Personality and Personal Growth
Personality and Personal Growth
Personality and Personal Growth
The word "personality" stems from the Latin word persona, which refers to
a theatrical mask worn by performers to play roles or disguise their
identities, public face we display to the people around us.
According to Allport (1961) personality is the “dynamic organisation within
the individual of those psycho-physical systems that determine his unique
adjustment to his environment”.
Personality is not static but dynamic, the organisational pattern determines
the kind and degree of adjustment of the individual to his environment,
and this adjustment-pattern is unique to the individual.
Now if you carefully analyse all these definitions of personality, you will
find the following:
Traits
Approaches to personality
In the late 1800s and early 1900s, Freud developed a technique that he called
psychoanalysis and used it to treat mental disorders.
1) Everything you become is determined by your first few years – indeed, the
adult is exclusively determined by the child’s experiences
2) The story of development is the story of how to handle anti-social impulses
in socially acceptable ways.
1) Instinct theory
Instincts: Mental representation of internal stimuli, such as hunger, that
drive a person to take certain actions.
Instincts provide energy, motivation and direction tom all facets of life.
Freud believed that most mental processes are unconscious. He proposed that
people have three levels of awareness: the preconscious, the conscious and the
unconscious. Freud published this idea in The Psychopathology of Everyday
Life in 1901.
According to him, our conscious mind is that part which deals with the
current information. That is, all the thoughts, feelings and actions of which
you are aware at the very moment are part of the conscious mind. The
conscious contains all the information that a person is paying attention to
at any given time.
Example: The words Dan is reading, the objects in his field of vision, the sounds
he can hear, and any thirst, hunger, or pain he is experiencing at the moment
are all in his conscious.
Example: A close friend’s telephone number, the make of one’s car, and many of
the past experiences are in the preconscious.
Freud believed that information in the unconscious tries to come into the
conscious and very often it is seen in slips of the tongue, jokes, dreams, illness
symptoms, and the associations people make between ideas.
3) Structural theory: (anatomy of personality): The Id, the Ego, and the
Superego
Freud proposed that personality has three components: the id, the ego, and the
superego.
b) Ego: Ego is considered as the component that manages the conflict between
the id and the constraints of the real world.
Some parts of the ego are unconscious, while others are preconscious or
conscious.
The ego operates according to the reality principle, the awareness that
gratification of impulses has to be delayed in order to accommodate the
demands of the real world.
For instance, a 10-year-old child wants to eat a scoop of ice-cream kept in
the refrigerator. But the child knows that eating ice-cream without seeking
permission from parents will be punished. Thus, the ego restricts the child
for instant need gratification.
The ego is characterised by secondary process thinking, mature thought
processes help to deal rationally with the external world which is logical
and rational.
The ego’s role is to prevent the id from gratifying its impulses in socially
inappropriate ways.
The part of the personality responsible for the reality check which emerges
from id and its main objective is to strike a balance between id’s impulsive
needs and the reality of this world.
It is the decision-making component of our psyche and works on logic only.
In the words of Freud, “ego is that part of the id which has been modified
by the direct influence of the external world” (Freud, 1923).
If ego would not be able to resolve the conflict between the impulsive
demands of the id and realistic demands of this world, then it would lead to
the development of anxiety and stress. To ward off this anxiety, individual
will be motivated to use unconscious defense mechanisms
3 kinds of anxiety
Defense Mechanisms: One of the roles of ego is to protect the person from
anxiety and stress. To manage these internal conflicts, people use defense
mechanisms.
Example: Ram witnessed his mother being beaten by agoonda on a motor cycle
who was trying to snatch away her gold chain. This happened around when he
was seven years of age. He does not remember this incident as of today as an
adult. This is so because he has repressed that traumatic incident into the
unconscious.
Example: Nisha feels attracted to her boss but does not admit this to herself.
Instead, she constantly makes very disparaging comments about the boss,
exactly opposite of her gfeelings of attraction.
Example: Ronak jumps a red light while driving. He justifies this by telling to
himself that he was already in the intersection when the light changed to red.
Example: Seth is angry at his professor for giving him a bad grade. He leaves
class and shouts angrily at a passer-by who accidentally bumps into him.
Example: Rashmi has started drinking alcohol which has started to affect her
academic performance, her job, and her relationships. However, she insists that
she drinks only to relieve stress and that she does not have an alcohol problem.
Example: When six-year-old Jameel gets less attention from his parents because
of a new baby brother, he suddenly starts to wet his bed at night.
Example: Priya deals with her angry feelings toward her family by writing
science fiction stories about battles between civilizations which contains a lot of
aggression.
He thought that as children grow up, their focus of pleasure and sexual
impulses shifts from the mouth to the anus and eventually to the genitals.
As a result, we go through five stages of psychosexual development: oral,
anal, phallic, latency, and genital. Our adult personality, Freud (1917)
claimed, is determined by the way we resolve conflicts between sources of
pleasure at each stage and the demands of reality.
During the five psychosexual stages, which are the oral, anal, phallic, latent,
and genital stages, the erogenous zone associated with each stage serves as
a source of pleasure. The psychosexual energy, or libido, was described as
the driving force behind behavior.
Psychoanalytic theory suggested that personality is mostly established by
the age of five. Early experiences play a large role in personality
development and continue to influence behavior later in life.
If a child’s needs in a particular stage are gratified too much or frustrated
too much, the child can become fixated at that stage of development.
Fixation is an inability to progress normally from one stage to another, a
persistent focus on an earlier psychosexual stage. If certain issues are not
resolved at the appropriate stage, fixations can occur. Those 5 stages are;
Jung emerged from his period of self-scrutiny to create his own school of
personality psychology, which he called analytical psychology.
Jung Freud
Unconscious mind: Jung divided the Freud’s Position: Freud believed the
human psyche into three parts. But in unconscious mind was the epicentre of
Jung’s view the unconscious was our repressed thoughts, traumatic
divided into the ego, the personal memories, and fundamental drives of
unconscious and the collective sex and aggression. He saw it as a
unconscious. To Jung, the ego is the storage facility for all hidden sexual
conscious, the personal unconscious desires, resulting in neuroses, or what
includes memories (both recalled and we would nowadays call mental
suppressed) and the collective illness. He declared that the human
unconscious holds our experiences as mind centres upon three structures –
a species or knowledge that we are the id, the ego and the super ego. The
born with (for example, love at first id forms our unconscious drives
sight). Jung’s take on the human (mainly sex), and is not bound by
psyche was inspired by his studies into morality but instead only seeks to
Eastern philosophy and religion such satisfy pleasure. The ego is our
as Buddhism and Hinduism. He also conscious perceptions, memories and
believed that the contents of the thoughts that enable us to deal
unconscious are not restricted to effectively with reality. The superego
repressed material. attempts to mediate the drives of the id
through socially acceptable
behaviours.
Dreams: Freud believed that we could Like Freud, Jung believed that dream
learn much about an individual analysis allowed for a window into the
through the interpretation of dreams. unconscious mind. But unlike Freud,
Freud argued that when we are awake Jung did not believe that that the
our deepest desires are not acted upon content of all dreams was necessarily
because a) there are the considerations sexual in nature or that they disguised
of reality (the ego) and also morality their true meaning. Instead, Jung’s
(the superego). But during sleep these depiction of dreams concentrated
restraining forces are weakened and more on symbolic imagery. He
we may experience our desires believed dreams could have many
through our dreams. different meanings according to the
dreamer’s associations. Jung was
Freud also believed that our dreams against the idea of a ‘dream dictionary’
are able to access repressed or anxiety where dreams are interpreted by fixed
provoking thoughts (mainly sexually meanings.
repressed desires)– for example,
someone dreaming of a large stick in
Freud’s view would be dreaming of a
penis. It was the job of the analyst to
interpret these dreams in light of their
true meaning.
Sex & Sexuality: To Freud, repressed Jung felt that Freud’s attention was too
and expressed sexuality was focused upon sex and its impact on
everything. He felt it was the biggest behaviour. Jung decided that what
motivating force behind behaviour motivates and influences behaviour is
(and as such psychopathology). a psychic energy or life force, of which
sexuality could be only one potential
manifestation. Jung also disagreed also
with Oedipal impulses. He thought that
the relationship between mother and
child was based upon the love and
protection granted by the mother to
the child.
• The ego
• Personal unconscious and its complexes
• The collective unconscious and its archetypes (persona, anima and animus,
shadow, etc)
• Development of self
1. The Ego
Ego resides in the conscious mind and comprises of conscious thoughts,
memories,
feelings and perceptions.
It plays a major role in an individual’s feelings of continuity and identity
from an individual perspective and is considered as the center of
consciousness.
Healthy individuals are in contact with their conscious world, but they also
allow themselves to experience their unconscious self and thus to achieve
individuation
b) The complexes
Complex is a structured group which contains collective thoughts, feelings,
memories
and perceptions that exist in the personal unconscious.
According to Jung, 1934, it has a nucleus that acts like a magnet attracting
or "constellating" various experiences to it.
For example, the mother complex. This nucleus is derived from cultural
experiences with mothers in part and in part from the child's experiences
with his/her mother.
Feelings, ideas and memories concerning the mother are attracted to the
nucleus and form a complex.
An individual’s thoughts, actions and feelings are guided by the conception
of the mother if she/he has a strong mother complex.
The persona: The side of the personality that people show to the world.
The term refers to the mask worn by actors in the early theatre.
According to Jung, 1945, the persona is a mask assumed to be worn by an
individual to fulfil the demands of the social world and custom and also to
his/her own inner archetypal wishes.
This is the public personality, consisting of those aspects of an individual
that one displays to others in the outside world as compared to the masked
personality which is present behind the social facade.
Like all archetypes, this archetype, came into being as people of a
particular culture experience certain events.
Here, humans assume a social role in response to social interactions which
served the purpose of humans as social animals. (Persona resembles
Freud's superego in some respects).
The Anima and the Animus: Jung recognized the human as a bisexual
animal. He proposed that every man has a feminine side to his personality and
similarly every female has a masculine side to her personality which
constitutes their respective archetypes.
The feminine side in males is referred to as the anima, while the masculine
side in females is referred to as the animus.
These archetypes, though accustomed by the sex chromosomes and the sex
glands, are a result of the cultural experiences of males with females and
females with males.
It can be said, living with each other, each sex has acquired some traits or
mannerism of the other (males have feminized and females have
masculinized).
These archetypes cause both the sexes to manifest features of the other,
and also act as collective images that motivate each other to react to and
comprehend members of the other sex.
But, if the archetypal image is anticipated without respect for the real
character of the other sex, it, may lead to misunderstanding and discord.
Thus, a compromise has to be maintained between the needs of the
collective unconscious and the realities of the external world for a person
to be practically well adjusted.
Anima: Feminine archetype in men which represents irrational moods and
feelings.
To master the projections of the anima, men must realize the feminine side
of their personality.
Originated from early men’s experiences with women mothers, sisters, and
lovers.
Source of misunderstanding in male female relationships, but also be
responsible for the alluring mystique woman has in the psyche of men.
In Memories, Dreams, Reflections, Jung vividly described this experience,
intrigued by this “woman from within”, Jung concluded that she must be
the “soul”, in the primitive sense, and I began to speculate on the reasons
why the name “anima” was given to the soul.
Why was it thought of as feminine? Later I came to see that this inner
feminine figure plays a typical, or archetypal , role in the unconscious of a
man, and I called her the “anima.”
Animus: Masculine archetype in women, represent symbolic of thinking and
reasoning
Like the anima, the animus appears in dreams, visions, and fantasies in a
personified form.
In every female male relationship, the woman runs a risk of projecting her
distant ancestors ’ experiences with fathers, brothers , lovers, and sons onto
the unsuspecting man.
The corresponding figure in the unconscious of woman I called the
“animus”.
The shadow: This archetype consists of the animal instincts that humans
inherited in their evolution from lower forms of life (Jung, 1948).
As a result, the shadow typically represents the animal side of human
nature.
Archetype of darkness and repression, qualities we do not wish to
acknowledge but attempt to hide from ourselves and others.
Morally objectionable tendencies, it is easier to project the dark side of our
personality onto others, to see in them the ugliness and evil that we refuse
to see in ourselves.
This archetype is in control of one’s perception of initial evil and becomes
the sin or devil, when projected outside.
This archetypal image is also accountable for the occurrence of unpleasant,
socially undesirable thoughts, feelings, and actions in a person’s
consciousness.
These may then be hidden by the facade or suppressed into the personal
unconscious. (It resembles Freud's concept of id).
Wise Old Man: Archetype of wisdom and meaning, symbolizes humans’ pre-
existing knowledge of the mysteries of life.
Political, religious, and social prophets who appeal to reason as well as
emotion (archetypes are always emotionally tinged) are guided by this
unconscious archetype.
Personified in dreams as father, grandfather, teacher, philosopher, guru,
doctor, or priest. He appears in fairy tales as the king, the sage, or the
magician who comes to the aid of the troubled protagonist and, through
superior wisdom, he helps the protagonist escape from myriad
misadventures.
THE ATTITUDES
A predisposition to act or react in a characteristic direction.
Each person has both an introverted and an extraverted attitude, although
one may be conscious while the other is unconscious.
Jung differentiated between these two main orientations and attitudes
towards the environment among persons responsible for individual
differences.
Extraversion familiarizes an individual about the outer objective world
whereas; introversion familiarizes an individual about the internal
subjective world.
Introversion: Turning inward of psychic energy with an orientation toward
the subjective
Extraversion: Turning outward of psychic energy so that a person is
oriented toward the objective and away from the subjective.
Both the contrasting orientations exist in the personality but only one of
them is dominant and conscious whereas the other is subordinate and
unconscious.
THE FUNCTIONS
Both introversion and extraversion can combine with any one or more of
four functions, forming eight possible orientations, or types.
According to Jung, there are four fundamental functions that help an
individual to understand his or her events in their lives: thinking, feeling,
sensing, intuiting.
•Extraverted feeling people use objective data to make evaluations. They are
not guided so much by their subjective opinion, but by external values and
widely accepted standards of judgment.
•Introverted feeling people base their value judgments primarily on
subjective perceptions rather than objective facts.