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The document discusses the complexities of one-sided love from multiple perspectives. It notes that while having feelings for someone can be beautiful, imposing those feelings on someone who does not reciprocate them restricts their freedom and can become a burden. From the perspective of the person who is loved but does not love in return, agreeing to a relationship out of pity rather than true feelings of love does a disservice to both people. Overall the document argues that one-sided love, when not reciprocated, is ultimately a selfish act that fails to respect the autonomy and dreams of the unrequited partner.

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The document discusses the complexities of one-sided love from multiple perspectives. It notes that while having feelings for someone can be beautiful, imposing those feelings on someone who does not reciprocate them restricts their freedom and can become a burden. From the perspective of the person who is loved but does not love in return, agreeing to a relationship out of pity rather than true feelings of love does a disservice to both people. Overall the document argues that one-sided love, when not reciprocated, is ultimately a selfish act that fails to respect the autonomy and dreams of the unrequited partner.

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Shocked! You must be thinking that I am arrogant.

What is the problem here, if someone loves me or if I


love someone?

Well, I don’t write anything which has no sense. And of course you guys will demand justification.

Many of you are already in such situations.

The One I love.

Having a crush on someone, possess true feelings for the one, is one of the most beautiful emotions in
the world. Of course it is a one sided affair, where either you already conveyed your feelings for your
partner, or are still waiting for the perfect moment.

To understand this situation, let us consider this example:-

Many of you love pets. Parrots, dogs, rabbits, cats etc. No doubt, you love them, and because of your
love and care they stay with you. They are dependent on you, that is why they are with you.

Have you ever imagined a scenario where, what if the parrot has the freedom to fly. What if, rabbit has
the freedom to live in the jungle with its own family. Since you are human, you feel the urge of your
physical and emotional need. Animals also possess these needs. But all you give them is your “Love”.

Same goes for the person whom I love:

If she is not in love with me, I don’t have any right to impose my feelings on her forcefully.

Of course I love her, and I will give utmost care. But what if her dreams differ from what I have to offer?

Sometimes, your one sided love restricts people. And it becomes a burden on them.

Your expectation rises, you think your love is flawless.

But at the end of the day I feel, choosing someone whom you love (One sided) is a selfish act.
The one who loves you (One Sided)

There are two scenarios in this case :-

There are many people who love you.

Simple question. Is it possible to love back everyone who loves you? No, it isn’t. You can only love one
person at a time.

And if you choose to love all of them, then surely you are either God or an asshole.

You are not in love with a person who loves you a lot.

Now in this case, that person forcefully imposes their feelings on you. And after some point you agree to
live with them. But that is agreement, not love. This feeling of love comes automatically.

What if my dream differs from what they offer? Am I doing justice to their love?

I want to do something in my life, but their feeling, their love is stopping me, restricting me, because
they have their expectations from me. It will become a burden after some point of time.

Since their love is flawless, they love you for anything. But if you are not in love and still agree to stay
with them, you are not loving, instead you are pitying them.

This is not love.

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