Is Being "Friends" With Your Ex A Good Thing or A Bad Thing?
Is Being "Friends" With Your Ex A Good Thing or A Bad Thing?
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Are you worried about being put in the friend zone by your ex?
Just to become a platonic friend who gets to sit there having coffee
with them, sipping on a latte while they tell you all about the new
person they’re seeing…
…UGH…
It makes you wish someone would just put you out of your misery with
a quick sledgehammer blow to the head, doesn’t it?
Hold on though.
That’s right.
Being “friends” with your ex could actually be a GREAT thing if you
want to get back together with them.
Okay, I know you probably think I’ve lost it, but hear me out.
Instead, the harsh reality is that getting back together is going to take
time while you and your ex heal and mend your relationship.
And being “friends” is a great way to buy yourself the time you need to
do that.
Frankly, that isn't a decision they are ready to make right now.
...Which means they'll choose to cut you out of their life for good.
Don't force them to make this decision until you've had some time to
warm them up a bit (more on that in a moment, though...).
NO!
For better or worse, your ex has already decided that you are
attractive.
(Yes, YOU!)
If your ex didn’t think you were attractive, the two of you would have
never ended up in a relationship together in the first place.
Your ex might say that the two of you are "just friends.”
They may even try very, very hard to be “just friends” with you.
So, now that you know that you need to buy yourself some time to
restore the connection you have with your ex…
…And you know that you CANNOT be put in the “friend zone"…
It gives your ex a really good excuse to spend time with you while
they warm up to you again (“Sure, we can hang out, after all, we’re
just friends.”)
What do you do now that you’ve got yourself the opportunity to mend
the connection?
These skills will help you rebuild the connection, the love, and the
openness that you and your ex have for one another.
I’ve been helping people with their breakups for years now, and I’ve
seen absolute miracles happen when people start using developing
and using these skills.
Well, you can learn more or sign up with the Ex Solution Program
over here.
-Clay
You can learn more about how Clay did it over here.
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