My husband and I experienced this just after our second child was born. Having a toddler and a newborn and no money was hugely difficult for me. We live in the middle of nowhere so I wasn't able to take advantage of anything local (no parks, no sidewalks, no neighbors, etc) and our newborn had medical issues. We kept cobra for this reason and reduced in any area possible. I was relegated to the 'stay at home' parent (a role I hated and wasn't planning on taking on) because daycare was no longer an option. My husband got a job after 7 months! What we did to stay in shape during the lay off was very much what you describe. We ate terribly and tried to get in as much walking as possible. Once he got his job it was about 1/2 pay of his previous job. Our only options at the time were lots of walking whenever we could fit it in, wild dance parties to music in the LR with the kids (watching a new walker trying to dance is definitely a great way to spend an evening!). My husband also had an hour lunch break and used it to walk/jog in good weather. In bad weather he did body weight exercises (plank/push up, crunches, squats, lunges) anything to get his HR up. It wasn't ideal, but it did allow him to be healthy enough. Finally, about 12 years later, he is in a higher paying job and I own my own business. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, just keep stepping.
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