The Miracle of Forgiving: 70 Remarkable Stories of Love and Forgiveness
By J.P. Vaswani
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Forgive! And be free!
This message spells out aloud through the lucid writings of Rev. Dada J. P. Vaswani in this collection of stories.
Rev. Dada known for his splendid story-telling abilities that bring to life the very book, has yet again through this masterpiece breathed life into the pages of this book. Choosing the right anecdote, the appropriate tale, the perfectly matched parable that drives home the point, make both his writings and discourses memorable.
J.P. Vaswani
Dada J. P. Vaswani is the author of over 200 self-help and inspirational titles, including the bestselling Daily Appointment with God and Why Do Good People Suffer? One of contemporary India’s leading nonsectarian spiritual leaders, his books are filled with enlightening anecdotes from world traditions and practical wisdom that helps many people to start living confident, fulfilling, and connected lives. Dada, as he is known to his admirers and followers, has held audiences with prominent world leaders, including the Dalai Lama, Mother Teresa, and Pope John Paul II. As the spiritual head of the Sadhu Vaswani Mission, he has been a tireless advocate for animal rights and non-violence for the past half century. Visit him online at www.sadhuvaswani.org. One of India’s foremost spiritual leaders, J. P. Vaswani is the author of more than two hundred inspirational and self-help books, most of them bestsellers. A scientist-turned-philosopher, he is widely admired all over the world for his message of practical optimism.
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The Miracle of Forgiving - J.P. Vaswani
Kumari
INTRODUCTION
There is no easy or simple way to define forgiveness. Forgiveness is a bridge that all of us need to cross at one time or another in our lives. It needs to be experienced. Forgiveness is an attitude of compassion and understanding with which we choose to react to the world. Forgiveness is not a one-off action— it is a process in which we evolve towards tolerance and acceptance. Forgiveness is not a series of incidents— it is a way of life that we choose. Forgiveness is self-restraint, self-control, self-discipline, through which we transcend our lower selves. Above all, forgiveness is an effort on our part to bring out the divine that is in all of us.
Forgiveness is not always easy. How can parents forgive the murderer of their children? How can mothers forgive the rapists of their daughters? How can anyone forgive those who have massacred their family and friends?
I am the first to admit it is not easy. But the alternative is to become like those offenders— intransigent, cruel and unfeeling. Forgiveness releases you from the fetters of hatred, and frees you from the pain, shame and humiliation of the past which is thankfully dead and gone!
Are there no limits to forgiveness? Would forgiveness not mean exonerating, excusing, or condoning evil actions? Would this not be immoral, not to speak of it being unethical and unjust?
The writer and poet C. S. Lewis argues that forgiveness transcends the idea of human fairness: it sometimes involves pardoning those things that can’t be pardoned at all. It is much more than excusing. When we excuse someone, we simply brush their mistakes aside. As he puts it, If one was not really to blame, then there is nothing to forgive. In that sense forgiveness and excusing are almost opposites.
He concludes:
Real forgiveness means looking steadily at the sin, the sin that is leftover without any excuse, after all allowances have been made, and seeing it in all its horror, dirt, meanness and malice, and nevertheless being wholly reconciled to the person who has done it. That, and only that is forgiveness.
Even when reconciliation is not possible, forgiveness can play a vital role. George Macdonald writes:
It may be infinitely worse to refuse to forgive than to murder, because the latter may be the impulse of a moment of heat, whereas the former is a cold and deliberate choice of the heart.
Forgiveness need not be a struggle— if we realise that it is also a great gift and a blessing. It is a choice that we make- either to love or hate, to punish or pardon, to heal or hurt. We choose to tread the path of peace and reconciliation, rather than succumb to bitterness. To quote the words of Martin Luther King, Jr., Forgiveness is not an occasional act. It is a permanent attitude.
Forgiveness is above justice. Justice seeks to punish, forgiveness seeks reconciliation. As Shakespeare puts it so beautifully,
Though justice be thy plea, consider this—
That in the course of justice none of us,
Should see salvation. We do pray for mercy,
And that same prayer doth teach us all to render
The deeds of mercy.
Forgiveness is not for saints and sages. How often have we not come across people, who, when urged to forgive and forget, retort with passion, I am not a Mahatma…! am not a saint… I am only human!
So many of us believe that we cannot forgive; that it is too difficult, that it is the prerogative of saints and other evolved souls— not for the likes of us.
Forgiveness need not be a feat of supernatural power. It is just a way of putting the past behind you— once and for all. It is a way of moving on. It is a way of seeing things differently; looking at life from a new perspective. It is the realisation that we cannot stay bitter and angry for the rest of our lives.
Forgiveness is the noblest virtue. Here is a story to illustrate this. A rich old man divided all his property equally among his sons. However, he withheld an expensive diamond ring, which was a family heirloom. His sons were sent out to travel and take on the world. When they returned on a certain specified day, the diamond ring would go to him who had done the noblest deed.
On the appointed day the sons returned home. They were asked to report on what they considered to be their noblest deed.
The first son said, A wealthy banker handed over all his money to me for investment. I could have kept it all— but I served him honestly, and restored every pie of his to him, with interest.
That was indeed well done- but you only did what you should do,
said the father.
The second son said, As I was walking along the seashore, I saw a little child who was about to drown. At the risk of my life, I rushed into the roaring waves and rescued the child.
That was a brave deed— but not worthy enough to deserve the priceless ring!
was the father’s response.
It was the youngest son’s turn. I was tending my sheep on the mountains, when I saw my bitterest enemy stumble on the edge of a precipice and fall. He hung on to the edge of the cliff in terror— I rushed to his aid and saved his life!
You are my pride and joy,
said the father. Returning good for evil is the noblest deed. The ring shall be yours!
J. P. Vaswani
THE CONVERSION OF BENJAMIN
It is easy to lose ones temper and react. It is so difficult to return a blessing for a blow.
In the course of a debate in the American Congress, a Senator, J. P. Benjamin, made a personal attack on Senator W. H. Seward. It lasted for a considerable time. Then Benjamin resumed his seat, angry and bitter, to await a counter-attack.
To the wonder of all present, Senator Seward went over to his opponent and said sweetly, Benjamin, give me a cigar. When your speech has been printed, send me two copies.
Later, Senator Seward was seen joking with his colleagues, puffing contentedly on the cigar he had received from his opponent.
Anger ceaseth not by anger; anger ceaseth by forgiveness.
The best way to kill an enemy is to make him a friend.
THE WAY TO PEACE
A house in which a man and his ten-year-old daughter lived, was attacked by some outlaws. The father died in the scuffle. The outlaws spared the life of the girl, Melania, but gouged out her eyes, so that she became blind. Ten years later, Melania was sitting by the roadside, when she heard footsteps and a voice which frightened her. Who is it?
she called out , Be careful, because I am blind.
I know who you are,
replied one of the outlaws. I am the man who killed your father and blinded you. I just tried to hold up a passer-by and he shot me. I am going to die. I beg you to forgive me.
Melania shuddered with anger but controlled herself, forgave the criminal and exhorted him to repent. When the man was dead, she groped for his eyes and gently closed them like a loving daughter.
The gentle touch of forgiveness can erase years of anger and resentment.
Forgiveness transforms our life making it more peaceful, meaningful and constructive.
I WILL FORGIVE YOU!
The true fragrance of life is forgiveness. History tells us that the son of Louis XVI, King of France,