Vinay is an accountant who is dissatisfied with his job and living situation. He married against his parents' wishes and lives unhappily with his in-laws in Delhi, feeling lonely and missing his parents. Vinay has negative qualities like being short-tempered. He struggles to maintain relationships with his in-laws, wife, colleagues and boss. Vinay lacks emotional intelligence and has an external locus of control. He is advised to improve his self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, social skills, and empathy through introspection, self-control, optimism, and maintaining good relationships.
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Vinay is an accountant who is dissatisfied with his job and living situation. He married against his parents' wishes and lives unhappily with his in-laws in Delhi, feeling lonely and missing his parents. Vinay has negative qualities like being short-tempered. He struggles to maintain relationships with his in-laws, wife, colleagues and boss. Vinay lacks emotional intelligence and has an external locus of control. He is advised to improve his self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, social skills, and empathy through introspection, self-control, optimism, and maintaining good relationships.
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Analysing vinay's behaviuor at home and at work and suggesting ways to improve it.
Vinay is an accountant who is dissatisfied with his job and living situation. He married against his parents' wishes and lives unhappily with his in-laws in Delhi, feeling lonely and missing his parents. Vinay has negative qualities like being short-tempered. He struggles to maintain relationships with his in-laws, wife, colleagues and boss. Vinay lacks emotional intelligence and has an external locus of control. He is advised to improve his self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, social skills, and empathy through introspection, self-control, optimism, and maintaining good relationships.
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Vinay is an accountant who is dissatisfied with his job and living situation. He married against his parents' wishes and lives unhappily with his in-laws in Delhi, feeling lonely and missing his parents. Vinay has negative qualities like being short-tempered. He struggles to maintain relationships with his in-laws, wife, colleagues and boss. Vinay lacks emotional intelligence and has an external locus of control. He is advised to improve his self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, social skills, and empathy through introspection, self-control, optimism, and maintaining good relationships.
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Masters in commerce Married against parents wish Living with his in-laws in Delhi Working as an Accountant Dissatisfied with his salary
Not able to adjust with his in-laws and colleagues
Feels lonely in Delhi and misses his Parents
POSITIVE QUALITIES
Short Tempered
NEGATIVE QUALITIES
Due to more negative qualities an imbalance is created in his life. He is unable to maintain his relationships and now is in a big dilemma.
At the crossroads A new start going back to parents Continue with same life- open apology to MD
VINAYS BEHAVIOUR AT HOME
Emotional Labor: Behavior with in-laws One is Expected to behave in a specific manner
Emotional Dissonance Behavior with parents Conflict between emotions felt and emotions displayed
External Locus of Control
Could not convince his in-laws to allow his wife to work
Low self-esteem and therefore negative affect
Always had the feeling of not earning enough to lead An independent life for himself and his wife
VINAYS BEHAVIOUR AT WORK
Intelligent and hardworking Disclosing confidential Information Making fun of his boss with colleagues Rationality and emotional Conflict Negative emotions - too sensitive, introvert, unfriendly, rude, rebellious, too serious. Believed easily in what others spoke Aggressive and short tempered People did not take him seriously and made fun of him Could not take advice or criticism positively
REASONS FOR VINAYS BEHAVIOUR
Not able to adjust with his in-laws Since he thinks he is more intelligent and efficient, he deserves more and is thus unhappy with his salary Self respect was hurt because he felt he was not independent and was staying at in-laws place Guilt feeling because he married against his parents wish No recognition at work place Fear of failure in life, insecurities Young, Passionate and Impatient.
VINAYS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Self Awareness Self Regulation Self Motivation Empathy Not very decisive Not very clear with his motives
No self control Short tempered(loses his temper with Bimal) Type A personality Disturbed with the situations in his life. Does not deal well with delayed gratification.
Co-workers Parents
Social Skills
Unable to establish good relationships with: Wife(Regular tiffs) Colleagues(Introvert, takes things too seriously) In-laws(Attitude of Indifference)
VINAYS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
He has more IQ but less EQ
WAYS TO IMPROVE EQ
Self Awareness He should assess himself properly and learn to accept his mistakes. Spend time for himself introspecting and be more aware of his emotions and needs.
Self Regulation He should exercise a control over his extreme responses to the situation He should make himself more adaptable to situations.
Self Motivation He should be optimistic about life and should not feel disturbed from the changing situations life has thrown at him. He should focus at the work on hand.
Social Skills He should share his feelings with his wife and in-laws who can help him being emotionally stable and reach to a conclusion. Try to maintain good relations with his colleagues at work.
Empathy He should empathize with his colleagues while interacting with them.
SUGGESTIONS
He He
needs to analyze and apologize to MD. should ask his parents to shift to Delhi and he should start living with them.
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