'Controlled' in the Bible

The former governors who were before me laid burdens on the people, and they took food and wine from them, besides forty shekels. Also, their servants controlled the people, but I did not do so because of the fear of God.

But Haman controlled himself and went to his house, and he sent [for] and brought his friends and Zeresh his wife.

All [things] are permitted for me, but not all [things] are profitable. All [things] are permitted for me, but I will not be controlled by anything.