80+WaysToMakeHerFeelGood

Featuring:SuperMindsetLaw#1
&
ANewSexualAttractionMethod(The"DrillDown")

CRJames|April28,2014

This report will cover two things from a new angle (and with more clarity) than we
covered in the past.

And I promise you, if you take the time to absorb this new angle, it will never fail you!

And that will equate to:

More sex.
Getting her attracted to you (without her realizing what you've done).
Deeper connection.
And her being addicted to being in your presence.

And if you have all of those things working for you at the moment, for maintenance and
repair purposes, you'll be able to make quick fixes when necessary.

Also, later on we'll cover 80+ways to make a woman feel good.

This is an extremely underrated strategy or 'way of thinking' in terms of having success
with your wife/girlfriend or target woman.

Keep in mind, trying to make a woman feel good is not the same as 'making a woman feel
good (experience real pleasure).

In other words, it helps to know the difference between effort and resulting impact.

A creepy guy may decide to send 100 roses to a woman he likes (that's the effort side of
things). You can see theeffort to create extreme pleasure.

However, the resulting impact is she ends up feeling creeped out and annoyed (zero
pleasure or worse: mild emotional pain, frustration).

Typically, sexual value (sexual attraction) goes hand and hard with 'making her feel
good'.

Imagine going on a date with a woman who you find to be very physically attractive. On
top of that, she's intelligent and down to earth. Great personality. When you say things,
she makes comments and she's really tuned in. She's a good listener. She also
compliments you at times and makes you feel desired. (That's feels good to you.) You
can tell that she likes you as time goes on (And that also feels good to being
admired/desired by a woman who you're interesting in.)

The next day, you end up going on a date with her twin sister. (Don't ask why this is
happening.) But the point is: The twin has the same level of Sexual Value - in terms of
physical attraction. After talking to her for awhile, you also notice that she's intelligent.
However, she only talks about herself. She cuts you off. There's never a moment where
she even acknowledges anything you've said. On top of that, she's rude to others and says
about of stuff that you find to be annoying. It's like she's not paying attention and she just
keeps talking about herself. And when the date is over, you realize that didn't feel any
sort of connection at all.

Keep in mind, both women were equally attracted to you.

The difference:

Twin #1: High Sexual Value +Very High FG
Twin #2: High Sexual Value +Very Low FG

And in fact, many guys do the 'male version' of the second twin where they become so
preoccupied with trying to impress or have an impact, that they lose sight of being in the
moment and experiencing the interaction. And that often creates very low FG.

Note: Although we're explaining the SV and FG in isolation, what actually ends up
happening with Low FG is that over time it erodes SV and other important
ingredients.

How many times have you heard a woman complain about a guy she use to be really
attracted to - but he was 'too into himself' (or some other behavior that lead to low
FG) that eventually she didn't find him attractive anymore?


With that said, we're going to cover 2 very important concepts and then we'll get to the
list of 80+things.

Let's face it. One guy can give a woman a sexy compliment and it will get her aroused.

And yet, another guy could give a woman a sexy compliment (the same exact words the
other guy said), and it will annoy the woman - or creep her out - or even worse 'scare her'.

Again, it's not about the effort or exact words that are used.
[Successful] FG has to do with the resulting impact.

And that's why the list will make way more sense (and have more value) when you first
understand these two concepts.

Let's dive in!

The first concept we're going to cover is:

Super Mindset Law #1 - Have the 2-prong game plan mindset.

(It's possible that you already do this, because some guys do this naturally. I'm just
sharing it because it really makes a huge difference.)

Super Mindset Law #1 is a two-prong approach - it's all about creating game plans with a
high likelihood of success (whether it's for building attraction, connection or whatever).

And then from there (when you're preparing to execute the plan), you immediately switch
to a mindset where you just want to see how it will affect her. It's almost like you don't
care how it turns out.

In other words, once you've switched to this mindset, basically there isn't a such thing as
a great/average/bad game plan, because whatever you end up doing is going to affect her
in some way. And you're just concerned with observing (being curious).

Let's put this in perspective.

Years ago there was a guy that I know (wink, wink) who was making love to his
girlfriend on a particular occasion - and she was so sexually boring and deadfish-ish that
he had to constantly look over his shoulder to see if the cops were coming because it just
didn't seem legal to continue having sex under those conditions.

And of course, if the policemen were to ever show up, he would have informed them that
it was her first offense. :)

Ok let's get serious for a second...because there was a powerful lesson that he ended up
learning...

You see.. according to the old legend...in a future sexual session, the same exact woman
(same person, same face, same thoughts, same DNA, same hair, same desires, same
smile, same gills) ended up making love to the same $%@#-ing guy (her bf at the time) -
but this time she was wild, fun, energetic and very responsive!

What was the difference?

CR,whatdoyoumeanby"gills"?

The deadfish comment...

(silence)

Fish... have... gills....

Oh...yeahyeahyeah...she'slikeafish...hahaha!!....allfishhavegills...
LMMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!(goodone,cr!!!!)

Thank you sir! Let's stay focused here, ok... you see, when we break it down in terms of
the difference (between the deadfish sexual event and the 'event' where she was excited,
wet and passionate even though she was the same woman...and same face...

...andthesamegills.

...andthesamefins!!!!

sure...exactly.. even though she was the SAME, the guy wasn't technically 'trying to'
arouse her the second time around and get her really excited.

In fact, he was just pissed off. He was doing a bunch of nice stuff for her (being the great
guy that he is), making her happy, blah blah blah....but she didn't really appreciate it,
complained a lot, blah blah blah... so finally he backed off, became a little numb &
disconnected and suddenly the gf is now very responsive sexually.

How's that for a plot that you've never heard before. :)

Obviously, you've heard of it (and possibly experienced it a few times) because this
happens all of the time.

In fact, the pattern happens so much that it should be deeply branded into every guy's
brain that one simple way of creating arousal involves strategically adjusting the ratios
of attention and other forms of emotional pleasure.

In other words...

Knowing when to add.
Knowing when to subtract.
Knowing when she needs a certain feeling.
Knowing when she needs to feel a certain way.

(And keep in mind, that's just one layer.)

But the point is - it creates a situation where she is driven to experience sex because it
represents a lot (getting those good feelings back, filling the emotional void, etc).

If we were to really spell it out:

1. Woman A loves the feeling of getting Guy A's attention/admiration/affection (typically through
nonsexual means like hanging out, doing stuff, etc.)

2. Guy A asks Woman A if she would like to make love. Woman A says no (or deadfishly says Yes).

3. Guy A (for whatever good/bad/neutral reason) elects to PAUSE the nonsexual sources that provide
attention/admiration/affection

4. Woman A now craves sex with Guy A as a means of getting her feelings back).

Does this make sense?

At any rate, this brings us full circle to Super Mindset Law #1.

SM Law #1: Have the 2-prong game plan mindset.

This is all about creating game plans with a high likelihood of success (whether it's
for building attraction, connection or sexual desire).

And then from there (when you're preparing to execute the plan), immediately switch
to a mindset where you just want to see how it will affect her. It's almost like you
don't care how it turns out.

Another thing - when it comes SM Law #1, the real purpose is just to be 'obsessed' with
seeing what happens.

Some guys get obsessed with the thought of 'well what if it doesn't work?' or 'What do I
do if XYZ doesn't work?'

(Keep in mind, those are not always bad questions - they just typically stop a guy from
trying and on top of that, they're blank questions - meaning you could spend all day
trying to answer it, and never arrive at anything useful.)

It's better to ask 'results-based questions'. (For example: I wonder why XYZ got her so
aroused? I wonder why when I said XYZ to that new girl, she just gave me her phone
number? I wonder my new girlfriend didn't want to have sex after I said 'blah blah blah'
when most of the time, it works?)

Do you see the difference between 'blank questions - that normally stop a guy from
taking action' vs. a 'results-based question' that puts the guy in position to discover
something useful for the future?

It's no need to ask 'what if XYZ doesn't work', it's better to just do it (if you think it could
work) and if it doesn't 'achieve the goal of the game plan', remind yourself that it's no big
deal... and that at a minimum, it created some sort of effect (that's useful to know).

It's not about being perfect - it's about being unstoppable - and to be unstoppable, you
have to be curious - and when you're focused on being curious - you just do stuff and see
what happens - and when you having the habit of doing stuff and seeing what happens,
you end up learning at a rapidly fast rate (because it's always win-win).

There was a guy who told me about a technique he did (from one of my reports - I forget
which one) that involved complimenting his wife while they were in bed. If I remember
correctly he told her -- and this was based on the exact example in the report -- that she
looked super hot and sexy with her glasses on - and it reminder him of a hot teacher that
he had crush on blah blah blah (and btw, lots of guys have told me they used that exact
example in some creative way)... in this guy's case, he didn't work like he expected (at
least, at first), but he ended up added a creative addition to the tactic.

Basically, after saying the whole sexy teacher comment and everything else, he asked if
she wanted to do it (with the idea that he has now made her feel so super sexy and desired
that she'll want to have sex). Well, she said 'no'...

After she said no, he didn't flip out. He kept his cool and ended up talking about how
turned on he was and immediately (while still in bed) whipped it out and started jerking
off right in front of her! She couldn't even process what was going on. But after awhile,
she ended up getting so horny that she moved his hand away and hopped on and starting
riding him.

The more you follow SM Law #1, the more you'll just do stuff and see what happens.

And to really put it in perspective, let's switch things up.

For example, let's pretend that he didn't do what he did. And instead, a friend of his told
him about a time when he told his wife that she looked like his babysitter when he was
younger blah blah blah.

And the friend talks about how his wife got so turned on by the comment that she just
sexually attacked him - meaning she went from 0% [not turned on] ===>to 100%
'[turned on] - from his comment +other stuff he did.

The guy (who ended up strategically masturbating his wife into riding him)(but except he
didn't do that in this alternate fictional time-line) ends up 'testing it out' on his wife - just
to see what will happen.

And his wife seemed to ALSO like the comment - she starts blushing and says some flirty
things - but when he initiates sex, she ends up telling him 'no' (because in his case, the
comment/tactic took his wife from 0% ==>to only 60%). And he ends up doing what he
did in the reality-based time-line to take her to 100% in which case she ends up 'hopping
on and riding him'.

The more you follow SM Law #1, the more you'll just do stuff and see what happens.

If it works completely, that's great.
If it seems to not increase sexual tension at all (or whatever the goal is) - no big deal.
If it seems to create a partial effect - add something else.

I hope that makes sense.

OkitmakessenseCR...butdon'tgetmade...buthowdoyoudeterminewhenawomanis
EXACTLY60%turnedon?

In general, you won't know precisely, of course. It's just like if you were having sex or
licking the kitty kat, you're not going to know the exact lick/stroke that brought her to the
60% mark - but if you're paying attention you can guess or approximate.

Moving along...

Beforeyoumoveon...noonefishmetaphors?

Nope! Sorry.

Please!Justonemore!

Not to be rude, but there's really no need to just randomly insert fish metaphors. But since
you asked nicely I might come up with one more later on! But for now, we need to focus,
ok.

Do you remember when we said we're going to cover two things? (at the very beginning
of the report)

Yes.Ido!

Well, the other thing has to do with the actual pieces involved. This is the strategy part.

And this will equate to:

More sex.
Getting her attracted to you (without her realizing what you've done).
Deeper connection.
And her being addicted to being in your presence.

...if you 'stay focused' and understand how this affects her!

So now we're going dig a little deeper.

As you know there are many different approaches to getting a woman turned on.

To me, the best approach is to just break down the process into key parts.

Keep it simple.

In other words, if any guy ever wants to improve his impact on a woman (while keeping
SM Law #1 in mind) as ONE (or many possible methods) he can just focus on:

SV +C +FG +ST

Sexual Value +Connection +Make her feel good +Building Sexual Tension

Green Part is the strategy for being desirable/desired.
Orange Part is the strategy for triggering arousal.

It's really simple.

If she thinks we're amazing +she's wet and horny =She's more likely to say 'yes' if we
ask her if she wants to have fun in the bedroom.

...so the (very logical) assumption is ==>if you scored an A+in all four areas [SV +C +
FG +ST], the woman would be crazy over you and would want to have sex often (to put
it in simple terms).

Does that make sense?

In other words, if she thought you were super sexually desirable (SV =A+) ...and she
believed you two have amazing strong/intense/deep connection (Connection =A+)... and
you made her feel amazing whenever she was your presence (FG =A+)....and you
triggered arousal/chemistry really well (ST =A+)...then she would be crazy over you and
want to have sex a lot (without much effort).

Some guys 'for many different reasons' do all 4 without trying.

If that's not the case, it's no big deal...

You just need to focus on doing things to improve in those areas.

Let's break it down step by step.


The 4 Element Drill Down
"Keep drilling like crazy"


Step 1: Grade yourself correctly

It's one thing to evaluate yourself with a woman as
SV =A+
Connection = B+,
FG =A-
ST =A+

...when in reality it's...

SV =C-
Connection =F
FG =C
ST =F

The better you get at Step 1, the more leverage you'll get out of Step 2.

Step 2 - Find the biggest constraint.

This is a unique approach that we never discussed before and it's pretty simple.

For example, let's say J im's overall impact profile with his ex-girlfriend is:

SV =B
Connection =D
FG =B
ST =C

As we can see, his biggest constraint is connection.

And since that's the case, if he wants to get back with her, he should focus on that more
than anything.

So that's what we mean by finding the biggest constraint and focusing on it.

Step 3: Create a game plan for fixing the weakest link (biggest
constraint).

Keep in mind, this sort of 'game planning' approach is useful for whatever your situation
is:

Getting back with ex.
Improving sex life in relationship.
Getting a new woman (or female friend) turned on.
Etc.

So let's say that a woman is growing distant with Bob because the connection is low.

His overall impact profile:

SV =B
Connection = D
FG =B
ST =C

...if that's the case, one of the easiest ways to improve the connection is to (1) think of
different aspects/dimensions of connection and then just focus on improving those sub-
areas.

Canyougiveanexample?

Sure.

For example:

SV =B
Connection = D
- Sub-Category #1: The Perception of Being Similar (Shared Beliefs/Outlook/Ways of doing things)
- Sub-Category #2: The Perception That You Understand Her
- Sub-Category #3: Quality Interaction
FG =B
ST =C

As you can see, based on this information, Bob should focus on those 4 areas.

And I basically took those 3 from my 93 ways to create a connection report (which lists a
total of 10 categories).

So you could use those 3 or you could create your own set of categories just by talking to
her and finding out what dimensions of connection is important to her.

If you want you could focus on the Sub-categories with the lowest grade or just make an
effort to improve in all 3 areas.

And although it may seem very mechanical, if you look at the big picture it forces you to
do the stuff that you should do.

So if someone thinks this sort of approach is evil just because it's systematic - logical -
and structured, just quickly lift up his shirt and count the 'scale wounds' across his ribs.

Hahaha!Youdidn'tforget!...allofthescalewoundsfromthewoman'deadfishing'
him!!!One.Two.Three.Four.Five!!!LOL!!!!!!

Exactly, sir!


Getting back on track. It's structured, but again - at the same time it's based on what a guy
should do...

For example -- when it comes to having a strong connection with a woman -- you kinda
should....

... expect to have a great impact - if you provide quality interaction (more so than what
she's typically use to)

... expect to have a great impact - if you take the time to understand her (i.e. her views,
her unique ways of seeing the world, etc).

...and so on.

The same applies to all four key areas (SV +C +FG +ST) and their sub-categories.

So far I've created reports that list 70+tactics for: SV, C and ST.... but so far there's no
official list for FG.

Well, that's about to change!

Ohyeah!!!KaBam!!!
It'sonlikeDonkeyKong!!!!

I'm glad you're excited.

So, below (as a useful treat) we'll list some ways to create FG - just to give you some
ideas and a strategic approach.

Keep in mind, it's good to use these in conjunction with Sexual Value tactics (remember
the example with the twins) +Connection tactics +ST Tactics!




80+ Ways To Make Her Feel Good


Category #1: Interaction Based Methods: Do something to her

Ki ss
Backr ub
Hug
Foot r ub
Sex
Cuddl i ng
Hol di ng hands

Category #2: Interaction Based Methods: Do something for her

Get her a sur pr i se gi f t
Hel p her wi t h a cur r ent pr obl em
Hel p her put somet hi ng i n a per spect i ve
Do gent l emen- l i ke t hi ngs
Do some sor t of t ask f or her
Get her f l ower s
Put her i n connect i on wi t h someone who can hel p her

Category #3: Action Based Methods: Indoor Activities

Monopol y
Checker s
Scr abbl e
Pi ct i onar y
Connect 4
Dar t s
Pi ng Pong
Movi e Mar at hon
Uno
Bl ackj ack
Cr azy ei ght s
Poker
Candl e Maki ng
Puzzl es
Tr i vi a
Char ades
Bi l l i ar ds
Chess
Mahj ong
Any boar d game
Any t abl e game
Any vi deo game
Any cr af t i ng act i vi t y

Category #4: Action Based Methods: Outdoor Activities

Exampl es:
zoo
aquar i um
vacat i on
hi ki ng
comedy cl ub
r est aur ant
spa
musi c concer t
par ades
magi c Show
ci r cus
museum
obser vat or y
beach
Take a wal k
danci ng
movi es
pi cni c
hi ki ng
comedy cl ub
r est aur ant
hor seshoes
bocce
cr oquet
r omant i c get away
t ake a cl ass t oget her

Category #5: Conversation-Based: Listening

At t ent i ve l i st eni ng
Aski ng f ol l ow up quest i ons
Not cut t i ng her of f

Category #6: Conversation-Based: Talking

Havi ng somet hi ng ent er t ai ni ng t o t al k about
Tel l i ng f unny st or i es
Maki ng her l augh
Mot i vat e/ I nspi r e her
Cheer her up
Teachi ng her somet hi ng t hat ' s an i nt er est t o her
Shar i ng your l i f e exper i ences
Compl i ment i ng her per sonal i t y t r ai t s
Compl i ment i ng her ski l l s
Compl i ment i ng her deci si on- maki ng
Compl i ment i ng her physi cal appear ance ( i . e. l ooks, body par t s,
cl ot hes, st yl e, hai r , et c. )
Remember i ng somet hi ng i mpor t ant


So there you go. In the event that you want to brainstorm and think of more to add to the
list, here are the 6 categories:

Category #1: Interaction Based Methods: Do something to her
Category #2: Interaction Based Methods: Do something for her
Category #3: Action Based Methods: Indoor Activities
Category #4: Action Based Methods: Outdoor Activities
Category #5: Conversation-Based: Listening
Category #6: Conversation-Based: Talking

If you are currently weak in the FG department, it could lead to women thinking you're
boring and/or the addiction-level is so low (so there will be a low craving to be in your
presence).

And if that's the case, look at the above 6 categories and grade yourself on each one.

And keep in mind, a low grade in a particular category is only as important as how much
she values that category/sub-category.

Huh?

In other words, under the FG section: if Woman-A really values outdoor activities more
so than doing something for her, you're going to have a great impact focusing on that.

Under the connection section: If Woman-B values 'being understood' more so that 'being
similar' or 'quality interaction', then it would make sense for the guy to focus on that more
so than the other two - even though there is a C-grade for all three.

(See example below so that it makes more sense.)

SV =B
Connection = D
- Sub-Category #1: The Perception of Being Similar (Shared Beliefs/Outlook/Ways of doing things) C
- Sub-Category #2: The Perception That You Understand Her C
- Sub-Category #3: Quality Interaction C
FG =B
ST =C

When it comes to being a Super Desirable Guy, you just need to focus on the 4 areas.

There are some guys who are strong in the FG category (and average in other areas) and
they're able to have success with women. For example:

The Fun Guy
SV =C
Connection = C
FG =A+
ST =C

Note: If her past boyfriend/husband was boring, this guy will have a lot of success.

There are some guys who are strong in the Connection category and average with
everything else and they're able to have success with women.



The Deep (Romancer) Guy
SV =C
Connection = A+
FG =C
ST =C

There are some guys who are strong in the Sexual Value category and average with
everything else and they're able to have success with women. For example:

The Sexy Guy
Note: This is the guy who can often get success with very brief interaction because of
instant intense attraction (via 'looks/style' or personality/psychological-SV-signal-
sending).
SV =A+
Connection = C
FG =C
ST =C

There are some guys who are strong in the Sexual Tension category and average with
everything else and they're able to have success with women. For example:

The Smooth "Button Pushing" Guy
Note: This guy may not win her heart at first sight - in fact, it may take a few
days/weeks, but after awhile (despite being average in other key areas) at a minimum,
she'll has an urge to have sex with him (even though he may not be her typical
relationship type).
SV =C
Connection = C
FG =C
ST =A+

The Super Desirable Guy

Note: There are times when the grades may dip a bit, but he knows how to get back on
track. If he meets a woman (or is in a relationship) the woman is 'super magnetized to
him' because he is that 1 in 10,000 rare amazing guy she hardly ever experiences.

SV = A+
Connection = A+
FG = A+
ST = A+


Remember: The key mindset game plan (SML #1)

1. Create game plans with a high likelihood of success (whether it's for
building attraction, connection or sexual desire) -- or -- just try stuff

2. Then switch to a mindset where you just want to see how it will affect
her - whether it works like you expected, partially works, not at all or
whatever her reaction is.

Remember: The key strategy game plan

1. Grade yourself in the 4 areas.
2. Identify weak links.
3. Create a game plan for improving (i.e. create sub-categories for each
one and score high in each sub-category).



Remember: Keep it simple!

That's it for now!

Talk Soon,
CR J ames
crjames.com