The Art Of War For Dating

How To Conquer Any Woman, Anytime, Anywhere

By Spencer Michaels
©2006, All Rights Reserved
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Table of Contents

Part 1: How Women Work

Chapter 1: How Women Think ………….......................................... 07
Chapter 2: It’s In Her Genes! …………........................................... 11

Part 2: How To Be The Guy You Need To Be To

Attract Women
Chapter 3: Confidence …………...................................................... 17
Chapter 4: Be Intriguing ………….................................................... 32
Chapter 5: No More Mr. Nice Guy! ……………………..................... 38
Chapter 6: Cockiness Done Right …………..................................... 58

Part 3: The Approach and The Art Of

Conversation
Chapter 7: Mentally Preparing For The Approach …………............ 63
Chapter 8: The Actual Approach …………....................................... 68
Chapter 9: The Art Of Conversation ………….................................. 76

Part 4: Unstoppable Techniques For Attracting

Women
Chapter 10: Specific Techniques To Be Used In Battle ………........ 92
Chapter 11: Mistakes Guys Make With Women ………................ 110

Part 5: Body Language and Voice

Chapter 12: Secrets Of Body Language ……………….................. 122
Chapter 13: Voice …………………………………………................ 132

Part 6: Romance and Style

Chapter 14: Romance Done Right ………………………................ 138
Chapter 15: Style …….................................................................... 140

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Introduction
In his famous book, The Art of War, Sun Tzu spoke about using

resourcefulness, momentum, cunning, flexibility, integrity, secrecy,

speed, positioning, surprise, deception and manipulation to defeat an

opponent. He used phrases like, “Lure them in with the prospect of

gain, take them by confusion" and "Invincibility is in oneself,

vulnerability is in the opponent." In this book I will teach you to take

on a totally new, almost war-like mindset in order to show you how to

meet and attract any woman, anywhere, at any time. By the time you

finish reading this book you will immediately be able to utilize an

arsenal of proven methods and techniques for “conquering” beautiful

women.

The past does not equal the future. Take this statement and embed it

in your mind. The record of what has been has nothing to do with

what you can accomplish in the future. At this very moment you can

decide to be the person you want to be and design and entirely new

life for yourself. While we need to leave the past in the past, we need

to learn from it so that we don’t keep making the same mistakes.

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Meeting and attracting beautiful women is an art. It’s not random at

all. There are rules and proven methods – which I’ll teach you in this

book. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over

again and expecting different results. That’s right – If you are trying to

meet women the same way you’ve always been and expect that

sooner or later they will start responding to these same methods –

YOU ARE INSANE!

Why Listen To Me?

Here’s a little background on me and some reasons why you should

take my advice. I wasn’t the dorky guy who never got girls and then

all of a sudden read a bunch of stuff and started getting tons of

women. I was always pretty good with women but still made tons of

mistakes that most guys make with them. I got my degree in

Psychology from a major university which taught me a lot about

human desires, but that was nothing compared to the education I got

while promoting and managing nightclubs in New York City for 8

years. For years, I spent at least 5 nights a week at the hottest

nightclubs in New York City surrounded by the hottest and most

attitude infused women in the world. In my early twenties I developed

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an extreme desire to really understand the dynamics between men

and women and became infatuated with learning about what makes

women tick. So for years, I’ve researched and read every book and

studied every program there is about relationships and attracting

women. I’ve read literally thousands of books on the topic. Since

then I’ve spent my years coaching guys around the country on how to

attract and meet women. I’ve taken what I’ve learned from the books

and research and combined it with my first hand experience in the

nightclubs of New York City to bring you the best, no-nonsense

information on the topic.

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Part 1: How Women Work

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Chapter 1: How Women Think

Women Don’t Know What They Want

Do you find yourself listening to the advice of female friends about

how to attract women and often find that it doesn’t work? I did for

years. I even made the ultimate mistake of asking girls I was dating

how I should act. Many guys have the mentality that if they want to

learn about what women want, they should ask women. It seems

logical enough but it doesn’t work for one major reason – Women

don’t know what they want! It’s a sad reality that very few women will

actually admit to you. A woman’s emotions are all over the place

because of hormones and thousands of years of genetic coding. She

is constantly battling whether to follow primal urges or to listen to

advice from women’s magazines or friends, or her conscience. One

day she might be in the mood for a sensitive guy, the next a funny

guy, then a week later she’s in the mood for a musician type. One

day she wants a guy who’s domineering and the next a sweet

sensitive guy who gives her all the space in the world.

To prove this, all we need to do is look at the book "Blink" written by

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Malcolm Gladwell. In the book he examines what he calls "The power

of thinking without thinking". The concept is that the reasons that we

SAY we do things are often very different than the reasons we

actually do them. Gladwell talks about a study done by two Columbia

University professors who set up speed dating events in New York

City. The men at the events were given 6 minutes to talk to eight

different women to see if there was an attraction there. After meeting

everyone in the room, the men and women were given a secret ballot

to check off which people they were interested in. If both people

checked off each other, they were given each others' email

addresses. The professors asked all of the women to fill out a

questionnaire before each speed dating event, after the event, one

month later and six months later. The questionnaire asked the

women to rate what they were looking for in a mate on a scale of 1 to

10. The categories are: Attractiveness, shared Interests, sense of

humor, sincerity, intelligence and ambition. After each 6 minute date,

they were also asked to rate the person they just dated on the same

scale. After repeating this "experiment" an innumerous amount of

times what the professors found was astounding. The questionnaire

that the women filled out about what they were looking for in a mate

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and the guys that they actually selected had absolutely no correlation.

In fact, what they said they wanted in a man and the men they

choose were often completely opposite. Another amazing observation

made by the professors was that the women's ranking order of what

they were looking for often changed the day after the event. They

found that if a woman met a few guys that she liked who were more

"attractive and funny" than "sincere and intelligent", the next day

when she filled out the same questionnaire, her preference order

would completely change. She'd all of a sudden rank attractive and

funny higher than sincere and intelligent. After doing this experiment

with thousands of women, this pattern held true in almost all cases!

Another thing that happened in almost all of these cases was that

when filling out the same questionnaire one month later they'd go

back to the original answers they had chosen the first day they filled

the questionnaire out.

This doesn't necessarily mean that women have no idea what they

want, it's just incomplete. This is where you step in with your

confidence and technique to "complete" it. The description that she

starts with of her ideal mate is her conscious ideal. But much of this

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goes out the window when subconscious thought, feelings and

genetic programming kick in. This is why you need to take what a

woman says about what she wants in a man with a grain of salt.

Never assume that you're not her type, even if she says it. YOU can

easily become the type of man she wants.

Throw Logic Out the Window

I'm about to tell about a mistake that 99% of guys (who haven't read

this book) make when trying to get a woman to like them. They try to

use logic to appeal to women. They try to reason their way into to her

pants. This will NEVER work. Why? Because women work very

differently then men. The sooner you understand and accept that the

better off you’ll be. Women are not creatures of logic - they are

creatures of FEELING. They don't use their brains to feel attraction

and most men spend the majority of their time trying to appeal to her

brain instead of making her feel. You can never convince a woman to

have feelings for you if she doesn't. Watching a guy try to convince a

girl to like him can be fun to watch. It’ll never work because women

are genetically programmed to use feeling, not logic, as their primary

gauge of attraction.

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