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Beyond the Sling: A Real-Life Guide to Raising Confident, Loving Children the Attachment Parenting Way
Written by Mayim Bialik, Ph.D.
Narrated by Emily Durante
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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About this audiobook
Mayim Bialik was the child star of the popular 1990s TV sitcom Blossom, but she definitely didn't follow the typical child-star trajectory. Instead, Mayim got her Ph.D. in neuroscience from UCLA, married her college sweetheart, and had two kids. Mayim then did what many new moms do—she read a lot of books, talked with other parents, and she soon started questioning a lot of the conventional wisdom she heard about the "right" way to raise a child. That's when she turned to attachment parenting, a philosophy and lifestyle popularized by well-known physicians like Dr. William Sears and Dr. Jay Gordon.
To Mayim, attachment parenting's natural, child-led approach not only felt right emotionally, it made sense intellectually and instinctually. She found that when she followed her intuition and relaxed into her role as a mother instead of following some rigid parenting script, both she and her children thrived. Drawing on both her experience as a mother and her scientific background, Mayim explores the major tenets of attachment parenting, including:
Mayim describes the beauty, simplicity, and purposefulness of attachment parenting, and how it has become the guiding principle for her family. Much more than a simple how-to parenting guide, Beyond the Sling shows us that the core principles underlying attachment parenting are universal and can be appreciated no matter how you decide to raise your child.
To Mayim, attachment parenting's natural, child-led approach not only felt right emotionally, it made sense intellectually and instinctually. She found that when she followed her intuition and relaxed into her role as a mother instead of following some rigid parenting script, both she and her children thrived. Drawing on both her experience as a mother and her scientific background, Mayim explores the major tenets of attachment parenting, including:
- Co-sleeping: How to avoid "sleep training" and get a great night's sleep for the whole family.
- Breastfeeding: Learn how to listen to your baby's cues rather than sticking to a rigid schedule—and why people on airplanes love a nursing mother.
- Baby wearing: How to "wear" your baby in a sling or a wrap to develop a closer bond with your child—it's possible even for mamas with bad backs (and with big babies)!
- Gentle discipline: How to get your child to behave without yelling, threats, or time-outs—it really can be done.
Mayim describes the beauty, simplicity, and purposefulness of attachment parenting, and how it has become the guiding principle for her family. Much more than a simple how-to parenting guide, Beyond the Sling shows us that the core principles underlying attachment parenting are universal and can be appreciated no matter how you decide to raise your child.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I am very intrigued by the idea of attachment parenting. I am pregnant with my first child, and I'm hoping for a completely natural birth. Before I read this book, I already knew I wanted to breastfeed, avoid unnecessary medical interventions, and wear my baby. so Bialik didn't have to persuade me at all. I still enjoyed learning the "why" behind attachment parenting, and Bialik's personal experiences with it. Especially since my husband isn't completely sold on this method; it helps to have science as a back-up. I'm not completely sold on the idea of a family bed, or "elimination communication" - where even newborns don't wear diapers - either. But Bialik's writing is very accessible and non-judgmental. This isn't your typical parenting book - Bialik doesn't tell us that we must adhere to her methods, but instead shows us how they work in her family, and the biological reasons behind the methods' existence. I intend to read other books on childbirth and parenting, and I hope they are all as enjoyable to read as this one was.
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