Mike grew up in a single parent home with a violent, alcoholic mother. He has struggled all his life to escape his mother's dominance and intrusions into his life. The impact lasted even after her ...view moreMike grew up in a single parent home with a violent, alcoholic mother. He has struggled all his life to escape his mother's dominance and intrusions into his life. The impact lasted even after her death. There were several major events that helped. The first was getting a college education. Another was finding the best life partner. His army experience was another significant factor in his recovery from his mother's effects. There were many individuals along his life's path that contributed to his recovery. A strong set of personal ethics also has been a compelling force.view less