Saint Joseph Institute of Technology: Book Review
Saint Joseph Institute of Technology: Book Review
Saint Joseph Institute of Technology: Book Review
Book Review
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal
Change
Stephen Richards Covey
Covey's best-known book has sold more than 25 million copies worldwide since
its first publication in 1989. It has a self-help subject and a nonfiction genre
with 381 pages. It was published by Free Press with ISBN0-7432-6951-9.
SUMMARY:
In this book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, author Stephen R. Covey
presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach for solving personal
and professional problems. With penetrating insights and pointed anecdotes,
Covey reveals a step-by-step pathway for living with fairness, integrity, service,
and human dignity -- principles that give us the security to adapt to change and
the wisdom and power to take advantage of the opportunities that change
creates.
This book explains 7 Habits that can make a person more effective personally,
professionally, and in family life. Covey shows how to build the healthy
relationships that are key to an effective life. This classic is well worth reading
for its perspective and practical advice.
The 7 Habits
Habit 1: Be Proactive
You choose how to respond to what life throws at you. Take responsibility for
your actions.
Choose your short-term, daily behavior according to the plan you have for your
entire life. Think about the legacy you want to leave. Put things in perspective;
what would you want people to say at your funeral?
Daily planning is too narrow and short-sighted. Weekly planning gives a better
big-picture perspective of your goals, and allows for the flexibility to deal with
the things that will inevitably come up.
People are more important than things, so plan your time accordingly. Be
efficient with things, but effective with people. You can't be efficient with
relationships; they take time.
Only spend time on things that align with your deep values. Don't waste time on
other things, even if it means saying no to requests. Don't prioritize your
schedule; schedule your priorities.
Most of life requires cooperation, not competition. Work together with co-
workers, friends, and family for mutual benefit. Approach everything in terms
of "win/win or no deal"; if you can't reach a deal in which both parties feel
they're winning, don't make a deal at all.
Think in terms of the Abundance Mentality rather than the Scarcity Mentality;
the quest for recognition, credit, power, and profit isn't a zero-sum game. Be
happy when others succeed.
Listen with the intent to understand, not to reply. Diagnose before you
prescribe.
You can't motivate people by appealing to satisfied needs (money, status, etc.);
only unsatisfied needs motivate.
Habit 6: Synergize.
Reading this book is rather like having a very one-sided conversation with a
particularly earnest and opinionated drunk who isn't shy to jab you in the chest
with a fore-finger to underline a point.
That's not to say that the seven habits are bad, far from it. They are a quite
reasonable and potentially useful set of habits. Whether effective people tend to
have these habits or if having these habits will make you more effective is
presumed but not proven by this at all. The power of the argument and the vast
number of sales lies in how the seven habits tap into our moral beliefs about the
kind of habits we want to be able to have to make us successful, and more to the
point the kind of habits that we want to believe make people successful, and in
the great tradition of self-help.
Be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think win/win,
seek first to understand and then to be understood, synergies and sharpen the
saw are the seven habits. That's the meat of the book in one sentence.