For Crying out Loud: The Benefit of Emotional Tears and the Movies That Bring Them On
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This guide helps you understand:
• why tears are necessary;
• why you need to allow your tears to flow; and
• the best way to release your tears through Creed’s own formula.
Creed provides a list of 150 movies that are categorized with short descriptions to help you choose the right one to release your tears. For Crying Out Loud shows you how to take off your emotional mask and become like a child again—fully aware of your feelings and emotions, and able to handle them with panache.
Sally Scott Creed LPC-S RPT-S
Sally Scott Creed is a native of Lafayette, Louisiana. She has been an LPC for thirty years and has a private practice in Lafayette. She had a private practice in the Houston area for sixteen years before moving back home to Lafayette. She maintains her Texas license and continues to see online clients who live in Texas. Though Sally has written articles for three years in a local magazine, this is her first published book. She has two grown children: Courtney, who lives in North Carolina, and Adam, who lives in Texas. Sally is married to Don, who has been her encouragement to finish this book, and they have two amazing dogs named Boomer and Cooper. When she’s not working, Sally enjoys gardening, reading and knitting. If you’d like to contact Sally, to add your cry movie to her list, or for comments or questions, send her an email at [email protected].
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For Crying out Loud - Sally Scott Creed LPC-S RPT-S
Copyright © 2022 Sally Scott Creed, LPC-S, RPT-S.
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Archway Publishing rev. date: 05/13/2022
Contents
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Chapter 1 Why is This Book Necessary?
Chapter 2 How to Use This Book
Chapter 3 This Thing Called Crying
Chapter 4 How Crying Helps Us
Chapter 5 What’s So Great about Tears?
Chapter 6 Why People Find It Difficult to Cry
Chapter 7 What the Bible Says about Tears
Chapter 8 What Children Teach Us about Crying
Chapter 9 How to Know If You Need to Cry
Chapter 10 How to Cry—My Tried-and-True Formula
Chapter 11 Movies
Chapter 12 Abandonment Movies
Chapter 13 Childhood/Family Issues Movies
Chapter 14 Feel Good Movies
Chapter 15 Grief and Loss Movies
Chapter 16 Injustice and Unfairness Movies
Chapter 17 Love of Animal Movies
Chapter 18 Power of Love Movies
Chapter 19 Sacrifice Movies
Chapter 20 Tragedy and Trauma Movies
Chapter 21 Triumph Movies
Index
Bibliography
About the Author
Dedication
This book is dedicated to all the clients and friends who have shared their stories with me and given me the names of the movies in this book. To those who read this, I sincerely hope it helps you find ways to let out your tears. Also, to my family who supports me in all things:
My husband, Don
My daughter, Courtney
My son, Adam
My mom, Mary K.
I love you all.
Acknowledgments
I would like to thank all my friends and colleagues over the years that heard my idea for this book and said they thought it was brilliant and couldn’t wait to buy it when it was published. So, I’m holding you all to it! There is sure to be a movie in here that touches your heart.
I would like to thank the Lord for putting this project on my heart back in 1998. I have picked this project up so many times since then; written a few pages, researched a few movies, gathered a few more cry movies from people, then put it back on the shelf. I’m happy that I picked it up for the last time and now it’s finally finished. I hope it is a book you can keep nearby for those times when you feel like you’d like to have a good cry and need a little help getting the tears to flow.
1
Why is This Book Necessary?
I have been in the counseling field for over thirty years. I work with all ages but specialize in working with young children. When I began working with children, it revolutionized the work I was doing with adults. Children are honest, especially about their emotions. There is no guessing what a child is feeling. All you need to do is look at their faces (and sometimes their actions). They wear their feelings well. And they wear their feelings proudly. If children are happy, you know it. They will have great big smiles, and most of them will jump up and down in excitement. If children have hurt feelings, they will look sad and usually let a tear or two drop down their face. And when children are angry, they will usually act this out in some way (temper tantrums, crying loudly, or throwing toys). But once they grow up, their exuberance dies, and they learn to hold every emotion inside. What happened?
As I’ve said many times, every one of us was once a child. But the sad truth is that once we become adults, we forget the lessons that children teach us or that we once knew. We stuff our feelings, put on our adult masks
and go out into the world. The saddest thing to me is that most adults have forgotten how to cry—or they do their best to suppress this, and the only emotion they will allow to surface is anger. Anger is not an emotion that helps us, but it’s what we allow to come out no matter what goes on in our day. I believe that expressing emotions through tears is a crucial part of our existence and helps us in not only emotional ways, but also physical ways as well.
Early on in my career, back in the early 1990s, I had an epiphany about the role of tears in our lives. I started doing research and talking with my clients and friends about this. I incorporated what I learned into some of my counseling sessions, and I asked practically every person I met to tell me what their cry movie was. I was the first guinea pig in this experiment. I chose three movies and followed my formula. As far as I can tell, it has worked very well in my life, no matter what tragedies I have gone through. And now I am passing this on to you.
This is not a book for you to sit and read through. It’s a resource book to help you learn to take off your emotional mask and become like a child again—fully aware of your feelings and emotions, and able to handle them with panache. So keep reading and find out why your tears are necessary for your health.
2
How to Use This Book
This book is not an educational book about tears and crying. Those books have been written before. Though I do give some information on tears and the benefits of crying, this book is mostly a teaching tool to help you understand:
1. Why tears are necessary
2. Why you need to allow your tears to flow
3. What’s the best way to release your tears (my formula)
4. A listing of movies (in categories with date of release, rating, and short description) to help bring on the tears
Once you determine that you do need to cry more regularly, I give you my formula for how to do just that. I use movies as the catalyst for tears. There are other mediums that work for some people (music, for one), but I have chosen movies because of their wide variety and subject matter.
This is also a resource book. If you want to use movies as your catalyst, then you can look in this book for movies that apply to whatever issue or problem you are facing or have faced in your past. Watching these movies should bring you to some emotional catharsis, especially if you follow my formula. While this is by no means an exhaustive list of all the