First off, does anyone read these? No. Send me a message to prove me wrong. A quick background about me. I am the real deal. Was married, 2 kids. She went mental and cheated, at the same time. I got the kids in the divorce. Full legal and physical custody. I raise them on my own with no help. One is a teenage girl, so talk about a handful for a single dad. The above mentioned ex, shortly after the divorce, was diagnosed with a ovarian tumor, then a lump in a breast that needed to be removed, then a tumor in the throat. I held her hand through all of it and got her through it. We also discovered she was very chemically imbalanced. I don’t know if any of these could be used as an excuse, but what happened happened. I need to move on, so I did let go, and pushed her on her way, hopefully a better person. Fu to me, fills in the gap. I work 40 to 60 hours a week, plus the kids, plus all the household stuff. Not a lot of time for dating or fun. So, if you flirt with me, I highly appreciate it. Yet being FU, I know the chances of it going any further are slim to none. So, I play the game, and hopefully I make a friend or two that will go beyond the like / rate daily grind here. So when I say I’m the real deal, I’m secure with myself, and I really am the real deal.