Alpha Attraction: 33 Rules

Alpha Attraction
33 Rules for Mastering

Your Success with Women
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Table of Contents
Disclaimer ................................................................. 4
Introduction .............................................................. 6
Rule #1- Be High Status.............................................. 8
Rule #2- Act Like a Man ............................................ 10
Rule #3- Have Confidence ......................................... 12
Rule #4- Challenge Women ....................................... 14
Rule #5- Never Be Average ....................................... 15
Rule #6- Have a Busy Life ......................................... 17
Rule #7- Be Proactive and Persistent........................... 19
Rule #8- Be a Fun Guy.............................................. 22
Rule #9- Have an 'I Don't Care' Attitude ...................... 24
Rule #10- YOU Are in Control..................................... 26
Rule #11- Fix What's Holding You Back ....................... 28
Rule #12- Eliminate Your 'Sticking Points' .................... 30
Rule #13- Embrace Failure ........................................ 32
Rule #14- Look the Part ............................................ 34
Rule #15- More on Hygiene ....................................... 36
Rule #16- Demonstrate Strong Body Language ............ 38
Rule #17- Show a Confident Smile.............................. 43
Rule #18- Have High-Status Speech ........................... 45
Rule #19 -Establish Strong Eye Contact....................... 50
Rule #20- Develop the "Rock Star" Attitude ................. 52
Rule #21- Life Weights.............................................. 55
Rule #22- Get More Cardiovascular Exercise ................ 57
Rule #23- Increase Your Social Circle .......................... 59
Rule #24- Know Where to Meet Women....................... 61
Rule #25- Find a Good Wing Man................................ 63
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Rule #26- Use Anchoring to Create Memories ............... 67

Rule #27- Always Tease ............................................ 69
Rule #28- Tell Great Stories....................................... 71
Rule #29- Assume Familiarity .................................... 73
Rule #30- Be Sexual................................................. 75
Rule #31- Create Great Sexual Chemistry.................... 77
Rule #32- Initiate Physical Contact ............................. 79
Rule #33- Build Rapport ............................................ 82
Conclusion............................................................... 84
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Introduction
I’ve been teaching dating tips to men for several years,
and to this day, it never ceases to amaze me how much
bad information is out there.
Be a gentleman. Wait two days before calling her. Never

challenge her viewpoints.
These are just some of the worthless advice being peddled

to guys everywhere. Each week, I get letters from men
wondering why they’re not having success, and the reason
is simple…
It did nothing for their personal development.
If you want to achieve maximum success with the opposite

sex, you need to drop the superficial nonsense and develop
your internal character. If this sounds difficult to do, that’s
because it is, but anything worth having isn’t easily
obtained. Fortunately for you, I’ve gone the extra mile by
relaying all of my secrets, which you’re currently holding in
your hands.
If you’ve read my first product, Flirt Mastery, then you

know how the correct usage of conversation can create a
powerful sexual attraction. In response to that product, I
received a TON of feedback from guys who’ve seen what
the right kind of dialogue with a woman can do, and are
eager to learn more.
They want to know it all, and it’s right here in this guide.
The following are 33 rules dedicated towards developing

the inner workings of your mind, improving your
conversation skills, and honing your overall success with
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women. Make a habit out of reading this material daily,

and you’ll become a master seducer in no time.
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Rule #1 – Be High Status

Being attractive to women is NOT about saying a few
lines and hoping for the best. Instead, it involves
demonstrating the core personality traits which attract all
women. One of the most important characteristics you
need to display is the principle of "higher status."
What this means is that whenever you're around a woman,

you must take specific actions that demonstrate your value
as a person. Since people (especially women) look to
others for social proof, you'll increase your chances of
success if she thinks you're a guy with high status.
So how do you establish higher status?
The truth is that higher status is a hard thing for many

guys to acquire. It's often a matter of being able to walk
into a room full of strangers and find a way to instantly
become "top dog.” To increase your chances of
demonstrating higher status, you need to incorporate a
variety of personality traits.
Here are some of the actions you can take to show

higher status:
λ Have a lot of friends (especially women) around you

who say complementary things about you.
λ Be the leader of your group.
λ Use teasing, flirting, and funny stories to create an

interesting personality.
λ Show alpha-male traits like confidence, integrity,

strength-of-character, and respect.
λ Demonstrate confident body language.
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By demonstrating higher status around women, you'll

instantly become more attractive. In fact, if you learn to
cultivate this attitude everywhere you go, girls will be
naturally drawn to your presence. Like the old adage says:
“I think, therefore I am.”
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Rule #2 – Act like a Man

It’s no secret that the best way to make a lasting change
on your success is to change yourself from the inside out.
In other words, if you want to attract and date more
women, the best way to do so is to work YOURSELF first.
In other words, you have to learn how to become a MAN!
It takes more than a chest full of hair to qualify as a grown

up, and unfortunately, most guys learn this the hard way.
The truth is that A LOT of women are fed up with dating
guys who act like little boys. If you can learn what is
attractive to women, then you’ll stand out from these low-
status men.
So why is it important to become a man?
It's simple. By being a real man, you'll exude a variety of

positive characteristics. These core traits can help you
become more naturally attractive to women. Now only one
question remains…
What traits should you develop?
In my opinion, there are a number of strong characteristics

which display manliness. Here are just a few of them:
λ Honor
λ Integrity
λ Passion for life
λ Goal orientation
λ Confidence
λ Humility
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λ Calmness under pressure
λ Generosity to friends, family, and even strangers
λ Leadership
λ Courage and conviction
λ Decisiveness
λ Humor
You might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve

described, as it definitely sounds like a lot to work on.
However, if you want to become more attractive to women,
then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of
your life. (And in my Flirt Mastery course, I give 24
specific traits that women want from a man and how to
develop them)
Share this list with a trusted friend or family member, and

ask them to be honest with you in regards to how you
stack up. In fact, I challenge you to take each trait and
rate yourself on how well you fit each description. Be
honest, and make a conscious effort to improve upon
whatever qualities you feel you’re lacking.
I guarantee the more you work on yourself, the more you’ll

naturally attract women.
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Rule #3 – Have Confidence

When it comes to dating and attracting women, much of
your success depends on your self confidence. The more
confidence you have, the better off you'll be!
So what should you do if you lack self-confidence around

women? The good news is that a confident front can be
faked in the short term, and honed for long-term success.
Here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem:
λ Learn to relax.
Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state

by paying attention to your posture and body, and
concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation
you're about to have. If you can remove all expectations,
you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind
yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life.
λ Try meditation and exercising.
There are certain activities (i.e. meditation, yoga, and tai-

chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these
exercises, you'll be able to put yourself in a positive state-
of-mind whenever you choose, including the times when
you're trying to pick up women. So if you're serious about
building self confidence, try one of these activities.
λ Use your strengths.
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all

of the qualities that make you a great person. Then,
whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not
feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your
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personal strengths. By mentally reviewing your assets,

you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.
λ Be positive at all times.
It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive
outlook tend to attract more women. So no matter what
you're feeling inside, ALWAYS have an upbeat attitude, and
do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around.
Emotions are contagious, so even when you “fake”
confidence, you'll eventually begin to feel as though you’re
on top of the world!
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Rule #4 – Challenge Women

Let’s talk about the “nice guy.” He is the man who tries too
hard with women. He’s always ready to buy gifts and do
favors for girls he likes, but because of this supplicating
behavior, he ends up repelling instead of attracting them.
Without going into too much female psychology, the nice

guy presents no challenge to women. A big secret
about women is that they want a man who makes them
work for his attention. Nice guys are too readily available.
You HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any

woman you're trying to attract. This means you should
create a strict set of standards, and ONLY do things if they
comply with your personal code. Furthermore, you should
challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not
matching up to your expectations.
While you might feel weird or think you're being rude by

treating women this way, these are strict rules for
attracting them. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing
everything she asks, you're getting rid of the “nice guy”
persona. This will help you transform yourself into the kind
of man who all women desire.
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Rule #5 – Never Be Average

When it comes to dating women, you'll face a lot of
obstacles and problems, but one of these should never be
your personality.
Persona is something which can make or break your ability

to attract women. For instance, if you're too nice, then
women will walk all over you. On the other hand, if you act
too much like a jerk, then women will be turned off by your
arrogant behavior.
There are a lot of personality traits which can hurt your

overall success with women. Perhaps the biggest mistake
you could make is…
Being AVERAGE!
A lot of guys tend to treat women with gentle care.

They're polite, agree with everything they say, and make
sure to ONLY talk about safe topics. If this sounds like you,
then allow me to say one thing…
If you act like an average guy, you're going to get

average results!
On the other hand, if you want to attract a woman, you

have to find a way to stand out from the crowd. This
means becoming someone who is exciting and interesting.
When you talk to a woman, don't be afraid to take some
risks. Ask interesting questions, make sexual innuendos, or
playfully tease her.
Simply put: do stuff that will make you stand out in her
mind in a positive way.
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Let's be honest: Good-looking women are ALWAYS getting

hit on by other guys, so in order to stand out from the
crowd, you have to go beyond the norm and become
somebody who is unique.
Finally, you might be afraid that some women will be

offended by your behavior. Personally, I think it's a good
idea to run the risk of offending people, and here's why…
If you're with a woman who has NO sense of humor, then

your behavior was able to quickly eliminate her as a
prospect. Ultimately, you have saved yourself a lot of time
and effort.
EXTRAORDINARY results with women means you have to

rise above the average men of the world!
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Rule #6 – Have a Busy Life

There are many characteristics that women find attractive
in a man. As we’ve discussed, "alpha-male traits” show
women that you're a high-status guy who is worth
knowing. This makes you seem fun and interesting, so it's
important to demonstrate specific qualities which women
want from men.
For instance, I was recently rereading one of my favorite

books where the author discussed how being a "busy guy"
can help you build attraction with women you know. In a
nutshell, he said girls are naturally attracted to men who
have interesting things going on.
Now the truth is that MANY guys are terrible at following

up with women after getting a phone number or email
address. Generally what happens is the attraction they
built during the initial meeting falls flat, and they can't set
up a date.
Between meeting a woman and contacting her, a lot of

things can draw her attention away from you, so it's
important to reestablish that connection and make her
interested in you. Since she probably has a lot of things
happening in her life, you have to find a way to stand out
in her mind.
The best way to do this is to act like a busy guy.
As I mentioned before, women are extremely attracted to

men who have exciting and interesting lives, so she'll be
more attracted to you if she thinks you have a lot going on
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in your life. In a way, you're displaying higher value by

letting her know that you're not a guy who sits around the
house nervously waiting for her call.
Also, by acting like a busy guy, she'll subconsciously think

you might be dating other women. If this woman thinks
she has a bit of competition, she'll work hard to make an
impression the next time you meet.
To act like a busy guy, you need to do the following…
When you initially call her, let her know that you have a lot
happening during the week. Then you tell her that you
want to make definite plans on a specific day. Emphasize
that you want to see her again, but "things have been
crazy" in your life.
After you make plans (i.e. set up a date), cut the

conversation short, and tell her you have a lot of things to
get done. Be vague about what you're doing, but make it
sound interesting.
Finally, once you go on the date, mention all the activities

that you do. In other words, let her know that you have a
busy life, but you're willing to let her be part of it.
If you can demonstrate that you have an active life, you'll

discover that women will find you more attractive.
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Rule #7 – Be Proactive AND Persistent

Here's a rule that I'm a little hesitant to discuss, so I urge
you to read and understand it FULLY before you follow my
advice. Anyway, the tip is simple: When meeting (and
dating) women, you have to be PERSISTANT.
Now before you go out and start stalking every woman you
meet, let me explain what I mean about persistence. In a
nutshell, being persistent means that you shouldn't be
afraid to follow up with a woman whom you have
chemistry with. I DON'T mean you should stalk every girl
you "really like.”
So when I tell you to be persistent, I mean you should

make an effort when it comes to pursuing women. In other
words, don't listen to your buddies and wait seven days to
call her, and don’t blow her off every time she wants to
hang out because you want to "seem cool.”
Instead, actively call her and set up dates. Remember that

most women let guys make the first move. If you're
waiting around for her to call, then you might miss out on
an opportunity with a great girl.
Also, it's important to remember that women have busy

lives just like you, so while she might be interested in you,
there could be outside factors which require her attention.
A woman might still have interest even if she's not making
the first move. What this means is it's up to YOU to follow
up and set up a date.
Now there's the reverse side to being persistent…
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Eventually, you'll encounter a girl who won't return your

calls. This is the point where your persistence must STOP.
If she doesn't return a number of your calls, then she
doesn't want to talk to you.
I know this sounds harsh, but you should NEVER stalk a

woman who has no interest in you. So remember that
persistence is a great attitude. Don't be afraid to follow up
with women and set up dates, but always remember that
there are certain times when it's important to stop
pursuing a woman and move on!
In addition to persistence, it’s equally important that

you be PROACTIVE when pursuing the opposite sex.
Like persistence, being proactive will increase your success

with women. The funny thing is that many guys think
playing games is the best way to increase attraction. In
other words, they follow the advice of waiting two or three
days before calling a girl. The logic is that women will be
attracted because they're forced to do the pursuing.
Believe it or not, this technique RARELY works!
Think of it this way: Women (like men) get busy with

their lives. After grabbing a woman’s number, you’re in
direct competition for her time against her job, family, and
other guys. When she gets busy, she’ll probably have to
ditch something in her life, and since you've just met her,
it’ll probably be YOU.
Now once she decides that you’re expendable, all of your

efforts will have been wasted. When this happens, you only
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have yourself to blame. By not calling her, you've killed

your chances of making a connection to that girl.
As you can see, being proactive is an incredibly important

trait to develop. When you pursue women and immediately
make the first call (within two days), you stand out in her
mind. As a result, your chances of success will dramatically
increase.
When you develop a proactive personality, you'll become

the guy who has more women in his life. You’ll date more
and will have more opportunities for finding someone
special.
So ask yourself which guy gets laid more:
The guy who waits for women to call first?
OR
The guy who is proactive and quickly follows up with

women?
Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST

step in the dating process. If you become a proactive guy,
you’ll have the skills for turning those digits into dates and
fun times!
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Rule #8 – Be a Fun Guy

It’s happened to ALL of us…There are times when the
process of meeting women can become tedious. Since the
art of attracting women requires a TON of effort, it can be
both stressful and tiresome. Sometimes, it just doesn’t
seem worth your time.
Often a night out can include:
λ Spending money
λ Having to project a confident and energetic persona at

ALL times
λ Approaching dozens of “sets” or groups of women
λ Going out night after night

λ Being rejected by women when you’re approach
techniques aren’t working
As you can see, there is A LOT involved with trying to learn

the subtle art of the pick-up artist, so it’s only human if
you sometimes forget the MAIN reason that you’re on this
path. Whatever the case, there is something you must
always keep in mind…
If you’re not having FUN during this whole process, then

you’ll have little chance of success.
The truth is that how we feel inside is always shown on the

outside. If you're not having fun when meeting women,
then you'll project a bored-looking demeanor. When this
happens, you’ll kill your chances of success.
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What’s the answer? Well it’s simple: You must learn to

enjoy the whole experience of meeting and attracting
women. Have fun out there, even if you fail.
Also, when you go out, it helps if you’re enjoying other

things BESIDES trying to meet women. For instance, you
can check out a new band, have fun with your buddies, or
simply talk to women because you want to meet a new
person.
The more you enjoy yourself, the more you'll project an

aura of positive energy and confidence. When this
happens, trying to meet women won’t seem so tedious. In
fact, you can expect your success to skyrocket!
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Rule #9 – Have an “I Don’t Care” Attitude

Your attitude has a direct affect on your success with
women. The difference between going home alone or with
a beautiful woman depends on how you present yourself.
The problem is that many guys have major problems with

women because they're projecting the wrong kind of
attitude. In essence, they're allowing their neediness to be
obvious.
If you know anything about the laws of attraction, then

you understand what women REALLY want from men. The
majority of them are interested in guys who can establish a
high level of status and act in a confident manner. When
you act in a needy manner, you're basically giving off a
desperate appearance, which leads up to the point of this
tip…
In order to attract women, you have to learn how to

project an "I don't care" personality.
Although this seems to go against common sense, women

are wildly attracted to guys who don't seem to care about
“scoring” or succeeding with them. If you can project an
aloof attitude around women, you'll stand out from other
guys for one simple reason…
You’re not hitting on them.
This law of attraction can easily be explained by basic

economics, especially when it comes to “supply and
demand.” In a nutshell, the less available a good’s supply
is, the greater it’s demanded. If you apply this logic to
your seduction techniques, you’ll see how flawlessly it
works.
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It’s just human nature to want what one can’t have, and
this is certainly true when it comes to dating and
relationships. With that being said, if a woman sees that
you’re not wrapped around her finger, she’s going to want
you all the more. By carrying yourself with an "I don't care
what happens" attitude, you'll seem like a man who isn't
concerned about the outcomes of interacting with women…
And you’ll reap all the benefits of doing so.
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Rule #10 – YOU are in Control

In addition to being confident and unconcerned with
outcomes, it’s also important that you maintain control of
every situation you encounter.
The attitude you display around women is one of the most

important ways to determine your overall success. When
you show women the proper kind of attitude, you'll
discover that it's quite easy to attract them. So the more
dominant and in control you act, the more you'll find that
women will comply with your requests.
Here's what I mean…
In the dating scene, women always encounter weak

guys who act needy and are constantly looking to them for
approval. By acting in a position of dominance and
competence, you're demonstrating that you have
confidence in yourself, and you're not afraid to show it.
You can display this personality trait by paying attention to

a woman's body language during your interaction. Then
use this information to establish control of the situation.
What I mean is that there will be several occasions when a

woman will tell you one thing verbally, but her body
language says something completely different. So when
you're talking to a woman, use what she's saying with her
BODY LANGUAGE to control her.
Here are several examples of how to be in control:
λ Disagree with her viewpoints, and alter her opinions to

match yours.
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λ Do nice things for a woman because YOU want to, not

because she asks you to.
λ If she's laughing during your conversation and saying

"Stop that," you know she's enjoying your interaction.
Having a dominant personality is a great way to convey to

women that you're not able to be controlled. When you
show this personality trait, a woman knows you're coming
from a place of higher status, and she has to step up her
game in order to impress YOU.
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Rule #11 – Fix What’s Holding You Back

A lot of the people that come to my Flirt Mastery site
send me emails which talk about their physical defects,
and how they're preventing them from meeting and
attracting women.
For instance, many guys feel they're too bald or

overweight to attract a woman. In fact, these men OBSESS
over these “flaws” so much that they become paralyzed
with fear when talking to a woman. So let me set the
record straight on this...
You CAN attract women no matter what you look like.
I've seen some of the UGLIEST and FATTEST guys attract

women just by having an interesting personality.
And you can do the same!
BUT...
There are times when you feel like a physical characteristic

is holding you back. My advice is to fix what you can, and
ACCEPT the things you can't control.
For instance, let’s say you're a short person. Because your

height is something you can’t fix, you know there is
nothing you can do to become taller. So instead of
worrying about being short, learn to develop your flirting
skills to the point where your height won’t matter.
On the other hand, if you have a physical defect which you

can control, make every attempt to change it. For instance,
if you're overweight, try losing a few pounds. If you're
going bald, try to shave your head and cultivate a unique
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look. Ask some trusted girl friends what they think would
work best for you, and branch out with a new look.
Just remember that no matter how you appear physically,

your success with women is not dictated by your looks or
defects. If you can learn to attract women through your
personality, then you'll get past the physical flaws that you
think are holding you back.
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Rule #12 – Eliminate Your “Sticking

Points”
All guys have strengths and weaknesses when it comes to
dating women. While you might be really at good at one
thing, you're probably being held back by one of your
weaknesses.
For instance, you could be great at approaching a woman,

but have trouble with "closing the deal" and grabbing her
number. So no matter what you're good at, there are
specific problem areas which have a negative impact on
your life.
Bottom line…
Your weaknesses are the sticking points which keep you

from becoming from mastering your success with women.
In order to improve, you must identify the sticking points
which hold you back. As soon as you do, work hard at
improving them.
Break down your dating life into individual steps, then

figure which ones are holding back your success. This can
include the following:
λ Making eye contact
λ The approach
λ Initiating conversation and openers
λ Projecting positive body language and picking up on her

subtle cues
λ Being confident and giving off a positive aura
λ Knowing how to tease and flirt
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λ Creating great conversations and having stuff to say
λ Getting her number and setting up a date
λ Progressing from the date to the bedroom
As you can see, there are a lot of potential sticking points

which could be holding you back. When you're trying to
attract women, it's important to self analyze and figure out
which parts of your game are holding you back. Then work
on them until they are no more.
Sticking points are part of every guy's game. If you know

how to handle them, you'll dramatically increase your
success with women.
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Rule #13 – Embrace Failure

The way you view an event determines how much you can
learn from each experience!
What do I mean? It’s simple: How you view the world has
a direct impact on your success with women. If you beat
yourself up every time a woman rejects you, then you
won’t make any progress with your dating life.
On the other hand, if you develop a positive attitude about

life, you’ll discover how to learn from each experience and
grow as a man!
A while back, I discovered an interesting thing about men

and how they view rejection. Whenever a guy is turned
down by a woman, he uses “self-talk” to beat himself up. If
a guy is rejected by a girl, he thinks there must be
something wrong with him!
In order to experience DRAMATIC growth in your dating

life, you must learn to develop a positive outlook on EACH
interaction with a woman regardless of the outcome! To do
this, you can try a simple, cognitive-psychology technique
called “Reframing.”
The Reframing Technique is easy to learn, and it follows

a simple pattern: Whenever you’re faced with a
potentially-negative outcome, learn to discover the
positive results from the situation. This means asking
yourself what benefit you just received from the negative
situation.
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While you may think it sounds like a lot of “psycho-

babble,” I’ve discovered that reframing is an excellent way
to learn from each experience. And by doing this regularly,
you’ll experience dramatic success with women.
Here’s an example of how reframing would work:
Let’s say you learned a brand new conversation starter

that you want to test out. You head over to your local bar
and approach ten groups of women. The problem is that all
ten groups reject you!
Most guys would view this as a negative experience and

feel that they’re not “good-looking enough” to attract a
woman. However, YOU understand the importance of
reframing. You look at this situation and examine what
benefit you’ve just received. By being rejected by ten
women, you have concrete proof that the opener does NOT
work for you. This means that you have to go back and
find a new way to approach women.
Plus, by approaching ten groups of women, you’ve just

acquired ten new experiences you can use to overcome
your approach anxiety. Simply by initiating conversations
with this many groups, you’ve learned that approaching
isn’t as hard as you once thought.
In order to master your success with women, you should

adopt a positive outlook at everything you experience. By
implementing the Reframing Technique, you’ll discover
that every negative outcome will help you grow as a
person!
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Rule #14 – Look the Part

Perhaps the question I get asked the most is if a guy needs
looks or money to attract women. My response to this
question is always a resounding NO! But there is one
MAJOR catch to this statement: While I think you have the
ability to attract women, you still need to have a top-notch
personal appearance.
Confused by this statement? If so, let me explain…
While you don't have to be good looking to be desired by

women, you still need to present an appearance which is
attractive. When I talk about appearance, I mean you
should do everything to look your BEST. In other words,
the clothes you wear and how you display your body
language will have a direct impact on your success rate.
Here are a few ways to dramatically improve your personal

appearance:
λ Smile every time you meet a woman.
If done properly, your smile can be your “secret weapon”

for attracting women. The trick is to learn how to smile as
a reflex every time you approach a woman. If you don't
have a natural smile, take the time to practice it.
In addition to smiling, it's equally important to display a

mouth which is free from stains or bad breath. So
remember to brush and floss twice a day. Furthermore
liberally use breath mints and gum.
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λ Wear fashionable clothes.
If you want to meet attractive women, you have to be

willing to wear fashionable clothes. With that being said,
you might have to make a few financial sacrifices if you
want a wardrobe that will impress girls.
The key to improving your attire is to purchase some

clothes which match today's latest fashions. While you
don't have to go out and buy a whole new closet, you
should spend a little extra money on a few items which
look REALLY good on you. Simply take the time to find
which items flatter YOU, and you'll make a dramatic
improvement.
λ Have great hygiene
Like your smile, it's extremely critical to have proper

hygiene. This means shaving, putting on deodorant,
getting a haircut, and showering regularly. If you look like
a slob, you'll end up attracting slob-like women.
The guys who are really successful know that attractive

women go for confident and sharp-looking men. In order to
be like them, you must look your best. Just remember that
your personal appearance is the first thing a woman will
see, so make sure you present yourself in the best possible
light.
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Rule #15 – More on Hygiene

Do you like when women scream and run away from you?
I didn’t think so. Hygiene is so important, that I’ve

dedicated an entire tip solely to the subject. If you’re
having difficulty sealing the deal when it comes to women,
there a real possibility that you're not taking care of your
grooming habits.
Here's what I mean…
In almost every social situation, I've noticed there is that

ONE guy who tries hard to attract women, but doesn't take
the time to work on his appearance. What he doesn't
realize is that poor hygiene turns off women instead of
attracting them. By NOT taking a half hour each day for
cleaning up, he's eliminating (not minimizing) his chances
for success.
In the Flirt Mastery course, there is great information for

being attractive to women. It's my hope that I supply
enough free information to help you overcome bad looks,
social awkwardness, or a lack of confidence. However there
is NOTHING I can do to help you if you don't take the time
to work on your hygiene.
What's frustrating is that having good personal hygiene is

the one area in which you have COMPLETE control, yet I
see a number of guys who don't make an effort in this area
of their lives. If you want to ensure a top-notch
appearance, you should do the following EACH time before
you go out to meet women:
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λ Shower (using an ample amount of soap, shampoo, and

conditioner).
λ Clean your ears out with Q-Tips.
λ Shave or trim your facial hair.
λ Apply deodorant.
λ Brush your teeth, and use dental floss.
λ Apply cologne.
λ Trim any nose, eyebrow, or ear hair you have.
λ Dress in a neat manner.
While these grooming tips may seem like common sense, a

lot of guys seem to forget the importance of taking care of
their appearance. Just remember that NO tip or technique
will work if you have a lousy appearance or poor hygiene.
Ultimately, if you want to maximize your ability to attract
women, simply spend a little time each day grooming
yourself.
As I always say: "If you look like a slob, you'll attract slob-
like women!"
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Rule #16 – Demonstrate Strong Body

Language
Being attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend upon
your words. Instead, it can depend on the tone of your
body language.
It’s been said that almost 90 percent of your

communication is done through non-verbal cues. If you’re
not displaying the right kind of body language, then the
best openers and routines won’t be able to help you!
The solution to this is simple: If you want to demonstrate

high status, then you must know the secrets of giving off
positive body language. When you do this, you’ll be
perceived as a confident and dominant guy!
Here are six ways you can show incredible body language
around women…
λ Eradicate weak body language.
The first step to fixing your body language is to eliminate

all body-language traits that are considered weak. Women
can instantly detect a man who isn’t confident, so in order
to make INSTANT improvement, you MUST become
sensitive to the body-language traits you’re displaying.
For instance, some weak traits can include:
● Having your hands in your pockets
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● Fidgeting or showing nervous energy
● Talking to people with your arms folded
● Slumping your head or shoulder down
● Looking uncomfortable in social situations
● Not taking up space
● Walking fast everywhere you go
● Leaning towards women during an initial conversation
What’s interesting is that you can make dramatic changes

to your body language simply by eliminating these
behaviors.
λ Work on your stance.
The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people
will think of you. Here are a few rules for how you should
stand:
● Keep your chin and head up.
● Position your feet and legs at shoulder-length apart.
● Have your hands at your sides, or have only ONE hand

holding a drink in front of you (i.e. in bar environments).
● Keep your back straight.
λ Take up space.
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The confident guys of the world are NOT afraid of others.

This is especially true in social situations.
An easy way to eliminate your fear is to subtly show your

dominance and leadership by taking up space wherever
your go. The good news is that this can be easily done.
Whenever you’re in a public environment, try to spread out

a little. Instead of folding inwards when you’re surrounded
by other people, position your body so you’re taking up the
most amount of space.
λ Be relaxed.
A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a

relaxed pose in any situation, so if you want to
demonstrate high status, you must display a casual aura
around women.
By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude, you’re

demonstrating that the little things in life don’t faze you.
Here are a few ways to do this:
● Concentrate your eyes on the person in the conversation.
● When talking to women at a bar, lean back and show

that you’re comfortable.
● Never let your eyes dart around a room.
● Spread out and look comfortable when sitting down.
● Breathe through your stomach instead of your chest.
By showing a relaxed pose, you demonstrate a LACK of

nervous and inferior body-language traits
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λ Move deliberately.
Low-status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. As

a result, they end up displaying “needy” body language.
Instead of showing that you’re “ready to please,” you want
to demonstrate that you move on YOUR terms.
One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is

ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. If somebody needs
help, the beta male will instantly come running.
Instead of showing this inferior personality trait, you

should move slowly and with a measured attitude. By
taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force
people to pay attention to your schedule, not theirs.
λ Face away.
You can say a LOT to women without even opening your

mouth. If you’re like most guys, you walk up to a woman,
invade her personal space, and make your intentions
obvious. In short, you’re demonstrating the fact that
you’re trying to “pick her up.”
When you’re first talking to women, you DON’T want to

make your intentions obvious. Instead of invading her
space on the initial approach, you want to put her at ease.
The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we tend to be

uncomfortable by people who face us directly. So instead
of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a group),
you should approach her to the side. If you can end up
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side-by-side or at an angle, you'll reduce her nervousness

and tension. This will help show that you’re not investing
too much emotionally in the outcome of the conversation.
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Rule #17 – Show a Confident Smile
As I already emphasized in this report, your personal

appearance is a MAJOR factor in attracting women. While
good looks aren’t mandatory, you must ensure that you’re
doing your best to display an interesting AND unique look.
And a huge part of your appearance is displaying a
confident smile when you’re talking to a woman.
The truth is that the first thing a woman will notice about
you is your smile. If you smile (and have a positive
demeanor) around a woman, you’ll increase your chances
of attracting her. So from the FIRST moment you make
eye contact with a female, you MUST give your best
possible smile.
The only question is…why is smiling so effective?
Well smiling is effective for many reasons. When you’re

smiling, you're telling a woman these things:
λ You enjoy her company.
λ You like what she is saying to you.
λ You are an upbeat person with a positive outlook on life.

λ You’re a fun guy.
As you can see, smiling is the cornerstone of a great first

impression. In fact, I think it’s one of the key steps
towards attracting a woman. By smiling at a woman, you’ll
get her to like you. Here’s why…
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If you’ve studied human nature, then you know that when

people smile at us, we usually return the gesture. So when
you smile at a woman, she’ll probably give you one back.
In a way, you've given her a subconscious reason to
immediately like you.
So if you want to increase your success with women, make

sure you’re smiling when talking to them!
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Rule #18 – Have High-Status Speech

A lot times, it’s not the words you say that’s attractive to
women…it’s how you say them.
A man with a confident and powerful voice can be very

seductive to a woman. Someone like this doesn’t even
really need to say that much. With just that sound of his
voice, he can easily attract women.
The way you speak to a woman can often determine

your success. Developing a powerful voice can be an
incredible way to demonstrate a naturally-attractive vibe.
When a woman is turned on by how you speak, you won’t
have to work as hard at thinking of stuff to talk about.
That’s why it’s important to work on your speech and
develop what I like to call “high-status speech.”
In order to develop this behavior, there are four areas that

you need to concentrate on:
λ Your Speed
Guys often show their anxiety and nervousness by talking

too fast during a conversation. The low-status males have
a tendency to talk to women in a rapid-fire manner. This is
usually the result of a feeling that they have a limited
amount of time to impress a woman, so they feel the need
to talk as fast as possible to cover the “important” things.
Unfortunately, rapid speech doesn’t help demonstrate a

confident personality. It usually comes out as a garbled
mess that women find hard to follow. When talking to a
guy like this, a woman is often left with her head spinning.
A confident speech pattern is slow and clear. A guy

who talks this way doesn’t fly through his conversation.
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Instead, he knows the things he says are interesting, so he

isn’t too concerned with taking his time.
One of the best ways to develop this type of speech is to

monitor your speed. You’ll find that many times you talk
too fast, especially in an uncomfortable social environment.
When this happens, make it a point to cut your speed
down to about half of what it normally would be.
Another great technique to try is the deliberate pause.

This is a conversation tactic where you purposefully stop
the conversation right before you say something
interesting. It’s a powerful way to get a person to hang on
to your every word. Plus, a little suspense goes a long way.
You want a woman to wonder what you’re going to say
next!
λ Your Volume
The volume of your speech is another way to demonstrate

your level of confidence. A superior alpha male speaks
loudly because he knows people want to hear what he has
to say. Conversely, a weak guy tends to have a soft, low
voice.
In order for you to build attraction through your

conversation, you have to be heard. If your voice isn’t
loud enough, then you’ll quickly lose interest from women.
This is especially true when it comes to noisy venues like
bars or clubs.
Since you generally have to talk over ambient and

competing noise, it’s important to become comfortable
with speaking in a clear, commanding voice. You may feel
uncomfortable speaking this way, but trust me…you will be
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quickly ignored if you try to engage a woman with a soft,

meek voice.
Try practicing at home by reading from a book. Carefully

read the words, and speak in loud voice in a natural
manner without shouting. A quick tip is to pull the air from
your diaphragm, not your chest.
λ Your Modulation
A monotone voice can quickly put a person to sleep. A

great example of this can be seen in the movie Ferris
Bueller’s Day Off. In one funny scene, the teacher (Ben
Stein’s character) puts his entire class to sleep with his
monotone, boring voice. I mention this scene to relay one
very important point…
Don’t talk to people like a robot!
Nobody wants to listen to a voice with no emotion or

passion. An expressionless voice does little to attract
attention. It’s actually one of the quickest ways to
demonstrate that you probably live a boring existence.
To develop a more interesting speech pattern, you have to

learn how to modulate your voice. To do this, practice
using your voice to express different emotions. This can
include humor, anger, sadness, and happiness.
Furthermore, try fluctuating the volume and speech
patterns whenever telling a story.
A great way to learn how to modulate is to listen to a

famous comedian or radio personality. You’ll hear how they
can express a wide range of emotions through the power
of their voice. Record some of these guys, and practice
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talking like them. After awhile, you’ll learn how to develop

a rich voice that’s full of interesting nuances.
λ Your Pitch
Women go crazy over a deep voice. Now, most of us aren’t

blessed with a powerful voice, but it is something you can
develop. Through a bit of practice, you can learn how to
lower the pitch of your voice whenever you’re in a social
interaction.
The trick to deepening your voice is to speak directly from

your diaphragm, not your throat. You should pull all of
your sound from your core. Take deep breaths, and
imagine the air being pushed out from your lower stomach.
This is similar to the training done in the military. You’re
simply developing a commanding voice without taking any
sound from your throat.
To practice this technique, place the palm of your hand on

your diaphragm and speak. If you feel that the sound is
coming from your throat, then you’re doing it wrong. You
want to feel a vibration emanate from your chest. Keep
practicing until you can consistently pull sound from your
diaphragm.
Some examples of men who are widely regarded as having

attractive voices include:
¾ Winston Churchill
¾ Barry White
¾ Barack Obama
¾ James Earl Jones
¾ Sean Connery
¾ Howard Stern (and many other radio personalities)
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Each of these men has trained their voice to provide a

soothing sound to the listener. I recommend you listen to
audio recordings of these guys and see how they use all
four elements that I discussed in this section. You’ll find
each one of them talks in a slow, deep manner that uses a
wide range of emotion.
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Rule #19 – Establish Strong Eye Contact

As I’ve said repeatedly, confidence is the key ingredient to
demonstrating a high-status personality. When you
approach with confidence, you dramatically increase your
success with women.
You’ve already learned various means of displaying a

confident aura, and you know that 90 percent of
communication is portrayed via body language. However, if
you only do one thing to display confidence, you must
work on developing strong eye contact.
Strong eye contact means a lot of things to women:
λ It shows that you’re used to being in control.
λ It demonstrates that you’re not afraid of women.
λ It provides the first example of high-status body

language.
What I recommend is simple: Whenever you’re out

meeting women, allow your eye contact to hold SLIGHTLY
longer then what’s considered socially acceptable. In a way,
you’re acting like you’re trying to figure out if you’re
looking at something you like.
What's interesting about this form of communication is that

it sends a different message to people, based on their
gender. Men will find lengthy eye contact to be a challenge
or an aggressive action. On the other hand, women find
these guys to be confident and sexual.
You can also use eye contact to approach women.

Whenever you lock eyes with a woman, you can give her a
simple smile. If she smiles back, you know she’s probably
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willing to be approached. Contrary to using openers, this is

a more natural way to start talking to women.
Strong eye contact is a necessary ingredient to creating

attraction. If you feel like you lack this characteristic when
talking to women, then I recommend you practice. Simply
follow the advice I gave, and you’ll find that it’s easier to
display a more self-assured presence around women.
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Rule #20 – Develop the “Rock Star”

Attitude
One thing I find interesting is how rock stars can easily
score with women. From what I’ve seen, all a guy needs is
a guitar or microphone, and he’ll have the pick of ANY
woman around him. In fact, some rock guys literally have
women beg them for sex.
From Led Zeppelin all the way to a local cover band,

musicians have it easy when it comes to attracting women.
All they have to do is get on stage, and women will
become hypnotically captured by their presence.
You probably think that rock guys attract women because

of their fame or money, but this isn’t the case. What rock
stars have is the ability to stand out from the crowd. Unlike
the average guy, these dudes know how to dress AND act
in a unique manner. Furthermore, they’re good at
projecting a mysterious image, which women eat up!
What I find interesting is that there are LOTS of musicians

who really suck at their craft, but they still manage to
attract HORDES of women! This theory holds true for even
the crappiest cover bands at your local bars. While these
guys are only playing the songs from other bands, they
still know how to draw women to them like magnets. This
goes to show that even the worst musicians have
something which girls find incredibly seductive.
So what can you learn from this?
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It’s simple: Almost all rock stars succeed with women

because they know how to stand out from the crowd.
Unlike the average guy, they’re not afraid to dress
differently or demonstrate an outlandish personality.
While you don’t have to play an instrument, you can learn

a lesson from how rock stars act. To be more like them,
you should do the following:
λ Wear something unique.
λ Be energetic and exciting around your friends.
λ Talk to everyone.
λ Have fun in any social situation.
λ Demonstrate higher value.
The reason a “rock star persona” is successful is that it

helps you stand out from other guys. In other words, when
you display a positive, alpha-male personality, women will
know that you’re different.
The reason is simple: Deep down, ALL women want

passion and excitement in their lives. It’s for this very
reason that romance novels are so successful. By
displaying an outlandish personality around a woman, you
stand out and represent the excitement she's probably
missing in her life.
But there is something important you should know about

being different: In order to be attractive to women, you
should ONLY do things which are both original AND
interesting. An easy way to do this is to observe how other
guys act and do the EXACT opposite.
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The more you stand out, the more women will notice you.
So think of new ways to dress, talk, and act. If you can
make them DIFFERENT from other guys, then you’ll be
viewed as a unique and attractive guy.
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Rule #21 – Lift Weights

As you probably know by now, when it comes to attracting
women…looks aren't important! Even if you're balding or
have a few extra pounds, you can still succeed with women.
But there is one important thing to remember...
While it's possible to attract women if you have physical

flaws, you can increase your chances if you fix them. This
is especially true if you get into the habit of lifting weights.
By working out at least three times a week, you'll receive
both physical and mental benefits that'll help your overall
"dating game."
Here are a few reasons why weight lifting helps your

success with women:
λ Your confidence will improve as you realize that you're
in better shape than the other guys who make no effort
to improve their appearance.
λ When you start to improve your body, you'll like

yourself better. And once learn to love yourself, your
overall demeanor and attitude will change. Eventually
your improved self-esteem will translate into a positive
attitude around women.
λ Your health will improve. While being a physically-fit

person doesn't directly correlate to your ability to
attract women, there is something to be said about
knowing you're on a pathway towards being healthy.
When you have a great attitude about life, you'll
become a fun guy to be around. In a way, your outlook
will be another reason why you're attractive to women.
Don't worry if you're nervous about walking into a gym.

Most of us have been at this point in our lives. The good
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news is that most gyms offer guidance and training for

new members, so all you have to do is register for a
package, and you'll be shown the specific exercises which
can improve your physique.
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Rule #22 – Get More Cardiovascular

Exercise
In the last rule, I discussed the benefits of starting a
weight-lifting regimen, and why it's important for your
success with women. Now I want to shift focus and discuss
the importance of cardiovascular exercise.
Personally, I think engaging in aerobic exercise is one of

the BEST things you can do for yourself. From my own
experience as a distance runner for over 18 years, I've
found that people who are in shape have a happier outlook
on life. But since this report is mostly concerned with
improving your success with women, allow me to explain
why a pattern of cardiovascular exercise will help you with
dating and romance.
First, you'll be a calmer person. When you're getting

regular exercise, you're constantly releasing endorphins
into your body, which will help display a more relaxed and
calm demeanor. A byproduct is that you'll be able to
reduce a lot of the nervous energy that interferes with your
ability to attract women.
Another benefit is that you'll be able to have more stamina

in the bedroom. While many guys think regular exercise
tires you out, the opposite is actually true.
Regular exercise provides you with more

energy…especially when it comes to sex.
Unless you're training for a marathon, you can use your

increased stamina to provide women with an incredible
sexual experience.
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The final reason you should exercise is because it provides

you with a social outlet. Whether you're exercising in a
gym or exercising outdoors, you'll have an opportunity to
meet more people. As a result, you'll widen your social
circle by talking to athletic and interesting women.
Now that you understand the importance of exercise,

let me suggest this...
Try to exercise at least 30 minutes a day, three to four

times a week. You can either do it on the same days that
you lift weights, or you could try alternating days.
By getting more cardiovascular exercise, you'll obtain
many lifestyle benefits, and will have a distinct advantage
over the many guys who are too lazy to bother with it.
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Rule #23 – Increase Your Social Circle

Many guys have the erroneous belief that meeting women
ALWAYS involves going to a specific location and
approaching strangers. The truth is that there is another
way you can meet women without feeling the need to
frequent crowded bars, and the solution is simple…
Improve your social life.
By making new friends and contacts, you'll increase your

opportunities for meeting interesting women. When you try
to make friends with more people (especially females),
your options for dating women will dramatically increase.
In addition, an increase in the quantity of friends will
provide an excellent opportunity to do new and exciting
things.
The truth is that a lot of women are attracted to guys who

have an active social life. Furthermore, by having more
female buddies, you could have an opportunity to meet
and date their friends.
If you're familiar with the psychology of women, then you

know that they love to play the role of matchmaker with
their single friends. By having a better social life, you'll
develop platonic relationships with lots of women. Then
over time, you'll have an opportunity to be set up with
their attractive friends.
Since you have a "personal recommendation" from your

women friends, it'll be a lot easier to break the ice with
their friends. Unlike approaching a woman at a bar, these
women won't be so wary about you talking to them.
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But even if your female friends won't set you up with

women they know, you can still meet their friends at social
activities like a party or happy hour. And by creating a
good social life, you'll see a dramatic increase in invitations
to these events.
So remember this…
In order to increase your chances of meeting more women,

it's important to get a healthy social life. Even if you know
you're not attracted to a woman, make it a point to
befriend her. She probably has a few cute friends that you
can meet later on.
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Rule #24 – Know Where to Meet Women

“Where are all the women?”
This is a common question I get from a lot of guys.

Typically, these men think there is some magical place
they can go to meet the woman of their dreams. The truth
is that the best way to find the right kind of woman is to
go where she hangs out. Here's what I mean…
Let's just say you decided one day that you want to hunt
for deer. Would you grab a boat and go into the middle of
a river? Probably not! If you were smart, you would grab
some camouflage and go into the woods.
A lot of guys don’t take this analogy into account.

Typically, they make the poor choice of looking for a
SPECIFIC type of woman in places where she won't be. For
instance, some men want a sweet, homebody type of
woman, but the first place they look is their local bar.
In essence, they're hunting for a deer in the middle

of a river!
If you're serious about trying to find a specific type of girl,

you must be proactive and go to the places where she
goes. In other words, if you want a "spiritual church girl,"
then you should put on your "Sunday Best" and head over
to a church.
Now I'm not saying you’ll never find a nice girl at a bar or
club, but statistically speaking, you'll probably encounter
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girls who like to party and have a good time. Usually

settling down is the farthest from their minds.
To get started, sit down and form an image of your

PERFECT girl. Then decide on the best places where she
would hang out. For instance, here are a few types of
women:
λ Party girls
λ Bookish, intellectual women
λ Business and professional women
λ Athletic girls
λ Spiritual women
λ Alternative and extreme lifestyle girls
If you're able to define your ideal woman, it becomes that

much easier to envision the places where she goes. Then
all you have to do is start frequenting the same spots
where you'll likely encounter her.
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Rule #25 – Find a Good Wing Man

Recently, I saw that old beer commercial by Coors Light
which joked about the importance of having a wing man.
In this short advertisement, a guy is able to get with an
attractive woman because his wingman was able to occupy
her annoying friend.
In addition to being funny, this commercial got me

thinking…
A lot of your success with women depends on your

wingman. If you have a good wingman, the process of
meeting and attracting women becomes that much easier.
What makes a good wing man? Well, I’ve boiled down the
requirements to six characteristics. If you're able to find
the perfect partner in crime, your success with women will
dramatically increase.
So when you're trying to find a wingman, look for these six

traits:
λ Shared Knowledge
I have to be honest here: Meeting and attracting women

sometimes involves various techniques and routines. (Like
the ones discussed in the Flirt Mastery resource)
The perfect wingman should share your attraction

knowledge, as well as be able to complement them. In
addition, this guy should be able to work with you and help
out with specific routines which demonstrate higher value.
For instance, you can demonstrate a lot of value with a

woman by cold reading and doing mock psychic games. A
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good wing will understand this routine and be able to help

you out.
λ He’s your biggest fan.
Meeting women is about teamwork.
In order to be a good wing man, you have to know each

other's strengths. Then whenever you're around women,
you should brag about each other's strengths.
This is important because women are turned off when guys

brag about themselves, but they are attracted to men
when their friends talk positively about them.
λ He’s equal to or better than you.
Weak personalities tend to gravitate towards guys with

lousy game. This is a direct result from a lack of confidence
and a need to feel superior to somebody. But if you do this,
your ability to attract women will never improve.
In order to improve your skills, you need to select a

wingman that is equal to your ability. Perhaps he is even
better then you.
By selecting a guy with a great ability to attract women,

you can learn a lot by watching his routines.
λ You complement one another.
People like diversity. In order to attract beautiful women,

you should hang out with a guy who has a different look
and style from your own. By having a unique perspective
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from your own, you can build on each other's knowledge

and work together to meet different women.
λ You communicate.
At the risk of sounding like a "Dear Abby" column, I have

to say that an important trait of a good wingman is
somebody who can communicate with you. Specifically,
you should let each other know which women you're going
after.
When you do this, you'll be able to help one another with

your goals. In addition, you'll avoid the conflict which
occurs when you both go for the same woman.
λ He handles obstacles.
You probably know that the best use of a wingman is to

handle the obstacles which arise when meeting a woman.
For instance, all women have friends who act as buffers. A

good wingman will occupy their time, which allows you to
isolate and focus on attracting the object of your interest.
The important thing to remember is that you should share

the responsibility of "taking one for the team." So don't
think it's ALWAYS your buddy's job to occupy the obstacles
you encounter.
Since this guy can make or break your success with

women, you need to choose carefully. If you can find a
guy who has ALL six of these traits, then you'll have the
perfect wingman for attracting women.
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A good team is able share the responsibility. By assisting

one another, you'll be able to achieve maximum results
with women.
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Rule #26 – Use Anchoring to Create

Memories
One of the earliest techniques used with seduction was the
implementation of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to
meet women. Many “seduction gurus” have long
understood the importance of using basic psychological
principles to make women more attracted.
To be honest, NLP is a hard concept for many guys to learn.

Often, it seems hokey or too mechanical to work in the real
world, but there’s one NLP I regularly use that can help
you increase your overall success with women.
It’s called “Anchoring.”
The idea of anchoring is simple: You take a neutral item

that has NO emotional connection to a woman, and you
use it to trigger a positive emotion within her. Through a
shared experience, she’ll always think of YOU when she
looks at this object.
With anchoring, you basically create a fun memory that

floods her with positive emotions. Ultimately, this will get
her to think about you when you’re not around.
This concept may seem a little abstract, so let’s talk about

an example of how anchoring can be used in your dating
life:
Whenever you meet a woman, it’s likely that some popular

music will be playing in the background. To anchor this
memory, start singing along with the song…OFF KEY! As
long as you’ve already demonstrated high status, she’ll
laugh and probably join in.
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While I’m normally against doing anything that projects a

low-status attitude, this technique can be a funny way for
her to remember you. In fact, it’s so powerful, she’ll think
of you WEEKS later when she hears this song.
Here’s an example of how it works:
Over a year and a half ago, there was that dreadful song
“You’re Beautiful” by James Blunt. One day, I was at a bar
talking to a girl when the song came on. I started this
whole bit about how I thought James Blunt was gay and
they should play this song every time somebody acts a
little “fruity.” I finally started singing the song in this high
falsetto voice.
While this might seem a bit weird, it really connected to

this girl. I hung out with her a number of times after that
night, and every time I saw her, she would start singing
“You’re Beautiful” in a high voice whenever somebody
started acting a little gay.
The way I anchored that song created a frame of reference

that was really powerful. To this day, I bet she still cracks
up every time she hears that song.
The point is simple: When you meet a woman, you want to

stand out in a positive and funny manner. And a great way
to do this is to anchor some popular song that she’ll often
hear when you’re not around.
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Rule #27 – Always Tease

As you’ve learned in this guide, being a nice guy gets you
nowhere with women. The reason is simple: Women are
NOT attracted to guys who behave in a submissive
manner. In essence, being a nice guy will end up boring a
woman to tears!
But there’s something to remember about this philosophy.

While it’s crucial to not be too nice, it’s equally important
to not come across as an arrogant jerk.
So this presents a unique challenge. Around women, you

must find that sweet spot between being a challenge while
not acting like an ass.
What’s surprising is that the solution is fairly simple.

Whenever you talk to a woman, you MUST display a
humorous but slightly-teasing attitude. In other words, you
say funny things while generally treating a woman like
your “bratty little sister.”
Now a lot of guys get confused about how humor should be

used around women. Basically, they're not sure why they
should use it, or why it's important.
Being funny is directly related to being perceived as a fun

guy. As a result, if you can project a humorous attitude,
women will have fun around you.
This is true even if you’re teasing her. If you create

nicknames for her and not act afraid to make a few jokes
at her expense, you’ll increase your chances of attracting
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her. While making fun of a girl might seem

counterproductive, there are concrete reasons why it
works:
λ You’re demonstrating a high-status personality by not

acting like the “nice guy” who is concerned with
pleasing her.
λ You’re showing a sense of humor and a playful attitude.
λ You're reversing traditional gender roles by putting HER

in the position of the pursuer.
Teasing a woman can include a lot of things. For instance,

you can give her a nickname or use your body language in
a humorous manner. The key is to use your humor in a
way which makes it seem like you don’t care TOO much
about what she thinks of you.
By teasing a woman, you're creating a situation where

she’s unsure if you’re attracted to her. As a result, she'll
think of you as a challenge and will start to subconsciously
prove herself.
In the end, teasing a woman can be one of the best ways

to build attraction and take an ordinary conversation to the
next level.
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Rule #28 – Tell Great Stories

If you're like other guys, there will be moments in a
conversation where you can't think of anything to say.
What sucks is that you could be talking to a great woman,

and your mind suddenly goes blank. You literally have
anything to talk about. Once this happens, you can say
goodbye to any chance of attracting her.
The good news is that there is a way to completely

captivate her attention during a conversation. All you have
to do is utilize the power of storytelling.
It's human nature to LOVE STORIES.
Think about it…There have been times when you've been

completely enthralled by a person because he or she was
able to tell a really interesting story.
You can do the same!
By telling her entertaining stories with you as the central

character, you'll completely captivate her attention.
In order to tell a good story, you have to first think of

different incidents and scenarios which a woman will find
both interesting and entertaining. Then practice telling
these stories around people. The important thing is to get
to the point where you can tell this story as a reflex.
You might think you should use a different story every

time you talk to a new woman, but that's not necessary. If
you have a good enough story, learn to tell it to every new
woman you meet. Although you might know the story by
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heart, it'll be entertaining to any new woman you've just

met. This is especially true when you know the story cold.
For instance, one story I often use when I meet a woman

is about the time I was running and almost got hit by
Bruce Springsteen when he was driving his car. I craft
the story in a humorous way with him giving me the finger
and my reaction. Since this happened MANY years ago,
I've had a lot of experience telling it and making it really
entertaining.
You can also entertain women with your stories. Just sit
down and craft a bunch of interesting tales. Then practice
telling them every time you meet a woman. I promise
you'll like the reactions you get. [In this course, there’s a
step-by-step plan for using stories when you’re talking to a
woman]
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Rule #29 – Assume Familiarity

To make a woman feel like there’s an intimate connection,
you have to build rapport. Now creating rapport is about
making her feel like she’s known you for a long time and
has a special connection with you.
Just think about how you act with your buddies: You don’t
ask standardized questions about their lives…you just talk
to them!
Of course, you should refrain from treating her like “one of

the guys” (this goes without saying), but do try to make
her feel less like a stranger.
If she’s resisting your friendly presence, then it’s going to

be hard to become intimate. Odds are she suffers from a
hardened trust system, and you should tread lightly if you
want this to work. Patience is the key to success with
women who hold strong barriers.
If she’s trying really hard to resist rapport, focus your

questions more on your immediate surroundings, and less
on getting-to-know-you. Comment on the song that’s
playing, or how loud the venue is. You’ll know when she’s
finally warming up to you.
The art of assuming familiarity with a girl is choosing the

right words. This goes beyond the topics you discuss to
include what you actually say. Choosing words such as
“we” or “us” when speaking to her will subconsciously
indicate a sense of connection within her.
Physically speaking, you can do things that show how

you’d like to get to know her. For example, let’s say you’re
in a bookstore. Ask to look at the book she’s holding, and
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at the same time, tell her to hold something for you. This
demonstrates that you’re comfortable around her, and it
builds rapport by physically giving and taking.
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Rule #30 – Be Sexual

When it comes to dating, women WANT some excitement.
Unfortunately, this isn’t what they usually get from guys.
A major mistake that men make when they first meet a

woman is to discuss “safe topics.” In an effort to not offend
a girl, most guys will only discuss things like her work,
background, or what she does during her free time.
The problem is that these topics do NOTHING to build

rapport or attraction. Instead, they create a conversation
that is similar to a boring job interview.
In essence, they’re terrified to talk about SEX!
Now I understand that you might be one of those guys

who are worried about offending a woman, but if you want
to build sexual tension, then you MUST bring up this topic
early in a conversation. This means that when you first
meet a woman, you shouldn’t shy away from joking about
sex or using a few sexual innuendos. [But NOT about
her…just in a general manner]
What I find interesting is that women think about sex as

much as men, and perhaps even more! However, most
don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous or “easy,” so
they generally avoid the topic.
The good news is that you can easily tap into a woman’s
inclination to discuss sex if YOU have the courage to bring
it up. By discussing the topic in a “non-creepy” manner,
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you can joke about sex while NOT making her

uncomfortable.
What I found to work best is to tell a story related to “one

of your friends.” Simply discuss a humorous incident, and
get her feedback about similar occurrences in her own life.
The key here is to bring up the topic in a way that is not

lewd. If you do this correctly, you can steer a conversation
towards the topic of sex, while maintaining her levels of
comfort.
Just remember that you WANT a woman to think of you as

a potential dating partner. By introducing the topic into a
conversation early on, you’ll be perceived as a sexually
confident guy, and this will help increase your chances of
“getting physical” with the women you meet.
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Rule #31 – Create Great Sexual Chemistry

At some point in your life, you’ve probably heard this term.
For a lot of guys, this phrase represents the holy grail of all
interactions with a woman. If you’re able to create sexual
chemistry, then you have a virtual lock on getting her into
the bedroom.
But how do you create it? Well, there’s a simple truth

about sexual chemistry: A woman’s desire for you starts
WAY before you’ve even met her.
During her formative years, a woman develops her tastes

for what she specifically likes in a guy. So if she is
attracted to someone who is “tall, dark and handsome,”
then you won’t initially create sexual tension if you’re a
short, ugly, albino dude.
Every girl has her own particular taste in a guy. You can’t
control it, and you won’t know what she likes until you
approach her. As a result, it’s important to fix what you
can, and display a top-notch personal appearance. Then
once you know you’re “looking your best,” you can work on
a REAL way to create sexual chemistry.
While looks are initially important to a woman, you can still

create a spark of attraction if you understand the principle
of SEXUAL TENSION.
Attractive women are used to men acting like nice guys

and kissing their asses. In order to trigger her “attraction
switches,” you should understand that deep down inside, a
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woman wants a guy who presents a challenge. That’s what

you’re doing when you create sexual tension.
A conversation should involve subtle techniques for

pushing a woman away, THEN pulling her in. One minute,
you’re touching her and providing a pleasurable
experience. The next minute, you’re pushing her away and
teasing the hell out of her.
The important thing to remember is that a conversation

NEEDS tension. By giving her mixed signals about YOUR
attraction, you’re NOT providing a way to resolve the
tension that you’ve built.
There is an important reason for creating this tension. At

some point, you want to help a woman understand that the
ONLY way to eliminate this tension is to take things to a
physical level.
In other words, with sexual tension, a woman feels excited

and has conflicting feelings. She thinks you might be
attracted to her, but isn’t quite sure. Only by taking things
to a physical level will she resolve the tension that’s been
built.
Remember that sexual chemistry is an important

ingredient to a conversation. Whenever you meet a woman,
you should focus on creating enough tension that’ll
increase her levels of attraction. Then sit back and watch
as she works hard for your attention.
Also the ENTIRE Flirt Mastery course is designed around

the concept of sexual tension. So be sure to check it out if
you’re still not sure how to create it.
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Rule #32 – Initiate Physical Contact

If you want an interaction with a woman to lead to sex,
you MUST establish physical contact!
The simple truth is that a girl won’t want to be intimate

unless you first make her comfortable with your touch. And
once she’s grown used to your contact, it’ll become easy to
transition into kissing her and leading things towards sex.
What’s important about physical contact is that it should be

established in the first few minutes of a conversation. The
problem is you have to do it without being perceived as
“the creepy guy.” An easy way to initiate contact is to do
so in a natural manner, and here are five ways to do it:
λ Touch her to emphasize a point.
During the first few minutes of a conversation, the touch

barrier can be broken by emphasizing a point. All you need
to do is lightly touch her arm or shoulder in a normal, non-
aggressive manner.
The important thing is act casual about this action. Don’t

call attention to it or allow your touch to linger. Just make
it seem like a normal extension of your demeanor.
λ Do a personality test.
Personality tests are great for building attraction and

demonstrating higher value. However, they’re also
incredibly useful for touching a woman.
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For instance, a palm reading test requires hand-to-hand

contact. You can touch the sensitive parts of a woman’s
hands while demonstrating a skill. Then, after
demonstrating this skill, you should give her hands back.
This will show that you’re not trying to grope her.
λ Play games with her.
Playfulness is an important part of ALL conversations. One

of things that women want in a guy is a great sense of
humor, so “playing games” with a woman can help you
demonstrate humor while breaking the touch barrier.
The technique is pretty simple. When you’re first talking to

a woman, you want to do specific things that'll require
touching her. For instance, you could initiate games like
thumb or arm wrestling, the slap game, or drawing on her
arm.
As long as you act playful while doing these games, it’ll be

easy to touch her.
λ Banter with her.
This is similar to the principles of teasing that I mentioned

before. For instance, you can give her a quick high five,
shove her lightly on her shoulder when you're joking
around, or give her “bump-hip check” when you walk by
her. Also, if you're walking together, you can playfully walk
her into objects.
By actively playing around, you’ll quickly create some

serious sexual chemistry.
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λ Do chivalrous things.
If you're walking together somewhere, you can easily

establish physical contact while showing chivalrous side of
you. For instance, you could do these things:
• Open a door, and lead her in with your hand on her lower
back.
• Offer your arm as you're walking into a place.
• When you're walking through a crowd of people, be the

first to go through it, and offer your hand to guide her
through.
As I stated at the beginning of this tip, physical contact

must be established within the first few minutes of meeting
a woman. If you implement touching into your interactions
with women, you’ll be able to break this barrier in a simple
yet effective manner.
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Rule #33 – Build Rapport

As I’ve discussed throughout this book, attraction isn’t
about a smooth opener and five minutes of conversation.
It’s about creating that spark of chemistry, building
comfort, and moving to a private location.
All of this is called "rapport."
What is rapport? When it comes to women, rapport is

being “in sync” with her and sharing heightened levels of
attraction. When it occurs, you can quickly build her levels
of trust, and this can often lead to an intimate experience.
When you establish rapport with a woman, it becomes

easy to get her number, set up a date, or even go home
with her. So obviously rapport is something that MUST be
built during the comfort stage of a conversation. If she
trusts you and feels a CONNECTION, then you’ll increase
her levels of attraction.
Rapport can be created by doing a few different things. For

instance, here are some ways YOU can build rapport with
women:
λ Discuss common interests and hobbies.
λ Establish physical contact.
λ Tease her in a playful manner.
λ Discuss interesting stories which demonstrate higher

value.
λ Talk about the fun things you COULD do together.
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λ Look for her “Indicators of Interest,” and escalate the

conversation from this information.
After you’ve been talking to woman for awhile, you must

move into the rapport-building stage. Then, once she
becomes comfortable, you’ll discover it’s easier to escalate
her levels of physical attraction.
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Conclusion
Forget what your mom told you about women, and
definitely don’t listen to what your buddies think. Attracting
the female sex truly is an art form, and these 33 rules to
attraction lay the foundation for your success.
Throw out your self doubt, and know your worth. Fix your
sticking points, and don’t let the fear of rejection hold you
back. Everything in life is a learning experience, but you
can’t expect to perform better without any practice. As
long as you have the confidence to succeed, nothing can
stop you.
If you really want the edge over your male competition,

make sure to check out the Flirt Mastery site! Included in
its pages is additional information on ways you can
improve your conversation skills in no time. After all, when
it comes to picking up women, you can never know too
much!
Good Luck!
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This book is for entertainment purposes only. The views

Adherence to all applicable laws and regulations, including

Neither the author nor the publisher assume any

Any perceived slight of any individual or organization is

Be a gentleman. Wait two days before calling her. Never

These are just some of the worthless advice being peddled

It did nothing for their personal development.

If you want to achieve maximum success with the opposite

If you’ve read my first product, Flirt Mastery, then you

The following are 33 rules dedicated towards developing

women. Make a habit out of reading this material daily,

Rule #1 – Be High Status

What this means is that whenever you're around a woman,

So how do you establish higher status?

The truth is that higher status is a hard thing for many

Here are some of the actions you can take to show

λ Have a lot of friends (especially women) around you

λ Be the leader of your group.

λ Use teasing, flirting, and funny stories to create an

λ Show alpha-male traits like confidence, integrity,

λ Demonstrate confident body language.

By demonstrating higher status around women, you'll

Rule #2 – Act like a Man

In other words, you have to learn how to become a MAN!

It takes more than a chest full of hair to qualify as a grown

So why is it important to become a man?

It's simple. By being a real man, you'll exude a variety of

What traits should you develop?

In my opinion, there are a number of strong characteristics

λ Passion for life

λ Calmness under pressure

λ Generosity to friends, family, and even strangers

λ Courage and conviction

You might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve

Share this list with a trusted friend or family member, and

I guarantee the more you work on yourself, the more you’ll

Rule #3 – Have Confidence

So what should you do if you lack self-confidence around

Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state

λ Try meditation and exercising.

There are certain activities (i.e. meditation, yoga, and tai-

λ Use your strengths.

One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all

personal strengths. By mentally reviewing your assets,

λ Be positive at all times.

Rule #4 – Challenge Women

Without going into too much female psychology, the nice

You HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any

While you might feel weird or think you're being rude by

Rule #5 – Never Be Average

Persona is something which can make or break your ability

There are a lot of personality traits which can hurt your

A lot of guys tend to treat women with gentle care.

If you act like an average guy, you're going to get

On the other hand, if you want to attract a woman, you