The Leadership Handbook: 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs
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John C. Maxwell
John C. Maxwell es autor, coach y conferencista número 1 en ventas según el New York Times con más de 34 millones de libros vendidos en más de cincuenta idiomas. Ha sido calificado como el líder número 1 en negocios y el experto en liderazgo más influyente del mundo. Sus organizaciones: John Maxwell Company, John Maxwell Team, EQUIP y John Maxwell Leadership Foundation han traducido sus enseñanzas a setenta idiomas y las han utilizado para formar a millones de líderes de todos los países del mundo. El doctor Maxwell, que ha sido galardonado con el Premio Horatio Alger y el Premio Madre Teresa por la Paz Global y el Liderazgo de Luminary Leadership Network, es de gran influencia para directores ejecutivos de Fortune 500, presidentes de naciones y empresarios de todo el mundo. Para obtener más información sobre él, visite JohnMaxwell.com.
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The Leadership Handbook - John C. Maxwell
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978140020602_0005_002.jpgLEADERSHIP LESSONS
I’ve had a remarkable and rewarding journey as a leader. In 1964, at the age of seventeen, I started reading and filing thoughts on the subject of leadership, because I knew leading was going to be an important part of my career. At age twenty-two, I held my first leadership position. In 1976, I became convinced that everything rises and falls on leadership. That belief was accompanied by a passion to be a lifelong student and teacher of this vital subject.
Learning to lead effectively has been a real challenge. Teaching others to lead effectively has been an even greater one. During the late 1970s, I poured myself into training and raising up potential leaders. To my delight, I discovered that leaders could be developed. That eventually prompted me to write my first leadership book in 1992, entitled Developing the Leader Within You. Since then I have written many others. For more than forty years, leading and teaching leadership have been my life’s work.
ADDING VALUE TO YOUR LEADERSHIP
This book is a result of years of living in a leadership environment and learning through trial and error what it means to be a leader. The lessons I’ve learned are personal and often simple, yet they can have a profound impact. Each chapter is a critical lesson in leadership. In the hands of the right people, it can add tremendous value to their leadership.
As you read each chapter, please understand that . . .
1. I’m still learning about leadership. I haven’t arrived, and this book is not my final answer on the subject of leadership. Within weeks of this book’s publication, there will be thoughts I wish I could add. Why? Because I continue to learn and grow. I hope to keep growing until the day I die.
2. Many people have contributed to the leadership lessons in this book. One of the chapters in this book is entitled Few Leaders Are Successful Unless a Lot of People Want Them to Be.
That has certainly been true for me. It’s said that a wise person learns from his mistakes. A wiser one learns from others’ mistakes. But the wisest person of all learns from others’ successes. Today I stand on the shoulders of many leaders who have added great value to my life. Tomorrow I hope you will be able to stand on my shoulders.
3. What I’m teaching can be learned by nearly anyone. Greek philosopher Plato said, The greater part of instruction is being reminded of things you already know.
That’s what the best learning is. As an author and teacher, what I try to do is help people truly understand in a new and clear way something that they have long sensed intuitively. I try to create aha moments.
Though I have lived my life in leadership by moving forward, I have begun to better understand it by looking backward. Now at age sixty-eight, I want to share with you the twenty-six important lessons I’ve learned as a leader. You don’t have to be an expert to understand what I’m teaching, and you don’t have to be a CEO to apply it. I never want anyone who reads my books to be like Peanuts’ Charlie Brown, who admired a sand castle he had created on the beach only to have it leveled by a huge downpour. As he looked at the smooth place where his artwork had once stood, he said, There must be a lesson here, but I don’t know what it is.
My goal isn’t to impress you while knowledge and insight elude you. It’s to be a friend who helps you.
4. Many of the lessons I’m sharing are a result of leadership mistakes I made. Some of the things I’ve learned were very painful to me at the time. I can still feel the sting as I pass them on to you. I am reminded of how often I have made mistakes. Yet I am also encouraged because I’m glad to recognize that I am wiser today than I was in years past.
Poet Archibald MacLeish remarked, There’s only one thing more painful than learning from experience, and that is not learning from experience.
Too often I see people make a mistake and stubbornly plow ahead only to end up repeating the same mistake. With great resolve they say to themselves, Try and try again!
How much better it would be to say, Try, then stop, think, change, and then try again.
5. Your ability to become a better leader depends on how you respond. Reading a book is never enough to make a difference in your life. What has the potential to make you better is your response. Please don’t take shortcuts with this book. Take time with it. Apply the lessons.
You have to go through a process to improve. That takes patience, perseverance, and intentionality. William A. Ward said, Committing a great truth to memory is admirable; committing it to life is wisdom.
I suggest that you keep this book as your companion for a significant amount of time so that it becomes a part of your life. Author and professor Peter Senge defines learning as a process that occurs over time and always integrates thinking and doing.
He goes on to say, Learning is highly contextual. . . . It happens in the context of something meaningful and when the learner is taking action.
If you are an emerging leader, I recommend that you spend twenty-six weeks working your way through the book—one week for every chapter. Read the chapter and then follow the instructions in that chapter’s application section. If you allow each lesson to sink in and then flesh it out by taking action before going on to the next one, I believe that in time you will be amazed by the positive changes that occur in your leadership. You can visit www.johnmaxwell.com to see video clips, hear audio excerpts, and find other tools to help you learn more. Leadership development is a process, and anything you can do to reinforce what you’re learning helps you to make it more permanent.
If you are a more experienced leader, take fifty-two weeks. Why longer? Because after you have worked your way through a chapter, you should spend a week taking people you are mentoring through that same chapter. By the end of the year, not only will you have grown, but you will have helped other emerging leaders to go to the next level! A Mentoring Moment is included after the application exercises to help you. Each has suggestions for helping people grow in leadership related to the area covered in the chapter.
You will need to have achieved a degree of rapport and trust with people before being able to engage in some of the suggestions. If you don’t have that with individuals you intend to mentor, invest time to build the relationship so that you can speak into their lives.
LEADERSHIP MAKES A DIFFERENCE
Why should you go through all this trouble to learn more about leadership? For that matter, why have I worked so hard to learn about leadership and distill those lessons for forty plus years? Because good leadership always makes a difference! I’ve seen what good leadership can do. I’ve seen it turn around organizations and positively impact the lives of thousands of individuals. True, leadership is not easy to learn, but what worthwhile thing is? Becoming a better leader pays dividends, but it takes great effort. Leadership requires a lot from a person. It is demanding and complex. Here’s what I mean . . .
Leadership is the willingness to put oneself at risk.
Leadership is the passion to make a difference with others.
Leadership is being dissatisfied with the current reality.
Leadership is taking responsibility while others are making excuses.
Leadership is seeing the possibilities in a situation while others are seeing the limitations.
Leadership is the readiness to stand out in a crowd.
Leadership is an open mind and an open heart.
Leadership is the ability to submerge your ego for the sake of what is best.
Leadership is evoking in others the capacity to dream.
Leadership is inspiring others with a vision of what they can contribute.
Leadership is the power of one harnessing the power of many.
Leadership is your heart speaking to the hearts of others.
Leadership is the integration of heart, head, and soul.
Leadership is the capacity to care, and in caring, to liberate the ideas, energy, and capacities of others.
Leadership is the dream made reality.
Leadership is, above all, courageous.
If these leadership thoughts quicken your pulse and stir your heart, then learning more about leadership will make a difference in you, and you will make a difference in the lives of others. Turn the page, and let’s get started.
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978140020602_0005_002.jpgIF IT’S LONELY AT THE TOP, YOU’RE NOT DOING SOMETHING RIGHT
My father’s generation believed that leaders should never get too close to the people they lead. Keep a distance
was a phrase I often heard. Good leaders were supposed to be a little above and apart from those they led. As a result, when I began my leadership journey, I made sure to keep some distance between me and my people. I tried to be close enough to lead them, but far enough away to not be influenced by them.
This balancing act immediately created a lot of inner conflict for me. Honestly, I liked being close to the people I led. Plus, I felt that one of my strengths was my ability to connect with people. Both of these factors caused me to fight the instruction I had received to keep a distance. And sure enough, within a few months of accepting my first leadership position, my wife, Margaret, and I began developing close friendships. We were enjoying our work and the people in the organization.
Like many leaders early in their career, I knew that I would not stay in this first job forever. It was a good experience, but I was soon ready for bigger challenges. After three years, I resigned to accept a position in Lancaster, Ohio. I’ll never forget the response of most people when they realized we were leaving: How could you do this after all we have done together?
Many people took my departure personally. I could see they felt hurt. That really bothered me. Instantly, the words of older leaders rang in my ears: Don’t get too close to your people.
As I left that assignment to take my next leadership position, I promised myself to keep people from getting too close to me.
THIS TIME IT’S PERSONAL
In my second position, for the first time in my leadership journey, I could employ staff to help me. One young man showed great promise, so I hired him and began pouring my life into him. I soon discovered that training and developing people was both a strength and a joy.
This staff member and I did everything together. One of the best ways to train others is to let them accompany you to observe what you do, give some training, and then let them make an attempt at doing it. That’s what we did. It was my first experience in mentoring.
I thought everything was going great. Then one day I found out that he had taken some sensitive information I had shared with him and violated my confidence by telling others about it. It not only hurt me as a leader, but it also hurt me personally. I felt betrayed. Needless to say, I let him go. And once again, the words of more experienced leaders rang in my ears: Don’t get too close to your people.
Loneliness is not a positional issue; it is a personality issue.
97814002060_0014_009.jpgThis time I had learned my lesson. I once again determined to keep space between me and everyone around me. I would hire staff to do their jobs. And I would do my job. And we would only get together at the annual Christmas party!
For six months I managed to maintain this professional separation. But then one day I realized that keeping everyone at a distance was a double-edged sword. The good news was that if I kept people at a distance, nobody would ever hurt me. But the bad news was that no one would ever be able to help me either. So at age twenty-five, I made a decision: As a leader, I would walk slowly through the crowd.
I would take the time—and the risk—of getting close to people and letting them get close to me. I would vow to love people before trying to lead them. This choice would at times make me vulnerable. I would get hurt. Yet the close relationships would allow me to help them as well as be helped by them. That decision has changed my life and my leadership.
LONELINESS IS NOT A LEADERSHIP ISSUE
There’s a cartoon in which an executive is shown sitting forlornly behind a huge desk. Standing meekly on the other side of the desk is a man dressed in work clothes, who says, If it’s any comfort to you, it’s lonely at the bottom too.
Being at the top doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Neither does being at the bottom. I’ve met lonely people at the bottom, on the top, and in the middle. I now realize that loneliness is not a positional issue; it is a personality issue.
To many people, the leader’s image is that of an individual standing alone at the top of the mountain, looking down on his people. He’s separated, isolated, and lonely. Thus the saying It’s lonely at the top.
But I would argue that the phrase was never made by a great leader. If you are leading others and you’re lonely, then you’re not doing it right. Think about it. If you’re all alone, that means nobody is following you. And if nobody is following you, you’re not really leading!
Taking people to the top is what good leaders do.
97814002060_0014_009.jpgWhat kind of a leader would leave everyone behind and take the journey alone? A selfish one. Taking people to the top is what good leaders do. Lifting people to a new level is a requirement for effective leadership. That’s hard to do if you get too far from your people—because you can no longer sense their needs, know their dreams, or feel their heartbeat. Besides, if things aren’t getting better for people as a result of their leader’s efforts, then they need a different leader.
TRUTHS ABOUT THE TOP
Because this leadership issue has been so personal to me, I’ve given it a lot of thought over the years. Here are some things you need to know:
No One Ever Got to the Top Alone
Few leaders are successful unless a lot of people want them to be. No leaders are successful without a few people helping them. Sadly, as soon as some leaders arrive at the top, they spend their time trying to push others off the top. They play king of the hill because of their insecurity or competitiveness. That may work for a time, but it usually won’t last long. When your goal is to knock others down, you spend too much of your time and energy watching out for people who would do the same to you. Instead, why not give others a hand up and ask them to join you?
Making It to the Top Is Essential to Taking Others to the Top
There are a lot of people in the world who are willing to give advice on things they’ve never experienced. They are like bad travel agents: they sell you an expensive ticket and say, I hope you enjoy the trip.
Then you never see them again. In contrast, good leaders are like tour guides. They know the territory because they’ve made the trip before, and they do what they can to make the trip enjoyable and successful for everybody.
A leader’s credibility begins with personal success. It ends with helping others achieve personal success.
97814002060_0014_009.jpgA leader’s credibility begins with personal success. It ends with helping others achieve personal success. To gain credibility, you must consistently demonstrate three things:
1. Initiative: You have to get up to go up.
2. Sacrifice: You have to give up to go up.
3. Maturity: You have to grow up to go up.
If you show the way, people will want to follow you. The higher you go, the greater the number of people who will be willing to travel with you.
Taking People to the Top Is More Fulfilling Than Arriving Alone
A few years ago I had the privilege of speaking on the same stage as Jim Whittaker, the first American to climb Mount Everest. During lunch I asked him what had given him the most fulfillment as a mountain climber. His answer surprised me.
I have helped more people get to the top of Mount Everest than any other person,
he replied. Taking people to the top who could never get there without my assistance is my greatest accomplishment.
Evidently this is a common way of thinking for great mountain guides. Years ago I saw an interview with a guide on 60 Minutes. People had died while attempting to climb Mount Everest, and a surviving guide was asked, Would the guides have died if they were not taking others with them to the top?
No,
he answered, but the purpose of the guide is to take people to the top.
Then the interviewer asked, Why do mountain climbers risk their lives to climb mountains?
The guide responded, It is obvious that you have never been to the top of the mountain.
I remember thinking to myself that mountain guides and leaders have a lot in common. There is a big difference between a boss and a leader. A boss says, Go.
A leader says, Let’s go.
The purpose of leadership is to take others to the top. And when you take others who might not make it to the top otherwise, there’s no other feeling like it in the world. To those who have never had the experience, you can’t explain it. To those who have, you don’t need to.
Much of the Time Leaders Are Not at the Top
Leaders rarely remain stationary. They are constantly on the move. Sometimes they are going down the mountain to find new potential leaders. At other times they are trying to make the climb with a group of people. The best ones spend much of their time serving other leaders and lifting them up.
Jules Ormont said, A great leader never sets himself above his followers except in carrying responsibilities.
Good leaders who remain connected with their people stoop—that’s the only way to reach down and pull others up. If you want to be the best leader you can be, don’t allow insecurity, pettiness, or jealousy to keep you from reaching out to others.
ADVICE TO LONELY LEADERS
If you find yourself too far from your people—either by accident or by design—then you need to change. True, there will be risks. You may hurt others or be hurt yourself. But if you want to be the most effective leader you can be, there is no viable alternative. Here’s how to get started:
1. Avoid Positional Thinking
Leadership is relational as much as it is positional. An individual who takes a relational approach to leadership will never be lonely. The time spent in building relationships creates friendships with others. Positional leaders, on the other hand, are often lonely. Every time they use their title and permission to persuade
their people to do something, they create distance between themselves and others. They are essentially saying, I’m up here; you’re down there. So do what I say.
That makes people feel small, alienates them, and drives a wedge between them and the leader. Good leaders don’t belittle people—they enlarge them.
Leadership is relational as much as it is positional. An individual who takes a relational approach to leadership will never be lonely.
97814002060_0014_009.jpgEvery year I invest time teaching leadership internationally. Positional leadership is a way of life in many developing countries. Leaders gather and protect power. They alone are allowed to be on top, and everyone else is expected to follow. Sadly, this practice keeps potential leaders from developing and creates loneliness for the one who leads.
If you are in a leadership position, do not rely on your title to convince people to follow you. Build relationships. Win people over. Do that and you will never be a lonely leader.
2. Realize the Downsides of Success and Failure
Success can be dangerous—and so can failure. Anytime you think of yourself as a success,
you start to separate yourself from others you view as less successful. You start to think, I don’t need to see them, and you withdraw. Ironically, failure also leads to withdrawal, but for other reasons. If you think of yourself as a failure,
you avoid others, thinking, I don’t want to see them. Both extremes in thinking can create an unhealthy separation from others.
3. Understand That You Are in the People Business
The best leaders know that leading people requires loving them! I’ve never met a good leader who didn’t care about people. Ineffective leaders have the wrong attitude, saying, I love mankind. It’s the people I can’t stand.
But good leaders understand that people do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. You must like people or you will never add value to them. And if you become indifferent to people, you may be only a few steps away from manipulating them. No leader should ever do that.
4. Buy Into the Law of Significance
The Law of Significance in The 17 Indispensible Laws of Teamwork states, One is too small a number to achieve greatness.
No accomplishment of real value has ever been achieved by a human being working alone. I challenge you to think of one. (I’ve made this challenge at conferences for years and no one has succeeded in identifying one yet!) Honestly, if on your own you can fulfill the vision you have for your life and work, then you’re aiming too low. Occasionally a person will introduce himself to me by saying,