
until she becomes Muslim.
Article (50)
Breaking the Engagement and its Ramifications
According to Shari‟ah it is abhorred for either the fiancé or the
fiancée to break the engagement unless it is broken for a Shari‟ah
recognized interest, such as upon discovering a deficiency in the
religious practice or the manners of the other person such as
deviant behavior or a psychological issue that is difficult to bear.
In the case that either party breaks the engagement, the Shari‟ah
rulings should be referred to in order to determine each party‟s
rights and obligations.
1
Mahram: A person‟s relative of the opposite sex to whom he is related by a certain
degree of proximity of consanguinity, affinity, or nursing .
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Section Two
The Marriage Contract
Article (51)
Essential Factors for the Success of the Family
Islamic Shari‟ah has determined the criteria for a successful
marriage. Both spouses should make their choice based them as
doing so achieves the interest of the Muslim community and the
family in general, and the children in specific.
The criteria include: Correctly following the religion and
having noble manners and a good upbringing, as well as other
characteristics that may also be sought.
The essential factors for a successful marriage include:
Taking compatibility in age, culture, and social environment into
consideration, and making sure that both spouses are free of any
serious repugnant, contagious, or hereditary diseases.
Article (52)
When Marriage is Considered Obligatory
Based on the circumstances, marriage in Islam may be
subject to any of the five Shari‟ah rulings; obligation,
recommendation, permission, abhorrence, and prohibition. Islamic
Shari‟ah considers marriage to be obligatory in the case of anyone
who fears that he may fall victim to temptation, and who is at the
same time capable of handling the material burdens of marriage.
Article (53)
Conditions for the Validity of the Marriage
The marriage contract must be executed in the presence of
two witnesses and the wife‟s guardian should execute the contract;
however, it is permissible for any woman who has been previously
married to execute the contract by herself if it is proven that her
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Article (54)
The Right to Stipulate Conditions in the Marriage Contract
During the execution of the marriage contract, the wife may
stipulate any conditions on her husband that she feels will assure
her comfort or meet her needs, so long as the conditions are
permissible and do not contradict the essence of the marriage
contract. For example, she may stipulate the right to divorce
herself without negating the man‟s right to divorce, or she may
stipulate that he cannot force her to leave the country or take
another wife. Likewise, she may stipulate the right to work outside
of the house, and it is up to her to decide the consequence for any
violation of the conditions she stipulates. The man also has the
same right to add conditions; such as stipulating that she will live
with him in his family‟s home, or that she will travel with him to
wherever he works.
Article (55)
Easing the Costs of Marriage
Islamic Shari‟ah forbids making the dowry excessively
expensive or making material issues extremely difficult, to the
extent that the marriage becomes a bartering transaction for
material things as doing so lowers the woman‟s distinguished
position and the value of the marital relationship, which is a non-
material bond built on tranquility, love, and mercy.
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Section Three
Regulations for the Relationship
Between the Spouses
Article (56)
General Equality Between the Spouses Except in Specific Matters
The general principle in Islam is total equality between men
and women, and it is stipulated by Shari‟ah in most of life‟s affairs.
The exception to this principle is that each of them are responsible
for some duties that the other cannot perform due to the nature of
their physical or psychological constitution, or their personal
characteristics.
There is nothing in Shari‟ah that prohibits dividing the social
burdens between the man and the woman in a manner that achieves
the interest of the family and the society.
Article (57)
Moral Values and Manners
On the basis of this general principle that has been mentioned in
Article (56), the marital relationship is built on a number of moral
values, manners, and Shari‟ah regulations:
1. Mutual love, mercy, trust, and cooperation in times of
difficulty, as well as times of ease.
2. Living together with equity, kind treatment, and respect for
human dignity
3. Full partnership in the affairs of marital life that are built on
mutual consent, mutual consultation and the concept that
each spouse is considered a part of the other; a completion of
the other person and the other person‟s mission in marital
and social life.
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Article (58)
Women‟s Competence and Independence of Person
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, women enjoy total religious
and legal competence; her will is to be respected, she is
independent in her financial liability, and she maintains her own
family name.
Article (59)
The Man‟s Responsibility for the Family
The man has been given the responsibility of qiwaamah over
the family. Being that the family is a social unit comprised of
several members, there must necessarily be a leader, otherwise the
family will suffer deterioration in its affairs and its constitution. By
virtue of their innate nature and physical and psychological
constitution, men are qualified to bear the requirements and
difficulties of this responsibility. This qiwaamah is not oppression
or supremacy; rather it is a responsibility, obligation and charge to
care for the family, protect it, look after it, and provide for and
guarantee its material interests by working, earning, and making
money.
Article (60)
The Woman‟s Responsibility for Her Home
Islam has assigned a type of responsibility to women that
suits her nature and her physical and psychological constitution. It
considers her to be a guardian and thus, along with her husband,
she is responsible for the affairs of the home and the children that
she looks after. This responsibility is important to both the family
as well as the entire society, and it is no less important than the
man‟s responsibility. In fact, the woman‟s responsibility has an
even greater effect on the morale and morality of the family than
the man‟s.
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Section Four
Mutual Marital Rights and Responsibilities
Article (61)
Teaching Youth the Islamic Principles Related to Marriage
It is imperative to teach young men and women the
principles of Islam and its values, manners, and foundations that
pertain to marriage, the affairs related to the interaction between the
spouses, and the means of creating a righteous and successful
marital and family life.
Article (63)
Striving for Understanding and Avoiding Conflict
Islamic Shari‟ah encourages each spouse to understand the
nature of the other party and to be aware of the innate physical, and
psychological differences between them. Likewise, they should
also recognize the common traits that they share. In order to
achieve a successful marital life, Shari‟ah encourages the spouses
to emphasize the areas of agreement and the positive aspects in the
other party, while limiting the causes of disagreement, searching
for middle solutions that both parties can agree to, and avoiding
stubborn conflicts, provocation, being over-jealous, and trying to
defeat the other party.
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Article (64)
Mutual Respect
Each of the spouses shall:
1. Respect the other party, appreciating the daily efforts that he
undertakes and his position in the family, aiding him with
his burdens and other affairs, and respecting his relatives
and giving them the same consideration that he would give
to his own blood relatives.
2. Take the other party‟s feelings into consideration and avoid
anything that might injure the dignity of the other party or
that person‟s family, whether in secret or in public, and
particularly in front of someone from his or her family.
Article (65)
Rules for Handling Disagreement Between the Spouses
1. It is not permissible for the spouses to curse or insult each
other or to say things that the other party hates to hear.
2. In cases of disagreement between the spouses, it is not
permissible for either spouse to stop speaking to the other
for more than three days, and the better of them is he who
starts talking to the other first by saying “salaam alaykum”
(peace be upon you). Also, it is not permissible for either of
them to desert the other in bed unless there is a Shari‟ah
sanctioned reason to do so, and according to the conditions
that are mentioned in the Shari‟ah rulings.
3. No matter the extent of the disagreement between the
spouses, it is not permissible for either spouse to resort to
beating in violation of the limits of the Shari‟ah rulings that
have been stipulated. Anyone who violates this prohibition
will be held responsible civilly and criminally.
4. Care should be taken to keep the disagreement between the
spouses, away from the children. They should not involve
family members and acquaintances in their issues. Instead,
they should try to solve the problem between the two of
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Article (66)
Abiding by Islamic Manners
Each of the spouses shall:
1. Encourage the other to live in obedience to Allah, abide by
noble manners, be cognizant of Allah‟s watchfulness, fear
Him in private and in public, and perform his obligations to
Allah just as he insists that others perform their obligations
to him, or more so. Both spouses should set a good example
for each other, and for the children in these affairs.
2. Teach the other and enable him to learn whatever he needs
to know to lead a good life in this world and in the
Hereafter.
3. Be neat, clean, and pure in all of his affairs, not just their
personal space, body, and clothing. More importantly, they
should maintain cleanliness and purity of the self, the heart,
the hand, and the tongue; avoiding sins and everything that
has been prohibited.
4. Abide by that which is lawful and pure, to earn his living
from lawful sources, and to avoid that which is prohibited no
matter how tempting. Also, each spouse shall try to be
economical and moderate in his spending, neither being
extravagant nor stingy, and he should avoid focusing on
appearances, putting on airs, and blind following of others.
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Article (67)
Maintaining Good Relations with People; Particularly with
Neighbors and Relatives
Each of the spouses shall:
1. Take care to maintain the standards of the manners of
Shari‟ah when visiting, meeting, and interacting with others.
2. Take care to maintain good relations with people,
particularly neighbors, relatives, and kin. Likewise, each
spouse should consider the other‟s relatives to be as close to
them as they are to the other person.
3. Strive to maintain good relations with neighbors, particularly
by not bothering them with any form of annoyance or noise.
4. Take care of their health, avoid bad eating habits, and strive
to use national products and boycott enemy products.
Article (69)
To Be Treated Fairly and with Kindness
Islamic Shari‟ah obliges the husband to treat his wife
equitably and with kindness, and this is achieved through the
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following considerations:
1. He should take her nature, the differences in her upbringing,
and her point of view into consideration and treat her leniently and
gently with patience and clemency, in addition to doing simple
things to make her happy.
2. He should not prevent her from visiting her parents and
mahrams unless it is proven that doing so will result in harm that is
recognized by Shari‟ah; in such a case, it is allowed for him to
prevent her to the extent that is necessary to avoid that harm.
3. He should be moderate in his jealousy towards her; neither
going overboard, nor being too lax.
Article (70)
The Right to Financial Support
Even if the wife is well off, it is her right to be supported
financially with the food, drink, lodging, clothing, and medical
treatment that suffices her according to the husband‟s financial
situation, neither being extravagant nor stingy, according to the
detailed rulings of Shari‟ah.
Article (71)
Women‟s Work Outside of the Home
According to the Islamic view, in principle, it is permissible
for women to work outside of the home, though doing so is not a
goal in itself. Rather, it is a means to fulfill familial and societal
interests. Depending on the circumstances and the situation,
working outside the home may be ruled to be obligatory,
recommended, or prohibited. However, in all situations it is subject
to the following regulations:
1. The work must be permissible according to Shari‟ah, and it
must not contradict the interest of the group and the
woman‟s nature.
2. There must be understanding and consent between the
spouses with regard to the limits that define what is in the
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Article (72)
Helping the Wife with Housework
If circumstances necessitate that the wife must work outside
the home, then her husband should assist her and provide her with
the means to perform her work, and to do it well. Likewise, he
should also help her with the housework and looking after the
children.
Article (74)
Not Being Extravagant in Spending
The wife is obliged to fear Allah with regard to her
husband‟s wealth and to spend it with wisdom and foresight
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according to her needs and the needs of her children, neither being
extravagant, nor being stingy. Also, she should not spend any of
his money except with his permission or as is customarily
acceptable.
Article (75)
The Obligation to Abide by the Manners of the Religion
1. The wife should be pious and obedient, and she should act
according to the manners of the religion, complying with the
regulations of Shari‟ah in her dress, being modest, dignified,
and unflamboyant in her accessories and her actions.
2. It is the husband‟s right to prevent his wife from anything
that might lead to vice, cause her to commit that which is
forbidden, or involves frequenting places of pointless . With
regard to other places, the decision should be made based on
mutual understanding between them according to the
regulations of Shari‟ah.
Article (76)
The Wife‟s Responsibility for Her Home
1. It is the wife‟s duty to attend to the affairs of the marital
home and the children in a manner that is befitting of people
of their status. She is obliged to do so as a religious duty and
by virtue of the bonds of love, mercy, and cooperation in
matters that lead to the happiness of both spouses, however,
she cannot be legally forced to do so. If she works outside
the house, then she should contribute to the finances of the
home to the extent that is appropriate in their situation based
on what they agree upon, or according to the verdict of a just
arbitrator between the two parties.
2. If the woman is financially well off, and her husband is in
financial difficulty, it is obligatory for her to financially
support him and the children. However, in the case that the
husband becomes financially solvent, he must compensate
her for whatever she spent, according to the regulations of,
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Section Five
The Rights of Parents and Children
Article (77)
The Foundation of the Relationship Between Parents and
Children
Islam has established the parent-child relationship on a
strong foundation of goodness, family ties, love, and mercy.
Likewise, it has designated mutual rights and responsibilities for
each party. Children‟s rights over their parents will be mentioned
in Section Five of Chapter IV, pertaining to the rights and
obligations of children in Islam.
Article (78)
Parents‟ Rights Over Their Children
1. To be attended to in a good manner even if they are of a
different religion or sect.
2. To be treated well and generously; their rights should be
fulfilled and they should be looked after in their old age,
particularly in the case of the mother.
3. Not to be shouted at or scolded; they should not be harmed,
no matter how slight the harm might be, even if only by a
gesture.
4. To continue to fulfill their rights, even after they die, by
praying and asking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their
promises and bequests, and being generous to their friends
and relatives.
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Section Six
Polygyny
Article (79)
Regulations Related to Polygyny
Polygyny is permissible within the limits decreed by
Shari‟ah to achieve a Shari‟ah recognized or social interest.
However, men must meet the condition that they be able to fulfill
the responsibility of providing for the wives and children, while
being just between them, with total equality in housing, food,
clothing, nights, and all other affairs of life.
Article (80)
Not Showing Preference to Any of the Wives
Shari‟ah encourages maintaining a balanced disposition,
without exaggeration in displaying affection or showing preference
towards any of the wives.
Article (81)
Stipulation of a No-Polygyny Clause
It is allowed for the wife to stipulate in the marriage contract
that her husband may not take another wife, and to stipulate a
consequence for any violation of this condition.
Article (82)
When Polygyny is Grounds for Divorce
If the husband does not abide by the Shari‟ah conditions for
polygyny, and if this causes harm to the wife, it is her right to
request divorce. If the husband does not divorce her, she may
appeal to a judge to divorce her from her husband.
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Section Seven
Dissolution of Marriage
Part I: Divorce
Article (83)
The Definition of Divorce and the Wisdom Behind It
Divorce is the severing of the marital bond by the sole will
of the husband. It is one of the permissible actions that is hated in
Islam; in fact, of all permissible acts, divorce is the most abhorred
by Allah. It was legislated to put an end to marriage that does not
achieve its Shari‟ah aims as a result of intense conflict between the
spouses in cases when it is sure that continuing the marriage is
absolutely impossible.
Article (84)
The Necessity of Patience and Tolerance
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, each spouse must be patient
with his life partner and tolerate him to the greatest extent possible.
Article (85)
Limiting the Means of Divorce
Islamic Shari‟ah strives to limit the means of effecting
divorce and has made it complicated with many procedures.
Likewise, it emphasizes continuity of the marriage and avoiding
any intensification of conflict between the spouses. It order to
accomplish this, it mentions many means and mechanisms, which
are explained in detail in the rulings of Shari‟ah.
Article (86)
The Conciliatory Gift for Divorce
Islamic Shari‟ah encourages the man to give his wife a
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Article (88)
Judicial Decree of Divorce Due to Non-Payment of Financial
Support or Long Absence
It is the wife‟s right to request divorce if her husband refuses
to provide financial support for her or if he is absent for a long time
and there is no news from him, or if he is lost or imprisoned for a
long period of time and does not have any apparent wealth from
which she can spend. Even if he does have wealth, she may request
divorce if she is harmed by his absence from her, and this right is
subject to the regulations and stipulations mentioned in the rulings
of Shari‟ah.
Article (89)
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Khul‟a
If a woman hates her husband and cannot stand him, even
though he hasn‟t hurt her in any way that would be considered
grounds for divorce, and if she can no longer bear to remain with
him, then she has the right to request divorce in exchange for
giving up any financial rights that would be due to her as a result of
the divorce, and returning any dowry or gifts that he gave her.
This form of divorce is known as khul‟a and in principle, it
takes place by way of an agreement between the two parties.
However, if they cannot come to an agreement, or if the husband
arbitrarily refuses to respond to the wife‟s request, the wife can
raise her case to the court to obtain an irrevocable judgment of
divorce.
Section One
Caring for Children from the Beginning of the
Formation of the Family
Article (91)
Seeking Children to Preserve the Human Race
1. Children are a divine blessing and an innate human desire.
2. Shari‟ah encourages the pursuit of progeny in order to
preserve the human race.
3. For this reason, Shari‟ah prohibits sterilization of men and
women, hysterectomies, and abortions except in cases of
medical necessity, just as it also prohibits all means that
hamper the continuity of humanity.
4. It every child‟s right to come into life by way of a Shari‟ah
sanctioned marriage between a man and a woman.
Article (92)
Comprehensive Care from the Start of the Marriage
1. The care of Islamic Shari‟ah for children includes the
following stages:
a. Each spouse‟s selection of the other spouse.
b. The period of pregnancy and birth.
c. The period from birth until discretion (the stage during
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Article (93)
The Family is the Source of Human Values
The family is the nest for the child and his natural
environment that is necessary for his care and upbringing. It also
acts as the child's first school in which humanitarian, moral,
spiritual, and religious values are instilled.
Article (94)
Adhering to the Criteria for a Successful Marriage
It is the child‟s right upon his parents that each should make
the optimal selection in choosing his partner and that they should
adhere to the standards for a successful marriage that are outlined
by Islamic Shari‟ah and are stated in Article (51) of this Charter.
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Section Two
Freedoms and General Human Rights
Article (95)
The Right to Live, Survive and Develop
1. From the time the child is formed as an embryo, the child
shall have an inherent right to life, survival, and
development.
2. Abortion of the embryo is prohibited unless the life of the
mother is exposed to certain danger that cannot be avoided
except by abortion.
3. The embryo shall have the right to receive health care and
suitable nutrition by way of the care that is provided for his
pregnant mother.
4. It is prohibited to harm the embryo in any manner, and
Shari‟ah has set a civil and punitive punishment for whoever
violates this.
Article (96)
The Welcoming of the Child
At the time of his birth, it is the child‟s right that his parents
give him a good name, demonstrate happiness and joy upon his
arrival, and celebrate his birth. Islamic Shari‟ah commands that
boys and girls be dealt with equally in such matters and it prohibits
dissatisfaction with the birth of girls or harming them in any way.
Article (97)
Protection of Identity
The child shall have the right to maintain his identity, which
includes his name, nationality, family affiliations, language, and
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Article (98)
The Prohibition of Differentiation or
Discrimination Between Children
Islamic Shari‟ah prohibits any type of differentiation or
discrimination between children, irrespective of the child‟s or his or
her parents‟ or legal guardian‟s race; color; sex; nationality;
language; religion; political opinion; national, ethnic, or social
origin; property; disability; place of birth; or other status by which
such discrimination is manifested in violation of the Shari‟ah
rulings.
Article (99)
Health Care
The child shall have the right to enjoy the highest attainable
standard of health. Also, he shall have the right to utilize facilities
for the prevention and treatment of illness and rehabilitation of
health.
Article (100)
Compassionate Treatment
The child shall have the right to be treated by his parents and
others in a compassionate and just manner that achieves his
interests.
Article (101)
Enjoying Recreation Time
The child shall have the right to enjoy his childhood. As
such, he should not be deprived of his right to relax, enjoy his
leisure time, and engage in play and recreational activities. Also,
he should be allowed to freely participate in cultural and artistic
activities in a manner that is age-appropriate and preserves his
personal identity, while avoiding forms of recreation that are
prohibited by Shari‟ah and the law.
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Article (102)
Freedom of Thought and Conscience
1. Within the limitations of Shari‟ah and the law, the child shall
have the right to freedom of thought and conscience and the
right to nurturing of the innate nature with which he was
born.
2. According to Shari‟ah and the law, parents and those
responsible for caring for the child shall have rights and
duties with regard to providing direction to the child to
enable him to exercise his right to freedom of thought and
conscience in a manner consistent with his evolving
capacities and his actual interests.
Article (103)
Freedom of Expression
1. The child shall have the right to freedom of expression that
does not contradict Islamic teachings and manners.
2. This right shall include the freedom to seek all types of
information and virtuous ideas that do not contradict the
principles of morality, religion, and patriotism. It also
includes the freedom to receive and impart such information
and ideas through speech, writing, forms of art, or any other
media that suits the circumstances and mental abilities of the
child.
3. The child who is capable of forming his own opinions shall
have the right to freely express those opinions in all issues
relevant to him. The opinions of the child shall be given due
weight in accordance with the age, maturity, and actual
interests of the child.
4. This freedom shall only be limited by due respect for the
rights or reputation of others, protection of national security,
public order, public health, or public decency.
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Section Three
Personal Status Rights
Article (104)
Lineage
1. The child shall have the right to have his parentage
attributed to his Shari‟ah recognized parents.
2. Accordingly, all actions that cause doubt in attributing the
child to his parents shall be prohibited (such as womb
renting, etc.).
3. The provisions of Islamic Shari‟ah shall be followed to
establish lineage.
Article (105)
Breastfeeding
The infant shall have the right to be nursed by his mother
unless doing so conflicts with the interests of the child or the health
of the mother.
Article (106)
Custody
1. The child shall have the right to have someone to take
charge of his custody, to care for and raise him, and to
provide for his physical and psychological needs. The
mother has the greatest right to custody of the child
according to Islamic Shari‟ah.
2. The system of custody of children includes orphans,
foundlings, children with special needs, refuges, those who
are deprived either temporarily or permanently of their
family environment, and those who are forcibly expelled,
etc.
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Article (107)
Financial Support
1. The child shall have the right to a standard of living that
befits his physical, mental, religious, and social growth.
2. In the case that the child possesses no property or finances,
the obligation to provide financial support shall be borne by
his father, unless he is unable, in which case it shall be borne
by other relatives who are financially capable, in accordance
with the provisions of Islamic Shari‟ah.
3. This right shall extend, in the case of a boy, until he
becomes able to earn a living and has the opportunity to
work. In the case of a girl, it shall extend until she gets
married or earns enough to support herself.
4. All societal institutions, including the state, shall assist
parents and others who are responsible for the child to
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Section Four
Competence and Criminal Liability
Article (108)
Limited Competence of the Embryo/Fetus
The embryo shall enjoy a limited competence of entitlement
to the financial rights that are established by Islamic Shari‟ah. As
such, it shall retain its share of inheritance, bequests, endowments,
and gifts from the parents, relatives, or others, pending its live
birth.
Article (109)
Children‟s Competence of Entitlement
1. From the time of its live birth, the child shall enjoy complete
competence of entitlement, giving him his rights to
inheritance, bequests, endowments, gifts, etc.
2. The child‟s right to benefit from social security, as well as
social insurance, aid, etc., shall commence at from the time
of his birth.
Article (110)
Competence to Dispose
“Competence to Dispose” refers to the child‟s competence to
execute his rights and dispose of his property. This competence is
dependant upon the child‟s intellectual ability to distinguish, such
that he has the ability to differentiate between what is beneficial
and what is harmful. The intellectual ability to distinguish develops
according to the stages of life, and is affected by age and other
circumstantial factors that may negate or limit the child‟s
competence.
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Article (111)
The Degrees of Criminal Responsibility and Special Treatment
1. A child who has not reached the age of discretion as
determined by the law, is not to be held criminally
responsible, and may be subjected to one of the measures for
care as established by the law.
2. The treatment of a child who has reached the age of
discretion and has not reached the age of puberty as
stipulated by the law, shall vary in degree; either subjecting
him to one of the measures of care, or one of the measures of
correction or mitigated punishment.
3. In all cases, the child shall have the following rights:
a. That his age, condition, circumstances and offence be
taken into consideration.
b. That he be treated in a manner that suits his sense of
dignity and self esteem, with full respect for his
human rights, basic freedoms, and legal guarantees.
c. That his re-inclusion and constructive role in society
be encouraged.
d. That he be tried before a competent, independent,
fair, judicial authority that will decide on his case in
an expedient manner with the assistance of social and
legal experts in the presence of his parents or those
who are legally responsible for his care, unless doing
so interferes with the best interest of the child.
e. That a higher judicial authority be established to
review the verdict against the child.
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Section Five
Proper Upbringing and Education of the Child
Article (112)
The Child‟s Virtuous and Integrated Upbringing
In accordance with the regulations of Shari‟ah the child‟s
rights include:
1. That his parents fulfill their joint responsibility to provide
the child with a righteous and balanced upbringing in a
proper manner and provide for his mental and physical
development. This right is delegated to anyone in the
position of the parents, with regard to the child‟s care and
protection of his interests, and the child‟s best interest
should be their primary concern.
2. The priorities of basic upbringing include teaching the child
the fundamentals of faith, training him to worship and obey
Allah, and instilling Islamic manners and virtuous conduct.
The child should also be taught to avoid forbidden things,
foul and harmful behaviors and habits, and bad company.
At the same time, he should be encouraged to perform
activities such as beneficial sports and reading. Also, the
parents or those responsible for the child‟s care should set a
good practical example of all such traits.
3. The child should gradually be allowed a margin of freedom,
according to his age development, in a manner that increases
his sense of responsibility in order to prepare him to bear full
responsibility when he becomes of legal age.
4. It is necessary to protect the child, particularly during
adolescence, to avoid provoking his sexual instincts and
passionate reactions while providing sexual awareness. In
all cases, it is imperative to:
a. Use the optimal manner of expression that is
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Article (113)
Good Social Habits
From the very beginning, it is the child‟s right to be trained
to acquire good social habits, particularly those which emphasize
the importance of maintaining family and social cohesion through
love and mercy between family members and relatives. These
habits also involve maintaining ties of kinship, treating parents well
and obeying them in all affairs that are good, revering them,
supporting them financially and aiding them in their old age or in
poverty, in addition to meeting or fulfilling all their Shari‟ah
established rights. They should also be taught to be respectful to
elders and merciful with youth, to wish the best for others, and to
cooperate in those affairs that are good and righteous.
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Article (114)
Comprehensive and Balanced Education for the Child
1. The child shall have the right to an education that aims to:
a. Make the child aware of the ultimate facts of
existence, such as the Creator who directs all affairs,
the universe that is subjected to man for the benefit of
humanity, man and the mission that he is to
accomplish, the trials in this life that one experiences
in preparation for the world of reward in the
Hereafter.
b. Develop the child‟s personality, his talents, and his
mental and physical abilities to their fullest potential
so that he will be able to carry out his mission in life.
c. Develop respect for human rights, fundamental
freedoms and make him aware of his specific and
general responsibilities.
d. Develop the child‟s self respect, cultural identity,
language, and his values related to his religion and his
country.
e. Prepare the child to live a responsible life in a free
society that strives to preserve its religious and
humanitarian values, and attempts to reach its highest
ideals with a spirit of understanding, peace, tolerance,
and equality of sexes in their human dignity, and
familiarity between all peoples and all ethnic,
national, and religious groups.
f. Develop respect for the natural environment in the
context of the awareness that the earth has been
subjected to man for his use to enable him to carry
out his mission in life, as Allah‟s vicegerent on earth.
2. To that end, the following shall be accomplished:
a. Basic education should be made compulsory and
available to all without cost. It should incorporate the
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Obtaining Useful Information
1. The child shall have the right to obtain information and
materials that are spread by mass media and are aimed at
promoting social welfare, deepening religious culture, and
protecting physical and mental health. Protection from
harmful information and material in said aspects is an
established right.
2. All institutions of the society, including the state, shall
encourage the production, exchange, and dissemination of
information and material that is beneficial culturally,
ethically, and religiously. This information and material
shall be made available to children. At the same time,
production and dissemination of information that is
dangerous to children in all of these issues shall be
prevented.
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Comprehensive Protection
Article (116)
Protection from Harm and Abuse
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from all forms
of harm and oppression, as well as from physical, mental, or
psychological abuse, neglect, or degrading treatment,
whether it be inflicted by the parents or by any other person
responsible for the child or caring for him.
2. This right does not contradict the necessities of disciplining
and teaching the manners, which involve pedagogically
accepted punishments that incorporate a wise and balanced
combination of explanation, persuasion, enticement, and
encouragement along with deterrents and punishment
according to relevant Shari‟ah, legal, and psychological rules
for doing so.
3. All societal institutions, including the state, shall provide
appropriate assistance, first to the parents and then to others
who are legally responsible for the child, to assume the
responsibilities of raising the child, while taking all social,
legislative, media, and cultural measures that are required to
instill the necessary principles to nurture faith and establish a
virtuous society that rejects vices and deplorable habits and
follows the most upright of ethics and the best of manners.
Article (117)
Protection from Dishonor and Defamation
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from all forms
of exploitation, sexual abuse, or illegal harm to his honor or
reputation.
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Article (118)
Protection from Economic Exploitation
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from economic
exploitation and from performing any work that is likely to
be hazardous, interfere with his regular attendance of basic
mandatory education, or is harmful to his health or his
physical, mental, religious, moral, or social development.
2. The aforementioned right includes setting a minimum age
for children‟s employment and instituting an appropriate
system for employment hours and conditions.
Article (119)
War and Emergencies
1. The child shall not participate directly in war before he has
reached the age determined by the law.
2. In cases of emergencies, catastrophes, and armed disputes,
the child shall be given priority with regard to protection and
care of civilians with regard to the impermissibility of
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Concern for the Child‟s Best Interest
Article (120)
Benefiting from Human Rights Declarations
The provisions of this Charter do not breach any of the
human rights provided for by the Cairo Declaration on Human
Rights in Islam that were drafted during the summit held by the
Organization of the Islamic Conference on August 5, 1990. In
combination with this Charter, said provisions are considered to be
an integral whole, and the provisions of this Charter do not breach
any international declarations that conform to the provisions of
Islamic Shari‟ah.
Article (121)
Taking Measures Towards Implementation of Children‟s Rights
All institutions of the society, including the state, shall take
all appropriate measures to implement the rights established in this
Charter, and shall provide the child with direction and guidance
suitable to his evolving abilities when exercising such rights, while
at the same time respecting the responsibilities, rights, and duties of
the parents, relatives, guardians, or others who are legally
responsible for the child.
Article (122)
Concern for the Best Interest of the Child in All Affairs Pertinent
to Children
In all procedures pertinent to children, whether executed by
legislative, judicial, or administrative authorities, or by public or
private social care institutions, prime concern shall be given to the
best interest of the child while taking into consideration the rights
and duties of his parents, guardians, or other individuals who are
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Section One
Social Solidarity
Article (124)
The Spheres of Takaaful in Islam
The concept of takaaful in Islam expands in spheres with
cohesive links until it eventually extends to the entire society as a
whole. Thus, it includes financial, moral, and social takaaful in all
of its forms; and it is between the members of a single family,
between families, and between the group and its leaders. There are
many mechanisms to achieve takaaful including those which are
individual and those which are collective, as well as those which
are voluntary and those which are mandatory.
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Article (126)
The Perimeters of Takaaful
In Islam, social takaaful guarantees that the individual‟s
basic needs will be met. This includes his dire necessities, needs,
and non-essential requirements related to accommodation, food,
clothing, medical treatment, and education to an extent that is
sufficient to meet the usual needs of a middle class person; no less
and no more.
Article (127)
Cooperation Within the Islamic Society
In Islam, the Islamic society is built on the basis of
cooperating in all things that are good and pious. Social takaaful is
one of the most important forms of goodness as it achieves the
interests of the Muslim community by way of the cohesion that it
spreads among members of the society and the support that it
provides to individuals, enabling them to get married and build a
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Article (128)
Takaaful is a Right and Duty
In Islam, takaaful is not a form of voluntary charity left to
the will of individuals, depending on whether they want to give or
not. Islam has made takaaful a right that is due upon the wealth of
the rich, making it obligatory for them to give to those who are
entitled, without reminding the recipient of their favor to him or
hurting him in any way. In order to ensure that this form of takaaful
reaches those who are entitled to it, Islam has ordained a precise
system that merges the responsibility of the rich and the
responsibility of the people in charge.
Article (129)
Those Who Are Entitled to Takaaful
In Islam, those who are entitled to takaaful include all
groups of the society who are unable to meet their basic needs and
who are living within the Muslim community, permanently or
temporarily. This includes orphans, the weak, the poor, the needy,
victims of catastrophes, and those who have incurred debts for
Shari‟ah sanctioned interests who are unable to repay them,
whether the person is Muslim or non-Muslim.
Article (130)
In Islam, Takaaful is the Basis for Financial Acts of Worship
Takaaful in Islam is one of the aims of Shari‟ah that is
essential to many of the Shari‟ah laws and regulations upon which
Islamic society is based and which are known as the financial acts
of worship. These include zakaah, providing financial support for
one‟s relatives, the obligation to maintain ties of kinship, the
system of al-‟aaqilah (where the male paternal relatives of the
person who is convicted of causing accidental death share in paying
the blood money), the obligation to distribute the national income
justly between the rich and the poor, providing interest free loans,
and expiations and vows, etc.
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Article (131)
The Detailed Rulings of Takaaful
The Shari‟ah rulings related to the obligation of takaaful
vary between mandatory and recommended. Likewise, the spheres
of entitlement are also varied on the basis of several aspects which
include: the degree of kinship between the person who has wealth
and the person entitled to takaaful, and the type of Shari‟ah
obligation that applies to the wealth (whether it is obligatory
zakaah, mandatory financial support, or voluntary charity). These
spheres of entitlement also take into consideration of the level of
the entitled person‟s need; whether it is a dire necessity, a need, or
a non-essential requirement, and they also depend upon the original
cause of the need; whether it is the result of a Shari‟ah sanctioned
interest, circumstances beyond their control, or forbidden types of
transactions. These spheres expand until they include all of the
society in a precise unparalleled system, giving Islam its well
deserved reputation of being the religion that was revealed to care
for the poor and the weak. For more information on this topic, refer
to the detailed rulings in books of Islamic fiqh.
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Section Two
Maintaining Uterine Ties
Article (132)
Definition of the Concept
1. The uterus is the secure place in the mother‟s abdomen
where the human is created and where his formation is
completed. In this context, however, “uterine ties” refers to
one‟s relatives, whether maternal or paternal.
2. Maintaining uterine ties refers to being good, kind, equitable
and fulfilling the rights, obligations, and recommended
deeds that are due to relatives before those of other people.
3. The ruling on maintaining this relationship may be
obligatory, mandatory, or recommended, according to the
proximity of the degree of kinship. This responsibility falls
upon the closest relative, then the next closest until it even
reaches the degree of preferring one‟s parents over one‟s
self, as they are the means by which the person was brought
into existence, and the mother is given precedence over the
father in all Islamic texts and teachings.
Article (133)
The Importance of Maintaining Uterine Ties
1. Islam places great importance on maintaining uterine ties
and building this relationship, just as it also strongly warns
against severing them.
2. Using the expression “uterine ties” to refer to ties of kinship
is a reminder that the mother‟s womb is the place of a divine
miracle and a reminder of Allah‟s ability to create man from
nothing; thus strengthening the religious deterrent within
man and encouraging him to fulfill the rights of his relatives.
Article (134)
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Financial Support
Article (135)
Financial Support is One of the Most Important Means of
Takaaful
Islam is distinguished by the institution of a precise system
of obligation to provide financial support between family members,
as well as between individuals and the government. This system
forms an integral part of the social takaaful system in Islam, with
both supporting each other to meet the needs of the poor, the weak,
and those who have special needs.
Article (136)
Financial Support for the Wife, Minor Children, and Others Who
Fall Under the Same Category
Article (137)
Financial Support for the Poor Who are Capable of Earning a
Living
In the case of a man who is poor and does not have any
wealth, or whose wealth is not sufficient for him; if he is capable of
working he must search for suitable work to suffice him and it is
the responsibility of his guardian to help him financially and assist
him to find suitable work.
Article (138)
Financial Support for Unmarried Women
1. Unmarried women or those who are divorced or widowed
and who have completed their waiting periods and have
wealth shall support themselves from it. However, in the
case that the woman does not have any wealth, she is not
obliged to look for work, and she shall be supported by her
guardian or by her closest relatives. Thus, her financial
support is incumbent upon her son, her father, her brother,
her grandfather or paternal uncle, etc. If there is more than
one relative at the same level of proximity who is
responsible for her financial support, then it shall be divided
between them according to the financial situation of each, or
it may be divided equally between them. Similarly, if there
are a number of women to be supported, the order of priority
of entitlement should be observed according to the details
mentioned in the Shari‟ah rulings.
2. If an unmarried woman earns her living by means of suitable
work, then she is obliged to support herself from her own
earnings.
3. If the woman does not have any relatives, wealth, or
earnings, or if what she has is not sufficient for her, then a
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Financial Support for the Poor Who are Unable to Make a Living
The financial support for a poor man who is unable to make
a living or who is actually unable to find suitable work shall be
provided by his closest relative who is financially solvent, such as
his children if they have the finances to do so, or his next closest
relatives if his children do not. If there is more than one person at
the same level of proximity who is capable of providing, then the
support shall be divided between them according to the details
mentioned in the rulings of Islamic Shari‟ah, taking into
consideration his right to receive funds from obligatory zakaah and
voluntary sadaqah 1. If this is not enough to meet his basic needs,
and he has no relatives who are financially well off and who are
obliged to support him financially, then the obligation shall be
transferred to the Muslim treasury. If there are not enough funds in
the treasury to meet the needs of the poor, then it is up to the leader
of the Muslims to invest the wealth of the rich to meet the needs of
the poor.
1
Sadaqah: A form of voluntary charity given by Muslims.
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Section Four
Guardianship Over One‟s Person and Wealth
Article (140)
The Shari‟ah Aim Behind Guardianship
Guardianship over one‟s person and wealth was legislated
along with trusteeship and conservatorship in order to protect the
interests and wealth of a person who is lacking sound judgment and
intellect. This may be due to his youth, inability to handle his
wealth properly, or deficiency in legal competence. Wealth is the
supporting pillar of life and thus, according to Shari‟ah, it must be
protected and developed.
Article (141)
Guardianship and Trusteeship
1. Children who are incompetent or deficient in their
competence, shall have the right to be provided personal
care by the state so that their rights and interests, both
material and moral, are looked after. This is achieved by
instituting provisions related to guardianship of person and
property, trusteeship, conservatorship, and judicial
assistance, etc., according to the rulings of Islamic Shari‟ah.
2. The person who is incompetent or deficient in his legal
competence shall have the right upon the aforementioned
guardians and trustees, as well as upon the legislative,
judicial, and social organizations, to be provided the best
possible care and protection. This care includes properly
managing his property, while training him to manage so that
he will be prepared to have it returned to him when he
reaches majority.
Article (142)
Procedures for Appointing Guardians and Trustees
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Section Five
Inheritance
Article (143)
The Shari‟ah Ruling Regarding Inheritance
In Islam, inheritance is a compulsory system that Allah has
mandated in clear texts that are firm in their evidence and meaning.
This system has been clarified more precisely than any other
worldly system in Islamic Shari‟ah, to the extent that it became
known as “The Science of Fara‟idh (obligations).”
Article (144)
The Fundamentals of the Inheritance System
1. The system of inheritance is based on the principle that after
death, no one has any say over his own wealth except within
the limits of one-third, which he may bequest. Likewise,
Shari‟ah stipulates that if the deceased has any debts or
financial obligations, they must be paid before distributing
the legacy to the inheritors; and Shari‟ah encourages that any
bequests should be less than one-third of the inheritance.
2. After paying any debts or obligations, and after distributing
any bequests if applicable, the remaining wealth of the
deceased is considered the property of the inheritors.
Shari‟ah, with its wisdom, dictated that the inheritance
should be distributed between the family members, each
receiving his share according to the proximity of his kinship
to the deceased, in a precise manner that stipulates the
entitled recipients and their shares, without being influenced
by the will of the deceased or the will of the inheritors.
3. This system includes a number of principles and regulations
that allow for flexibility, justice, correct implementation, and
confronting the changes that are required in each case such
as: the conditions for inheriting, the factors that allow a
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The Delicate Balance Between the Systems of Inheritance and
Financial Support
1. By surveying the rulings related to inheritance in Islam, it is
clear that Allah, the Most Knowledgeable, has divided the
deceased‟s legacy in a way that it is distributed solely within
the sphere of the family. The order of those who are entitled
to inherit and the amounts of their shares are issues that are
related to the principles of financial support between the
relatives. Both systems (the system of inheritance and the
system of financial support between relatives) form a strong
basis for social takaaful in Islam.
2. The rulings of these two systems have established mutual
rights and responsibilities for and upon the members of the
family. Allah, the Most Wise Legislator, has made it an
obligation for the closest financially sound relative of a
young person who is in need, or an adult who is in need and
is unable to work, to provide for him from his wealth. The
closest relatives are charged with this obligation. and if they
are unable, then it falls upon the next closest relatives. These
are the same relatives who usually inherit from each other,
such that some scholars of fiqh stipulated that financial
support for a particular person is only obligatory on those
who are designated to inherit from him. Thus, this obligation
to provide financial support is countered by the fact that
1
Al-‟awl: A way of proportionately reducing the share of all inheritors when the
inheritors‟ shares exceed the actual number of shares.
2
Takhaaruj: The agreement between heirs that one of the heirs give up his/her share of
the inheritance in exchange for its value or something else.
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The Distinguished Position of the Islamic System of Inheritance
The Islamic system of inheritance is based on the principle
that the wealth of the deceased should go to his family members
even though there are differences in their shares and some family
members take priority over others or receive a greater share
according to precise rules. It is this just balance that creates family
ties and strengthens the relationship between family members, as
opposed to theories that abolish inheritance completely or that give
the testator absolute control over his wealth after his death, just as
he had during his life. In fact, neither of these theories are
successful in achieving the interests of the family or strengthening
the relationship between its members.
Article (147)
The Standards of Distribution Between Heirs
Upon evaluating the rulings related to inheritance it becomes
clear that the standards for distributing the inheritance to the heirs
are based on the following considerations:
1. The degree of kinship; thus, the closest person to the
deceased receives the greatest share; whether male or
female.
2. Considering the heirs an extension of the deceased person; a
man‟s descendants are branches of himself that reach out to
face life, and for this reason, the son‟s share is greater than
that of the father and the grandfather. In most cases, the
deceased‟s descendants take the entire inheritance for
themselves, just as the share of the daughter is greater than
mother‟s share, even though both of them are female.
3. Those who have greater financial obligations; such as sons
who just starting their lives and have not accumulated any
wealth, as opposed to fathers who have wealth that they have
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Article (148)
Being Male or Female is not Taken into Account in the
Standards of Distribution
Shari‟ah has ordained that males should be given twice the
share of females in some cases where they share an equal degree of
kinship and direction. On the surface, this equal proximity would
appear to necessitate equality in their shares such as in the case of
sons and daughters, sisters and brothers, paternal uncles and aunts,
and husbands and wives. However, the wisdom in this
differentiation is rooted in the great difference in the financial
obligations that each bears, despite the equality in their degree of
kinship and direction. In all cases, the woman retains her share of
the inheritance for herself and she is not obliged, according to
Shari‟ah, to spend any part of it on anyone else; except in very rare
cases and with the condition that she be financially well off. On the
other hand, the man is obliged by Shari‟ah to spend from his share
of the inheritance in all cases. Thus, in reality, the woman‟s share
of the inheritance is greater, even in those cases where males take
twice the share of females.
Article (149)
The General Principle in the Standards of Distribution is
Equality Between Men and Women
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Section Six
Bequests
Article (150)
Definition
A bequest is one of the means of social takaaful in Islam. It
is the final pillar in the system of inheritance as it allows the
testator to voluntarily transfer ownership of part of the legacy to
anyone he chooses, whether it be to those whom he loves, to his
relatives, or to anyone else, to be carried out after his death.
Article (151)
The Wisdom Behind its Legislation
Allah, the Mighty and Glorious, ordained the principles of
inheritance, making them obligatory and binding by defining those
who are entitled to inherit and the shares that each person is due,
without allowing them to be influenced by the will of the deceased
or the will of the inheritors. However, considering that that the
testator is the owner of the wealth that he gathered through his own
efforts and earnings, the Wisdom of Allah the Exalted dictated that
these defined shares should be limited to 2/3 of the inheritance,
leaving 1/3 of the inheritance to be distributed according to the will
of the testator, to dispose of as he chooses. Thus, he may assign it
to any of the people who are connected to him by love, kinship, or
any other ties. Likewise, he may bequeath it to make up for some
negligence in his worldly life, to increase his reward from Allah by
directing it to a charitable organization or doing something that
benefits the Muslim community.
Article (152)
The Status of Bequests in Islam
Shari‟ah encourages bequests and has given the practice
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Article (153)
Limits on Bequests
The maximum limit for bequests is one-third of the
inheritance, and Shari‟ah encourages people to make their bequests
less than one-third of the inheritance, in preference to the rights of
the inheritors. It is not permissible to bequest more than one-third
of the inheritance unless the inheritors agree to the amount that is in
excess. In the case that they do not approve the extra amount, the
bequest will be executed, however, only to the maximum limit of
one-third of the inheritance.
Article (154)
Bequests for Heirs
It is not permissible for the testator to make a bequest to any
of his inheritors unless the other inheritors agree to the bequest; or
unless doing so achieves justice between the inheritors by taking
into consideration a Shari‟ah recognized need that is truly specific
to the person who is the recipient of the bequest.
Article (155)
General Conditions
The testator who makes a bequest must do so of his own free
will, not under duress, and he must be competent to dispose. The
beneficiary of the bequest must exist, and if the bequest is
designated for a particular person, he must accept it. Also, the
wealth that is bequeathed must be property1 that has legal value and
is valid to be inherited.
1
[T.N. Property in this context refers to any material thing with value that can be
possessed.]
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Article (156)
The Obligatory Bequest
In the pursuit of what is just, some manmade laws, including
Egyptian law no. 43 of 1946 C.E. of Article 76 have adopted the
opinion of some schools of jurisprudence that state that it is
obligatory for a person to make a bequest for the descendent of a
son who died during the testator‟s life if that descendent would not
otherwise inherit. The bequest should be the same as the share that
the deceased son would have received, with the condition that the
share does not exceed one-third of the inheritance. If the
grandfather does not make a bequest for the descendent of his son,
despite meeting the conditions that make it obligatory to do so, the
descendant will be legally entitled to inherit the amount of his
father‟s share or one-third of the inheritance, whichever is less.
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Section Seven
Endowments
Article (157)
Definition
An "endowment" (waqf) is the means of preventing wealth
from circulation during the life and after the death of the person
making the endowment. It designates that the fruits and benefits of
the endowment are to be donated for the sake of Allah, to be used
for any charity that benefits people and is of general benefit to the
society.
Article (158)
The Basis for its Legislation
Endowments are a form of voluntary perpetual charity
wherein the asset is fixed and its reward is ongoing. It is a financial
form of worship and one of the important means of social takaaful
in Islam. Likewise, it is an emphasized Sunnah from the words and
actions of the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) as he
was the first person to establish an endowment in Islam. He was
also the first to order those who gave charity to do so by
establishing endowments whereby the original asset is retained and
its yield is spent for the sake of Allah. The practice of establishing
endowments was established by the consensus of the Companions
(may Allah be pleased with them) and the Islamic community after
them.
Article (159)
Conditions and Rulings Related to Endowments
Because of its great importance, scholars of Islamic
jurisprudence were meticulous in specifying the details of the
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Its Practical Position in Islam
It is permissible to establish endowments for all good and
righteous projects and for anything that supports the society,
encourages social takaaful, spreads love and mercy between its
members, and establishes the ties of human brotherhood and
takaaful between members of the Muslim community. Thus,
endowments are not limited to a certain field. Rather, they
encompass all aspects of human life, public utilities, general
services, and all forms of advancement of the civilization.
Article (161)
Goals that are Served by Endowments
Throughout history, Muslims, both governors and the
governed, have competed with each other in spending their wealth
to establish endowments for the following purposes:
1. All humanitarian fields and meeting the needs of the poor
and needy; this includes establishing endowments for
foundlings, orphans, the unemployed, the elderly, the blind,
and lepers; assisting young men and women to get married;
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Article (162)
The Role of Endowments in the Progress of Islamic Civilization
Endowments played an essential role in the majority of the
accomplishments that were achieved in science and civilization in
Islamic lands, while Europe and the majority of the world were still
living in the Dark Ages. Some of these accomplishments include:
1. Spreading knowledge and information by establishing
endowments for schools, mosques, public libraries, and
schools to memorize the noble Qur‟an. Endowments were
also established for students who were seeking knowledge,
to cover their food and lodging and other expenses.
2. Establishing endowments for astronomical telescopes,
research and translation centers. Endowments were also
established for teaching hospitals to teach medicine and
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Article (163)
The Obligation of Looking After Endowments and Easing the
Rulings Related to Them
Ever since the end of the nineteenth century, Muslims have
been afflicted by the occupation of their lands and have been the
target of ideological, economic, and military invasions. Realizing
the importance of endowments in thwarting their plans, the enemies
of Islam worked to destroy the concept of endowments and plunder
their funds, leaving the society almost completely dependant on
governments that are allied with the enemy. Citing some negative
aspects (which are not impossible to correct), many Islamic
countries enacted secular laws that make it difficult to establish
endowments; putting limits on them and placing obstacles in their
way. Oversight and supervision of endowments was abolished,
such as in the case of Egyptian Law 48 of 1946, and the other laws
that followed it. Such laws caused people to abandon the practice of
establishing endowments until they almost vanished from the
society. However, now, the time has come for endowments to
regain their former status in serving Muslims and the Islamic
society, and for a group of Muslims to propagate this concept
seeking their reward from Allah the Exalted.
Article (164)
Endowments for One‟s Progeny
Recently, there has been a trend in some Islamic countries to
prevent the testator from establishing any type of endowment for
his offspring, which is known as a family endowment. The reason
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for the prohibition is that over the years, this practice has tied up a
great amount of wealth, keeping it out of circulation, thereby
causing harm to the national economy and hindering development.
Also, with the increase in the number of offspring, over time the
returns that are divided between the entitled beneficiaries become
very meager, especially when most of the returns from the
endowment are consumed in covering the expenses of its
administration.
The most correct view practically speaking and according to
Shari‟ah, is to continue to allow endowments for one‟s offspring
(family) on the basis of the Shari‟ah texts, while at the same time,
establishing regulations and stipulations that allow the endowment
to be dispensed of and distributed to the deserving parties if it
becomes deficient in achieving its Shari‟ah aim.
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Note
Principles, Values and
Chapter I General Concepts
Section One
The Divine Mission of Man
This Section discusses the primary goal for which man was
created. It also deals with the ways in which Allah has prepared
and enabled man to achieve this goal. This subject is covered in
two articles:
Article (1)
Worshipping Allah and Spreading Civilization on Earth
Allah honored man and distinguished him above many of
His other creations. He chose man to be His caliph on Earth, to
spread civilization therein by working to provide for his
physical and spiritual needs; building a human society
governed by the ideal values of truth, beneficence, and justice;
and achieving the significance of worshipping Allah and having
faith in Him Alone, and setting Him apart from His creation to
be obeyed and worshipped according to the manner of His
prophets and messengers.
This Article clarifies some of the general principles and
values that govern man‟s mission on Earth. It begins by clarifying
the details that distinguish man over all other creations, as Allah the
Exalted says:
ِ َوْتنْلَْددآف ي َِبَ ل ِد د ِدَْو لْ َِد د َِْورَزْندَد
َ ِ يََد د َ َ ل نَِّ ِ ددآ
ّ دآفُ َ َْ َّ ْ ُ ََ ََولَ َق د ْكَََّ نََْْ ددآَََد د ِ َ َد َم
)57 : (اإلرساء ل ِ آف يَ َع َنْلىَََّثِ ٍري َِّّمن ْ َ َخ َنْل ْقَآََتد ْف
ًَ ض ْ ُ َْضنْل
وَف ن
And We have certainly honored the children of
Adam and carried them on the land and sea and
provided for them of the good things and preferred
them over much of what We have created, with
[definite] preference. (17: 70)
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1
A Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad; Abd ibn Hameed in his exegesis of the Qur‟an;
and At-Tabarani in his large collection of hadith.
2
A Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Hibbaan and Al-Bayhaqi.
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Likewise, He says:
ِ
َ َ لنييَ َخ َنْل َاَ َف
)1 8 (األعهين نوى
[He] Who has created [everything], and then
proportioned it (87: 2)
Allah also says:
ٍَ ن ِ ََتد ْق ِو
)2 8ٍ (انتيي ْ نآ َن َِبَأ
َ َس َ َْل َق ْكَ َخ َنْل ْقَآَ ِإلن
We have certainly created man in the best of
stature (95: 4)
This Article also clarifies the blessing that Allah bestowed
upon mankind by sending messengers to lead them to the
straightest path of sound guidance and success, in this life and in
the Hereafter. Allah the Exalted says:
ََ َو ْجَتِ ُِ ددو َ ل ن ددآ ُو ِ دآَبَ َُّ د ِدََأُنَ د ٍديَرس ددو ًالَأ
َِ ََنَ ُ ْع ُِد د ُكو َ ن َُ ّ ِ َوَل َقد د ْكَََد َع ْثدَ د
)14 8(انُحم
And We certainly sent into every nation a
messenger, [saying], “Worship Allah and avoid
false gods.”… (16: 36)
He also says:
َِ وف ْ يَ ِ لَْ ِدَِّد ددآ ِ َ آََد د ْ َ َند ْ ِنْلِد د
ِ ََْولَ َقد د ْكَأَرسد دنْل
ُ ُ َر ُسد دلًََإِ ََلَ َند د ْدوَ ِه ْ يَفَ َُد ددآ
ُ دك َْ َ
)258(انزوو
And We have already sent messengers before you
to their peoples, and they came to them with clear
proofs…)30:47)
Likewise, He says:
َِّ َىَو ِدي ِ َ ْا
)16 8 (انفتحا َ َر ُسوَل َُ ِ ْهلَُك
ِ
َ ََ َ ُف َوَ لنييَأ َْر َس
It is He who sent His Messenger with guidance
and the religion of truth… (48: 28)
***
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Section Two
Man‟s Divinely Inspired Nature and the Universal
Norms
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith; reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ibn
Hibbaan, and Al-Hakim.
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1
Hasan hadith; reported by Abu Dawood and At-Tirmidhi. At-Tirmidhi stated that it is
a Hasan hadith.
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Likewise, He says:
نَ ََِل َعنْلن ُُد د د ْد يَتُد ْفنْلِ َُ د د ددو
َِوَز َد َُّد د دد ي َِبَ َنْلْد د د ِدا َََن د د د َ ًيَ َفد د ددآذْ َُّْو َ ال َ ن
َ ُ َْ ْ
)47 8(األعزاف
…And remember when He made you successors
after the people of Noah and increased you in
stature extensively. So remember the favors of Allah
that you might succeed. (7:69)
This human variation in some special characteristics is the
foundation of life as it causes individuals and societies to get to
know, cooperate, and complete each other rather than being an
invitation to animosity and hatred. Allah the Exalted says
ََدىَوج َعنْلَْددآ َُّ ْ يَ ُد ُدعوًََوَندَ ِآِِد َد ِ
َ يََ د َذَ ََّ د ٍَْوأُنَثد ّ َُّ َإََ َخنْلَ ْقَددآ
دآس ن
ُ َ ََيَأَيدُّ َهددآَ لند
8 (انحجرررزاثٌدري َ َِ َعنْلِ د ٌ يَ َخ ِِد ِ ِ
َدآرفُو َإ ننَأَ َّْد َدََْ ُُ ْ يَع د َكَ نَِأَ ْتد َقددآ َُّ ْ يَإ ننَ ن
ِ
َ لَتد َعد
)21
O mankind, indeed We have created you from
male and female and made you peoples and tribes
that you may know one another. Indeed, the most
noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most
righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is All-Knowing and
All-Aware. (49: 13)
He also says:
َ إلُثَو ل ُْعد ْك َو ِنَو نتد ُقددو
ِْ َدآونُو َ َعنْلَددى ِّ ِ دآونُو َ َعنْلَددىَ لد
َ داَو لنتد ْقد َدوىَوالََتد َعد َ وَتد َعد
)1 8 (انًائدةِ
ََن
…And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do
not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear
Allah… (5: 2)
He also says:
َْف َ َ ِر ُ ُُ د د د د ْد يَو ْ د د د د ِداُو َإ ننَ ن
َِ َََ د د د د َدع َ شد د د د دنْلُو َوتَ د د د دي
َ والََتدَد د د ددآ َز ُعو َ َفدَتد ْف
)24 8(األَفالََ صآَِ ِْي لن
… and do not dispute and [thus] lose courage and
[then] your strength would depart; and be patient.
Indeed, Allah is with the patient. (8: 46)
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Article (5)
Integration of the Spouses; The Male and the Female
Despite the common origin of humanity's creation from
one soul, Allah, with His Infinite Ability, created a pair from
this soul; male and female. Only through contact, cooperation,
and completing each other, can life continue, the civilization be
spread, and the human race proliferate; this is the way that
Allah has decreed for all of creation and things in this life.
It is only by way of the connection between man and
woman that the family is formed, and the family is the first
nucleus of human society.
To conclude the clarification of the norms that Allah
instilled in his creation, this Article states that despite humanity's
common origin in having been created from one soul, Allah, with
His Unlimited Ability, created from that soul a couple; male and
female. Allah the Exalted says:
ٍ ِ ٍ ْ يََ َتُد
ِ
)22 8 (فاطزجآ َ بَ ُُثنََ َنُّ ْ َف َيَ ُُث
ًَ نَج َعنْلَ ُُ ْ يَأَ ْزَو َ ّ ُُ و نَُِ َخنْلَ َق
And Allah created you from dust, then from a
sperm-drop; then He made you mates… (35: 11)
He also says:
َُ َفَ َُ َع ََ ََِ ْدَن نوى ِ
َ ََ ُنُثَََّآ َنَ َعنْلَ َقيًَفَ َخنْلَ َاَفَكَنُ ْ َفيً ََّ َ نَ ٍِّ َ ُُيْ ََن
ُ ََأَََلَْي
)17- 15 8 (انميايتاَ ل نيََّ ََْو ألُنَثى ِ ْ ل نز ْو َج
Was he not a Nutfah (mixed male and female
ejaculate) poured forth? * Then he became an
Alaqa (a clot); then [Allah] shaped and fashioned
[him] in due proportion. * And made him in two
sexes, male and female (75: 37-39)
He also says:
)6 8 (انُبأجآ
ًَ َو َخ َنْل ْقَآ َُّ ْ يَأَ ْزَو
And We created you in pairs (78: 6)
This Article goes on to state that continuity of life, spreading
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Section Three
The Singular Directive of Shari‟ah for Both Men and
Women, and the Differentiation in Their Roles
1
For more information about this subject refer to Al-Mawsou‟ Al-Fiqhiyyah, Kuwait,
Ministry of Endowments and Islamic Affairs, vol. 2, p. 274.
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1
See: Isma‟eel bin Katheer, Tafs eer Al-Qur‟an Al-Azeem, vol. 3, pg. 530.
2
Mukallaf : Lit. to be charged (with the obligation to carry out the orders and
prohibitions of Shari„ah). To be held accountable, a person must meet the Islamic
requirements of being sane and having reached majority.
3
Abu Sulayman Al-Khattabi, Ma‟alim as-Sunnah vol. 2, pg. 311.
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otherwise.1
The work of scholars of fiqh and Islamic fundamentals has
continued according to this principle from the time of the
Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) until our present
time as in the case of Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with
her) who heard the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace
be upon him) calling out “O People!” while she was having her
hair combed, so she said to the woman combing her hair, “Finish it
later.” The servant answered her, “He is calling the men, not the
women” to which Umm Salamah replied, “I am one of the
people.”2
Article (7)
The Differentiation in Special Responsibilities
The distinguishing differences between men and women
in their characteristics, talents, and specific physical and
psychological abilities do not grant one of them a higher status
than the other. Rather, this differentiation is based upon each
person‟s ability to perform specific, vital, life duties that the
other cannot perform, and it is the natural law that Allah has
instilled in mankind, even between men alone and women
alone.
Women, with their emotion, softness, and femininity, are
the source of stability and psychological and social tranquility
for men and for the family. With her natural instinct and
unlimited patience in bearing the hardships of pregnancy,
labor, and motherhood, she looks after their children and cares
for them by nursing them, raising them, and attending to all of
their other affairs. On the other hand, men with their strength,
continuous endurance and ability to perform hard work, are
responsible for making a living, providing for the needs of the
1
Ahmad ibn „Ali ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani, Fath Al-Baari Sharh Saheeh Al-Bukhari,
Beirut, Dar Al-Kutub Al-‟Ilmiyyah, Second Edition, 1997 CE/1418 AH, Kitab Al-‟Ilm
(The Chapter of Knowledge), Section: A man‟s teaching knowledge to his community
and people, vol. 1, pg. 255.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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1
Hasan hadith, narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, Al-Hakim in his Mustadrak , and Ibn
Jareer, Ibn Abi Hatim, and Ibn Mardawayh in their books of Qur‟anic exegesis.
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Allah has given one over the other and what they
spend [for maintenance] from their wealth... (4:
34)
This dissimilarity is also established and realized in the
tangible and social reality of life cannot be denied except by
someone who denies facts related to issues and the nature of things.
This distinction does not imply that one sex is better than the
other. Allah the Exalted says:
َ ِِ َِ َعنْلِ ٌ يَ َخ
)21 8 (انحجزاثٌري ِ ِ
َإ ننَأَ َّْ َََْ ُُ ْ يَع َكَ نَِأَ ْتد َقآ َُّ ْ يَإ ننَ ن
…Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of
Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is
Knowing and Acquainted. (49: 13)
Likewise, the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be
upon him) said in his farewell sermon, “O People, Verily your
Lord is One and your fathers are one. There is no preference
of Arab over a non-Arab, non-Arab over Arab, red over black,
or black over red, except by virtue of piety.” Then he said,
“Those who are present shall inform those who are absent.” 1
This distinction between men and women is limited to the
suitability of each to perform specific vital life functions that the
other is unable to perform. This is the way that Allah has created
for all of mankind, even between men and other men, or women
and other women. Allah the Exalted says:
ُ َ َإِلَ ْد َه آ ِ ِ ٍ ِ س ِ ِ
ُنْ ََو َج َع ََََ ْد َهآَ َز ْو َج َهآَل
َ َو س َك ّ ُُ ُف َوَ لنييَ َخنْلَ َق
َ ٍ يََ َ دن ْف
)267 8(األعزاف
It is He who created you from one soul and created
from it its mate that he might dwell in security with
her…(7: 189)
This verse of the Qur‟an affirms that man and woman are spouses
to each other and complete each other, thus, they are on the same
human level. However, each of them has a duty, separate from the
duty of the other, and the duty that each is assigned is one that suits
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bayhaqi, and Ibn Mardawayh.
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1
Abu Al-Fida‟ Isma‟eel ibn Katheer, Tafseer Al-Qur‟an Al-Azeem, vol. 1, pg. 226.
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He also says:
َ ْا َلِ َم ْ َأ ََر َد َأَنَيُتِ ن يَ ل ن
ََْآ َعي َِ ْ ََس ْوَل ْ ِا َََّ ِآَنْل ِ ِ
َ َو ل َْو ل َك ُ َيدُ ْْْ ْع َ َأ َْو َال َد ُف ن
)111 8 (انبمزةوف َِ ُْ ن َوتُد ُه ن َ ِ ل َْم ْع ِ ودَلَ َُ ِر ْزندُه ن
ْ ََّو
َ ُ
ِ ُوعنْلَىَ لْمول
َْ َ
The mothers shall give suck to their children for
two whole years, (that is) for those (parents) who
desire to complete the term of suckling, but the
father of the child shall bear the cost of the mothers
food and clothing on a reasonable basis… (2: 233)
Allah the Exalted also says:
ِ ْ َصآلُ ُ َِب َ َع َآ
َا ِ ٍ َْتنْلَ ْت َُأ َُُّ َُو ْفًَآ َ َعنْلَىَو ْف
ََ ِْننآ َن ََِ َو لِ َكي
ََ َوَو ن ْدَآَ َِإل
َ َوف
َ َ َ
)22 8ٌ (نمًاُري َص ِ كَإِ َنِلَ لْم
َ َ َْولِ َو لِ َكي ِ
َ أَنَ ْ ُُ ْْ َِِل
And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his
parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in
weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two
years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me
is the [final] destination.. (31: 14)
It is because of the great hardship involved in pregnancy that only a
woman can bear, that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be
upon him) designated a special reward for it, saying, “There are
seven forms of martyrdom besides being killed for the sake of
Allah the Mighty and Glorious…” among which he mentioned “a
woman who dies during the period of post-partum bleeding, or
while her child is in her womb is a martyr.” 1
On the other hand, men with their strength, continuous
endurance and ability to perform hard work, are responsible for
making a living, providing for the needs of the family, and looking
after and protecting them. For it is the man who is responsible for
providing for his wife and children, and the wife is not obliged to
spend on the man or on the household, even if she is wealthy -
unless she freely volunteers to do so. The exception to this is in the
case that the husband is in financial difficulty, in which case it is
obligatory for the wife to support him, however, whatever she
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in his Muwattah, Ahmad in his Musnad, Abu
Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
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See Article (76) and the related comments.
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Article (8)
Distribution of Responsibilities and Differentiation in Legal
Status
In order to establish justice and achieve the common
interest, the natural innate characteristics of men and women
must be taken into consideration in the distribution of the
responsibilities and duties that each of them performs in the
situations wherein they are required. This necessarily leads to
differentiation in the legal status of each sex, however, this
differentiation is limited to the scope of said situations.
The family is one of the most important arenas in which
the differences, talents, and physical and psychological
constitutions of each sex stand out.
This Article states that as a result of these innate natural
characteristics that differ between men and women, it is obligatory
to take them into consideration in the distribution of responsibilities
and duties that each of them performs in the situations wherein they
are necessitated. The family is one of the most important arenas in
which the differences, talents, and physical and psychological
constitutions of each sex stand out. This foundation of the
statement is based on both universal and Shari‟ah truths at the same
time. Allah the Glorious did not create one individual over and
over; rather, He created a pair – a male and female. And this is also
a universal truth. Allah the Exalted says:
َ وَ َ َُّ ََِّ َ ْيٍ َ َخنْلَ ْقَآَ َز ْو َج ْ ِاَلَ َعنْلن ُُ ْ يَتَ َينَّ ُْو
)27 8 (انذارياثن ِ
And of all things We created two mates; that
perhaps you will remember. (51: 49)
The general philosophy that governs human life and behavior
between men and women is based on equality in general rights and
responsibilities and thus, men and women have shared duties in so
much as they were created from one soul, and different duties on
the basis of the difference in their sex. This is a distinction in the
roles or duties that each is commissioned, with equality in their
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Article (9)
Societal Welfare Is Achieved by Affirmation of the Innate
Distinguishing Characteristics
Neither logic, nature, nor Shari‟ah permit these
differences and special characteristics to be ignored; to do so
would be to demean the innate nature and deny the natural
phenomena that are physically manifested in reality and in
practice, and which are known to all with certainty and
empirical assurance.
At the same time, Shari‟ah does not allow these
distinguishing factors to be applied outside the scope of the
cases wherein they are required by Shari‟ah or testified to by
innate nature. Doing so is a form of oppression against women
and an infringement upon the Shari‟ah rulings, both of which
result in great corruption and lead to a breakdown of society
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Section Four
Marriage and the Family System
Article (10)
Definition
In Islam, “marriage” is defined as a strong Shari‟ah
bond between a man and a woman that is lasting and
continuous, and is contracted with each party‟s full consent and
acceptance according to the detailed Shari‟ah rulings.
This Article defines marriage in Islam and describes it as a
strong Shari‟ah bond. Allah the Mighty and Glorious refers to it as
a “strong covenant”. He says:
ََََ ن ُُ ُو َإلَ ْد َهآ َ ََو َج َع ِ ِ ِ ِِ ِ
ْ َوَ َْ َ ََيت َ َأَنَْ َ َخنْلَ َا َلَ ُُ ي َ َّ َْ َأَنفُن ُُ َْ يٍَأَ ْزَو ًجآ َّلَت
)12 8 (انزوون َ آلَي ٍََّلِ َق ْوَمَيَدَتد َف نُ ُْو
َ َكََ ِبَ َذل
َ َِْت ًَيَإ نَن
َْ ََد ْدَ ُُ يَ نَ َو ند ًََ َوَر
And of His signs is that He created for you from
yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in
them; and He placed between you affection and
mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who
give thought. (30:21)
And He says:
َض َوأَ َخ ْي َن ََِ ُُ ي ََِّ َثآ ًنآ
ٍَ إَل َََد ْع َ َّْ َ ََْت ُخ ُيونََُ َوَن َْك َأَف
ََ َ ضى َََد ْعضُ ُُ َْ ي ََ ْ ََّو
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ً َِنْل
)12 8:(انُسامآ
And how could you take it while you have gone in
unto each other and they have taken from you a
strong covenant? (4:21)
This bond that is sanctioned by Shari‟ah is only between a man and
a woman, and not between any other combinations thereof. Islamic
Shari‟ah prohibits homosexual relationships that are falsely and
slanderously called marriage, whether they be between two men or
two men, or groups of people, or any other arrangements that are
falsely referred to as forms of marriage. Islam prohibited all of
these forms because they are sterile unions that do not produce
progeny to continue the human race. Their prohibition in Islamic
Shari‟ah is an issue that is emphasized in many definitive texts that
forbid sexual relations outside of marriage and gay and lesbian
relationships and orders that the genitals and honor be protected
from wrongdoing. These texts are mentioned many times in the
noble Qur‟an and the pure Sunnah, and they are known to all
Muslims, so there is no need to mention them.
This Article also states that these bonds must be of an
ongoing and continuous nature, as scholars have agreed that the
contract of marriage is a permanent contract, not limited to a
specific period of time. For this reason, temporary marriage is not
permissible, whether it be called mut`ah or marriage. It was related
from Sabrah Al-Juhani (may Allah be pleased with him) that he
was with the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) when he said:
O people! I allowed you to contract mut`ah
marriage with women previously. Now, Allah has
prohibited it until the Day of Resurrection.
Therefore, anyone who has any women in Mut`ah,
let him release them, and do not take anything
from what you have given them.1
The contract of marriage does not take effect without the full
consent and acceptance of both spouses as marriage is a contract
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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Thus, the young woman is the one with the most say in her
marriage, and it is not permissible for her father or guardian to
disregard her opinion or her consent. It was narrated by Ibn
„Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that a young virgin girl
approached the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) and
mentioned that her father had married her against her will, and the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) confirmed her right
to exercise her choice.
Likewise, it was narrated on the authority of „A‟ishah (may
Allah be pleased with her) that a young girl approached her and
said, “My father married me against my will to the son of his
brother in order to raise his social standing.” „A‟ishah (may Allah
be pleased with her) said, “Sit here until the Prophet (may blessings
and peace be upon him) comes.” When the Messenger of Allah
(may blessings and peace be upon him) came and the girl told him
of her situation, he summoned her father and confirmed the girl‟s
right to decide the matter. She said, “O Messenger of Allah, I
approve of what my father did, but I wanted to know whether or not
women have any say in the matter.”1
Article (11)
The Prohibition of Unions that Are not Sanctioned by Shari‟ah
“Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage” is the only means by
which it is permissible for a man to be united with a woman,
and it is the only basis for forming a family.
Islam has forbidden all other unions between men and
women, even if they are falsely called marriage, and it has also
forbidden all things that lead to such relationships.
This Article mentions that Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage is
the only designated means for a man to be united with a woman,
and it is the sole basis for building a family. Religious laws and
divine religions have affirmed marriage in accordance with the
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by An-Nasaa‟i.
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Article (12)
The Development of the Manifestations of Marriage According to
the Elevation of Man
Man‟s creation from a male and a female reveals the
Divine Will in making marriage a human instinct, a social
necessity and an essential system to form families and social
bonds between families.
The manifestations and means of marriage developed
according to the extent of man‟s elevation over the rest of the
creation; becoming a means of purifying man‟s sexual,
behavioral, and social attributes.
This Article discusses the position and status of marriage in
Islam. Marriage is a human instinct as Allah the Exalted says:
ِ ِ ِ
َ َََِ َوج َع ََ َلَ ُُ ي ََّ ْ َأَ ْزَو ِج ُُ ي
َا َ َج َع ََ َلَُُ ي ََّ ْ َأَن ُفن ُُ ْ ي َأَ ْزَو ًَجآ
َ ُِو ن
ِ ِ آط ََِيد ْدَِ ُو َنَوَِِ ْعم
ِ ِ ِ
ََف ْ يَيَ ُْفُ ُْون
ُ ِتَ ن َ ُ ِ َْ يََ َ َ ل َنَِّ ِآ َأَفَ ِِآلّ ََُُورَزنَ ً وس َف َك
َ
)51 8 (انُحم
And Allah has made for you, from yourselves,
mates and He has made for you from your mates
sons and grandchildren and has provided for you
from the good things. Then in falsehood do they
believe and in the favor of Allah they disbelieve?
(16: 72 )
Because of this, the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace
be upon him) rebuked those who practiced monasticism and
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
2
See the Shari‟ah texts in the comments on Article (5) Clause (16)
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
and Ibn Maajah.
2
By this he alluded to having vaginal intercourse with his wife from behind.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi.
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Article (13)
The Scope of the Family
In Islam, the family is not limited to the two spouses and
their children. Instead, it extends to the wide network of
relatives, which includes grandparents, siblings, aunts and
uncles, and others who are connected by ties of consanguinity,
affinity, or nursing, regardless of where they are. These ties
extend to the extent that they include the entire society.
This Article clarifies the scope of the family in Islam, and its
extent. It is not limited to the two spouses and the children. Rather,
it extends to include a wide network of relatives until ultimately, it
includes the entire society. Allah the Exalted says:
ِ ِ ِ
َ َََِ َوج َع ََ َلَ ُُ ي ََّ ْ َأَ ْزَو ِج ُُ ي
َا َ َج َع ََ َلَُُ ي ََّ ْ َأَن ُفن ُُ ْ ي َأَ ْزَو ًَجآ
َ ُِو ن
ِ ِ آط ََِيد ْدَِ ُو َنَوَِِ ْعم
ِ ِ ِ
ََف ْ يَيَ ُْفُ ُْون
ُ ِتَ ن َ ُ ِ َْ يََ َ َ ل نَِّ ِآ َأَفَ ِِآل ّ ََُُورَزنَ ً وس َف َك
َ
)51 8(انُحم
And Allah has made for you from yourselves mates
and has made for you from your mates sons and
grandchildren and has provided for you from the
good things. Then in falsehood do they believe and
in the favor of Allah they disbelieve? (16: 72)
He also says:
1
Saheeh hadith reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and At-
Tirmidhi.
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ًَ ك َ َن ِك
ْي َ ََُّر ِ
َ نًَ ِآَو ْهًَْ َوََّآ َن َ َََ ِوف َو َ َل ِييَ َخ َنْل َا ََِ َ َ ملَآ
َ َشًَْ َ َف َُ َع َنْل َُن ُ
)32 8ٌ(انفزلا
And it is He who has created from water a human
being and made him [a relative by] lineage and
marriage. And ever is your Lord competent
[concerning creation]. (25: 54)
Likewise, He says:
َََ َِِوج َعنْلَْآ َُّ ْ ي َ ُعُوًَ َوَندَ ِآ ِ
َ نآس َإ نَ َ َخنْلَ ْقَآ َُّ ي ََّ َذَ ََّ ٍْ َوأُنثَى ُ ََي َأَيدُّ َهآ َ ل
ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ
8 (انحجزاثٌري َلَتد َعآ َرفُو َإ نن َأَ َّْ َََْ ُُ ْ ي َع َك َ نِ َأَ ْتد َقآ َُّ ْ يَإ نن َ ن
َ ِ ِ َ َعنْل ٌ ي َ َخ
)21
O mankind, indeed We have created you from
male and female and made you peoples and tribes
that you may know one another. Indeed, the most
noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most
righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and
Acquainted. (49: 13)
The Messenger of Allah said, “Wet-nursing makes unlawful
what consanguinity makes unlawful [with regard to marriage]. 1
These family ties and relationships extend to the extent that
they include the entire society. Allah the Exalted says:
ََوَِ ِيي َ لْقُ َْْ ىَ َن ًآ ِ ِ ِ َ ش َُِّْو ََِ ِ َ َ ْدئًآ
َ َو ل َْو ل َكيْ ِ َإ ْس ْ َُوال َت َ َِ َو ْع ُِ ُكو َ ن
ِ
َ ِ َْصآس ِ َ ْل ِ ِ ِ
َو ل ن َ ِ ََُُو ْلَآ ِرَ ْلَ َو ْلَآ ِر َذيَ لْ ُق َْْ ى
َ ا ِ َّنآَ ىَو ل َْم
َ ََو لَْدَت َآ
ِ َت َأ َُْيَآنُ ُُ ي َإِ ننَ ن
ور
ً ِ َالَ ُ ُّ َََ ْ َََّآ َنَنيَُْتآالًَ َفَ ُخ ْ ْ َُ َآََنْل َ َِ ِِ ن
َ َََو َو َْ ِ َ ل ن
)14 8:(انُسا
Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him,
and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans,
the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther
away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and
those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah
does not like those who are self-deluding and
boastful. (4: 36)
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn
Maajah.
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Article (14)
The Importance of the Family and the Imperativeness of Having
a Family Leader
The family, as a human group consisting of a male and a
female, is the cornerstone and the primary social unit of society
and within it, the pillars of society and its structural
components are represented. No matter how few or how great
the number of its members, they are all connected by
emotional, social, and financial relationships, and all family
members are regulated by a system of rights and obligations.
For this reason, leadership is essential to the smooth running of
family affairs, and this leadership is the qiwaamah that has
been entrusted to men. It is a position of administration that is
subject to the rules and laws of Shari‟ah in the Book o f Allah
[the Qur‟an] and the Sunnah of His Messenger (may blessings
and peace be upon him).
This Article discusses the importance of the family and its
essential need for a leader. The family, as a human group
consisting of a male and a female, is the cornerstone and the
primary social unit of society and within it, the pillars of society
and its structural components are represented. No matter how few
or how great the number of its members, they are all connected by
emotional, social, and financial relationships, and all family
members are regulated by a system of rights and obligations. Allah
the Exalted says:
ْ ِ نآ ََ َ ُكنَآِتِِ ن
)2 8:(انُساًََِننْلَي ِ
َ ّو تُو َ ل
And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal]
gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you
anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and
ease… (4: 4)
He also says:
ََوَ َنُ ِك َر َ َع َنْل ْ ِ َ ِر ْزنُ ُ َ َفدنْلْ ُ ِف ْا َِّمنآ َ ََتهُ َ نَُِال ِِ
َ َس َعت
ِ ٍ لِ ِف ْا َذُو
َ ََّ َس َعي
َ ُ
)5 8 (انطالقإالََآَ ََت َفآ ِ
َ َنآ ًَ ََّ نَُِنَد ْف
ُ ّيُ َُنْل
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah.
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Allah has given one over the other and what they
spend [for maintenance] from their wealth… (4:
34)
Also, the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said:
All of you are guardians and all of you are
responsible for your wards. The ruler is a
guardian of his subjects and the man is a guardian
of his family, the woman is a guardian and is
responsible for her husband‟s house and his
children; so all of you are guardians and
responsible for your wards.1
Qiwaamah should not be understood to be absolute in all affairs
and for all men over all women. This point is clarified by what is
mentioned in this verse of the Qur‟an:
)12 8: (انُساََ َو هلِِ َْ ي ِ ِ ض
ْ َوِبَآَأَن َف ُقو ََ ْ َأ ٍ ض ُه ْ يَ َع َنْلىَََد ْع
َ نََ نَََُِد ْع ِ
َ ِبَآَ َفض
… by [right of] what Allah has given one over the
other and what they spend [for maintenance] from
their wealth… (4: 34)
This indicates that qiwaamah 2 is specific, limited to the affairs of
the family that are shared between the husband and wife, and
nothing else. Thus, a man has no qiwaamah over how his wife
spends her own money; all of her transactions with her own money
are effective, and her husband does not have the right to invalidate
them. Likewise, none of her transactions are dependent upon his
permission as will be clarified hereafter. 3 Qiwaamah is in fact
leadership and direction in exchange for obligations and duties that
must be performed and be respected. Thus, I Islam, the man is the
one who gives the marriage gift at the time of the marriage, and it is
he who prepares the accommodations, the furniture, the bedding,
1
Saheeh hadith reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and At-
Tirmidhi.
2
Qawwam or Qayyim denotes the person who looks after her affairs and protects her,
and Qiwaamah denotes leadership.
3
See Article (58), Section Three, Chapter III.
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)111
…And if they both desire weaning through mutual
consent from both of them and consultation, there is
no blame upon either of them… (2: 233)
If we add to this Allah‟s Words:
َِ ِِ َف
ُآَوَ َع ََ َ ن
ِ
ُ وف نَ َ ِ ل َْم ْع ُْوف َفَإن َََّ ِْ ْفُت ُم
َْ وف ن َ َفد َع َنىَأَنَتَُ َُْْفو َ َ ْدًئ ِ
ُ ُْ و َعآ
)27 8: (انُسا ري ِ
ً َخ ْد ًْ َََّث
…And live with them in kindness. For if you
dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah
makes therein much good. (4: 19)
in addition to the other fundamentals that are mentioned in the pure
Shari‟ah including the principle that marital life is based on
tranquility, mutual mercy, and love; the meaning of qiwaamah and
its limits, become absolutely clear. In light of this, there is no
doubt that qiwaamah is an organizational issue that is essential to
any group of people; it does not imply that women are a lower sex
or that there is any deficiency in their humanity or their human
rights.
Both parties are required to understand and implement the
meaning of qiwaamah.
The continuity of marital life, its stability, achieving the
objectives of marriage, and protecting the interests of the wife,
require that the wife be absolutely sure, and agree, that qiwaamah
belongs to the husband by virtue of the Shari‟ah ruling and the
innate nature of creation, and she must realize that it was legislated
for the benefit and stability of the family. At the same time, the
husband must understand the objective of this qiwaamah that
Shari‟ah for him and the principles that it is based on, so that he
does not misuse it or become overbearing in using the power that
was given to him by qiwaamah.
If both spouses know and understand this, and are keen to
implement what they know, any problems between them can be
easily overcome; no disagreement or differences will be beyond the
solution that the husband sees fit and that the wife agrees to based
on the Shari‟ah order to her to obey her husband in all that is not
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Article (15)
The Wisdom Behind the Prohibition of Marriage Between Family
Members
Islam forbids men from marrying their female mahrams1
due to the high position that these family ties occupy and due to
Islam‟s great concern for protecting ties of kinship from being
severed, and from anything that might cause conflict or hatred.
This Article specifies which women are permissible for a
man to marry and which are prohibited, and the wisdom behind the
prohibition. The prohibition of marriage may be permanent or
temporary. If a woman is prohibited from marrying a man
permanently, then she will always be prohibited for him, however,
if the prohibition is temporary, then he is forbidden from
contracting marriage with her as long as she remains in the state
that caused marriage to be forbidden. If this barrier is removed,
then it becomes permissible for him to marry her. The factors that
make marriage forbidden permanently or temporarily are:
consanguinity, affinity, and nursing. The women who are
forbidden for a man to marry are mentioned in the Words of Allah
the Exalted:
َ ُ ت َ َعنْلَ ْ ُُ ْ يَأُنَ َهآتُُُ ْ يَوََدَآتُ ُُ ْ ي َوأَ َخ َو تُ ُُ ْ يَو َع نمآتُُُ ْ ي َو َخآالتُُُ ْ يَوََدَآْ ََِّْ ُس
َْآ َع ِي َ ْْ ْعَُُ ْ ي َوأَ َخ َو تُُُ ي ََِّ َ َ ل ن ِ َ ت َوأُنَ َهآتُُُ ُ ي
َ للي َأ َْر ِ ألَ ِخ َوَدَآ ُ َ َألُ ْخ
َ
َللي َ َد َخنْلْتُ يِ َ نآِِ ُُ ُ ي ِ َُّللي َِب َسُوِر
ِّ يََ َن ِ َ ي ِ ِ ِ
َ ّ ُُ ُ ُ ُ ََ ْ ُ َ ُ وأُنَ َهآ
ُ ِ
ِ َور ي ُ ِآن َن
َ َ َوسلِِ ََُ َأََْدَآُُِِ ُ ي َ لَيِي
َ آح َ َعنْلَ ْ ُُ ْ ي
ِِ
ُ ِب ن َفَإن َنَلْ ََتُُونُو َ َد َخنْلْتُ ي َِب ن َفَل
َ ََج
ِِ
َورًَ ُِ َََّآ َنَ َف َََّإ ننَ ن َ ََسنْل َ اَ ألُ ْخَتد ْ ِا
َ َإالََآَنَ ْك َ َِ ْ َأَ ْ لَِ ُُ ْ يَوأ
َ ْ َنَِتْ َم ُعوَََْد
ِتَأ َُْيَآنُ ُُ ي ََِّتآبَ ن
ََِْ َعنْلَ ْ ُُ ي ْ َُ َآََنْل َِ و لْمَصَآ ُ ََِ َ لِّنآَنر ِس َمآ
َ َ ْ َ َََإال
َ َ َ َ ُْ ً
َا َفَ َمآ ِ ِ ِ ِ ُّ ِ ِ ِ ِ
َ َنآف َ ََُ َْ ا َ َ ْد
َ يَُّمصْ ُُ آَور َ َذَل ُُ ْ ي َأَنََتد ْ ِدَتدغُو َِب ََْ َو ل
َ َوأُس نَ َلَُُ يَ ن
َآح َ َع َنْل ْ ُُ ْ ي َفِ َمآ
َ ََج ُ ض ًي َوال َ ورُف ن َ َف ِْي
َ ُج
ُ وف ن َأ
ِ ِ
ُ ُْسَت ْمَتد ْعتُ ي ََِ ََ ْد ُه ن َ َفآت
1
Mahram: One‟s relatives to whom marriage is forbidden due to the proximity of ties
of consanguinity, affinity, or nursing.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn
Maajah.
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Section Five
The Objectives of Family
Article (16)
Preservation of Progeny (The Human Race)
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, the primary objective of
the family is preservation of progeny or the human race, to
spread civilization on Earth, and to continue the succession of
generations. Allah instilled sexual desire within the body as it is
the natural means of Shari‟ah legislated procreation, not that it
is an aim in and of itself.
To achieve this purpose, Islam restricted Shari‟ah
sanctioned marriage to that which is between a male and a
female, and it forbade all other forms of unions outside of
Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage. Likewise, homosexual
relationships that do not lead to procreation are also prohibited
and birth control is not allowed without the consent of both
spouses.
This Article clarifies the first objective of the family in
Islamic Shari‟ah which is preservation of progeny or the human
race, to spread civilization on Earth, and to continue the succession
of generations. Allah the Exalted says:
)42 8 (هىدض َو ْسَتد ْع َم ََُّْ ْ ي َفِ َهآ
ِ ُف َوَأَن َشأَ َُّ ي َ َِّ ََ ألَ ْر
… He has produced you from the earth and settled
you in it… (11: 61)
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He also says:
َ ىَوج َعنْلَْآ َُّ ْ ي َ ُ ُعوًَ َوَندَ ِآِِ ََ َلَِتد َع َآرُف و
َ َ يََ َ َذ ََّ ٍَْوأُنث
ِ َُّ َي َأَيُّد هآَ لنآس َإ نَ َ َخ َنْل ْق َآ
ّ ُ َ َ
ِ ِ ِ ِ
)21 8 ( انحجزاثري َإ نن َأَ َّْ َََْ ُُ ْ يَع َكَ نَِأَتدْ َقآ َُّ ْ ي َإ نن َ ن
ٌَ ِ َِ َعنْل ٌ يَ َخ
O mankind, indeed We have created you from
male and female and made you peoples and tribes
that you may know one another. Indeed, the most
noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most
righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and
Acquainted. (49: 13)
The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “Marry the woman who is loving and prolific, for I
will be proud of your number on the Day of Resurrection” and
there are a number of other similar narrations with different
wording.
For the sake of this objective, Allah instilled sexual desire
within the body as it is the natural means of Shari‟ah legislated
procreation, not that it is an aim in and of itself.
To achieve this purpose, Islam limited Shari‟ah sanctioned
to marriage to that which is between a male and a female, and it
forbade all other forms of unions outside of Shari‟ah sanctioned
marriage. Likewise, homosexual relationships that do not lead to
procreation have also been prohibited as has been explained in
Articles (8), (10), and (11).
The Article addresses the Shari‟ah ruling regarding birth
control; it is not permitted by Shari‟ah unless both spouses agree to
it as it is they who are affected by the decision. For this reason, it is
up to them to estimate the extent of the necessity or the benefit in
using birth control, and thus, forcing them to birth control is
prohibited and violates the rulings of Shari‟ah.
It should be noted that birth control in this context means
spacing the children so that each child receives its full right of
nursing and care. The period of nursing is two full years for those
who want to complete its duration. Allah the Exalted says:
َِ ْ َصآلُ ُ َِبَ َع َآ
)22 8ٌ (نمًاا ِ
َ َوف
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you… (5: 6)
Other justifications for using birth control include concern
for a nursing child were the mother to become pregnant again if this
is confirmed by the opinion of a Muslim, specialized doctor. The
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) said, “Do not kill
your children secretly, for gheelah (having intercourse with a
woman who is nursing) overtakes the rider and throws him
from the horse.” [It is said that the child who nurses from a
pregnant mother will suffer from it in later life like a horseman who
is thrown from his horse.]1 The Prophet (peace be on him) did not,
however, go so far as to prohibit intercourse with a nursing mother
and he said:
I intended to prohibit gheelah (intercourse with a
mother who is nursing) but I considered the
Persians and the Greeks, and I realized that they
suckle their children during pregnancy without
any ill effects on their children as a result. 2
It seems that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
realized that these individual cases do not pose any danger to the
Muslim community as a whole, as they did not harm the Persians
and the Romans, who were the strongest nations on earth at the
time.
***
Article (17)
Achieving Tranquility, Love, and Mercy
In order that the relationship between the spouses does
not become limited to a purely sexual form, Shari‟ah has
indicated that the goals of this relationship include each spouse
finding tranquility with the other, and achievi ng love and
mercy between them.
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood and Ibn Maajah, the wording is
from Abu Dawood.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
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Article (18)
Protecting Lineage
Attributing each person to his Shari‟ah recognized roots,
maintaining the purity of his lineage, and protecting it from
becoming confused is a goal of Shari‟ah that is independent
from that of preservation of progeny.
In order to achieve this, Islam forbids sexual relations
outside of marriage and prohibits adoption 1. Likewise it has
ordained specific rulings, enforcing a waiting period for women
after divorce or being widowed, prohibiting women from
concealing what is in the womb, and defining the procedures
for attributing lineage or refuting it, etc.
Attributing each person to his Shari‟ah recognized roots,
maintaining the purity of his lineage, and protecting it from
becoming confused is Shari‟ah‟s third objective of the family,
which is independent of the objective of preserving progeny. As
marriage is the only means for conceiving offspring, the child that
is created by Allah from the discharge of the two spouses should be
attributed to them as it is by way of this lineage that the child
secures their care and upbringing in an acceptable manner that is
befitting of the dignity of man. Also, attributing the child to his
1
[TN: Adoption in this context refers to the practice of attributing the adopted child to
his adoptive parents as if they were his own biological parents.]
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Maalik in his Muwattah, Al-Bukhari, Muslim,
Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi. The meaning of
“the child belongs to the bed” is that the child is attributed to the one o n whose bed it
was conceived, i.e. the husband. “Bed” here is a euphemism that refers to the wife as
the intercourse between the spouses is generally in the bed, according to the rulings of
Shari‟ah with a valid marriage contract. Thus the meaning of the hadith is that any
child who is conceived by the wife while the marriage is in effect shall be attributed to
her husband and shall be considered his child.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and Abu Dawood.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah,
and Ad-Daarimi.
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Article (19)
The Safeguard of Marriage
Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage protects one‟s chastity 2, is
a safeguard, protects one‟s honor, and closes the doors that lead
to sexual corruption by eradicating the anarchy of promiscuity
and immorality.
This Article clarifies the fourth objective of the family;
Islam is characterized by the way that it nurtures the innate human
nature, accepting its reality and attempting to discipline and elevate
it, not stifling and repressing it. Allah the Exalted says:
َ َ ََِ َِْ َ آطريِ َ ملَُق
ِ َشهو ِ ََِ َ لِّنآِ َو لْ ِِا َو لْ َق
َ َ َ َ َ َ َس ُّ َ ل نُ س ِ َزُيِّ َ َلِنْلنآ
َعَ اََآ َِ ُّلكنْدَآ َ ِث َ َذل
ُ ك ََََتآ ِ ْني َو َْْ َِ َ ملُن نوَيِ َو ألَنْد َع ِآم َو ْا
َْ َ َ
ِ ل نيف ِ َو ل ِْفض
َ
)22 8 ٌ )آل عًزاآب ِ
َ َن ُ َ مل ِ
ْ َس
ُ ُو نَُِع َكه
Beautified for people is the love of that which they
desire of women and sons, heaped-up sums of gold
and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled
land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah
has with Him the best return. [1: 14)
These are pleasurable desires that are longed for; however,
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Ad-Daarimi; the wording is from
Ahmad and Ad-Daarimi.
2
[TN: Chastity in this context refers to abstention from illicit sexual activity.]
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they must be enjoyed within their proper context, which should not
be transgressed. Also, after indulging in these pleasures to the
extent that is necessary, without being excessive or becoming
engrossed in them, the pursuit of these pleasures should not be
allowed to overshadow the nobler and loftier issues of life, as the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
encouraged the Muslim community to give things their proper
position in preserving chastity, guarding against immorality,
protecting honor, and blocking the paths that lead to sexual
corruption by abolishing promiscuity and immorality. The
Messenger of Allah said:
O young people! Whoever among you can marry,
should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze
and guard his modesty (i.e. it protects his private
parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse
etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should
fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. 1
Also, it was narrated on the authority of „Abdullah ibn „Abbaas that
Sufyaan informed him that Hiracules sent to him and asked him
about the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him). He
answered, “He orders us to pray, to give charity, to be chaste,
and to maintain ties of kinship.” 2
***
Article (20)
Protecting Religious Adherence in the Family
The family is the nest for its members, not only by
looking after them physically, but more importantly, by
instilling religious and moral values within them. The family‟s
responsibility for this begins even before the formation of the
embryo, with the selection that each spouse makes in choosing
his partner, the priority in this choice being given to the
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
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Section One
The Muslim Community‟s Responsibility to
Encourage Marriage
Article (21)
The Basis for This Responsibility
The responsibility of the Muslim community for its
members is based on the principle of the relationship between a
whole and its parts, or an entity and its members. Thus, the
Muslim community is made up of families that are connected
and cohesive, like a single body, rather than detached
individuals; and this cannot take place except through
marriage.
The Muslim community that adheres to the path of
guidance concerns itself wi th establishing righteous plans and
programs to encourage marriage - and to encourage it early on,
out of concern for the community's development and strength,
and to prevent immorality.
This Article is based on fundamentals and principles of
sociology, and on the Words of Allah the Exalted:
ِ ت َ َو ذْ َُّ ُْو َنِ ْع َم ِ َِ ِ صمو َِِب
َِ َهللا
ََهللاَ َع َنْل ْ ُُ ْ يَإِ ْذ َ َُّ ْدتُ ْ ي َ آَو َالََتد َف نْنُو
َ َّت ًع ْ َ ُ ِ َو ْعَت
ٍََْ آَس ْف
َُ َوَُّ ْدتُ ْ ي َ َعنْلَىَ َ َف ِ ِ ِ ِِ ِ َ ْ َّ َََد
َ ًَ ا َندُنْلُوَ ُُ ْ ي َفَأَ ْ َ ِ َْتُ ْ ي ََ ْع َمت َإ ْخ َو َ أَ ْع َك ً َفَأَلن
(آل َُ ْ ي ََتد ْهَتكُون ُ َهللا َلَ ُُ ْ ي َ ََيتِِ َلَ َعنْلن
ُ ا َ َِِّ َ َ لنآ ِر َفَأَن َق َي َُّ ْ ي ََِّ ْد َهآ َََّ َيل
ُ ِّك َيدَُ ِد
)271 8ٌعًزا
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and the wording is from
Muslim.
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1
The details of the meaning of social takaaful and its evidence from Shari‟ah will be
presented in the Section One of Chapter V.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah, and the
wording is from At-Tirmidhi
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi.
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1
Fadak: A tract of land in the Khaybar oasis.
2
Weak hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, however, there are other chains of narration
that support and strengthen it.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from Al-Bukhari.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim. [Red camels refers to
the most valued possession of the Arabs at that time.]
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by An-Nasaa‟i and At-Tirmidhi, and the wording is from At-
Tirmidhi.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah and the wording is
from Ahmad and An-Nasaa‟i.
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desire].”1
It was also related on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) said, “If someone proposes to
you and you are satisfied with his religion and his manners,
then marry him; for if you don‟t it will lead to sedition on
Earth and widespread corruption.” 2 Also, Abu Ruhm narrated
that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “From among the best types of intercession is to intercede
between two people for the sake of marriage.”3 Abu Sa‟eed
narrated that „Umar addressed the people and said, “Allah gave
permission to His Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
for whatever He wanted, and the Prophet of Allah (may blessings
and peace be upon him) passed away. So complete the Hajj and
„Umrah (minor pilgrimage) as Allah the Mighty and Glorious has
commanded you, and protect the chastity of these women.”4 Jaabir
ibn „Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said,
“Today, you are on a religion, and I will be proud of your great
number before the other nations, so after me do not regress.”5
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from Al-Bukhari.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i and Ibn Maajah.
3
Mursal hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
5
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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Section Two
The Muslim Community‟s Responsibility to Protect
and Care for the Family
1
See Ibn Katheer‟s Exegesis of the Qur‟an for further explanation of this verse.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and Al-Hakim.
2
Hasan hadith reported by Al-Hakim and Ad-Darqutni.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bukhari with a hanging chain of narration, and
Sa‟eed ibn Mansoor related it in its connected form in his Sunnan.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daaraqutni, Al-Hakim,
and Al-Bayhaqi.
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Article (27)
Witnessing and Announcing the Marriage Contract
Shari‟ah stipulates that the marriage contract must be
witnessed as a means of including the Muslim community in the
building of the family, and to serve as a sign that differentiates
between those relationships between men and women that are
permissible, and those that are impermissible. Also, the
recommendation that the marriage be announced is a way of
making the contract known and it is a social decl aration that a
new family has been formed.
This Article clarifies the role of witnessing the marriage
contract and its status in the Muslim community. Considering the
serious ramifications of the marriage contract which including
permissibility of the spousal relationship, obligation of paying the
dowry and financial support, establishing children‟s lineage,
entitlement to inheritance, and the obligation of following and
being obedient, and as there is a potential for these rights to be
denied by either of the spouses, the religion implemented measures
to prevent this from happening, and made it obligatory for at least
two witnesses to be in attendance to witness the marriage contract.
It also stipulated that the witnesses must be deserving of people‟s
trust and confidence in order to affirm these ramifications if there
is a need for their testimony, such as in the case of conflict between
the spouses, or denial of the rights and ramifications of this contract
by one of the spouses. For this reason, the witnessing of the
marriage contract is a means of including the Muslim community in
the building of the family and it serves as a sign that distinguishes
permissible relationships between men and women from those that
are impermissible.
The evidence for the stipulation of two witnesses to execute
the contract of marriage is found in the statement of the Messenger
of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him), “There is no
marriage except with the presence of the [woman‟s] guardian
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, ad-Daaraqutni, and Al-Baihaqi
in his Sunan, and At-Tabaraani in Al-Mu‟jam Al-Awsat.
2
Hassan narration, reported by Maalik in Al-Muwatta‟
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Hakim.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
5
Weak hadith, reported by „Abdullah ibn Ahmad in Zawai‟d Al-Musnad.
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Section Three
The Means of Protecting the Family
1
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakam, and Al-Bayhaqi.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn
Maajah, and Al-Baihaqi
3
Weak hadith, narrated by Ibn Maajah, Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, Al-Bayhaqi, Al-
Bazzaar, and „Abd ibn Hameed in his Musnad, and Ibn Abi Dunya.
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Article (33)
Shari‟ah‟s Attention to the Marriage Contract
Due to the importance of the family in the building the
society, Shari‟ah places special importance on marriage,
enveloping it in detailed regulations and conditions that are
stricter and greater in number than those of any other
contracts.
This Article clarifies the importance of marriage in Islamic
Shari‟ah, and states that it is enveloped in detailed regulations and
conditions that are stricter and greater in number than those of any
other contracts, thereby inspiring respect within the person for this
relationship and conferring a type of sanctity upon it that prevents
the person from polluting it with anything that could taint its purity.
The fact that Allah the Exalted called the contract of marriage “a
firm covenant” and ordered that all of its requirements be fulfilled
is sufficient to illuminate its importance. This is found in the
Words of Allah:
ِ
َْ َآر َف
َلََت ُخ ُيو ْ َوإِ ْنَأ ََر ْد ُُّتَُ ْستِ ْ ِ َك َلَ َز ْوٍجَ نَ َُآ َنَ َز ْوٍجَ و َتد ْدتُ ْ ي
ًَ َ َإس َك ُف ن َن
َضى َْ َّ
َ ََْت ُخيُونَ ُ َونَ ْك َأَف ًَ َِ ْ ُ َ َ ْدئًَآ َأ ََتْ ُخ ُيونَ ُ ََدُ ْهَت
َ ْ ََّ َوَ آَ َوإ َِْتًآ ََُّ ِِ ًَآ
)12- 17 8: (انُسامآ ًَ ِ يََ َثآًَنآَ ََنْل
ِ ِ
ّ ُُ ََضَوأَ َخ ْي َن ٍ َإَلَََد ْعَ ض ُُ ْ ي ُ ََد ْع
But if you want to replace one wife with another
and you have given one of them a great amount [in
gifts], do not take [back] from it anything. Would
you take it in injustice and manifest sin? * And how
could you take it while you have gone in unto each
other and they have taken from you a solemn
covenant? (4:20-21)
Article (34)
Abhorrence of Divorce and Limiting the Causes of
Dissolution of Marriage
Shari‟ah strives to curb the factors that lead to
dissolution of marriage and it encourages people to hate
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1
Mursal hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah, Al-Bayhaqi, Al-Hakim, and
Ad-Daaraqutni in his Sunan; Abu Hatim authenticated it and gave it preponderance in
his book Ilal Al-Hadith Irsalihi (vol. 1, pg. 431).
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood
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try to take the place of a man‟s wife, and this is strictly forbidden
by Islam. It was narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) said, “It is not permissible for a
woman to ask that her sister be divorced in order to take her
place, for she will only get what has been destined for her .”1
Also, the fragrance of Paradise is forbidden for any woman who
asks for divorce without any reason or necessity. It was related on
the authority of Thawbaan (may Allah be pleased with him) that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said,
“Any woman who asks her husband for divorce without having
caused her any harm; the fragrance of Paradise will be
forbidden for her.”2
Also, in order to solve conflict between the spouses, Islam
has imposed numerous mechanisms to prevent any rush to
separation. Allah the Exalted says:
ِض َ َوف ن َِب َ مل ِ ِ و
َ وف ن ُ َُِْ ْ
ْ آج ِع َو ُ ُْ ُُ وف ن َو ْف ُ ُشوَزُف ن َفَعم ُ ُللي َََتَآفُو َن َن
ِ َوإ ْنَ فَإ ْنَأَطَ ْعَ ُُ يَفَلََتد ِدغُو َ َعنْلَ ِه ن َس ِِ لَإ ننَ نِ َََّآ َنَ َعنْلَِآ َََّ ِِ َري
ََخفْتُ ْ ي ً ً َ َ ْ ْ ْ
َ َوس َُ ًَمآ ََِّ ْ َأَ ْفنْلِ َهآ َإن َيُِْي َكَ
ِ ِِ َقآ َق ََد ِ ِهمآ َفَآَدعثُو َس َُ َمآ ََِ َأَ ْفنْل
ْ ّ ً َ َْ َ َْ
ِ ِ ِ َ ْإ
)13- 12 8: (انُسا ري ًَ ِ َََِّآ َنَ َعنْل ًَمآَ َخَلسآَيدَُوفّ ِاَ نَََُِد ْدَد ُه َمآَإ ننَ ن
ً
… But those [wives] from whom you fear
arrogance [first] advise them; [then if they persist],
forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But
if they obey you [once more], seek no means against
them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.*
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what
Allah has given one over the other and what they
spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So
righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in
[the husband‟s] absence what Allah would have
them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear
arrogance [first] advise them; [then if they persist],
forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Maajah.
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1
Saheeh narration, reported by At-Tabari in his exegesis.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bayhaqi.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and An-Nasaa‟i.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, Ad-Daarimi, Ibn Hibbaan in his
Saheeh, and An-Nasaa‟i, and the wording is from An-Nasaa‟i
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address the subject of the rulings that apply to the family or other
arenas, emphasize this meaning at the end or in the middle of the
text; for example, the Words of Allah the Glorious:
َ ََّنَ ِ ْئدتُ ْ يَوَن ِّك َُو َألَن ُف ِن ُُ ْ يَو نتدقُو َ ثَلن ُُ ْ ي َفَأْ تُو
َس ْْثَ ُُ ْ يَ أ ن ٌ ْْ َس
َ نآ ُؤَُّ ْ ي
ِ
َ ن
) 111 8 (انبمزةا ََ َِِش ِْ َ ملُْدِّ ََ يََلنُوهَُو ُّ ُُ ِ َو ْعنْلَ ُمو َأَ نَن
Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you,
so come to your place of cultivation however you
wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves.
And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him.
And give good tidings to the believers. (4: 223)
Likewise, He says:
َ َ ص َ َ ِِبَنفُ ِن ِه ن َثَلثَيَ َنُد ُْوٍَ َوال َ َِ َُّ َ َهلُن َأَن َيَُْتُ ْم
ْ و لْ ُم َنْلن َق آ ُ َيَدَتد ََْن
8 (انبمزة َِْ آلخ ِ ََآَ َخ َنْل َاَ نِ َِبَأَرس ِآَ ِه ن َإن َ َُّ ن َيد ْدَِ ن َ ِ نَِِو لْ دوِم
َْ ُ َْ ُ َ
) 116
Divorced women remain in waiting for three
periods, and it is not lawful for them to conceal
what Allah has created in their wombs if they
believe in Allah and the Last Day… (2: 228)
He also says:
ِ ِ َُ ِّ والََتد ْع ِزَُو َ ُع ْق َك َ َ ل
ََج َنْل َُو ْعنْلَ ُمو ََأ نن َ ن
َِ َ آب َأ
ُ َس نَ َيَد ْ ِدنْلُ َغ َ لَُت
َ آح
َس ِنْل ٌَ ي
َ ور ٌ ِ َ َ ُف َآس َي ُرو ُه َو ْعنْلَ ُمو َأَ نن َ ن
ِ َ ِ يد ْعنْلَ ي ََآ
ْ ََب َأَن ُفن ُُ ْ ي َف َ ُ َ
( 113 8(انبمزة
…But do not promise them secretly except for
saying a proper saying. And do not determine to
undertake a marriage contract until the decreed
period reaches its end. And know that Allah knows
what is within yourselves, so beware of Him. And
know that Allah is Forgiving and Forbearing. (2:
235)
Allah the Exalted also says:
َ وف َوأَ ْ ِه ُكو ٍَ ُْ وف ن َِِبَ ْع ٍ
ُ ُوف ن َِِبَ ْع ُْوف َأ َْو َفَآ ِرن
ِ
ُ ُُ َجنْلَ ُه ن َ َفأ ََْن
َ فَإذَ َََد َنْلغْ َ َأ
ِ ِ ِ ِ
َ ََِِ َذل ُُ ْ يَيُو َع ُظََِ َََ َََّآ َنَ يدُ ْدَ ُ َ ِ ن َِذ َو ْيَ َع ْك ٍل ََِّ ُُ ْ يَوأَن ُمو َ ل نش َهآ َد َ ن
ِ ِ
ًَ ََََْْ َعََلن َُني ِ ِ
) 1 8 (انطالقجآ َْ ََِوَ َيَدتن ِا َ ن
َ ِْ و لَْد ْوم َ آلخ
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
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Article (40)
Neighbors and the Extent of Their Effect
The social relationships between neighboring families are
governed by prevalent social principles, and neighbors play an
active role in creating family problems as well as in solving
them. Thus, building relationship with neighbors based on
Islamic principles and values helps to protect the family and
hold it together.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Ad-Daarimi, and Al-Hakim in Al-
Mustadrak .
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Article (41)
Social Takaaful (Solidarity) in the Family
Social takaaful between family members plays an integral
role in its cohesion and continuity.
Social takaaful is the mutual exchange of support, financial
support, assistance, and care and tolerating each other. One form of
this is the takaaful between Muslims which is their mutual care for
each other by giving advice, financial support, and other forms of
care. In doing so, it plays a major role in looking after the family
and protecting it from breakup and division, particularly since one
of the major causes of family dissolution is poverty and lack of
material assistance, and this is where the role of social takaaful
comes into play to fill this gap.
The details of the proofs for this will be presented in the
discussion of children‟s right to social security in Clause (2) of
Article (109) of Section Four of Chapter IV. It will also be
presented within the detailed discussion of social takaaful in
Section One of Chapter V.
Article (42)
The Importance of Local Institutions
Local institutions play an active role in family affairs, and
this role extends to include institutions that:
1. Encourage and facilitate marriage.
2. Make people aware of the Shari‟ah rulings that pertain
to the family and the social and psychological studies
related to it.
3. Provide care for mothers, children, the elderly, wives
involved in marital conflicts, and youth who have
problems with their parents that cannot be solved within
the family.
4. Hold meetings for reconciliation between family
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members.
5. The role of nurseries, schools, the media, and mosques
represents the external training that shapes family
members from within. Thus, they should be given special
attention and enabled to carry out their correct
pedagogical roles that are in accordance with the
principles of Islam.
This Article establishes the principles of the role of social
solidarity by transferring it to active and established institutions, so
that it does not rely solely on scattered, individual efforts; instead,
it is transferred to the stage of organized, collective work. Also,
these institutions should be independent of the government and are
local in their creation, formation, and funding, so as not to be
affected by the negative aspects of government institutions. Care
should be taken to assure that these institutions are varied and that
they encompass the needs of the family in every geographical area
in order to prevent any opposition between them. Some examples
of this variety have been mentioned in this Article.
The organizational activity requires the existence of an
administrative framework that includes leadership and members,
and which is governed by regulations and policies. The employees
of such agencies should be volunteers or receive symbolic pay,
which in this respect is voluntary.1
The importance of the work of establishments is emphasized
in its continuity through organized, collective work. Because the
work is not dependant upon a single person, there is no fear that if
that person quits the entire work will come to a halt. Such work
also strives to unify and organize finances, efforts, and time, and
thus it is highly effective in affecting the society and assisting the
1
The meaning of voluntary in this sense is that it is without pay. It does not mean that
the work is voluntary in the Shari‟ah sense of it being supererogatory, recommended , or
an action of the Prophet. In fact, voluntary work may actually be obligatory according
to Shari‟ah, such as in the case of the collective work that is necessary to carry out
collective obligations.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and An-Nasaa‟i.
2
Mentioned by Ibn Katheer in Al-Bidayah wan-Nihayah, vol. 3, pg. 115.
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Article (43)
The Standard of Success for Legal Legislation
The standard of success of the legal legislation that
regulates marital relationships is judged by its success in
solving marital problems and its ability to establish justice and
maintain balance between the rights and responsibilities of each
spouse within the framework of the Islamic Shari‟ah rulings.
This Article states that for the most part, manmade legal
legislation pertaining to marital relationships is based on the rulings
of Shari‟ah and independent fiqh rulings pertaining to family. The
success of manmade legal legislation is dependant upon its success
in solving marital problems and establishing justice and balance
between the rights and responsibilities of each spouse.
This system was ordained for the sole purpose of solving
these problems, and if it is unable to achieve its purpose, then it
must be altered or changed so as to accomplish its goal. If changes
are not made, then the inability of the system will eventually cause
people to belittle and disrespect the manmade legal legislation,
thereby weakening the governmental deterrent in individuals. This
is particularly so when problems accumulate to an extent that poses
a threat to the social situation, as is currently the case in many
countries.
***
Article (44)
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Article (45)
The Government‟s Responsibility for Successful Family Cohesion
The Government‟s responsibilities include:
1. Establishing various types of social insurance systems.
2. Conducting careful monitoring of the media and
prohibiting the media from presenting bad examples that
discourage youth from thinking about marriage, and
encourage corruption and immorality, which ultimately
lead to the dissolution of the family and its collapse.
3. To see that the educational curriculum that is taught at
different levels includes the level-appropriate scientific
information that is necessary to prepare each student to
form a successful family according to Shari‟ah
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regulations.
This Article states some of the government‟s responsibilities
for successful family cohesion:
*Clause (1):
This Clause is based on the principle of social solidarity that
was previously discussed in Article (41) of Part II, in the discussion
on the social deterrent.
*Clause (2):
This Clause is based on a number of texts and narrations:
Allah the Exalted says:
َبَأَلِد ٌ ي َِب ِ
ٌ شيُ َِبَ لَديي َ َ ََ ُدو َ َهلُ ْد يَ َعد َي َ آس ِ َ إ نن َ لَ ِيي َ ُِ ُّ ِو َنَأَنََت ِش عَ ل َف
َ َ
)27 8 ) انُىرن ِ ِ
َ ُّلكندَْآَو آلخ َْ َو نَُِيَد ْعنْلَ ُ يَوأَنتُ ْ يَالََتد ْعنْلَ ُمو
Indeed, those who like that immorality should be
spread [or publicized] among those who have
believed will have a painful punishment in this
world and the Hereafter. And Allah knows and you
do not know. ( 24: 19)
Also, it was narrated by „Abdullah ibn „Amr that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said,
“Avoid obscenity for Allah does not like obscenity or
abomination.” A man stood up and said, “O messenger of Allah,
which of the Muslims is best?” He answered, “He from whom the
Muslims are safe from the harm of his tongue and his hand.”1 It
was narrated by Abu ad-Dardaa‟ (may Allah be pleased with him)
that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “You are approaching your brothers, so fix your mounts
and your clothing so that you are attractive and distinguished
among the people, for Allah does not love obscenity or
abomination.”2 „Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allah be pleased with
him) said, “The person who commits obscenity and the one who
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
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1
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, and Al-Bayhaqi in
Shu‟ab Al-Eman.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Abu Hatim in his exegesis of the Qur‟an.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Abu Hatim in his exegesis of the Qur‟an.
4
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad.
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Section One
The Prelude to Marriage
Article (46)
The Definition of "Engagement"
“Engagement” is when a man expresses his desire to
marry a woman and it is accepted by the woman and her
guardian, with a mutual promise to finalize the marriage
contract in the future.
This Article defines the meaning of “engagement.” In most
cases, engagement is a step towards getting married as in most
cases, the marriage is not devoid of it. However, it is not a
condition for the validity of the marriage. Thus, if marriage takes
place without it, it will be valid. Scholars of fiqh differ with regard
to its ruling; some saying that it is permissible and others saying
that it is recommended based on the engagement of the Prophet
(may blessings and peace be upon him) to „A‟ishah, the daughter of
Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with them).2 He also was engaged
to Hafsah, the daughter of „Umar (may Allah be pleased with
them).3 Abu Humayd reported that the Messenger of Allah said, “If
one of you proposes to a woman, it is not sinful for him to look at
her if he doing so as a result of his proposal, even if she is not
aware [that he is looking at her].”4
1
Mahram: A person who is impermissible to marry due to the proximity of ties of
consanguinity, affinity, or nursing.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and An-Nasaa‟i.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and An-Nasaa‟i.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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Article (47)
The Ramifications of Engagement
Engagement is neither marriage nor is it a quasi -
marriage. It is nothing more than a mutual promise of
marriage between a man and a woman that does not establish
any rights or make any prohibited actions permissible. The
only thing that is permitted between the two people is to look at
each other at the time of the proposal so that they may make
sure that they are content with the other person; during the
engagement, however, the woman remains completely
unrelated to the man in all aspects until the marriage contract
is executed.
This Article clarifies the difference between marriage and
engagement. The factor that divides the permissible from the
impermissible in the marital relationship, with regard to enjoying
each other etc., is the execution of the marriage according to its
conditions, not engagement. Engagement is only a prelude to
marriage, and it does not result in that which is effected by
marriage.
Engagement does not result in the permissibility of anything
other than allowing the man and woman to look at each other to
make sure that each is content with the other person. It was narrated
from Al-Mugheerah ibn Shu‟bah that he proposed to a woman, and
the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) said, “Look at
her, for it is more likely to create love and compatibility
between you.” 1 Also, Jaabir ibn „Abdullah (may Allah be pleased
with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “If one of you proposes marriage to a
woman, if he can look at her to see that which will
encourage him to go ahead and marry her, then let him
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ad-
Daarimi, and Ibn Hibbaan.
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Article (48)
The Impermissibility of Proposing to a Woman Who is
Already Engaged
According to Shari‟ah it is not permissible for a man to
propose to a woman who is engaged to someone else, and it is
not permissible for him to try to convince her or her family to
break the engagement so that he can propose to her himself.
This Article clarifies some of the etiquettes of engagement
which include that it is not permissible for a man to propose to
woman who is engaged to someone else, and it is not permissible
for him to try to convince her or her family to break the
engagement so that he can propose to her himself. This is to
prevent any disputes between the two suitors, and because doing so
harms the first suitor. Shari‟ah prohibits this in clear terms, as is
indicated in the words of the Messenger of Allah (may blessings
and peace be upon him), who said, “A man shall not propose over
the proposal of his brother until the he marries [the girl] or
withdraws [the proposal].”2 Also, it was narrated by „Abdur-
Rahman ibn Shimaasah that he heard „Uqbah ibn „Amr on the
pulpit saying that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace
be upon him) said, “The Believer is the brother of a Believer, so
it is not permissible for a believer to make an offer of purchase
for an item his brother has already made an offer on, or to
propose over his brother‟s proposal until he [voluntarily]
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ash-Shafi‟i in his Musnad, as well as Abu Dawood, Al-
Bazzaar, and Al-Hakim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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Article (49)
It is Forbidden to Propose to Women Who Are Mahrams 3
It is not permissible for a man to propose to a woman to
whom marriage is permanently prohibited due the proximity of
their relationship by consanguinity, affinity, or nursing.
Likewise, it is not permissible for him to propose to a woman
with whom marriage is temporarily prohibited until the cause
of the prohibition no longer exists. It is also forbidden for him
to propose, whether directly or indirectly, to a woman who is in
her waiting period due to a revocable divorce until after her
waiting period is over. As for a woman who is in the waiting
period of a final divorce or the waiting period after her
husband‟s death, it is only permissible to propose to her in an
indirect manner, as opposed to a direct manner. Also, is not
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i,
and the wording is from Al-Bukhari.
3
Mahram: A person‟s relative of the opposite sex to whom he is related by a certain
degree of proximity of consanguinity, affinity, or nursing.
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marry are:
His mother: Every female who was a cause in your birth,
and this includes the mother, the mother‟s mothers, the mothers‟
mothers‟ mothers (her grandmothers), the father‟s mother, and the
father‟s mother‟s mothers (his grandmothers), and so on.
His daughter: Every female that you were a cause in her
birth, and whose lineage is connected back to you by birth by one
or more degrees; this includes the man‟s daughter, the daughters of
his daughter, and the daughters of his son.
His sister: Every female who shares with you in one or both
of your origins (meaning your mother and father).
His paternal aunt: Every female who shares in one or both of
your father or grandfather‟s origins. The paternal aunt may also be
from the mother‟s side, in the case of the sister of the father of your
mother.
His maternal aunt: Every female who shares in one or both
of the origins of your mother. The maternal aunt may also be from
the father‟s side in the case of the sister of the mother of your
father.
The daughter of his brother: Every female born to your
brother and this also applies to the daughter of the sister.
The daughter of his wife: She only becomes prohibited for
marriage when the marriage with her mother is consummated, not
just by contracting marriage with the mother. Thus, if a man
divorced a woman before consummating the marriage it would be
permissible for him to marry her daughter.
The wife of his father and the wife of his son: They become
prohibited upon contracting marriage with the father or the son,
even if they are divorced before consummation.
His wife‟s mother: Scholars differ as to whether she
becomes prohibited for marriage by contracting marriage or by
consummation of the marriage, and the preponderant opinion is the
first.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in his Muwattah and Ahmad in his Musnad, and
Al-Bukhari, and Muslim, and Abu Dawood, and At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn
Maajah and Ad-Daarimi.
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ََس د ندََيُد د ْدَِ ن َوألَََد د ٌي ََُّ ْدََِ د ٌيَ َخ ْد د ٌدْ ََِّ د ََُّ ْشد د ََِّْ يٍَولَ د ْدو ِ ِ
َ َوالَتَ ُ َُ ددو َ ملُ ْشد د ََِّْآ
ََسد ندََيُد ْدَُِدو َولَ َع ْ ِد ٌك ََُّد ْدَِ ٌ َ َخ ْ د ٌدْ ََِّد ََُّ ْشد ٍِْكَولَد ْدو ِ ِ
َ أَعْ ََُ ِ د ْت ُُ ْ يَوالَتُ ُ َُدو َ ملُ ْشد َِّْ َا
ِ ِ ِ ِ
ُ ِّ وَإَلَ لَن دديَو ل َْم غْ ف د َدْ َِِب ذْنِ د َويُدَ ِد د
َدا َ َُِيَ د ْكع َُإَلَ لن ددآ ِرَ َو ن َ أَعْ َُ د َد ِ ُُ ْ يَأ ُْولَئِ د
َ دكَيَد د ْكعُو َن
)112 8 (انبمزةنآس َلَ َع نْلن ُه ْ ي َيَدَت َينَّ ُْو َن ِ ََيتِ ِ َلِنْل
And do not marry polytheistic women until they
believe. And a believing slave woman is better than
a polytheist, even though she might please you. And
do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until
they believe. And a believing slave is better than a
polytheist, even though he might please you. Those
invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise
and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He
makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps
they may remember. (2: 221)
He also says:
)27 8 (انًًتحُتَِْ ِص ِ ي َ ل َُ َو ف ِ ِ
َ والَُتُْن ُُو ََِع
…And hold not to marriage bonds with
disbelieving women.… (60: 10)
The wisdom in this prohibition is achieving separation
between the Muslims and the disbelievers, and the danger of
her influence on the belief and thinking of their children.
The evidence for the permissibility of marrying
women from the People of the Book is found in Allah‟s
Words:
ِ َُْت ِ ِ ُس نََلَ ُُ يَ ل نِ ِآ ُ َوطَع ِ لْ دومَأ
َآَ ُُ ْ ي َ آبَسٌََّلن ُُ ْ ي
ُ َوطَ َع َ َ آمَ لنيي َ َأُوتُوَْ ل ُ َ َ َّ ُ ََْ
َْصد دَآ ُ ََِد د َ َ لن د ِديي َ َأُوتُد ددو َ ْم
َ ُْ َل َو ِ دآد َِ ِس د ُّدََ نهل دد يَو لْمَصد دَآ ُ ََِد د َ لْم ْد
َ ُ َ َ ْ ُ َ ُْ
ََو َال ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ُْتد ِ
َا َ َنددآف َ ََُ ْاَ َ ْد َد
َ دورُف ن َُّمُْصد
َ ُجد
ُ دوف ن َأُ دآبََد َ َن د ْ ِنْل ُُ ْ يَإذَ َ َتد ْدتُ ُمد
َ َ ل
َ َ آلخ َدِْ ََِد
ِ َدآنَ َفد َقد ْكَسد ِِ َ َ َعمنْلُد َُوفدو َِب
ََُ َ َ
ِ ََتن ِخ ِييَأَ ْخ َك ٍنَوَ َي ُْفُدَْ ِ ِإلُي
ْ َ ََ ُ
)3 8 (انًائدةََ آس ِْي ِ َْ
This day [all] good foods have been made lawful,
and the food of those who were given the Scripture
is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them.
And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from
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1
Kamal Ad-Deen ibn Al-Hamam, Fath Al-Qadeer, vol. 2, pg. 372.
2
Sheikh „Ali HasabAllah, Az-Zawaj fee ash-Shari‟ah Al-Islamiyyah, pg. 108.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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1
Saheeh narration, mentioned by Al-Bukhari with a hanging chain of narration in his
Saheeh.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Maalik in his Muwatta‟ and Al-Bukhari mentioned it
with a hanging chain of narration in his Saheeh.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by At-Tabari in his exegesis of the Qur‟an, and also by
„Abd Ar-Razzaq in his book, and Al-Bukhari mentioned it with a hanging chain of
narration in his Saheeh.
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Article (50)
Breaking the Engagement and its Ramifications
According to Shari‟ah it is abhorred for either the fiancé or the
fiancée to break the engagement unless it is broken for a
Shari‟ah recognized interest, such as upon discovering a
deficiency in the religious practice or the manners of the other
person such as deviant behavior or a psychological issue that is
difficult to bear. In the case that either party breaks the
engagement, the Shari‟ah rulings should be referred to in order
to determine each party‟s rights and obligations.
This Article discusses one of the etiquettes of engagement;
that neither the fiancé nor the fiancée should break the engagement
unless it is for a Shari‟ah recognized interest, such as a deficiency
that appeared in the religious practice or manners of the other
person, or upon discovering deviant habits or a psychological issue
that is difficult to bear. According to Shari‟ah, it is abhorred for
either party to break the engagement, as in principle, doing so
involves the breaking of a promise. It was related by Abu
Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (may
blessings and peace be upon him) said, “There are three signs of a
hypocrite: if he speaks, he lies, if he promises he breaks his
promise, and if he is entrusted he betrays.” 1 Also, it was narrated
by „Abdullah ibn „Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) that the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) said:
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
and An-Nasaa‟i.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah.
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Section Two
The Marriage Contract
Article (51)
Essential Factors for the Success of the Family
Islamic Shari‟ah has determined the criteria for a
successful marriage. Both spouses should make their choice
based them as doing so achieves the interest of the Muslim
community and the family in general, and the children in
specific.
The criteria include: Correctly following the religion and
having noble manners and a good upbringing, as well as other
characteristics that may also be sought.
The essential factors for a successful marriage include:
Taking compatibility in age, culture, and social environment
into consideration, and making sure that both spouses are free
of any serious repugnant, contagious, or hereditary diseases.
This Article clarifies the factors that are essential to the
success of the family that are related to making a good selection in
choosing one‟s life partner by taking the mentioned characteristics
into consideration. This Article is based on a number of texts.
1. It was narrated by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased
with him) that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “A woman is married for four traits: her wealth, her
status, her beauty, and her religion; so win by marrying the
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religious woman.” 1
2. It was related by „Abdullah ibn „Amr (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and
peace be upon him) said:
Don‟t marry women for their beauty, for their beauty
may be the cause of their fall, and don‟t marry them for
their wealth, for their wealth may make them rebellious.
Instead, marry them for their religion, and a religious
black slave woman with a cut off nose and holes in her
ears is better [than someone who is not religious]. 2
3. It was related by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased
with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be
upon him) said, “If someone comes [to propose] to you and you
are satisfied with his religion and his manners, then marry him,
otherwise there will be sedition on Earth and widespread
corruption.” 3
4. It was narrated by „A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with
her) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “Choose well for your sperm and marry those women
and men who are compatible.” 4
These hadiths, as a whole, indicate the principle of making a
good choice in spousal selection.
Hadiths (1), (2), and (3) indicate the criteria of religious
observance.
Hadith (4) indicates the criteria of compatibility.
It should be mentioned here that it is recommended to
perform a medical examination before marriage to assure that there
are no serious contagious diseases that could negatively affect the
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn
Maajah, and Al-Bayhaqi.
2
Weak hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah, Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, Al-Bayhaqi, Al-
Bazzaar, and Ibn Abi Dunya.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah. Al-Hakim, and Al-Bayhaqi.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim in Al-Mustadrak , and Al-Bayhaqi
in As-Sunan Al-Kubra.
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Article (52)
When Marriage is Considered Obligatory
Based on the circumstances, marriage in Islam may be
subject to any of the five Shari‟ah rulings; obligation,
recommendation, permission, abhorrence, and prohibition.
Islamic Shari‟ah considers marriage to be obligatory in the case
of anyone who fears that he may fall victim to temptation, and
who is at the same time capable of handling the material
burdens of marriage.
This Article discusses the types of Shari‟ah rulings with
regard to the Muslim. In this context, we mean by Shari‟ah ruling:
The Shari‟ah description that Allah has assigned to an action of a
person who is accountable according to the conditions of Shari‟ah;
whereby Allah, the Sole Lawmaker, describes a specific action as
being forbidden, permissible, etc.
The application of the Shari‟ah rulings to marriage
In some cases, marriage is obligatory; if the person believes
that if he does not get married, there is an overwhelming likelihood
that he will not be able to prevent himself from committing
adultery or fornication by fasting or other such means, and at the
same time, he is capable of providing the financial support for
marriage, including the dowry, the wife‟s financial support, and the
Shari‟ah stipulated marital rights. The reason for this is that every
person is obliged to keep himself chaste and to protect himself from
committing forbidden acts, and anything that is necessary to
perform something that is obligatory, is considered obligatory in
and of itself, and thus, in this case, the means of keeping chaste is
marriage.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
3
This is the opinion of Imam Ash-Shafi‟i.
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Article (53)
Conditions for the Validity of the Marriage
The marriage contract must be executed in the presence
of two witnesses and the wife‟s guardian should execute the
contract; however, it is permissible for any woman who has
been previously married to execute the contract by herself if it
is proven that her guardian is preventing her from getting
married, or if she has no guardian. It is recommended that the
marriage be announced by holding a banquet in celebration of
the marriage and to express happiness and joy.
This Article clarifies the conditions for the validity of the
marriage which are as follows:
The first condition: The presence of two witnesses; the
majority of scholars of jurisprudence are of the opinion that
witnessing the contract of marriage is a condition for its validity,
and that it must be contracted in the presence of two male
witnesses. This is the opinion of Abu Haneefah and Ash-Shafi‟i
and his companions, and it is the opinion adopted by the Charter.
Imam Maalik and other Maliki scholars took the opinion that it is
not obligatory to witness the marriage contract, and it is sufficient
for it to be announced and made known.
The evidence for the stipulation of the presence of two
witnesses for the marriage contract is found in the words of the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) “There is no
marriage except with the guardian and two morally sound,
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, and Ad-Daaraqutni, and Al-
Bayhaqi in as-Sunnan, and At-Tabarani in Al-Mu‟jam Al-Awsat.
2
Hassan narration, reported by Maalik in Al-Muwatta‟
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in his Muwatta‟, Ahmad in his Musnad, and Al-
Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-
Daarimi.
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ghee were brought and spread out on a leather skin and the
people ate until they became full.1 Also, Anas (may Allah be
pleased with him) said, “I never saw the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) hold a marriage banquet like that
which he held when he married Zaynab, when he slaughtered a
sheep.”2 It was reported by „A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with
her) that she took a bride to present her to her new husband who
was a man from the Ansaar. The Prophet (may blessings and peace
be upon him) asked her, “„A‟ishah, didn‟t you have any
entertainment? The Ansaar are a people who are fond of
entertainment.” 3 It was reported by Jaabir (may Allah be pleased
with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be
upon him) said to „A‟ishah, “Did you take the girl to her
[marital] home?” She answered, “Yes.” He replied, “Why didn‟t
you send someone with them to sing to them, „We have come to
you, We have come to you, Greet us as we greet you‟ for the
Ansaar are a people who love poetry.” 4 Also, the hadith,
“Differentiate between the permissible and the impermissible with
the drum and the voice in marriage” has already been previously
mentioned.5
The second condition: That the woman‟s guardian contract
the marriage on her behalf and it is permissible for a woman who
has been previously married to do this herself if it is proven that her
guardian is preventing her from getting married, or if she does not
have a guardian.
There is a standing disagreement with regard to establishing
guardianship for a mature, sane woman who has reached the stage
of sound judgment, regardless of whether she is a virgin or not.
Scholars of fiqh differed with regard to whether or not it is
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Boyar, An-Nasaa‟i, Abu Dawood, Ibn
Maajah, and the wording is from Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and the wording is from Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari, and the wording is from Al-
Bukhari.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
5
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa'i, and Ibn Maajah.
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predominant ruling.1
If, in such a situation, the closest male guardian refuses to
marry her to her choice, the Article states that the right to execute
the marriage is transferred to the matron herself, out of
consideration for the woman‟s interest and so that there is no delay
in stopping her guardian from oppressing her by preventing her
from getting married, or by delaying the procedures related to
execution of the contract by a judge. This is the opinion of some of
the scholars of fiqh and it is indicated by some of the Prophet‟s
hadiths.
Other scholars took the opinion that the guardianship is
transferred to the next closest person who is suited to be her
guardian, or to the judge, or whoever takes his place in the Muslim
community if there is no judge (such as those who run the Islamic
centers and the mosques in the west, and those to whom the
Muslims refer to in their religious affairs).
Being that the trend of “preventing” is spreading and is a
cause of serious harm to the individual and the society, it is
obligatory to work to cure it in the Muslim society by limiting or
preventing it. The most important aspect in this context is the
division between the Shari‟ah rulings and culture and customs;
which is followed by increasing Muslim awareness of the benefits
of adhering to the Shari‟ah rulings that Allah ordained, by way of
specialized booklets and periodicals; and working to form
arbitration boards that can be referred to in such affairs.
The previous rulings related to preventing marriage are
referred to in the Words of Allah:
َ َ َْ ُِ وف ن َأَنَيَد د د ُ ُض د د دنْل
ُ َجنْلَ ُه د د د ن َفَد د ددلََتد ْع
َ ند د ددآ ََ َفد د د دَ ِدنْلَغْ َ َأ
ِ
َ ّ وإذَ َطَنْلن ْقد د ددتُ ُ يَ ل
َظََِ د ِ َََد َََّددآ َن ََِ د ُُ ْ ي َ دْوفَ َذلِد
ُ دكَيدُدو َع ِ ْددو ََد دَده يَ ِ لْمعد
ُ َ ُ ْ َ ْ َ َْ أَ ْزَو َج ُهد ن َإ َذ ََتد
َآلخ د َِْذَلِ ُُد ْد يَأَ ْزََّددىَلَ ُُد ْد يَوأَط َْهد ُدَْو نَُِيَد ْعنْلَد ُد يَوأَن ددتُ ْ يَال ِ ََِو ل ددوِم ِ ِ
ْ َ يُد ْددَ ُ َ ِ ن
)111 8 (انبمزةن َ َتد ْعنْلَ ُمو
And when you divorce women and they have
1
See Al-Mawsou‟ Al-Fiqhiyyah, vol. 30, p. 146
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and At-Tabari in
his exegesis of the Qur‟an.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, Ad-Daaraqutni, Al-Bayhaqi in
his Sunnan and At-Tabarani in Al-Mu‟jim Al-Awsat.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah and Ad-Daaraqutni.
3
See. Dr. Wahbah Az-Zuhayli, Al-Fiqh Al-Islami wa Adillatuh, vol. 7, pg. 194; see
also Hashiyyat ibn „Abideen vol. 2, pg 407.
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Article (54)
The Right to Stipulate Conditions in the Marriage Contract
During the execution of the marriage contract, the wife
may stipulate any conditions on her husband that she feels will
assure her comfort or meet her needs, so long as the conditions
are permissible and do not contradict the essence of the
marriage contract. For example, she may stipulate the right to
divorce herself without negating the man‟s right to divorce, or
she may stipulate that he cannot force her to leave the country
or take another wife. Likewise, she may stipulate the right to
work outside of the house, and it is up to her to decide the
consequence for any violation of the conditions she stipulates.
The man also has the same right to add conditions; such as
stipulating that she will live with him in his family‟s home, or
that she will travel with him to wherever he works.
This Article discusses the stipulations that supplement the
marriage contract, their types, and their rulings:
1. These conditions include those that must be fulfilled, as they
are requirements and aims of the contract, and do not change
any of the rulings of Shari‟ah; for example a wife‟s
stipulation that her husband shall treat her in an equitable
manner, and that he shall not be negligent in fulfilling her
rights; or the husband‟s stipulation that no one shall enter his
home without his permission... and other similar
stipulations.
2. There are also conditions that must not be fulfilled as they
negate the essence of the contract, however, the contract
remains valid and effective; for example a man‟s stipulation
that he will not have marital relations with his wife. This
and other similar conditions are invalid because they
contradict the essence and aims of the contract, and they
deny rights that are made obligatory by virtue of the
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
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1
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bukhari, and Sa‟eed ibn Mansoor related it in its
connected form in his Sunnan.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari
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Article (55)
Easing the Costs of Marriage
Islamic Shari‟ah forbids making the dowry excessively
expensive or making material issues extremely difficult, to the
extent that the marriage becomes a bartering transaction for
material things as doing so lowers the woman‟s distinguished
position and the value of the marital relationship, which is a
non-material bond built on tranquility, love, and mercy.
This Article discusses way that Islamic Shari‟ah has eased
the costs of marriage by prohibiting people from making the dowry
excessively expensive or making the conditions related to material
issues extremely difficult. This was previously mentioned in Clause
(4) of Article (22) of Section One of Chapter II. The difference
between the two places where they are mentioned is that Article
(22) states that this is considered one of the obligations of the
Muslim community and a sign of its concern for the interest of the
group, wherein the guardian takes the place of the community by
taking the measures that assure that this obligation will be fulfilled.
The issue that has been mentioned here is a religious pursuit that is
encouraged by Shari‟ah confirming the Muslim community‟s
obligations and that the individual adheres to it when getting
married.
***
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Section Three
Regulations for the Relationship Between the
Spouses
Article (56)
General Equality Between the Spouses Except in Specific Matters
The general principle in Islam is total equality between
men and women, and it is stipulated by Shari‟ah in most of
life‟s affairs. The exception to this principle is that each of
them are responsible for some duties that the other cannot
perform due to the nature of their physical or psychological
constitution, or their personal characteristics.
There is nothing in Shari‟ah that prohibits dividing the
social burdens between the man and the woman in a manner
that achieves the interest of the family and the society.
This Article discusses Islam‟s general principle of equality
between men and women, except in those affairs that are particular
to each sex. These affairs have been previously mentioned in
Articles (4) and (5) of Section Two of Chapter I. They are also
mentioned in Sections (6), (7), (8), and (9) of Section Three of the
Chapter I.
***
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Article (57)
Moral Values and Manners
On the basis of this general principle that has been
mentioned in Article (56), the marital relationship is built on a
number of moral values, manners, and Shari‟ah regulations:
1. Mutual love, mercy, trust, and cooperation in times of
difficulty, as well as times of ease.
2. Living together with equity, kind treatment, and respect
for human dignity
3. Full partnership in the affairs of marital life that are
built on mutual consent, mutual consultation and the
concept that each spouse is considered a part of the
other; a completion of the other person and the other
person‟s mission in marital and social life.
This Article discusses the moral virtues and manners that
govern the marital relationship. It mentions:
1. Love, mercy, and trust, and cooperation in times of
difficulty as well as in times of ease:
- Love and mercy have been previously in part in Article
(17) of the Section Five of Chapter I. Further clarification
and details regarding the meaning of love and mercy are
forthcoming in Section Four of Chapter III in Articles (62),
(63), (64), (69), (73), and (76).
- With regard to mutual trust Allah the Exalted says:
ْ ِّ دضَ لمند د ِ َ َيَأَيدُّه ددآَ لَ د ِديي َ َ ُددو َ جتِ ِ ددو َََّثِ د
ََإُثٌَوال َ دري ََّد د َ َ لمند د ِّ َإ ننَََد ْع د
ً ُ َْ َ َ َ َ
)21 8 ) انحجزاث نو ُن ََِت ن
O you who have believed, avoid much [negative]
assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do
not spy or backbite each other… (49: 12)
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1
Spying in this context means to look for other people‟s flaws and hidden affairs
where as eavesdropping refers to listening to such things.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
and the wording is from Al-Bukhari.
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Article (58)
Women‟s Competence and Independence of Person
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, women enjoy total
religious and legal competence; her will is to be respected, she is
independent in her financial liability, and she maintains her
own family name.
This Article addresses women‟s full competence with
respect to the law and to the religion.
The meaning of competence in general language and as a
specific term:
Competence refers to a person‟s being fit and able to
perform a certain task. It is used in the field of personal status and
civil rights with the same meaning, but with a particularity that
corresponds to the nature of the field. Originally, competence is
part of the laws of personal status that stem from the provisions of
Islamic Shari‟ah, and then later, it was transferred to civil law. 1
The term is used in Islamic jurisprudence to indicate that the
person has certain characteristics that are defined by Islamic
Shari‟ah, by virtue of which he becomes qualified and fit to be held
responsible to adhere to the commands and prohibitions of
Shari‟ah, and their corollary rights and duties, and to take actions in
a manner that is recognized by Shari‟ah. The term is used in the
field of positive civil law in almost the same manner; i.e., the legal
competence of the person to have rights established for him and
obligations assigned to him, as well as the ability to carry out an
action which results in a certain effect as determined by the law.
Types of Competence
There are two types of competence: Competence of
Entitlement and Competence to Dispose. Competence of
1
Al-Wajeez fi Sharh Al-Qanoon Al-Madani, Dr. „Abd ar-Razzaq as-Sanhoori, Dar An-
Nahdah Al-‟Arabiyyah, 1966, pg. 94 and the following pages.
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competence.
Thus, total competence is when both of these types of
competence are completely manifested. Limited competence, on the
other hand, refers to the two types of competence before one, or
both of them, is manifested to its full extent.
Thus, the stipulation upon which competence of entitlement is
contingent is being human, whereas competence to dispose is
contingent on the ability to reason. As neither of these attributes
can be revoked from a women unless she is deficient in these two
attributes; the first of which cannot be negated under any
circumstance, and the second of which is only negated by insanity
or mentally disabled.
Women‟s Autonomous Financial Liability1
On the basis of the aforementioned principles regarding
competence, women also have complete autonomous financial
liability that is no less than the financial liability of men. Thus, she
has the right to own all types of property, whether it is moveable or
unmovable property or currency, in exactly the same manner as
men.
Because the woman is described as being human, this means
that she has a liability that is the basis for her competence of
entitlement, and this competence is established for her from the
moment she is born and cannot be revoked until she dies.
Considering the fact that the woman is qualified to be
assigned Shari‟ah obligations, this means that she has competence
to dispose, on the basis of which she is held accountable for
Shari‟ah obligations, and holds others accountable for her rights,
and in this aspect, the woman is like the man in both competence of
1
Liability is an intangible attribute of a given person to which all the rights pertinent to
him are connected. From that perspective, it is strictly personal, in the sense that it is
directly connected with the person himself, as opposed to his property or wealth.
Liability is unlimited in its application; thus it applies to all rights whether financial
or otherwise, regardless of the type or quantity. Just as it relates to people‟s financial
rights, it also relates to the work that is due from a person, such as the work of an
employee, and religious duties such as prayer, fasting, vows, and other obligations.
See Mustafa Ahmad Ar-Razzaq, Al-Madhkhul Al-Fiqhi Al-‟Aam, vol. 3, pg. 181.
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1
According to scholars of Fiqh, engaging in transactions refers to the voluntary action
of a person by which results in Shari‟ah rulings, or it can also me an every action or
word that effects an obligation or a result. From this, it is understood that there are
two major elements in transactions: (1.) An action: whether it be a deed or spoken
words (2.) A result that is the effect of this action.
An example of this is a sale; for the deed resulted in an effect which is that the seller
takes the price and the buyer takes ownership of the product that was sold. Likewise,
divorce is considered a transaction, in which the action results in separation of the
two spouses. Thus, financial transactions refer to the transactions that are related to
assets and which produce a Shari‟ah recognized effect; i.e. that it‟s effect takes place
with regard to the money or property, whether the action is by words or deeds. In the
case that the effect doesn‟t involve assets, then it is a non -financial transaction, such
as in the case of divorce.
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32)
He also says:
َآسد د ْدُُْْت ٍ ِ ُُ َدورُف ن َوأَُْتِ ددْو َََد ْ د د
َ يَِبَعْ د ُدْوفَوإنَتدَ َع ُ َ ُج د
ُ وف ن َأ
ُ ُ فَ ددإ ْنَأ َْر َْد د عْ َ َلَ ُُ د ْد يَفَ ددآت
)4 8 (انطالقْ ُع َلَ ُ َأُ ْخ َْى ِ ْ َفنُتد
ْ َ
… And if they breastfeed for you, then give them
their payment and confer among yourselves in the
acceptable way; but if you are in discord, then there
may breastfeed for the father another woman. (65:
6)
There are other such verses of the Qur‟an, and their meanings
inform that the woman can enter into a contract to be hired to
breastfeed a child for a certain amount of money, and thus all other
Shari‟ah sanctioned transactions are judged by drawing an
analogous conclusion with the woman‟s hiring herself to breastfeed
a child.
Allah the Exalted also says:
ٍ ِ ِ
ْ ا َِِبَآَأ
)21 8: (انُسا ٍَ َْوَ َدي َ ِ َ ْ َََد ْعكَو ِ نيَيُو
… after any bequest they [may have] made or
debt… (4: 12)
This verse clearly indicates that it is permissible for a woman to
make a bequest, and that the execution of her bequest supersedes
the division of the inheritance between the inheritors. The words
“or debt” incorporate the meaning that she may take a loan, and this
proves for the woman‟s competence to conduct financial
transactions.
Women‟s Financial Transactions in the Prophetic Traditions
There is a narration regarding a slave woman named
Bareerah (may Allah be pleased with her) who contracted an
agreement with her masters to purchase her freedom. She asked
„A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) to help her, which she
agreed to do. However Bareerah‟s masters stipulated that the
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1
A bond between two people, such as the bond of lineage, that is caused by freeing of a
slave. This bond involves rights and obligations on each party. The rights include
that the person who freed the slave has the right to inherit from the freed slave if he
does not have any other inheritors.
2
Ahmad ibn „Ali ibn Hajar Al-‟Asqalani, Fath Al-Baari Sharh Saheeh Al-Bukhari, vol.
5, pg. 241.
3
Ahmad ibn „Ali ibn Hajar Al-‟Asqalani, Fath Al-Baari Sharh Saheeh Al-Bukhari, vol.
7, pg. 21.
4
Saheeh hadith; reported by Al-Bukhari.
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Article (59)
The Man‟s Responsibility for the Family
The man has been given the responsibility of qiwaamah
over the family. Being that the family is a social unit comprised
of several members, there must necessarily be a leader,
otherwise the family will suffer deterioration in its affairs and
its constitution. By virtue of their innate nature and physical
and psychological constitution, men are qualified to bear the
requirements and difficulties of this responsibility. This
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and Abu Dawood. In his
book, Fath Al-Baari, Al-Haafith ibn Hajar says: this hadith was used as evidence for
the permissibility of women giving charity from her wealth without her husband‟s
permission.” See: Ahmad bin Ali bin Hajar Al-Asqalaani, Fath Al-Baari Sharh
Saheeh Al-Bukhaari, vol. 2, pg. 992.
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Article (60)
The Woman‟s Responsibility for Her Home
Islam has assigned a type of responsibility to women that
suits her nature and her physical and psychological
constitution. It considers her to be a guardian and thus, along
with her husband, she is responsible for the affairs of the home
and the children that she looks after. This responsibility is
important to both the family as well as the entire society, and it
is no less important than the man‟s responsibility. In fact, the
woman‟s responsibility has an even greater effect on the morale
and morality of the family than the man‟s.
This Article clarifies that the woman has been given a form
of responsiblity that suits her nature and physical and psychological
constitution, as without doubt, the woman has an important and
distinguished function that Allah the Exalted designated for her,
which is the function of pregnancy and motherhood, and the ability
to raise the children and be patient with them and to bear the
difficulties of the consecutive stages of life. This is a function that
the man cannot perform, and it is the most distinguished duty,
despite the fact that some people try to degrade its position.
Without it, the continuity of offspring would be cut off, and the
wells from which humanity springs would become dry. More
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importantly, the mother is the one who nurses her child with the
milk of compassion and care that spreads through the child‟s entire
being and its effect remains with him until he grows up. Also, it is
the mother who cares for the child, raises him, and disciplines his
behavior and manners along with her husband if he is present, and
by herself if he is not. The woman is also the lady and queen of the
house, and her function in looking after the household members
and preparing it for tranquility and peace and rest and love is a
great and critical function. It was related from „Abdullah bin
„Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) that he heard the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) say:
All of you are guardians and are responsible for
your wards. The ruler is a guardian and the man
is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian
who is responsible for her husband‟s house and
his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and
are responsible for your wards.1
Likewise, a famous line of Arabic poetry states:
The mother is a school, if you prepare her properly, You will
prepare an entire nation of good character.
This function, duty, and specialty ability with which Allah
has distinguished the woman is necessary to assure the continuity
of the family, which is the basic nucleus of the society, and the
pillar of its cohesion, strength and wellbeing. If she abandons this
function and duty, following the trends that are encouraged by
those who aim to corrupt the society, it is sure to destroy the family
and the society over the long run.
***
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood and At-
Tirmidhi.
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Section Four
Mutual Marital Rights and Responsibilities
Article (61)
Teaching Youth the Islamic Principles Related to Marriage
It is imperative to teach young men and women the
principles of Islam and its values, manners, and foundations
that pertain to marriage, the affairs related to the interaction
between the spouses, and the means of creating a righteous and
successful marital and family life.
This Article points out the importance of teaching young
men and women the principles of Islam that pertain to marriage and
its role in creating a righteous and successful marital and family
life. This responsibility is to be shouldered by the state and all
community institutions by spreading awareness and instilling
adherence to these values and principles within people. „Abdullah
bin „Umar, (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the
Prophet said:
All of you are guardians and are of you are
responsible for your wards. The ruler is a guardian
and the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a
guardian who is responsible for her husband‟s house
and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and
are responsible for your wards.1
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood and At-
Tirmidhi.
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Article (62)
Cooperation in Marital Responsibilities
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Article (63)
Striving for Understanding and Avoiding Conflict
Islamic Shari‟ah encourages each spouse to understand
the nature of the other party and to be aware of the innate
physical, and psychological differences between them.
Likewise, they should also recognize the common traits that
they share. In order to achieve a successful marital life,
Shari‟ah encourages the spouses to emphasize the areas of
agreement and the positive aspects in the other party, while
limiting the causes of disagreement, searching for middle
solutions that both parties can agree to, and avoiding stubborn
conflicts, provocation, being over-jealous, and trying to defeat
the other party.
1
See Article (69) of Part I of Section Four of this Chapter (III).
2
See Clause (1) of Article (57) of Section Three of this Chapter (III).
3
See Clause (3) of Article (57) of Section Three of this Chapter (III)
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Article (64)
Mutual Respect
Each of the spouses shall:
1. Respect the other party, appreciating the daily efforts
that he undertakes and his position in the family, aiding
him with his burdens and other affairs, and respecting
his relatives and giving them the same consideration that
he would give to his own blood relatives.
2. Take the other party‟s feelings into consideration and
avoid anything that might injure the dignity of the other
party or that person‟s family, whether in secret or in
public, and particularly in front of someone from his or
her family.
This Article clarifies the importance of mutual respect
between the spouses.
* Clause (1):
1
See Clause (1) of Article (69) of Part II of Section Four of this Chapter (III).
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1
Article (69) of Part II of Section Four of this Chapter (III).
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tabarani in Al-Mu‟jam Al-Kabeer.
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- Helping each other with their daily duties and other affairs:
Each spouse is a life partner with respect to the other, and a helper
to assist him in his duties. This is the woman‟s nature with her
husband, and the husband‟s with his wife; sharing, cooperating,
providing mutual assistance and supporting the other person in his
work and his life. In this way the family becomes stronger and
more cohesive, and it resists breaking up and dissolution. This is
demonstrated by the things that the female Companions of the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) used to do with
their husbands during the time of the Prophet (may blessings and
peace be upon him), such as in the case of Asmaa‟ the daughter of
Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with them) who said:
When Az-Zubayr married me, he didn‟t have any land,
wealth, slaves, or anything else other than a camel to
get water and a horse. I used to provide fodder and
water for his horse, and patch up his leather bucket. I
would also make dough, but I didn‟t know how to bake
well so the women of the Ansaar used to bake for me.
They were truly good women. I used to carry the grain
on my head from Az-Zubayr‟s plot of land, which the
Prophet had allocated to him to cultivate. It was about
three farsakh (about two miles or eight kilometers)
1
from me.
This meaning is also indicated by the hadith about men helping
with the housework when the wife leaves for work, in Article (72)
of this Section.
- Another of the meanings and values that are mentioned in
Clause (1) that should be adhered to by each of the spouses is
respect for the other spouse‟s relatives, and considering them like
his own blood relatives. Respecting the man‟s family and his
relatives is part of respecting and appreciating him, and anything
that belittles them belittles him as well. Likewise, the husband
should respect the wife‟s family and give them the position that
they deserve, for they are his wife‟s roots and they are her second
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari
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Saheeh hadith, reported Muslim.
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ِ ِ ِ
َ َإس َنددآ ًََ َوَِددي يَ ل ُقد ْدَْ ىَو لَْدَتد
َدآَى ْ ِ َِْوالَتُ ْش د َُِّْو ََِد َ َ د ْدًئآَوِ ل َْو ل د َكي َو ْعُ ِ د ُكو َ ن
ََِ ِِ دآس ِ َ ِ ْلَْ د ِ َو َْد ِ َ ل نن د ِ صد َذ يَ ل ُقد ْدَْ ىَو ْلَددآ ِرَ لُُ د ِ َو ل ن ِ و لْمنددآَِّ ِاَو ْلددآ ِر
َ ََ
)14 8: (انُسا ور ِ ن
ًَ آََنْلَ َُ ْتَأَ ُْيَآنُ ُُ ْ يَإن َ نََِالَ ُ ُّ َََ َََّآ َنَنيُْتَآالَفَ ُخ َ َوَ
Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him,
and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans,
the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther
away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and
those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah
does not like those who are self-deluding and
boastful. (4: 36)
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) said, “Whoever
believes in Allah and the last day shall maintain ties of kinship
[with his relatives].1 It was also reported by Abu Hurayrah that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said:
Verily Allah created all of creation, and when He
finished, the ties of kinship came forward and said,
“This is the place for anyone who seeks refuge from
the severing [of ties of kinship].” He [Allah] said,
“Yes. Are you not satisfied that I should keep relations
with whoever maintains your ties of kinship and sever
them with whoever severs your [ties of kinship]?”
They [the ties of kinship] said, “Certainly.”
Thereupon He said, “So it will be for you.”
Recite if you wish [the Words of Allah]:
ََدآَ ُُ ْ ي ِ ِ َفدهددََ َعند د دت يَإنََت ددولن دت يَأَنَتُد ْف ِند د ُكو َِبَ ألَر
َ ضَوتُد َق ّ ُعددو َأَ ْر َس دْ ْ ُْ َ ْ ُْ َ ْ َ
)11- 11 8(دمحم آرُف َْ ي ِ َ ِأُولَئ
َصَ ََْكَ لَيي َ َلَ َعَد ُه ُ يَ نَُِفَأَ َ نم ُه ْ يَوأَ ْع َمىَأ ْ
Would you then, if you were given the authority,
do mischief in the land, and sever your ties of
kinship? *Such are they whom Allah has cursed, so
that He has made them deaf and blinded their
sight. (47: 22-23)2
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Article (65)
Rules for Handling Disagreement Between the Spouses
1. It is not permissible for the spouses to curse or insult
each other or to say things that the other party hates to
hear.
2. In cases of disagreement between the spouses, it is not
permissible for either spouse to stop speaking to the
other for more than three days, and the better of them is
he who starts talking to the other first by saying “salaam
alaykum” (peace be upon you). Also, it is not permissible
for either of them to desert the other in bed unless there
is a Shari‟ah sanctioned reason to do so, and according
to the conditions that are mentioned in the Shari‟ah
rulings.
3. No matter the extent of the disagreement between the
spouses, it is not permissible for either spouse to resort to
beating in violation of the limits of the Shari‟ah rulings
that have been stipulated. Anyone who violates this
prohibition will be held responsible civilly and
criminally.
4. Care should be taken to keep the disagreement between
the spouses, away from the children. They should not
involve family members and acquaintances in their
1
Article (69) of Part II of Section Four of this Chapter (III).
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in his Muwatta‟ and Ahmad in his Musnad.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah.
3
Hasan hadith, Reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi, and the wording is from him.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood and At-
Tirmidhi)
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim and Ibn Maajah.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and An-Nasaa‟i.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and the wording is from both of
them, and it was also reported by Ibn Maajah.
2
Abu Sulayman Al-Khattabi, Ma„aalim As-Sunan, vol. 3, p. 69.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Hibbaan, and Al-
Hakim.
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Allah be pleased with them) that the men were prohibited from
beating the women, after which they complained about the women
to the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) so he
allowed them to beat the women, but then he said, “And the best
of you will not beat them.” 1
With regard to the Words of Allah the Almighty:
ِ َ وف ن َِب َ لْم ِ
ُ َُِْ ْ
َ وف ن ْ َو
َ ضآج ِع َ ُ ُْ ُُ َو ْف ُ ُ َو للنِي َََتَآفُونَ َنُشُوَزُف ن َفَعم
َ وف ن
: (النساء ري ِ ِ َ َس ِِ لًَإِ نن َ َفِإ ْن َأَ َط ْعَ ُُ ْ ي َ َف
َ لََتد ْ ِدغُو َ َع َنْل ْ ِه ن
ً ِ َََّ َهللا َََّآ َن َ َعنْلًّآ
)43
… But those [wives] from whom you fear
arrogance [first] advise them; [then if they persist],
forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But
if they obey you [once more], seek no means against
them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. (4:
34)
the wording of this verse clearly indicates that beating was
legislated as an exception to deal with cases which other means
were unsuccessful in treating and beating agrees with human nature
that progresses from gentleness to harshness to violence.
Thus it is apparent from the framework of the rules that are
mentioned in the Sunnah and the saying of the Messenger (may
blessings and peace be upon him) “The best of you will not beat
their wives” that beating, as it is mentioned in the verse of the
Qur‟an is something which is permissible; not mandatory or
recommended. On the basis of this interpretation, „Ataa‟ (may
Allah have mercy upon him) said, “A husband shall not beat his
wife, but he may get angry with her.”2 Ibn Al-Arabi said, “The
statement of „Ataa‟ indicates his knowledge and his understanding
of Shari‟ah, as well as his familiarity with sources of juristic
reasoning. He realized that the use of the imperative here [and
strike them] is an order that indicates permissibility, and he also
deduced that this is abhorred on the basis of other sources such as
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Sa‟d in At-Tabaqaat, and Al-Baihaqi in As-Sunnan.
2
Ibn Al-Arabi, Akhaam Al-Quran, vol. 1, pp. 420.
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1
Hasan Hadith, reported by Ibn Sa„d in At-Tabaqaat and Al-Bayhaqi in As-Sunnan.
2
Ibn Al-Arabi, Akhaam Al-Quran, vol. 1, pp. 420.
3
Ash-Shafi‟i, Al-Umm, vol. 5, pp. 194.
4
See: Kuwaiti Encyclopedia of Islamic Jurisprudence, vol. 10, pp. 23.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and the wording is from him, and
Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
[T.N. Siwaak : A branch used to clean the teeth].
4
Saheeh narration, reported by Ibn Jareer in his exegesis of the Qur‟an.
5
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Sa‟d in At-Tabaqaat, and Al-Baihaqi in As-Sunnan
6
See Al-Mawsou‟ Al-Fiqhiyyah, Kuwait, vol. 10, p. 22.
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1
See Tafseer At-Tahreer wa At-Tanweer, Sheikh At-Taahir bin „Ashoor, vol. 2, pg. 402.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Sa‟d in At-Tabaqaat, and Al-Baihaqi in As-Sunnan.
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Article (66)
Abiding by Islamic Manners
Each of the spouses shall:
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and the wording is from
Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and At-Tirmidhi, and the wording is
from him
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1
Saheeh chain of narration, reported by Al-Hakim.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Firyaabi, and reported with a hanging chain of
narration by Al-Bukhari.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Abd Ar-Razzaaq in Al-Musannaf.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and An-Nasaa‟i.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported Ahmad, Muslim, and Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from
Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said,
“The most complete believers in faith are those who have the
best manners and the best of you is he who is best to his
wives.” 2 „Abdullah ibn Al-Mubaarak (may Allah have mercy upon
him) was reported to have said that the “best manners” are “To
have a smiling face, to be generous, and to refrain from causing
harm.”3
*Clause (2):
This Clause states that each spouse should teach the other, or
enable him to learn whatever he needs to know to lead a good life
in this world and in the Hereafter. The elements of cooperation in
righteousness, piety, amiability, compassion and integration
between the spouses have already explained in Articles (5), (17),
(62), (63), and (64). Further explanation will come in Articles (69),
(73), and (76).
*Clause (3):
This Clause urges each spouse to be organized, clean, and
pure inside and out. This precept is based on a number of texts:
Allah the Almighty Says:
ََُر ُسوال ََِّ ُُ ْ ي َيَد ْتدنْلُو َ َعنْلَ ُُْ ْ ي َ ََيتَِآ َويدَُزَِّّ ُُ ْ ي َويدَُعنْلِّ ُمُُ ي ِ
َ ََّ َمآ َأ َْر َسنْلَْآ َف ُُ ْ ي
)232 8 (انبمزةن َ آبَو ْاِ ُْ َم َيَويدَُع ّنْلِ ُم ُُ يَ نَآَََلََْت ُُونُوََتد ْع َنْل ُموَ لَُت
ِ
Just as We have sent among you a messenger from
yourselves reciting to you Our verses and purifying
you and teaching you the Book and wisdom and
teaching you that which you did not know. (2: 151)
In fact, Allah even swears eleven successive times, which is unlike
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i
and Ad-Daarimi.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-
Daarimi.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
5
Weak hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
6
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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ََوتُ ْكلُو َِِبَآَإِ ََل َ ْاُ نُ ِآم َلَِتأْ َُّنْلُو َفَ ِْي ًقآ ِ
َ َِ ََت َُّنْلُو َأ ََْ َو لَ ُُ ْ ي َََد ْدَ ُُ ْ ي َ ِ لَْ ِآط
َْ َوال
)266 8 (انبمزةن َ َوأَندْتُ ْ يََتد ْعنْلَ ُمو ِ َِ ْ َأ ََْ َو ِلَ ل
َ نآسَ ِ ِْإل ُِْث
And do not consume one another‟s wealth unjustly
or send it [in bribery] to the rulers in order that
[they might aid] you [to] consume a portion of the
wealth of the people in sin, while you know [it is
unlawful] .(2: 188)
َِ َِب َ َ ُ ٍوم َوَشمآ ِل
َْ ََِ ٍَّ َ َو ِظَْت ٍ ي ِ ِّ آب َ ل
ِ ش َم
َ َ ّ آب َ ل ُ ََ ْ َآل َََآَأ ُ ََ ْ َ َوأ
ِ ِ ٍ ٍ
8 (انىالعتا ََ ََ ْتد َْف
ُك َ َإِ دن ُه ْ ي َََّآنُو َ َند ْ ِ ََ َ َذلََوال َََّ ِْ ٍي
َ َالَ َ ِردََ ْ ُموم
)23- 22
And the companions of the left what are the
companions of the left? * [They will be] in
scorching fire and scalding water * And a shade of
black smoke * Neither cool nor beneficial. * Indeed
they were, before that, indulging in affluence. (56:
41-45)
In the explanation of this verse it is mentioned, “Before this
punishment, they were extravagant in their enjoyment of the
pleasure of this life.” Allah the Exalted says:
ِ ِ ْك َوالََتد ِن ْهآ َ َُّ نَ َ ل ِ
َوَآ
ً ُن َ َفدَتد ْق ُع َك َََنْل
َْ َ ُ ْ َ َ الَِت َع َْ َيَ َك َك َََغْنْلُولَيً َإِ ََل َعُ ُق
ْ َ َو
)17 8: (األرسزا ور ً ن
ُ َُّْم
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim and the wording is from Al-
Bukhari.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim with similar wording.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported Ahmad, Muslim, and Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from
Muslim.
3
Article (38) of Part II of Section Three of Chapter II.
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Article (67)
Maintaining Good Relations with People; Particularly with
Neighbors and Relatives
Each of the spouses shall:
1. Take care to maintain the standards of the manners of
Shari‟ah when visiting, meeting, and interacting with
others.
2. Take care to maintain good relations with people,
particularly neighbors, relatives, and kin. Likewise, each
spouse should consider the other‟s relatives to be as close
to them as they are to the other person.
3. Strive to maintain good relations with neighbors,
particularly by not bothering them with any form of
annoyance or noise.
4. Take care of their health, avoid bad eating habits, and
strive to use national products and boycott enemy
products.
This Article explains the manners to be observed by the
family in its relationship with others, such as relatives and
neighbors.
* Clause (1):
This Clause introduces the importance of adhering to the
manners that Shari‟ah sanctioned with regard to visiting people in
general. Some of these manners include asking for permission
before visiting anyone, avoiding intermixing between men and
women, and abiding by Shari‟ah‟s standards of dress during the
visit. These precepts are based on a number of texts:
*Asking permission before visiting:
Allah Says:
ََتتُو َ ل ُِد ُو َ ََِ َظُ ُهوِرَفآ َولَ ُِ ن َ ِ ن
َلا َََ ِ َ نتد َقى َوأْتُو َْ لا َ ِِبَن
ُّ ِ َ س
َ ْ َول
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ََنَتأْ ِذنُو َََّ َمآَ ْسَتأْذَ َنَ لَ ِيي َ ََِ َ َند ْ ِنْلِ ِه ْ ي ِ
ْ َْ وإذَ َََدنْلَ َغَ ألَطْ َفآ ُلََ ُُ ُ يَ اُنْلُ َ يَ َفدنْل
)37 8 (انُىرُ ٌَ ي ِ كَيد ِدِاَ نَِلَ ُُ يَ َيتَِِو نَِ َعنْلِ يَس ِ
َ ٌ ُ َ ْ ُ ُ ّ َُ َ ََّ َيل
And when the children among you reach puberty,
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
4
Hassan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and At-Tirmidhi.
5
[T.N. It should be noted that all references to the prohibition of men and women
intermingling are specific to those men and women who are not permanently
forbidden to marry each other.]
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1
Hassan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, and by Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Abu Dawood, the wording is from
him.
3
Al-‟Asqalaani, Ibn Hajar. Fath Al-Baari, vol.2, pp. 336.
4
Saheeh hadith, narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
5
Saheeh hadith, narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
5
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
6
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah and the wording is from him.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
3
Hassan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, and the wording is that of At-
Tirmidhi.
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1
Hassan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, and the wording
is of At-Tirmidhi.
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Article (68)
The Obligation to Bear the Expenses of Marriage
Islamic Shari‟ah obliges the husband alone, to pay the
financial support and dowry of his wife and furnish her house.
The wife is not required to bear any of these expenses unless
she willingly agrees to do so out of the kindness of her heart,
however, in such a case, she maintains her right to anything
that she contributes.
This Article clarifies the financial obligations for which the
husband is solely responsible. They include:
* Marriage expenses:
This includes the procedures for executing and documenting
the marriage contract, and expenses related to the wedding, such as
the banquet, etc. The wife is not required to pay for any of these
expenses unless she agrees to. Even if it is a common custom for
the wife to contribute to these costs, if she refuses despite the fact
that it is customary, then it is not permissible to coerce her as any
tradition that contradicts Shari‟ah is invalid and is not recognized
by Shari‟ah. In fact, it is proven that the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) bore all of the expenses of his
marriage, and that he commanded others to do the same. This point
has already been mentioned in the commentary on Article (53) of
Section Two of Chapter III.
*The Wife‟s Dowry:
The dowry is the money or property which is due to the wife
from the husband upon execution of the marriage contract or
consummation of the marriage. The dowry, which is an obligation
on the man, not on the woman, becomes obligatory when one of
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari.
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men must also pay this financial right to any woman from
the People of the Book whom he marries. Allah the Almighty Says:
َ ََِ آب ِ ِ ِ
َ صَآ ُ ََ َ َ لَيي َ َأُوتَُو َ لَُت
َ َْ ْم ِ ِ ِ
ُ صَآ ُ ََ َ َ ملُْدََآ َو ل َ َْ ْم ُ و ل
)3 8 (انًائدةَورُف ن ِ
َ ُج
ُ وف ن َأ
ُ َند ْ ِنْل ُُ ْ يَإذَ َ َتد ْدتُ ُم
… And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women
from among the believers and chaste women from
among those who were given the Scripture before
you, when you have given them their due
compensation… (5: 5)
According to this verse, “their due compensation” refers to the
dowry.
It was related in a hadith on the authority of Sahl ibn Sa‟d
(may Allah be pleased with him) that he said:
A woman came to the Messenger of Allah and offered
herself to him [in marriage]. When she had stood for
some time [without receiving an answer] a man stood up
and said, “O Messenger of Allah! Marry her to me if you
have no need of her.” He asked the man if he had
anything to give her as a dowry, and when he replied that
he had nothing but the lower garment that he was
wearing, the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “If you give her your lower garment, then
you will have nothing to wear, so look for something,
even if it is only an iron ring.” After the man went back
to search and found nothing, the Messenger (may
blessings and peace be upon him) asked him whether he
knew any of the Qur‟an. When the man replied that he
knew some chapters, the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) said, “I have married
her to you [provided that you teach her] what you
know of the Qur'an.” 1
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in Al-Muwatta‟, by Ahmad in Al-Musnad, Al-
Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-
Daarimi.
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him) gave the same verdict concerning Barwa‟ bint Waashiq.1 This
narration indicates the validity of the marital contract even if the
dowry is not mentioned or specified therein.
* Limits of the dowry:
There is neither a maximum nor a minimum limit for the
dowry, and everything that is an asset or can be assessed on
monetary basis is permissible to be a dowry; whether it be great or
little, or cash, property, a debt which is due from someone else, or
a benefit. Currently, the dowry is customarily specified as cash.
The evidence for this includes the Words of Allah the Almighty:
)128: (انُساآَوَر َ َ ذَلِ ُُ ْ ي َأَنَتَد ْ ِدَتد ُغو َ ِِب ََْ َو لِ ُُ ي ِ
َ َ َوأُس نَ َلَ ُُ يَ ن
And lawful to you are [all others] beyond these,
[provided] that you seek them [in marriage] with
[gifts from] your property. (4:24)
This verse mentions property in general without restricting it to a
certain amount. The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace
be upon him) also said, “And give her something, even if it is only
an iron ring.”2
Also, Allah the Almighty Says:
ِ ِ
َْ ل
َََت ُخ ُيو ً َ ْ َو َتد ْدتُ ْ ي َإِ ْس َك ُف ن َن
َ آر َ َف َ َوإِ ْنَأ ََر ْد ُُّتَُ ْست ْ ِ َك َل َ َز ْوٍج َ نَ َُآ َن َ َز ْوٍج
)17 8: (انُساَِ ْ َُ َ ْدًئآ
But if you want to replace one wife with another
and you have given one of them a great amount [in
gifts], do not take [back] from it anything. Would
you take it in injustice and manifest sin? (4: 20)
According to this verse, the husband may give his wife a
great amount of money, thereby indicating that there is no
maximum limit to the dowry.
According to Shari‟ah, it is recommended not to ask for
excessive dowries, as it was narrated on the authority of „Umar
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn
Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh narration, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An -Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and
At-Tirmidhi, and the wording is from At-Tirmidhi.
2
Details will be mentioned in Article (70) about expenses in this section of the this
Chapter.
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When the husband prepares the house from his own money,
the houses becomes solely his property, as the wife has already
received a separate dowry and does not contribute to the
preparation of the house. The wife has the right to make use of the
house as long as they continue to be married, on the basis of his
permission for her to do so. This is the opinion of the Hanafi,
Hanbali, and Shafi‟i jurists, and it is legally applicable in Egypt. 1
The wife may contribute to the preparation of the marital
residence according to what is customary among the people, and
the individual circumstances of each home and environment, or
based on an agreement between the parties, with the condition that
the wife has received her dowry. The spouses may agree to
something else, between themselves, as is often done in modern
times. In any case, there should be an agreement and consent
between the two parties with regard to the issue of preparing the
house.
This wife‟s contribution should be voluntary and of her free
will; not an obligation that she is required to fulfill. The things that
she provides are her own property and the husband can only utilize
them with her implicit, if not explicit, permission and consent.
It is common in Muslim countries for the bride‟s family to
help her in preparing and buying the things that she will take with
her to her marital home, out of love for their daughter and their
desire for her to make a good impression in front of people. It was
reported that „Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allah be pleased with him)
said, “The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) provided Fatimah with a velvet garment, a water skin, and a
pillow stuffed with fragrant grasses (for her marital house).”2
Preparing such things for the bride depend on the customs and
traditions, and thus they may differ from one place and time to
another.
All of the items that the wife brings with her to the martial
home belong to her, particularly if the father is the one who
1
Abu Zahrah, Muhammad. Al-Ahwaal Ash-Shakhsiyyah, p. 228.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
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Article (69)
To Be Treated Fairly and with Kindness
Islamic Shari‟ah obliges the husband to treat his wife
equitably and with kindness, and this is achieved through the
following considerations:
1. He should take her nature, the differences in her
upbringing, and her point of view into consideration
and treat her leniently and gently with patience and
clemency, in addition to doing simple things to make
her happy.
2. He should not prevent her from visiting her parents
and mahrams unless it is proven that doing so will
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1
Tafseer Al-Manaar, by Muhammad Rasheed Rida vol. 4, p. 456
2
Ahkam Al-Qur‟an, by Al-Jassaas, vol. II, p. 109 and Al-Jami‟ li Ahk aam Al-Qur‟an,
by Al-Qurtubi, vol. V, p. 97
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim and Ibn Maajah
2
ِ AbdurRahman Al-Mubarakfouri, Tuhfat Al-Ahwadhi bi Sharh Jaami„ At-Tirmidhi,
vol. IV, p. 326
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim
5
Hasan hadith, reported y At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Muslim
2
Hasan hadith, reported by An-Nasaa‟i
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim
4
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi
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1
In Fat-h Al-Baari, Ibn Hajar said, “This means to leaver her as she is in the
framework of permissible matters.”
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad
5
Weak hadith, reported by Ahmad
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fasting and the Prophet and I used to take the bath of for
major ritual purification from a single pot [of water]. 1
„A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) related that one day, the
Messenger of Allah said:
O „Aa‟ish [calling her by her nickname], this is Gabriel
and he sends you his greetings of salaam (peace).”
„A‟ishah said, “And may peace, and Allah‟s mercy and
blessings be on him,” Then, (addressing the Prophet she)
said, “You see what I do not.”2
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said, the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said,
“A believer should not hate a believing woman [i.e. his wife]; if
he dislikes one of her characteristics he will be pleased with
another.”3
* Doing simple things to make her happy:
„A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said:
The Prophet screened me [with his garment] while I was
watching the Abyssinians who were playing with their
spears in the courtyard of the mosque. [I continued
watching] until I was satisfied. So you may deduce from
this event how a little girl [who has not reached the age
of puberty] who is eager to enjoy amusement should be
treated in this respect.4
Also, she said that:
Abu Bakr came to my house while two young girls from Al-
Ansaar were singing 5 the tales of the Ansaar about the day of
Bu‟ath 6 , but they were not singers. Abu Bakr said
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Muslim
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa‟i, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim
5
Al-Bukhari‟s narration is worded, “they were beating a duff (a type of drum)” and in
the narration of Muslim, “They were singing with a drum” and in the narration of
An-Nasaa‟i, “with two drums”.
6
The day of the battle between the two tribes, Al-Aws and Al-Khazraj.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and Ahmad
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn
Maajah
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amusement.
* Clause (2):
This Clause refers to the issue of oppressive use of one‟s
1
right . A husband should not use his authority and right arbitrarily
to unjustly prevent his wife from visiting her family, unless it is
proven that doing so will result in some harm that is recognized by
Shari‟ah, in which case, it is allowed for him to prevent her from
visiting them to the extent that is necessary to avoid that harm,
according to the basis of the fiqh principle.
Oppressive arbitrary use of this right to prevent the wife
from visiting family is not allowed, especially in cases where it is a
duty to visit, such as in the case of the wife‟s parents in order to
fulfill her obligation of being good to them, or if they need
someone to visit them due to being ill and not having anyone to
look after them except their daughter [the wife]. In such a case, she
should visit them and check in on them every once in a while, and
it is not permissible for the husband to prevent her from doing so
unless he has a valid reason under Shari‟ah. According to Hanafi
and Maliki scholars, if he forbids her from visiting them without a
Shari„ah recognized reason to prevent her, then it is permissible for
her to disobey him and to visit them if there is a need for her to do
so.2
It was reported by Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with
him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “You will conquer Egypt which is a land where the
qirat is used, so treat the people well. They have the right to
security and ties of kinship.” In another narration it was related,
“When you conquer it, be good to its people. They have a right
to security and ties of kinship,” or he said, “a right to security
and ties of marriage.” 3 Scholars explained this, saying, “The ties
of kinship come from the fact that Hajar, the mother of Isma‟il, was
1
“Oppressive use” means to use one's right in a manner that is harmful to others.
2
See: Kamal Ad-Deen ibn Al-Hamam, Fath Al-Qadeer, vol. 3, pg. 335. Also see, Al-
Muwaafiq, Al-Taaj wal-Ikleel by Mukhtaar Al-Khaleel, vol. 4, pg. 185.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported Muslim.
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from them, and the ties of marriage come from the fact that
Maria, the mother of Ibrahim, (the son of the Messenger of Allah)
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was from them.”. This
hadith indicates the significance of love, respect, and appreciation
for the relatives of one‟s wife.
This also applies to the wife‟s right to visit her mahrams, but
at wider intervals as their rights over her are less than her parents‟.
The interval is determined according to custom and habits.
* Clause (3):
This Clause mentions that being moderate in one‟s jealousy
with respect to his wife is part of kind and just treatment.
Moderation in this sense is to achieve balance in all affairs, without
favoring one side over another, and this is the justice that Allah
ordered in His Noble Book:
َ ِشآ ِ ِآن َوإيتآ
َ َْ َذيَ لقُ َْْ ى َويَد ْد َهىَ َع ِ َ ل َف َ ِن َ إلسْ ََي َُ ُْ َ ِ ل َْع ْك ِل َو َإ نن َ ن
َْ ِ
)77 8 (انُحمن َ ْم َُ َِْو لَْ ِد ْغيَِيَِعمُ ُُ ْ يَلَ َعنْلن ُُ ْ يََت َينَّ ُْو
ُول
Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and
giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad
conduct and oppression. He admonishes you that
perhaps you will be reminded. (16: 90)
Justice requires giving everything its due, without excess or
deficiency. This issue is also important as being excessively jealous
may lead to suspicion and accusing the others, including the wife,
of things that they did not commit, which, accordingly, leads to bad
results such as disagreement and conflict. This precept is supported
by the hadith that was narrated by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be
pleased with him) who said that the Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) said:
There is jealousy which Allah loves and jealousy which
Allah hates. That w hich Allah loves is jealousy regarding
a matter of doubt, and that which Allah hates is jealousy
regarding something which is not doubtful. 1
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Ibn Maajah; it has supporting hadiths reported
by Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ad-Daarimi
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„Abdullah ibn „Amr ibn Al-‟Aas (may Allah be pleased with him)
said:
Some people from Banu Hashim entered the house of
Asma‟, the daughter of „Umais. When Abu Bakr entered
[and she was his wife at that time] he disapproved of their
presence. He mentioned it to Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) and said, “ I have never
seen anything but good [from my wife]. Thereupon, the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “Verily Allah has made her innocent of all this.”
Then, the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be
upon him) ascended the pulpit and said, “After this day no
man should enter the house of another person in his
absence, unless he is accompanied by one person or two
other people.” 1
Likewise, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that
the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “A Believer becomes jealous and Allah is more jealous
[and angry when his limits are violated].” 2
True and chivalrous men do not lack a sense of jealousy, and
being lax in this characteristic may cause a person to reach the
point that he becomes a characterized by the attribute of dayyathah
(a man who doesn‟t feel any jealousy towards his womenfolk and
condones their immoral and indecent behaviour), which is a
characteristic that is strongly condemned by Islamic Shari‟ah.
„Abdullah ibn „Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the
Messenger of Allah said, “There are three categories of people,
Allah the Almighty will not look to them on the Day of
Resurrection: a person who is undutiful to his parents, a
woman who assumes masculine attributes, and a man who
condones his wife‟s indecent behavior.” 3 In another narration, he
said, “Allah has prohibited three categories of people from
entering Paradise: a person who drinks to the point of
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim and Ahmad
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, and At-Tirmidhi
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa‟i, and Al-Hakim
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Article (70)
The Right to Financial Support
Even if the wife is well off, it is her right to be supported
financially with the food, drink, lodging, clothing, and medical
treatment that suffices her according to the husband‟s financial
situation, neither being extravagant nor stingy, according to the
detailed rulings of Shari‟ah.
This Article clarifies that one of the wife‟s rights over her
husband is financial support. This includes everything that the wife
requires with regard to food, clothing, lodging, hired help, and any
other customary needs.
Scholars have unanimously agreed that it is obligatory for
the husband to provide financial support for his wife whether she is
Muslim, Christian, or Jewish upon the execution of a valid
marriage, and with the condition that she is not defiant and refusing
him his rights. This obligation is confirmed by the Qur‟an, Sunnah,
consensus of scholars, and logic:
* The Qur‟anic evidence:
Allah the Almighty says:
ِ ض
ََوِبَآَأَن َفقُو ٍ ض ُه ْ يَ َعنْلَىَََد ْع
َ نََ نَََُِد ْع ِ ِ ِّ لِْ َجآ ُلَ َند نو َُو َنَ َعنْلَىَ ل
َ نآ ََِبَآَفَض
َ ّ
ِِ
)12 8: (انُساََ َو هل َْ ي ِ
ْ َ ْ َأ
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what
Allah has given one over the other and what they
spend [for maintenance] from their wealth… (4:
34)
َس َإِالن ِ ْود َلَ ُ َ ِر ْزندُه ن َوَِّنوتدُه ن َ ِ لْم ْع
ُ وف َالَ َتُ َُنْلن ِ ُوعنْلَى َ لْمول
ٌ َّ َندَ ْف ُ َ ُ َْ َ ُ َْ َ
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad
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1
Al-Majmu‟: Sharh Al-Muhaththab, printed by Maktabat Al-Irshaad, reviewed by
Najeeb Al-Muti‟i vol. 20, p. 132.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah
2
Al-Umm by Ash-Shafi‟i, vol. 5, p.105
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, and An-
Nasaa‟i
4
Fath Al-Baari by Ibn Hajar vol. 9, p.623.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i,
and Ibn Maajah
2
Fath Al-Baari by Ibn Hajar, vol. 9, p.625.
3
Zad Al-Mi„aad fi Hadyi Khayr Al-‟Ibaad by Ibn Al-Qayyim, Al-Maktabah Al-
Qayyimah, Cairo, vol 4. p. 243 and Al-Ashbah wa An-Nathaa‟ir by Jalal Ad-Din As-
Siyuti, Dar Al-Kutub Al-‟Ilmiyah Beirut, p. 526
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1
Tafseer Al-Qur‟an by Ibn Katheer, vol. 1, p. 291.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An -Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ibn
Hibbaan, and Al-Haakim.
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1
Al-Mufassal fi Ahk aam Al-Mar‟ah wa Al-Bayt Al-Muslim, by „Abdul-Kareem Zidan,
vol. 7, p. 184
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Article (71)
Women‟s Work Outside of the Home
According to the Islamic view, in principle, it is
permissible for women to work outside of the home, though
doing so is not a goal in itself. Rather, it is a means to fulfill
familial and societal interests. Depending on the circumstances
and the situation, working outside the home may be ruled to be
obligatory, recommended, or prohibited. However, in all
situations it is subject to the following regulations:
1. The work must be permissible according to Shari‟ah,
and it must not contradict the interest of the group
and the woman‟s nature.
2. There must be understanding and consent between
the spouses with regard to the limits that define what
is in the best interest of the family, without putting on
airs or exaggeration. Also, the financial relationship
between the spouses should be clarified in the
manner that is mentioned in Article (76).
3. Precedence should be given to the children‟s interest
with regard to their upbringing and providing proper
care for them as they are the pillar of the Muslim
community and the next generation.
4. Islamic moral regulations for men and women should
be followed.
This Article deals with the rulings and regulations related to
woman‟s work. The meaning of work that is intended in this
context is the general meaning which refers to any mental or
physical effort that the woman performs in return for wages or
voluntarily without any return. This Article restricts the work that it
addresses to that which is “outside of her home” and it specifies
that the role of that work within the system of social relations is “a
means to fulfill a specific interest for the family and the society”.
The Article also clarifies that in principle it is permissible for
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women to perform work outside the scope of the home, and that
there is no Shari„ah text prohibiting it. On the contrary, Shari‟ah
texts prove the permissibility of women‟s work outside the home.
Allah says:
ََُوَو َج َك ََِ َدُوِنِِ ي
َ نقُو َن ِ َو َج َك َ َعنْلَ ْ ِ َأُنَيً ََِّ َ َ ل
ْ َنآس َي َ َ َآَوَرَد َََآ َََ ْكيَ َولَ نم
ِ ِ ِ
َ َْ َْأَتد ْ ِا ََت ُيو َد ن َ َن
َََوأََُو َ صك َرَ ِّلْ َعآ ْ ُيَس نَ َي
َ نق ْ َآل َََآَ َخ ْ ُِ ُُ َمآَ َنآَلَتآَالَن
َْت َإِ َنِل ِ ِ آل َر ِ
َ َنزل ّ َ َ ن َقىَ َهلَُمآَ ُُثنََتد َونَل َإِ ََل َ لمّ َِّ َ َفد َق
َ ب َإِ ّّن َل َمآَأ َ َ َفٌَري َ ِِ َََّ خ
ٌ َْ
ِ
ْ َُهآ َُتَْشي َ َعنْلَى َ ْستِ ََْآ َنَآل
َ ت َإِ نن َأَِِب َُ َفَ َُ آ تْ ُ َإِ ْس َكَ ٌَِ ْ َ َخ ٍْري َفَقري
ِ
)13- 11 8 (انمصضتَلََآ َ ْ آَس َق
َ َََ َْ َج ْ كَأَ َوكَلَِ ُْ ِزي َ يَ ْك ُع
And when he came to the well of Madyan, he
found there a crowd of people watering [their
flocks], and he found aside from them two women
driving back [their flocks]. He said, What is your
circumstance? They said, We do not water until the
shepherds dispatch [their flocks]; and our father is
an old man. * So he watered [their flocks] for them;
then he went back to the shade and said, My Lord,
indeed I am, for whatever good You would send
down to me, in need. * Then one of the two women
came to him walking with shyness. She said, Indeed,
my father invites you that he may reward you for
having watered for us… (28: 23-25)
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah
2
Al-Isabah fi Tamyeez As-Sahabah, Ibn Hajar, vol. 7, p. 21
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i
and Ibn Maajah.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tabarani, Al-Bazaar, Abu Ya‟la in his Musnad, Ibn Abi
Ad-Dunya in Al-‟Ayah; Al-Hagfish Al-Haythami said that Husayn ibn Qays who is
known as Hamish is a weak narrator; Husayn ibn Unary considered him trustworthy,
and the rest of the narrators in the chain of transmission are trustworthy. It is also
reported by „Abd ibn Humayd, Abu Dawood At-Tayalisi, Al-Bayhaqi, and Ibn Abi
Shaybah
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Article (72)
Helping the Wife with Housework
If circumstances necessitate that the wife must work
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and At-
Tirmidhi
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outside the home, then her husband should assist her and
provide her with the means to perform her work, and to do it
well. Likewise, he should also help her with the housework and
looking after the children.
This Article deals with the duties of the husband if the
spouses agree to the wife‟s work outside of the home. In such a
case, the husband should play a role in assisting his wife to perform
her work and to do it well. For example, he should encourage and
motivate her to perform her occupation, and he should not make
her feel that he is fed up with her work in order to protect the
woman‟s psychological outlook towards her work. Likewise, he
should arrange a suitable means of transportation for her to go to
work and he should play a part in helping her with the housework.
The basic rule that governs this situation in general is indicated in
the Words of Allah:
َ إلُث َو ل ُْع ْك َو ِن َو تند ُقو
ِْ َ آونُو َ َعنْلَى ِّ ِ َ آونُو َ َعنْلَى
َ لا َو ل نتد ْق َوى َوال ََتد َع َ وَتد َع
ِ ِ ِ
)1 8 (انًائدةآب َ ِ َ َ كي ُك َ لع َق َِ َإ ننَ ن َن
… And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but
do not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear
Allah; indeed, Allah is severe in penalty. (5: 2)
The detailed evidence for this issue if found in the example of the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) in the
way that he used to serve his family. Al-Aswad narrated:
I asked „A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), “What did
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
used to do inside his house?‟‟ She answered, “He used to
keep himself busy helping members of his family, and when
it was the time for the prayer, he would go out for prayer.”1
Layla bint Qaanif Ath-Thaqafiyyah (may Allah be pleased with
her) said:
I was one of those who washed Umm Kulthum, the daughter
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, and At-Tirmidhi.
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Article (73)
Obedience in Equitable Matters
It is the husband‟s right over his wife that she should
obey him in all equitable matters; this includes everything that
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Hakim
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah and Ad-Daarimi
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Ibn Maajah.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood and An -Nasaa‟i.
5
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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Article (74)
Not Being Extravagant in Spending
The wife is obliged to fear Allah with regard to her
husband‟s wealth and to spend it with wisdom and foresight
according to her needs and the needs of her children, neither
being extravagant, nor being stingy. Also, she should not spend
any of his money except with his permission or as is
customarily acceptable.
This Article specifies the way that a wife is required to
protect and look after her husband‟s wealth, and to spend it wisely.
It also defines the extent to which she may take money from her
husband to support herself and his children, and spend it according
to the conditions stipulated by Islamic Shari‟ah. This right is
affirmed by the words of Allah the Exalted:
َآَس ِف َظَ ن
)12 8: (انُساُِ ِ ِ ٌ آاآ ُ َنَآنِتآ
َ ََسآفمَآ ٌ َلّنْلْ َغ ْ ِ َِِب
َ َ
ِ فَآل ن
َ ص
…So righteous women are devoutly obedient,
guarding in [the husband‟s] absence what Allah
would have them guard. …. (4: 34)
Scholars of Qur‟anic exegesis commented that the verse
means that a woman should guard her honor and her husband‟s
wealth in his absence.
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Umaamah, (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (may blessings and
peace be upon him) said, “There is no benefit for a believer,
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daaraqutni, Al-Hakim
and Al-Bayhaqi.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, An -Nasaa‟i and
Ibn Maajah
3
Al-Mughni, Ibn Qudamah vol.9 p239
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi and
Ibn Maajah
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and Ibn Khuzaymah
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Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah
2
Sharh Saheeh Muslim, An-Nawawi vol. 9 p. 91
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Article (75)
The Obligation to Abide by the Manners of the Religion
1. The wife should be pious and obedient, and she should
act according to the manners of the religion, complying
with the regulations of Shari‟ah in her dress, being
modest, dignified, and unflamboyant in her accessories
and her actions.
2. It is the husband‟s right to prevent his wife from
anything that might lead to vice, cause her to commit
that which is forbidden, or involves frequenting places of
pointless . With regard to other places, the decision
should be made based on mutual understanding between
them according to the regulations of Shari‟ah.
This Article deals with the duty of the wife to observe the
teachings of Islam. The first Clause is based on several religious
texts. Concerning the obligation to observe the Islamic teachings
regarding being pious and obedient, and abiding by the manners of
the religion, Allah the Almighty says:
َآَس ِف َظَ ن
)12 8: (انُساُِ ِ ِ ٌ آاآ ُ َنَآنِتآ
َ ََسآفمَآ ٌ َلّنْلْغَ ْ ِ َِِب
َ َ
ِ فَآل ن
َ ص
…So righteous women are devoutly obedient,
guarding in [the husband‟s] absence what Allah
would have them guard… (4: 34)
There are many Qur‟anic verses that urge Muslim women to
abide by the highest standards of faith and to adopt the sublime
Islamic characteristics. For instance, Allah the Almighty addresses
the wives of the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
saying:
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Al-Bazzaar
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Ibn Abu Shaybah in his Musannaf
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َ َ َج ُوِبِِ ن َوال َيدُْ ِ ِكي ِ ِ ْ ِْزيَدتده ن َإال ََآ َ َظهْ ََِ ْدهآ َول
ُ ض َِْْ َ َِبُ ُم ِْف ن َ َع َنْلى َ َ ََ َ َُ
ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ ِ
َ ِزيَدَتد ُه ن َإال َل ُِد ُعولَته ن َأ َْو َ َ ِه ن َأ َْو َ َ ََدَُعُولَته ن َأ َْو َأََْدَآِه ن َأ َْو َأََْدَآ ِ
َنآِِِه ن َأ َْو َََآ ِ ِِ ِِ ِِ ِ
َ َدُعُولَت ِه ن َأ َْو َإ ْخ َو ِن ن َأ َْو َََِ َإ ْخ َو ِن ن َأ َْو َََِ َأَ َخ َو ِت ن َأ َْو َن
َْآل َأَ ِو َ ل ِّ ْف ََِ َ لَيِي َ َََل
ِ إلرََِي ََِ َ َ ِلْ َج
ّ ْ َاَ َ ِْري َأ ُْوِِل
ِ
َ ت َأ َُْيَآندُ ُه ن َأَ ِو َ لتنآَِع
ْ َُ َََنْل
َ ََِ ا ِ ُ ض َِْ َ ِِبَرجنْلِ ِه ن َلِ د ْعنْلَ ي ََآ
َ ََيْف َ َ ُ ُ ْ َ ْ ْ َنآ َوال َي
ِ ِّيمْهْو َ َعنْلَى َ َعور ِ َ ل
َ َْ َُ َ
)12 8 (انُىرن َ َّت ًَعآَأَيُّد َهآَ ملُْدَِ ُو َنَلَ َعنْلن ُُ ْ يَتُد ْفنْلِ َُو
َِ َِِإَلَ نَ ِزيَتِ ِه ن َوتُوَُو
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of
their vision and guard their private parts and not
expose their adornment except that which
[necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion
of] their head covers over their chests and not
expose their adornment except to their husbands,
their fathers, their husbands fathers, their sons,
their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers'
sons, their sister's sons, their women, that which
their right hands possess, or those male attendants
having no physical desire, or children who are not
yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let
them not stamp their feet to make known what they
conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in
repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might
succeed. (24: 31)
Allah the Almighty also says:
ِ ِ
ٌ َْ َََ ِِ ْض ْع َ َ ِ لْ َق ْو ِل َ َفدَ َْم َع َ لَيي َِب َ َندنْل
ض َوندُنْلْ َ َ َند ْوال َ نَ ْعْوفًَ آ َ ْفَل َََت
)11 8(األحزاب
…Then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in
whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with
appropriate speech. (33: 32)
Allah the Almighty also says:
َ ََِ ا َ َعنْلَ ْ ِه ن
َ ِا َيُ ْكن
ِ ِ ِك َون
َ َِنآ َ ملُْد َ َ ك َوََدَآت
ِ َ نِب َنَُ َألَ ْزَو ِج ُّ ِ ََي َأَيدُّ َهآ َ ل
ِ
ور َ نرس ًَمآ َ َِجلَِ ِِ ِه ن َذَل
ًَ ُك َأَ ْد ََّن َأَن َيدُ ْع َْفْ َ َفَل َيدُ ْدذَيْ َ َوََّآ َن َ نُِ َ َف
)95 :(األحزاب
O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and
the women of the believers to bring down over
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood in his Sunan and Marasil; there is a
corroborative narration in Sunan of Al-Bayhaqi
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad and Muslim
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i and Ad-Daarimi; this is
the version of At-Tirmidhi
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and Ibn Maajah; this is the version of Ibn
Maajah
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Ibn Sa‟d, Ibn Abu Shaybah, Ibn Jareer, Ibn Al-Mundhir
and Ibn Abi Hatim
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Ibn Abi Hatim in his Tafseer
4
See Article (14), Section 4, Chapter I, and Article (59), Section 3, Chapter III.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At -Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah and Ad-Daarimi.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tabarani, Al-Bazzaar, Abu Ya‟la in his Musnad and Ibn
Abu Ad-Dunya in Al-Iyal; Al-Haafidh Al-Haythami said, “Its chain narrators
includes Husayn ibn Qays, known as Hanash, who is a weak narrator. Husayn ibn
Numayr authenticated him and the rest of narrators are trustworthy [Majma‟ Az-
Zawa‟id by Al-Haythmi vol. 4, p.306]
It was also reported by Abd ibn Humayd in his Musnad, Abu Dawood At-Tayalisi in his
Musnad, Al-Bayhaqi in As-Sunan Al-Kubra and Ibn Abu Shaybah in his Musannaf.
3
Article (71), Part II, Section Four of this Chapter
4
Article (73), Part III, Section Four of this Chapter
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Article (76)
The Wife‟s Responsibility for Her Home
1. It is the wife‟s duty to attend to the affairs of the marital
home and the children in a manner that is befitting of
people of their status. She is obliged to do so as a
religious duty and by virtue of the bonds of love, mercy,
and cooperation in matters that lead to the happiness of
both spouses, however, she cannot be legally forced to do
so. If she works outside the house, then she should
contribute to the finances of the home to the extent that
is appropriate in their situation based on what they agree
upon, or according to the verdict of a just arbitrator
between the two parties.
2. If the woman is financially well off, and her husband is in
financial difficulty, it is obligatory for her to financially
support him and the children. However, in the case that
the husband becomes financially solvent, he must
compensate her for whatever she spent, according to the
regulations of, and within the limits of Shari‟ah.
This Article clarifies some of the woman‟s responsibilities
with regard to her home:
The first Clause states, “It is the wife‟s duty to attend to
affairs of the marital home and the children in a manner that is
befitting of people of their status.” This signifies that the
responsibility varies according to the spouses‟ circumstances. In
other words, if she would normally do the housework herself, then
it is her responsibility to do so, however, if she is a person who is
used to having servants to do the housework under her supervision,
then it is her responsibility to supervise. It is the husband‟s
responsibility to bear the expenses of the servant if he can afford it,
otherwise, she must attend to these affairs herself based on the
juristic principle, “harm is not alleviated by harm.” The wife should
attend to the household affairs in a manner that is customary for a
woman like herself with a man like her husband, according to their
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1
See: Al-Fataawa Al-Hindiyah vol. 1 p.548 and Ash-Sharh Al-Kabeer by Ahmad Ad-
Dardeer vol. 2 pp. 510-512.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At -Tirmidhi and
Ad-Daarimi
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1
The hadith was quoted in full while discussing the Article (64), Part I, Section Four of
this Chapter
2
Zaad Al-Mi„aad, Ibn Al-Qayyim, vol. 4 p.33
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim and An -Nasaa‟i; this is the
version of Al-Bukhari.
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1
Article (72), Part II, Section Four of this Chapter.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, An-Nasaa‟i and Ad-
Daarimi; this is the version of Al-Bukhari.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari and Muslim; this is the version of Al-
Bukhari.
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goodness to those who are closest [first], then the next closest.” 1
The amount that the wife spends to financially support her
husband and children is considered a debt that the husband owes to
her as he is charged with providing financial support as mentioned
previously.2 Thus, in the case that the husband becomes financially
solvent, he must compensate her for the amount that she spent,
according to the regulations of and within the limits of Shari‟ah.
This point is dealt with in detail in the lengthy books of Islamic
jurisprudence.
***
1
Weak hadith, reported by Ahmad.
2
Article (70), Part II, Section Four of this Chapter.
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Section Five
The Rights of Parents and Children
Article (77)
The Foundation of the Relationship Between Parents and
Children
Islam has established the parent-child relationship on a
strong foundation of goodness, family ties, love, and mercy.
Likewise, it has designated mutual rights and responsibilities
for each party. Children‟s rights over their parents will be
mentioned in Section Five of Chapter IV, pertaining to the
rights and obligations of children in Islam.
***
Article (78)
Parents‟ Rights over Their Children
1. To be attended to in a good manner even if they are of a
different religion or sect.
2. To be treated well and generously; their rights should be
fulfilled and they should be looked after in their old age,
particularly in the case of the mother.
3. Not to be shouted at or scolded; they should not be
harmed, no matter how slight the harm might be, even if
only by a gesture.
4. To continue to fulfill their rights, even after they die, by
praying and asking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their
promises and bequests, and being generous to their
friends and relatives.
These two Articles discuss the parents‟ rights over the
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Article (79)
Regulations Related to Polygyny
Polygyny is permissible within the limits decreed by
Shari‟ah to achieve a Shari‟ah recognized or social interest.
However, men must meet the condition that they be able to
fulfill the responsibility of providing for the wives and children,
while being just between them, with total equality in housing,
food, clothing, nights, and all other affairs of life.
This Article makes it absolutely clear that polygyny is
permitted within the limits that have been established by Shari‟ah,
to achieve a Shari‟ah recognized or social interest, with conditions.
Regarding the permissibility of polygyny, Allah the Exalted
says:
َ يََ َ َ لِّ َنآ ِ َََثْد ََن ِ ُُ َََآَطَآب َل
ّ
ِ ِ
َ ََ وإ ْن َخ ْفُت ْ ي َأَالَتُد ْق ن ُو َِب َ لَدَت َآَىَ َفآنُ َُ و
ِ
َآََنْلَ َُ ْت َأَ ُْيَآنُ ُُ ْ ي َ ذَلِ َك َأَ ْد ََّن ِ ِ ِ
َ َََ َورَ َع َفَإ ْن َخ ْفُت ْ ي َأَالَتدَ ْع كلُو َ َفد َو س َك ً َ أ َْو
ُ ث َ وثُل
)1 8: (انُسا أَالَتدَ عُولُو
And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the
1
See Article (113), Section Five, Chapter IV.
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1
See: Badr Ad-Deen Az-Zarkashi, Al-Bahr Al-Muheet, vol. 3 pg. 277, in the section
dealing with the imperative tense. Also see: Ahmad ibn Muhammad As -Sawwi Al-
Maaliki Al-Khalwati, Hashiyyat As-Saawwi „ala Al-Jalalayn, Cairo, Mustafa Al-
Baabi Al-Halabi (1360 AH/ 1941 C.E.) vol. 1, p. 190.
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1
Article (52) of Section Two of Chapter III.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-
Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
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Article (80)
Not Showing Preference to Any of the Wives
Shari‟ah encourages maintaining a balanced disposition,
without exaggeration in displaying affection or showing
preference towards any of the wives.
This Article indicates that there is a non-material aspect that
the husband cannot control, and thus, he may not be able to be
equal between the wives therein. This issue is the preference that
he feels in his heart. This is indicated by what was related by
„A‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of
Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) used to divide the
nights between his wives and say, “O Allah, this is my division in
that which I control, so do not blame me with regard to that
which You control and I do not control.” Abu Dawood said,
“This refers to the heart.”2 This Article plainly states that Shari‟ah
encourages the man to maintain a balanced disposition without
exaggeration in displaying affection or preference towards any of
the wives. This is to protect the marital relationship and take the
other wives and their feelings into consideration; for even if the
person cannot control his affection, he can control the way he
displays is, and thus, he should make it a point not to exaggerate in
displaying his affection.
***
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ahmad, and Ad-
Daarimi. The wording is from Abu Dawood and Ad-Daarimi
2
Saheeh hadith; reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn
Maajah, and Ad-Daarimi.
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Article (81)
Stipulation of a No-Polygyny Clause
It is allowed for the wife to stipulate in the marriage
contract that her husband may not take another wife, and to
stipulate a consequence for any viol ation of this condition.
This Article discusses the permissibility of a wife stipulating
in the marriage contract that her husband may not take another wife
while they are married and to stipulate a consequence for any
violation of this condition. The permissibility of and evidence for
such stipulations have been previously mentioned. 1
***
Article (82)
When Polygyny is Cause for Divorce
If the husband does not abide by the Shari‟ah conditions
for polygyny, and if this causes harm to the wife, it is her right
to request divorce. If the husband does not divorce her, she
may appeal to a judge to divorce her from her husband.
This Article clarifies the wife‟s right to request divorce from
her husband or from a judge if the husband refuses to divorce her,
in the case that the wife suffers harm from the husband as a result
of his not abiding by the Shari‟ah stipulated conditions for
polygyny, such as abandoning her, not spending the night with her,
or not having sexual relations with her. This divorce or decree of
divorce is the result of harm, and not the result of polygyny, and
further details regarding this issue will be mentioned regarding this
form of court issued divorce.2
***
1
In Article (25) of Section Two of Chapter II, and Article (54) of Section Two of
Chapter III.
2
See Article (87) of Part II of Section Seven of Chapter III.
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Section Seven
Dissolution of Marriage
Part I: Divorce
This part addresses the first form of dissolution of marriage
which is divorce. It clarifies the definition of divorce and the
wisdom behind it, the necessity of patience and tolerance between
the spouses, the means of discouraging and limiting divorce, and
the wife‟s compensation for divorce. These topics are covered in
four articles.
Article (83)
The Definition of Divorce and the Wisdom Behind It
Divorce is the severing of the marital bond by the sole
will of the husband. It is one of the permissible actions that is
hated in Islam; in fact, of all permissible acts, divorce is the
most abhorred by Allah. It was legislated to put an end to
marriage that does not achieve its Shari‟ah aims as a result of
intense conflict between the spouses in cases when it is sure that
continuing the marriage is absolutely impossible.
The word for divorce in Arabic denotes untying bonds. The
Charter has defined divorce on the basis of its technical definition
as being, “Severing the marital bond by the sole will of the
husband.” “Marriage” in this context specifically refers to a valid
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1
Al-Mawsou‟ah Al-Fiqhiyyah, ibid., vol. 27, pg. 5, The difference between annulment
and divorce is forthcoming in the discussion in Part III of Section Seven of Chapter
III.
2
Weak hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah and Al-Baghawi in Sharh as-Sunnah was-
Saheeh wa Fiqhih. Although the hadith is weak, its meaning is Saheeh.
3
Mursal hadith, narrated by Abu Dawood and Al-Bayhaqi.
4
Weak hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daaraqutni in his Sunnan,
Al-Baihaqi, and Al-Hakim who classified it as Saheeh, and Abu Hatim considered it
preponderant in „Illal Al-Hadith wa Irsaluh (vol. 1, pg. 431), and the hadith has been
strengthened by other hadiths with similar meanings.
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Article (84)
The Necessity of Patience and Tolerance
According to Islamic Shari‟ah, each spouse must be
patient with his life partner and tolerate him to the greatest
extent possible.
This Article clarifies the aspect of the marital relationship
that is considered the pillar of marital life and enables the couple to
weather the inevitable storms. By nature, the human self is stingy
in giving others their rights, and greedy in taking its own, becoming
furious if its dignity is injured, or its rights violated, which is a
common occurrence as a result of direct interaction between the
two parties. Allah the Exalted says:
ََو َع ِمنْلُو ِ ُ ري ََِ َ َ ُْنْلَ َآِ َلََد ْ ِ ِغيَََد ْعِ ِ
َ ضَإِالَ لنيي َ َ َََ ُو
ٍ ض ُه ْ يَ َعنْلَىَََد ْع ً َوإ نن َََّث
)12 8 (صآَف َْ ي ِ ِ آاآ ِ لن
ُ َََ ٌَ َونَنْلَ َ ص
…And indeed, many associates oppress one
another, except for those who believe and do
righteous deeds and few are they… (38: 24)
Considering the fact that within marriage, there is a
tremendous degree of interaction between the spouses, if one party
is not patient with his life partner who might harm him
unintentionally (which is the rule), or intentionally (which is the
exception), if this patience does not exist between the two parties
the storms will destroy their relationship.
The love between the two parties is an important factor that
helps each of them to tolerate and be patient with their partner; in
1
See Al-Mawsou‟ Al-Fiqhiyyah, ibid. vol. 27, pg. 6.
2
This will be covered in the discussion of Article (85) in Part I of Section Seven of
Chapter III.
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Article (85)
Limiting the Means of Divorce
Islamic Shari‟ah strives to limit the means of effecting
divorce and has made it complicated with many procedures.
Likewise, it emphasizes continuity of the marriage and avoiding
any intensification of conflict between the spouses. It order to
accomplish this, it mentions many means and mechanisms,
which are explained in detail in the rulings of Shari‟ah.
This Article discusses two issues:
1. Limiting the means of effecting divorce
2. Avoiding intensification of disagreements between
the spouses
As for the first issue, these means include the stipulation of
certain conditions that must be fulfilled in order to effect divorce.
These stipulations maybe related to the person who is effecting the
divorce (the husband), or to the person who is divorced (the wife).
Firstly: The conditions related to the person effecting the
divorce (the husband):
1. He must be the husband as no one other than the husband can
effect divorce. Thus, if a man divorces the wife of his son,
for example, the divorce is not effected because it is the sole
right of the husband.
2. There are, however, situations in which a judge may issue a
1
See Article (34) of Part I, of Section Three, of Chapter II.
2
See Section Three of Chapter III.
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Article (86)
The Conciliatory Gift for Divorce
Islamic Shari‟ah encourages the man to give his wife a
material gift, known as al-mut`ah, when he divorces her. The
value of the gift should be in proportion to the husband‟s
financial abilities and the duration of the marriage. The
purpose of the gift is to console her and to lessen the harm that
she endures as a result of the divorce.
This Article discusses one of the consequences of divorce,
and it is giving the divorced wife a material gift called Al-mut‟ah,
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Article (87)
Divorce by Judicial Decree as a Result of Harm
If the wife has been harmed by her husband to an extent
that would be impossible for most people similar to them to
continue the marital relationship under such circumstances,
then she shall have the right to ask for a divorce. If her
husband refuses to di vorce her, she can raise her case to the
judge. If the harm is proven, then the judge shall rule in her
favor thereby divorcing her from her husband. Because this is
a minor irrevocable divorce, it is not permissible for her
husband to take her back as a wife except with a new marriage
contract and dowry, with the condition that it is not the third
divorce.
This Article clarifies the first causes of divorce by judicial
decree, and is divorce due to harm:
The first condition of this harm is that it must be, “Of an
extent that would be impossible for most people like them to
continue the marital relationship under such circumstances.” The
type of harm that is intended here is that which the husband does
intentionally. It includes anything that he intentionally does, says,
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Article (88)
Judicial Decree of Divorce Due to Non-Payment of Financial
Support or Long Absence
It is the wife‟s right to request divorce if her husband
refuses to provide financial support for her or if he is absent for
a long time and there is no news from him, or if he is lost or
imprisoned for a long period of time and does not have any
apparent wealth from which she can spend. Even if he does
have wealth, she may request divorce if she is harmed by his
absence from her, and this right is subject to the regulations
and stipulations mentioned in the rulings of Shari‟ah.
The second cause for the wife‟s right to request divorce from
a judge is Judicial Decree of Divorce Due to Non-Support or
Long Absence.
This right is a sort of license for the wife which is allotted to
her. If she chooses, she may exercise it to request divorce,
otherwise she may choose to be patient with her situation and
refrain from asking for divorce.
The Shari‟ah basis for this right is harm, as Shari‟ah has
affirmed the general principle is that there shall be no harm or
reciprocating harm, and that harm is to be abolished. Likewise,
Allah the Mighty and Glorious specifically orders that wives are
not to be harmed in His Words:
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daaraqutni, Al-Haakim,
and Al-Bayhaqi.
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َ ُوف ن َلِت
َضِّ ُقو َ َع َنْل ْ ِه ن ُ آر
ُّ ض
َ َُوالَت
…And do not harm them in order to oppress
them…
and
ٍَ ُْ يَِبَ ْع
)4 8 (انطالقوف ِ ُُ َوأْ َُتِْو َََد ْد....
ُ
…And confer among yourselves in the equitable
way… (65:6)
He also says:
ٍَ ن ِ ٌ ِْ ن ٍ ِ
)117 8 (انبمزة آن َ يحَِب ْس ْ َنآ ٌك َِِبَ ْع ُْوفَأ َْوَت
َ ََ ل نل ُق َََنَََْتنَفَ ْإ
Divorce is twice. Then, either keep [her] in an
equitable manner or release [her] with good
treatment... (2: 229)
Thus women have been given this right as it is not equitable to
force them to be patient in the face of the harm that they suffer in
such cases.
This Clause addresses two issues:
The judgment of divorce for not providing financial support
The judgment of divorce due to long absence and other
similar issues.
As for the first issue; issuing a decree of divorce for not
providing financial support, if the husband is well off, yet he
intentionally and stubbornly refuses to pay financial support, while
at the same time refusing to divorce his wife, then there is no
disputing that harm has been established.
However, if the husband is poor, and cannot find work to
earn a living, then he is excused, and it is recommended by
Shari‟ah that the wife be patient with her husband‟s financial
difficulties, and stand with him and help him as much as possible.
If she cannot be patient with her husband‟s situation and his
inability to provide for her, and he refuses to divorce her, then she
may submit her case to the judge to dissolve the marital bond
between them.
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See: Al-Mughni, Ibn Qudamah, vol. 7, pg. 487
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Article (89)
Khul„a
If a woman hates her husband and cannot stand him,
even though he hasn‟t hurt her in any way that would be
considered grounds for divorce, and if she can no longer bear to
remain with him, then she has the right to request divorce in
exchange for giving up any financial rights that would be due to
her as a result of the divorce, and returning any dowry or gifts
that he gave her.
This form of divorce is known as khul‟a and in principle,
it takes place by way of an agreement between the two parties.
However, if they cannot come to an agreement, or if the
husband arbitrarily refuses to respond to the wife‟s request, the
wife can raise her case to the court to obtain an irrevocable
judgment of divorce.
1
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Bayhaqi in his Sunnah and by „Abd Ar-Razzaaq in
his book.
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This Article discusses the issue of khul„a. Scholars of
Islamic Jurisprudence have differed in their definition of the term
according to the differences in their schools of thought with regard
to whether they classify it as an annulment or a divorce. 1
Khul„a is a Shari‟ah sanctioned action performed by the
husband using wording that includes khul„a or divorce, which
effects dissolution of the marital ties between the spouses in
exchange for a specific amount of money or property that the wife
agrees to pay to the husband, and which is known as the
compensation for khul„a.
The evidence for the permissibility of khul„a
Scholars of Islamic jurisprudence have unanimously agreed
on the permissibility of khul„a, based on the following evidence:
َآن َوال َ َِ َُّ َلَ ُُ ْ ي َأَن ٍ ْ ل نل ُق ََ نََْت ِن َفَإَنآ ٌك َِِبَ ْع
ٍ وف َأ َْو ََتن ِْيح َِِب ْسن
َ ٌ ْ ُ َْ َ
ِ ِ ِ ِ
َآَس ُكو َدَ نَِفَإ ْنَخ ْفتُ ْ يَأَال
ُ َنََيَآفَآَأَالَيُق َم
َ وف ن َ َ ْدًئآَإالَأُ ََتْ َُخ ُيو َّمنآَ َتد ْدتُ ُم
)117 8 (انبمزة ََِ ْ آح َ َعنْلَ ْ ِه َمآَفِ َمآَ فدَْت َك
َ َلَج
ِ
ُ َآَس ُكو َدَ نَِف ُ يُق َم
ِ
Divorce is twice. Then, either keep [her] in an
acceptable manner or release [her] with good
treatment. And it is not lawful for you to take
anything of what you have given them unless both
fear that they will not be able to keep [within] the
limits of Allah. But if you fear that they will not
keep [within] the limits of Allah, then there is no
blame upon either of them concerning that by which
she ransoms herself... (2: 229)
This part of the ayah is related to the permissibility of khul„a with
the stipulations mentioned in the Qur‟anic verse, and has been
explained by scholars of the Qur‟an.
Also, it was related by Ibn „Abbaas (may Allah be pleased
with them) that the wife of Thaabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet
(may blessings and peace be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of
1
Al-Mawsou‟ah Al-Fiqhiyyah, ibid. vol. 19. p. 234
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Allah, with regard to Thaabit ibn Qays, I don‟t blame him for
anything in his manners or his religion, however I hate disbelief in
Islam.” The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
him) said, “Are you willing to return your garden to him [that
he gave her for her dowry]?” She said, “Yes.” Then the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said to
him, “Take back your garden and divorce her once.” 1 In another
narration, Sahl ibn Abi Hathmah (may Allah be pleased with him)
said, “This was the first khul„a that took place in Islam.”2 Also, it
was related by Ibn „Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that
the wife of Thaabit ibn Qays was divorced by khul„a, and the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) made her waiting
period one menstrual period.”3
The Article mentions that the reason for khul„a is “If the
woman hates her husband and cannot stand him, even though he
hasn‟t hurt her in any way that would be considered grounds for
divorce, and if she can no longer bear to remain with him.”
Khul„a may take place by agreement between the two
parties, or else the case is presented to the judge to grant her a
decree of irrevocable divorce from her husband. It is understood
that in such a case, the husband is refusing to effect divorce, and
thus the judge will issue the divorce decree, and this is indicated by
the previous hadith related by Ibn „Abbaas, as the Messenger of
Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) ordered Thaabit to
accept the garden and divorce his wife.
Sa‟eed ibn Jubayr, Hasan Al-Basri, Ibn Sireeen, and Ziyad
ibn „Abeed of the generation after the Companions were of the
opinion that the judge has the authority to effect khul„a if the
husband refuses to do so.
The units of compensation should be stipulated, and the
Article states that it should be the wife‟s relinquishing of any
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, An-Nasaa‟i, and the wording is from them,
and it was also reported by Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and At-Tirmidhi.
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Article (90)
Cause for Annulment
Both the husband and the wife have the right to request
dissolution of the marriage if either of them finds a serious
defect in the other that cannot be resolved, or which requires a
long period of time to be resolved, and cannot be tolerated
without enduring harm. However, this is with the condition
that the person was unaware of the defect if it was present
before the contract was executed, and that when he became
aware of it, or when the disease occurred after the contract, he
did not accept it, explicitly or implicitly.
Experts should be consulted in determining the deficiencies
that necessitate dissolution, and in such cases, the dissolution is
considered an annulment of the contract as opposed to divorce.
This Article discusses one of the reasons for annulment:
separation based on the discovery of a physical flaw in the other
party. When Allah, in His Attribute of Most Wise Legislator,
ordained marriage, He also established all of the means that are
necessary to guarantee the survival of the marital relationship, free
of anything that might taint its purity, and guaranteeing the
fulfillment of its psychological, financial, and social mission in the
best possible manner. Thus, if a serious defect is discovered that
prevents the aims of marriage from being achieved, according to
Shari‟ah, it is permissible to separate the spouses as a result of this
flaw. These defects include impotence, severing of part or all of
the male organ such that intercourse is not possible, blockage of the
vaginal canal, insanity, or leprosy.
Scholars of Islamic jurisprudence differ with regard to the
permissibility of separating between the spouses on the basis of a
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Section 1
Caring for Children from the Beginning of the
Formation of the Family
This Section describes the care provided for the child from
the start of the formation of the family which includes: seeking
children as a means of preserving the human race, comprehensive
care from the beginning of the marriage, instilling humanit arian
ideals within the child, and abiding by the standards of successful
marriage. These topics are covered in four articles.
Article (91)
Seeking Children to Preserve the Human Race
1. Children are a divine blessing and an innate human
desire.
2. Shari‟ah encourages the pursuit of progeny in order
to preserve the human race.
3. For this reason, Shari‟ah prohibits sterilization of
men and women, hysterectomies, and abortions
except in cases of medical necessity, just as it also
prohibits all means that hamper the continuity of
humanity.
4. It every child‟s right to come into life by way of a
Shari‟ah sanctioned marriage between a man and a
woman.
Clauses (1) and (2) of this Article clarify the status of
children according to the view of Islamic Shari‟ah and the
sentiments of people, and explain the wisdom behind the existence
of children.
Clauses (3) and (4) clarify the means to achieve said
objectives of Shari‟ah.
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* Clause (1):
This Clause is based on the Words of Allah the Exalted:
َُ شآ َُ َإَ ًَث ويَد َه
َ َي شآ َُ يَد َه َُ لِ َم
َ َض ََيْنْلُاَُ ََآ يَِ ن َم َو َِ و ألَ ْر كَ ل ن ُ ِْ َُنْل َِِن
ِ
َُشآ َُ َعق ًمآ إ ن َ َي ْ َ َو يدَُزِّو ُج ُه َْ ي ذُ َّْ َْ ًََ و َإَ ًَث
ََ ََُ وَ َع َْ ور أ َ َلِ َم ي
ََ َُّ شآ َُ ُّلي
)37- 27 8 (انشىريْي ٌَ َعنْلِ ٌَ ي نَ ِك
To Allah belongs the kingdom of the heavens and
the earth. He creates what He wills. He bestows
female (offspring) upon whom He wills, and bestows
male (offspring) upon whom He wills. * Or He
bestows both males and females, and He renders
barren whom He wills. Verily, He is the All-Knower
and is Able to do all things. (42: 49-50)
the very same wisdom for which the Messenger (may the blessings
and peace of Allah be upon him) encouraged the pursuit of
offspring as it was reported that Ma‟qal ibn Yasaar (may Allah be
pleased with him) said:
A man came to the Prophet (may the blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him) and said, “I found a woman of noble
status and beauty, but she is sterile. Should I marry her?”
The Prophet (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) answered, “No.” The man returned to him a second
time and again the Prophet (may the blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him) forbade him (from marrying her). When
he returned a third time the Prophet (may the blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) said, “Marry the woman who
is loving and prolific, for by you (Muslims) I will
outnumber the other nations.” 1
In the narration of the same hadith, Anas ibn Malik (may
Allah be pleased with him) related:
The Messenger of Allah (may the blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him) used to command marriage and strictly
forbid celibacy. He used to say, “Marry the woman who is
loving and prolific; I will outnumber the (followers of
the) Prophets (by you) on the Day of Resurrection.” 2
* Clause (3):
This Clause includes two issues:
The first: It indicates an imperative obligatory ruling for the
realization of the mentioned objectives of Shari‟ah, i.e. the
prohibition of the sterilization of men and women, hysterectomies,
abortion3, and other means that hinder the continuity of
humanity. The only exception to this prohibition is in the case of
medical necessity as determined by experts.
The second: Rejection of aberrant arrangements that are
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and An-Nasaa‟i.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
3
Further clarification of this issue will be given in Clause (2) of Article (95).
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Article (92)
Comprehensive Care from the Start of the Marriage
1. The care of Islamic Shari‟ah for children includes the
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following stages:
a. Each spouse‟s selection of the other spouse.
b. The period of pregnancy and birth.
c. The period from birth until discretion (the stage
during which the child is unable to discriminate
between affairs).
d. The period from discretion until puberty (the stage
during which the child is able to discriminate between
affairs).
2. With each of these stages, the child is entitled to certain
rights appropriate to that stage.
This Article classifies the different stages that are included
under the care given by Islamic Shari‟ah to children, starting with
the selection of the wife, passing through stages of pregnancy and
birth until discretion and puberty. This will be further elaborated
with its Islamic references in subsequent Articles.
No counterpart to this Article exists in the Convention on the
Rights of the Child, which is limited in its first Article to defining a
child as being “every human being below the age of 18 years”.
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Article (93)
The Family is the Source of Human Values
The family is the nest for the child and his natural
environment that is necessary for his care and upbringing. It
also acts as the child's first school in which humanitarian,
moral, spiritual, and religious values are instilled.
This Article is dedicated to clarifying the importance of the
family to the child. The first verse of the chapter of An-Nisaa‟
states the pivotal nature of the family as the nucleus of human
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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Article (94)
Adhering to the Criteria for a Successful Marriage
It is the child‟s right upon his parents that each should
make the optimal selection in choosing his partner and that
they should adhere to the standards for a successful marriag e
that are outlined by Islamic Shari‟ah and are stated in Article
(51) of this Charter.
In Islamic Shari‟ah, the child‟s rights begin early on, even
before the parents are married, by way of each spouse‟s optimal
selection of the other as this naturally reflects on the child who is
brought into this world with genetic characteristics acquired from
each of his parents. Likewise, the selection of the father and mother
also impact the environment in which he will grow and the care he
will be given in the areas of health, nutrition, upbringing,
education, etc. The child, who will be subjected to the effects of
such selection, and in whom they will materialize, has no one to
foster his future benefit better than his parents. For this reason,
Islamic Shari‟ah places emphasis on the recommendation that each
spouse makes the best choice possible in choosing the other and
that the should abide by the criteria for a successful marriage that
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Section Two
Freedoms and General Human Rights
Article (95)
The Right to Live, Survive and Develop
1. From the time the child is formed as an embryo, the
child shall have an inherent right to life, survival, and
development.
2. Abortion of the embryo is prohibited unless the life of the
mother is exposed to certain danger that cannot be
avoided except by abortion.
3. The embryo shall have the right to receive health care
and suitable nutrition by way of the care that is provided
for his pregnant mother.
4. It is prohibited to harm the embryo in any manner, and
Shari‟ah has set a civil and punitive punishment for
whoever violates this.
This Article discusses the right to life, survival and
development.
This right commences from the time of the formation of the
child as an embryo. The life of the embryo in Islamic Shari‟ah
enjoys complete care and protection as it is considered to be a live
person created by Allah, even though its life is nested inside the
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1
See Al-Mawsou‟ Al-Fiqhiyyah, Kuwait, with reference to the entries pertaining to the
embryo and abortion.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi and An-Nasaa‟i.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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Article (96)
The Welcoming of the Child
At the time of his birth, it is the child‟s right that his parents
give him a good name, demonstrate happiness and joy upon his
arrival, and celebrate his birth. Islamic Shari‟ah commands that
boys and girls be dealt with equally in such matters and it prohibits
dissatisfaction with the birth of girls or harming them in any way.
This Article comprises three points:
1. Giving the child a good name
2. Welcoming the child‟s arrival
3. Treating boys and girls equally and not showing
displeasure with girls
These points are based on many Shari‟ah texts:
*Giving the child a good name:
Ibn „Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) related that
the Prophet (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said, “It is the right of the child upon his father to give him a
good name and teach him good manners.” 1 Also, it was related
on the authority of Abu Ad-Dardaa‟ (may Allah be pleased with
him) that the Messenger of Allah (may the blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him) said, “You shall be called on the Day of
Resurrection by your names and the names of your fathers, so
select good names for yourselves.” 2
Article (5) of the Egyptian Law for Protection of Children
states, “It is not permissible for the name to be demeaning or
insulting to the child‟s dignity, or counter to religious beliefs.”
* Welcoming the child‟s arrival
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Al-Baihaqi in Shu‟ab Al-Eman, and Al-Haythami in
Majma‟ Az-Zawa‟id.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, Ibn Hibbaan, and Ad-Daarimi.
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Article (97)
Protection of Identity
The child shall have the right to maintain his identity, which
includes his name, nationality, family affiliations, language, and
culture, as well as his religious and cultural affiliation.
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, and At-Tirmidhi.
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َا إال ََ نر ِس َ ي
ََ نآس أُنَ َيً و ِس َك ًَ وال يَد َز لُو َن نيَُْتنْلِ ِف
ََ ك َلََع َََ ل
ََ َُّولَ َْو َ آ ََ َر
)227- 226 8 (هىدك َخنْلَ َق ُه َْ ي ََ ِك ولِ َيل
ََ ََُّر
And if your Lord has so willed, He could surely,
have made mankind one nation, but they will not
cease to disagree. * Except him on whom your Lord
has bestowed His Mercy and for that did He create
them… (11: 118,119)
Article (98)
The Prohibition of Differentiation or
Discrimination Between Children
Islamic Shari‟ah prohibits any type of differentiation or
discrimination between children, irrespective of the child‟s or
his or her parents‟ or legal guardian‟s race; color; sex;
nationality; language; religion; political opinion; national,
ethnic, or social origin; property; disability; place of birth; or
other status by which such discrimination is manifested in
violation of the Shari‟ah rulings.
This Article stipulates the prohibition of any form of
differentiation or discrimination between children. Prohibition of
discrimination in this manner is considered one of the indisputable
principles of Shari‟ah. Numerous texts exist in the Noble Qur‟an
and Prophetic Traditions that affirm the complete equality between
all of mankind in general human rights, based on the fact that the
origin of mankind is one, and that their Lord, Who created all of
them, is One God. It is also based on the fact that He honored
Adam and his children with this characteristic alone, exclusive of
color, culture, civilization, or any other affiliation. Allah the
Exalted says:
َِ آف ي َِّ ََ ل نَِّ ِآ
ُ َورَزْند َ ِ آف َْ ي
َ َِْ َْ ِ َْب لَ ِد َِّْ و ل ُ َْوْتنْلََ ولَ َق َْك ََّ نََْْآ ََِ َ َد ََم
)57 8: (اإلرسزاض ل ِ ري ِّّمن َْ َخنْلَ ْقَآ َتد ْف
ٍَ ِآف َْ ي َعنْلَى ََّث
ُ َْضنْل
وفَ ن
And indeed We have honored the Children of
Adam, and We have carried them on land and sea,
and have provided them with lawful good things,
and have preferred them above many of those whom
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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Article (99)
Health Care
The child shall have the right to enjoy the highest
attainable standard of health. Also, he shall have the right to
utilize facilities for the prevention and treatment of illness and
rehabilitation of health.
This Article stipulates the right of the child to enjoy the
highest standard of health. It corresponds with Article (24) of the
Convention on the Rights of the Child that went into detail,
clarifying the necessary services and measures to achieve same
standard of health. The clarification of such details was not
addressed by this Islamic Charter – despite its agreement with
them– sufficing with the general, absolute wording that covers all
present and future services.
Islam pays great attention to the health care of humans in
general, and children in particular, as it has made it obligatory for
man to built his overall strength, as well as his physical strength.
The reason for this is that the body is the tool that man depends on
in life, and in performing the obligations of Shari‟ah. Wahb bin
„Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the
Messenger (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said as part of a long hadith, “Verily your Lord has a right upon
you, your self has a right upon you, and your family (wife) has
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a right upon you, so give each his due right.” 1 Also, Abu
Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the
Prophet (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said,
“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than
the weak believer.” 2 And from the Prophet‟s supplications, “O
Allah, grant my body health, O Allah grant my hearing health,
O Allah, grant my sight health. None has the right to be
worshipped except You.” 3
The hadiths of the Messenger (may the blessings and peace
of Allah be upon him) include numerous health principles that
preserve the body‟s strength, to the extent that there is a complete
field of Islamic Science known as “Prophetic Medicine”. The
Messenger (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
commanded hygiene, balanced nutrition, medical treatment,
avoiding contagious diseases and what is now known as quarantine,
and encouraged physical exercise. The basic rule in Islam is that
one should promptly utilize any useful or beneficial development,
so long as it does not contradict an undisputed text of Shari‟ah, and
is not harmful or foul. A believer is always in pursuit of wisdom;
wherever he finds it, he is the most entitled of people to it. In this
context, the Messenger (may the blessings and peace of Allah be
upon him) said:
Strive for that which benefits you and seek assistance with
Allah, and do not stand disabled.4
Verily Allah is good and He loves goodness, and He is
clean and loves cleanliness.5
Anyone who carries a disease should not approach anyone
who is healthy.6
Allah did not send a disease except that He sent a cure for
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim on the authority of Abu Hurayrah.
5
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi on the authority of Sa‟d ibn Abi Waqqaas.
6
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari on the authority of Abu Hurayrah.
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it.” 1
If you hear of a plague in a land, then do not enter it, and
if afflicts a land while you are in it, then do not depart
from it.” 2
***
Article (100)
Compassionate Treatment
The child shall have the right to be treated by his parents
and others in a compassionate and just manner that achieves
his interests.
This Article stipulates the right of the child to
compassionate, fair treatment that realizes his benefits. No
counterpart to this Article exists in the Convention on the Rights of
the Child because it is a particularly Islamic characteristic that is
confirmed by numerous Prophetic Traditions:
* Compassionate Treatment:
It was related on the authority of Abu Qataadah (may Allah
be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may the
blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was praying and
carrying Umaamah, the daughter of Zaynab (the daughter of the
Messenger of Allah). When he would prostrate himself, he would
set her down, and when he would stand, he would pick her up. 3
It was related on the authority of Jaabir ibn Samurah (may
Allah be pleased with him) that he said, “I was praying the noon
prayer with the Messenger of Allah (may the blessings and peace of
Allah be upon him), then he went out to his family and I went with
him. Two boys met him and he caressed their cheeks one at a time;
as for me he stroked both of my cheeks.”4
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari on the authority of Abu Hurayrah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari on the authority of Usamah ibn Zayd.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik in Al-Muwatta‟, Al-Bukhari, and Muslim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, and Abu
Dawood.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawood, Ibn Hibbaan, and Ibn
Maajah.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Article (101)
Enjoying Recreation Time
The child shall have the right to enjoy his childhood. As
such, he should not be deprived of his right to relax, enjoy his
leisure time, and engage in play and recreational activities.
Also, he should be allowed to freely participate in cultural and
artistic activities in a manner that is age-appropriate and
preserves his personal identity, while avoiding forms of
recreation that are prohibited by Shari‟ah and the law.
This Article stipulates the right of the child to recreation and
to enjoy his leisure time in all of its forms, as it is a vital
educational factor that plays a role in forming the human
personality during the childhood years.
This Article corresponds with Article (31) of the Convention
on the Rights of the Child, and it is nearly identical in its language.
This Article is based on many hadiths which include:
It was related on the authority of Mu‟aawiyah ibn Abu
Sufyaan (may Allah be pleased with him both) that the Prophet
(may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said,
“Whoever has a young boy should play with him.” 1
It was related on the authority of Jaabir (may Allah be
pleased with him) that he said, “I entered upon the Prophet (may
the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) while he was
crawling on his hands and knees and Al-Hasan and Al-Husayn
(may Allah be pleased with them) were on his back as he was
saying, “What a wonderful camel you have, and what great
1
Weak hadith, reported by Ibn Abi Ad-Dunya in the Chapter of Al-‟Ayal (Dependants),
and Ad-Daylami in Al-Firdaws and Ibn „Asaakir related its chain of narration.
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1
Weak hadith, reported by At-Tabarani in Al-Mu‟jam Al-Kabeer, Al-Haythami in
Majma‟ Az-Zawa‟id and he said, “The chain of narration includes Masrooh Abu
Shihab, who is a weak narrator.”
2
Reported by Al-Hakeem At-Tirmidhi in Nawaadir Al-Usool on the authority of „Amr
ibn Ma‟dikarib, and Abu Moosa Al-Madyani in his dictations from Anas. As-Suyuti
indicated that it is authentic in Al-Jami‟ As-Sagheer.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad.
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َُ آر ِ ِ ِ
َ َُ نآسَو ْا ُ ن ُُ ْ يَوأَ ْفنْل ُُ ْ يًَََر َونُو ُد َفآَ ل
َ ََيَأَيُّد َهآَ َليي َ َ ََ ُو َنُو َأَن ُف
ِ ِ
ََعنْلَ ْد َهآ َََلِِ َُيٌ َ لظٌ َ ك دٌ َال َيَد ْعصُونَ َ ن
َِ َََآ َأ َََ َُْف ْ ي َويَد ْف َعنْلُونَ َََآ
)4 8 (انتحزيىن َ يدُ ْدََ ُْو
O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and
your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and
stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern
(and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the
Commands they receive from Allah, but do that
which they are commanded. (66:6)
„Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the meaning of
warding a Fire from yourselves and your families is teaching your
families what is good.1 Mujaahid said that it means to commend
yourselves and your families to fear Allah and to discipline them. 2
Qataada said that it means to order them to obey Allah and to
forbid them from disobeying Him.3
***
Article (102)
Freedom of Thought and Conscience
1. Within the limitations of Shari‟ah and the law, the child
shall have the right to freedom of thought and conscience
and the right to nurturing of the innate nature with
which he was born.
2. According to Shari‟ah and the law, parents and those
responsible for caring for the child shall have rights and
duties with regard to providing direction to the child to
enable him to exercise his right to freedom of thought
and conscience in a manner consistent with his evolving
capacities and his actual interests.
1
Saheeh chain of narration, reported by Al-Hakim.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Al-Firyabi and Al-Bukhari.
3
Saheeh narration, reported by „Abd Ar-Razzaq in his Musnad.
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ََ َنت تُ ُْ ِْهَُ ل
ََنآس َس ن َِ ض َُّنْلُّ ُه َ ي
ََ ّت ًعآ أَفَأ َِ آلَ ََ ََ ِبَ ألَ ْر
ْ َ ك ََ َُّولَ َْو َ آ ََ َر
)77 8 (يىَسا ََ َِِيَ ُُونُو َُ ْد
And had your Lord willed, those on earth would
have believed, all of them together. So, will you (O
Muhammad) then compel mankind, until they
become believers? (71: 99)
َتَ َِ نرَِّك
ْ نآس إال أُنَ ًَي و ِس َك ًَ َفآ ْخَتد َنْل ُفو ولَ ْوال ََّنْلِ َم َيٌ َسَ ِد َق َُ وَآ ََّآ َن ل َ
)27 8 (يىَس ن َ ض ََي ََد ْدَد ُه َْ ي فِ َمآ فِ َِ ََيَْتنْلِفُو
ِ ُلَق
Mankind were but one community, then they
differed; and had not it been for a Word that went
forth before from Your Lord, it would have been
settled between them regarding what they differed.
(10: 19)
***
Article (103)
Freedom of Expression
1. The child shall have the right to freedom of expression
that does not contradict Islamic teachings and manners.
2. This right shall include the freedom to seek all types of
information and virtuous ideas that do not contradict the
principles of morality, religion, and patriotism. It also
includes the freedom to receive and impart such
information and ideas through speech, writing, forms of
art, or any other media that suits the circumstances and
mental abilities of the child.
3. The child who is capable of forming his own opinions
shall have the right to freely express those opinions in all
issues relevant to him. The opinions of the child shall be
given due weight in accordance with the age, maturity,
and actual interests of the child.
4. This freedom shall only be limited by due respect for the
rights or reputation of others, protection of national
security, public order, public health, or public decency.
This Article stipulates the child‟s right to the freedom to
form his views, express them, seek information and ideas, and
receive them (refer to the commentary on the previous Article
regarding freedom of belief and thought). The Article states that
freedom of expression is affirmed in that which does not contradict
the teachings and morals of Islam.
The Article qualifies the thoughts that are protected as being
upright and not in contradiction with the principles of morality,
religion, and patriotism. The Article also adds to the phrase, “the
opinions of the child should be given due consideration in
accordance with the age, maturity, and actual interests of the child.”
that such consideration must be in accordance with, “the actual
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Section Three
Rights of Personal Status
Article (104)
Lineage
1. The child shall have the right to have his parentage
attributed to his Shari‟ah recognized parents.
2. Accordingly, all actions that cause doubt in attributing
the child to his parents shall be prohibited (such as
womb renting, etc.).
3. The provisions of Islamic Shari‟ah shall be followed to
establish lineage.
This Article places importance on the subject of the
parentage of the child. Islamic Shari‟ah has given special attention
to this issue.
َفَإ ْخ َو نُ ُُ ْ ي َِْن َُ ِع َك ن
َِ فَإن نََلْ َتد ْعنْلَ ُمو َ ُف ْ ي ِ
َ وف َْ ي آل َ ِ ِه َْ ي ُف ََو أَن
ُ ْد ُع
ولَ ُِ نَآ َِ َِ آح فِ مآ أَ ْخ َأْ َُُت
َ ٌَ َس َعنْلَ ُُْ َْ ي ُج
ِ
ََ ْ َوَ َو ل ُُ َْ ي ول ِ َِ
َ َِ ب ل ّكي
)3 8 (األحزابور نر ِس ًَمآ ًَ ُِ َ ُفََتد َع نم َك َْ ندُنْلُوَُ ُُ َْ ي وََّآ َن ن
Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their
fathers; that is more just with Allah. But if you
know not their fathers‟ (names, call them) your
brothers in faith and your freed slaves, and there is
no sin on you concerning that in which you made a
mistake, except in regard to what your hearts
deliberately intend. And Allah is Ever-Oft
Forgiving, Most Merciful. (11: 5)
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Article (105)
Breastfeeding
The infant shall have the right to be nursed by his
mother unless doing so conflicts with the interests of the child
or the health of the mother.
This Article stipulates the right of the infant to be breastfed
by his mother except in two cases; when it conflicts with the
interests of the child or the health of the mother as determined by
experts. This principle has been stated in the Noble Qur‟an:
َ ْا لِ َم َْ أ ََر َد أَن يُتِ ن يَ ل ن
َْآ َعي َِ ْ َا ََّ ِآَنْل ِ ْو لْو لِ َك َُ يد
َِ ْ َْ ْع ََ أ َْوال َد ُف نَ َس ْول ُْ َ
)111 8(انبمزة
The mothers shall give suck to their children for
two whole years, (that is) for those (parents) who
desire to complete the term of suckling… (2:233).
Likewise, Shari‟ah permits the nursing mother not to fast
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Article (106)
Custody
1. The child shall have the right to have someone to take
charge of his custody, to care for and raise him, and to
provide for his physical and psychological needs. The
mother has the greatest right to custody of the child
according to Islamic Shari‟ah.
2. The system of custody of children includes orphans,
foundlings, children with special needs, refuges, those
who are deprived either temporarily or permanently of
their family environment, and those who are forcibly
expelled, etc.
3. Islamic Shari‟ah does not permit the system of adoption;
however, it guarantees rights of social care, in all of its
forms, for children.
4. All societal institutions, including the state, shall provide
necessary support and services to assist women who have
custody of children to fulfill their responsibilities.
5. The two parents are the primary custodians, and the
child shall not be separated from one or both of them,
except when there is a preponderant necessity to do so.
Necessity shall be evaluated according to its magnitude.
6. Through mutual consultation, both parents are
responsible for caring for the child, his interests, and
living conditions. If necessary, they may resort to the
competent organizations that provide social care or to
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1
See the verses of the Qur‟an and hadiths that are mentioned in the commentary on
Article (18) and (104).
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi.
3
See commentary on Clause (2) of Article (109).
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and At-
Tirmidhi.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim on the authority of Abu
Hurayrah).
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, An-Nasaa‟i, Abu Dawood,
and Ibn Maajah.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by An-Nasaa‟i, Ad-Daaraqutni, and Ibn Hibbaan who
authenticated it.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i,
At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Maajah.
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Section Four
Competence and Criminal Liability
Article (108)
Limited Competence of the Embryo/Fetus
The embryo shall enjoy a limited competence of
entitlement to the financial rights that are established by
Islamic Shari‟ah. As such, it shall retain its share of
inheritance, bequests, endowments, and gifts from the parents,
relatives, or others, pending its live birth.
This Article is related to clarification of the embryo‟s limited
competence of entitlement and the resulting consequences of such.
It is a limited competence that is conditional upon the child‟s live
birth.
We have previously clarified the meaning of competence
and its types in the discussion of the woman‟s competence 1 such
that there is no need to repeat it in this context.
There is no indication of any counterpart to this Article in
the Convention on the Rights of the Child.
***
1
See the comments on Article (58), Section Three, Chapter III.
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Article (109)
Children‟s Competence of Entitlement
1. From the time of its live birth, the child shall enjoy
complete competence of entitlement, giving him his
rights to inheritance, bequests, endowments, gifts, etc.
2. The child‟s right to benefit from social security, as well
as social insurance, aid, etc., shall commence at from the
time of his birth.
*Clause (1):
This Clause discusses the complete competence of
entitlement and the financial rights which result thereby. We have
previously mentioned1 that the complete competence of entitlement
is established for the human as soon as his human existence is
completed by his separation alive from his mother. The live birth of
the child is established when he makes an initial sign after his birth
by raising his voice, crying, or screaming. This is based on the
narration of Abu Hurayrah, (may Allah be pleased with him) that
the Prophet (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said, “If the newborn makes an initial sign, he inherits.” 2 In
another narration it is mentioned, “A boy does not inherit unless
he makes an initial sign by screaming.” 3 Ibn Maajah said, “His
initial sign is made when he cries, yells or sneezes.” The
newborn‟s movement after his birth is also considered an initial
sign as it indicates life after his separation from his mother, even if
he dies shortly thereafter.
*Clause (2):
Social Security is a form of mutual support and cooperation
between the members of the society, whether they be individuals or
groups; rulers or subjects; whether in times of ease or hardship. As
1
See Article (57), Section Three, Chapter III.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
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such, the individual lives within the security of the group. The
group endeavors to achieve the interests of the individuals and
protect them from harm. It also preserves the existence of
individuals and their innovations. The group exists through the
support of its individuals who recognize the necessity of its
existence and its benefit. They preserve its esteem and control. All
cooperate to improve the society and defend its social structure
from harm and dangers.
Social security for the child refers to: meeting his basic
needs, particularly for the poor, the needy, and the disadvantaged.
Such security is a duty equally shared between individuals and
institutions of the society, including the state.
Social security in this sense is considered one of the
fundamentals of the Islamic Shari‟ah, stemming from the tenets of
its faith, as proven by tens of Qur‟anic verses and Prophetic
hadiths, in addition to numerous practical incidents among which
are the following:
َِ ُْ ض ََْي َُ ُْونَ ِ ل َْم ْع
َوف ويَد ْد َه ْون ٍَ ض ُه َْ ي أ َْولَِآ َُ ََد ْع
ُ ْم ْدََِآ َُ ََد ْع ِ و ل
ُ ْم ْدَ ُو َن و لُ
ِ
ََ ورسُولَ َُ أ ُْولَئ
ك ِ ن
َََع َِ ملُ َُ َِْ ويُق ُمو َن لصنل َ ويدُْدتُو َن لزََّآ َ ويُ عُو َن نِ
َ ِ
ِ يز س
)52 8 (انتىبت ُ ٌَ ي َ ٌَ ِ َع ِز ََُِ إ نَن ن
ََسَد ْْ َْتُ ُه َُ ي ن
…The believers, men and women, are helpers and
friends of one another; they enjoin what is good and
forbid all that Islam has prohibited; they perform
the prayers and give the obligatory alms, and obey
Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His
Mercy on them. Surely, Allah is All-Mighty, All-
Wise. (7: 71)
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad and At-Tabarani.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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Article (110)
Competence to Dispose
“Competence to Dispose” refers to the child‟s
competence to execute his rights and dispose of his property.
This competence is dependant upon the child‟s intellectual
1
Details regarding endowments will be presented in Section Seven of Chapter V.
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specification of such age upon the guidance from the words of the
Messenger (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) in
what was related on the authority of „Umar ibn Shu‟ayb who
quoted his father, who quoted his grandfather as saying, “The
Messenger (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)
said, „Order your boys to pray if they reach the age of seven‟”1
This is based on the fact that the Allah in His attribute of
Legislator, addresses the directive of obligation to boys at said age.
Although the address is in the context of guidance rather than
obligation, it still indicates that a child at that age can understand
prayers and has sufficient ability to discern between what is good
and what is evil, and what is harmful and what is beneficial;
otherwise, the Legislator would not have addressed him.
***
Article (111)
The Degrees of Criminal Responsibility and Special Treatment
1. A child who has not reached the age of discretion as
determined by the law, is not to be held cri minally
responsible, and may be subjected to one of the measures
for care as established by the law.
2. The treatment of a child who has reached the age of
discretion and has not reached the age of puberty as
stipulated by the law, shall vary in degree; either
subjecting him to one of the measures of care, or one of
the measures of correction or mitigated punishment.
3. In all cases, the child shall have the following rights:
a. That his age, condition, circumstances and offence
be taken into consideration.
b. That he be treated in a manner that suits his sense
of dignity and self esteem, with full respect for his
human rights, basic freedoms, and legal
guarantees.
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
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blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) who said, “The pen is
lifted from three; the sleeping until he awakens, the child until
he reaches puberty, and the insane until he becomes sane.” 1
Jurists and scholars of fundamentals of jurisprudence took
these texts as a basis in establishing a fundamental principle that
the prerequisite for liability is that the person should be sane and
understand the obligation. This is because the obligation is a
directive, and addressing a directive to someone who has no mind
or understanding, such as inanimate objects and animals, is
inconceivable. As for a discerning minor, even though he may
understand what an undiscerning minor may not, his understanding
is not complete, and thus, the prerequisite of obligation is absent.
If a minor approaches the age of puberty, even if he
understands, still there is a certain degree of uncertainty regarding
his mentality and understanding, as its gradual manifestation has no
clear indicator by which it can be determined. Therefore, the
Legislator made its indication the age of puberty, and has exempted
him from obligation before that for the sake of mitigation. 2
Punishment according to Islam is a social necessity and a
means to protect the community, preserve its order, and achieve its
security. Every necessity should be evaluated according to its
magnitude. Therefore, if the interests of the community require
severity of punishment, then the punishment is severe, and if such
interests require that the punishment be mitigated, then it is
mitigated.3
The guarantees mentioned in Clause (3) are in complete
agreement with the principles of justice and human dignity that are
established by numerous Islamic texts and are known to all, and
have been previously cited, leaving no need for repetition.
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by ِِِAhmad, Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ibn
Hibbaan, and Al-Hakim.
2
Al-Amidi, Al-Ihkaam fee Usool Al-Ihkaam; vol. 1, p. 215. Also, Ash-Shaheed „Abd
Al-Qadir „Wada, At-Tashree‟ Al-Jinaa‟i fi Al-Islam; vol. 1, p. 388, Naadi Al-
Qudaah, 1984.
3
Ibid.
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Section Five
Proper Upbringing and Education of the Child
Article 112
The Child‟s Virtuous and Integrated Upbringing
In accordance with the regulations of Shari‟ah the
child‟s rights include:
1. That his parents fulfill their joint responsibility to
provide the child with a righteous and balanced
upbringing in a proper manner and provide for his
mental and physical development. This right is
delegated to anyone in the position of the parents, with
regard to the child‟s care and protection of his interests,
and the child‟s best interest should be their primary
concern.
2. The priorities of basic upbringing include teaching the
child the fundamentals of faith, training him to worship
and obey Allah, and instilling Islamic manners and
virtuous conduct. The child should also be taught to
avoid forbidden things, foul and harmful behaviors and
habits, and bad company. At the same time, he should
be encouraged to perform activities such as beneficial
sports and reading. Also, the parents or those
responsible for the child‟s care should set a good
practical example of all such traits.
3. The child should gradually be allowed a margin of
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.)12 8: (اإلرسزا ري ِ َ ِ ْت َهمآ ََّمآ رَند َِّ ونَُ نر
ًَ آّن َ غَ َ َ َ ُ َْ ب ْر
… And say: “My Lord! Bestow on them your
Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young.
(17: 24)
It was related on the authority of Ibn „Umar (may Allah be
pleased with him), that the Messenger of Allah (may the blessings
and peace of Allah be upon him) said,
Each of you is a guardian and responsible for that
with which you have been entrusted. The ruler is
the guardian of his subjects and is responsible for
them. A man is the guardian of his family and is
responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of
her husband‟s house and is responsible for it. A
servant is the guardian of his master‟s belongings
and is responsible for them.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, and At-Tirmidhi.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tabarani.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad.
5
Mursal hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi.
6
Hasan hadith, reported by Al-Hakeem At-Tirmidhi in Nawaadir Al-Usool, Abu-Al
Sheikh in Ath-Thawaab, and Al-Baihaqi in Shu‟ab Al-Iman.
7
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu-Na‟eem in Al-Hilyah, and Ad-Daylami in Al-Firdaws
bi Ma‟thoor Al-Khitaab.
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1
children well and teach them good manners.”
All of these texts generally include the responsibility of the
parents, and whoever assumes their position, for choosing the type
of virtuous upbringing on the basis of which they raise their male
and female children, while taking into due consideration their
interests and futures in light of the moral values and provisions of
Shari‟ah.
* Clause (2):
This Clause stipulates the priorities of basic upbringing,
which are articles of faith, acts of worship, values, and setting a
righteous practical example.
No counterpart to this Article exists in the Convention on the
Rights of the Child.
The texts relevant to the subject matter of this clause are
numerous and varied. The Noble Qur‟an and the Noble Sunnah
contain sublime and comprehensive examples of approaches to
behavioral and ethical upbringing and discipline of children. The
most prominent example of such is the advise of Luqmaan to his
son as related by the words of Allah the Exalted:
َْ ي
ٌ ش ْْ ََك لَمُنْل ِّ ِ إ نَن ل َِش ِْكَْ ِ نْ ُوف ََو يَِعمَُُ َََي َدُ َنَ ال ت ِ
ُ َ َِْوإذَْ نَآلََ لُ ْق َمآ َُن ال
َ ِ َُُصآل ِ ََ َِْإلننآ َن َِ َو لِ َكي ِ
ب َ ْتنْلَ ْت َُ أ ََُُُّ و ْفًآ َعنْلَى و ْف ٍَ وف َ وو ن ْدَآَ َ َعم ٌَ ي
ش ِْ ََك ْ ُ وإن َج َآف َك ََك َع َنْلى أَن ت ُري َص ِ َإِل مل َك َن ََ ِْل ولِ َو لِ َكي َ ِ َْْ ُُ ْ َن َِ ا أَِ ْ ََع َآ
ب ُّلكنْدَآ ََ ْع ُْوفًآ و تن ِِ َْع ِ ْ ي فَ ل تُ ِ ْعهمآ و
َ ِ آس ْ ِد ُه َمآ ٌَ ك َِ َِ َِعنْلََ س َل ََ ْ َِب ََآ ل َِ
َ َُ
َ َََي َدُ َن إِل ََ ْْ ِج ُع ُُ َْ ي فَأُندَِّ ِئُ ُُ ي ِِبَآ َُّ تُ َْ ي َتد ْع َمنْلُو َن
َإِل ُنُث َن َب َن ََ َََ َس ِِ َََ ََ َْ أ
َْ ن َم َو َِ أ
َو ب لن َ ِ َوَْ ب َ ْخ ٍََْ أ َ ِ ُُ ك َِ ْثد َقآلََ َسن ِ ٍَي َِّ َْ َخ َْْد ٍَل َفدَت َُ إ دن َهآ إن َت
َْْ َُ ْصل َ وأ َََي َدُ َنَ أَنِ َِ ي ل ن ري ٌَ ِِ َّ َخٌَ ِ َِ ل ََِ إ نَن ن َُض ََْي َِ ِِبَآ ن َِ ب ألَ ْر َِ
ك َِ َْ َع ْزَِم ََ ِك إ نَن ذَل ََ ََا َعنْلَى ََآ أَ َ آ َْ ِ ْ وف و نَْ َع َِ ملُ َُ َِْ و َِ ُْ ِ ل َْم ْع
ِ ال ََض ََ َْ ًسآ إ نَن ن َِ ب ألَ ْر َِ ش َِ َْس وال ُت َِ ص ِّع َْْ َخ نك ََك لِنْلنآ َ ُ وال تَ ألُ َُوَِر
ك إ َنن ََ ِض َِ َ ْوت َْ ض ُ ْك و ََ ِش ْ ََ ب َ ِ ْص َْك ِ و نآل فَ ُخوٍَر ٍَ ُِ َُّ َُّ نََ نيَُْت
.)27- 218ٌ (نمًاري َِ ص ْو َُ اَ ِم َ َأَن َُ ََْ ألَ ْ َو َِ ل
1
Weak hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi.
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, Ad-Daarimi, and At-Tirmidhi.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and Abu Dawood.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by Ibn Mandah in Ma‟rifat As-Sahabah, Ad-Daylami in Al-
Firdaws and he said it is a good narration, and Ibn „Asaakir. As-Sakhaawi said about
it, “Its chain of narration is weak but it is supported by other narrations.”
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Article (113)
Good Social Habits
From the very beginning, it is the child‟s right to be
trained to acquire good social habits, particularly those which
emphasize the importance of maintaining family and social
cohesion through love and mercy between family members and
relatives. These habits also involve maintaining ties of kinship,
treating parents well and obeying them in all affairs that are
good, revering them, supporting them financially and aiding
them in their old age or in poverty, in addition to meeting or
fulfilling all their Shari‟ah established rights. They should also
be taught to be respectful to elders and merciful with youth, to
wish the best for others, and to cooperate in those affairs that
are good and righteous.
This Article also deals with the social aspect of upbringing,
which implies that the child should be raised to learn that he has
duties just as he has rights. Such habits in their reality, represent
social duties that the individual must fulfill towards his family and
society. The attention to this aspect begins from within the family
wherein the child should be raised to fulfill his duties towards his
family then expanding to the obligations outside of his family.
No counterpart exists for this Article in the Convention on
the Rights of the Child, which like other human rights agreements,
only focuses on the aspect of rights, without giving attention to
duties, which are the other side of the coin. All rights due to each
person are opposed by duties towards others, the subject of which is
respecting these rights and fulfilling them towards others.
There are many Islamic texts pertinent to social duties, for
example the words of the Noble Qur‟an:
َآَ إ نَآ يَد ْ ِدنْلُ َغ نَ ِع َك َك
ًَ ن َ إس
ِ
ْ َِ ْإ نَي َهُ و ِ ل َْو ل َكي
ك أَال َتد ْع ُِ ُكو إالَ َُّضى َر َ َون
ُهآ ونَُ نهلَُمآ َند ْوال َُ ْْ ُف وال َتد ْد َهٍَّ َتدقَُ نهلَُمآ أ َُ َِّ َو
لُهآ فَل َْ ُهآ أ
َُ َس ُك ِ
َ لَُ ِد ََْ أ
ْت ُه َمآ ََّ َمآ
َْ ب ْر َِّ ْت َِي ونَُ نر َْ ُّْلي َِّل َِ ََ ل ن ََ َض َهلَُمآ َج
آح َْ و ْخ ِف ََّ َُِْيًآ
)12- 11 8: (اإلرسزا ري ِ َ ِ رَدن
ًَ آّن َ غ ََ
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ْ يٌ فَل تُ ِ ْع ُه َمآ
َ ك ََِِ ِعنْلَ َس ل
ََ ْ َِب ََآ ل َ ِ ش ِْ ََكْ ُوإن َج َآف َك ََك َعنْلَى أَن ت
)23 8ٌ ( نمًاإِل ََ َََ ب ُّلكندَْآ ََ ْع ُْوفًآ و تن ِِ َْع َس ِِ َََ ََ َْ أ
َب َن ِ و
َ ِ آس ْ ِد ُه َمآ َ
But if they (both) strive with you to make you
associate in worship with me that of which you have
no knowledge, then obey them not; but behave with
them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him
who turns to Me in repentance and in obedience.
Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you
what you used to do. (31: 15)
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and At-Tirmidhi.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i,
and Ad-Daarimi.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and Ibn Maajah.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, and Abu Dawood.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, and Al-Hakim.
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Article (114)
Comprehensive and Balanced Education for the Child
1. The child shall have the right to an education that aims
to:
a. Make the child aware of the ultimate facts of
existence, such as the Creator who directs all
affairs, the universe that is subjected to man for
the benefit of humanity, man and the mission that
he is to accomplish, the trials in this life that one
experiences in preparation for the world of reward
in the Hereafter.
b. Develop the child‟s personality, his talents, and his
mental and physical abilities to their fullest
potential so that he will be able to carry out his
mission in life.
c. Develop respect for human rights, fundamental
freedoms and make him aware of his specific and
general responsibilities.
d. Develop the child‟s self respect, cultural identity,
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Hibbaan.
2
Weak hadith, reported by At-Tabarani in Al-Awsat.
3
Weak hadith, reported by Al-Hakim, Ibn Abi „Aasim, Al-Baghawi, and Al-Bukhari in
At-Tareekh.
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1.
َك َ ند ََْْْأ
َ َُّور َإلننآنَ َِ َْ َع َنْل ٍا
َ َ َخ َنْل َا ك َل ِيي َخ َنْل َا ََ َِّ نْْأَْ ِ ْس َِ ي َر
ِ ِ
)3- 2 8 (انعهكن ََآ ََلْ يَد ْعنْلَ َْ ي َ َ َعنْلن ََ ي َ لنيي َعنْلن ََ ي لْ َقنْلَ َِ ي ألَ َّْ ََُْم
َ إلننآ
Read! In the Name of your Lord Who has created
(all that exists).* He has created man from a clot (a
piece of thick coagulated blood). * Read! And your
Lord is the Most Generous. * Who has taught (the
writing) by the pen? * He has taught man that
which he knew not. (96: 1-5)
2.
)2 8 (انمهىن
َ ن ُ ُْو َ ن و لْ َقنْلَ َِ ي
ْ َوَآ ي
Nun. By the pen and by what they (the angels)
write. (46: 1)
3.
َ َعنْلن َم َُ لَ ِدَآإلننآ َن
)2- 28ًٍ (انزح ن َ َخنْلَ َاَ َعنْلن ََ ي لقُ ْْ َنَُ ْت
َْ ْ ل ن
The Most Gracious (Allah). * He has taught (you
mankind) the Qur‟an. * He created man. * He
taught him eloquent speech. (55:1-4)
4.
َ نَت ِوي َل ِيي ََ يَد ْع َنْل ُمو َن و لن ِيي ََ ال يَد ْع َنْل ُمو
)7 8 (انزيزن ْ َنُ ََْ َف ََْ ي
…Say, “Are those who know equal to those who
know not?” (39: 9)
5.
ََ ُِ لَ ِيي ََ ََ ُو َِ ُُ َْ ي و لن ِيي ََ أُوتُو لعِنْل
8 (انًجادنتٍَ ْ ي َد َر َجآ َيَد ْْفَ ِعَ ن
)22
…Allah will exalt in degree those of you who
believe, and those who have been granted
knowledge… (58: 11)
6.
)222 8 (طهْمآ ِ َ ِب ِز ْد
َِّ ونَُ نر
ً ّن عنْل
…And say: “My Lord! Increase me in
knowledge.” (20: 114)
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7.
آر ْ وفآ ََّ َمَث ََِ اِ َمآ ِرَ َ ْ ِم ََُ أ
ً َس َف ُِّ ََ َََث ََُ لَ َِيي
َ ُْتنْلُو لنتد ْوَر َ ُنُث ََلْ َ ْ ِمنْل
)3 8(انجًعت
The likeness of those who were entrusted with the
Taurah (Torah) but who subsequently failed in
those (obligations), is as the likeness of a donkey,
which carries huge burdens of books (but
understands nothing from them...(62: 5)
8.
َن َِ ي و نَُِ يدُ ْدِي ِ َِ ب لعِنْلَ ِ ًن َ َي ََنَآلََ إ نَن ن
ْ ْ ي و ْل ْ ََ ُِ ْ َ َفآ َهُ َعنْلَ ْ ُُ ْ يَ وَز َد َه
)125 8 (انبمزة ُِ و ِس ٌَع َعنْلِ ٌَ ي َشآ َُ و نَ ََُنْلْ َُ َُ ََ ي
…Verily, Allah has chosen him above you and has
increased him Abundantly in knowledge and
stature. And Allah grants His kingdom to whom He
wills. And Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures‟
needs, All-Knowing. (2: 247)
9.
َ َن َِ ال إل ِ ِ َِ ِ أَنَُ ال إلََ إال فوَ و لْملِِ َُ َيُ وأُولُو ِلعنْل
ْ ْ ي َنآِ ًمآ ِ لْق ْ َ َُ َُن َ َ ِهك
)26 8ٌ (آل عًزايز اَُ َُ ي ِ َُ َلع ِز إال ُف ََو
Allah bears witness that none has the right to be
worshipped but He, and the angels, and those
having knowledge (also give this witness); (He
always) maintains His creation in justice. None has
the right to be worshipped but He, the All-Mighty,
the All-Wise. (3: 18)
10.
ََُنَت ِِ ُون ِ ِ ِ َِ ُإَل ل نْس
ْ َِل ألَ َْ َِْ َ ْد ُه ْ يَ لَ َعنْل َم َُ لَيي ََ ي
َ ِوإَل أ ُْو
ََ ول ََ ُولَ ْوَ َردُّوَه
)61 8: (انُساَِ ْد ُه َْ ي
…If only they had referred it to the Messenger or
to those charged with authority among them, the
proper investigators would have understood it from
them (directly)… (2: 83)
11.
َِّ َوَآ يَدتن ِِ َُع أَ ََّْثد ُُْف َْ ي إال ظًَآ إ ننَ لمن نَ ال يدُغْ ِ َ َِ ََ َا
)14 8 (يىَسا َ ْدًئآ َ
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah, Ibn „Adiyy in Al-Kaamil, Al-Baihaqi in
Shu‟ab Al-Eman, Tabarani in As-Sagheer, Al-Awsat, and Al-Kabeer, and Al-Khateeb
in At-Tareekh.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Hakim in his Mustadrak , and Al-Baihaqi in
As-Sunnan Al-Kabeer.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Maajah.
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Ad-Daarimi in his Sunnan and Abu Na‟eem in Al-
Hilyah).
3
Saheeh narration, reported by Ad-Daarimi in his Sunnan.
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Article (115)
Obtaining Useful Information
1. The child shall have the right to obtain information and
materials that are spread by mass media and are aimed
at promoting social welfare, deepening religious culture,
and protecting physical and mental health. Protection
from harmful information and material in said aspects is
an established right.
2. All institutions of the society, including the state, shall
encourage the production, exchange, and dissemination
of information and material that is beneficial culturally,
ethically, and religiously. This information and material
shall be made available to children. At the same time,
production and dissemination of information that is
dangerous to children in all of these issues shall be
prevented.
This Article stipulates the right of the child to obtain useful
information and material that are beneficial to him, and are spread
by mass media, while protecting him from information and material
that are harmful to him
8: (اإلرسزا ن ُدوال َ ِص ََْ و لْ ُف َد دَ َُّ ََُّ أ ُْوَلئ
ْ ََ َُ ْ كَ ََّآنَ َع إ ننَ ل ن
َ َِ ْن ْم َعَ و ل
.)14
…Verily the hearing, and the sight, and the heart, of
each of those ones will be questioned (by
Allah). (25: 36)
Likewise, it was related on the authority of Jaabir (may
Allah be pleased with them) that the Messenger (may the blessings
and peace of Allah be upon him) said, “Ask Allah for useful
knowledge and seek protection from Allah from knowledge that is
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not useful.”1
This Article corresponds with Article (17) of the
“Convention on Children‟s Rights”.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Maajah.
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Section Six
Comprehensive Protection
Article (116)
Protection from Harm and Abuse
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from all
forms of harm and oppression, as well as from physical,
mental, or psychological abuse, neglect, or degrading
treatment, whether it be inflicted by the parents or by
any other person responsible for the child or caring for
him.
2. This right does not contradict the necessities of
disciplining and teaching the manners, which involve
pedagogically accepted punishments that incorporate a
wise and balanced combination of explanation,
persuasion, enticement, and encouragement along with
deterrents and punishment according to relevant
Shari‟ah, legal, and psychological rules for doing so.
3. All societal institutions, including the state, shall provide
appropriate assistance, first to the parents and then to
others who are legally responsible for the child, to
assume the responsibilities of raising the child, while
taking all social, legislative, media, and cultural
measures that are required to instill the necessary
principles to nurture faith and establish a virtuous
society that rejects vices and deplorable habits and
follows the most upright of ethics and the best of
manners.
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This Article deals with the issue of protecting the child from
harm and abusive or degrading treatment, whether it is caused by
the parents, those with responsibility for the child, or those caring
for him (such as the teacher at school, the nanny at home, the
supervisor at a club, or others who have the right to enforce
discipline or manners, or provide direction to the child, and enforce
those punishments which are acceptable from a pedagogical
standpoint)… And to deal with this aspect, it was necessary to
mention Clause (2).
*Clause (1):
This is considered to be an application of the many Islamic
texts that forbid oppression and harming others, or aggression or
injury of any degree, especially towards children and other
vulnerable persons. Further, many other texts order leniency,
compassion, and justice in dealing with children and the vulnerable,
as well as the protection of their human dignity. Some of such texts
have already been presented in comments on Articles (100), (106),
(109), and others.
*Clause (2):
This Clause is also considered to be an application of the
established fundamentals of Shari‟ah that give the father or the
individual responsible for raising and educating the child, the right
to punish him within certain limits and criteria so that such
punishment does not reach the degree of causing physical or
psychological harm, and does not reach the level of abuse in
implementing said right.
This Article does not deal with the implementation of said
right by others; as such a situation is protected by the general laws
that protect individuals from any form of aggression.
This Article corresponds with Articles (16) and (19) of the
Convention on the Rights of the Child which are limited to the
issue presented in Clause (1) without mention of the issue found in
Clause (2). In fact, Article (19) only specifies the support
necessary for the issue presented in Clause (1). As it is
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Article (117)
Protection from Dishonor and Defamation
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from all
forms of exploitation, sexual abuse, or illegal harm to his
honor or reputation.
2. The child shall have the right to be protected from using
narcotics, psychotropic substances, alcoholic beverages,
and smoking, etc.
3. He shall have the right to be protected from being
abducted, sold, or trafficked.
4. Parents and those who are legally responsible for the
child‟s care shall make the child aware of and keep him
away from bad company, while providing a good
example and wholesome company which assist in his
protection.
5. All institutions of the society, including the state, shall
bear the duty of taking the necessary protective
measures to screen the media services for anything that
might cause, encourage, or contribute to the deviation of
the child, while taking the legislative, social, and
educational measures necessary to accomplish that.
This Article stipulates the protection of the child from
anything which might cause him harm.
Dishonor and defamation are among the greatest and most
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Article (118)
Protection from Economic Exploitation
1. The child shall have the right to be protected from
economic exploitation and from performing any work
that is likely to be hazardous, interfere with his regular
attendance of basic mandatory education, or is harmful
to his health or his physical, mental, religious, moral, or
social development.
2. The aforementioned right includes setting a minimum
age for children‟s employment and instituting an
appropriate system for employment hours and
conditions.
This Article stipulates the protection of the child from
economic exploitation.
*Clause (1):
This Clause of this Article is based on the noble hadith,
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Article (119)
War and Emergencies
1. The child shall not participate directly in war before he
has reached the age determined by the law.
2. In cases of emergencies, catastrophes, and armed
disputes, the child shall be given priori ty with regard to
protection and care of civilians with regard to the
impermissibility of killing, injuring, harming or taking
him captive. He shall also be given priority in fulfilling
his rights to shelter, food, healthcare, and relief.
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Maalik, Ahmad, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daaraqutni, Al-Hakim,
and Al-Baihaqi.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood on the authority of Anas ibn Maalik).
2
Reported by Al-Bazzaar, At-Tabarani in As-Sagheer and Al-Kabeer, Al-Haythami
said in Majma‟ Az-Zawa‟id, “The men in the chain of narration reported by Al-
Bazzaar are all saheeh narrators except for „Uthmaan ibn Sa‟eed Al-Mari who is
trustworthy.”
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Section Seven
Concern for the Best Interest of the Child
Article (120)
Benefiting from Human Rights Declarations
The provisions of this Charter do not breach any of the
human rights provided for by the Cairo Declaration on Human
Rights in Islam that were drafted during the summit held by
the Organization of the Islamic Conference on August 5, 1990.
In combination with this Charter, said provisions are
considered to be an integral whole, and the provisions of this
Charter do not breach any international declarations that
conform to the provisions of Islamic Shari‟ah.
This Article stipulates the integration of this Chapter with
similar international Islamic charters.
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Article (121)
Measures Towards Implementation of Children‟s Rights
All institutions of the society, including the state, shall
take all appropriate measures to implement the rights
established in this Charter, and shall provide the child with
direction and guidance suitable to his evolving abilities when
exercising such rights, while at the same time respecting the
responsibilities, rights, and duties of the parents, relatives,
guardians, or others who are legally responsible for the child.
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This Article stipulates the necessary measures for
implementing the stipulated rights of the Charter.
This Article corresponds with Articles (4) and (5) of the
Convention on the Rights of the Child.
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Article (122)
Concern for the Best Interest of the Child in All Affairs Pertinent
to Children
In all procedures pertinent to children, whether executed
by legislative, judicial, or administrative authorities, or by
public or private social care institutions, pri me concern shall be
given to the best interest of the child while taking into
consideration the rights and duties of his parents, guardians, or
other individuals who are legally responsible for him.
This Article stipulates the attention to the best interest of the
child, and care for the rights and obligations of the parents and
others.
This Article corresponds with Article (3) of the Convention
on the Rights of the Child.
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See Section Four of Chapter I.
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Likewise, He says:
َ ََ َِِوج َعنْلَْآ َُّ ْ ي َ ُعُوًَ َوَندَ ِآ ِ
َ َ نإَ َ َخ َنْل ْقَآ َُّ ي ََّ َ َذ ََّ ٍْ َوأُنَثى،نآس
َُ ََي َأَيُّد َهآ َ ل
8 (انحجزاثٌري َ ِِ ِ َ َعنْلِ ٌ ي َ َخ ِ ِ
َآرفُو َإ نن َأَ َّْ َََُُْ ْ ي َع َك َ نِ َأَْتد َقآ َُّ ْ ي َإ نن َ ن
ِ
َ لَتد َع
)21
O mankind, indeed We have created you from
male and female and made you peoples and tribes
that you may know one another. Indeed, the most
noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most
righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and
Acquainted. (49: 13)
This Chapter focuses on the manifestations of this relationship
between the smaller family and the larger family. These
manifestations are covered in the following seven sections:
Section One
Social Takaaful
Article (123)
The Principle of Takaaful and the Basis for its Establishment
Financial and social takaaful are among the greatest
general aims and basic goals in Islam that must be achieved in
the Islamic society. Takaaful is based on two main principles
which have been afforded a high degree of care and importance
in Islam; the interest, unity, and cohesion of the group; and the
comprehensive human brotherhood.
Linguistically, takaaful means to alleviate another‟s burden,
i.e., to supports another person and spend on him 1, it also involves
reciprocity. Thus, takaaful is to support, and spend on, and assist
each other. The takaaful between Muslims is a form of mutual care
by advising each other, providing financial support, etc. 2
This Article discusses two issues:
1
Al-Fayoumi, Al-Misbah Al-Muneer, p. 736, see: Ka-Fa-La.
2
Dr. Mohammed Rawaas Qal‟ah and Dr. Hamid Saadiq, Mu‟jam Lughat Al-Fuqahaa‟,
p. 142.
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1
See Section Four of Chapter IV.
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1
Fitr Zakah: Charity that is paid after the fasting of the month of Ramadan .
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Article (125)
Man‟s Innate Social Nature Necessitates Takaaful
Man is a social being who is naturally inclined to live in a
group, and it is impossible for him to live alone. For this
reason, takaaful between the rich and the poor, mutual aid in
times of difficulty, and sharing in times of happiness are some
of the most important basic principles for building social
solidarity and achieving unity and human brotherhood between
mankind.
This Article is based on a number of texts that have been
previously mentioned in Article (109).1
Islam is not only concerned with providing for the needs of
the Muslims alone, rather, it goes beyond this to include non-
Muslims who life in the shadow of the Muslim state. This stems
from the fact that social takaaful is humanitarian to the first degree,
before taking on a religious nature. This is because non-Muslims
living under the shadow of the Muslim stage are the responsibility
of the Muslims; and the ruler of the Muslims is responsible for
them just as he is responsible for the Muslims.
In „Umar ibn „Abd Al-‟Azeez‟s letter to „Udayy ibn Art‟ah
he wrote, “Search for the people of the covenant in your area who
may have grown old and are unable to earn, and provide them with
regular stipends from the treasury to take care of their needs.” 2
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1
See Section Four of Chapter IV .
2
Saheeh narration, reported by Abu „Ubayd Al-Qaasim, ibn As-Salam in the Book of
Al-Amwaal, and Ibn Zanjawayh in of Al-Amwaal. See: Ahkam Ahl Adh-Dhimmah,
Ibn Al-Qayyim, vol. 1, p. 144.
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Article (126)
The Perimeters of Takaaful
In Islam, social takaaful guarantees that the individual‟s
basic needs will be met. Thi s includes his dire necessities, needs,
and non-essential requirements related to accommodation,
food, clothing, medical treatment, and education to an extent
that is sufficient to meet the usual needs of a middle class
person; no less and no more.
This Article clarifies that the perimeters of takaaful
represent the basic needs of every individual, including dire
necessities, needs, and non-essential needs, and these are the
general aims of Islamic Shari‟ah. These basic needs are limited to
accommodation, food, clothing, medical treatment, and education,
and the extent to which these needs are to be provided is that which
is sufficient to meet the usual needs of a middle class person; no
less, and no more. Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
narrated that the Messenger of Allah said:
Whoever from among you has been entrusted with a position
and does not have a wife should marry, and whoever does
not have a home should get a home, and whoever does not
have a mount should get a mount, and whoever does not
have a servant should get a servant… and anyone who gets
anything other than that, has hoarded his wealth as a miser
or a thief.1
***
Article (127)
Cooperation Within the Islamic Society
In Islam, the Islamic society is built on the basis of
cooperating in all things that are good and pious. Social
takaaful is one of the most important forms of goodness as it
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Ubayd in Al-Amwal.
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1
See Chapter II, The Muslim Community‟s Responsibility for the Formation and
Protection of the Family.
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1
See aforementioned commentary on Articles (109) and (132).
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is by Al-Bukhari.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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obey you in this, then inform them that Allah has made charity
obligatory upon them that is to be taken from their rich and
returned to their poor…” 1
***
Article (130)
In Islam, Takaaful is the Basis for Financial Acts of Worship
Takaaful in Islam is one of the aims of Shari‟ah that is
essential to many of the Shari‟ah laws and regulations upon
which Islamic society is based and which are known as the
financial acts of worship. These include zakaah, providing
financial support for one‟s relatives, the obligation to maintain
ties of kinship, the system of al-‟aaqilah (where the male
paternal relatives of the person who is convicted of causing
accidental death share in paying the blood money), the
obligation to distribute the national income justly between the
rich and the poor, providing interest free loans, and expiations
and vows, etc.
This Article clarifies the status of takaaful in the system of
Islamic Shari‟ah. Thus, it is one of the important Shari‟ah aims
behind many of the laws and policies upon which the Islamic
society is based and which are known as the financial acts of
worship. All of the examples of the financial system in Islam that
are mentioned in this Article have their facts, pillars, conditions,
obligations and recommended acts, which are indicated by many of
the Shari‟ah texts, which are usually found in books of Fiqh.
***
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i, ibn Maajah, Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is by Al-Bukhari.
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Part III
Article (131)
The Detailed Rulings of Takaaful
The Shari‟ah rulings related to the obligation of takaaful
vary between mandatory and recommended. Likewise, the
spheres of entitlement are also varied on the basis of several
aspects which include: the degree of kinship between the person
who has wealth and the person entitled to takaaful, and the type
of Shari‟ah obligation that applies to the wealth (whether it is
obligatory zakaah, mandatory financial support, or voluntary
charity). These spheres of entitlement also take into
consideration of the level of the entitled person‟s need; whether
it is a dire necessity, a need, or a non-essential requirement, and
they also depend upon the original cause of the need; whether it
is the result of a Shari‟ah sanctioned interest, circumstances
beyond their control, or forbidden types of transactions. These
spheres expand until they include all of the society in a precise
unparalleled system, giving Islam its well deserved reputation
of being the religion that was revealed to care for the poor and
the weak. For more information on this topic, refer to the
detailed rulings in books of Islamic fiqh.
This Article clarifies the detailed rulings of takaaful in a
general manner, and further details regarding this subject are
generally found in books of fiqh.
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Section Two
Maintaining Uterine Ties
Article (132)
Definition of the Concept
1. The uterus is the secure place in the mother‟s abdomen
where the human is created and where his formation i s
completed. In this context, however, “uterine ties” refers
to one‟s relatives, whether maternal or paternal.
2. Maintaining uterine ties refers to being good, kind,
equitable and fulfilling the rights, obligations, and
recommended deeds that are due to relatives before
those of other people.
3. The ruling on maintaining this relationship may be
obligatory, mandatory, or recommended, according to
the proximity of the degree of kinship. This
responsibility falls upon the closest relative, then the next
closest until it even reaches the degree of preferring one‟s
parents over one‟s self, as they are the means by which
the person was brought into existence, and the mother is
given precedence over the father in all Islamic texts and
teachings.
This Article explains the concept of “uterine ties”.
* Clause (1):
This Clause discusses the meaning of “uterus” from a
linguistic point of view and mentions that the uterus contains all of
a person‟s relatives (siblings) from his mother and father. The
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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man asked, “Then who?” He said, “Then your mother.” The man
asked, “Then who?” He answered “Then your mother.” The man
asked, “Then who?” He answered, “Then your father.”1
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) also
reported that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “May his nose be rubbed in the dust! May his nose be
rubbed in the dust! May his nose be rubbed in the dust! The
one who sees one or both of his parents during their old age but
does not [work to] enter Paradise [by treating them well].” 2
It was reported by Anas (may Allah be pleased with him)
that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “Whoever would like to have his provision expanded and
his lifespan extended, let him uphold the ties of kinship.”3
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) also narrated that
Abu Talhah was the wealthiest person of the Ansaar in Madinah in
palm trees. The most beloved of his wealth was Bayrhaa, which
was the area in front of the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (may
blessings and peace be upon him) would enter it and drink sweet
water from it. Then the verse of the Qur‟an was revealed:
ُِ ْاَس نََتُد ْ ِف ُقو َِّمن
)71 8ٌ (آل عًزان
َ آََتُّ ِو َ لَ ْ ََتدَآلُو َ لِ ن
Never will you attain the good [reward] until you
spend [in the way of Allah] from that which you
love. And whatever you spend indeed, Allah is
Knowing of it. (3: 92)
Abu Talhah stood before the Messenger of Allah (may blessings
and peace be upon him) and said:
O Messenger of Allah, Allah the Blessed and Exalted says,
Never will you attain the good [reward] until you spend
[in the way of Allah] from that which you love and there is
nothing that I love more than Bayrhaa, so I give it in charity
for the sake of Allah, and I hope to find its goodness and
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim and the wording is from Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
4
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
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pleased with him) that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be
upon him) said, “The maternal aunt‟s position is like the
mother‟s.” 1
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Article (133)
The Importance of Maintaining Uterine Ties
1. Islam places great importance on maintaining uterine
ties and building this relationship, just as it also strongly
warns against severing them.
2. Using the expression “uterine ties” to refer to ties of
kinship is a reminder that the mother‟s womb is the
place of a divine miracle and a reminder of Allah‟s
ability to create man from nothing; thus strengthening
the religious deterrent within man and encouraging him
to fulfill the rights of his relatives.
* Clause (1):
The first Clause of this Article explains the importance of
uterine ties and the necessity of taking good care to maintain them,
just as it also strongly warns against severing them. With respect to
the first issue, copious evidence has already been presented in
Clause (3) of the previous Article to indicate the obligation of
taking care to maintain these ties. As for the strong warning against
severing these ties; it is indicted by the following Shari‟ah texts:
َ*َ ض َوتُد َق ِّ ُعو َأ َْر َس َآَُُ ْ ي
ِ ن ْدتُ ْ ي َإن ََتد َولن ْدتُ ْ ي َأَن َتُد ْف ِن ُكو َِب َ ألَ ْرَ َفد َه َْ َ َع
)11- 11 8 (دمحمآرُف َْ ي ِ َ ِأُوَلئ
َص َ ََْكَ َليي َ ََل َعَد ُه ُ يَ نَُِ َفأَ َ نم ُه ْ يَوأَ ْع َمىَأ ْ
So would you perhaps, if you turned away, cause
corruption on earth and sever your [ties of]
relationship? * Those [who do so] are the ones that
Allah has cursed, so He deafened them and blinded
1
Hasan hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
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َِ ََِ ْ َََد ْع ِك ََِ َثآنِ ِ َويَد ْق َ ُعو َن َ ََآ َأ َََ َْ َ نُِ ََِ ِ َأَن
ِضو َن َ َع ْه َك َ ن
ُ ُ و لن ِيي َ َيَ ق
َِسو ُ َ ل نك َر َ ِض َأ ُْولَئ
ُ ك َ َهلُ يُ َ لنْلن ْعَيُ َوَهلُ ْ ي ِ يُو َ ََ َويدُ ْف ِن ُكونَ َِب َ ألَ ْر
)13 8(انزعد
But those who break the covenant of Allah after
contracting it and sever that which Allah has
ordered to be joined and spread corruption on earth,
for them is the curse, and they will have the worst
home. (13: 25)
Abu Bakrah Nufai‟ ibn Al-Haarith related that the Holy
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) said, Shall I tell
you what are the greatest of the major sins? (He repeated this
three times). We said, “Certainly, O Messenger of Allah.” He
said, “Association of others with Allah, disobedience of parents
(he had been leaning on a pillow, and suddenly he sat up and said)
and telling a lie or bearing false witness.” He repeated these last
words so many times that we wished he would stop.1
„Abdullah ibn „Amr ibn Al-‟As related that the Holy Prophet
(may blessings and peace be upon him) said, “The Major sins are
worshipping others with Allah, abusing one‟s parents, taking a
life, and making a false oath intentionally.” 2
He (may Allah be pleased with him) also reported that the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) said
that abusing one‟s parents is a major sin. He was asked, “O
Messenger of Allah, does a person abuse his parents?” He
answered, “Yes, if he abuses a person‟s father, the latter would
in turn abuse his father; and if he abuses another person‟s
mother, the latter would in turn abuse his mother.” 3
It was related by Abu Muhammad, Jubayr ibn Muti‟m (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the Holy Prophet (may blessings
and peace be upon him) said, “He who cuts asunder the ties of
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari .
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Article (134)
Means and Mechanisms for Maintaining Uterine Ties
1. Islam has based the principles of inheritance, priority in
social takaaful, and the foundation of the social structure
on uterine ties, to be the deepest and most important
social connections and in order to create social cohesion
and provide for the society's continuity.
2. Islam emphasizes that an appropriate level of love, good
relations and equitable interaction must be maintained
and that uterine ties should never be denied, no matter
the extent of the conflict or the differences in sect or
belief.
3. Islam stresses the importance of sharing advice,
providing support, and taking relatives‟ priority into
account.
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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Section Three
Financial Support
Article (135)
Financial Support is One of the Most Important Means of
Takaaful
Islam is distinguished by the institution of a precise
system of obligation to provide financial support between
family members, as well as between individuals and the
government. This system forms an integral part of the social
takaaful system in Islam, with both supporting each other to
meet the needs of the poor, the weak, and those who have
special needs.
This Article discusses the importance of the integration of
the Islamic legislation to achieve takaaful in the society.
Realistically, it is impossible for the state to fulfill the society‟s
needs by itself; particularly for the poor, the needy, and those with
special needs. For this reason, the role of the individual is
emphasized, considering him to be a member of the small family as
well as the large family to work together in an integrated manner
with the government to meet the needs of the society. This role was
not left to the whims and aims of individuals or according to their
personal desires. Rather, it is a role that is organized in a precise
manner to achieve its aim of social takaaful in Islam. This shall be
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Article (136)
Financial Support for the Wife, Minor Children, and Others Who
Fall Under the Same Category
1. Anyone who is financially sound and has wealth, whether
male or female, young or old, shall be supported from his
own wealth, with the exception of the wife; in her case all
of her financial support – including medical treatment –
is the obligation of the husband, even if she is financially
well off.
2. Small needy children shall be provided for by their
father, even if he is poor. The responsibility for
providing them may be undertaken by the mother if she
is financially well off, or by the closest relative who has
sufficient finances, however, whatever is spent on the
children will be considered a debt for which the father is
responsible according to details that can be referred to in
books of Fiqh. The same ruling applies to adult children
if they are unable to provide for themselves de facto or de
jure. In the case of a girl, she shall continue to be
supported financially until she gets married and moves
to her husband‟s home, at which time the obligation to
provide for her financially is transferred to her husband.
This Article discusses some of the rulings related to financial
support:
* Clause (1):
This Clause mentions that anyone who is financially solvent
and has wealth, whether he is male or female, or young or old, shall
be supported from his own wealth. This is evidenced by the
following Shari‟ah texts:
It was related by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with
him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa‟i, and Abu Dawood (however, in his
narration he mentioned the child before the wife).
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
3
See Article (70) in Part II, of Section Four of Chapter III.
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1
See Article (107) of Section Three of Chapter IV.
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Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
5
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
6
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Hakim and At-Tabarani.
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the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) to beg from
him. The Prophet asked him, “Have you nothing in your house?”
He replied, “Yes, a piece of cloth, a part of which we wear and a
part of which we spread (on the ground), and a wooden bowl from
which we drink water.” He said, “Bring them to me.” He then
brought the articles to him and the Prophet (may blessings and
peace be upon him) took them in his hands and asked, “Who will
buy these?” A man said, “I will buy them for one dirham.” He
repeated twice or thrice, “Who will offer more than one
dirham?” A man said, “I will buy them for two dirhams.” He
gave these to him and took the two dirhams and then gave them to
the man from the Ansaar and said, “Buy food with one dirham to
give to your family, and with the other, buy an axe and bring it
to me.” He did so and then brought it to him. The Apostle of Allah
(peace be upon him) fixed a handle on it with his own hands and
said, “Go, gather firewood and sell it, and do not let me see you
for a fortnight.” The man went away and gathered firewood and
sold it. When he had earned ten dirhams, he came to the Prophet
(may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and bought a
garment and food with some of what he had earned. The Apostle
of Allah (peace be upon him) then said, “This is better for you
than for begging to come as a spot on your face on the Day of
Judgment. Begging is only suitable for three people: one who is
in grinding poverty, one who is seriously in debt, or one who
must pay blood money.” 1
***
Article (138)
Financial Support for Unmarried Women
1. Unmarried women or those who are divorced or
widowed and who have completed their waiting periods
and have wealth shall support themselves from it.
However, in the case that the woman does not have any
wealth, she is not obliged to look for work, and she shall
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Abu Dawood and Ibn Maajah.
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1
See Fath Al-Qadeer by Ibn Al-Hamam, vol. 4, pg. 217, and Kitaab An-Nafaqaaat by
Al-Khassaaf Al-Hanafi, pg. 71, and the same meaning was reported from Abu
Haneefah who wrote Takmilat Al-Majmou‟ vol. 18, pg. 300. See also Al-Mughni by
Ibn Qudamah, vol. 11, pg. 378, and At-Taj wal-Ikleel Sharh Mukhtasir Khaleel, vol.
4, pg. 208, and Nihayat Al-Muhtaj Ila Sharh Al-Minhaj by Ar-Ramli, vol. 7, pg. 219,
and Fath Al-Baari, vol. 9, pg. 501, and Al-Ashbah Wan-Natha‟ir by As-Suyouti, pg.
413, and Al-Muhilla by Ibn Hazim, vol. 10, pg. 102.
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Sadaqah: A form of voluntary charity given by Muslims.
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َِ ُْ َْ نآِِ َِ َو ل َْم
- 12 8 (انًعارج وم َلِنْل نٌََساٌّ َ نَ ْعنْلُوم ِِ ِ
َ َو لنيي َ َِب َأ ََْ َو هل ْ ي
)13
And those within whose wealth is a known right *
For the beggar who asks, and for the unlucky who
has lost his property and wealth, (and his means of
living has been straitened); (70: 24-25)
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi,
An-Nasaa‟i Ibn Maajah, Ad-Daarimi, and the wording is from Al-Bukhari.
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Ramadan.” 1
With regard to vows:
)17 8 (انحجورُف َْ ي
َ َولْ ُوفُو َنُ ُي
…and fulfill their vows … (22:29)
With regard to expiation:
ُّ ال َيدَُد ِخ ُي َُّ ُ ي َ نُِ َ ِ لنْلنغْ ِو َِب َأ َُْيَآنِ ُُ ْ ي َوَل َُِ َيدَُد ِخ ُي َُّ ي َِِبَآ َ َع نق
َكُتُ َ ألَ ُْيَآ َن
ََا ََِ ْ َأ َْو َس ِ َََآ َتُ ْعِ ُمونَ َأَ ْفنْلِ ُُ ْ ي َأ َْو َ َّنآ
ِ ََ ِْش
َ َ َ َ آم َ َع ُ آرتُ ُ َإط َْع َ فَ َُ نف
)67 8 (انًائدةن َوتدُ ُه َْ ي ِ
ْ َّ
Allah will not impose blame upon you for what is
meaningless in your oaths, but He will impose
blame upon you for [breaking] what you intended of
oaths. So its expiation is the feeding of ten needy
people from the average of that which you feed your
[own] families or clothing them ... (5: 89)
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi, and An-Nasaa‟i.
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Thihaar: A custom in which a man would say to his wife, “You are like the back of my
mother to me” thereby making sexual relations with her forbidden indefinitely.
2
The zakah that is to be paid upon the completion of the fast of Ramadan.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
Weak hadith, reported by Ad-Daraqutni and Ibn „Adiy.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah, and Al-Hakim who classified it
as saheeh.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ibn Hibbaan and Al-Hakim.
5
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
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In Section Four of Chapter IV.
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1
Weak hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi , Ibn Maajah, and At-Tabarani, however the
meaning of the hadith is authentic and it is supported by the previously mentioned
verse of the Qur‟an.
2
See Section Four of Chapter IV.
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1
These narrations are from the narrations of Ibn Hazim in Al-Muhalla (vol. 6, p. 452)
from his path of narration, and their chains of narration are authentic.
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Section Four
Guardianship Over One‟s Person and Wealth
Article (140)
The Shari‟ah Aim Behind Guardianship
Guardianship over one‟s person and wealth was
legislated along with trusteeship and conservatorship in order
to protect the interests and wealth of a person who is lacking
sound judgment and intellect. This may be due to his youth,
inability to handle his wealth properly, or deficiency in legal
competence. Wealth is the supporting pillar of life and thus,
according to Shari‟ah, it must be protected and developed.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh chain of narration, related by Maalik and Al-Baihaqi.
3
See the commentary on Article (110) in Section Four of Chapter IV.
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***
Article (141)
Guardianship and Trusteeship
1. Children who are incompetent or deficient in their
competence, shall have the right to be provided personal
care by the state so that their rights and interests, both
material and moral, are looked after. This is achieved
by instituting provisions related to guardianship of
person and property, trusteeship, conservatorship, and
judicial assistance, etc., according to the rulings of
Islamic Shari‟ah.
2. The person who is incompetent or deficient in his legal
competence shall have the right upon the aforementioned
guardians and trustees, as well as upon the legislative,
judicial, and social organizations, to be provided the best
possible care and protection. This care includes properly
managing his property, while training him to manage so
that he will be prepared to have it returned to him when
he reaches majority.
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* Clause (1):
We have already addressed the right of a person who is
incompetent or deficient in his competence to have the state
institute a system of guardianship over his person and wealth, in
order to provide personal care, and to look after his rights and
material interests. The definitions of guardianship, administration
and conservatorship have already been mentioned in the previous
Article. The judicial assistant, however, is a person of sound
judgment who is appointed by a judge to assist a physically
disabled person, who despite the fact that he is mentally capable
and has sound judgment, is unable to act in his own interest by
himself due to a physical disability such as being blind, deaf, mute,
etc. and his transactions are not valid without the consent of the
judicial assistant.
All of these measures are within the framework of Islamic
Shari‟ah rulings and they are based on the right to social insurance
in the manner that is clarified in the commentary on Article (109),
Clause (2).
* Clause (2):
The obligation mentioned in this Clause that the guardians or
whomever takes their place, and the various official establishments
shall provide good care and management of the ward‟s wealth and
to train him to manage it by himself is logically deduced from the
reason that the guardian or administrator takes responsibility, which
is the inability of those who are incompetent or deficient in their
competence to look after their interests by themselves and to mange
their wealth properly. Based on this, it necessarily follows that
good management of this wealth and protecting it must be an
essential condition in the guardians and administrators.
This condition is also derived from a number of Shari‟ah
texts which include:
َ نتُ ي ََِّ ْد ُه َْ ي َ ُر ْ ًك َفَآ ْد َفد ُعو ََ َُ َِّ َإذَ َََدنْلَغُو َ ل
ْ َآح َفَإ َْن َ ن َو َْدَتدنْلُو َ لَدَت َآَى َ َس ن
)4 8: (انُساََ َو َهلَُْ يْ إَل ْ َِه َْ يَأ
And test the orphans [in their abilities] until they
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Saheeh hadith, reported by At-Tirmidhi.
2
Saheeh chain of narration, reported by Maalik and Al-Baihaqi.
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1
See Articles (108), (109), and (110).
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Section Five
Inheritance
Article (143)
The Shari‟ah Ruling
In Islam, inheritance is a compulsory system that Allah
has mandated in clear texts that are firm in their evidence and
meaning. This system has been clarified more precisely than
any other worldly system in Islamic Shari‟ah, to the extent that
it became known as “The Science of Fara‟idh (obligations).”
This Article clarifies the ruling of the system of inheritance
in Islam and states:
1. That it is an obligatory system.
2. That it is established on the basis of clear texts that are
indisputable proof
3. That is explained with precise detail
This is indicated by a number of Shari‟ah texts:
Allah the Exalted says:
ِ ِ َالد َُّ ي َلِنْل نيََّ ِْ ََِ ْث
ِ ِ
َ َس ّظ َ ألُنَثدَد ْ ِا َفَإن َ َُّ ن َن
َنآ ً َ َفد ْو َق َ ُ ْ يُو ُُ ُ ي َ نُِ َِبَأ َْو
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ََِّ ُُ َِّ َو َألََد َويِْ َل ُ ص ْ ِّت َو ِس َك ً َ َفد َنْل َهآَ ل ْ َآََآََتد َْ َك َوإن َََّآن َ ثْدَدَتد ْ ِا َ َفد َنْل ُه ن َثدُنْلَُث
ِ لن ُك ٍِِ
َ س َّمنآََتد َْ َك َإن َََّآ َن َلَ َُولَ ٌك َفَإنَنَلَْيَ ُُ َلن َُولَ ٌك
َُ ََووِرث ُ ُّ َو سك ََّ ْد َُه َمآ
َس ََِ ْ َََد ْع ِكَو ِ ن ٍيَيُو ِ ي ُ لن ُك ُّ َ ِ َُِّثَفَإن َََّآ َنَلَ َُإ ْخ َو ٌَفَأل ُ ُأَََد َو هَُفَألَُِّ ِ َ لُّثدنْل
َ َ ََِّ ًضي َ ب َلَ ُُ ْ ي َنَد ْف ًعآ َفَ ِْي ُ َْْ ِِبَآ َأ َْو َ َديْ ٍ َ َ ُؤَُّ ْ ي َوأََْدَآ ُؤَُّ ْ ي َال ََت ْكرُو َن َأَيدُّ َُه ْ ي َأَند
َ ُُ ََّ َََآََتد َْ َكَأَ ْزَو ُج ُُ ْ يَإنَنَلَْي ُ ص ْ ِآَس ُِ ًمآَ*َ ولَ ُُ ْ يَن ِ
َ ِ َََّآ َنَ َعنْل ًم َنَِإ ننَ ن
ِ
َا َِِبَآ ٍ ِ ِ ِ
َ ِ نهلُن َولَ ٌكَفَإن َََّآ َنَ َهلُن َولَ ٌكَ َفدنْلَ ُُ ُ يَ ُّلَُْ ُعَّمنآََتد ََّْْ َ ََ ْ َ ََد ْعكَو ِ نيَيُو
َ أ َْوَ َديْ ٍ َوَهلُن َ ُّلَُْ ُع َِّمنآََتد ََّْْتُ ْ يَإنَنَلَْيَ ُُ َلن ُُ ْ يَولَ ٌكَفَإن َََّآ َنَلَُُ ْ يَولَ ٌكَ َفدنْلَ ُه ن
ِ ٍِ ِ ِ ِ لث
ََث
ُ ور َ َُر ُج ٌَ َي َ يََ ْ َََد ْعك َو ني َتُو ُو َنَِبَآَأ َْو َ َديْ ٍ َوإن َََّآ َن ّ ُُّم ُ َّمنآََتد ََّْْت ُ
َ س َفَإن َََّآنُو ك لن َآ م ه د ِ
ََ ٍ
ك سِ َو ِ
َ ُ
ُ ِ
نْل ف
َ َ تٌ ْ ْ ٌ ُ ٌ َ ْ ً ََّ
َ
خ ُ
أ َ َو أَ خ أ
َ َ ل
ََو أ
َْ َ َ ِ
و أ
َ َ ي ل
َ ل
ُ ُ ُّ َ ُ ْ ّ ّ
َ َ ُ َ ُ َََّْآ َ َفد ُه ْ ي كَ َِذَل ََِ َْ أَ ََّْثد
ِ ِ ِ ِ ٍ ِ ِ ِ ِ
َُِضآ ٍّرَو ن ًي ََّ َ َ نَِو ن َ ََ ُ َْ ِبَ لُّثدنْلُثََ ْ َََد ْعكَو نيَيُو َ ىَِبَآَأ َْوَ َديْ ٍ َ َ ْد
)21- 22 8: (انُساَسنْلِ ٌَ ي َ َعنْل ٌ ي
ِ
Allah instructs you concerning your children: for
the male, what is equal to the share of two females.
But if there are [only] daughters, two or more, for
them is two thirds of one‟s estate. And if there is
only one, for her is half. And for one‟s parents, to
each one of them is a sixth of his estate if he left
children. But if he had no children and the parents
[alone] inherit from him, then for his mother is one
third. And if he had brothers [or sisters], for his
mother is a sixth, after any bequest he [may have]
made or debt. Your parents or your children you
know not which of them are nearest to you in
benefit. [These shares are] an obligation [imposed]
by Allah. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Wise. *
And for you is half of what your wives leave if they
have no child. But if they have a child, for you is
one fourth of what they leave, after any bequest they
[may have] made or debt. And for the wives is one
fourth if you leave no child. But if you leave a child,
then for them is an eighth of what you leave, after
any bequest you [may have] made or debt. And if a
man or woman leaves neither ascendants nor
descendants but has a brother or a sister, then for
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Saheeh hadith; reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, An -Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and the
chain of narration was listed by Al-Hakim with similar wording.
5
Reported by An-Nasaa‟i, Ad-Daraqutni, and it was strengthened by Ibn „Abd Al-
Barr, and An-Nasaa‟i weakened it, and the correct opinion is that it is mawqoof at
„Amr.
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to his share.” 1
It was related by Ibn Buraydah from his father that the
Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) designated one-
sixth of the inheritance for the grandmother; if there is no mother
below her.2
It was narrated on the authority of Miqdaam ibn Ma‟dikarib
that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “The maternal uncle is the inheritor of those who have no
heirs.” 3
It was narrated on the authority of Abu Umaamah ibn Sahl
who said: „Umar wrote with me to Abu „Ubaydah (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and
peace be upon him) said, “Allah and His Messenger are the
patrons of those who do not have a patron, and the maternal
uncle inherits from the person who has no other inheritor.” 4
It was narrated on the authority of Jaabir (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be
upon him) said, “If the new born makes its initial sign, it
inherits.” 5
It was narrated on the authority of „Umar ibn Al-Khattaab
(may Allah be pleased with him) that he heard the Messenger of
Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) say, “What ever is
amassed by the father or the child, it is for his agnate, whoever
he might be.”6
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn
Maajah.
2
Saheeh hadith, Reported by Abu Dawood, An-Nasaa‟i, and classified as Saheeh by
Ibn Khuzaymah, Ibn Al-Jarood, and considered strong by Ibn „Adiyy.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood An-Nasaa‟i, Ibn Maajah, and was
classified as hasan by Abu Zur‟ah ar-Raazi, and classified as Saheeh by Ibn Hibbaan
and Al-Hakim.
4
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah,
and it was classified by At-Tirmidhi as hasan, and as saheeh by Ibn Hibbaan.
5
Saheeh hadith, Reported by Abu Dawood, and classified as saheeh by Ibn Hibbaan.
6
Saheeh hadith, reported by Abu Dawood An-Nasaa‟i, and Ibn Maajah, and classified
as saheeh by Ibn Al-Madeeni and Ibn „Abd Al-Barr.
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1
Wala‟: The relationship and rights that are established between a freed slave and the
person who freed him.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Hakim through the chain of narration of Ash-Shaf‟i
from Muhammad ibn Hasan from Abu Yusuf, and classified as authentic by Ibn
Hibbaan and weakened by Al-Bayhaqi.
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Al-‟awl: A way of proportionately reducing the share of all inheritors when the
inheritors‟ shares exceed the actual number of shares.
2
Takhaaruj: The agreement between heirs that one of the heirs give up his/her share of
the inheritance in exchange for its value or something else.
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ٍ ِ ِ
ْ َّ ْ َََد ْعكَو ِ نيَتُو ُو َن َِِبَآَأ
)21 8: (انُساٍَ َْوَ َدي
… after any bequest you [may have] made or
debt… (4: 12)
It was narrated on the authority of Al-Miqdaam ibn
Ma‟dikarib that the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him)
said, “Whoever leaves property, it is for his heirs, and I am the
heir of he who has no heir, I pay his blood-money for him and I
inherit from him.” 1
It was narrated on the authority of Mu‟aadh ibn Jabal (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (may blessings and
peace be upon him) said, “Allah has given you one-third of your
wealth in charity upon your death as an addition to your good
deeds.” 2
Sa‟d ibn Abi Waqqaas (may Allah be pleased with him)
narrated:
I said, “O Messenger of Allah, I am wealthy and I have only
one daughter to inherit me. Shall I give two thirds of my
wealth in charity?” He answered, “No.” I asked, “Shall I
give one half of it in charity?” He answered, “No.” I asked,
“Shall I give one-third of it in charity?” He answered, “One-
third; and one-third is much. It is better to leave your
inheritors wealthy than to leave them in need to beg from
people.” 3
*Clause (2):
This Clause clarifies that Allah, the Most Knowledgeable in
His Attribute as the Legislator has preferred to distribute the
inheritance in a specific manner, limiting the beneficiaries and the
share due to each of them without leaving room for will of the
deceased or the heir, and this is indicated by the following:
Allah the Exalted says:
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah.
2
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Ad-Daraqutni, Al-Bazzaar, and Ibn Maajah.
3
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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ََِ ْ َََد ْع ِك َو َِن ٍي َيُو ِ ي َِِبَآ َأ َْو َ َديْ ٍ َ َ ُؤَُّ ْ ي َوأََْدَآ ُؤَُّ ْ ي َال ََت ْك ُرو َن َأَيُّد ُه ْ ي
ِ َِإ ننَ نَََِّآ َنَ َعنْلِ مآَس ِضيً ََِ َ ن
)22 8: (انُساُ ًَمآ َ ً َ َ ّ َ ب َلَ ُُ ْ يَندَ ْف ًعآَفَ ِْي
ُ َْْ أَند
… after any bequest he [may have] made or debt.
Your parents or your children you know not which
of them are nearest to you in benefit. [These shares
are] an obligation [imposed] by Allah. Indeed, Allah
is ever Knowing and Wise. (4: 11)
This is also evidenced from the hadiths of Al-Miqdaam ibn
Ma‟dikarib and Mu‟aadh ibn Jabal that have been previously
mentioned (may Allah be pleased with them).
Debts here take precedence over bequests. It was related on
the authority of „Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said,
“You read the bequest before the debt, and I witnessed the
Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be upon him) start
with the debt before the bequest.”1 At-Tirmidhi said, “This is what
is applied by the scholars; to start with the debt before the
bequest.”2
Among the obligations and debts that are mandatory to be
paid from the inheritance of the deceased are: debts and obligations
related to Allah the Exalted such as zakaah that is due from him,
and debts and obligations related to man. Here, scholars differed
with regard to which of the debts and rights should take
precedence, and the reasons for this precedence. This subject can
be referred to in books of Fiqh.
* Clause (3):
This clarifies that the inheritance in Islam has principles,
regulations, conditions, causes, preventing factors, and rules for
exclusion that govern its system and must be followed during the
distribution of the inheritance. These details can be found in books
of Fiqh and legal references.
1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim in his
Mustadrak , Ad-Daraqutni and Al-Bayhaqi in their hadith compilations, Abu Dawood
At-Tayalisi, Al-Hameedi and Abu Ya‟la in their Musnad compilations, and Abd Ar-
Razzaq ibn and Ibn Abi Shayba in their books.
2
As-Sarkhasi, Al-Mabsoot, vol. 29, pg. 137.
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Article (145)
The Delicate Balance Between the Systems of Inheritance and
Financial Support
1. By surveying the rulings related to inheritance in Islam,
it is clear that Allah, the Most Knowledgeable, has
divided the deceased‟s legacy in a way that it is
distributed solely within the sphere of the family. The
order of those who are entitled to inherit and the
amounts of their shares are issues that are related to the
principles of financial support between the relatives.
Both systems (the system of inheritance and the system
of financial support between relatives) form a strong
basis for social takaaful in Islam.
2. The rulings of these two systems have established mutual
rights and responsibilities for and upon the members of
the family. Allah, the Most Wise Legislator, has made it
an obligation for the closest financially sound relative of
a young person who is in need, or an adult who is in need
and is unable to work, to provide for him from his
wealth. The closest relatives are charged with this
obligation. and if they are unable, then it falls upon the
next closest relatives. These are the same relatives who
usually inherit from each other, such that some scholars
of fiqh stipulated that financial support for a particular
person is only obligatory on those who are designated to
inherit from him. Thus, this obligation to provide
financial support is countered by the fact that most of
those relatives are inheritors of the deceased to whom his
legacy is passed.
This Article discusses the distribution and integration
between the system of inheritance and the system of financial
support. Each Muslim has two rights: the right of financial support
and the right to inheritance. Each right comes with a corresponding
obligation, and thus the individual‟s right to inheritance can only be
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1
Saheeh hadith; reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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1
This distinguishing factor, with all of its components, emphasizes the content of
Article (147) regarding the standards of distribution between the heirs.
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Article (147)
The Standards of Distribution Between Heirs
Upon evaluating the rulings related to inheritance it
becomes clear that the standards for distributing the
inheritance to the heirs are based on the following
considerations:
1. The degree of kinship; thus, the closest person to the
deceased receives the greatest share; whether male or
female.
2. Considering the heirs an extension of the deceased
person; a man‟s descendants are branches of himself that
reach out to face life, and for this reason, the son‟s share
is greater than that of the father and the grandfather. In
most cases, the deceased‟s descendants take the entire
inheritance for themselves, just as the share of the
daughter is greater than mother‟s share, even though
both of them are female.
3. Those who have greater financial obligations; such as
sons who just starting their lives and have not
accumulated any wealth, as opposed to fathers who have
wealth that they have earned and who are at the end of
their lives.
4. Justice between the inheritors; by establishing a delicate
balance between the financial obligations of the inheritor
and his share of the inheritance according to what is
mentioned in Article (48).
5. Breaking up the wealth so that it is not concentrated in
the hand of any one inheritor; for this reason the
inheritance is not limited to just the ascendants and the
descendants. Instead, it is also shared by the peripheral
relatives such as the brothers, sisters, paternal uncles,
half siblings, and maternal relatives.
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1
See the discussion Articles (143), (144), (145), and (146) of this Section.
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*Clause (1)
The mother receives half of the father‟s share if the deceased
son does not have any descendants who inherit. She is equal to him
in other cases if their deceased son has at least son or two
daughters. Allah the Exalted says:
َس ُّ َََّوألَََد َويِْ َلِ ُُ ََِّو ِس ٍك ََِّ ْد ُه َمآ
ُ لن ُك ُ صْ ِّتَو ِس َك ًَ َفدنْلَ َهآَ ل ْ َ وإن َََّآن...
َإن
َ ثَ َفُ َُوورِثَ َُأَََد َو هَُ َفألَُِّ ِ َ لُّثدنْل
َ ّمنآََتد َْ َكَإن َََّآ َنََل َُوَل ٌكَ َفإنَنَلَْيَ ُُ َلن َُوَل ٌك
ِ
)22 8: (انُساس َُ لن ُك ُّ َ ِ َََُِّّآ َنََل َُإ ْخ َو ٌَ َفأل
… And if there is only one [daughter], for her is
half. And for one‟s parents, to each one of them is a
sixth of his estate if he left children. But if he had
no children and the parents [alone] inherit from
him, then for his mother is one third. And if he had
brothers [or sisters], for his mother is a sixth… (4:
11)
It was narrated on the authority of Ibn „Abbaas (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings and
peace be upon him) said, “Give the fara‟idh, (the shares
prescribed in the Qur‟an) to those who are entitled to receive
them, and whatever remains should be given to the closest male
relative of the deceased.” 1 These cases are clarified as follows:
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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* Clause (2):
This clarifies that the half-siblings from the mother‟s
side are equal in their entitlement to one-sixth for each of them
to share equally in one-third if they are more than two, and this
is known in inheritance as the case of the kalaalah: (A person
who has no inheriting descendants or male inheriting
ascendants). Allah the Exalted says:
ٍَت َفَنْلِ ُُ َِّ َو ِسك ٌ ث َََّللَيً َأَوِ َ َْ َْأَ ٌَولَ ُ َأَخٌ َأ َْو َأُ ْخ
ُ ورَ َُر ُج ٌَ َيَ وإن َََّآ َن..
َِث ََِ ََد ْعك ِ ِ ِ ُّ ََِّ ْد ُه َمآ
َ ْ ُك َ َفد ُه ْ ي َ ُ َََّْآ ُ َِب َ لُّثدنْل َ س َفَإن َََّآنُو َأَ ََّْثد َْ ََ َ َذل ُ لن ُك
ٌَسنْلِ َ ي ِ ِ َِ ًضآرٍ َو ِ ني
َ ََ َ َ نِ َو نُِ َ َعنْل ٌ ي ّ
ِ ٍِ
ّ َ ََُ َْ و ني َيُو َى َِبَآ َأ َْو َ َديْ ٍ َ َ ْد
)21 8:(انُسا
1
This refers to the increase of the shares of the people who have set shares over the
actual available number, and in this case, the actual division will be from twelve
although the number of shares of the inheritance is 13. Thus the inheritance is
divided by 13, and not by 12.
2
This exceeds the standard of equality between the man and the woman when they are
of the same degree of kinship, because it demonstrates the extent of respect that
Islam has for women, even though she is further from the deceased than the man, and
despite this, she inherits the same share that he does; for the mother of the mother is
farther than the father, yet still, she receives the same share that he does.
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1
In the case that there are no agnates or other relatives or inheritors of fixed shares.
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B. The share of the half-sister from the mother (by herself) is equal
to the share of a full brother:
In this case the half-sister from the mother, who is the
furthest of the relatives, is equal to the full brother who is the
closest:
Half-Sister (from
Husband M other Full Brother
mother)
1/2 1/6 1/6 Balance
3 1 1 1
*Clause (5):
This clarifies that the women is given a greater share of the
inheritance because the fixed shares that are available for them are
much more frequent than those that go to men. The system of
inheritance in Islam is works in two main ways:
1. Inheriting a fixed share according to what was mentioned in
the Noble Qur‟an and the Prophetic traditions. The meaning
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Section Six
Bequests
Article (150)
Definition
A bequest is one of the means of social takaaful in Islam. It
is the final pillar in the system of inheritance as it allows the
testator to voluntarily transfer ownership of part of the legacy to
anyone he chooses, whether it be to those whom he loves, to his
relatives, or to anyone else, to be carried out after his death.
This Article defines a “bequest” as a voluntary transfer of
ownership of part of the legacy by the testator to whomever he
chooses, whether it be to people who are beloved to him, his
relatives, or anyone else, to be executed after the testator‟s death.
***
Article (151)
The Wisdom Behind its Legislation
Allah, the Mighty and Glorious, ordained the principles
of inheritance, making them obligatory and binding by defining
those who are entitled to inherit and the shares that each
person is due, without allowing them to be influenced by the
will of the deceased or the will of the inheritors. However,
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1
Hasan hadith, reported by Ahmad, Ad-Daraqutni, Al-Bazzaar, and Ibn Maajah.
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The bequest comes second with regard to the rights that are
related to the inheritance of the deceased (after preparing the body
and burying it) after paying any debts. Debts are given priority
over bequests by consensus of the scholars of Jurisprudence
because the debt is an obligation from the very beginning, while the
bequest is initially a voluntary gift, and that which is obligatory is
to be carried out before that which is voluntary. It was related from
„Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said, “You read the
bequest before the debt, but I witnessed the Messenger of Allah
(may blessings and peace be upon him) start with the debt before
the bequest.”1
***
Article (153)
Limits on Bequests
The maximum limit for bequests is one-third of the
inheritance, and Shari‟ah encourages people to make their
bequests less than one-third of the inheritance, in preference to
the rights of the inheritors. It is not permissible to bequest more
than one-third of the inheritance unless the inheritors agree to
the amount that is in excess. In the case that they do not
approve the extra amount, the bequest will be executed,
however, only to the maximum limit of one-third of the
inheritance.
The content of this Article is indicated by the narration of
S‟ad bin Abi Waqqaas (may Allah be pleased with him) who said:
I said, “O Messenger of Allah, I am wealthy and I have only
one daughter to inherit me. Shall I give two thirds of my
wealth in charity?” He answered, “No.” I asked, “Shall I
1
Hasan hadith, Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, Ibn Maajah, Al-Haakim, Ad-
Daaraqutni, Al-Baihaqi, Abu Daawood, At-Tayaalisi, Al-Humaydi, Abu Ya„la, Abd
Ar-Razzaaq, and Ibn Abi Shaybah. At-Tirmidhi said that according to most scholars
debts should be paid before paying any bequests. See As-Sarkhasi, Al-Mabsoot, vol.
29, p. 137.
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Article (154)
Bequests for Heirs
It is not permissible for the testator to make a bequest to
any of his inheritors unless the other inheritors agree to the
bequest; or unless doing so achieves justice between the
inheritors by taking into consideration a Shari‟ah recognized
need that is truly specific to the person who is the recipient of
the bequest.
Scholars of Islamic Jurisprudence differ with regard to
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Article (155)
General Conditions
The testator who makes a bequest must do so of his own
free will, not under duress, and he must be competent to
dispose. The beneficiary of the bequest must exist, and if the
bequest is designated for a particular person, he must accept it.
Also, the wealth that is bequeathed must be property1 that has
legal value and is valid to be inherited.
This Article clarifies the general conditions for the testator,
the recipient of the bequest, and the bequeathed property. As for
the testator, he must make the bequest of his own free will; not
under duress, and he must be competent to dispose. This is the
1
[T.N. Property in this context refers to any material thing with value that can be
possessed.]
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Article (156)
The Obligatory Bequest
In the pursuit of what is just, some manmade laws,
including Egyptian law no. 43 of 1946 C.E. of Article 76 have
adopted the opinion of some schools of jurisprudence that s tate
that it is obligatory for a person to make a bequest for the
descendent of a son who died during the testator‟s life if that
descendent would not otherwise inherit. The bequest should be
the same as the share that the deceased son would have
received, with the condition that the share does not exceed one-
third of the inheritance. If the grandfather does not make a
bequest for the descendent of his son, despite meeting the
conditions that make it obligatory to do so, the descendant will
be legally entitled to inherit the amount of his father‟s share or
one-third of the inheritance, whichever is less.
This Article discusses the obligatory bequest and its rulings.
This type of bequest is the product of juristic reasoning that is
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Section Seven
Endowments
Article (157)
Definition
An "endowment" (waqf) is the means of preventing
wealth from circulation during the life and after the death of
the person making the endowment. It designates that the fruits
and benefits of the endowment are to be donated for the sake of
Allah, to be used for any charity that benefits people and is of
general benefit to the society.
This Article clarifies the definition of an endowment, where
for example, a person designates farming land as an endowment so
that everything it produces is donated for charitable causes. This is
the true meaning of an endowment; wherein the original asset is
retained and the revenue is given in charity.
Article (158)
The Basis for its Legislation
Endowments are a form of voluntary perpetual charity
wherein the asset is fixed and its reward is ongoing. It is a
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari.
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From it, charity was given to the poor, for his relatives, to
set slaves free, for the sake of Allah, and for travelers and guests.
Also, the caretaker of the land was allowed to eat from it according
to what is commonly accepted, and to feed a friend from it as well.1
It was related by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with
him) in a long hadith, that the Messenger of Allah (may blessings
and peace be upon him) assigned „Umar to gather the voluntary
charity… and Khaalid designated his armor and weapons as an
endowment for the sake of Allah.2
„Uthmaan (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that
when the Prophet (may blessings and peace be upon him) arrived at
Medina there was no drinking water other than the Roomah well.
He asked, “Who will buy the Roomah well and set it aside so
that he and the Muslims can drink from it in exchange for
reward from it in Paradise?” So I bought it from my money. 3
Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “Abu Talhah
was the wealthiest person in Madinah in palm trees, and the most
beloved of his wealth was Bayrhaa, and it was the area in front of
the mosque. The Messenger of Allah (may blessings and peace be
upon him) would enter it and drink sweet water from it. Then when
the verse of the Qur‟an was revealed:
ُِ ْاَس نََتدُ ْ ِفقُو َِّمن
)71 8ٌ (آل عًزان
َ آََت ُِّو َ لَ ْ ََتدَآلُو َ لِ ن
Never will you attain the good [reward] until you
spend [in the way of Allah] from that which you
love. And whatever you spend indeed, Allah is
Knowing of it. (3: 92)
Abu Talhah stood before the Messenger of Allah (may blessings
and peace be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of Allah, Allah the
Blessed and Exalted says, Never will you attain the good [reward]
until you spend [in the way of Allah] from that which you love
and there is nothing that I love more than Bayrhaa, so I give it in
charity for the sake of Allah, and I hope to find its goodness and
1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim, and the wording is by Muslim.
2
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
3
Hasan hadith, reported by An-Nasaa‟i and At-Tirmidhi.
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1
Saheeh hadith, reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
2
Hasan hadith recorded by Abu Na‟eem in Ma‟rifat As-Sahabah. See Ibn Qudamah‟s
narration of this hadith in his book Al-Mughni, vol. 5, p. 376.
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Article (161)
Goals that are Served by Endowments
Throughout history, Muslims, both governors and the
governed, have competed with each other in spending their
wealth to establish endowments for the following purposes:
1. All humanitarian fields and meeting the needs of the
poor and needy; this includes establishing endowments
for foundlings, orphans, the unemployed, the elderly, the
blind, and lepers; assisting young men and women to get
married; providing milk and sugar for nursing infants;
establishing facilities that provide drinking water and
restaurants that provide food for the poor and needy;
donating graves, providing interest free loans or homes
for the poor, needy, and anyone who is unable to buy or
rent a place to live; and building public baths to
maintain hygiene. Homes in Makkah were also
designated as endowments for pilgri ms during their stay
there, and endowments were even established for
animals.
2. Public utilities to facilitate the affairs of life; this includes
establishing endowments to improve aqueducts and
bridges, and designating wells in the desert as
endowments to provide water for travelers, crops, and
animals.
3. Jihad for the sake of Allah; procuring weapons of war,
horses, armor, and providing for the fighters and their
families.
4. Some people established endowments for their own
offspring to prevent their wealth from being squandered
and to guarantee a continuous return for the
beneficiaries of the endowment.
This Article discusses the aims that are served by endowments, and
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Article (162)
The Role of Endowments in the Progress of Islamic Civilization
Endowments played an essential role in the majority of
the accomplishments that were achieved in science and
civilization in Islamic lands, while Europe and the majority of
the world were still living in the Dark Ages. Some of these
accomplishments include:
1. Spreading knowledge and information by establishing
endowments for schools, mosques, public libraries, and
schools to memorize the noble Qur‟an. Endowments
were also established for students who were seeking
knowledge, to cover their food and lodging and other
expenses.
2. Establishing endowments for astronomical telescopes,
research and translation centers. Endowments were also
established for teaching hospitals to teach medicine and
nursing and to develop the sciences of pharmacology,
chemistry, and botany.
3. Endowments played an active role in preserving Islamic
principles. They promoted the Islamic society and its
advancement, spreading Islam and calling others to it,
and defending against missionary operations and other
forms of ideological and psychological destruction that
were launched against Muslim lands by enemies of
Islam.
This Article discusses the role of endowments in advancing
the Islamic civilization, as well as providing a wealth of examples
of this advancement.
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Article (163)
The Obligation of Looking After Endowments and Easing the
Rulings Related to Them
Ever since the end of the nineteenth century, Muslims
have been afflicted by the occupation of their lands and have
been the target of ideological, economic, and military invasions.
Realizing the importance of endowments in thwarting their
plans, the enemies of Islam worked to destroy the concept of
endowments and plunder their funds, leaving the society almost
completely dependant on governments that are allied with the
enemy. Citing some negative aspects (which are not impossible
to correct), many Islamic countries enacted secular laws that
make it difficult to establish endowments; putting limits on
them and placing obstacles in their way. Oversight and
supervision of endowments was abolished, such as in the case of
Egyptian Law 48 of 1946, and the other laws that followed it.
Such laws caused people to abandon the practice of establishing
endowments until they almost vanished from the society.
However, now, the time has come for endowments to regain
their former status in serving Muslims and the Islamic society,
and for a group of Muslims to propagate this concept seeking
their reward from Allah the Exalted.
This Article discusses the history of establishments through
the nineteenth century and describes the form they should take in
our present time.
***
Article (164)
Endowments for One‟s Progeny
Recently, there has been a trend in some Islamic
countries to prevent the testator from establishing any type of
endowment for his offspring, which is known as a family
endowment. The reason for the prohibition is that over the
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