Education Narrative - Kayla Okoniewski
Education Narrative - Kayla Okoniewski
Education Narrative - Kayla Okoniewski
English 111
Professor Williams
4 October 2023
“The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain” (Dolly Parton).
I always stand by this quote. The meaning behind this quote is what life is all about. When Dolly
says this, she is comparing success to rainbows and difficulty to rain. In life, there will be good
times and bad, but in order to be successful in life we need to learn to push through the rain and
strive to reach that rainbow. My education has had its ups and downs depending on the year and
what school I was at. Moving to a different school during middle school was definitely one of the
hardest challenges during my education journey. Even though it was one of the hardest obstacles
I had encountered, it taught me lessons along the way and has helped me shape into who I am
today.
Growing up, some may say I was a tom-boy. I grew up around all guys. I have eighteen
cousins and two brothers. Most of my cousins are males so I would always hang out with their
male friends. In elementary school, nobody really cared about me being a tomboy. I made friends
perfectly fine at Sherrills Ford and I was happy with where I was. In middle school, at the start of
sixth grade, I moved schools to be with my cousins and brother. I thought this would be an
amazing experience for me to finally go to school with my cousins. Little did I know, that middle
Coming into Lincoln Charter, I was known as the “new kid”. At this age, nobody wanted
to be friends with the “new kid”. Everyone had been a lifer so far at Charter and had been friends
forever. While I am a very outgoing person, I am also very shy around people I do not know.
Some of the kids made assumptions about me from the start so this made it difficult for me to
make friends. I was not able to truly connect with people the first couple of years of middle
school. Many days, I would do group work by myself and I would struggle to find a seat at a
lunch table. I felt so alone coming into this new school and not knowing anybody. Later in the
year, things started getting better. My English teacher, Mrs. Amos, really helped me through my
sixth-grade year. Mrs. Amos is very good at reading a person's emotions. She could always tell
when I was upset or if something was on my mind. She was able to guide me on the right path by
giving me advice on who I should surround myself with. Towards the end of the year, I was able
Seventh and eighth grade came and it started off strong. I had found a friend group that I
knew would stick with me through the years. Then came COVID. COVID was one of the biggest
struggles that I have ever faced in school. I am a very visual learner and I need to be able to hear
and see things to understand them. Zoom calls became our way of learning for a while. Every
morning I would have to go from one Zoom meeting to another. It was not only an adjustment
for the students, but also for the teachers. They basically had to change every method of teaching
and put it onto a tiny little screen for kids to watch. The problem with this was some kids had a
hard time focusing so not everyone was getting the knowledge they needed. For me, I struggled
in the start. I had to learn to become organized with my work and not procrastinate on things. I
also had to learn to ask questions on a Zoom call which I was never fully comfortable with
asking questions in the first place. Sometimes I would get embarrassed for asking questions.
During COVID, I looked at every teacher as a mentor. Everyone struggled during this time and
we all relied on each other to help out and get through the year successfully.
Going into high school, I was very excited to start a new chapter in my education journey
but at the same time, it was very nerve-racking. Mrs. Howard, my freshman math teacher, played
a big role in my high school journey. In a way, I thought Mrs. Howard and I were the same. We
both had a sense of humor, we understood each other. I looked up to her my entire freshman
year. I knew that I could always go to her no matter what the situation. I was never a math person
until I took her class. She made me understand math. She made math fun to the point where I
wanted to learn math. I will be forever grateful for Mrs. Howard and how she has helped shape
One last person who has played a major role in my everyday life is my softball coach,
Coach Putman. Through the good and bad of sports, she has always been a mentor to me. Sports
are not only physically draining but they are also mentally draining. Coach Putnam has taught
me that no matter what, never give up. Through sports and school, she has always been by my
Knowing that my K-12, elementary, middle, and high school journey is almost over, it
brings sadness and joy. Knowing that I will be moving onto a different chapter in my life is scary
yet happy. These past years have taught me so much. I have learned many different lessons in
each grade that will help shape my future. All the bad has taught me to look and move on to
bigger and better things in life. Through everything I now know I will always have teachers,
friends, and family that will be by my side every step of the way.