MAKE SOMETHING GROW

Make something grow... this is the best way to achieve happiness... make something grow in your life. Find something that you want to evolve and let it grow by working hard and giving time and effort. All of your problems will go away if you're so focused on making something grow. It will make you entertained, it will make you enjoy life even more. You can push the growth or you can take it slowly, whatever works is ok. You can always find the growth, all you need is effort and dedication, all you need is belief and having the commitment to do everything to make it grow.

Let your money grow. Save it, don't spend it, make it grow everyday, every week or every month, if you can feel that it's growing then you will feel that you're getting richer and richer... it's a lot of fun, just be patient and keep on saving money, wait for it to grow bigger and bigger. One day you will see that the wait is worth it. Growing money is like a game, it's like building an empire, you'er the slave and you're the kind. You can do anything in this cycle, you can become very creative and have a lot of fun, it's a very simple and easy game. Just think about money and do something to get it.

Let your muscles grow. If you don't want to get bullied by weak people... let your muscles grow, lift weights everyday, inject steroids on your butt but make sure you will accept the consequences of cheating. Just lift any kind of weights that you can lift, do push ups, wear muscle shirts. You need to work on this, the best thing about it is you will become mentally tough because the heavier weights you lift... your will power will be on a different level. If you have a big muscle then people will become scared of you, they will respect you. Size displays confidence and intimidation.

Grow your business. Small or big business... let it grow, work hard on it, focus on it, give your time on it. Take it seriously and you will become successful, most business fails because the owner just wants money, he is not willing to put the time and effort, he is not willing to get tired. Having your own business is really cool, you are the boss, you hold your future. It's in your hands if you're going to make it successful or not. Start with a small business and make it big as it can be, be open to opportunities to make it grow, be open to take calculated risks.

I have a neighbor who keeps on building apartments. He is rich now but he started from being a small time. He only have 2 apartments before but he keeps on adding one every year. He is the only one who is building it together with his son, it's so inspiring because he work hard for it every single day, he is not rushing, he is building his empire little by little.

THE BEST THING ABOUT NOT BEING SUCCESSFUL YET

There are lot of good things if you're not successful yet, you don't care if your methods are wrong. You will just try everything you can until you become successful, you feel so free, you feel like nothing can stop you to try something new. You feel creative, fast and always right. You don't have any patterns to follow, you're just free flowing and you don't care if you fail or not. You are willing to try every method that you can think of and your enthusiasm never go away, it's always there in your. You wake up with passion and you sleep with passion, you're so hungry to win, you will do whatever it takes to become successful. There is a different freedom that you're feeling.

You don't have an image to protect. You can fail as many times as you want, you don't have an image to protect. You don't care if they laugh at you because you're failing, you still feel free even though people are criticizing you. Some successful people care so much about their identity because they don't want to be called as a failure. They are not risking anymore, they are always playing it safe. But you are different, because you're not successful yet... you can take many risks, you are not afraid to try a lot of things. You are open to different ways to put yourself on a best position to succeed.

There is no pressure on your part because no one is expecting big things from you. You have nothing to lose, they are not expecting you to win so you're free to do anything you want, they will not even care if you're doing some ridiculous things. You are more creative because you are not here to protect your identity. You don't feel any pressure at all because no one is guarding your actions, nobody is expecting you to become successful. You're a dark horse, you can surprise a lot of people the moment you become successful.

Success is the only next thing for you. You're so familiar with failure, you are experiencing it everyday so it doesn't even matter to you anymore, you don't feel anything about it. Success is the only next thing for you. It will come in the right time for as long as you keep trying.

So be happy if you keep on failing again and again, it will make you tough, it will make you not care anymore. You will not care about humiliations, critics and embarrassments. You're so use to failing so it doesn't affect you anymore. You're a loser for how many years so you don't mind being called a loser once again. But still... you keep trying, you keep taking actions because you always knew that one day is going to be your day, you knew that success will also be on your hands. You know that it's just a matter or time, you just need to become patient a little bit more and your time will come... people who were doubting you will kiss your ass.

FIND THE LOVE NOT THE RESULTS

If you want to continue what you are doing for a very long time or even forever then you should look for love not the results, you should look for the feeling and not what the process can bring. People were so addicted of getting the results right away so when they don't see it... they will stop their journey, they will look for an easier path that doesn't requires patience and perseverance. But there s no such thing as getting something great without doing it for so long. You can only experience big things and big rewards if you put a lot of time and sacrifice for it.

Find the love in any action that you execute, don't look for instant rewards and prizes, it will only make you feel bad if you can't see it.

It's all about being passionate and being serious with your work, find the happiness ever time you take an action. Do it one by one, inch by inch, step by step, never stop until you become successful.

Loving your work will make you do it for a very long time, loving it will make you stay focused and committed..

Be happy, always smile while you are working, fake happiness and it will become real the more you repeat it. Results is you goal, I get it but what if it's not showing no matter how hard you work? what are you going to do?

Just keep working, keep having fun. Forget the time, don't measure the task needed to become successful, just take baby steps today and tomorrow and the next day.

Love will keep you alive, love will keep your work alive, you will never quit for as long as you can find the love in anything that you're doing. Try to always enjoy the moment even if the steps were too difficult. Don't worry because it will become easier in just a matter of time. The game plan is very simple... always keep moving forward and love every action that you take.

YOU WERE SO FOCUSED ON WINNERS AND LOSERS THAT IS WHY YOU CAN'T WIN

The reason why you can't win in life is because you were so focused on winners and losers, you are not focusing on winning, your mind is scattered like a broken glass that cannot be fixed anymore. You don't have time for yourself but you have a lot of time for other people. You are not investing on yourself, you should groom yourself and make your life better everyday so you will experience true happiness.

YOU'RE SO FOCUSED ON WINNERS. You always watch the lives of people who are succeeding, you guarding all of their actions, studying them, sometimes you are even jealous of their success. You want to be like them but you can't even get started, you're always checking them, you don't have time for yourself anymore that's why you can't learn by yourself. Everyday, you're struggling because your confidence is slowly going down because you don't have any references to refer to if you need something about a particular situation.

Stop focusing on winners, stop guarding every activity that they're doing, stop idolizing them because you can idolize yourself, you too can reach the highest mountain, you too can become the best version of yourself. You will become a winner if you will choose to, it's all in your hands, it's all in your mindset. You become anything you want, all it takes is hard work and dedication. Be committed to your dream and everything you need will follow, you will attract success as easy as 1 2 3.

YOU'RE SO FOCUSED ON LOSERS. You hate them but you talk about them, you are making fun of them, you are criticizing them. Sometimes you feel sorry for them, but that's just a waste of time too, you need to focus on your own life because focusing on other people's lives makes you a loser too.

Own your time, don't share it with others, stop watching other people's work, stop minding them because the time you wasted could have been used to improve your life and make yourself a winner too.

Be selfish with your time, use it wisely, give it to people who really matters, give it to someone who will also help you to become successful. Use it to learn and grow, focus on the things that will give you success, money or real happiness, not just a fake and short term happiness.

Your happiness will rely on your growth, you will achieve it if you're seeing yourself progressing everyday.

AREN'T YOU DISGUSTED BY SEEING IT?

I don't know what motivation do you need before you wake up and accept that there is something wrong in your life and you need to do something about it. I don't know if you are just lazy or dumb or do you already accept that your life will be like that forever. You have the power to change, it's your life, you can do anything with it. it's either you get better or get worse.

Seeing no food in the refrigerator and seeing your children hungry.  This is disgusting, you should be ashamed of yourself if you're letting your children to go hungry, what kind of a parent are you? It's ok if you're the one who's hungry but not your children. It's your fault so you should blame yourself, you should sell the other half of our kidney and buy them some food.

Seeing no money in your wallet. It's because of laziness and being irresponsible, seeing no money in your wallet is not an excuse, what if something bad happens? what will you do? you should have always a reserve money in your wallet because life can throw you a random joke and you may not be able to handle it if you're not prepared.

Seeing your things getting old and you can't replace it. It's not about being thrifty or responsible for your money, if your things were already broken because it's more than ten years old... that's a different story, being smart in handling your money is different than no money to spend for your basic needs. Get disgusted if your shoes is already 10 years old, it's smiling and you can't replace it.

Seeing people not treating you right and talking at your back that you don't have anything. This is one of the worst feelings that you could ever get... having no power, people are not treating your right because you don't have anything, they are treating you like garbage, they are making fun of you and you can't fight back.

Seeing your parents suffering and you can't send them to hospital. This is what will happen if your life is not stable... your life will be full of pain, get disgusted with situation like this because you can always avoid it from the very beginning if you only did the right thing.

THE ANT ATTITUDE

You are always looking for someone to serve as a role model that you can copy so you can become successful too. You are looking for rappers, politicians, celebrities, sports stars but most of them are fake. They are telling everyone that they are working hard, that they are doing good things for the community only to find out that some of them were bums too. Some of them were addicts, alcoholic, broke and mentally unstable.

If you want to have someone to look up to that you can copy and become successful too... look for the ants. Look at them, they just keep going and going and going. They don't care if you step on them, disturb them or disalign them. For as long as they are still alive... they will keep working and working because they know how to live well. They were very simple, single minded and all they want is to look for food so they have something to eat during rainy season. In other words , they are prepared for the storm, nothing can stop them, nothing can break them mentally.

They will bite you if needed, they will look for ways, they keep on moving forward. Even if an ant is alone... he is not even bothered, he will look for a way how to get food. He will do it on his own and find his way back home. He will never stop until he get something.

That is the mindset you need in life... you just need to keep moving forward, know what you want and relentlessly fight for it, work for it, grind for it. You don't need to think about anything else, just make the process simple and never stop until you succeed. Because you can always find a way if you really want it, you don't need to know how are you going to do it... just move and the right steps will be unfolded along the way.

Most of you were cry babies, you always look for what is missing in your life. You are looking for someone to idolized, you didn't know that a simple insect is better than you. You are always complaining how hard life is but look at the ants... no matter what challenge they face, they still keep moving forward.

JUST GO BACK FAST!

If someone knocks on your door and offers you a product or something, your momentum has been stopped, your focus was cut. You feel bad, you feel disappointed because you're already on a roll and there is something that stops your progress. You feel angry because that something that stops you is not related to your goal, it is full of shit and worthless but it is what it is, you have to move one, you have to go back fast from what you are doing because you might lose your momentum forever if you keep on dealing with your bad emotions. Just completely get rid of that bad emotion and go back working.

Always remember that it is normal to have some disturbance, it is part of the process and you can't do anything about it. You can't have control on everything but you have full control of yourself, you can shut down the part of your brain that is telling you to feel bad and curse everything.

You should handle your emotions very well, stop giving value too much to petty things that won't help you. Once something stops your momentum, have the ability to go back fast to your original state. Go back to your work and forget what happened. Because the moment you go back to your work, even if you still feel bad, that negative emotion will slowly go away, you will feel better in a little while. You will have your momentum back and be on a roll again. This time you will move faster and stronger because you knew that you have to make up for the time that you've lost.

It is possible to get rid of bad emotions fast, I don't know why a  lot of people are dwelling on small things that affects them too much. I don't know why they are so invested on small things that doesn't matter, I think they think that they are going to live forever. If you know that life is short then you must learn how to enjoy things even the bad ones because those ugly moments are still part of your life and you cannot do anything to erase it. You just need to accept it and be ok with it.

Because what is the point of getting mad on small things that cannot even change your life? There is no point on making an argument for something that will only make your day bad.

Real successful people doesn't care if something goes wrong and it is just a minor issue. Their ability to come back fast on what they are doing makes them so special. They were so focused on getting their goals that is why small bumps on the road cannot rattle them or disturb them. They don't wanna waste any second for something stupid, all they care about is taking the next step and the next one and the next one. Anything that is not related to their business, they don't care about it.

If you can't get rid of your bad emotion after experiencing a sudden disturbance then just think about your goal or what you are trying to accomplished. Think about it and then you will find yourself taking actions again. You will feel good again and your mood will lighten up as if nothing happened. It is like building your castle in sand then suddenly a wind made it deformed and then you will put it back on its original appearance again. It is easy just take the necessary action, take the next step and then let everything take care of itself.

Because if you will not go back fast then you will be stuck in a mud, you will remain disturbed for a very long time and that is not good for your life.

Another method that will make you go back to your work or project is simply drinking water. Just drink one cold glass of water so your mind will be able to think clearly. It will make your blood circulate well and you will be able to pause for a moment and think what will be better for your life. Water is a good stress reliever, not too many people know it. It is good for making your body function better, it will make the blood in your mind flow well.

Another good method that will bring you to your normal state is breathing. Just breath deeply for a few times, you can breathe at last 20 times, inhale to the fullest and exhale to the fullest. This will also clean your troubled mind and make you think clearly again. It is like meditating. Breathing will remove your negative thoughts and will restart your brain to zero. It is like emptying your brain so you can have a fresh start.

A lot of people is having trouble in their life because if someone disturbs them, they will get mad immediately and they will allow themselves to ruin their day. It is not the cause of disturbance that makes you mad, it is how you react and how you see the situation. If you can only accept the wild randomness of life then you will not always get mad.

You can restart anytime you want, nobody is stopping you from going back to your work. And that is the beauty of life, you can start all over again and no one can stop you. Life goes on, it never stops until you die, you can move anytime you want and make a very strong momentum again.

If you failed at something, let's say you take a bar exam, you studied for 3 brutal months, you almost got crazy but you manage to take care of your sanity. And when the exam is there, you have a difficulty, you struggle during the exam, after waiting for the result... you failed. You got depressed, you got pissed off, you feel like your efforts were wasted. But what can you do? it already happened.

The only thing you can do is try next time. Because if you really want it then you have to go for it even if it takes a million try... you have to do it. Just go back fast, go and review your lessons again. You don't need to listen to what people say that you are no good and you have to stop. They were no better than you, all they can do is talk. You don't need their feedback, go to your room and bust your ass reviewing what is needed to be reviewed. That is the only way to do it.

Because the only way yo recover and avoid depression is to go back to what you are doing and try harder next time, there is no other way around. Because if you stop and think about a lot of things then you might get crazy. Action will remove your depression. You can recover by taking it one step closer.

There will always be setbacks, there will always be troubles but those are nothing if your commitment is very high and you don't keep your eyes off to your goals. It is normal to experience some disturbances, there is nothing wrong with that. You shouldn't allow yourself to get emotional and

No successful person has ever experienced a smooth sailing to success. Every big time success has experience a very strong adversity.

WHAT MAKES A PERSON WEAK?

Everyone is strong, we were born strong. Remember when you were just a kid, you want to do everything, you want to have it now, you want to do it by yourself. You feel you can do anything you want and you want to try anything that interests you. Even if your mom gets mad at you because she said that you're too young to try such things... you're still persevering and you want to do it. You will even try a sneaky move when your mom is not watching and try to do it anyway.

But as you grow older, things have changed. You were no longer the fearless kid that was very risky before. There is something stopping you that you don't know. You become scared, you become lazy and you become weak.

Your environment played a major role why you become weak. And also the habits that you have made some impact in your behavior and attitude. But you are the only one to blame because of your weakness, your decisions and approach made you who you are today.

There are different factors why a person become weak, a lot of people don't know about this because it is not that evident and obvious. These things and habits is slowly and silently making a person very wear:

1. Using the word tomorrow. Always putting aside the important things and just doing it tomorrow will make you very weak. You will not be able to withstand any uncomfortable feelings. You will not be able to finish a task faster than expected. Even a small task, if you don't feel like doing it and if you feel sleepy, you will just do it tomorrow. And of course when tomorrow comes, you will not do it again. You will use the endless tomorrow until situation becomes worst. Tomorrow is for lazy people, it is people who were impotent. If you want to change and become stronger in life then you should not use this word, ever. Replace it with the word "now" and you will feel the strength coming back into your life again, you will feel young again. You will feel the sense of urgency and aliveness coming back to your system.

2. Always asking for help. Have you encountered someone who is always asking for help? that shit is annoying right? it is ok to ask for help just for once or twice but if the person is asking for help for a lot of times then it is not a help anymore, it is already an abuse. If you will always ask for help, you will never benefit anything. You heard me right because that kind of attitude will bite your ass in the long run. It will make you very weak because you will not be able to stand with your own feet. You cannot do something without someone's help.

I know someone who cannot even write her own resume even though she is a college graduate. It is because when she was still in college, she always rely on her friends. She let her friends do her assignments and projects. She thought that she was benefiting from that kind of setup but when it is time for her to look for a job... she doesn't even know how to start. Just like I said, she cannot even do her own resume, she doesn't trust herself because she always thought that she can't do it. She formed a habit of always asking help from someone every time she have to do something. She was so dependent, she cannot survive without someone's assistance.

3. Quitting. This shit is also dangerous. If you will always quit then you will never win, you will become a loser forever. Weakness will take over your life. If the situation turns bad, you will quit. If you think you will not win, you will quit. If you think that it is over, you will quit. If you think that there is too much work, you will quit. It will become a habit of yours that will never bring you to the last stage of greatness. You will not even compete at the highest level, you will never reach your prime. Quitting will make you weak because you will not use all of your strength to accomplish something great or to at least finish a major task. Even if you can still push, you will not even bother to do it because you already love quitting. You already accepted that you are weak.

4. Looking for other failures. Looking for someone's failure and thinking about it will also make you weak. You will teach your mind that if someone cannot do it then you cannot also do it. You will also jump into the conclusion that it is impossible because if other people that were good can't do it then how come you can do it. You will become afraid to try because you see the bitterness of failure from other people. Stop on looking for other failures because your mind will be programmed that it is difficult. Just focus on winning and making steps that will somehow bring you one step closer to success.

5. Listening to what people say. This kind of activity will also make you weak because let's face the fact that most people want to bring you down especially if you are trying to do something great. They were too jealous to support you. They will pretend that they are concern about you but there is a hidden agenda behind their advise. They will tell you that it is too difficult, that it is too dangerous, that you will never make it so stop trying. If you listen to them and believe them, you already lost because your mind was weakened and poisoned. You will no longer use your strength to pursue your dream. So the best thing to do is to close your ears and listen to your heart and not to what they say.

6. Following what everyone wants. If there is something that is getting a lot of attention, you will follow it. If everyone wants something, you will also want it even if you really don't like it. You will follow and copy what everyone wants because you are so afraid to get criticized. You will not be able to express yourself and that is a very weak move. You are holding yourself back even if you have some other ideas on your mind. You will agree to what the majority say even if your feelings is against with it. If you keep on doing that, you will become very weak because you will no longer have faith in your own decisions and knowledge.

7. Succumbing to who's in power. Following a leader that can't lead you to your own dreams is a very weak move. You don't have to follow someone if his ideas doesn't connect with your vision. This usually happens in politics, they will follow someone who is in power even if they don't agree with him just to play safe and also have some little benefits. If you will follow someone who is in power but you don't like him, you are already putting yourself in a bad spot. You are making yourself weak, you will become a puppet. You will become someone's pet, do you like that? you will be controlled forever even if you hate it.

IT IS ALL IN FRONT OF YOU

The reason why you can't see it, the reason why you can't get it is because you are looking too far. You are not giving attention to what is in front of you. It is very near, the opportunity will almost bite you in your face yet you can't see it. I don't know if you are blind or maybe your standards were just too high, you're so picky that is why in the end you don't have anything in your hands.

You are always complaining that is really really difficult to find a job, you are telling the world that you don't have the means to find a job. But what is the computer in your home doing? instead of wasting your time in facebook and gossiping for people that doesn't matter, why don't you create an account in jobstreet and then go look for a job? was that hard? is that going to kill you if you do it? you don't need to walk anymore, all you got to do is type and make a believable resume and then pass it to different companies, what is difficult about that? The opportunity is in front of your face, I don't know what can't you see it.

You are looking for a girlfriend but you are looking for someone who has a celebrity like characteristics. You are looking for someone who is smooth as silk but you are not handsome and you are even broke. You are acting like you are someone who is blessed with good looks but you're only an average guy who can only write your own name. There is a girl in your neighborhood who is not so much pretty but you can say that she has some looks too, she is kind and charming and some boys were courting her. She is giving you signs that she has an interest in you but you are playing hard to get because your standards were too high even though your life is low. The opportunity to have a girlfriend is there, there is a chick waiting to be explored but you think of yourself as a king even though you have a qualities of a slave. You think that you deserve more so you don't grab the opportunity presented.

You are hungry, there is a food in the refrigerator, yes it is leftover but it can still fill your empty stomach. It can still save you from ulcer. But look at your attitude, you are complaining that the food in the refrigerator is not good anymore and you are already disgusted with its taste. You want your mom to cook for another food for you but there is no more food to cook. You are not rich but you are acting like you are rich, the food is in front of you, all you got to do is bite it and enjoy it yet you can't do it. You're a spoiled brat even though you don't have the right to act like that.

A lot of people were blessed but they can't see what is in front of them, they keep on looking for some other things that is why they can't find anything. What you need is already in front of you, all you have to do is appreciate it and make the best out of it.

QUITTING IS BECOMING EPIDEMIC

What a better day to start now, this generation is the best time to start your dreams and pursue it relentlessly. Yes the competition is tight, a lot of people were doing the same thing and getting the same results. Only few people are thriving, only few people are making it to the top. There are lot of talented people who fail, there are lot of wannabes who already lost even before they start. They say that it is very hard to succeed nowadays because of too much people, the competition is crowded, only few people will make it and those are the lucky ones. Well, that assumption is full of shit, the competition is really difficult but everyone can succeed. The reason why a lot of people are failing is because they are quitters. Quitting is becoming epidemic, a lot of people are making dramas that life is unfair, that it is hard, that the economy is going down blah blah blah. They will quit once they are not seeing results for just a short period of time.

I've heard a lot of people who talked about their dreams, goals, passion but they didn't make it. They were just very good in talking about it. They were very excited, they were loud, they were talking abut their dreams to the world but wait for a couple of weeks or months and then they will start another project because they already quit on the last one.

So if you are the kind of person who will never quit until the end then for sure you will succeed. People in this generation were too soft, spoiled and picky. They want an easy life, they quit on their jobs, they quit on their passion, they don't even know what to do anymore. They can't handle stress which is a very important skill, if you can handle stress very well and feel good about it then sky is the limit for you. People were scared of stress, they don't even want to hear it. They always look for an easier path and when they can't find one, they become depressed. They will make a lot of dramas why they are not succeeding, their energies will be wasted for negativity so they won't be able to make momentum anymore.

So if there is a huge number of competitors in your niche, don't be scared because most of them will quit in the end. If you can outlast them then for sure you will win. You don't need to compare your progress with their progress, just keep on doing what you are doing. Do your work for a very long time and watch them all fall down one by one. Quitting is becoming epidemic in this generation, if one quit then others will follow. Especially if that person who quit is good and has a promising future. Other people will think that if a talented person can't make it so how can they even have a chance?

I've seen a lot of people in you tube community who were really good, they have good videos, they have a potential to become a star and gather millions of subscribers but that thing won't happen because only few months have passed and they already quit. They can't see money, they can't see progress for a very short period of time so they will just quit. They will never work and post videos until the end that is why they won't win.

Same as the athletes who were trying out to make it to the team, they will only try out for a couple of times. If they don't succeed... they will never try again, they will accept that they are not good enough that is why they can't make it to any team. They were so focus on being victorious that is why they can' become victorious. Winning is about the process, you have to try for a million times to succeed, if you win early then good for you but if not then you have to wait for a long time before you succeed.

Success is about waiting and moving, it is not about trying and quitting. People don't succeed because they make quitting as an option. When the situation gets tough and rough, they will choose to quit, they will submit easily without resistance.

If you will have the ability to just do it and do it and do it then for sure you will get what you want. It is not bout having a good start or having a great talent in order to succeed. It is about having the toughest endurance to keep moving even if it is really painful, the one who can make massive action is the one who can make his goal come to fruition.

So don't be a quitter instead be a doer, focus on actions and not on depressions. It is very easy if you will stay committed, sometimes it may take a very long time to succeed but if you will quit then you will never reach the finish line. So don't worry if you are slow because one step at a time will still get the job done.

SMALL IS POWERFUL

Is there any successful man who starts big? Is there anyone who has a big name that has already big money in his pocket since he was born? maybe there are few people, but those people only get their riches from inheritance and they also need a lot of work to maintain their riches, the cannot sit around all day long and wish that their wealth remains the same without doing anything. In other words they also need to work hard, sweat a little bit and do what is necessary.

Just because you are small at the moment doesn't mean you will remain small forever. Small is powerful if you will think big and use your situation to reach new heights. Even if you are small don't think of yourself as small.

Small is always the default, if you are small at the moment it only means you don't have anywhere to go but to become big. You don't have anything to lose. If you will challenge bigger people they will be afraid at you because they have a lot to lose and you don't have anything to offer. You are always in a win-win situation, you have freedom and you can move loosely.

Benefits of being small:

1. You will not be afraid to take risks. You know you will not lose anything, even if you fail, nobody is expecting you to succeed. You will become very confident because you have no name. You don't need to become conservative and be cautious of your actions. You have all the freedom in the world. If a person isn't afraid to lose then he is sure to win because he can think freely without worrying that something might went wrong.

2. Less properties equals less stress. You don't need to guard all of your properties and assets every now and then if they were only small. If it has lesser values then you will not feel threatened. You just don't care because you will not lose big time. You will have an easier and lighter life. You can move around freely without worrying that you might lose something.

3. You will always think about bigger things. And because you haven't experienced being a big time yet... you will think about bigger things in life and you will able to magnetize it. Unlike big timers, they already experienced the bigger things in life so they aren't hungry anymore, they aren't excited to work to have those bigger things in life. They were fully satisfied of what they have so their motivation is very weak.

4. You will not be scared to try every option that you can think of. It is like you don't care if you make mistakes because you're already down, you're small so all you think about is making it to the next level. You really don't care if you fail over and over again because just like I said, you don't have anything to lose. You're a small timer so there is no pressure on your side to try everything that will make you reach another level. You're so powerful because even if you got hurt, you will not take it personally because you don't have a name or image to protect.

5. You're so appreciative. You will appreciate everything you have because you only have less. You will appreciate your home, food, clothes even if those are not on the highest standards. You will appreciate everything because your happiness is so easy to get, unlike super rich people... it's hard for them to make happy because they have high standards. They want everything to become perfect and that gives them a difficult life.

If you are small but you have the right attitude then it will not be difficult for you to become big. You will see all of your advantages, you will see how good life is. You will never become needy, you will feel so free and you will never take any opportunity for granted.

THEY DON'T KNOW THEY DON'T NEED A LEADER

A lot of people wants a leader. They were seeking a leader who will give them comfort, security, a stable job and a food on their table. The big question is... what if the leader didn't come? what if the leader is abusive, selfish and corrupt? who will guide them? who will take care of their lives? the answer is very simple... themselves.

Your wanting a leader so bad is making you weak, the reality is you don't need a leader anymore. How many times you've been wishing for a leader that didn't come? how many times you were wishing for a president that will change your country?

You were asking for a leader so much but you don't know that your life is alright. You are still doing great without a leader. You have a work, you can feed your family and you were able to survive an economic recession. So why do you need a leader for?

You've been alive for so many years even though you don't have the leader that you want. You are eating 3 times a day, you can even buy some of your wants, you are living peacefully so why are you still looking for a leader? Yes, maybe you're not that rich yet, maybe you have an average life or maybe you are somehow below the average life but the point here is you are still doing fine and you are alive. You're just being dramatic, you are copying the mindset of others which is to complain and complain and complain. You are not an activist, start living your life and don't mind the situation of your country, don't look for leaders that will just disappoint you in the end.

You can lead your own life, you don't need a leader that will give you a finer job or income because you can create it yourself. all you need to do is to believe in yourself and have faith that you can do it. Always work hard everyday and make the tiniest progress that you can make and you will see that those leaders are nothing but weak options. It is an option to trust them and hope that they will make your life better or you can choose another option which is to trust yourself and never depend your life from a leader's decision.

It's already in your hands, the success is in your hands, all you have to do is take actions. Of course you have to wait for some time but for sure your life will become better if you choose to take matters into your own hands. Just be patient and never take your eyes off from your goals.

Because if you will always look for a leader that will change your life... trust me your life will never change. What if that leader comes and his decisions were not congruent to your wants? what if he is thinking some other things and you don't like his ideas? what if  he didn't assist you any help? You will end up crying like a bitch again. Your hopes and dreams will die. You will pray for another leader again and that cycle will never end until you die.

But if you will trust yourself that you can lead your own life to the top then congratulations... you are the true leader.

YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE THE WORLD, ALL YOU CAN DO IS INSPIRE

There are lot of people that thinks they are changing the world, they thought that what they are doing is changing some people's attitude and insights about life. They think that a simple motivational speech here and there will make people do the right thing and change their lives.

The reality is no one can change the world, no one can alter someone's decision making in life. All you can do is inspire, you can show them the way but you can't tell them what to do. You can't force them to do this or do that because they were not children anymore. They can make decision by themselves. The more you force them to change the more they will not change. You are just wasting your time and energy, you better stop because there is a tendency that they will be annoyed at you and they will never listen to you anymore, ever.

If you want to change someone's life, you  cannot change him by forcing your ideas and insights in life and forcing him to believe you, it doesn't work out that way. That person will only get mad at you. You can change him by not changing him, instead you should inspire him. Once he likes what you are doing and he thinks that he should do the same thing then that is when change is bound to happen.

Inspiring is a better way because it is not forcing anyone, it is very natural and easy. If you are forcing someone to change then the tendency is that person will not change, he will become irritated and will never listen to you. He will even laugh at your ideas and you will end up looking like a loser. You will think that your efforts has been wasted and you will feel very bad. You might not continue your intention anymore.

Be the best version of you so you can inspire change, that is the best way to contribute to the world. You can become a role model and people who were impressed with your actions will likely do the same thing. You can't inspire someone to change if you can't show them very good results that you did yourself. They will not believe in you if you can't come up with a result that was done through hardwork.

Everyone has his own timing for the change, change cannot happen right away. It takes time and it takes patience. So don't ever think that you are changing the world by simply making a speech or doing a simple kind of act because the people who witnessed your actions will go back to their old life even if they were amazed by your deeds.

Change is done voluntarily, without resistance nor brute force needed. Change is a decision made by the person who really wants to change. He did it without any outside influence that is telling him to change, it is like a calling, he do it anyway, he do it right away without listening to someone because he thinks that it is the right thing to do.

9 WAYS TO AVOID BEING DISRESPECTED

Respect is one of the main treatment that people needs. If you feel that other people respects you, you will feel better and you will feel important. It also feels like you are significant in this world if people respects you no matter what your situation in life is. You feel that you are part of a right thinking society and it gives you confidence in some ways.

But sometimes other people were disrespectful, they will not treat your right. And of course you will feel bad and sometimes you want to fight back. You will feel low and you will question yourself if there is something wrong with you. So if you don't want to be disrespected again, you should consider some of these ways and follow them:

1. Stop trying to impress people. You don't need to impress people, I don't know why a lot of people are still doing this. If someone likes you then you don't need to impress him/her. The appreciation from other people will come out naturally, you don't need to do stupid stuffs because others will just get annoyed with you. Others will disrespect you especially if they see unpleasant words coming out from your mouth. They will disrespect you if you are not being yourself, especially if you are doing annoying things just to get some attention.

2. Stop cutting into a conversation without a proper timing. If you will force yourself to join a conversation then people might disrespect you especially if they don't like your timing. They might make fun of you and make you look like a clown by joining forces to humiliate you. It is not their fault to disrespect you, you are entering a conversation without their consent so you will pay the price for it.

3. Stop lending someone. Allowing someone to borrow money from you will make you disrespected if your money was not returned. You will feel like all of the hardwork you did to earn that money turned into nothing. You feel disrespected because the borrower didn't give importance to the hardwork that you did just to earn money. You will even feel more disrespected if you learned that the borrower is just using your money for useless things.

4. Stop being needy. If you always need something, if you always need help, if you can't provide for yourself then people will disrespect you, they will be disgusted at you. They will call you a lot of aliases that are not cool, those aliases were connected from your needy behavior. They will look at you as a weak person and they will treat you not right. They will feel like you are a slave to them because you owe them a lot.

5. Never enter an argument especially if the person you arguing with is classless. You can't win through words if you are arguing with a person who has no breaks in his mouth. He will say whatever he wants to you, he will use disrespectful words against you and you will never win because you're not that kind of person. People with no good manners will always win an argument in public, they don't care if they look classless, all they want is to explode like a bomb, make noise and intimidate you. So it is better to stay away in an argument especially if it is nonsense.

6. Respect people too. If you want respect then you should respect people too, as simple as that. Being respectful means you deserve some respect too and you will get it. It is true that you will get the same treatment that you show to other people so if you want respect then try to be polite, humble and of course respectful. They will respect you because they know that you are that kind of person that needs respect because you are not making other people bad, you are doing the right job as a contributor of a well working society.

7. Express yourself in the right way. If you want to express yourself then do it the right way, do it by really being yourself and doing things for the sake of releasing your emotion and not for attention. If people see that you only want attention that is the reason why you are doing unacceptable things then they will no longer respect you. You can grab their attention by doing stupid stuffs but that attention will turn into disgust in the end.

8. Have a classy behavior. Act like you are well educated, act like you've finish school even if you did not. You can have a classy behavior even if you came from a poor background. Act like your mom thought you very well on how to become respectful. Be kind to others, be respectful to others and people will give you the same respect.

9. Make yourself great. Have you seen a great man that wasn't respected? he maybe disrespected if he is not around but if he is present... people will treat him with any kind of respect. But if you become great, you should learn how to respect people too. Respect should be earned and not to be imposed. Be great at something so people will respect you, they will give you perks, they will give you special treatment. You deserve all of those respect because you work hard a lot and you earn it through sacrifices and pain.

But there are also some instances where you will be disrespected no matter how great you are or how respectful you are. There are really morons in this world that have no manners or whatever. But if you really knew your value then you will just ignore people that are disrespectful, it is just a waste of time dealing with them because they won't believe you even if you explain things in a right way to them. Just live your life and continue being respectful, we are all equal in this world, we should respect all people no matter how big or small they are.

5 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ALREADY A PROFESSIONAL

Being a professional is not hard but sometimes it takes a lot of time to become a professional. Being a professional is just a mater of building habits that will give you the qualities of a professional. For me being a professional is just a matter of doing your best and doing the tasks on time. For others, the word professional is very strong and they have a very high standards before they considered you as a professional.

Some people don't know if they were already a professional or not because they don't believe in their skills or maybe they were just too humble. If you are one of these people who don't know if you are already a professional, here are some signs that you are:

1. You make difficult things look very easy. In anything that you do, you make it looks so easy even if it is difficult to do for others. For example, if you are editing videos, you can make very good and advance effects that for others looks very complicated. You can make animations that a rookie will not even attempt to try. And the best thing is, you can do it for a shorter period of time. You can make an eight hour work just a 2 hours of work. You are displaying advance skills but it looks like you are not even sweating while doing it. It means you are really great in what you are doing.

2. You overwhelmed a lot of people. You amazed them with your skills. You can offer something that an ordinary person cannot do. People will wonder how you did it and they will even ask for advise on how to become like you. Some people who have to demonstrate their skills will lose their confidence once they saw how great you are because they thought that you might criticize them and you have the right to do it. You will surprise a lot of people with your skills and they will get interested in your history and how you started.

3. You always care about finishing the job. Your goal is to always finish the job, you don't care about anything else but to finish the job and of course you want to finish it perfectly. You don't want a mediocre work, you always strive for perfection. You will finish a job no matter how hard it is, you don't care if it takes sleepless nights to finish it, you never make excuses, you are a finisher.

4. You don't care about payment because you know you will get paid. A lot of rookies worries if they will get paid or not. Their main purpose is the money and not the job. If you are a professional, you will not worry about the money because you know you will get paid because you never work for small timers. You only work for sure payers and big time people. You never work for people that might scam you in the end. You know your value and you never work for free because time is very valuable to you.

5. You are so strict and you are always worried about deadlines. You never let clients wait, you are a fast finisher and deadlines never leave your memory. You are taking care of your name and you don't want a simple mistake to ruin it. You never miss a deadline and if possible you will finish your project very early, you never let clients get worried.

Being a professional is very simple, you just do your work at your very best and you do it on time. It is very simple yet not all people can do it because they were so full of excuses and alibis.

SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE TEN STEPS AHEAD OF YOU

Successful people were very advance, they were ten steps ahead of you. There is nothing special about successful people, their only advantage is they execute right away and they never wait for anything. Time is very valuable to them and they don't want to squander a single second. For them, time is not only gold, time means everything for them.

While you are talking about your dreams they were already starting and has established some momentum. You are are so busy and proud showing off to your friends what your dream is all about. You are so busy entertaining your friends and relatives about the details if your dreams, how big it is and how successful you can be. While you are busy talking, they were already moving and succeeding a little bit. They already started the moment you open your mouth. They were doers and not talkers. They never talk about their dreams, they will talk about it when they already succeed. They were not focused on impressing people and gathering their opinions. They start moving the moment ideas pops out from the brain. They never hesitate, they never think twice before taking actions, they just jump in and enforce their will until they become successful.

While you are whining and making excuses they already moved on. Of course there will be obstacles along the way that will stop your momentum. There will be circumstances that will slow you down, people will treat you unfairly, the economy will go down, unexpected events will stop your business or your journey. Those things will happen because it is part of the process.

Common people will take it so hard, they will whine and make excuses once they face a tough challenge. Successful people are different, they never let tragedies or unexpected events stop them. Yes they will feel bad too but they can move on so fast. It only takes them one or two days to evaluate what is going on and make an alternative plan. They never focus on problems, instead they place their energies on solutions.

While you are blaming other people for your failure, they already started over again. Successful people have no immunity from failure, they also fail and they don't care about it. While you are blaming other people for your failure, successful people already started a new journey. Even if they fail, they don't see failure as a failure. They see it as a lesson, they move right away and they were very confident this time because they already knew what to do. For them, failure is just a feedback. It is nothing but a starting point to make it right next time.

The conclusion is... successful people were not special, they were just good in execution. They move right away, they never wait for anyone, they never ask for someone's approval. When they fail, they can recover easily. They never talk about how difficult their situation is, they just adapt and improvise. The were action takers and not complainers. They were no different from you. They just don't complicate their lives, they were always moving, they never stop until they succeed.

SOME PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOUR WORK

Don't be scared to show your finish product, don't be scared to show your portfolio, don't be scared to expose all of your creations because even if you are not confident that people will like it... some people will still like it. Everyone has his own taste of appreciating a beauty. Some people will not like your work but some people will like it and they will love it to death. They will even buy your work or ask you to work for them.

Sometimes you may even wonder why some people likes your work even though for you it is ugly. Sometimes you will even laugh and wonder if there is something wrong with their eyes. Is there really something wrong with their eyes or are you just not confident enough with your skills?

If you really work hard for your work and sweat for it, if you give a lot of time for it, even if it looks not beautiful in your own judgement... some people will surely love it. They will feel the energy that you put in with your work, they will see the hardwork behind your masterpiece. Not people will love it but for sure some people will die to see it.

Because even if you have the most beautiful work, some people will still criticize you, some people will not agree with you. I don't know why but it is just the way it is.

Sometimes you even have a work that you think is really beautiful but still a lot of people doesn't like it. You will wonder what you did wrong, even if you spend a lot of time doing it, still people doesn't appreciate it.

It must serve as a lesson for you that everyone has his own taste of appreciation. Even the ugliest art can be appreciated by somebody. So don't be scared that nobody will like your work. Always be confident to show your work because even if you didn't give your best for it, you still use time to create it, you still sweat a little bit and you still deserve to be credited for the effort that you exerted.

And even if your work is really ugly just keep in mind that they will not be able to appreciate others' work if your work is not there. They will not be able to distinguish what is ugly and what is beautiful if your work is not there because there will be no work to criticize. Your ugly work is what make the others' work look more even beautiful. You still have a participation for the event so still be proud of yourself.

Some people will not show their work if they see that someone's work is a lot more beautiful than theirs. This is a form of stupidity because all creations has its own unique beauty. Art doesn't have a rule that is has to be beautiful. Art doesn't know what is beautiful or not. For as long as your work creates emotions then it can be considered as a masterpiece.

So if you are afraid to show your work, just keep in mind that you still use an energy to create it, you've exerted an energy to produce it so even if you only exerted a mediocre effort... be proud because you still create something, be proud because you have the courage to participate. Not all people uses their talent, other people are hiding their talent for whatever reasons. And mostly, not all people can work so be proud of your work.

7 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE PROGRESSING

Progress is a key to happiness, if you are progressing it means you are doing something and you are growing, it means you are on your path to success. People gets depressed if they are not progressing, even if they are living an easy life like just watching tv and waiting for their support every week, they still don't feel happy. It is simply because they cannot find progress in their lifestyle, they feel stuck even if they are living an easy life. Look at those people who does nothing after their retirement, all they do is lie down on their sofa everyday, they become weak and they die easily. It happens because they are not experiencing progress anymore. They don't have direction, they are living a weak lifestyle that leads to nowhere.

Having a little progress everyday is very important, even if that progress is very small, it is still helpful and it will make you happy. Movement creates improvement, movement will lead you to a better life.

There are different signs that you are progressing, you may not notice it because these signs are not very evident and sometimes these signs doesn't give you good feelings. These signs are very silent but once you notice some of these signs, be happy because it means you are progressing.

1. You find yourself being alone. You are leaving friends that are not useful in your life anymore, you begin to realize that you have a choice. You will feel that there are some people in your circle that are not giving you good feelings and are not helping you so you will leave some of them unapologetically. You will not care if the say something bad about you, all you care about is associating yourself to a more helping group rather than staying with a bad company. There will be times when you are alone because you are always thinking about what is good for you and people are wondering also if there is something wrong with you, they are giving you distance and let you decide which way will you want to go.

2. You are being curious. You are thinking about leaving your job and pursuing your passion. You are making a plan on how to escape your current environment or situation. You are always thinking if you really like what is going on with your life or if you are going to change something about it. You are assessing but more of your actions is toward your higher ambition.

3. You are feeling a lot of stress.  And because change is taking place, you feel a lot of stress. You are confused, you are hesitant to make actions but in the end you will still take actions because you want to improve your life. You feel a lot of stress because you are doing things that you don't usually do. You are forming a habit of thinking that is more useful and very different from your usual thoughts. You are almost going crazy but your dreams and vision will make you still and calm. Sooner you will begin to adapt with stress and make rapid progress towards success.

4. You are saving more money. You know you have to have a lot of money if you will make a transition from being common to awesome. You know you need budget because if you will make a career move, there will always be unexpected things that may happen that will hinder your success. You know that extra money is needed and not just extra money but also survival money, you need it because there will be times when you will not earn something but you still need to keep doing what you've started.

5. You are thinking about the future. You are more matured now, you don't care about parties, buying useless shits, pleasing people and any other things that will make your progress slow, you only care about having a bright future and spending it with the right people. You are thinking about passive incomes, business and any other things that will give you a good life. You are scared that if you don't do the right thing now then your future will be in danger.

6. You are solving problems fast. Unlike before that you are procrastinating, you are solving problems faster than before. If there is a task, you will do it right away, you are prioritizing things that are more important. It seems like you are not thinking anymore, if there is a problem.... bang! you do it right away, you spend less time in analyzing.

7. You hate wasting time. Even if what is on the television is your favorite comedy actor... you don't care. Even if your friends invited you to a wild drinking party with hot girls... you still don't care. You give much more importance to your vision and it is the only thing that matters to you at the moment. Every second matters to you, you treat time as your most valuable resources.

There are many more signs about progress, a lot of these signs is about self improvement and smart decision making. You are progressing if you are eliminating the things that are not helping you, you are progressing if you are thinking right and doing calculated risks.

DO SOMETHING THAT YOU DON'T KNOW

If you are a little tired and bored in your life, if you are living the same life over and over again and you wanted a little thrill then do something that you don't know. This idea is cool and will give you a lot of fun, it will bring back the youth in you. Yeah, it is a little scary but the fun is immeasurable, the thrill is nerve racking and you will feel the goodness of being scared and excited. Just a simple warning... don't get stressed if you are lost and you look stupid, it is normal, you will look like a child learning to walk and talk.

If you don't know how to play a certain kind of sport and you don't know the rules but you really wanted to play it then play it. It doesn't matter if you look stupid or not, what matters is you enjoy playing it and you fulfill your dreams of playing it. You are not getting any younger, the time is passing, if you find an opportunity to play it then go ahead, play like a child, have fun and try to learn the sport as fast as you can. You see, it doesn't matter if you are professional or not, there is no rule in any kind of sport that you have to become a professional first before you play it. Focus on having and not on playing it right, after all it is you happiness that matters and not following the rules.

If you want to go to a place but you don't know how to go there, just go there. If you have an extra money, extra time then pack your bags and go to that place. You will be lost but you will find your way for sure, it is your will to go there that will show you the way, have fun looking for the right path, enjoy being lost and of course enjoy more once you reached your destination.

If you don't know how to draw but you wanted to draw then just draw. Draw anything, copy someone's work if you want. Have fun in drawing some lines or circles, just enjoy moving your hands, even if you produce ugly results be proud of it because you made an effort. Draw anything, it can be basic or the simplest shape... draw it. It is fun especially if it is your first time drawing something, you will feel the joy, you will feel like you're a child again.

If you wanted to become rich and you don't know how to do it, just do it. It doesn't matter how you do it, just make sure you are not doing something illegal. Do it your way, make your money grow. step by step, lay the bricks, build something that you think will serve people and will give you big money. It is fun, it may take time but the process is fun, especially if you are earning and you don't expect that you will earn. It is fun to do something you don't know and you are making results.

If you found a newly open restaurant and you don't know if the food there is good, just try it. Order some foods that you haven't tasted yet. Order some meals that is not familiar to you, have fun trying foods that you haven't experienced yet. But also, be prepared to get disappointed because the food might not taste the way you expected it to taste. But the idea here is the surprise, what if the food tastes good to you? Unlike eating in a restaurant that is very familiar with you, trying something new will give you excitement. It will also give you the opportunity to learn about new foods, how fun was that?

If you don't know someone in your class and you are interested in her life, what are you waiting for? talk to her and share your ideas with her. Have fun making a conversation with her. If she rejected you then just move on and don't feel bad about it. What matters is you try and you offer her a good companionship, it is her lost if she rejected you and not yours.

Doing something that you do not know will make you grow, it will reveal some unfamiliar territories and you will discover more in life. You will learn a lot and you will be able to test your confidence. You will expand because you face the fears that is stopping you for a very long time. You will know more about yourself, you will be surprised at how talented you are and how unlimited opportunities life can offer you. It doesn't matter if you got rejected or you got lost, the growth and experience is what matters the most. There is a lot of fun in exploring the unknown territory.

YOU WILL BE HARD TO GET IF YOU WORK REALLY HARD FOR YOURSELF

If you work hard, I mean really really hard then your value will increase. You will be very hard to get. Especially if you established a reputation that you can do something great or you are building something that will stay forever.

But also take note that you have to work hard building yourself and pursuing your goals, it's not that you are working hard for the benefit of other people. Yeah, your value will also increase if you work hard for someone else, they will increase your pay, they will recommend you to other people to do the same work but in the end your value is lower than someone who works hard for himself.

Look at those people who work for others, they work hard, they become successful in some ways but the height of their success is not comparable to those who work for themselves. I am not saying that they are not successful or what they did in their life is bad, I am just sharing another perspective and exposing a different view and if you can get it then good for you.

We have someone to work for us to do the laundry, that woman is at her 50 plus or something, she really works hard. I am impressed at there because she is non stop, she is like a bull that will never stop and keep pushing until her work is done. I respect her because she is dedicated to her work and she is taking it seriously. She is very early to work and very late to go home, I think she is even working for 12 hours when she is doing the laundry for us. We were kind to her and giving her bonus and extra allowance because she deserves it. But things are not permanent, strength is not permanent, when she got older... she can't do the work that she can do before. We have no choice but to let her go because we have to find someone else that can do the work better. I guess that is just the way life works, even if you are kind and you appreciate someone, you have to make a decision that is best for you.

Look at that laundry woman, she is hardworking, she is dedicated but because she work for others... her power suddenly fades and she can't do anything about it. She doesn't work for herself so when she becomes weak... no one will need her service anymore. That situation is very common nowadays, companies will let go someone who cannot give a strong service, even though that person is a veteran.

Another example is an average-looking woman who is at her 30s, she is working hard to make herself better, she is going everyday to the gym, she is establishing her own passive income, she is making sure she is progressing and having a solid momentum that will bring her to huge success. And there is a pretty woman at her 30s who is happy go lucky, she never takes care of her figure, she ate ice cream everyday after every meal, she has a job but she is ok with it and she doesn't mind if she borrows money from others because sometimes her monthly salary is not enough for her daily needs. Now... if an average-looking guy with pretty decent life will court both woman, who do you think is harder to get? Of course the woman who works harder and dream bigger, it is because she knew she can still find someone better if she doesn't like that guy. She knew that she deserves better because she has a lot to offer.

But the pretty woman who is lazy and happy go lucky will go for a date with that guy for sure because she knew it is hard to find a guy who has a decent life and possibly will take her seriously because she was already at her 30s. She was easier to get because she doesn't work hard and she has nothing else to offer.

So the conclusion is... if you work hard and you work for yourself then you will be harder to get. It is because you know your value and you know that you deserve better. It is not being arrogant or something but you know you can be happy in your own rules and you don't need to impress other people because you have your own way of living and it doesn't matter if people likes you or not.

It doesn't matter if you are alone because you have your own empire and if they want to enter your world then they better be something else that will pass your standard.

Unlike someone who is not working for himself, he will not give himself a huge value because he has nothing to offer, especially if he is not working hard and not developing himself. Any offer that comes on his way... he will accept it even if he doesn't like it, he is very easy to get.

Look at those women who works as models for some car companies, look at them, it looks like they were very easy to get. I am not saying that all of them are easy to get, I am just saying that some of them. Just display your luxury car and show your thick stack of money and then some of them will ride in your car. Again, I am not saying all of them is like that.

But how about you display your luxury car to an average looking woman who is working super hard trying to reach something, do you think you can get her easily? of course not. That girl has a dream and she has confidence in herself, her value is bigger than those women who wear thick make ups and daring shirts. That woman will even slap you in your face if you disrespect her.

That is what I am talking about, if you work hard for yourself, make yourself better and establish your own empire then you will give yourself a bigger value, you will never feel inferior and you are confident that you can also deal with bigger personalities. They will respect you and they will think that you are not easy to get, they know you can walk away from them anytime you want so they will offer you bigger money or contracts.