The Writer's Block Myth: A Guide to Get Past Stuck & Experience Lasting Creative Freedom
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The Writer's Block Myth is a grounded and inspirational guide for what every writer and creative person wants - to live their joy in the process and to create. Whether you're a seasoned writer or new to the page, The Writer's Block Myth is like no other book on writer's block or the creative life
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The Writer's Block Myth - Heloise Jones
THE WRITER’S BLOCK MYTH
Writer’s block. The blank page. The thing labeled an affliction, a curse, a wall to break through. Search 'Writer's Block' on Amazon, and 100 pages show up. In the movie Adaptation, Nicolas Cage portrayed an anguished writer in the throes. I’ve been stuck, too. Overwhelmed. Lists circling my head. Writing time scheduled on the calendar that gets diverted to life, relationships, and other things, even laundry. I’m inspired with stories that need to go on paper in a life full of distractions. My goals and dreams looking so far away that I jump to thinking if only I had a finished book, I’d have permission to put some of the world on hold so I can immerse in what I love to write most. You know what I mean, right?
Then what happens is I start down the road of what’s not there, looking at everything else in my life as stealing time away from writing, even when it’s people or things I care about. And I freeze in anxiety or despair, hear the sad story of my life repeating itself in my head. I see myself as going nowhere. See myself as not good enough. Any rejection of my work, by myself or others, makes me wonder if I should give up.
Every person I’ve encountered––writers, artists, and those who don’t write––has experienced being stuck, and knows what feeling blocked looks like. Everyone knows what it means.
Or do we?
From the time I was a small girl, artistic and creative expression was part of my life. My mother said I loved to draw and write from the moment I could hold a pencil. Paint, beads, mixed media, yarn, string, clay, paper, interior design, you name it. Fifteen years ago, when I committed to writing, I discovered a passion that not only surprised me, but married well my interest in psychology and sociology. What influenced me writing this book, though, were the conversations I had with other writers and the questions I heard at conferences and read in online forums. I realized that despite Google being our friend, most people didn’t have the time or inclination, and perhaps not the patience or skill, to rout out solid information. Or to know how to vet what’s useful or applies when creating a writing life. They need help beyond the sound advice for querying agents with the right letter. Because as more people took to their dream to write, the publishing world changed, and it continues to change fast.
Traditional publishing, once every author’s aspiration, now rests under the umbrella of five large publishing and media corporations. Former independent publishers enfolded as imprints within the corporations. Many literary agencies consolidated to survive, or closed. A number of small presses moved to agent-represented submissions only. Tight budgets and lean staff in the industry narrowed the scope of work sought by both agents and publishers. An author platform, the body of readers and exposure in the marketplace an author develops, was elevated in importance across all genres of written works. At the same time, the number of Master of Fine Arts (MFA) full residency programs catering to writers grew from 148 to 229 in the four years between 2010 and 2014. Every student in those programs holding the dream of being a published author.
The upside is more writers in a tighter market has encouraged the growth of alternative publishing options. Self-publishing no longer carries the vanity press stigma as it once did. Online journals flourish, providing a forum for essays, short stories, and poetry to reach a broad audience. A spectrum of hybrid publishers that combine elements of support an author gets from a traditional house with the speed and agency of self-publishing has also emerged. Some offering marketing and author platform support, as well. Blogs have proliferated, and books developed from them. Readers sometimes contributing to the development of the stories. All providing a space for new genres, such as fan fiction, to emerge and a wide variety of writing styles to be showcased.
So, depending on what you read, publishing is harder with restricted options and more competition, or easier with more channels to do it yourself online and in print. Either way, navigating through a noisy world to write and be read with any degree of success can be challenging. Knowing why you write and what you want from your writing is more important than ever for nurturing a creative life.
But when the idea for this book first entered my mind, I pushed it aside. I was a novelist and poet, loving the journey of discovery in writing fiction, the rhythm and soul in poetry. I love the challenge of showing a reader what I see and hear in a story so they feel and see it, too.
As life goes, 2015 was a watershed year for me. I started a blog in March after years of resistance. In early fall I decided to amp up my work as a coach for writers, and one October evening, the title for this book shot through me so strongly I wrote it in the top margin of the page: The Writer’s Block Myth - Break Loose, Get Writing. I sat with it, considered the title, how it reflects my core beliefs born from my own experience as an author and from my experience working with writers as an editor and coach. How our lives are inspiration for our writing, not resistance to it. I considered how we move forward quickly once perspectives or perceptions shift. That insights can come from inside us with the help of a guide. I knew this book had to be such a guide. That it had to include a chorus of other authors’ voices. Because although writing is a solitary endeavor, authors need and want to hear from others who understand their experiences as writers.
I have a favorite blog about writer’s block. It’s by author Neil Gaiman in response to a reader who writes he has amazing ideas, but finds it hard getting thoughts onto paper and bringing his ideas to fruition. Neil Gaiman replies with logic––the only way to do is to do it. Then says just kidding, there’s much easier ways. He goes on to narrate a convoluted, hilarious fairy tale about a magical tree on top of a distant mountain that produces five flowers one day a year, each blossom turning into a berry that ripens to a golden color, for which five white crows who have been waiting swoop down and pluck the berries. You must catch, with your bare hands, the smallest of the crows and wrangle the berry from it. He continues with the backstory about the crows and further instruction that for the next week you must speak to no one, nor sleep, but let the berry sit beneath your tongue. At midnight on the seventh day, you recite a tongue twister of a poem from the highest spot in your town, which is most likely a roof, while keeping the berry securely under your tongue. Then, and only then, you can swallow it and hurry home to fall into a deep sleep, and awake the next morning a writer. I imagine for some Neil Gaiman’s tale may indeed sound like the easier path to being a writer. That balance and time and freedom to focus on writing can feel like a distant dream. The effort worth the rewards, but the journey sometimes challenging.
What I know is how you live your life is how your writing goes. That you aren’t lazy when you’re stuck and it’s irrelevant there’s no plumber’s block or electrician’s block, as some say for argument. Inspirational memes and exhortations that your stuckness is where the real creative work occurs won’t help, at least not for long. Especially not when you’re really stuck. And having another exercise you may or may not succeed in could backfire, add to your feelings of inadequacy or loss, perpetuating the downward spiral you may feel with your writing. In addition, willpower or putting your butt in the chair every day won’t help when you feel pinched and caught between loved ones, your job, and obligations. There are writing bootcamps and National Novel Writing Month that will give you a kick to get going, but I don’t see duress equating to an experience of lasting creative freedom either. Plus, I know thousands of words written without a book or essay or some framework that feeds a dream or goal can leave one feeling empty.
Then there’s the question of your nature as a creative. How do you work best? What do you need to feel supported? What evidence gives you fresh perspectives? This is not to be confused with working only when inspired, but working in a way that considers who you are as a person so your strengths are empowered. The easiest example I have for this is the old adage, you can’t ask a fish to climb a tree. Climbing a tree’s not only outside a fish’s abilities, but not in its nature.
My belief, and what I’ve seen in coaching writers, is that the best way to get unstuck is a change in perspective, at the same time recognizing that being stuck is more multi-faceted than fear, or bad habits, or failure to practice a prescribed way of doing things. We writers need approaches that don’t shame, or leave us ungrounded, wondering how we nurture relationships and tend to our writing life. Different approaches to experiment with that include our everyday life in the process, not simply the page.
Writers want and need others to see them as writers. Need and want help dealing with the challenge of rejection that seeps inside, makes us shrink. Because, let’s admit it, when you’ve hit the wall, it doesn’t help just to know every other writer occasionally hits the wall, too. You want to know how you stay on your feet and get through that wall. You want a way to remember those things you know deep down, like comparison is deadly, so you can turn your head straight, pull yourself back up. You want help when you’re in the midst of the snarlies with your knees buckling under the layers of all the meaning you put on what you’re doing and not doing. Strategies for moving forward and seeing progress. And when you’re stumped, and you get up, fix yourself a cup of coffee or tea, throw another load of laundry in the machine, find yourself cleaning out the closet right afterward, you want to know in your heart you’re still a writer.
Author Seth Godin says the magic wand store
is closed. I agree. He suggests we ask the question, What do you care enough about that you’re prepared to expose yourself to fear, risk and hard work to get?
I think it’s a good question, and for writers I offer that shifting perspectives and creating a writing life may be hard, but it doesn’t have to feel hard. When you know what your writing means to you deep down in the center of our Being, it becomes a choice. And unless it’s a slam into your body or up along the side of your head, change occurs in steps. And change is only truly noticed after a series of shifts occurs inside you. Getting past stuck and experiencing lasting creative freedom included.
Author Kim Barnes says writing is her life; she can’t separate herself from it. She teaches at a university. Works with writers in workshops and at conferences. Always has a book or stories in the works. What I’ve heard from writers I interviewed is that many feel a split between their creative self and the one who takes care of the business of life and relationships with others. They struggle with balance. Even those who’ve made writing the center of their work in the world. Even Kim Barnes, who will go on retreat at times for space to write.
When I said Yes, I’ll write this book to the Universe, I knew I wasn’t alone in my moments of angst as a writer. But I wasn’t sure if this was something others wanted now.
I conducted interview-conversations with writers as research. My sample was diverse. It included best-selling authors, school teachers, ghost writers, college professors, authors who’ve never published a thing, solo-preneurs, and business professionals. Both full-time and part-time writers. Some were authors I knew. Many were referrals after a conversation. All said Yes because they believe writers want and need this sort of support navigating the snarlies of life. Writers crave and need a boost from a grounded, holistic way to stay on our feet to create at our best.
Each conversation began with a request they share their relationship to writing. Followed by their biggest dream around writing, their frustrations, what they’ve done to support their writing life and address their frustrations, and how they feel writing fits in their lives now.
The reasons why they write vary—self-expression, personal inquiry, love of story, something inside them they can’t ignore. Some feel writing saves them in the midst of hardships and difficulties, or offers a balance to their ‘real’ life by giving them a creative outlet and entry into another world. All felt writing was important and necessary to them, and all identified with being a writer. What I found interesting is those who started writing as an extension of their business and professional work are