Family and Socity
Family and Socity
Most of the world’s population lives in family units; it is an important primary group in
the society. Family is the most pervasive and universal social institution.
It plays a vital role in the socialization of individuals. Family is regarded as the first society
of human beings.
The parental care imparts to the child the first lesson in social responsibility and
acceptance of self-discipline. Family is the backbone of social structure. It occupies a
nuclear position in society.
Meaning of Family
Broadly speaking, family refers to the group comprising parents and children. It may also
refer, in some cases, to a group of relatives and their dependants forming one household.
All these refer to the compositional aspect of this institution. Another aspect is that of
residence of its members.
They usually share common residence, at least for some part of their lives. Thirdly, there is
the relational aspect of the family. Members have reciprocal rights and duties towards
each other. Finally, the family is also an agent of socialization. All these aspects make this
institution different from all other units of social structure.
As Mack and Young say,
“The family is the basic primary group and the natural
matrix of personality”.
According to the Bureau of Census (U.S.A.).
“Family is a group of two or more persons related by
blood, marriage or adoption and residing together”
Biesanz writes
“The family may be described as a woman with a child
and a man to look after them”.
CHARACTERISTICS OF FAMILY
A Form of Marriage
A Common Habitation
A System of Nomenclature
An Economic Provision
System of Interaction and Communication
A Form of Marriage:
Relationship is established through the institution of marriage. The society
regulates family through the institution of marriage. Through the institution of
marriage, mating relationship is established. Without marriage family is not possible.
Hence, family is a form of marriage.
A Common Habitation:
A family requires a home or household for its living. Without a dwelling place the
task of child-bearing and child rearing cannot be adequately performed. The members of a
family have a common habitation or household.
A System of Nomenclature:
An Economic Provision:
Every family needs an economic provision to satisfy the economic needs. The head of the
family carries on certain profession and earns to maintain the family.
System of Interaction and Communication:
The family is composed of persons who interact and communicate with each
other in their social roles such as husband and wife, mother and father, son and daughter
etc.
DISTINCTIVE FEATURES OF THE FAMILY
Family is the smallest and the most intimate group of society. It is a universal institution
found in every society. Family as the most important social institution possesses certain
distinctive features which may be discussed below.
Universality
Emotional Basis
Limited Size
Nuclear Position
Formative Influence
Responsibility of the Members
Social Regulation
Persistance and Change
TYPES OF FAMILY
Though family is a universal institution, its structure or form vary from one society to
another. Sociologists and anthropologists have mentioned about different types of families
found in different cultures.
Nuclear Family:
The nuclear family is a unit composed of husband, wife and their unmarried
children. This is the predominant form in modern industrial societies. This type of family is
based on companionship between parents and children.
While discussing the nature of nuclear family in India, Pauline Kolenda has discussed
additions / modifications in nuclear family structure.
(a) Nuclear family refers to a couple with or without children.
(b) Supplemented nuclear family indicated a nuclear family plus one or more unmarried,
separated or widowed relatives of the parents, other than their unmarried children.
(c) Sub-nuclear family is defined as a fragment of a former nuclear family, for instance a
widow/ widower with her/his unmarried children or siblings (unmarried or widowed or
separated or divorced) living together.
(d) Single person household.
(e) Supplemented sub-nuclear family refer to a group of relatives, members of a formerly
complete nuclear family along with some other unmarried, divorced or widowed relative
who was not a member of the nuclear family.
The size of the nuclear family is very small. It is free from the control of elders. It is
regarded as the most dominant and ideal form of family in modern society. The nuclear
family is based on conjugal bonds. The children get maximum care, love and affection of
the parents in nuclear family. The nuclear family is independent and economically self-
sufficient. The members of nuclear family also enjoy more freedom than the members of
joint family.
Extended / Joint Family:
The term extended family is used to indicate the combination of two or more
nuclear families based on an extension of the parent-child relationships. According to
Murdck, an extended family consists of two or more nuclear families affiliated through an
extension of the parent-child relationship … i.e. by joining the nuclear family of a married
adult to that of his parents.
patrilineal & matrilineal extended family:
The patrilineal extended family is based on an extension of the father-son relationship,
while the matrilineally extended family is based on the mother-daughter relationship. The
extended family may also be extended horizontally to include a group consisting of two or
more brothers, their wives and children. This horizontally extended family is called the
fraternal or collateral family.
In India, the family weather extended vertically and/or horizontally is called the joint family.
Strictly speaking it is a property-sharing unit. The joint family consists of a man and his wife
and their adult sons, their wives and children and younger children of the paternal couple,
says M.S. Gore.
The size of joint family is very large. Generally, the eldest male is the head of the family. The
rights and duties of the members in this type of family are laid down by the hierarchy order
of power and authority. Children of the joint family are children of all the male members in
the parental generation.
Emphasis on conjugal ties (between husband and wife) is supposed to weaken the stability
of joint family.
The father-son relationship (filial relationship) and the relationship between brothers
(fraternal relationship) are more crucial for the joint family system than the conjugal
relationship (husband-wife relationship).
On the Basis of Authority:
The family may be either patriarchal or matriarchal on the basis of authority.
Patriarchal Family:
Patriarchal family is a type of family in which all authority belongs to the paternal side. In
this family, the eldest male or the father is the head of the family. He exercises his authority
over the members of the family. He presides over the religious rites of the household; he is
the guardian of the family goods. In the developed patriarchal system of the past, the
patriarch had unlimited and undisputed authority over his wife, sons and daughters.
There has been various forms of the patriarchal family. Sometimes it is part of a joint family,
as in India. Sometimes it is part of a ‘stem-family’, with only one of the sons bringing his
family within the paternal household.
Matriarchal Family:
It is a form of family in which authority is centred in the wife or mother. The matriarchal
family system implies rule of the family by the mother, not by the father. In this type of
family women are entitled to perform religious rites and husband lives in the house of
wife.
Matriarchal family is also called mother-right family or maternal family under which the
status, name and sometimes inheritance is transmitted through the female line. This type
of family is now found among the Khasi and Garo tribes of Assam and Meghalaya, among
Nayars of Malabar in Kerala.
On the Basis of Residence:
In terms of residence, we find following types of families.
Patrilocal Family:
When the wife goes to live with the husband’s family, it is called the patrilocal family.
Matrilocal Family:
When the couple after marriage moves to live with the wife’s family, such residence is
called matrilocal. The husband has a secondary position in the wife’s family where his
children live.
Neolocal Residence:
When the couple after marriage moves to settle in an independent residence which is
neither attached to the bride’s family of origin nor bridegroom’s family of origin it is
called neolocal residence.
Avunculocal Family:
In this type of family the married couple moves to the house of the maternal uncle and
live with his son after marriage. Avonculocal family is found among the Nayars of Kerala.
Monogamous Family:
A monogamous family is one which is consisted of one husband and one wife. In this
type of family one man has one wife or one woman has one husband at a given time.
Hence a husband and a wife living together, constitute a monogamous family. It is an
ideal form of family prevalent widely.
Polygamous Family:
When one man marries several woman or one woman marries several men and
constitute the family, it is polygamous family. Again polygamous family is divided into
two types such as polygynous family and polyandrous family.
(a) Polygynous Family:
It is a type of family in which one man has more than one wife at a given time and lives
with them and their children together. This kind of family is found among Eskimos,
African Negroes and the Muslims, Naga and other tribes of central India.
(b) Polyandrous Family:
In this types of family one wife has more than one husband at given time and she lives
with all of them together or each of them in turn. Polyandrous families are found among
some Australians, the Sinhalese (Srilankans), the Tibetans, some Eskimos and the Todas
of Nilgiri Hills in India.
On the basis of In-group and Out-group Affiliation:
On the basis of in-group and out-group affiliation families may be either endogamous or
exogamous.
(i) Endogamous Family:
Endogamy is the practice of marrying someone within a group to which one belongs. An
endogamous family is one which consists of husband and wife who belong to same group
such as caste or tribe.
For example, in a caste-ridden society like India a member of a particular caste has to
marry within his own caste. When a person marries within his caste group, it is called
endogamous family.
(ii) Exogamous Family:
Endogamy means marriage within a group, while exogamy means marriage with someone
outside his group. For example a Hindu must marry outside his Kinship group or gotra.
When a family is consisted of husband and wife of different groups such as gotra is called
exogamous family.
In India marriage between same gotra has been prohibited. Hence, one must marry
outside his own gotra. Similarly some tribes follow the practice of clan exogamy.
Accordingly, they marry outside their group (clan). The practice of clan exogamy is widely
followed among the Indian tribes like the Gond, the Ho, the Khasi etc.
On the basis of Blood-relationship:
Ralph Linton has classified family into two main types namely, consanguine and conjugal.
The family presents itself to the child as an educative group of most fundamental
kind. It presents itself as a concrete manifestation of the cultural process. It is the first
social environment which trains and educates the newborn child.
As Mack and Young say, “The basic socialisation of the child takes place in the family. It
carries out the socialisation of the individual. It hands over the social heritage to the
generations to come. The family is described as the “transfer point of civilisation”. The
content of socialisation is the cultural traditions of the society, by passing them to the next
generation, says Parsons. The family acts as the cultural mediator.
Non-Essential Functions
The nonessential functions of a family can be the following ones:
1. Economic Functions:
Family serves as an economic unit. The earlier agricultural family was a self-supporting
‘business enterprise’. It was producing whatever the family needed. Today the importance
of family as an economic unit has been lessened as most of the goods for consumption are
purchased readymade from the market.
The family still remains as an important economic unit from the point of view of
‘consumer’s outlay’. In other words, the modern family is a consuming unit and not a self-
sufficient ‘producing unit’.
2. Property Transformation:
The family acts as an agency for holding and transmission of property. Most families
accumulate much property such as land, goods, money and other forms of wealth. The
family transmits these property.
3. Religious Function:
Family is a centre for religious training of the children. The children learn various religious
virtues from their parents. The religious and moral training of children has always been
bound up with the home. Though formal religious education has reached into the earliest
years the family still furnishes the matrix of religious ideas, attitudes and practice.
4. Educative Function:
The family provides the bases of all the child’s latter formal education learning. Family is
the first school of children. The child learns the first letters under the guidance of parents.
In the words Mazzin, the first lesson of child begins between mother’s kiss and father’s
care. The child learns language, behaviour and manners from the parents. The virtues of
love, cooperation, obedience, sacrifice and discipline are learnt by the child in the family.
5. Recreational Function:
The family provides recreation to its members. The members of the family visit their
relations. They enjoy various occasions in the family jointly and derive pleasure. Now
recreation is available in clubs and hotels rather than at home.
6. Wish Fulfillment:
The family gives moral and emotional support for the individual member, providing his
defence against social isolation and loneliness and satisfying his need for personal
happiness and love. The wife finds in the husband love, security, protection and strength,
while the husband expects from her affection, tenderness, help and devotion.
To conclude, there are certain core functions with which the family is always and
everywhere concerned. As Kingsley Davis says, there is no other social group which can
perform this peculiar combination of great functions as its main societal task.