5 Ego Traps
5 Ego Traps
5 Ego Traps
serves an important spiritual role. In the positive, it gives us a distinct personal identity that helps us
fulfill our life purpose, allowing us to share unique soul gifts with the world while working out our
karma.
In the negative, the ego fools us into becoming overly identified with our bodies, thoughts and
emotions. This attachment tricks us into believing we are fundamentally separate from God, one
another and even our own souls, which leads to suffering. Over time, enough profound suffering
eventually leads us back to God, completing the cycle.
As the world evolves spiritually, many seekers are awakening from soul darkness and beginning to step
slowly away from body-centered ego-consciousness. Instead of identifying as mere physical bodies that
are born and die, we begin to see ourselves as spiritual beings having a human experience. Whether
through yoga, meditation and prayer or studying with a spiritual teacher, this newfound awareness can
be so exciting, awe-inspiring and empowering that it deludes us into thinking that our life lessons are
complete and we are free from our egos. At this stage of spiritual development, we intellectually
understand that vanity, pride and self-centeredness are death traps for the soul, but haven’t completed
enough spiritual lessons yet to avoid falling into them.
Herein lies the slippery slope: the more we learn theoretically about spirituality without applying it to
our everyday lives, the more likely we are to become egocentric in our spiritual beliefs. Like a wolf in
sheep’s clothing, the spiritual ego can hide behind judgment, religious dogma or a false sense of moral
superiority over others. This is harmful, as it deprives us of the impetus to do the deeper spiritual work
we need to grow and heal.
Below are some of the most common spiritual ego traps. Read on to see if any of them apply to you:
1. Over-Intellectualizing Spirituality.
Though mental energy is helpful when memorizing inspirational quotes and sacred texts, relying on the
intellect’s understanding of esoteric spiritual concepts can block deeper experiences of their truth. The
essence of true faith and devotion are beyond the scope of ego logic. There’s a difference between
knowing the path and walking the path.
Black and white, fundamentalist thinking is one way the ego gets to be “right” and stop growing
spiritually. If you find yourself getting into spiritual debates with others, or if you need someone else to
“get” the truth about your religion or spiritual beliefs, it’s probably your ego, not your spirit, doing the
talking. As Lao Tzu says, “He who knows does not speak. He who speaks does not know.”
Do you believe some people are “saved” and “chosen” and others are not? Do you look down on others
who are newer on their spiritual path? From Jesus to Buddha, all true saints share a common trait:
profound humility in submission to God. If your spiritual beliefs cause you to judge or look down on
others you deem less “spiritual,” you may be hiding a deeper sense of uncertainty about your own faith
that deserves attention and resolution.
If you hear yourself using the word “epic” or “amazing” to describe your everyday experiences even
when they’re far from stellar, you may be more concerned with what others to think about you than
what you’re actually feeling. This is vanity. Even the most spiritual of people have bad days, and having
enough courage to be honest with your emotions is a key ingredient for soul liberation.
Do you think it’s up to you to save the world or others from bad experiences? If so, you may have a
Messiah complex, one of the most pernicious forms of spiritual arrogance. Though it’s important to be
of service to others, as human beings we are neither omniscient, omnipresent nor omnipotent: only God
is. When we surrender to the will of a higher power in our lives, it becomes easier to accept that there is
always a master plan unfolding beyond our control and understanding.
While it’s easy to slip into any one of these ego traps, humility, compassion and patience will help you
pull yourself out and continue onward with your spiritual schooling. While the soul’s journey may feel
long and arduous at times, the destination of spiritual liberation is ultimately assured for all who stay on
the path.