Harriette Cole

Remind her that there is no shame in seeking out help when you need it. This is especially true when you have presented yourself in a way that will lead...

Sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Apologize for reacting so strongly and negatively to his proposal. Explain that he caught you off guard.

Reach out to each one and tell them that you intend to turn your life around. Pledge to show them by your actions that they can be proud of you....

After getting her blessing, tell her that you have noticed that she works odd hours and has become known for expecting staffers to respond immediately, outside of regular office hours.

Go and listen to what he has to say. Learn who he is. Just be present. After you meet him, if you decide you want to get to know him,...

Bring up your ideas on saving and investing in the future. Ask him if he is willing to work with you to make a plan that includes putting money away...

Host a small dinner where you serve her favorite foods and have a toast in her honor.

When people are sick, they should stay home and rest. Even if you don't have COVID-19, what you have might be contagious and harmful to others.

If you have any alternative, explore that right away so that you can create a situation where you don't feel trapped or compromised.

If they jump in with advice on how to handle a situation and that's not what you need, tell them what you need most is for them to listen.