Become an Uncommon Purpose Driven Achiever: Dare to Live Without Limits
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OSCAR BONGA NOMVETE
ABOUT THE AUTHOR Oscar Bonga Nomvete (MBA MSc) is a Leadership and Management Consultant based in London, UK. He facilitates Leadership workshops and seminars for Non-Governmental Organizations, Churches and Corporate Companies. His Passion is to train people on the Principles that enhance Personal, Management and Leadership Effectiveness. He inspires people to become Leaders in their Careers and Fields of calling. He started his career as a Youth Worker, working for Charity Organisations such as Youth For Christ where he worked in numerous countries in Africa and in the USA. He is the Managing Director of First Pinnacle LTD and pursuing Doctoral Studies in Business Leadership. An Entrepreneur, a Public Speaker, and a Teacher.
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Become an Uncommon Purpose Driven Achiever - OSCAR BONGA NOMVETE
Contents
DEDICATION
PREFACE
INTRODUCTION
PART ONE // SEVEN KEY STEPS TO BECOME A PERSON
OF EXCELLENCE
PART TWO //
THE SEVEN DEADLY PREDATORS OF A PURPOSE CENTERED LIFESTYLE
PRACTICAL TIPS
EPILOGUE
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
BOOK SUMMARY
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
BOOKS BY THE AUTHOR
DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to my late grandmother Patience Nomvete, who brought me up, believed in me, spoke words of life and hope to me from a young age. Her prayers, her words and her love have kept me strong. Lala ngoxolo Mkhonde!
PREFACE
Someone said to me;
"I wouldn’t bother myself living life being controlled by ‘a purpose’ or any rules for that matter, I just let the wind blow, why not chill, take it easy and let life."
I responded;
There is nothing wrong with letting the wind blow, the only problem is that the wind blows where it likes. If you are smart, you will prepare your sails and aim them so that it blows you towards the direction you wish to go. At least have a destination in mind, and then let the wind blow. If you don’t aim your Sails, the wind will take you anywhere
.
I was really being sincere with this guy, I honestly believe that if you begin to pursue a significant goal, you may not become the most famous person in the world but you will certainly become the best you can be with what God has given you. But if you aim at nothing, you will get just that, - Nothing.
If you are going to live life anyway, why not live a life with meaning, passion, significance, adventure, excitement and leave no room for regrets.
Having read a handful of books on many life related issues, I noticed they all spell out that our lives are meant to have a purpose, a reason to live for. That sounds nice, but for many people somehow when it comes to day to day realities, this purpose thing is just artificial, unreal and unattainable. It seems as if only a few very smart individuals were meant to shine. The rest were destined to bum around in their meaningless lives and be tossed back and forth by life as it likes. Well, if this is the case, then our duty boils down to how well we respond to the day to day events of life and how well we interact with people we meet daily while busy in our action, - there lies the value of our story.
Let me invite you to reason with me through the pages of this book;
y Is there something we can do to turn daily events into a meaningful exciting life?
y Could we possibly stretch ourselves to achieve a significant purpose and perhaps grow bigger in the process?
y What if our pursuit for significance is the very secret to enjoying a happy life?
y What exactly can be a suitable purpose to live for, since there is so much one can do during a lifetime?
Well, there are so many different views on how one can discover a suitable purpose to live for. Some people believe that you should pray to God to reveal your purpose.
Others believe that purpose is a matter of upbringing, culture and being programmed by social environment; that determines what you become later as an adult.
While others believe it is all pointless because only a chosen few were predestined to do something meaningful anyway.
Whatever your beliefs are, let us just agree on one thing that from the day you were born to the day you die you will travel through events that will change your life and shape your destiny. Whether you have planned these events or not, they will all together be the purpose you will live your life for. This series of events is called destiny. So the question really is;
Is there anything you can do to maximise your effectiveness given the events that follow from now on?
Why wait for life to take its course instead of being proactive and start your engines and take control of your own life? You can begin today regardless of your age, education or the condition of your bank account. You have no idea what you can become.
Your destiny is not what you will achieve, but what you will become.
This book is simple, easy to read, enjoyable and practical. It will help you discover your purpose, maximise your potential and help you become effective in your field of calling.
My aim for writing this book is to assist you break your own limits and become the best you can be. I trust you will enjoy these principles and the inspiring stories, and use them as a guide in your Journey of Purpose.
-OSCAR BONGA NOMVETE-
INTRODUCTION
The magic of a Genius
Do you remember those early days of life? Those days if you can still remember, you used to scream awfully, lying on your back without a care in the world. To you the world was yourself, screaming was your invention. You screamed to get all your needs met. It worked effectively every time. Strangely enough, you didn’t even know what was so effective about it, for all you cared, it was working.
It had an effect that made your world move to your rhythm. It had such an impact that everyone came to a standstill and gave you all attention you wanted whenever you screamed.
You screamed to get food, attention, love, care and every other thing you wished for. It met all your desires and wants. It was magic. Come to think of it, you had no idea how you even stumbled into using it the first time, but that didn’t matter, all that mattered; it was working effectively.
Few months later you had learnt to crawl on the floor, move around and had familiarised yourself with the corners of your world. One day you screamed but ALAS! To your great surprise, this time your scream had no effect, or rather not what you expected. This time your mother looks at you with an annoyed look in her eyes, she shouts back at you, commanding. Though you were not sure what she is saying but you knew whatever she is saying means – no screaming!
You wondered;
What’s wrong with her?
Suddenly you became concerned to get things working for you again. You wanted food, attention, love and care, you wanted it all, and you wanted it now! For some reason your scream was either not loud enough or there was something wrong with your mother’s hearing.
So you decided to look into new strategies to get her attention. You added something visual to your screaming. This time you screamed, threw yourself on the floor, rolled around on the floor and guess what? She turned around and looked, picked you off the floor, put you on her chest, with a defeated smile on her face she asked;
What’s the matter honey?
Then she gave you food, attention, love and care.
Hmm Impressive!
You thought.
I have just invented a whole new system to get everything working again, my world is back to just the way I like it. For sure I am a Genius!
Meet the Genius
After taking a few months thinking hard what to say to your mother, one day you craftily made your first speech;
Daaada.
You almost got a standing ovation, for successfully addressing your parents in spite being chauvinistic.
By the time you started nursery, you had changed your success system a few times, because you realised nothing works rigidly for all occasions. And that life demands some flexibility and adaptation. You knew your strategy well. It worked effectively for every goal, but your mother kept shifting the goal posts. What annoyed you though is that she was changing expectations and goals without even consulting you. However you were just as determined to win in this game called life. You were determined to do whatever it takes to improve your strategy and try as many new ways as it takes to get what you want.
You knew you had to be on top of things and make your needs known otherwise you may be ignored. Well, who knows?
So you became an expert in refining the process of getting things you want, the way you like them. You were so good at it, you knew beyond doubt that you are a Genius!
Early during your primary school days you refined a technique called ‘lying’ which seemed to outstand all other techniques you had tried before. You had not done your home work, then your nursery teacher asked about it. Bravely, you replied;
The puppy ate my home work
.
She tilted her head looking at you pitifully and said;
Aahh, I’m so sorry. Oh well, you go then sit next to your friend and look at her homework. We’ll have to do something about that dog.
You were delighted at how well this worked. You were impressed at how much success comes just by introducing few new ideas. You were really the master of your world.
All was well, until of course one day your mother discovered ‘the secret of your success’ and she yelled;
Don’t you ever lie to me again, lying is bad, and no child of mine is going to be a liar!
Then you thought;
There she goes again, ruining my life, she has to spoil everything just when things are going well for me.
Since you didn’t know how she knows you are lying, you decided to cut it down. But you were still determined to live and make success of everything you do and get everything you want. You even came up with more sophisticated strategies such as asking