Zaida: Belly Dancing for Older Women
By Zaïda
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the colour of your eyes -
do not matter when you want to learn to belly dance.
You will feel healthier, more energetic and happier,
than you have ever felt.
You will feel you are a beautiful woman.
You will feel self-assured.
You will feelJOY!
Zada first started to belly dance at the age of 60
and has felt healthier and happier in the past 5 years
than she ever did in the previous 6 decades.
This book was written especially
to encourage you . the older woman. to DANCE
to experience your true, inner self
to experience JOY!
Try this form of gentle exercise for just a few months
and you will never want to stop.
'Always yield to temptation, because it may not pass your way again'
Zaïda
Zaida discovered belly dance at the age of 60.
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Zaida - Zaïda
Zaïda
Belly Dancing for Older Women
Zaïda
Writers Club Press
San Jose New York Lincoln Shanghai
Zaïda
Belly Dancing for Older Women
All Rights Reserved © 2001 by Phoebe Kathrine Carter
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Zaïda
Bellydancing for Older Women
I dedicate this book to my husband, Mike.
Mike has supported me every step of the way in my quest to learn belly dancing and to educate the uninitiated in the sheer joy, and the physical and mental benefits of this dance.
I thank also, my long suffering, but meticulous Proof Readers.
Author: Zaïda
Contents
CHAPTER 1
Zaïda website: http://welcome.to/Zaida
CHAPTER 2
CREATING YOUR
COSTUME
&
CHOOSING COLOURS
CHOOSING COLOURS
CHAPTER 3
ATTITUDE
Learning to Teach
CHAPTER 4
DANCING
CHAPTER 5
MUSIC
CHAPTER 6
SALUBRITY
CHAPTER 7
STAMINA & FLEXIBILITY
CHAPTER 8
FOR MEN
CHAPTER 9
INTERESTING MOVES
CHAPTER 10
REPARTEE—1999
CHAPTER 11
REPARTEE—2000
CHAPTER 12
REPARTEE—2001
CHAPTER 1
Zaïda website: http://welcome.to/Zaida
Belly Dancing for Older Women
Zaïda means ‘lucky’.
‘Belly Dancing’ evokes visions of harem girls dancing in very skimpy costumes for the entertainment and titillation of the Sheik. The fabled ‘Dance of the Seven Veils’ always springs from the lips of the uninitiated.
This is pure Hollywood hype. Oscar Wilde is reputed to have evoked the Dance of the Seven Veils from his fantasies. The Western image of harems stems from the Victorian era when anything vaguely sexual was highly prized on the black-market, due to the extreme repressions of the era. Authors wrote their wildest fantasies as factual reports of life in the harem. Not one of them would have gained access to a harem or lived to tell the tale had they done so.
Everything the Western world thinks it knows about harems is pure fantasy
Belly Dancing—Baladi (pronounced Beh-leh-dee and mistaken for Belly), is a health regimen which has evolved over the centuries. The origins of the dance are extremely ancient, predating Islam, Christianity and even Judaism. The dance has no affiliation with current religion anywhere in the world.
It encompasses all the aspects of the human entity. The physical, psychological, emotional, social and financial aspects of that entity.
In the West, the dance has evolved by absorbing the ‘best’ from the dances of many countries, not only the Middle East, and is thus an amorphous blending of many styles.
PHYSICAL—You will gain enormous strength, vitality and flexibility. This does not mean you will become muscle-bound and masculine looking. It means that your muscles will regain the flexibility of youth. You will be able to move more freely and will particularly notice this new-found strength when descending stairs; you will not need to cling to the railings.
Your balance will improve and you will be unlikely to fall, even on difficult ground. One of the greatest fears of older women is to break a hip, as this will affect them for the rest of their lives and possibly mean they will need a walking stick to aid with mobility.
Muscle strength also means excellent weight control as muscle burns fat, so, although your weight may not change much, your body will become trim and finely defined as you rebuild your muscles. You will be able to consume larger quantities of food without depositing fatty layers. As muscle is heavier than fat, your scales will not give you much reassurance, so ignore the scales and just concentrate on how you ‘feel’ and look.
Best of all, you will feel enormously energetic and vibrant. You will feel STRONG.
PSYCHOLOGICAL—You will experience a deep-seated sense of self-worth. You will feel totally self-possessed and in control of your life. You will know who you are and that you are a very worthwhile person.
You may not be the ‘BEST’ dancer in the world, but you will be unique. You will be YOU. Nobody can possibly bring to the dance just what you can bring. Whether it be verve and vivacity, delicate shades of meaning, comedy or pathos; you will interpret the dance according to your personality and you will find your dance changing as your psyche blossoms.
You will feel sure of yourself as a woman. Your walk will show the world how you feel about yourself. You will glow with good health. You will be FIT.
EMOTIONAL—Many women find it difficult or even impossible to express their emotions. Their past experiences may have frozen them into a protective shell in order that they may not be hurt, ridiculed or exploited.
Their upbringing may have left them with a major overburden of inhibitions. One dancer could not move her upper body, no matter how hard she tried. She was big busted and had been told all her formative years, not to flaunt herself, so she had learned to keep her chest area very understated; hidden under loose clothing and never, ever displayed.
Other dancers would KILL for such charms.
Another dancer could not move her hip section. She would try and try but it was absolutely frozen. She never divulged the reason for her frozen pelvis. She never spoke about her private life or her childhood.
We, in the class, threatened to join the two together by taking the top of one and the bottom of the other, to make one flexible dancer……
Both these dancers eventually started to loosen up and as they continued with their dancing, they gradually overcame their brain-washed mind-set.
Their personalities blossomed.
The dance will release all these pent-up emotions and a new dancer may even find herself sobbing as she dances. These negative emotions will pass and the sheer joy of the dance will shine through. Whenever a dancer hears music with a driving beat, and it need not be Arabic music, she will find herself responding to that music with an almost irresistible urge to dance.
Best of all…. if she does get up to dance, she will be able to surprise everyone present with her grace and ability.
SOCIAL—You will have a ‘party piece’ to entertain your friends. How many times have you enjoyed someone else doing something entertaining at a social function and wishing you could do ‘something’? Well, belly dancing will knock their eyes out. Many of them will be envious, lets face it, downright jealous, not only of your ability to do the moves, but your self-confidence in being able to entertain.
You will gain a whole new circle of friends and if you are on the Internet you will find you are part of a worldwide sub-culture. Your interest in belly dancing will open doors you never even knew existed and you will learn about the day-to-day lives of people from the most exotic places. This is far more interesting than doing the tourist thing and seeing only the ‘beautiful scenery’.
FINANCIAL—This is reflected in the coins and golden jewellery worn by belly dancers. Originally this represented a woman’s entire wealth and was worn in order to keep it safe. In the West, it is purely decorative.
Many dancers make an extremely good living out of their dancing, indeed, the most famous belly dancers in Egypt are amongst the wealthiest women, in their own right; but this is not the prime focus—even these dancers would find their lives totally empty if they retired and did not dance.
Of course, none of this comes cheaply. You will have to work at your dancing and your attitude to life. You will discover that fellow dancers, throughout the world, will support you, encourage you and wish you well.
AUTHENTIC is just another hype word. This word has lost its true meaning, as has the word ‘unique’. There is nothing authentic about ‘belly dance’. This is the dance of the people and evolves and mutates as people move around the world and see new moves, which they include in their dance. It has always been thus, even in the early days of nomads and camel caravans. The Gypsies travelled around and spread their style of dance throughout the Middle East. As they discovered new styles and moves, they included these in their dances and took these moves to other places.
Belly dance is a ‘living’ dance; just as English is a ‘living’ language. Latin died because it was a rigid language and could not evolve with the needs of the people. English has survived and grown because it has adopted all the words from other languages which express a precise meaning; particularly in this technological age.
Thus belly dancers are constantly adopting ideas from different cultures and even from individual dancers. What goes around, comes around. This is what makes belly dancing so vital and vibrant…. it is expressing the feelings of the people NOW.
We need to redefine age. Anything up to 60 is young. 60 to 80 is middle age and over 90 is elderly
.
Ita Buttrose.
CHAPTER 2
CREATING YOUR
COSTUME
&
CHOOSING COLOURS
There is no ‘uniform’ costume for Belly Dancing—in Australia; or possibly anywhere else. Follow your own inclination. You understand your figure perfections and imperfections better than anyone.
It is essential to dress in context in order to gain the true feel of the dance. You cannot see what a shimmy does when you are wearing bicycle shorts…. nothing moves. A figure eight and a circle don’t become visible until something moves in the pattern. A rib shift under a loose tee shirt is completely invisible. You will feel you are not able to learn this dance.