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Conflict avoidance

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Conflict Avoidance refers to a set of behaviors aimed at preventing or minimizing disagreement with another person. These behaviors can occur before the conflict emerges (e.g., avoiding certain topics, changing the subject) or after the conflict has been expressed (e.g., withholding disagreement, withdrawing from the conversation, giving in). Conflict avoidance can be employed as a temporary measure within a specific situation or as a more permanent approach, such as establishing "taboo topics" or exiting a relationship.[1] Although conflict avoidance can exist in any interpersonal relationship, it has been studied most closely in the contexts of family and work relationships. Consequently, research on conflict avoidance spans various disciplines including: clinical psychology, social psychology, organizational behavior, communication studies, and family studies.

Scholars use the term "conflict avoidance" to characterize specific behaviors as well as a broader conflict style. A conflict management style is an individual's preferred method for handling conflict. Those with an avoidant style tend to sidestep disagreement, postpone dealing with conflict, or withdraw. Traditionally, conflict avoidance has been considered a dysfunctional approach to managing conflict by researchers, clinicians, and the general public because it leaves issues unresolved and can lead to resentment.[2][3] However, studies on conflict avoidance have produced mixed results, identifying functional benefits such as strengthening relationships, reducing stress, and increasing productivity. The general consensus is that avoidance is neither inherently good nor bad for conflict management but depends on the specific relationship, topic, and context.[1]

Origins & Theoretical Framework

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Strategic Goals

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Early research in conflict management focused on effective ways to actively manage conflict within the organizational setting. This line of research was largely inspired by the Management Grid introduced by theoreticians Robert R. Blake and Jane Mouton as well as Morton Deustch’s Theory of Cooperation and Competition. In the 1970s and 80s, various management scholars redeveloped these models, renaming the various dimensions and developing self-report scales to measure individual conflict management styles. One of the most popular versions to come out of this research was the Dual Concerns Model introduced by Pruitt & Rubin (1986) to predict behavior in negotiations. They labeled the two dimensions: concern for self and concern for others. The avoidance conflict style is marked by a low concern for self and low concern for their negotiation partner.[4] While the specific labels for each dimension and conflict styles vary across different models, avoidance is generally considered a passive, lose-lose approach.[5]

Personality

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Conflict avoidance is often rooted in early socialization and personality traits that influence individuals' perception of potential harms or opportunities. According to communication scholar Michael Roloff, individuals often seek to create and maintain a state of interpersonal harmony in their relationships, which is defined by consensus about most issues. The existence of conflict threatens harmony, and some individuals report that they generally wish to avoid conflict. For example, some individuals have a low tolerance for disagreement, tend to take conflict personally, and believe that conflict is always destructive. Research has found that conflict avoidance is positively associated with agreeableness and neuroticism. [6] One study of 350 undergraduates and 100 managers discovered that personality traits, as measured by the Big Five, accounted for 20% of the variance in avoidant conflict style. [7]

Cultural Influences

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According to Stella Ting-Toomey's Face Negotiation Theory, avoidant behavior may also be motivated by face concerns, defined as the self-image an individual has in social interactions. This theory is used by cross-cultural researchers to explain how people from different cultures interpret and react to conflict. For example, in collective societies, there is more of a sensitivity to hierarchy compared to the West, leading to greater avoidance when there is significant separation between the parties involved.[8] In collective societies, there are also greater relationship-oriented values and a belief that a direct approach will harm a relationship, causing a greater prevalence of conflict avoidance.[9] Generally, individuals from collectivist societies are more likely to avoid conflict compared to individuals from individualistic societies.[10]

Consequences of Conflict Avoidance

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Research within conflict avoidance psychology has identified three areas that are significantly impacted by an individual's choices surrounding conflict: stress, loneliness, and relationship satisfaction.[11] According to communication scholar Michael Roloff, the general sentiment is that leaving conflicts unresolved and unaddressed causes interpersonal issues to fester, resulting in either explosive confrontation or crippling emotional suppression. However, empirical research has found mixed results, associating conflict avoidance with both positive and negative outcomes.[1]

Intimate Relationships

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Partners in long-term relationships often "pick their battles" and withhold complaints to manage conflict. However, withdrawing from conflict has been associated with higher rates of divorce and lower relationship quality. According to communication scholars Caughlin & Scott, explicit avoidance is far more damaging than implicit or tacit avoidance.[1]

Conflict avoidance is just as prevalent within stable marriages as in unstable ones. Overall, the effect of conflict avoidance may depend on the interpretation of the behavior rather than the behavior itself.[12]

Family Relationships

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Conflict in families can serve an important function, supporting child development through individuation and communicating the specific needs of individual family members. When conflicts are avoided, individuals may perceive their family as unresponsive or indifferent to their needs, which increases frustration and hostility. Conflict avoidance has been associated with poor outcomes for children, including loneliness and maladjustment. [13][14]

In the Workplace

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Conflict avoidance has received considerably less study and attention compared to active conflict management behaviors such as mediation or integrative negotiation. This is partly due to the difficulty of studying unobservable behaviors such as "not engaging" or "avoiding" conflict.[15] In the workplace, avoiding conflict often leads to emotional suppression and feelings of powerlessness, which can increase stress, burnout, and fatigue. From a productivity perspective, conflict avoidance is negatively related to information exchange and team cohesiveness. Unresolved conflict in the workplace has been linked to miscommunication resulting from confusion or refusal to cooperate, increased stress, reduced creative collaboration and team problem-solving, and distrust.[16] However, this negative effect depends on the quality of workplace relationships; in generally positive relationships, avoiding conflict can be associated with higher productivity.[1]

Measuring conflict avoidance

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There are two main approaches to studying conflict avoidance in academic research: self-report scales and behavioral observation. Several instruments have been developed to measure conflict management styles based on the dual-concerns model and are listed below:

Instrument Author Context
Conflict Strategies in Serial Arguements Bevan (2014)[17] Romantic Couples
Avoidant Conflict Behavior Scale (ACBS) Ubinger et al. (2013)[18] Family Conflict
Dutch Test for Conflict Handling (DUTCH) De Dreu et al. (2001)[19] Workplace Conflict
Management of Differences Exercise (MODE) Thomas & Kilmann (1977)[20] Workplace Conflict
Organizational Communication Conflict Instrument (OCCI) Putnam & Wilson (1982)[21] Workplace Conflict
Rahim Organizational Conflict Inventory II (ROCI - II) Rahim (1983)[22] Workplace Conflict

Interventions

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Experts suggest that management should not wait for formal complaints to take action and should establish unrelated complaint networks such as counselors to provide a more effective outlet for avoiding employee distress.[23] Managers should also develop strong cooperative goals and proactively train employees in conflict management which promotes more constructive conflict management.[24]

See also

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References

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  16. ^ Workplace Coach: Companies pay the price when managers avoid dealing with conflict, Maureen, Moriarty, Seattlepi, Oct. 28, 2007.
  17. ^ Bevan, Jennifer L. (2014). "Dyadic perceptions of goals, conflict strategies, and perceived resolvability in serial arguments". Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. 31 (6): 773–795. doi:10.1177/0265407513504653. ISSN 0265-4075.
  18. ^ Ubinger, Megan E.; Handal, Paul J.; Massura, Carrie E. (2013). "Adolescent Adjustment: The Hazards of Conflict Avoidance and the Benefits of Conflict Resolution". Psychology. 4 (1): 50–58. doi:10.4236/psych.2013.41007.
  19. ^ Dreu, Carsten K. W. De; Evers, Arne; Beersma, Bianca; Kluwer, Esther S.; Nauta, Aukje (2001). "A Theory-Based Measure of Conflict Management Strategies in the Workplace". Journal of Organizational Behavior. 22 (6): 645–668. doi:10.1002/job.107. ISSN 0894-3796. JSTOR 3649613.
  20. ^ Kilmann, Ralph H.; Thomas, Kenneth W. (1977). "Developing a Forced-Choice Measure of Conflict-Handling Behavior: The "Mode" Instrument". Educational and Psychological Measurement. 37 (2): 309–325. doi:10.1177/001316447703700204. ISSN 0013-1644.
  21. ^ Putnam, Linda L.; Wilson, Charmaine E. (1982). "Communicative Strategies in Organizational Conflicts: Reliability and Validity of a Measurement Scale". Annals of the International Communication Association. 6 (1): 629–652. doi:10.1080/23808985.1982.11678515. ISSN 2380-8985.
  22. ^ Rahim, M. A. (1983-06-01). "A Measure of Styles of Handling Interpersonal Conflict". Academy of Management Journal. 26 (2): 368–376. ISSN 0001-4273. JSTOR 255985. PMID 10263067.
  23. ^ Cortina, Lilia M.; Magley, Vicki J. (2009). "Patterns and profiles of response to incivility in the workplace". Journal of Occupational Health Psychology. 14 (3): 272–288. doi:10.1037/a0014934. ISSN 1939-1307. PMID 19586222.
  24. ^ Tjosvold, Deon; Sun, Haifa F. (2002-01-01). "Understanding Conflict Avoidance: Relationship, Motivations, Actions, and Consequences". International Journal of Conflict Management. 13 (2): 142–164. doi:10.1108/eb022872. ISSN 1044-4068.
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