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    Hooray for Grandparents: Ideas for Keeping Close, Building Traditions, and Creating Lasting Memories
    Hooray for Grandparents: Ideas for Keeping Close, Building Traditions, and Creating Lasting Memories
    Hooray for Grandparents: Ideas for Keeping Close, Building Traditions, and Creating Lasting Memories
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    Hooray for Grandparents: Ideas for Keeping Close, Building Traditions, and Creating Lasting Memories

    By Jay Payleitner

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    A celebration of the importance of grandparents. Packed with 50 ways to be a fun, meaningful, and beloved presence in grandchildren's lives.
     
    Hooray for Grandparents celebrates the special role grandparents play in children's lives and collects 50 ways to build a strong relationship between grandparent and grandchild. It's filled with fun activities to do together, ways to create your own special traditions, advice on how to support your grandchild in difficult times, and ideas for building a legacy that lives beyond your years. Packaged in a fun and engaging format, with simple, fun, and heartwarming ways to deepen connections across generations, this is full of useful and meaningful ways for grandparents to bond with grandchildren.
     
    BREEZY BOOK FOR GRANDPARENTS: This book captures the celebratory and grandchild-focused aspects of the special relationship in a format that works for grandparents who looking for something simple but meaningful.
     
    GREAT GIFT: There are countless gifting moments for grandparents throughout the year and this book is the perfect gift for all of them, whether it's for new grandparents-to-be or grandparents who have been enjoying their status for years. With plenty of ideas for enjoying a strong relationship for the long haul, it's a wonderful way to celebrate a special grandparent any time of year.
     
    Perfect for:
    • Grandparents; grandmothers; and grandfathers
    • Friends and family of grandparents and grandparents-to-be
    New parents looking to share the news or celebrate with grandparents-to-be
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherChronicle Books Digital
    Release dateSep 6, 2022
    ISBN9781797215402
    Hooray for Grandparents: Ideas for Keeping Close, Building Traditions, and Creating Lasting Memories
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    Jay Payleitner

    Jay Payleitner is one of the top freelance producers for Christian radio, producing Josh McDowell Radio, Today’s Father, Jesus Freaks Radio, and Project Angel Tree with Chuck Colson. As a nationally known speaker, Jay has led marriage conferences and men’s retreats, keynoted fundraising events, preached at weekend services, and spoken at Iron Sharpens Iron events in ten states. He is a longtime affiliate of the National Center for Fathering and served as Executive Director of the Illinois Fatherhood Initiative. Jay has sold more than half a million books, including the bestselling 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad and What If God Wrote Your Bucket List? He has been a guest multiple times on The Harvest Show, 100 Huntley Street, and Focus on the Family. Track him down at jaypayleitner.com.

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      Hooray for Grandparents - Jay Payleitner

      AS A COMMITTED PARENT, YOU RAISED A KID. Or two. Or ten. You’ve witnessed all kinds of things while making a life and watching your family grow. You're smart and experienced and you know how to roll with the punches and get things done. Not much surprises you anymore.

      But there’s nothing like being a grandparent.

      Just thinking about that next generation of your family, memories from the past and dreams for the future come into clear focus. You find yourself right in the middle of overflowing wonderment, chaos, and adventure.

      You realize that much of who you are and what you’ve accomplished has been preparing you for this grand feat. In many ways, being a grandparent is a culmination of your life story. This opportunity to leave a legacy becomes part of who you are. It changes you.

      Maybe you’ve never noticed, but a kind of rebirth happens when grandkids arrive on the scene. Hard-charging CEOs, gruff steelworkers, disciplined operating-room nurses, veteran educators, and gritty journalists all turn to mush when they hold their new grandson or walk down a garden path with their young granddaughter. Even a two-minute video chat with a kindergartner can leave a seasoned senior a little awestruck.

      Why is that? Why are your heart and mind suddenly overflowing with unprecedented emotions?

      Maybe because you see the big picture. You are aware of the joys, trials, laughter, and tears that lie ahead for those kids and their parents.

      Maybe because you have a stockpile of memories that were almost forgotten but have suddenly flooded back as you recall your own history of parenting flubs, frustrations, wonders, and discoveries.

      Maybe it’s pride in your own son or daughter, seeing the family they’re building, and delighting in the chance to cheer them on from a front-row seat.

      But the most likely reason is that you’re experiencing an entirely new kind of love for the first time.

      It’s spilling over in a totally unexpected way. You’re overwhelmed. Grandparental love—if that’s a word—is a mystical force that simply cannot be explained. You’ve been sacrificing, scheming, and striving on behalf of your family for decades, and you didn’t think you had any more to give. But you do! And your desire to give and give even more is unimaginable.

      By the way, if it hasn’t hit you yet, that’s okay. That overflow of love may not strike full force until some future milestone. Like the first time that baby runs to you or says your name. Or when they share a child-size secret with only you. Or when they come into a room and you encounter a flashback of your own son or daughter.

      This book is going to help you endure and embrace all those emotions, especially during those moments when being a grandparent has the potential to be the most challenging or the most rewarding.

      As you establish your legacy, never forget the love and nurturing you bestow on your grandchildren will have an impact on their lives and their world for generations to come.

      Enjoy it all. The gift you’ve been given. The season of life. The insights and emotions stirred up by this little book. And your well-deserved title: GRANDPARENT!

      As a grandparent, you may find yourself in a ringside seat watching as your own children—the parents of your grandkids—frantically, lovingly, and sometimes methodically devote themselves to surviving the here and now.

      Their single-minded focus is no surprise. Parenting—as you well know—can be a nonstop battle of just trying to get through today and then crashing into bed with just enough energy to ask yourself, What’s the schedule tomorrow?

      For young parents, that is where their focus should be. But that begs the question, What should you be focusing on?

      Certainly, you might prudently come alongside those new or struggling parents with encouragement, small gestures, well-timed visits, labors of love, gentle insights, and an occasional financial investment.

      But the primary answer to that question helps define what could possibly be your greatest role as a grandparent. While Mom and Dad think short-term, Grandma and Grandpa have the luxury of thinking long-term. That’s a key part of building your legacy.

      One of the most satisfying legacy-building techniques is remembering, keeping, and documenting family traditions. Perhaps more than anything else, your family traditions are what keep generations connected and lines of communication open. When a tradition comes up on the calendar, every member of the family knows to stop and take heed.

      Some traditions happen naturally. Many are rediscovered when a family welcomes a new baby. For example, a multigenerational baby shower. A decades-old baby blanket being passed down. A colorful mobile that hung over Dad’s crib now hangs from the ceiling in the baby’s room. A christening or baptism.

      If no traditions come to mind related to welcoming new babies into the family, then consider this an opportunity to lay some new groundwork in that area. Take a moment to brainstorm ideas and don’t forget to consider your cultural heritage. Many traditions revolve around food, artwork, jewelry, music, prayer, books, nature, crafting, and woodworking. It might be as simple as preparing a welcome-home meal of favorite comfort food for the new parents. Imagine creating and dedicating a quilt, woodcarving, original song, needlepoint, or some other gift for the new little one. That’s a tradition that could be repeated for each grandchild that comes along.

      WARM FUZZY TRADITIONS

      The very word tradition evokes images of ceremonial activities at annual events, especially around holidays. Go ahead and start there, but don’t end there. Consider establishing smaller family traditions that are much more frequent than just once a year. For example, at the end of every video chat, make the same loving gesture: a thumbs-up, an ear tug, or a blown kiss. At the end of every in-person visit, do a silly handshake or high five, give noogies or bear hugs, or give your grandchild a small collectible memento. At every shared meal, make a toast, ask a blessing, or initiate an engaging roundtable activity. Once a week, text a joke or word of encouragement to your entire family. These kinds of smaller traditions speak to the heart and leave family members looking forward to the next time you connect.

      As your grandkids grow, expect dozens of traditions to come to mind. You may not call them such, but that’s what they are, and those traditions become enormously important to kids. Examples include going to the same lake every summer. Family talent shows. Touch football on Thanksgiving. Taco Tuesdays. Pizza Fridays. A secret family handshake. Gifting silver dollars on special occasions. Stopping for ice cream during bike rides. Sitting in the same pew at church. Visiting the zoo every summer. Toasting with hot chocolate every New Year’s Eve. Stopping by Nana’s gravestone on her birthday. Making s’mores in the fireplace. Posing for photos on the first day of school.

      Traditions help make a family. And it makes sense for grandparents to crown themselves as Official Keepers of Traditions. If you accept that role, you’ll establish yourself as trustworthy and consistent. Your family will honor you and follow your instruction because they have come to rely on you day after day, year after year, generation after generation.

      Most of the time, when a grandparent revives an overlooked family custom or tradition, that idea is welcomed with unanimous approval. If not, you’ll know soon enough.

      Where might you do your best grandparenting? Have you identified a special place you can talk and dream with any or all of your grandchildren? Specifically, someplace in or around your home, like a workshop, garden, home office, porch swing, or kitchen sink.

      Your goal is to make the most of that precious time you have with those kids you love so much. One of the secrets to identifying your special place is to find a spot where you can engage literally on the same level. Eye to eye. Shoulder to shoulder. Heart to heart.

      When they’re newborns, that might be a rocking chair where you can snuggle them up in your arms, breathing in their scent and resting them on your chest. (That includes you, Grandpa!) Fresh out of the womb, babies focus best on images 8 to 15 inches (20 to 38 cm) away. That’s the distance to your face when you’re in proper snuggling position.

      When they’re toddlers, getting on the same level means lying on the carpet as they race Hot Wheels, connect Lego, animate stuffed animals, or scribble masterpieces. That’s part of entering their often magical world.

      When they turn three, you’ll want to invest in two different stools. One that sits them up at your kitchen table so they can join life with the rest of the family. That’s also the stool they may drag over to sit by you at your desk or sewing machine. The second stool is 10 inches (25

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