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The Untouchable Inner Confidence process Workbook

Examples of UIC (A.K.A. 10 Fingers) processes with answers

This material is made to make it easier to understand the Untouchable Inner Confidence
(or 10 Fingers) process. These examples are here so you could understand what you
should experience with the fingers of your left hand and what you should experience with
the fingers of your right hand in different 10F processes. This is the most important thing
to understand for using the 10F process successfully.
Have the 10F process printed in front of you and first try to do the processes from these
examples yourself. Only when you solve all the examples, look at the solutions in the
second part of this material.
IMPORTANT NOTICE: You can find correct answers for these examples in the second
part of this material (from page 7 on).
Don't look at the solution at the end of this material before you define YOUR answers to
all examples first. You will have real benefits from these examples only after you try to
see for yourself how you should use the 10F technique in these situations. Only after that
you will get the understanding that these examples should provide to you.

EXAMPLES

Example 1. The goal was to find and get a perfect job in the next 2 months.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
Employer company would probably prefer to employ a Dutch person. (The
practitioner was a person from the U.S.A. who was at the time living in Holland.)

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
SOLUTION: (The first example is solved so that you would know what is expected of
you.)
Left Hand: It's possible to fail because they will probably rather employ a Dutch person.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because they would prefer to employ a
Dutch person, I still want to get my ideal job before … (the deadline for the goal).

Example 2. The goal was to learn the Spanish on the Medium 3 level before the end of
this year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will achieve some part of the goal and then loose interest.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)

Example 3. The goal was to make at least 20 sales for the XY product before the Friday
evening of that week.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will not be able to make the sales because I don’t know these prospects
personally.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
Example 4. The goal was to win the law suit that client had at the time.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
My lawyer will probably again make some stupid mistake.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)

Example 5. The same goal as in the last example.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.

2. How could you fail?


Opposing side will maybe bribe somebody in the police, or in the court.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
Example 6. The goal was to get accepted at the Yale School of Drama that year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I could fail because I am lazy.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)

Example 7. The goal was to start a super successful coaching practice.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I can fail because I won’t be able to get new clients.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
Example 8. Goal was to find a perfect romantic partner before the end of the year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will fail because relationships with men are so difficult and painful.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)

Example 9. The goal was to have a successful outcome of a meeting with a potential
client.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
The potential client is a top manager and he is very busy, so he won’t have
enough time for me to explain everything. Maybe we will talk politely for 10
minutes, but finish without any specific result.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
Example 10. The goal was to lose at least 15lb before the beginning of swim-suit season.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
The things never happen the way I hope they will. Something will go wrong, and
I will fail.

Left hand:
Right hand:

(Write down what would you experience in this example as the content for the left hand
and what as the content for the right hand in the 10F process.)
CORRECT ANSWERS
(What you should experience with the fingers of the left/right
hand with the answers from these examples)

Example 2.

The goal was to learn the Spanish on the Medium 3 level before the end of this year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will achieve some part of the goal and then loose interest.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because I will achieve some part of the goal and then
loose interest.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because I will loose interest, I still want
to master the Spanish on the Medium 3 level before the end of this year

Example 3.

The goal was to make at least 20 sales for the XY product before the Friday evening of
that week.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will not be able to make the sales because I don’t know these prospects
personally.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because I don’t know these prospects personally.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because I don’t know these prospects
personally, I still want to make at least 20 sales for the XY product before the Friday
evening.
Example 4.

The goal was to win the law suit that client had at the time.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
My lawyer will probably again make some stupid mistake.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because my lawyer will make some stupid mistake.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because my lawyer will make some
stupid mistake, I still want to win the lawsuit against XY company.

Example 5.

The same goal as in the last example.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
Opposing side will maybe bribe somebody in the police, or in the court.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because opposing side will maybe bribe somebody in
the police, or in the court.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because opposing side will maybe bribe
somebody in the police, or in the court, I still want to win the lawsuit against XY
company.
Example 6.

The goal was to get accepted at the Yale School of Drama this year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I could fail because I am lazy.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because I am lazy.


Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because I am lazy, I still want to get
accepted at the Yale School of Drama in this year class.

Example 7.

The goal was to start a super successful coaching practice before 1st of March next year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I can fail because I won’t be able to get new clients.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because I won't be able to get new clients.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because I won't be able to get new
clients, I still want to start a super successful coaching practice before 1st of March
next year.
Example 8.

Goal was to find a perfect romantic partner before the end of the year.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
I will fail because relationships with men are so difficult and painful.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because relationships with men are so difficult and
painful.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because relationships with men are so
difficult and painful, I still want to find my perfect romantic partner before the end of
the year.

Example 9.

The goal was to have a successful outcome of a meeting with a potential client.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
The potential client is a top manager and he is very busy, so he won’t have
enough time for me to explain everything. Maybe we will talk politely for 10
minutes, but finish without any specific result.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because my client is busy and I won't have time to
explain everything.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because my client is busy and I won't
have time to explain everything, I still want to have a successful outcome of meeting
with XY.
Example 10.

The goal was to lose at least 15lb before the beginning of the swim-suit season.

1. Pay attention to your goal and the deadline before which you want to achieve it. Is
it possible to fail?
Yes.
2. How could you fail?
The things never happen the way I hope they will. Something will go wrong, and
I will fail.

Left hand: It's possible to fail because the things never happen the way I hope they
will.
Right hand: Although I feel that I might fail because the things never happen the
way I hope they will, I still want lose at least 15lb before the beginning of swim-suit
season.

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