Trends1 Aio Eep2
Trends1 Aio Eep2
Trends1 Aio Eep2
No Talking, Please
I Have you ever been to a party where the noise is so loud that you cannot hear the people nearest to you? If this makes
you frustrated, then attending a Quiet Party may be the answer.
II The phenomenon started in 2002 when artist Paul Rebhan and musician Tony Noe found that the New York City bar in
which they met was too noisy for them to hold a conversation. So they created the idea of gatherings where no talking
was allowed – participants were given pencil and paper and encouraged to pass notes to each other instead. Since then,
the concept, also called Silent Parties and Silent Dating, has spread to other cities across the United States, Europe,
Australia and Asia.
III Although the first parties allowed no speech at all, some variations later occurred at different times and in different
locations. At one New York venue, quiet conversations are allowed at the bar while in London, at least one organiser
allows participants to make noises which are not real words. Justifications for silent parties have also expanded, with
many claiming that it allows for deeper communication among participants. Reasons for this range from the fact that all
meaningless small talk has been eliminated, to the idea that gazing into strangers’ eyes with undiluted attention is
guaranteed to provide a view into their soul.
IV But how satisfied are silent party participants? The movement’s continued success shows that it must provide something
that the public likes. But some critics complain that the note writing soon becomes boring, while others feel that it forces
party goers to evaluate each other primarily on appearance, never a reliable guide to personality.
V So it seems that quiet parties are not for everyone. But if the idea appeals to you, you might want to start working on your
opening note. With enough time, you will probably come up with something more original than the note received by one
critic from a new acquaintance. It simply read “Hello”.