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AGES AND STAGES:

UNDERSTANDING CHILD
DEVELOPMENT HELPS IN HOME
SCHOOLING
Parents of school-age youth are now finding themselves in the role of
educator or homeschool director. Understanding the developmental
stages of school-age children and what to expect at different stages of
development can make home-based education more productive and less
stressful. Once you know what to expect from your kids developmentally,
you can provide the most appropriate educational experience. Below are
some characteristics of children at different developmental stages and
practical tips that parents can use to be better home educators.

If your child is between 5 and 8 years old:

• They learn best with physical activity. Allow them to


move around.
• Their attention span ranges between 12 and 24
minutes. After this, it’s time to change focus unless the
activity is highly engaging.
• Activities revolving around things that they are or can
become familiar with are best for this age group. Look
for activities that involve their senses or something
they have some experience with.
• They are naturally very curious, so be flexible, prepare
for questions and allow for spontaneity.
• They are more interested in doing activities rather
than completing them. Focus activities on the process
rather than the end product.
• Provide as much positive feedback and
encouragement as possible and make sure to plan
activities at which they can be successful.
• Make clear rules and stick to them. Be clear about
what behavior is okay and what behavior is not okay.

If your child is between 9 and 11 years old:

• They still have lots of energy. Plan to use it with


physical activity. Include movement in activities.
• Their attention span is between 20 and 30 minutes.
After this, it’s time to refocus unless the activity is
highly engaging.
• Use simple and short instructions and be aware of
reading levels.
• They are easily motivated and eager to try new things.
Plan a variety of activities.
• Avoid comparing them with other youth and focus on
their individual strengths and successes.
• Help them develop their own sense of right and wrong
as well as responsibility.
• Help them set goals for themselves.

If you child is between 12 and 14 years old:

• Their attention span is between 25 and 40 minutes.


After this, it’s time to refocus unless the activity is
highly engaging.
• They are starting to move away from dependency
on you. This is a sign of maturity and not rejection.
Prepare yourself for it!
• Involve them in setting rules. You have the final say,
but allow them to have a voice in the process.
• Encourage learning experiences related to self-
discovery, self-understanding and getting along with
others.
• Their thinking is becoming more complex and out-of-
the-box. Ask questions that encourage predicting and
problem solving. Help them find solutions on their own
by providing supervision without interference.
• It’s important to respect their opinions and consider
their thoughts and feelings.

If your child is between 15 and 18 years old:

• Their attention span is up to 48 minutes.


• Expect them to be responsible and expect them to
follow through on their commitments.
• Allow them to plan parts of their own day.
• Help them discover their talents and potential career
and college pathways.

For more information, contact Misty Blue Terry, Ph.D.,


4-H STEM specialist, at [email protected].

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