LIFELINE SBSG Practice Handbook
LIFELINE SBSG Practice Handbook
LIFELINE SBSG Practice Handbook
Suicide Bereavement
Support Group Facilitation
Practice Handbook
Suicide Bereavement
Support Group Facilitation
Henri Nouwen
April 2009
This Handbook was produced by Lifeline Australia and its collaborating partners with
financial assistance from the Australian Government Department of Health and Ageing
through the National Suicide Prevention Strategy.
The views expressed in this publication are not necessarily those of the Commonwealth
Department of Health & Ageing.
For information about this publication please contact Lifeline Australia on (02) 6215 9400
or [email protected] or www.lifeline.org.au/find_help/suicide_prevention
© The copyright in this document is the property of Lifeline Australia. Lifeline Australia supplies this
document on the express terms that it may not be copied, altered or used for any purpose except as
authorised in writing by this organisation.
Table of Contents
Preface vii
Foreword viii
Acknowledgements x
1. Introduction 1
1.1 Handbook aim 1
4. Staffing 17
4.1 Selecting group facilitators 17
4.2 Staffing roles and responsibilities 18
4.2.1 Coordinator of SBSG 18
4.2.2 Group co‑facilitators 18
4.2.3 Other support group team members 19
4.2.4 Support group mentor 19
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11.3 Culturally and linguistically diverse (CALD) peoples including refugees and
asylum seekers 47
13. Resources 51
13.1 Listing of Suicide Bereavement Support Groups in Australia 51
13.2 Group facilitation and suicide bereavement support training 51
13.3 Client-centred counselling 52
13.4 Children 52
13.5 General grief and bereavement 53
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Preface
Lifeline Australia received funding from the Commonwealth Department of Health & Ageing under
the National Suicide Prevention Strategy for a Suicide Bereavement Support Group Standards &
Practice Project, 2007–2009. A small group of collaborative partners came together under this
project to complete a number of objectives.
• Objective 1: Develop Standards & Guidelines
• Objective 2: Develop a Best Practice Handbook
• Objective 3: Develop Training for Facilitators
• Objective 4: Run Suicide Bereavement Support Groups based on 1,2 & 3 above
This resource is a Practice Handbook for those who are facilitating or leading suicide bereavement
support groups (SBSG). It is based on a set of standards, Towards Good Practice: Standards &
Guidelines for Suicide Bereavement Support Groups (see Appendix 17), that were developed
through wide consultation with people working with suicide bereavement support groups and with
experts working in the field of Postvention. This resource aims to provide guidance and assistance
for those developing and running SBSGs, as well as a framework for reviewing and evaluating
current practices by those who operate groups.
The development of the Standards & Guidelines for SBSGs and Practice Handbook for SBSG
Facilitation is based on existing research evidence and practice evidence available in the field.
A separate literature review was undertaken and consultation with experienced SBSG facilitators
provided a framework around which to develop these tools. This Handbook attempts to be a
comprehensive resource and not to be a prescriptive guide.
The Standards & Guidelines for SBSGs and Practice Handbook for SBSG Facilitation are
components of a larger project which also supported the development of a comprehensive
training for SBSG facilitators. The competency based training was developed under the Australia
Quality Training Framework (AQTF), a national set of standards which assures nationally consistent,
high‑quality training & assessment services for clients of Australia’s vocational education &
training system.
In order to develop a SBSG Facilitator training package, Lifeline Australia worked with the
Community Services & Health Industry Skills Council (CSHISC) to develop two nationally
recognised training competencies in the new Community Services Training Package, which was
released December 2008.
The already existing competencies below also guided the development of SBSG facilitator training:
• Facilitate groups for individual outcomes (CCHICS405A), and
• Use targeted communication skills to build relationships (CHCCOM403A)
This SBSG Facilitator Practice Handbook was developed alongside the Standards, Guidelines and
Facilitator Training. It is one resource to assist those involved with suicide bereavement service
provision. It is recommended that facilitators seek training, supervision and support in order to
undertake this important role.
By funding this Project, the Commonwealth has created a world first opportunity, where
stakeholders across the sector, across the nation, have come together and developed Standards,
Guidelines and a best practice Handbook to support those working with the bereaved by suicide.
Training for facilitators based on these resources ensures that suicide bereavement support group
members are supported in the best possible way.
Lifeline is grateful to the many individuals and organisations whose generosity and expertise have
contributed to the development and refinement of this Practice Handbook. It is a resource that
will guide those starting up a new group and support those continuing to run their already existing
groups. It provides an enormous collection of information and guidance across a wide range of
issues that I am sure will equip facilitators along with the training, to be confident and competent in
supporting people impacted by the devastating loss of their loved one to suicide.
I enthusiastically endorse this Practice Handbook and encourage all facilitators to join the
community of practice that has developed it. I am reminded of the quote from Sir Isaac Newton
“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants”. I wish you ‘clear vision’ and all
the best in running your support groups and trust that these resources can provide guidance for
the much needed, rewarding work you do in your community.
Dawn O’Neil, AM
CEO
Lifeline Australia
However, despite admirable measures undertaken by IASP and national organizations around the
world, programs of support for the suicide bereaved are still sadly lacking and these are often seen
as the poor cousin of prevention.
Research that has investigated the nature of grief, its associated morbidity and the needs of the
suicide bereaved has confirmed the necessity for comprehensive and accessible services. While
there may be a dearth of evidence for suicide bereavement support groups, what we do know is
that as a humane society we need to provide support for those impacted by such a devastating
loss. This support should be guided by Standards and Best Practice to ensure the health and safety
of participants.
I fully endorse this Practice Handbook and encourage all those involved with operating Suicide
Bereavement Support Groups to join this community of practice and take advantage of this valuable
resource. I wish you every success with the challenging work you undertake to support people
bereaved by suicide.
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Acknowledgements
This Practice Handbook is a component of the Commonwealth’s Lifeline Suicide Bereavement
Support Group (SBSG) Standards and Practice Project. It has been developed as a collaborative
effort of many individuals and organisations. Their generous contributions of knowledge, expertise
and time are acknowledged here with deep appreciation for their assistance in developing a tool
which will benefit those who provide support for people bereaved by suicide. The Handbook
may also be relevant for those who provide bereavement support to other than those bereaved
by suicide.
Lifeline Australia would like to gratefully acknowledge the contribution made by the Project Expert
Reference Group that has devoted considerable time and expertise in overseeing the project and
this Practice Handbook: Julie Aganoff, Lifeline Brisbane; Margaret Appleby, Rose Education Pty Ltd;
Eve Barratt, Lifeline South East SA; Graham Clue and Helen Lindner, Australian Psychological
Society; Jill Fisher, StandBy (Suicide Bereavement) Response Service, United Synergies; Sharon
Hillman, ARBOR, Ministerial Council for Suicide Prevention, WA; Roslyn Lockhart, Congress of
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Nurses; Jane Mowll, Dept of Forensic Medicine, NSW Health;
Jon Stebbins, Compassionate Friends VIC; Jon Spiteri and Vicki Katsifis, Multicultural Mental Health
Australia; Rod Hurley, Commonwealth Department of Health & Ageing.
Special recognition and gratitude also needs to be extended to the Training Team who developed
and provided nationally accredited, competency based training to two sets of Facilitators. This
highly skilled and experienced team worked collaboratively for a year to devise and fine tune
the training materials. The Team consisted of: Linda Espie (Jesuit Social Services, Support After
Suicide program), Jill Fisher, Jane Mowll, Dr Jon Stebbins, Wendy Raikes (Raikes Consulting) and
Susan Beaton (Lifeline Australia). Recognition and thanks also to Jane Mowll and Kate Friis, senior
forensic counsellors and social workers with the Department of Forensic Medicine who provided
high quality external group supervision to trainee Facilitators while they ran their trial SBSGs.
Participants who attended the May 2007 National Postvention Conference pre-conference
workshop “ How To — Support Groups — Models & Best Practice Guidelines” also contributed
to the evolution of this Handbook and deserve recognition and thanks. Also, experienced
facilitators from across Australia who attended the SBSG Facilitators Forum September 2007
contributed greatly to the progress of this Handbook. Particular recognition goes to the following
organizations for their co-operation and generous sharing of their resources and knowledge:
NSW Department of Forensic Medicine, Forensic Counselling Service and Support After Suicide
Group facilitators; Jesuit Social Services, Support After Suicide program; Corporate Diagnostics;
United Synergies and StandBy (Suicide Bereavement) Response Service; Compassionate Friends
Victoria; Dr Diana Sands, Director Bereaved by Suicide Service; Australian Psychological Society;
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Survivor Initiatives Director Joanne Harpel; American
Association for Suicidology Survivor Division Chair and Co-Chair IASP Postvention Taskforce,
Michelle Linn‑Gust; HEARTBEAT Grief Support Following Suicide founder LaRita Archibald;
Baton Rouge Crisis Intervention Center, Executive Director, Frank Campbell; IASP Postvention
Task Force, Co‑Chair, Karl Andriessen.
We would like to gratefully acknowledge the comprehensive work done by Corporate Diagnostics
and United Synergies in undertaking the Commonwealth funded National Activities on Suicide
Bereavement project in 2006. That project’s outcomes, including the Draft Guidelines and
Standards for Suicide Bereavement Support Groups, have been foundational in guiding the
development of this project.
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Acknowledgements
Appreciation needs to be extended to the eight Lifeline Centres who had the courage to participate
in this trial. Our gratitude also to the trainee Facilitators who participated in the newly developed
nationally accredited, competency based training, undertook copious assessment tasks and ran
trial groups out of their Centres during 2008. We also thank our most vulnerable project members,
the people bereaved in the community who trusted Lifeline to provide a support group and safe
place to gather with others bereaved by suicide.
The project is indebted to ARTD Consultants — Strategy & Evaluation, for their professional and
conscientious external evaluation which has supported and informed the project from the outset.
Wendy Raikes (Raikes Consulting) has been consultant researcher and writer for the entire project;
her breadth of knowledge and skills, dedication and attention to detail have been of immeasurable
benefit and we extend our most sincere gratitude to her.
We are grateful to the Commonwealth Department of Health and Ageing for funding provided
under the National Suicide Prevention Strategy for the development of this Handbook and the
overall Project. The Practice Handbook is a component of Lifeline’s SBSG Standards & Practice
Project January 2007 – June 2009.
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Definitions and Glossary
In this Handbook many of the following terms and definitions are used in the context of
suicide bereavement.
Term Explanation
Administrative A process concerned with the quality of the practice by the person being
supervision supervised in respect of professional standard and ethics.
Attempted suicide Self-inflicted harm where death does not occur but the intention of the person
was to die.
Auspice body A government or non-government organisation that takes legal and ethical
responsibility for group functioning, maintenance and support; manages
government funded programs and is legally responsible for implementation and
reporting requirements.
Bereavement The period of grief after a loss (usually the death of a loved one).
Closed group Generally a time limited group where the same members attend for a specified
time period.
Cultural safety An environment, which is safe for people; where there is no assault, challenge
or denial of their identity, of who they are and what they need.
Debriefing A structured meeting after an event to discuss what has happened, going over
an experience or set of actions, to achieve some sort of order or meaning
concerning them.
Disenfranchised grief A grief that is not openly acknowledged, socially supported or publicly observed.
Duty of care A duty to take reasonable care of a person. A support group owes a duty of care
to anyone who is reasonably likely to be affected by the group’s activities.
Empathy The act of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously
experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another without
necessarily personally holding the same feelings, thoughts or experience.
Grief An emotional response to the perception of loss, which has effects at the
physical, spiritual, behavioural, cognitive, psychological and social levels.
Integration of grief Incorporating grief as an ongoing part of the bereaved person’s life.
Mourning The process by which people adapt to the death of a loved one. Mourning is
influenced by cultural customs, rituals and by societal expectations of coping.
Term Explanation
Mutual help A support group established and run by people who have been bereaved by
support group suicide, sometimes called a self-help support group.
Peer review Review of work or performance by other people in the same field in order to
maintain or enhance the quality of the work or performance.
Psycho-educational A support group which aims to educate and provide empathy and support
support group to cope with emotional, cognitive, behavioural and social aspects of
suicide bereavement.
Resilience Capacities within a person that promote positive outcomes, such as mental
health and wellbeing, and provide protection from factors that might otherwise
place that person at risk of suicide. Resilience is often described as “the ability
to bounce back from adversity”.
Risk factors Factors such as biological, psychological, social and cultural agents that are
associated with suicide/suicide ideation.
Self-care Refers to decisions and actions that an individual can take to look after oneself
in all aspects of living, and cope with a situation or to improve his or her health
and wellbeing.
Self-harm Self inflicted harm where death does not occur and the intention may or may
not have been to die.
Suicidal ideation/ Thoughts about, or plans for, taking one’s own life that may or may not lead to
thoughts attempting or completing suicide.
Suicide Death as a result of self-inflicted harm where the intention was to die.
Suicide Postvention Interventions to support and assist the bereaved after a suicide has occurred.
Survivor A term that is used to denote a person bereaved by suicide. A survivor of suicide
is a family member or friend of a person who died by suicide. The term ‘survivor’
is often used in the international literature. In Australia the term ‘suicide
bereaved’ is generally used in preference to survivor.
In 1972 Dr Edwin Shneidman said that “Postvention is prevention for the next generation”. Research
has demonstrated that people bereaved by suicide are often themselves at increased risk of
suicide. Creating opportunities for support may ameliorate this risk and increase the mental health,
well being and integration of grief required to cope with the suicide death of a loved one.
Research has also investigated the effectiveness of suicide bereavement support groups. There is a
wide range of groups that operate in Australia and around the world that provide support to people
bereaved by suicide, with varying structures, membership, and purposes. Some mutual-help groups
are led by a person who has been bereaved by suicide while other groups are led by a professional,
such as a grief counsellor. Some groups are ongoing and open for participation by members at
times that they need support and other groups run for a limited number of weeks with a specific
program each week. Some groups have specific target audiences, such as children or adolescents,
and other groups may target adults. The common purpose is that groups wish to help those
bereaved by suicide by providing a safe, tolerant and empathic environment where bereaved people
can be with others who have had similar experiences, to share each other’s loss and grief, and to
receive and provide mutual support. A support group assists in normalising experiences, reduces
the stigma often associated with a suicide death, educates people about the grieving process, and
assists them to adjust to living without their person who died. A support group also works to reduce
the sense of isolation felt so often by those bereaved by suicide. Attendance at group meetings
may help build inner strength, develop new coping skills and strengthen the capacity of the group
to help one another.
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guidance and assistance for those developing and operating SBSGs, as well as a framework for
reviewing and evaluating current practices by those who operate existing groups. This Handbook
aims to be a comprehensive resource and not a prescriptive guide; it is also not a substitute for
training and supervision but a complement to it.
There are similarities in features of the grief patterns that people bereaved by suicide face,
although not all people bereaved by suicide may experience all the grief features or at the same
intensity. Researchers (Parrish & Tunkle, 2005; Jordan & McMenamy, 2004; Barlow & Morrison,
2002; Clark, 2001; Jordan, 2001; Dunne, 1992b; Hatton & Valente, 1981; Beautrais, 2004 — refer
to Appendix 16 for full references) identify a number of common features. The following is from
McIntosh & Hubbard (2007):
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• Depression and heightened suicide risk: In response to the suicide of a person, bereaved
people may become clinically depressed themselves; not only have they experienced the loss
of a significant other to suicide, they may share the environment and stressors that influenced
the person’s death by suicide. A number of clinicians and researchers have discussed possible
heightened suicide risk on the part of bereaved people themselves (certainly this would be
reasonable given the relationship of suicide to depression).
• Integration, Not Resolution of the Loss: The metaphor of ‘get over it’ is not very helpful or
accurate. People who are profoundly impacted by a suicide do not ‘resolve’ this type of loss.
Rather they integrate the experience into their life and learn to carry their grief with them as
part of their identity.
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2. Setting Up a Support Group
2.1 The purpose and aims of the support group facilitator
The type of “learning” that the facilitator aims to foster in a SBSG is learning drawn from the
members’ own knowledge and experiences and by hearing others do the same. The principles of
adult learning are generally used by facilitators in these groups. This type of learning builds group
members’ skills and their confidence to manage their grief, solve problems, and accomplish their
goals in daily functioning. The goal is for the participants to achieve greater understanding and to
have some new strategies for dealing with suicide bereavement issues, as opposed to ensuring
participants gain a particular amount of knowledge. It is important to accept that according to this
model of support the facilitator is not positioned as a holder of ‘superior’ knowledge whose job it is
to ‘deliver’ this knowledge to less knowledgeable others. Rather, the facilitator’s purpose is to create
an environment that allows the group members to draw on their own experiences and knowledge to
further their own learning in a collaborative and supportive environment.
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• Do you feel the commitment to sustain a group over a period of time? There is a responsibility
that goes with the formation of the group; once started, it will need to be sustained to fulfil
community expectations.
• Do you have experience — possibly from a work situation, committees or group work — or
organisational skills that can help you to get started? Skills in facilitating and working with groups
are also useful. You should not hesitate to talk to professionals in your community about ways
of obtaining additional skills or assistance. Once the group has been formed, it will have a pool
of skills to draw on so that its members can take on the roles identified for the group to function
effectively. Section 4.1 Selecting group facilitators outlines the key skills required for support
group facilitators.
• What kind of bereavement support groups already exist in your local community? You can check
likely sources of information by reading local newspapers, talking to your doctor, asking at the
community health centre, scanning community notice boards, or visiting your local library. What
has been the history or success of these groups? What have the leaders of these groups learned
about what works and what does not?
• Is there an organisation in the community that could serve as an umbrella organisation or
auspicing body for your group? The SBSG should be seen as non‑religious, as a religious
emphasis may be a discouragement for some individuals. If you are able to operate under a
larger structure it will assist in sustaining the group. If that larger organisation also provides
access to referral services, that is an additional bonus. An agreement will need to be reached
with the umbrella organisation that sets out mutually approved aims and objectives for the group.
The advantages and disadvantages of auspicing body are presented below in Table 1 and further
discussion is found in Section 2.4.1 Auspice bodies.
• If you haven’t already got a mental health professional involved, should you consider their
involvement? The professional might be involved, for instance, for consultation and/or
supervision, for evaluation of members, to consider suitability of applicants, to determine
psychiatric symptoms, to provide advice and recommendations for hospitalisation, to provide
referrals for professional care, to determine progress or burnout, or to help in evaluating
progress. (WHO 2008).
• How will you access regular debriefing, support and supervision? A group facilitator will need to
ensure that self‑care strategies are in place and maintained.
Other considerations might be: (Stebbins & Stebbins, 2000, used with permission):
• What type of group will you establish? Will it be ongoing or for a fixed term? Will it be structured
or informal? How often will it meet? Who will be the members of the group, for example, age,
gender, relationship to the person who died, cultural background, etc.? A discussion of different
types of support groups is made in Section 3.1.1 Types of support groups.
• What do you know about grief and suicide? What do you know about group processes and
facilitation? What do you know about health professionals and referrals? Refer to Section 1.2
Suicide bereavement, loss, grief and trauma and Section 5 The SBSG Meeting and Section 2.4.7
Referral pathways and community networking for further discussion.
• What skills do you have in facilitation, group leadership, communication, team management,
marketing and networking? Section 6.1 Facilitation skills, Section 6 Facilitating the group and
Section 2.4.5 Marketing, publicity, media and promotion provide more details.
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FOR THE PURPOSE OF: Resolving the grief for the cause of the death in order to achieve healthy
resolution of grief for the loss
‘To provide support to people who have been bereaved by suicide by providing a safe
environment for them to share their grief with others who have also been bereaved by suicide.’
(Corporate Diagnostics, 2006, used with permission).
Another group states the objectives of their monthly meetings as: (NSW Department of Forensic
Medicine, Support After Suicide Group, used with permission)
‘To provide an “open” support group that allows the bereaved to attend as they choose with no
limits on the number of times a person may attend.
To meet at the same venue, at the same time of each month in a community venue.
To create an environment that is supportive of people talking about their feelings and
reactions and also about the person who has died by suicide, in order to reduce isolation and
normalise experiences.
To provide professional facilitation of the meeting to ensure that the environment is appropriately
supportive for the safe expression of grief reactions and associated emotions.’
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Existing presence in the community therefore offering credibility, broader promotion opportunities and
knowledge of potential referrals
Reporting requirements
2.4.2 Incorporation
Some groups may consider incorporation as a legal entity. Alternatively, an auspicing body may be
incorporated. If not auspiced, becoming an incorporated association may benefit members and
protect them from debts and liabilities of the group. It allows a group to:
• continue regardless of changes to membership
• accept gifts and bequests
• buy and sell property
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Incorporated associations should be non‑profit organisations. This means that any profits
made should be used to further the objectives of the association, not provide personal gain for
its members.
The state Department of Fair Trading (or equivalent) will provide information on how to become an
incorporated association.
To receive tax deductible gifts, an entity must be a deductible gift recipient (DGR). For more details
refer to the Australian Taxation Office website:
www.ato.gov.au/nonprofit/content.asp?doc=/content/66281.htm&page=1&pc=&mnu=28533&mfp
=001/004&st=&cy=
2.4.3 Sponsorship/funding
SBSGs can save a lot of time, effort and money if they can find a good sponsor, or auspicing
body. Such bodies might be health agencies, community agencies, funeral directors, church
organisations, suicide prevention centres or other non‑profit organisations. These types of
organisations may assist with direct funding, meeting space, utilities (water, electricity), catering,
enquiry services, office administration, publicity in newsletters, broader promotion, mail outs and
other administrative support.
Groups may also look for sponsors for specific services. For example, businesses may donate or
provide a discount for group activities such as newsletters and promotional brochures.
2.4.4 Legislation
Groups should consider the legislation that they need to abide by.
Groups leaders will need to monitor legislative developments that may apply to their practice.
An auspice agency will usually have awareness of these requirements.
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A brochure is often the first introduction to the support group and first impressions may be lasting.
Brochures promoting support groups for suicide bereaved need not be costly, but should describe
with dignity the reinforcement, understanding and safety to be found within a support group. The
brochure content must be clear, specific and well organised. The brochure could include the
group’s aims and purpose. Take into consideration the use of colours and imagery in keeping with
sympathy, empathy and support. Examples of group brochures are provided in Appendix 11.
Group facilitators have found that people often read notices and keep them for a time before
finding the courage and energy to attend their first meeting, so regular and consistent meeting
times and venues are important factors in promotion.
Some countries have a well organised network of suicide bereavement support groups
and maintain a state and national database of groups. Individuals and agencies can search
for the closest group to their location using this database e.g. Lifeline’s Service Finder
www.lifeline.org.au/find_help/service_finder.
Facilitators may use the media to the advantage of the group. There are specific guidelines
for media engagement in the Australian Government Mindframe National Media Initiative.
These guidelines have been developed to inform appropriate reporting of suicide and mental
illness, in order to minimise harm and copycat behaviour, and to reduce the stigma and
discrimination experienced by people with mental illness. The guidelines can be downloaded
from www.mindframe-media.info/ and include information about:
• Issues to consider when talking to the media about suicide and mental illness
• Getting to know the media and how the media works
• Tools for working with the media
• Facts and statistics about suicide and mental illness.
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• Advice and harm — professional indemnity cover will be necessary. Professional associations
often offer good rates to members.
• Unsuitability of support group for some members or potential members — referral protocols
to other services will be required. Refer Section 3.1.4 Recruiting members and interviewing/
checking for fit for more details.
• Emergency situations — a crisis protocol must be in place for potential emergencies
including suicide or potential suicide, crises in the group, or crisis in the group
leader(s) — refer Section 6.5 Risk & crisis management for more details and see
Appendix 3 for the ‘ Toolkit for helping someone at risk of suicide’. A SBSG facilitator may
consider undertaking LivingWorks ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training)
(see www.lifeline.org.au/learn_more/livingworks)
• Re-traumatising group members — group management practices are in place to reduce the
likelihood of such occurrences. Refer Section 7.4 Group members at different stages of the
grief process (Redirecting inappropriate disclosure) for more details on this.
• ‘Burn out’ of support group leaders — access to debriefing and supervision; co‑facilitators
are recommended, or time away from the support group leadership role may be needed.
Refer Section 8 Staff and volunteers self‑care and Section 9 The role of supervision in SBSG
facilitation for more details.
• Conflict between members or leaders — effective conflict resolution processes included in Code
of Ethics. Refer Section 3.1.3 Duty of care; Code of ethics; Confidentiality for more information.
• Media requests — media guidelines that clarify media release and spokesperson protocols. The
Mindframe National Media Initiative provides guidelines (refer Section 2.4.5 Marketing, publicity,
media and promotion ).
Where a SBSG facilitator becomes aware of a bereaved person in the community through a third
party (e.g. friend rings with a person’s details), being cognisant of privacy and confidentiality
reasons it would be appropriate to check whether permission has been given to make contact.
Contact should only be made if permission has been given by the bereaved person.
It may be useful to establish a list of individuals and agencies most likely to come into contact
with those bereaved by suicide. Ensure that they have current information about the group and
brochures to hand out. A SBSG facilitator may consider giving regular presentations and newsletter
articles. Given staff turnover, it is important to regularly provide reminders to relevant agencies.
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3. The Suicide Bereavement
Support Group
3.1 Group type and framework
One aspect that groups consider is how they can provide a sense of familiarity and stability.
A simple, structured program provides security for those bereaved by suicide. Meetings regularly
held in the same comfortable, neutral venue contributes to this security.
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Some features of the differing group structures and processes that should be considered are
as follows:
The choice of type of group will be dependent on many factors, for instance, skills of the facilitators,
commitment/availability of facilitators, funding available, leadership available, community need,
organisational/sponsor requirements. Some communities offer one or two fixed term closed
groups per year (often weekly or fortnightly for 8–10 meetings) at the same time as offering
ongoing monthly open groups. This gives closed group ‘graduates’ an opportunity to continue to
make connections with other suicide bereaved and also gives new participants an opportunity to
be involved with a SBSG before committing to a fixed term closed group. Many people just want the
reassurance and comfort provided by attending one or two meetings and knowing that they could
‘drop-in’ on an “as needs” basis. Some require the build up of trust and comfort that is an integral
part of closed group fixed term format. Furthermore, if a community offers a psycho-educational
information evening once a year on the topic of “Suicide and its aftermath”, this can be enough
of a connection for some bereaved people and fulfil their needs without having to attend a group.
Such a public meeting can clarify the role and purpose of a SBSG, raise awareness in the general
community and also reduce the stigma of suicide. There are many factors that need to be taken
into consideration and perhaps a community needs to trial a number of options to determine which
format suits their community best.
Sometimes, conditions for membership may be considered, such as age, gender, cultural or
linguistic background, type of relationship with the person who has died, or length of time
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since the loss. The reason that conditions of membership may be applied to a particular group
is to encourage attendance by members who share similar characteristics and who may not
otherwise attend.
One consideration might be whether attendance at the group by those who are not processing
grief is appropriate. For instance, researchers and students may request to attend. There are issues
raised in such a situation. Opportunities to educate the wider community assist in reducing the
stigma sometimes associated with suicide. On the other hand, a person who is not processing grief
may upset the dynamics of the group. The group leader/facilitator should consider such situations
on their merit, including the consideration of the support group members’ needs to feel safe and
secure and for confidentiality, and the facilitator’s need to ensure that the support group process
is not compromised. A specific meeting time could be set up for others to meet with support
group members if considered appropriate. The education of the wider community may be better
approached through a separate process.
Another consideration is whether the group is suitable for children or adolescents. For children
under 16 the grieving process unfolds differently than in adults. Consequently, groups for children
and adolescents should be designed to meet their particular needs. Refer Section 11.1 Children
and adolescents for more details.
It may be necessary to consider other special needs of people who wish to attend the group.
For instance, those with mobility disabilities may need special facilities such as ramps and
disabled toilet facilities; those with language difficulties may require the use of an interpreter. The
leader/facilitator may ask new people wishing to attend the group of any special needs that exist
at the initial contact/interview stage (refer Section 3.1.4 Recruiting members and interviewing/
checking for fit).
The central guiding principle for support group facilitators should always be ‘Above all,
do no harm’. There are a number of aspects that the group leaders/facilitators need to consider,
examples include:
• Where group facilitators are bereaved by suicide, they need to have integrated their loss
sufficiently so that they can facilitate at a level that does not create greater harm for themselves.
• The activities that the group members undertake do not lead to greater harm.
• Some members may be in need of other services to assist them with their grief process.
• A group member may act inappropriately which creates harm for other members.
The SBSG facilitator may consider a Code of Ethics that they will adopt. A Code of Ethics that
applies to group facilitators and leaders may be appropriate. Examples of such Codes are in
Appendix 12.
Whilst the SBSG facilitators may adopt a Code of Ethics that guides their own group facilitation
and co‑ordination, it is good practice to collectively establish with the group a ‘Code of Ethics’ or
group ground rules that will guide the members. By working collaboratively on this, there is a higher
likelihood that members will abide by the group rules. However, it is also possible, for expediency
sake, to develop a prepared document to which members can have input.
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The following is adapted from the World Health Organisation guidelines (2008):
1. Group members will respect the rights of all to confidentiality. Thoughts, feelings and
experiences shared by the group will stay within the group, which means that members have
the privacy to share their thoughts and feelings.
2. Group members will recognise that thoughts and feelings are neither right nor wrong.
3. Group members will not be judgemental or critical of other members, and will
show acceptance.
4. Group members have the right to/or not to share their grief and/or feelings. They should make
some spoken contribution to the meeting, but if they wish just to “be there” at times the group
will accept that.
5. Group members come to the group with empathy (fully comprehending the impact having
experienced the situation), not sympathy (sharing another persons’ thoughts or emotions).
6. Group members appreciate that each person’s grief is unique to that person. Respect and
accept what members have in common and what is particular to each individual.
7. Group members respect the right of all the members to have equal time to express themselves
and to do so without interruption.
8. The group acknowledges that each person is the authority on their own experience.
An exception to privacy and confidentiality is in the event of danger or threat to life. Group leaders
need procedures to deal with risks (refer Section 6.5 Risk & crisis management).
Although the support group type may have an open membership policy, the interviewing process
is to check whether the needs of the bereaved person would be best met through group support.
Facilitators would check to ascertain those who may not yet be ready for group work in which case
alternatives may be offered including: individual counselling, relationship or small time-limited
group, family therapy, journaling, or bibliotherapy (reading self help books or websites). Checking
for fit also provides an opportunity to determine those with significant mental health issues, drug
and alcohol issues, etc., which may impair an individual’s ability to participate.
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• venue information
• insurance coverage
• additional information about external support services, including 24 hour crisis services
e.g. Lifeline 13 11 14
• resources and literature about self‑care while attending the group.
For those who are not accepted into the group, information about the reason and referral options
should be provided.
Specific relationships
One consideration for group facilitators are shared relationships that potential group members
have with the person who died, i.e. two or more people grieving the same suicide. Larger open
groups may find it easier to include more than one family member or person connected to the
person who died. It may be valuable for parents or siblings or adult children or spouses to have an
opportunity to discuss common reactions, emotions, coping techniques, etc.
In a closed group however, due consideration should be given to the potential for splits and
alliances which can undermine the support of group members and impede group bonding. Having
two group members who share a relationship to the person who died may be best avoided to
encourage greater freedom for individual expression and less complex group dynamics. However,
this may be difficult to put in place if the support group was the only form of support within the
area and ran on an open group basis. Also, two people who were related or connected could offer
mutual support or encouragement to attend. Such ‘paired recruitment’ can provide encouragement
to ‘debrief’ after the group and provide information about the grief process for other family
members. Refer Section 7.2 Family dynamics for further discussion on family members in groups.
It may be useful to have men meet as a small group at some meetings. Some differences in coping
styles between men and women have been identified in the research. Men often enjoy walking
groups, with its sense of purpose and walking shoulder to shoulder (as opposed to face to face
group setting).
It may be valuable to separate parent couples in small groups. This allows the individual parent to
discuss issues he/she may not feel comfortable to discuss in the presence of the other parent.
Children
Children do not usually benefit from support group meetings with older members. They may
become distraught or disruptive and adult members are not as willing to share and be open with
children present. Children or adolescent support groups, however, may be helpful. It is important
to find referrals to children’s programs that are available for these purposes. Refer to Section 11.1
Children and adolescents for more details.
The coordinator may also choose to make contact with group members who miss meetings.
An example of a card you may choose to send to members who miss two consecutive meetings is
provided in Appendix 7.
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4. Staffing
There will be a number of people, whether paid or volunteers, providing their time and assistance
to operate a successful support group. A designated coordinator is recommended to ensure that
the support group is planned and run to meet its aims and objectives. The coordinator can be the
contact point to field enquiries from potential members or community agencies making enquiries.
The coordinator may or may not be a support group facilitator and may or may not be paid.
In some communities, there may be a very small number of people involved in running the support
group. Facilitators are encouraged to join appropriate networks of support group facilitators so that
they may obtain support from other avenues. Refer to Section 13 Resources.
A support group should always have two or more facilitators to share the workload. This is because
the empathic involvement is demanding of a facilitator’s personal resources and the debriefing
of facilitators is imperative. At least two specifically trained and ‘skilled’ facilitators are highly
recommended in all support groups. If a facilitator is suicide bereaved, it is recommended that an
assessment process be undertaken to determine the person’s readiness to facilitate a SBSG and
their willingness to access additional support as necessary (refer Section 8 Staff and volunteers
self‑care ). It is suggested that a minimum of two years since the person died be considered before
an individual facilitates a group, although individual people will take different periods of time. Also
it is suggested that evidence of the potential facilitator’s integration of their own grief and self
awareness be sought.
It is good practice to develop a ratio of facilitators to members. Generally this would be 1 to 10 and
no less than 1 to 15. It is also recommended that there be at least 2 facilitators at each meeting
regardless of number of members, as a safety check for the individual facilitators and to be able
to adequately attend to group needs. For example, a larger group with a membership of 50 may
need five co‑facilitators, whereas a smaller group with a membership of 6 would still need two
co‑facilitators.
An example of selection criteria for a group facilitator is provided in Appendix 8. It is important that
facilitators demonstrate that they meet the minimum requirements, because the guiding principle
“Above all, do no harm” must be adhered to. Well meaning or keen volunteers may not understand
this and may need to be directed to the roles that are most suited and address safety concerns.
The “Above all, do no harm” principle is not an excuse to abrogate duty and do nothing, but to be
aware of the potential and actual impact of one’s actions and behaviours. These factors can be
addressed by carefully selecting and training facilitators. It is suggested that the selection process
include a ‘checking for fit’ similar to that established for SBSG members (refer to Section 3.1.4
Recruiting members and interviewing/checking for fit).
It is strongly recommended that Facilitators have received training in order to be able to best
support those bereaved by suicide attending the group (see Section 13.2 in the Resources section
for further information). SBSGs are demanding and challenging to facilitate. Concentration and
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sensitivity to the extreme pain and confusion being expressed must be maintained and managed
with a view to safety for all participants. It is not a job for the faint-hearted or novice facilitator.
Experience, compassion, knowledge, and training are basic requirements for effective facilitation.
It is common for those bereaved by suicide to express their own suicidal thoughts and feelings.
Given the elevated suicide risk for SBSG members, facilitators should have training and experience
with suicidality. Facilitators should be comfortable to speak about suicide and regularly and
openly monitor the risk of all group members. See Section 6.5 Risk & Crisis Management for
further discussion.
The coordinator may also be a support group facilitator, although they may not be the lead
facilitator at any particular support group meeting.
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Staffing
In a co‑facilitation arrangement, the relationship between the leaders has a very important
modelling function. This may include promoting a sense of safety and security within the group.
For this reason, it is important that the roles and tasks between the facilitators are clearly defined.
Each facilitator will bring different skills and experience to the group. It is important that the
facilitators function in a complementary style, each taking responsibility in particular areas of the
group process.
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5. The SBSG Meeting
5.1 Meeting place
5.1.1 Venue
Selecting a venue that is located in the community, which is easily accessible, can help to break
down stigma and to raise the awareness of suicide bereavement as a community issue. Factors
such as central location, ease of transportation and parking are also important.
Community centres and other community facilities can often be used free-of-charge or at a
low cost.
Meetings in a work-setting or neutral setting provides credibility, and with respect to open groups,
these settings cater best for the ongoing nature of such groups, as opposed to meeting in people’s
homes which can compromise effective group process. Meeting in a community setting may
provide a dual benefit by showing that suicide is a community issue and should not be hidden away.
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Some groups like to have a focused ‘topic’ for each meeting, either pre‑designated or suggested
by group members (e.g. ‘Guilt’, ‘Dealing with holidays’, etc.). Some things to keep in mind when
considering using a designated topic in support groups include:
A topic can encourage group members to see other perspectives and views, for example, integration
and hope
A generalised topic or issue can be used after a long, ‘awkward’ silence to get the group verbally
engaged again
The topic may dominate the time which could otherwise be used in group sharing time
The mutual support component in a psycho-educational support group allows members to talk
about whatever they feel the need to discuss. The role of the facilitator is to create a supportive
atmosphere for sharing. Those members who wish to talk should have a chance to share and,
similarly, there should not be undue pressure placed on members who did not wish to talk at
that time.
An example of a format for a two hour psycho-educational group is as follows: (NSW Dept of
Forensic Medicine, SAS Group, used with permission)
• welcome, self‑introduction of facilitators, outline of format for meeting
• the group ground rules as developed by the group are read
• news or other items of a general nature
• the group is opened with an opportunity for each member to introduce themself and their
person who died
• reading of a poem and an invitation to spend a minute in reflection as a way of honouring the
memory of the persons who died is made
• a short talk relating to a prepared, specific topic or issue is held (refer to Appendix 4 for ideas on
topics for discussion)
• the group (if large) is broken into small groups of about 6 to 8 people
• small groups discuss and share — perhaps on the issue at hand and/or other pressing concerns,
an opportunity to share grief, coping strategies, struggles and even humour and positive times
• the group reconvenes for informal sharing about key insights from small groups
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• the facilitator asks members to reflect on ‘what the group has been like for them tonight’ to
assist members to move from emotions to thoughts — this sometimes elicits contributions from
members who have not previously shared. It also addresses safety concerns and encourages
members to be present while they travel home.
• the group is closed formally on a positive note
• members are reminded that sometimes they may feel worse after a group and that this is normal.
The group has given them an opportunity to go to places they may not normally go. This can
bring up strong feelings and is a normal part of the grieving process. Members are encouraged
not to let this dishearten them and to return for future meetings.
• members are invited to stay and talk over tea/coffee.
Support group times may vary, particularly with an open group, and often extended social
interaction may occur. It is important that the group facilitator gives clear advice about timing
available for social interaction.
Mutual-help support groups may last for one to two hours, depending on the number of members,
their needs, and other social activities which may be included or available e.g. coffee/meals.
The above segments are detailed below: (Stebbins, 2000; Archibald, 2003 & 2005)
Welcome
The Welcome segment is an informal ‘transition’ period that allows people to move into the support
group and leave the ‘outside’ world behind. This segment may include:
• having tea and coffee available
• assisting new members to pair up with other members so that they feel they know at least one
other person
• completing administrative aspects such as writing name tags and recording attendance and
contact details on arrival.
Depending on size and nature of group, this segment may last around 15 to 20 minutes.
Formal sharing
This segment is a more formal part of the meeting. The group meeting commences. This segment
may include:
• welcoming of members, new members may be welcomed by name
• reading a poem or short recital may help focus the group
• stating the purpose of the meeting, to give and receive comfort for the loss and grief resulting
from the suicide of someone loved. This reaffirms the worth of the one who has died and the
worth of the bereaved and allows members to recognise that externalising emotions and feelings
is necessary and healthy
• outlining/reiterating the ground rules (see Section 5.4 Setting ground rules )
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• facilitating introductions around the group, with each person introducing their name, the name
of the person who died, and how long ago (at the discretion of the facilitator depending on the
group, for example, in a small closed group this may not be necessary after the first meeting)
• providing a short input time to help members settle into the group. Input might consist of
discussing grief, stigma, support of families and friends, ideas and strategies for building hope
• sharing of stories by members and discussing the issues and grief they are experiencing.
It can be useful to do this by systematically going round the group or you may choose to invite
members to randomly share as they choose as this reduces the pressure of expectation and
reminds members that silence is OK. To start this, model the process as well as to model
integration and resilience, one of the facilitators might begin by briefly introducing themself and
share some aspect of their experience. During this main part of the meeting, the facilitator invites
people to share, for example, ‘How have things been? How are you coping at the moment?
What issues are you facing?’ Special days and events may require attention. The discussion and
sharing may focus on approaching anniversaries, Christmas, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, other
significant experiences, etc.
• acknowledgement and validation of issues and topics that arise during the sharing by members.
In this segment there is:
— a reflective sharing of what has worked for group members and how others could use this skill
— a normalising response which acts to reassure members that their experiences are normal.
— (for large groups) discussion in small groups where those with similar experiences may
gravitate together
• before moving to the close, there may be announcements such as the date of the next meeting,
special events such as seminars or memorials, requests for volunteers to help with sending out
newsletters, etc.
• closing the formal part of the meeting may include summarising the main points that have been
expressed, reinforcing the support of each other, and acknowledging the courage of everyone,
particularly the new members. The facilitator lets people know that they may feel tired and even
down over the next day or two, and that their continuing participation may likely bring longer‑term
benefits. Finally, the facilitator might close with a short poem or reading.
As this segment closes, it is important to check the wellbeing and safety of the members, including
the ability to drive if appropriate. The facilitator may identify members who would benefit from a
follow‑up phone call after the group and discuss this with co‑facilitators.
This segment also provides a transition back to the ‘outside world’. This segment may take about
15 to 30 minutes. The facilitator will need to be aware of booking times for the venue and if there is
continuing availability of the venue.
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As well as planning for the way the meeting will be facilitated (see Section 6 Facilitating the
group ), the leader or coordinator of the support group will need to consider a number of factors in
planning for a meeting:
• ensuring there are adequate facilitators available for the meeting (refer Section 4 Staffing )
• preparing the topic or information session (if applicable)
• clarifying meeting procedures and meeting resources with all facilitators
• discussing any personal issues that may have arisen that may interfere with facilitator
support roles.
Note: Consider having a ‘materials box’ with a checklist of the materials required attached to
the outside.
Maintaining a register of members is also a good idea so that you have necessary details in a
crisis situation or where concern for a member may necessitate contact. A precaution is that
membership details are confidential. Members may access their own details occasionally to update;
however, the membership register should not be an open document. Groups should be aware of
privacy principles (Refer Section 3.1.3 Duty of care; Code of ethics; Confidentiality ).
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be within driving distance. Some group members may seek to attend other meetings for support
between your group’s meetings. It is important to keep to the nominated schedule as people may
retain information (e.g. a flyer) and access the group at a later point in time.
Ground rules help to create a sense of safety and boundaries for group members. Knowing that the
facilitator will encourage other members to adhere to these agreed upon rules may help members
feel safe to share. For example, at the beginning of the meeting the facilitator may reiterate that
one of the group’s aims is to give everyone who wants to, an opportunity to share. Given this,
as facilitator, he/she may request permission to interrupt and move the conversation along if
necessary. Setting clear boundaries in this way may assist in the smooth running of a group and
contributes to developing a safe environment for group members.
A system for borrowing may be required. For instance, a log or card index files.
Anniversary cards may be a service provided to acknowledge the importance of the anniversary
of the person’s death. The card helps to validate the sense of loss that the bereaved person feels.
If anniversary cards are sent, the support group will need to consider how long they will continue
this practice.
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Another idea is to provide members with the phone number(s) of a volunteer member(s) who is
experienced and willing to provide between meeting support. The facilitator may develop such a
contact list.
Facilitators should be clear from the beginning of a group about how they will provide or not
provide between meeting support and under what circumstances. They will also consider how to
provide appropriate referrals for between meeting support for individual members with greater
needs as well as how to encourage further help-seeking by members where needed.
The coordinator or facilitator may need to develop such a directory or gain access to online
directories, such as the Lifeline Service Finder www.lifeline.org.au/find_help/service_finder.
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6. Facilitating the group
A SBSG facilitator uses their skills and knowledge to facilitate the group in the support process
and to encourage members to develop between meeting contacts. The facilitator assists group
members to develop their own ways of working collaboratively and to advance ideas to support
everyday functioning. Facilitators listen, encourage and support discussion, and help the group stay
on task. The job of a facilitator may look easy but experienced facilitators know that this is not the
case. While an effective facilitator uses their facilitation and communication skills to lead the group,
they do not monopolise the discussion. They are comfortable with silence; they know how to gently
encourage a member, as well as how to manage a dominating member.
A facilitator doesn’t:
• believe that the group is ‘their’ group — group members need to feel that they have some
ownership of the group
• dominate discussion
• dictate what the group will discuss
• lead members to have unrealistic expectations of the group
• attempt to run a therapy group (unless fully trained and the group purpose is clearly identified as
a therapy group)
• breach confidentiality.
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• get together after meetings to discuss issues what arose during the meeting and allow time
to debrief
• discuss differences, problems and tensions with each other (where needed).
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Dominating members: work to ensure those who wish to contribute have the space
Some suicide bereaved people, when they feel the relief of speaking about what happened, may
begin to dominate the discussion. Generally those dominating will need to be interrupted, except
perhaps someone who is newly bereaved who is being given an opportunity to ventilate feelings
at length. When necessary to interrupt a person you may say ‘We wish there was time for you to
share more with us, but I know you understand that others need to share as well.’ Or ‘We have
20 minutes to share … we have 10 minutes left and I’m concerned that other people get to share.’
When parameters are established as part of ground rules (refer Section 5.4 Setting ground rules ),
boundaries may be more easily managed. Another strategy is to encourage those members who
might model useful sharing.
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Swearing
There are times during sharing when expletives seem the only way of expressing the intensity of
feeling for some members. However, swearing may be offensive to others, may damage the dignity
and for these reasons, should be discouraged in meetings. Such challenges may be addressed in
formulating the group rules.
Finishing positively
Finishing on a positive note, or with a good feeling, is desirable. Ask participants to share a positive
occurrence in their life or what they have got out of the meeting; or summarise some of the key
points made earlier about resilience and hope; or use a poem or inspirational reading.
It is beyond the scope of these guidelines to expand on communication skills. Needless to say that
working with those bereaved by suicide can be challenging and an active process as they clarify
and confront painful emotions, explore confused thinking and find unhelpful patterns of coping.
A key aspect that facilitators need to monitor is self‑disclosure. Disclosing their own learnings too
early may be problematic. Although many group members report that the support group is a place
where they can find true understanding, a facilitator must allow members to go through their own
journey. Finding the balance is important. Sharing of similar experiences will help to offer hope and
assist people in finding resilience.
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For example, silence may be an indicator of different things. It may indicate people are thinking
hard about a particular issue. It may indicate a lack of trust or a level of anxiety. It may indicate
that the group doesn’t understand or that there are a lot of quiet people in the group. Observing
the group dynamics will help the facilitator to identify the cause and therefore develop an
appropriate solution.
When observing the group dynamics a facilitator may acquire information about:
• levels of trust
• patterns of communication
• levels of interaction
• body language
• roles and relationships
• patterns of dominance
• patterns of influence
• level of group effectiveness.
Generally, a group proceeds through a series of stages before it becomes effective and achieves
its goals. One theory widely acknowledged is Tuckman’s (1977) Stages of Group Development
which identified four key stages:
Forming — groups begin as members get to know one another, come together and get clear about
why they are there.
Storming — group members might have different ideas about things such as how the group should
operate, its objectives and what should be covered. These differences might cause conflict with
one another.
Norming — as issues get resolved and the conflict subsides, members generally establish
agreements on roles, guidelines, objectives and operating norms.
Performing — the group is able to complete the work they aim to achieve.
A suggested further stage is that of Adjourning where group members reach mutually agreed
conclusions, thereby allowing the celebration of progress and sharing experiences including
planning for “what next”.
These stages may take different amounts of time to proceed through, and generally occur for most
groups to some extent. An open group with a changing membership may proceed differently to a
closed group where members are more consistent. Having an understanding of these stages will
help the facilitator to understand what is happening in the group. For instance, some groups may
need assistance in moving through certain stages. By developing ground rules with the group, the
facilitator is helping the group to establish operating norms.
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In a crisis situation, the group facilitators are responsible for working with a group member who
requires immediate crisis intervention. Crisis intervention should be provided in a location separate
to the main meeting.
In a situation where a group member or co‑facilitator is struggling with thoughts and feelings about
suicide or some other life threatening behaviour, implement the following strategies:
• acknowledge the member’s feelings. Express concern
• take the member aside — ask co‑facilitator or experienced member to continue running
the group
• have a list of emergency contact numbers
• undertake a risk review, e.g. ask the member whether they have a specific plan
• get help. Try to identify a trusted person (ask the member whom they trust such as a family
member, friend or health professional) and offer to contact that person (you may use a third
party contact from the sign on sheet — see Section 5.3 Planning and preparing for a meeting )
• don’t leave the member alone until you’re sure that he/she is in the hands of another
responsible person
• if the member doesn’t want anyone, explain your concern and that you will have to contact the
mental health crisis team or another professional
A crisis situation, particularly talk of suicide or self harm, will impact on other members in the
group. Once the immediate crisis is over, set aside some time to talk about the group members’
feelings and thoughts in relation to the incident and let them know what action was taken to handle
the person’s distress or crisis.
Crisis situations may also be stressful and upsetting for the facilitator. It is highly recommended that
the facilitator debrief with someone about the incident (see Section 8.2 Pre‑briefing, defusing and
debriefing of facilitators ).
Support group facilitators may find it useful to complete the LivingWorks Education
Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) course which gives practical
awareness and skills for identification of a person at risk of suicide and for intervention.
See www.lifeline.org.au/learn_more/livingworks for further information.
In an open group many members will self‑select out of the group within a period of time, this
may vary from a few months to a few years following the person’s death. Members may attend
just one or two meetings while others may attend regularly for years. It may be useful to have a
strategy developed so that it is clear to the member leaving and the remaining members what
the circumstances are. For example, it may be very concerning for regular members to have a
fellow regular member not attending in which case having a mechanism of clarifying the situation
may allay anxiety for remaining members. Most people will know when they feel the need to stop
attending the group, however, a facilitator could check with longer‑term members to see whether
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the group is of continuing relevance to them — some people keep attending a group as a regular
commitment without self‑reviewing whether they need the continuing support. Further, services
such as anniversary cards and newsletters may also no longer be relevant. Group members could
be asked for their preferences.
Some people may find comfort in being able to return to the support group at a time when their
needs change as issues ‘reignite’ their grief and bereavement. Facilitators will need to have entry,
exit and re‑entry strategies in place to meet members’ needs as they change over time.
Over time some group members may become interested in assisting the group in a more formal
role. Strategies to help train volunteers to move into helping roles may be needed. Some support
groups have interested helpers move into ‘trainee’ roles as they learn the skills of group facilitation
or group co‑ordination.
Over time some groups may gravitate towards being more of a social group than a support group.
Facilitators need to be aware of this possibility, and develop a clear exit strategy for the facilitator
when the group moves in this direction. A social group has different requirements than a support
group. For example, a facilitator is not required, nor an auspicing agency.
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7. Handling difficult, challenging or
sensitive situations
Section 6 Facilitating the group has already introduced typical situations that a facilitator may
encounter. Facilitators may find that they come across a range of difficult and/or challenging
situations in support groups. Generally the tools facilitators may use include:
• conflict resolution strategies
• referral to other services
• exclusion strategies where needed.
Where family dynamics become problematic in a group, such as one member verbally attacking
another member, the facilitator may need to interrupt counter-productive behaviour. This may be
required for safety reasons, to protect the family members as well as the other group members.
The facilitator may need to refer back to the ground rules (refer Section 5.4 Setting ground rules )
relating to non‑judgemental behaviour. The facilitator may also need to normalise the potential
anxiety around the negative feelings that the family member has been having, such as the anger,
or frustration, for guilt. For example, the facilitator may say something like “Many of us have had
these feelings…” or “Angry feelings are normal. It’s ok to talk about them but we need to respect
each other.”
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8. Staff and volunteers self‑care
Facilitating a support group can be very rewarding, however, it may also be stressful both physically
and emotionally at times. It is essential that facilitators have access to regular supervision
and debriefing processes. This will enhance the potential for facilitators to provide effective
bereavement support in an environment of sometimes intense emotions and ensure that they can
continue to do so for a period of time. The capacity of facilitators to model a level of stability during
meetings may be strengthened or even determined by the level of their own support. Self‑care
strategies for group members must also be modelled by facilitators.
Some ideas on looking after facilitators’ own health and well being are:
• proper nutrition, sleep and exercise
• follow debriefing guidelines
• reflect on the positive things that happen in the group, not just the negative
• ask group members for feedback — they will often be less critical than yourself
• share your feelings and thoughts with other facilitators
• take time out from the group if you need it
• recognise your own limits and boundaries.
It is also important to ensure that there are sufficient facilitators for the support group.
As well as support from other facilitators within your support group, you may look for support from
other avenues such as:
• facilitators from other support groups — join a network of group facilitators
• suicide Prevention Australia
• American Foundation for Suicide Prevention’s network of facilitator support www.afsp.org
• community health organisations.
Facilitators listen, support and validate the feelings and the experiences of group members. They
offer the opportunity to let go of some of the burden. As witnesses, facilitators can’t help but take in
some of the emotional pain.
Recognising that it is “normal” to be affected by this type of work is the most important coping skill
that you can give yourself. Each person will be affected by the trauma in some way.
Facilitators must find a healthy balance to cope with the effects of vicarious trauma in their personal
and professional lives. They must also take care to avoid the repeated invasion of the trauma into
their lives. They must know the warning signs when the work is consuming their thoughts, workday,
or personal life.
In summary, as professionals and volunteers in the helping field, facilitators must recognise their
vulnerability to exposure to trauma. They must recognise the warning signs and be prepared to care
for their own needs to cope with vicarious trauma.
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Staff and volunteers self‑care
This assessment tool provides an overview of effective strategies to maintain self‑care. After
completing the full assessment, it is recommended that you choose one item from each area that
you will actively work to improve.
The pre‑briefing session may take 20 minutes to 1 hour and generally occurs immediately before
the group meeting.
The operational debriefing session after the group has been held, may take between 30 minutes to
2 hours. It is suggested, if possible, to conduct the debriefing session on the same day the group
is run or as soon as possible afterwards. The following may be included in the de‑briefing session
(Stebbins, J & S, 2000):
• ask each person how they feel
• ask each person for their reactions and impressions of the meeting
• discuss members who attended, and discuss members with particular concerns
• provide constructive feedback to each other
• allocate new member follow‑ups
• confirm dates and details for the next meeting
• discuss any other tasks to be carried out.
Defusing
Defusing is the process of allowing the facilitators to talk about their thoughts, feelings, reactions
and responses following a highly stressful event which may have occurred before, during or after
running a group. Defusing can be either a one-on‑one or group process and should be conducted
by the coordinator or a senior supervisory manager. If a defusing is deemed necessary, this would
take priority over the debriefing which would be rescheduled.
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9. The role of supervision in
SBSG facilitation
9.1 Introduction
Supervision is a process of care and support delivered by a trained supervisor for facilitators
running SBSGs. Supervision involves aspects of support, accountability, education, case
presentation and debriefing. An auspicing agency may provide supervision services for group
facilitators. These services may be internally or externally sourced.
Providing care and support for suicide bereaved people may be highly rewarding, however it may
also elicit emotional reactions, tiredness and stress for those in the support role. Facilitators of
SBSGs are strongly encouraged to avail themselves of regular supervision for the duration of their
facilitation of group meetings. Supervision may also be accessed before a group starts and/or
when a group has ended.
The supportive element of supervision helps to deal with role-related stress, and optimises
motivation and morale through the ability to share ideas, acknowledge and challenge negative
thinking, and allowing the growth of self‑awareness (The Australian Association of Social Workers,
2000). Supportive supervision could also encompass communicating confidence in the individual
by the supervisor; validating their decisions where appropriate (Todd & O’Connor, 2005), and
acknowledging their contribution to the organisation and developmental goals reached.
The administrative element of supervision incorporates the promotion and maintenance of good
standards of practice whereby conduct is guided by policy and practice.
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The role of supervision in SBSG facilitation
• allow bonding and enhancement of group dynamics for each group of facilitators
• discuss and gain information about theories and models of group practice and bereavement
work as needed
• discuss strategies for dealing with group issues and stressors for facilitators.
It is important for facilitators to attend to their own process in supervision so that they do not
collude to block the expression of feeling or to engage in unhelpful avoidance during group
meetings. Facilitators need to ensure that they maintain a fine balance between managing
confrontation and containment of pain during group meetings. Fostering a supportive relationship
and ensuring safety are central to facilitators working in SBSGs. In supervision the facilitator may
find it helpful to explore and discuss:
• thoughts and feelings about the role
• relationships with other facilitators and staff as well as group members
• constructive and clear feedback and support
• grief and bereavement themes
• refinement of skills
• identification of paralleling experiences
• reflections on self-care strategies.
In SBSGs many and varied situations can arise that require reflecting on and sharing with
someone outside the immediate situation. Supervision may be one on one, paired or small group.
Consideration of the following guideline may be helpful:
• 1 to 1.5 hours of supervision for every group meeting (one on one), or
• 2 hours for small group supervision for each group meeting.
The supervisor may be within the auspicing body or may be from an external agency/organisation.
Generally, supervisors qualified to provide this service would be counsellors, psychologists, social
workers, bereavement/grief workers or pastoral carers. A fee for service may be required. This
can be seen as an investment in facilitator well‑being, personal and professional development,
sustainability and in meeting occupational health and safety requirements. Choosing a supervisor
who is well qualified, experienced and respected is important. You may have a session or two to
see if the ’fit’ is good for connection and developing an appropriate relationship.
Organisations may like to consider the benefit of providing external supervision which can enable
a more objective setting for facilitators to process issues. Consideration may also be given to
individual and/or group supervision to encourage facilitators to process their own personal issues
relating to their facilitation as well as give an opportunity to nurture and process teamwork issues.
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All issues arising in supervision are confidential (unless legal obligations require
mandatory disclosure).
Facilitators are encouraged to discuss operational/organisational issues that may be disclosed with
their operational manager where agreed.
Facilitators first discuss with the supervisor any issues directly relating to supervision
where necessary.
When using group supervision, each facilitator is encouraged to speak in turn and listen when
others are speaking and the supervisor will encourage equitable time for each person, depending
on the issues under discussion.
The facilitator(s) take responsibility for identifying issues for discussion in supervision sessions.
The supervisor will usually keep brief notes on each supervision session to facilitate discussions in
subsequent supervision sessions and to ensure accurate (de‑identified) reporting where reporting
is required.
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10. Ongoing operations
10.1 Sustainability
The support group sustainability requires a cohesive and dedicated team. It also depends on the
cohesiveness and support gained by the group members. Involving members in responsibility for
group operation such as meeting set up, small group leadership, refreshment duty and between
meeting support may create greater ownership of the group.
Facilitator burn out is probably the greatest risk to the continuation of a support group. The
support group should have a minimum of two facilitators so that responsibility and commitment are
shared. In addition the support group should be aware of the need for succession and be aware of
potential future facilitators.
The following useful ideas are from “Support Group Leader Tips and Hints for a Long-Lasting
Group” (Archibald, 2005)
• the support group leader is not responsible for healing that does or does not take place within a
meeting. Most suicide bereavement support groups are mutual support and the healing force is
the sharing and reinforcement exchanged among group members.
• the leader/facilitator is the group’s verbal traffic director. The leader directs the flow of
the meeting, encourages new attendees to feel safe and comfortable with sharing by
following the example of veteran participants who speak openly of what happened and their
coping mechanisms.
• name tags allow group members to direct personal responses to one another and the leader to
address new attendees by name.
• the leader needs to be suicide-informed, enabling him or her to interject facts confronting guilt,
blaming and misconceptions about people bereaved through suicide, as well as conduct suicide
risk assessment when required.
• silence may strike panic in the heart of a leader — the awkward time during meetings when
no‑one speaks. Silence serves a purpose — while one member may be struggling for the
courage to finally speak, another may be searching for the words to share his or her feelings.
Silence is not to be feared, it is a time of contemplation, reflection and absorption. Silence, too,
is a healing place.
• an effective leader identifies his or her loss but speaks sparingly of his or her own circumstances
except when it is relative to what is discussed during a meeting.
• co‑leadership allows one leader to occasionally be a group member where it is appropriate for
him or her to give voice to his or her grief. It also enables leaders to protect themselves against
burnout by taking a meeting off for a social event, go on holidays or just time to regenerate.
• support group leadership is a balancing act between caring greatly for the well‑being of others
and taking great care of the well‑being of oneself. One cannot provide nourishment to others
from an empty glass.
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A formal evaluation process on a regular basis may assist in measuring the effectiveness of the
support group against its stated aims and objectives. It can also be useful to determine if there
are things that need to be improved/changed. An evaluation may be undertaken using methods
such as:
• review of the support group against standards for good practice, undertaken by the staff or by an
external reviewer
• feedback survey asking members for their views and opinions — this survey may be targeted at
the support group itself or at specific services such as a newsletter
• focus group to gather qualitative information, ideas and suggestions for service improvement.
Evaluation may be conducted at the end of a closed (or time limited) group and annually for an
open (or ongoing) group.
Memorial quilts
Quilts are made with pictures of the persons who died.
Memorial gardens
A special area is set aside in a community facility, e.g. a public park, community centre, and tended
to by a group. Such memorials may serve to de‑stigmatize suicide and increase public awareness
as well as offer a place to remember lives lost by suicide.
Ceremonies
At many workshops and conferences, memorial ceremonies are held to remember the persons
who died.
Website Memorials
A number of websites exist to post photos and memorials about persons who died by suicide e.g.
www.affirm.org.au/pages/page51.asp
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Ongoing operations
The optimal size of telephone support groups is less than face-to-face groups due a lack of
visual clues, and perhaps only three or four members is appropriate. Prior posting of written
material (such as the agenda, names of participants, and topics for discussion) to support group
participants acts as a guide and contributes to time management. Some groups have found that
members of a telephone support group wanted sessions to last a longer time than was scheduled
and suggest that about two hours is optimal. Other groups have found that after one hour, ability
of both members and facilitators to continue concentration levels is limited. Facilitators need to be
flexible and innovative in their approach so that they can give members changes in pace (similar to
having a break in a face-to-face group).
Many issues that apply to face-to-face support groups also apply to online groups, including
whether the group should be open or closed; group membership recruitment and screening; the
role of the facilitator; adapting techniques to suit group phases; group ground rules; and adopting
ethical standards. Members of an online group may face similar issues as telephone groups such
as a loss in non‑verbal cues as well as a loss of verbal cues (for non video-conferencing methods).
Members need to be computer literate. There may be potential difficulties in developing trust due
to these factors. Some people find the anonymousness of online groups a positive feature. Group
leaders need to anticipate dynamics and issues specific to the online environment and manage
them as effectively as possible.
Online groups must be aware of the difficulties of this form of communication. Issues of internet
security and password access mean that privacy cannot be ensured. Information and advice
cannot be effectively tailored to individual situations and is therefore open to being misunderstood
and misconstrued. Online groups would be wise to contain disclaimers that privacy cannot be
guaranteed and that the information contained on the site does not constitute treatment and does
not replace professional advice.
William Feigelman (2008) in the USA is currently undertaking research investigating this form of
delivery of support groups and has been providing some useful insights into the appeal, value and
benefits provided by such groups.
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There is an Australian peer support internet community and email support group, Parents of
Suicide AUNZ (AUNZ-POS) for bereaved parents whose sons and daughter have suicided at
www.parentsofsuicide-aunz.com/. There is also a Family & Friends of Suicide (AUNZ-FFOS) branch.
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11. Specific populations
11.1 Children and adolescents
The needs of children in a family where a death by suicide occurs may be overlooked. A child may
be very frightened and confused when a death in the family occurs. Parents’ and caregivers’ natural
impulse is to protect children from the pain and discomfort. Central to helping children to cope and
adjust is the need to include children in the grieving process, to be open and honest to the extent
that they are able to comprehend, and to explore their knowledge and feelings on death and dying.
A review of research findings suggests that suicide bereaved children exhibit clinically significant
emotional distress, symptoms of anxiety, depression, trauma and difficulties with school and social
adjustment. Further, children continue to revisit the suicide death throughout their life as they
reprocess this event so it is important to provide early intervention and support to assist healthy
grief outcomes as the child develops (Sands 2007).
Adolescents’ grief reactions may differ markedly from those of adults and may often be
misinterpreted. Behavioural responses may be at either end of the scale from adopting a parent-like
role not typical of their age group to adopting the opposite stance and ‘acting out’ to gain attention
and assurance (WHO 2008).
Opportunities that are developmentally appropriate should be provided for children and
adolescents to process their grief. A specific children’s or adolescents’ group could provide a
setting for children/or adolescents to share their grief issues in an age appropriate way. Facilitation
of such groups would require specific expertise and skills.
Group interventions have been utilised successfully for a number of issues impacting children and
adolescents and a review of literature suggests that age appropriate groups are a more natural way
of intervening with bereaved children than counselling (WHO 2008).
Young people’s support groups have many similarities to adult groups. However, they also have
many differences. It is for this reason that due preparation is advised. An invaluable resource for
running children’s groups can be found in Dianne McKissock’s 2004 “Kids’ Grief — A Handbook for
Group Leaders”.
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Suicide is a relatively recent public health problem for ATSI communities and its impact has
followed an accumulation of devastating social health problems that are affecting mortality and
longevity. As for all cultures, suicide is a sensitive issue and any bereavement support services or
workers who wish to include or accommodate ATSI people should learn whether it adds value to
the support already being provided within the local indigenous community and whether proposed
services are appropriate for this community.
Contextual factors may predispose or amplify the experience and response to traumatic
experiences such as death by suicide. Due to the importance of extended kinship systems, a loss
is likely to be felt broadly throughout the kinship group, rather than confined to the immediate
nuclear family. That is, a person may have several mothers or be considered a mother to several
nieces/nephews/grandchildren and if this is not recognised, the intensity of the loss may be
underestimated. In addition, given the frequency of traumatic events in Indigenous communities,
a broader approach may be required. A further complication is that cultural practice may prevent
public acknowledgement or talking about people who have died.
ATSI people may want to go to the home of the person who has died. The family may go through
some traditions to make sure that the person’s spirit is shown respect and can find peace. This is
the responsibility of certain family members. This is often known as ‘sorry time’. After sorry time,
cultural practice prevents public acknowledgement or talking about people who have died.
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Specific populations
Some practical advice that may be relevant, appropriate and useful depending on regional cultural
norms may include (adapted from ACPMH, 2007):
• observe cultural norms including no direct eye contact
• do not refer to a dead person by name
• do not refer to certain close relatives by name (a Torres Strait Islander male may not refer to his
brother-in-law by name)
• do not criticize an elder or other member of the extended family
• be aware of confiding certain personal information to a member of the opposite sex as men’s
and women’s business are usually kept separate
• spiritual experiences are not necessarily hallucinations or delusions
• allow for reflection, periods of silence and any questions
• minimise the use of direct questions.
SBSGs that include Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people may consider involvement of ATSI
people in the staffing team, including involvement of ATSI people in planning and in facilitation of
the group. In particular, SBSGs may consider involving ATSI in discussions and planning regarding
local support services and allow them the opportunity to direct how those services might best meet
the needs of their people. Further, SBSGs may consider developing resources with the local ATSI
community in order to avoid the production of written material that is not useful or appropriate to
their needs.
A useful brochure Spiritual and Cultural Well-Being After a Suicide — for Indigenous Communities
(Queensland Health) is available (see Section 13.7.3)
An excellent reference is Colin Tatz’s book, Aboriginal Suicide is Different: A Portrait of Life and
Self‑Destruction (for full reference refer Appendix 16).
Other resources are identified in the list of resources in Section 13.7.3 Aboriginal and
Torres Strait Islander.
The culture’s rituals may not meet the needs of all individuals within the culture, and so it is
important to ask group members or potential members about how their culture deals with suicide,
how their cultural environment has helped or hindered their grief, and how much they identify with
their culture (McKissock, D & M, 2003). Don’t assume that all people from a particular culture
experience grief similarly. It is also important to ask the individual how they express their loss
outside their cultural environment.
Suicide is seen as a grave sin in some cultures and the family may be stigmatised from their
community and may feel that they have a mark of shame on them or they will inherit the condition.
This may be seen in some fundamentalist Muslim and Christian cultures where religion is a strong
factor in the culture.
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Suicide is seen as unacceptable in many different cultures and is difficult to talk about. Those
bereaved by suicide may find it hard to mourn due to the stigma of suicide in their community. The
bereaved may not seek support or help due to the overwhelming stigma and may find it difficult
to access support groups. It is important to involve community leaders and multicultural welfare
workers in the design, setting up and running of support groups and also to promote the groups in
their community.
In some cultures people are not viewed as individuals and their identity is expressed in relation
to their family. When there is a suicide in the family the entire family may feel their name has
been tainted in the community and that the suicide affects their standing in the community as
an individual.
Some cultures find it easy to speak on suicide and for others it is a taboo. Further, some Asian
cultures discourage the open display of emotions so it may be difficult to draw out these individuals
in a group setting.
It is important to identify if there is any sense of stigma experienced by the individual and how they
feel about discussing their feelings in a wider group. A first step may be to meet with the person
bereaved by suicide before attending the group and work towards making them feel welcome and
comfortable, and refer them to a community leader or multicultural worker for additional support.
Refer Section 13.7.4 Multicultural for contact details of Transcultural Mental Health Centres in each
state as these Centres can assist with support and information. It is also a good idea to keep a list
of community leaders and multicultural welfare workers as part of your resources.
Facilitators will also need to be patient and accept the cultural differences of each individual.
Try to avoid jumping to conclusions and forming stereotypes, as much will depend on how far the
individual identifies with their culture. Facilitators can acknowledge their limitations and differences
and try to convey a desire to learn about customs to be able to more effectively offer support.
Refugees and asylum seekers have often been exposed to the following experiences, and may
need referral to more specialised services:
• trauma (experienced or witnessed violent and tragic situations where their lives have been
threatened or people have been killed)
• loss (of family friends and relatives, possessions, livelihood, country, status, etc.)
• deprivation (of food, water, shelter, education and medical attention).
They may be already traumatised from their life experiences in addition to their experiences of grief
and loss from suicide. Additional complex factors such as language, cultural, socio-political and
community issues are also involved and facilitators may feel overwhelmed with these complexities.
However, genuine interest and respect are the most effective tools for building trust and a
supportive relationship (adapted from ACPMH, 2007). A respected leader in the community may be
able to assist in identifying issues, developing strategies and supporting potential group members.
Further, groups that include CALD members may consider involvement of CALD leaders in the
facilitation team as the level at which a person identifies with their culture may impact their needs.
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12. Other options to meet needs in
the community
Not all people bereaved by suicide will seek support from a group. Some people may attend one
meeting and not return. Some may attend once or twice and then choose to return at a later stage.
Some may find that the pain expressed during the group magnifies their own grief and leaves them
feeling vulnerable. Each individual will have different needs.
Refer to Section 10.4 Telephone groups and Section 10.5 On-line groups about these latter types
of groups.
Some people may wish to have a permanent memorial space for their persons who died such as
a garden in a community park or a memorial plaque in an area operated by a funeral home. Other
people attend memorial ceremonies on World Suicide Prevention Day — 10 September. Some
people find memorial websites a good way to remember their person who died.
There is a caution that may need consideration for physical memorial sites in public places due to
the possibility of the ‘contagion’ factor.
Some people bereaved by suicide may need support during the coronial processes. Each state
and territory has differing coronial processes. Details of each state’s processes will be found on
the relevant websites (see details at Section 13.6 State/Territory Coroner’s Office or Court). An
information flyer on the process in one state is provided at Appendix 14.
Members of particular cultural groups may have special needs that groups may be able to meet.
Section 11.3 Culturally and linguistically diverse (CALD) peoples including refugees and asylum
seekers explores this further.
12.1 Newsletters
Regular newsletters may offer support and validation to group members and non‑group members
alike. Newsletters may be sent to:
• currently active members
• people who no longer attend and wish to remain on the mailing list
• people in rural and remote areas, and
• people who cannot access the group.
Editing and publishing a newsletter is a time-consuming task and may be expensive. Ways
to reduce cost may be through email distribution wherever possible or perhaps by seeking
sponsorship such as a printing or funeral company.
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Group members may be invited to contribute to editing, preparing and distributing newsletters.
Material may come from other newsletters, from poems or books or other publications, with
permission from the author to reprint in the newsletter.
It is important to ensure that privacy of group members is maintained. For example, the names
and addresses of newsletter recipients should not be accessible to group members other than the
group facilitator.
Newsletters may be an excellent way to connect the community of bereaved people living in rural
and remote regions. Just receiving a quarterly newsletter, for example, may give an individual a
sense of shared experience, of connectedness and belonging, of not being alone and may provide
hope. Knowing that a group exists may provide a level of comfort and security.
An example of a SBSG newsletter (NSW Dept of Forensic Medicine) is provided in Appendix 13 and
others are listed in the Section 13.7.5.
Many suicide bereavement support organizations provide Newsletters to support the bereaved
however they are often only available via a contact list mail out (or email list) rather than openly
available on the internet.
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13. Resources
Listed below are some resources which may be useful to those facilitating Suicide Bereavement
Support Groups.
Eric Trezise undated, “One step at a time” Training Manual for an Eight-Week Recovery Workshop &
Individual Client Counselling for the Bereaved by Suicide, PO Box 6114, Kincumber NSW 2251
Linda Flatt 2008, The Basics: Facilitating a Suicide Survivors Support Group SPAN USA National
Advisory Council www.spanusa.org/files/General_Documents/The_Basics_Facilitator_Guide.pdf
World Health Organization 2008, Preventing Suicide: How to Start a Survivors’ Group,
http://www.who.int/mental_health/prevention/suicide/resource_survivors.pdf
LaRita Archibald 2003, Heartbeat Survivors after Suicide, Groups of Mutual Support, Leaders
Guide heartbeatsurvivorsaftersuicide.org/docs/guidelines.doc
Dianne & Mal McKissock 2008 Joining Forces — Leading support groups for bereaved adults,
The Bereavement C.A.R.E. Centre, Wyong, Australia
www.bereavementcare.com.au/books/joining_forces.htm
Healing after suicide: the legacy of suicide: support groups for the bereaved/Lyn Bender for
Lifeline Melbourne and The Victorian State Coroner’s Office, 1999
“Effective Grief & Bereavement Support — The role of family, friends, colleagues, schools and
support professionals” 2008 Kari & Atle Dyregrov. Jessica Kingley Publishers, London
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Geldard, D & K 2005, Basic Personal Counselling: A Training Manual for Counsellors 5th ed.,
Pearson Education, Sydney
13.4 Children
Supporting children after suicide … information for parents and other caregivers,
South Western Sydney Area Health Service, 2002,
www.health.nsw.gov.au/pubs/2002/pdf/supporting_children_.pdf
Guidelines for supporting children and young people bereaved by suicide — help sheets — Jesuit
Social Services, Support After Suicide www.supportaftersuicide.org.au
Winston’s Wish website www.winstonswish.org.uk/ For grieving children and their families
The Dougy Center www.dougy.org/ For grieving children and their families, USA
Skylight www.skylight.org.nz/ NZ site offering support to children, young people and their families
through change, loss, trauma and grief.
Mitchell, AM, Wesner, S, Brownson, L, Dysart-Gale, D, Garand, L & Havill, A 2006, ‘Effective
communication with bereaved child survivors of suicide’, Journal of Child and Adolescent
Psychiatric Nursing, Vol.19, No.3, pp.130–136
Mitchell, AM, Wesner, S, Garand, L, Dysart-Gale, D, Havill, A & Brownson, L 2007, ‘A support group
intervention for children bereaved by parental suicide’, Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychiatric
Nursing, Vol.20, No.1, pp.3–13
Working with Children in Groups, Kathryn & David Geldard, 2001, Palgrave Macmillan, London
www.geldard.com.au/working_with_children_in_groups.htm
Telling Children About Suicide, Centre for Suicide Prevention, Calgary, Canada:
www.suicideinfo.ca/csp/assets/alert22.pdf
School based resource developed by MindMatters (Mental health & wellbeing in schools)
relating to Loss & Grief
www.mindmatters.edu.au/resources_and_downloads/mindmatters/loss_and_grief.html
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Resources
Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement www.grief.org.au. A comprehensive list of online
Grief & Loss sites can be found within this website at: www.grief.org.au/internetl.html
Victoria — www.nalagvic.org.au
NSW — www.nalag.org.au
SA — www.grieflink.asn.au/nalagmember.html
Grief Counselling Resource Guide — A Field Manual, Wheeler-Roy & Amyot, New York, 2004
www.omh.state.ny.us/omhweb/grief/
NSW — www.lawlink.nsw.gov.au/lawlink/coroners_court/ll_coroners.nsf/pages/coroners_index
Queensland — www.courts.qld.gov.au/129.htm
Tasmania — www.magistratescourt.tas.gov.au/divisions/coronial/coronial_procedures
Victoria — www.coronerscourt.vic.gov.au/wps/wcm/connect/Coroners+Court/Home/
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13.7.1 General
Auseinet (Australian Network for www.auseinet.com (08) 8201 7670
Promotion, Prevention and Early
Intervention for Mental Health)
Australian Bureau of Statistics www.abs.gov.au 1300 135 070
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Resources
Spiritual and Cultural Well-Being After a Suicide — for Indigenous Communities brochure
(Queensland Health)
www.anglicare‑sa.org.au/services/Spiritual%20and%20Cultural%20Wellbeing%20brochure.pdf
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Healing your Spirit, Surviving After the Suicide of a Loved One.2006 Calgary, Canada
www.calgaryhealthregion.ca/programs/mhpip/healingyourspirit.htm
Aboriginal People Working Together to Prevent Suicide and Self Harm — A booklet for family and
friends concerned about someone who is at risk
www.mcsp.org.au/files/user2/workingtogether.pdf
13.7.4 Multicultural
ACT Transcultural Mental Health Phone: (02) 6205 1178
Network
Migrant Health Service, Adelaide Phone: (08) 8237 3900
Multicultural Mental Health www.mmha.org.au Phone: (02) 9840 3333
Australia (MMHA)
NSW Transcultural Mental www.dhi.gov.au/tmhc Phone: (02) 9840 3800
Health Centre
Queensland Transcultural Mental www.health.qld.gov.au/pahospital/ Phone: (07) 3240 2833
Health Centre qtmhc/default.asp
Tasmanian Transcultural Mental Phone: (03) 6332 2200
Health Network
Victorian Transcultural www.vtpu.org.au Phone: (03) 9288 3300
Psychiatry Unit
West Australian Transcultural www.mmha.org.au/watmhc Phone: (08) 9224 1760
Mental Health Centre
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Resources
13.7.5 Newsletters
ARBOR News
Ministerial Council for Suicide Prevention, WA
www.mcsp.org.au/arbor/resources
Surviving Suicide
American Association of Suicidology
www.suicidology.org
Lifesavers
The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
www.afsp.org
The Journey
The Link Counseling Center
Atlanta, GA , USA
www.thelink.org
Comforting Friends
Friends for Survival, Inc.
Sacramento, CA, USA
www.friendsforsurvival.org
Solace Newsletter
Survivors of Suicide Support Group
Alachua County Crisis Center, Florida, USA
www.alachuacounty.us/government/depts/css/crisis/sos.aspx
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Care and support pack for families and friends bereaved by suicide (NSW) Centre for
Mental Health, NSW Health Dept, Australia, 1999.
www.health.nsw.gov.au/pubs/2007/care_support_pack.html
South Australian Suicide Postvention Project: summary of recommendations, Auseinetter, Issue 26,
April 2006, 22-23, online at www.auseinet.com/resources/auseinet/netter26/auseinetter_26.pdf
Full report: South Australian Suicide Postvention Project, Report to Mental Health Services,
Department of Health, Dec. 2005 online at
www.adelaide.edu.au/health/gp/units/gr/publications/saspp_final.pdf
Clark, Sheila. (1995). After suicide: help for the bereaved, Hill of Content, Melbourne
Salvation Army Hope for Life suicideprevention.salvos.org.au/ 1300 HOPE LINE or 1300 467 354
and Living Hope online Bereavement Support Training
Parents of Suicide AUNZ (AUNZ-POS) a peer support internet community and email support group
for bereaved parents whose sons and daughter have suicided. www.parentsofsuicide-aunz.com/
There is also a Family & Friends of Suicide (AUNZ-FFOS) branch.
United Synergies StandBy Response Service, community based active postvention program
unitedsynergies.com.au/docs/StandBy%20Response%20Service%20-%20An%20Overview%20
April%202009.pdf
Living Beyond Suicide — Anglicare, SA, offers survivor-sensitive early support, information &
resources for families bereaved through suicide www.anglicare‑sa.org.au/services/lbs.html
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Resources
“Suicide grief”, Victoria Hospice Society, British Columbia www.victoriahospice.org Smolin, Ann &
Guinan, John (1993). Healing after the suicide of a loved one, New York, Simon & Schuster
Heartbeat: grief support following suicide “HEARTBEAT is a peer support group offering
empathy, encouragement and direction following the suicide of a loved one” (USA)
heartbeatsurvivorsaftersuicide.org/index.shtml
“To the newly bereaved after suicide”; by LaRita Archibald; 12 ways through “the anguish in the
aftermath of a loved one’s suicide”
www.heartbeatsurvivorsaftersuicide.org/materials/to_the_newly_bereaved_after_suicide.htm
“Hope and healing: a practical guide for survivors of suicide”, Calgary Health Region, Canada, 2007
www.carmha.ca./publications/resources/pub_hh/HopeandHealing.pdf
SAVE: Suicide Awareness Voices of Education — Coping with Loss (USA) www.save.org/
index.cfm?fuseaction=home.viewPage&page_id=FE01AC0F-E081-2F43-D40D845F9B82FFD0
SPAN USA (Suicide Prevention Action Network) See Survivors Support section www.spanusa.org
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention www.afsp.org. See Surviving Suicide Loss section.
After A Suicide: Recommendations booklet for Religious Services and Other Public Memorial
Observations www.sprc.org/library/aftersuicide.pdf (SPRC, USA)
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After someone dies: a leaflet about death, bereavement and grief for young people, Cruse
Bereavement Care www.rd4u.org.uk/YouthBooklet.pdf
Console www.console.ie an Irish charity supporting and helping people bereaved through suicide
Healthtalkonline www.healthtalkonline.org/Living_with_dying/Bereavement_due_to_suicide
Interviews of 40 people bereaved by suicide. Some have been bereaved recently, others years ago.
Interviews tell of their experiences and the issues that affected them and where people found help.
US National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Gallery lifeline-gallery.org/ Stories of hope and recovery
from those who have lost someone to suicide — Go to Loss section of gallery and listen to personal
stories of hope
Suicide Prevention Information New Zealand (SPINZ) (NZ) — Support After Suicide
www.moh.govt.nz/moh.nsf/indexmh/suicideprevention‑support
An international clearing house of suicide bereavement related information, research & resources
www.bereavedbysuicide.com
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Appendices —
Specific examples and templates
Appendix 1
The Rights of Suicide Survivors
From the Charter “The Rights of Suicide Survivors” Working Group on Suicide Survivors
(Mäenpää 2003)
2. To know the truth about the suicide, to see the body of the deceased, and to organise the
funeral with respect to one’s own ideas and rituals.
3. To consider suicide as the result of several interrelated causes that produced unbearable pain
for the deceased: suicide is not a free choice.
6. To find support from relatives, friends, colleagues, and survivors, as well as from professional
helpers who have knowledge and insight in the dynamics of bereavement, potential risk factors,
and in the practical consequences.
7. To be contacted by the clinician/caregiver (if any) who treated the deceased person.
9. To place one’s experiences in the service of other survivors, caregivers, and everyone who
seeks to better understand suicide and suicide bereavement.
10. To never be as before: there is a life before the suicide and a life afterwards.
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Appendix 2
Suicide Facts and Statistics
This section contains a brief overview of facts and statistics about suicide in Australia. The main
source of Australian data on suicides is the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS). They release
new data on an annual basis. Unless otherwise stated, the statistics provided in this document are
from the ABS publication, Causes of Death, Australia, Suicides 2007 (ABS Cat. No. 3303.0) (from
Mindframe National Media Initiative www.mindframe-media.info/site/index.cfm?display=85537)
Definition of Terms
Terms that are commonly used when discussing suicide include:
Suicide — death as a result of self‑inflicted harm where the intention was to die.
Attempted suicide — self‑inflicted harm where death does not occur but the intention of the person
was to die.
Self‑harm — self‑inflicted harm where death does not occur and the intention may or may not have
been to die.
Suicidal behaviour — acts such as suicide and attempted suicide.
Suicidal ideation/thoughts — thoughts about, or plans for, taking one’s own life that may or may not
lead to a suicide attempt.
Caution should be exercised when reporting and interpreting suicide information. The reliability
of suicide statistics are affected by a number of factors including under-reporting, differences in
reporting methods across states and territories, and the length of time it takes for Coroners to
process deaths that are reported as potential suicides.
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Are the patterns the same for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Australians?
• Accurate suicide statistics and population estimates are difficult to obtain for Aboriginal and
Torres Strait Islander people. Thus data on suicide levels and rates for Aboriginal and Torres
Strait Islander people are likely to be, at best, minimum figures and the information must be
interpreted cautiously.
• Due to both the relatively small numbers and low coverage in some areas of Australia, the ABS
only publishes data on suicide deaths among Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people for
New South Wales, Queensland, South Australia, Western Australia and the Northern Territory. In
2007, there were 89 deaths by suicide of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people in the five
states and territories considered, compared with 88 suicide deaths in 2006 8.
• The percentage of all deaths attributable to suicide is much higher among Aboriginal and Torres
Strait Islander people (3.7% in 2007) than Non‑Indigenous Australians (1.3%) in the specified
states and territories.
• Suicide is more concentrated in the earlier adult years for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander
Australians than for the general Australian population9 with 2003 data indicating the highest rates
for both males and females being in the 15 to 24 year age group10.
• As for other Australians, Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander males are more likely to die by
suicide than are Aboriginals and Torres Strait Islander females. Using combined data for 1998 to
2002, 6.7% of all male deaths were due to suicide compared with 1.9% of all deaths for females.
• Recent NT data shows significant increase in male Indigenous deaths since 199711.
Do rates vary among people from culturally and linguistically diverse backgrounds?
• Australia is home to people from a wide diversity of cultures. Suicide rates, and risk factors
associated with suicide, differ between cultures.
• One quarter of suicides in Australia occur among people who have migrated to Australia, with
60% of these being people who have come from non‑English speaking countries. However, rates
vary according to country of origin, gender and age12.
• Rates are generally higher among people born in English-speaking countries, and those from
western, northern and eastern Europe, and lower among people from southern Europe, the
Middle East and Asia13.
• Overall, males born outside of Australia have a lower suicide rate than Australian-born males,
while the rate is higher for females born overseas than for Australian-born females. The rate is
also higher for people of both genders aged over 6514.
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Myth Busting
There are many myths and misconceptions about suicide in the community. Below are suggestions
for challenging some of these misconceptions using accurate information about suicide that has
been drawn from research and clinical practice.
Most ‘normal’ people don’t think about taking their own life…
Measuring suicidal thoughts is difficult, but research suggests that thoughts about suicide are not
that uncommon at some point in a person’s life, although most people do not act on them21.
If someone reveals their suicide plan, you should not break their confidentiality…
Any information suggesting a person is contemplating suicide should be acted upon. A serious
threat of suicide is one of the few situations where confidentiality must be breached in the interest
of saving a life.
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People who talk about killing themselves or attempting suicide are not serious —
talking about it is just an attention‑seeking behaviour and should be ignored…
Any suggestion of suicidal thoughts or threats of suicide should always be taken seriously. A person
who threatens or attempts suicide is in need of support, whether or not they may be serious about
ending their life at that particular time.
Talking about suicide with someone who is at risk may give them the idea and
increase the chances of an attempted suicide…
Actually, many troubled people may be relieved if the issue is raised in a caring and
non‑judgemental way, allowing them to talk one-on‑one about their feelings and to seek help.
References
1 Australian Bureau of Statistics. (2009). Causes of Death, Australia, Suicides 2007. ABS Catalogue
No. 3303.0.
2 Steenkamp, M., & Harrison, J. (2000). Suicide and Hospitalised Self Harm in Australia. Canberra,
ACT: AIHW.
3 Ibid
4 de Looper, M. & Bhatia, K. (2001). Australian Health Trends, 2001 (AIHW Cat. No. PHE 24).
Canberra, ACT: AIHW.
5 Cantor, C. & Neulinger, K. (2000) The epidemiology of suicide and attempted suicide among
young Australians. Australian and New Zealand Journal of Psychiatry, 34, 370–387.
6 Steel, Z., & McDonald, B. (2000). Suicide in Immigrants Born in Non‑English Speaking Countries:
The latest research. Retrieved February 15, 2006 from: www.mmha.org.au/mmha-products/
synergy/Winter2000/McDonaldSuicide/?searchterm=McDonald%20Suicide%20Immigrant
7 McDonald, B., & Steel, Z. (1997). Immigrants and Mental Health: An epidemiological analysis.
Sydney: Transcultural Mental Health Centre.
8 Thomson, N., Burns, J., Burrows, S., & Kirov, E. (2005). Overview of Australian Indigenous Health
2006. Retrieved February 8, 2006 from: www.healthinfonet.ecu.edu.au/health-facts/overviews
9 Edwards, R. W., & Madden, R. (2001). The health and welfare of Australia’s Aboriginal and Torres
Strait Islander Peoples. ABS Catalogue no. 4704.0.
10 Ibid
11 Measey, M. L., Li, S. Q., Parker, R., & Wang, Z. (2006). Suicide in the Northern Territory,
1981–2002. MJA , 185, 315–319.
15 Australian Bureau of Statistics. (2000). Suicides Australia 1921–1998. ABS Catalogue no. 3309.
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16 Patterson, I., & Pegg, S. (1999). Nothing to do: The relationship between ‘leisure boredom’
and alcohol and drug addiction. Is there a link to youth suicide in rural Australia? Youth Studies
Australia, 18, 24–29.
17 SANE Australia. (2005). Facts and Figures About Mental Illness. Retrieved February 5, 2006
from: www.sane.org/Information/Factsheets/Facts_and_Figures.html.
18 SANE Australia. (2005). Suicidal behaviour and self‑harm. Retrieved February 8, 2006 from:
www.sane.org/Information/Factsheets/Suicidal_behaviour_and_self‑harm.html.
19 Ibid
20 Proctor, C. D., & Groze, V. K. (1994). Risk factors for suicide among gay, lesbian and bisexual
youths. Social Work , 39, 504–513.
21 Pirkis, J., Burgess, P., & Dunt, D. (2000). Suicidal ideation and suicide attempts amongst
Australian adults. Crisis, 21, 16–25.
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Appendix 3
Toolkit for Helping Someone at Risk of Suicide
This toolkit has been produced by the Lifeline Information Service and can be viewed below or
downloaded as a PDF file from the Lifeline Australia website at: www.lifeline.org.au/__data/assets/
pdf_file/0020/14177/Lifeline_SuicidePrevention_Toolkit_Feb09.pdf
It is distressing to realise that someone close to you may be considering suicide. This tool kit will
help you identify signs to look for, decide what to do and learn what help is available.
Most people who consider suicide get through the crisis. Family, friends and professionals can
make a big difference in helping people stay safe and re‑establish reasons for living
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Mental Health
Mental health problems can increase the risk of suicide. We may not know a person’s mental health
history, however we may notice that a person seems depressed or anxious, and/or is misusing
alcohol or other drugs. They may have told us that they are receiving treatment for a mental health
problem.
Having a mental health problem does not mean a person will have thoughts of suicide — many
don’t. However, mental health problems can affect the way people view problems. They affect
motivation and openness to seek help, therefore we need to be particularly aware of the possible
risk of suicide.
People who have recently been discharged from hospital for treatment of mental health problems
may also be at higher risk of suicide. It is important that they receive ongoing support in the
community. You may be able to help by supporting them to attend any follow‑up visits with their
GP or mental health specialists.
What do I do now?
People considering suicide often feel very isolated and alone. They may feel that nobody can help
them or understand their psychological pain. When unable to see any other way of dealing with
pain, suicide may seem to be a way out. Sometimes people who have been distressed and openly
suicidal become outwardly calm. Be aware that this may mean many things, including their quiet
resolution to complete their suicide plan.
The important thing to remember is that if someone is not their usual self or if they are showing
signs that arouse your concern you need to check it out. This tool kit will help you to talk to
someone about suicide and then decide what steps to take.
Most people who consider suicide get through the crisis. The help and support of family, friends
and professionals can make a big difference. The following tips will help you know what to do.
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Tool Kit
1. Do something now
If you are concerned that someone you know is considering suicide, act promptly. Don’t assume
that they will get better without help or that they will seek help on their own. It’s easy to avoid being
part of that help, or to hope that someone else will step in. Reaching out now could save a life.
These reactions are common but not helpful. It’s natural to feel panic and shock but take time to
listen and think before you act. Following the tips below will help you get through. If you find you’re
really struggling, enlist the help of a trusted friend.
Use this information to decide what to do. If you are really worried, don’t leave the person alone.
Seek immediate help — see contact numbers below or phone Lifeline on 13 11 14. Remove any
means of suicide available, including weapons, medications, alcohol and other drugs, even access
to a car.
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6. Decide what to do
Now that you have this information you need to discuss together what steps you are going to take.
What you decide to do needs to take into account the safety concerns that you have. Do not agree
to keep it a secret.
You may need to enlist the help of others to persuade the person to get professional help — or at
least take the first steps to stay safe. These may include their partners, parents, or close friends.
Only by sharing this information can you make sure that the person gets the help and support
they need.
Sometimes the person at risk says they do not want help. Yet we know most people are in two
minds about suicide. Make keeping them safe your first priority. Consider the long‑term benefits of
getting help for the person. It may mean risking the relationship but you could be saving a life.
7. Take action
The person can get help from a range of professional and supportive people:
• GP
• Counsellor, psychologist, social worker
• School counsellor, youth group leader, sports coach
• Emergency services — police and ambulance
• Mental health services
• Community health centres
• Priest, minister, religious leader
• Telephone counselling services such as Lifeline and Kids Help Line
When the person has decided who they are most willing to tell, help them prepare what they will
say. Many people find it difficult to express their suicidal thoughts.
Offer to accompany the person to the appointment. After the appointment, check that they
raised the issue of suicide and ask what help they were offered. Help them follow through with
the recommendations.
In some situations the person may refuse to get help. While it’s important that you find them the
help they need, you can’t force them to accept it. You need to ensure that the appropriate people
are aware of the situation. Do not shoulder this responsibility alone.
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• Try not to let your concerns about the other person dominate your life. Make sure you continue
to enjoy your usual activities, take time out to have fun and keep a sense of perspective.
• Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 (24 hours a day) for support.
Suicidal thoughts do not easily go away on their own. People need to see change in their life and
they need help to achieve that change. You are part of that help.
Lifeline 13 11 14
Salvation Army Hope Line for suicide bereavement support 1300 467 354
A.C.T.
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Northern Territory
Queensland
South Australia
Tasmania
Victoria
Western Australia
Services:
Your GP (see Yellow Pages for listing)
Mental Health Team (see Community Health Centres in the White Pages)
Web sites:
www.livingisforeveryone.com.au An Australian government website providing information and
building community capacity for suicide prevention
www.kidshelp.com.au — a site offering telephone and email counselling for young people
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www.reachout.com.au — information about suicide prevention and grief and loss for young people,
families, communities and professionals
Resources:
Beyond Suicide Attempts booklet — information for parents, foster parents and guardians
following the suicide attempt of a young person. Available from Lifeline Information Service
[email protected]
Survivors of Suicide — A compassionate resource developed to support people who have lost a
loved one to suicide. www.readthesigns.com.au/get_help/support_after_a_suicide Available from
the Lifeline Information Service [email protected]
Training:
ASIST — many Lifeline Centres throughout Australia provide LivingWorks Applied Suicide
Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) if people are looking for further training in this area
www.lifeline.org.au/learn_more/livingworks. Contact LivingWorks to find an ASIST training
near you, 03 9894 1833 or [email protected]
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Appendix 4 Closed groups: example and rationale
Appendix 4
Closed groups: example and rationale
Limited time group program — example of typical format
Jesuit Social Services: Building a Just Society (Support After Suicide Service,
used with permission)
Structure
• Psycho-educational approach
• Small number of participants — around 8
• One person per family/friends group in the support group
• 8 weekly sessions and the Friends and Family Session
• 2 hour sessions, with a break about halfway
• Two professional facilitators. Preparation and debriefing following each session.
• Between 3 and 18 months bereaved
• A closed group — no new participants after the first session
• Structure — open sharing of issues and experiences, specific theme for each group session
• Includes a reflection journal
• Each of the participants to meet at least once with a facilitator prior to the group. There is a need
to screen and prepare participants for the group (see screening sheet)
• Evaluation (developed by SAS).
Session Topics
• Introduction
• Experience of bereavement
• Expression of bereavement
• Exploring changes
• Living memories
• Creative bereavement
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Here is a list of the topics used by one group throughout the year
(Lifeline Mid-Coast, Port Macquarie, NSW)
Rationale for closed group programs for those bereaved by suicide: (Sands, D 2004)
1. Many researchers concur that those bereaved by suicide experience a particularly complicated
bereavement and that meaning reconstruction is a central process in grieving. The process of
meaning reconstruction is significant in suicide bereavement due to the complex and difficult
issues provoked by a suicide death.
2. The closed group program is premised on research that the role of the professional in grief
support is not only assisting people through grief processes shaped by nature but actively
intervening to assist the bereaved to:
a) Shape positive meanings that govern their grief experience and improve grief outcomes.
b) Facilitate verbal and non‑verbal conversations that assist in building trust, relational
connection and intimacy to support complex meaning reconstruction processes.
3. The closed group program provides lengthy, ongoing education and support over six months
that assists participant development of the group as a safe, legitimate communication space for
social interactions to process suicide grief issues, this is often not available to the bereaved in
their own relational networks.
4. Grieving is a learning process and continuity and sequential time is required for integration of
learning and the introduction of appropriate interventions.
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5. Hope is nurtured as group participants witness their own, and other participant grief narrative
shifts, and value their role in supporting this process.
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Appendix 5
Examples of Group Ground Rules
Guidelines for Survivor Support Group Participants — HEARTBEAT
(excerpt from AAS Surviving Suicide, V 2, No. 2, Summer 1990, used with permission)
Survivors of suicide groups provide participants with an experience of healing and community
with other survivors. In addition, it gives participants an opportunity to join in a process which
leads to comfort, support and information exchange. We believe that this is best done in the
non‑confronting small group format which encourages participation of all members and maximizes
the potential of each member to contribute meaningfully to the process. To that end, we suggest
the following guidelines:
1. Adults learn best by hearing experiences of others, not by getting advice from others.
Therefore, it is usually best to say what YOU did in a similar situation, rather than what someone
else SHOULD do.
2. Inquire to learn more about something. Don’t put anyone on trial or try to point out the faults in
someone else’s thinking or actions.
3. Respect the opinions and experience of others. What doesn’t work for you may work for
someone else.
4. Share even if you were unhappy about the outcome of some action. It might help someone else
avoid your mistakes.
9. The information about themselves which participants share in groups, whether small groups or
large, is CONFIDENTIAL.
10. Give yourself a chance. If the first meeting doesn’t do it for you, come back at least two more
times before deciding that you are better off elsewhere or alone.
11. Newly bereaved attend to have the magnitude of their grief acknowledged and validated; to
be comforted, encouraged and shown the way; even newcomers bring something unique the
group. Listen!
Here is a suggested statement outlining the “ground rules” we suggest best reflect our belief at
The Compassionate Friends on how the best learning/growing support can be facilitated. It reflects
the qualities of empathy, respect, and genuineness towards participants.
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Furthermore:
• You may share as little or as much as you feel able to. Sharing or being silent — both are OK.
• Feel free to contribute at your own pace.
• Tears are OK — they show that you cared very much for your loved one, and that you care
for yourself.
• And some of you may have some energy left over to cry with and show a little caring for others.
But don’t be too hard on yourself if your pain is still too great to go outside yourself and feel for
others. It will come with time.
Four additional things from us; we call them ground rules, but they are just reminders:
• That help us support each other better,
• That keep us aware that our time tonight is limited, and
• That remind us about the best way to share and help each other
Firstly, it takes courage to come here, and to speak about ourselves. So can I ask that we all listen
when someone is speaking, and try to be aware when someone is just pausing and needs silence
and time and space before continuing to speak? Can I suggest something else in relation to
listening that you may be well aware of? That is, that what we are most looking for in our struggle
is listening and understanding, and rarely do we need advice. If we do we usually ask directly for it.
So be wary about jumping in with advice and suggestions.
Secondly, we are not here to rescue each other, but to listen and to support each other to regain
confidence in using our strengths. Distressing though it may be, we need to express and feel
our pain. Unless we are “with” our pain, we cannot learn to walk beside it. So someone who is
distressed and crying is actually doing something very positive. They are learning to handle their
pain. The best support we can give is to listen, and encourage them to talk about their feelings
and experiences.
Thirdly, I know our own needs are often very strong and we get wound up with the need to express
and talk about them. However time is limited, and so we ask your permission for us to say “we must
move on” if it becomes necessary. Is that OK?
Fourthly, the issue of confidentiality. We ask you to keep what is shared tonight within the group.
Some of us don’t care who knows our story, but some of us are private people and will feel more
comfortable and more confident about sharing if we know that what we share will remain private
in this group. Also we will inevitably be talking about other people who are not here (our children,
other family members, friends, professionals, etc.), and their privacy also needs to be respected.
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Appendix 6
Example of a Screening and Preparation Tool
Jesuit Social Services: Building a Just Society
(Support After Suicide Service, used with permission)
1. Screen for major mental illness and substance use issues which may affect appropriate
participation in the group.
6. Preparation
• Explore practicalities to enable group participation, e.g. child-care, meal preparation, support
person available
• Explore self‑care before and after the group sessions
• Provide information about the format and structure of the group
• Provide general information about the other participants, e.g. other parents, partners
• Prepare participants for the experience of the group: the group is effective and helpful,
however, some people may find the first couple of sessions difficult. The group is an
effective opportunity to explore bereavement experience and gain support but it can at times
be difficult. This changes/eases as the group progresses.
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Appendix 7 Example of meeting reminder card
Appendix 7
Example of meeting reminder card
(Archibald, 2007, used with permission)
Dear Friend
We missed you at our (month) meeting. We hope your absence was due to an activity
reinforcing to you and your family.
If you have need of our support please come, we have much to offer you.
If you have moved beyond this need, please return occasionally, for you have much to
offer others.
(Facilitators name)
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Appendix 8
Example of selection criteria for a
SBSG facilitator/coordinator
Draft Position Description Lifeline SBSG Facilitator/Coordinator
Position Criteria
Commitment
• To the aims and objectives of the SBSG Project
• To Lifeline Australia’s core values, vision and mission
• To the health, safety and wellbeing of self, co‑facilitator and group participants
Experience
Essential
• Experience with group work (essential)
• Experience of working in suicide prevention or crisis support services (essential)
• Minimum 3 years experience in either counselling, social work, welfare, loss & grief work
(essential)
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Desirable
• Lifeline experience (desirable)
• Experience in supporting people bereaved by suicide (desirable)
• Project management (desirable)
• Experience with loss & grief issues (desirable)
• Group co‑facilitation experience (desirable)
• Experience with specific modality of group e.g. tele-group if interested in that modality
(desirable)
Personal qualities
• Empathic, compassionate, respectful, non‑judgemental, empowering, affirming, consistent,
calm under stress
• Trustworthy, honest and open
• Confident and competent
• Able to keep confidences (unless someone is ‘at risk’)
• Approachable and willing to be available to group participants on a flexible basis
• Able to build rapport with, and understanding of, people bereaved by suicide
• Able to contribute to positive morale
• Strong teamwork focus
• If personally bereaved by suicide, sufficiently integrated own bereavement and able to keep that
experience in the background and the issues of the group members in the foreground
• Ethical, with a clear sense of personal and professional boundaries
• Aware of the possible effects of own beliefs, behaviour and appearance on others
• Culturally considerate
• Non defensive and able to use constructive criticism effectively
• Recognise own limitations
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• Facilitate all meetings with co‑facilitator according to the training, standards and best
practice guidelines
• Adhere to the Code of Ethics (refer Standard 1.4)
• Ensure members are familiar with the group guidelines (refer Standard 1.4)
• Ensure members know about 24 hour contact supports
• Ensure new members feel comfortable and safe
• Provide direction in structured information sessions
• Continuously adhere to the ‘Above all, do no harm’ principle
• Monitor and respond to potential suicide risk of members
• Ensure cultural safety
• Follow‑up clients between meetings as required
• Provide referrals for group members as required
• Attend regular supervision with Mental Health professional
• Manage self‑care strategies
• Fulfil all reporting requirement for trial as stated in MOU
• Fulfil all evaluation requirements for trial as stated in MOU
• Participate in regular communication with other centre SBSG Facilitator/Coordinators and
Lifeline Australia as stated in MOU
• Maintain confidential records pertaining to the trail and provide information to management as
required as stated in MOU
• Ensure boundaries and limitations of trial are consistently observed as stated in MOU
and Standards
• Communicate regularly with Centre management regarding activities of SBSG trial as stated
in MOU
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Appendix 9
Quick Reference Guide from Australian Government
Mindframe National Media Initiative
Suicide in the Media
(www.mindframe-media.info/mentalhealth)
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Where possible provide information to counter these stereotypes, presenting a balanced view of
people who have a mental illness.
In all verbal and written communication, refer journalists to the Mindframe website at
www.mindframe-media.info for reporting issues and links to resources.
The above suggestions are a summary of those in the resource book Suicide and
Mental Illness in the Media: A resource for the Mental Health Sector, available at
www.mindframe-media.info/mentalhealth
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Refer the journalist to the Mindframe website for information about reporting issues
• Give a response within the agreed deadline
• Remember that it is OK to say no
• Follow the procedures in your media policy
• Be clear about the areas you are able to comment on and stick to these
• Identify spokespeople and make sure they are well briefed and familiar with the
Mindframe principles
• Collect relevant facts and statistics and helpline numbers to support the story
Interviews
Be prepared
• Know your subject and organisation well.
• Be clear about your message.
• Identify three main points that you want to get across. It may be useful to write these on a card to
refer to during the interview.
During an interview
• Keep your message simple.
• Use short sentences and avoid jargon.
• Stick to your subject.
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For more information on working with the media go to the mental health section of the Mindframe
website at: www.mindframe-media.info/client_images/574273.pdf
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Appendix 10
Examples of Feedback Questionnaires for Group Members
Example 1
ALICE SPRINGS BEREAVED BY SUICIDE SUPPORT GROUP
(used with permission)
4. Has it been difficult for you to attend this group? If so, why and if not, why not?
5. Do you have any suggestions for the facilitators of the group, e.g. new ideas, guest speakers or
techniques?
6. Would you like to contribute to the area of suicide bereavement in other ways? If so, please
nominate, e.g. co‑facilitating a session, promotion, guest speaker at relevant forums, assistance
with a special event, etc.
7. Do you have any other comments to make about the support group?
Example 2
SUPPORT AFTER SUICIDE
Support Group
Participants Evaluation Form
(used with permission)
We would like to know whether you found the group helpful in managing your bereavement and
how we could improve it for future participants. Please tick one column to indicate your response to
each statement. Thank you.
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Since attending the group have you noticed any changes in yourself?
What, if any, other topics would you have like covered in the group?
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What are the most important things you are taking with you from the group?
We greatly appreciate your comments and will use them to further develop the group for those
bereaved by suicide. Thank you.
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Appendix 11
Examples of SBSG Brochure
Brochure from Lifeline Hobart below — used with permission.
Also, Sutherland Shire Support After Suicide brochure located at
www.southerncommunitywelfare.org.au/Resources/07033_suicide%20bro_DL%206pp_HR2.pdf
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Example of input that might be useful in a brochure to introduce people to the idea of a group
For so many survivors, a crucial part of their healing process is the support and sense of
connection they feel through sharing their grief with other survivors. The most common
way this sharing occurs is through survivor support groups. These groups provide a safe
place where survivors can share their experiences and support each other.
It is natural to feel a bit unsure about going to your first support group meeting. In “No
Time to Say Goodbye”, one facilitator explains what you can expect:
We sit in a circle, with each person giving a brief introduction: first name, who was lost,
when it was, and how it happened. I then ask the people who are attending for the first
time to begin, because they usually have an urgent need to talk. The rest of the group
reaches out to them by describing their own experiences and how they are feeling. The
new people realize they are not alone with their nightmare. By comparing their situations
with others, they also begin to understand that they don’t have a monopoly on pain.
Some survivors attend a support group almost immediately, some wait for years; others
attend for a year or two and then go only occasionally — on anniversaries, holidays, or
particularly difficult days. You may find that it takes a few meetings before you begin
to feel comfortable. Or, you may find that the group setting isn’t quite right for you,
but can still be a useful way to meet one or two fellow survivors who become new,
lifelong friends based on the common bond of understanding the pain and tragedy of
suicide loss.
Reprinted from “Surviving a Suicide Loss: Resource and Healing Guide”, American
Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) www.afsp.org/
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Appendix 12
Code of Ethics for Group Facilitators
(Note: These Codes are not SBSG specific but are general in nature.)
The Institute of Group Leaders (www.igl.org.au) has the following Code of Ethics:
2. only self‑disclose information about themselves that develops the purpose of the group further
rather than addressing any personal need of the leader
3. respect and encourage the voluntary participation of group members so as to promote and not
delay their independence
4. behave professionally at all times and not become personally involved with any individual group
member for the duration of the group
5. refrain from imposing their personal agendas and values on group members
6. only record or observe group sessions with permission of the group members and the leader’s
organisation where applicable
7. only use a special technique or intervention if sufficiently trained or experienced in its use
8. provide information to group members about special techniques or activities in which they are
expected to participate
9. respect the aims, values and methods of organisations for which they lead groups
10. access and participate in regular supervision as required for the type of groups they facilitate”
Statement of Values
As group facilitators, we believe in the inherent value of the individual and the collective wisdom
of the group. We strive to help the group make the best use of the contributions of each of its
members. We set aside our personal opinions and support the group’s right to make its own
choices. We believe that collaborative and cooperative interaction builds consensus and produces
meaningful outcomes. We value professional collaboration to improve our profession.
Code of Ethics
1. Client Service
We are in service to our clients, using our group facilitation competencies to add
value to their work.
Our clients include the groups we facilitate and those who contract with us on their behalf. We work
closely with our clients to understand their expectations so that we provide the appropriate service,
and that the group produces the desired outcomes. It is our responsibility to ensure that we are
competent to handle the intervention. If the group decides it needs to go in a direction other than
that originally intended by either the group or its representatives, our role is to help the group move
forward, reconciling the original intent with the emergent direction.
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2. Conflict of Interest
We openly acknowledge any potential conflict of interest.
Prior to agreeing to work with our clients, we discuss openly and honestly any possible conflict
of interest, personal bias, prior knowledge of the organisation or any other matter which may be
perceived as preventing us from working effectively with the interests of all group members. We
do this so that, together, we may make an informed decision about proceeding and to prevent
misunderstanding that could detract from the success or credibility of the clients or ourselves.
We refrain from using our position to secure unfair or inappropriate privilege, gain, or benefit.
3. Group Autonomy
We respect the culture, rights, and autonomy of the group.
We seek the group’s conscious agreement to the process and their commitment to participate. We
do not impose anything that risks the welfare and dignity of the participants, the freedom of choice
of the group, or the credibility of its work.
6. Stewardship of Process
We practice stewardship of process and impartiality toward content.
While participants bring knowledge and expertise concerning the substance of their situation,
we bring knowledge and expertise concerning the group interaction process. We are vigilant to
minimize our influence on group outcomes. When we have content knowledge not otherwise
available to the group, and that the group must have to be effective, we offer it after explaining our
change in role.
7. Confidentiality
We maintain confidentiality of information.
We observe confidentiality of all client information. Therefore, we do not share information about
a client within or outside of the client’s organisation, nor do we report on group content, or the
individual opinions or behaviour of members of the group without consent.
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8. Professional Development
We are responsible for continuous improvement of our facilitation skills
and knowledge.
We continuously learn and grow. We seek opportunities to improve our knowledge and facilitation
skills to better assist groups in their work. We remain current in the field of facilitation through our
practical group experiences and ongoing personal development. We offer our skills within a spirit
of collaboration to develop our professional work practices.
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Appendix 13
Example of a SBSG Newsletter
November/December 2008 Newsletter from NSW Dept of Forensic Medicine
Support After Suicide Group (used with permission)
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Appendix 14
Information about the Coronial Processes:
Example from a Service in Queensland
Used with the kind permission of Standby (Suicide Bereavement) Response Service
CORONIAL FLOWCHART
FOLLOWING SUICIDE DEATH
POLICE
Attend scene
CORONER
Investigates cause of death
Coronial Investigations
The coroner controls and coordinates each step of the investigation. Police officers usually assist
the coroner to gather evidence.
A coronial investigation may take several months. The length of the investigation will depend on the
unique circumstances of the case.
2. Police will collect some initial information about the circumstances of the death from family
members, friends and witnesses
3. A relative or friend who knows the deceased may be asked to identify the deceased at the
mortuary. Sometimes identification will be made by clothing or possessions, or in a small
number of cases, through DNA testing.
4. After looking at the initial information the coroner may ask for more details to be provided.
For example, the coroner may require the police to obtain medical records or further
statements from witnesses.
5. In most cases, the coroner will order an autopsy to help determine the cause of death. Family
and cultural concerns are considered before ordering an internal autopsy.
6. Once the autopsy is complete and the coroner is satisfied with the information, the body is
released for burial or cremation.
7. The coroner may then use wide powers of investigation and request additional reports,
statements or information. This additional information may be gained from investigators, police,
doctors, engineers, workplace health and safety inspectors, mining inspectors, air safety
officers, electrical inspectors or other witnesses
8. The coroner will make a decision on whether to hold an inquest into the death. Families can
also request the coroner to hold an inquest.
9. The coroner will detail the findings in a report at the end of the investigation and a copy will be
sent to the family. If an inquest is held, the findings may be very lengthy.
Information for this document has been adapted from The Dr. Edward Koch Foundation ‘You are
Not Alone’ StandBy Response Service Indigenous brochure (© Dr. Edward Koch Foundation 2007),
developed in partnership between The Dr. Edward Koch Foundation and the Yarrabah community.
Appendix 15
Example Format of a Supervision Session
Initial session: The supervisor will begin discussion to get to know the facilitator/s and work on
the group dynamic (if group supervision) and developing a safe/confidential relationship with
the supervisor.
Time will be allowed for facilitator/s to identify any concerns or challenges prior to starting their
initial SBSG. The supervisor will facilitate discussion to workshop strategies and ideas as needed.
Guidelines for supervision will also be discussed, including confidentiality. Practical details such
as times of supervision and contact details will be attended to. Facilitators will be invited to identify
their needs to be addressed in supervision over the coming weeks.
Each subsequent session will have a framework, which will change according to each facilitator’s
needs, but would usually incorporate:
• Brief hello/checking in
• Facilitator/s invited to briefly identify how the last SGS group was for them
• Specific issues arising from the group will be addressed in a facilitated discussion
• Opportunity to ask questions/discuss strategies for dealing with issues
• Discussion of, or referral to, any relevant literature will be facilitated as needed
• Opportunity for facilitator/s to identify any issues not dealt with and strategy to deal with issue
discussed or referred
• Close and ensure safe disengagement from process.
The final session will incorporate a ‘debrief’ of the supervision experience and discussion of ‘where
to from here’ and any closing issues.
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Appendix 17
Towards Good Practice: Standards & Guidelines for
Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
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Introduction 111
Introduction
These Standards and Guidelines have been developed as part of the Commonwealth funded SBSG
Standards and Best Practice Project. They have been developed in consultation with a broad cross
section of suicide bereavement service providers and those bereaved by suicide.
There are four major Standards articulated below with various sub headings:
This set of Standards and Guidelines has been developed to support those who participate in and
those who operate Suicide Bereavement Support Groups. The Practice Handbook also developed
under this Commonwealth project, provides more information and examples relevant to facilitating
a Suicide Bereavement Support Group.
These Standards and Guidelines provide a voluntary Code of Conduct to assist in the development
and review of quality, safety and effectiveness. When developing or reviewing services, these
Standards can provide a useful benchmark against which Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
can be examined, improved and validated.
While these Standards were developed specifically for use by Suicide Bereavement Support
Groups they could also guide practice in other support group settings or other suicide
bereavement services.
A statement of the support The statement includes the purpose and vision of the support group.
group’s aims and objectives is Consideration for inclusion in the purpose might be outcomes
made available publicly. such as managing emotions, thoughts and behaviours, adjustment,
integration, sharing experiences, strategies to cope with daily and
significant events, managing interactions with family, friends and
colleagues, connection, normalisation, and/or social support, etc.
Considerations for inclusion in the objectives are:
• the safety principle “Above all, do no harm”
• sensitivity
• confidentiality
• respect, etc.
People bereaved by suicide are Any membership conditions set are clearly articulated, such as:
able to access support through • age
the support group when they • gender
need it and when they are in
• type of relationship with the person who has died
a position to benefit from the
support group. • length of time since loss.
The entry process to the support group is clearly articulated.
Applicants are advised of possible outcomes of the entry process
including referral to other services. Applicants are advised about the
support group format, such as length of support group program and
length of sessions.
The support group targets either adults or children/adolescents.
This is because the grieving process for children may take
different pathways.
Assessment of potential members is undertaken by the facilitator of
the support group to ensure that people will benefit from the support
group. Group members are informed of this process and understand
its necessity. Assessment is undertaken either face-to-face or by
telephone with the aim of checking that the potential member will
be able to benefit from the support group and will not cause harm
to themselves or to other members. Some persons bereaved by
suicide may be channelled to other more appropriate services (refer
Standard 4.4 Referral Services below). Assessment processes are
culturally appropriate.
Members are able to access Physical meeting space is easily accessible for members.
venues/technology as needed Where required, members have availability and guidance on use of
to participate. technology for participation.
Meeting space is neutral, safe, comfortable, inviting and private.
Meeting space has a withdrawal area if possible.
Description Attributes
The support group has a defined The support group is either an organisation itself, e.g., an
organisational structure which incorporated association, or is auspiced by an organisation. This is to
allows it to operate. provide a form of governance, risk management and accountability.
Roles and responsibilities of key Key personnel and their responsibilities are defined, including the
personnel are defined. support group facilitators, co‑facilitators, management team and
administrative assistance. Job description or role statements are
provided to all paid and volunteer personnel.
Key personnel are qualified to Key personnel have the required skills and training for their role.
take on their roles. Where support group facilitators have been bereaved by suicide, they
are sufficiently integrated with their own bereavement to facilitate
suicide bereavement support groups.
The support group has a defined The support group is either an organisation itself, e.g. an incorporated
organisational structure which association, or is auspiced by an organisation. This is to provide a
allows it to operate. form of governance, risk management and accountability.
Roles and responsibilities of key Key personnel and their responsibilities are defined, including the
personnel are defined. support group coordinator, co‑facilitators, management team and
administrative assistance. Job descriptions or role statements are
provided to all paid and volunteer personnel.
Key personnel are qualified to Key personnel have the required skills and training for their role.
take on their roles. Where support group facilitators have been bereaved by suicide, they
are sufficiently integrated with their own bereavement to facilitate
suicide bereavement support groups.
The number of support A minimum of two group facilitators for each support group is
group facilitators and their maintained to assist with self‑care, peer review (refer Standard 1.5),
characteristics accommodate and demands of the role (refer Standards 3.1 and 3.4).
the size and nature of the Consideration is given to the number of support group facilitators
support group. required for the size and nature of the support group. A ratio of
facilitators to support group members is applied for groups of
10 members or more.
Consideration is given, where possible, of inclusion of different
gender group facilitators to provide an appropriate role model for
group members and possible group members.
Consideration is given, where possible, of inclusion of Aboriginal
or culturally and linguistically diverse (CALD) group facilitators for
groups with Aboriginal or CALD members (refer also Standard 3.1).
The way in which the support Whether the support group is open and ongoing or whether it is
group will operate is defined. time-limited and closed for a specific period is identified and potential
members advised accordingly.
1.4 Ethics
Description Attributes
Codes of Ethics are developed A written Code of Ethics for support group facilitators is adopted
and adhered to by support group which addresses factors such as:
facilitators and members. • confidentiality and privacy
• relationships with support group members
• training in techniques used
• adoption of organisational/support group policy and
procedures/protocols
• conflict resolution
• personal gain or conflicts of interest
• commitment to cultural safety
• commitment to self‑care
• duty of care, including the “Above all, do no harm” principle
(refer also to Standard 4.5).
Group guidelines or ground rules for support group members are
developed, adopted and available which address factors such as:
• confidentiality
• acceptance and non‑judgement
• sharing of experiences
• respect and empathy
• differences of views and opinions
• networking amongst group members outside of meetings
(refer standard 4.2)
• time out during sessions
• exiting the support group.
Consequences for not adhering to the Code of Ethics are clear
and processes for managing such situations are included in the
organisation’s/support group’s protocols.
The support group will Legislative requirements are identified and processes to ensure
identify and meet legislative adherence are established.
requirements. Support group facilitators are aware of legal requirements and
incorporate these into their practices.
Attention to child protection requirements and working with young
people security checks may be a requirement for support groups
providing services to children or young people.
Regular supervision of Support for support group facilitators in the form of supervision of
group facilitation practice group facilitation practice and debriefing is provided. Supervision
and debriefing of support is a process of care and support delivered by a trained supervisor
group facilitators is provided for facilitators running SBSGs. This may be delivered through a
by suitably qualified and facilitator reference group, the organisational structure, or even
experienced personnel. through external support arrangements. Group facilitation practice
supervision may be in the form of expert supervisors or through
processes such as peer coaching or mentoring, depending on the
situation and needs of the group facilitators and the requirements
of the organisation. These services may be internally or externally
sourced, delivered face-to-face, via telephone or on‑line.
Self‑care considerations are made as part of the supervision and
debriefing processes.
Risks are identified and Risks considered include but are not limited to:
minimised through planning. • Accident and injury — public liability cover is in place
• Advice and harm — professional indemnity cover is in place
• Unsuitability of support group for some members or potential
members — referral protocols to other services will be required
• Emergency situations — a crisis protocol is in place for potential
emergencies including suicide or potential suicide or crises in the
group or crisis in the group facilitators(s)
• Re-traumatising group members — group management practices
are in place to reduce the likelihood of such occurrences
• ‘Burn out’ of support group facilitators — access to debriefing
and supervision; co‑facilitators may be needed or time away from
support group management role may be needed
• Conflict between members or facilitators — effective conflict
resolution processes included in Code of Ethics
• Media requests — Media guidelines that clarify media release and
spokesperson protocols
• Quality assurance of group facilitation sessions.
Support groups are promoted The support group is known about by services which come
through relevant agencies so into contact with people bereaved by suicide such as police,
that people bereaved by suicide coroner, hospitals, general practitioners, allied health providers
are aware of the existence (psychologists, counsellors, social workers, etc), Aboriginal health
of the suicide bereavement services, churches and religious organisations, funeral directors, and
support group. community organisations.
Support groups consider subscription to central information sources,
such as relevant government agencies and community databases
which give contact details to the public.
Other promotion activities might include advertising through
community avenues and/or in local newspapers. Further, a website
for or links to the support group may be considered so that potential
group members can easily find services.
Marketing initiatives meet the Australian Government Mindframe
National Media Initiative.
Marketing and promotion Information provided on the support group is written or presented
materials are culturally in plain English at a level that the community will understand
appropriate and are (approximately a level of 6th Grade).
understandable by the Where information is translated, it is written or presented at an
whole community. appropriate level of understanding.
Information is culturally appropriate and collaboration with relevant
cultural groups is in place where needed.
Marketing and promotion materials show sensitivity to the issues
faced by people bereaved by suicide.
Materials that are provided on the internet are culturally appropriate
and show sensitivity to the issues faced by people bereaved
by suicide.
Values and principles that The support group clearly articulates the values and principles
the support group holds that they uphold, e.g., Rights of People Bereaved by Suicide (see
are identified. Appendix 1 of Practice Handbook)
Service delivery is client-centred. Service delivery principles are defined, such as timeliness of service,
quality of service, support group topics, closing support group
meetings, mode of service delivery including services provided in
between group meetings and at the end of the group service.
Support group members understand and agree to the group
guidelines (refer Standard 1.4).
2.3 Inclusiveness
Description Attributes
A diverse range of people, Support groups recognise individuality and have strategies in place
regardless of background and to include people from different cultural backgrounds, both genders,
cultural diversity, are encouraged those less likely to seek help, and those with differences in coping
to participate in suicide styles and circumstances. Support group facilitators change their
bereavement support groups group processes to meet client needs. Refer Standard 3.1 Roles of
when needed. Support Group Facilitators regarding representatives from Aboriginal
or CALD backgrounds.
Practical support may also need to be given where resources are
available, such as child care for evening meetings, or use of an
interpreter where language is a barrier.
Whether the group member can bring a support person to a support
group meeting and the degree of involvement in the group meeting by
the support person is articulated.
Resources providing information Information may include literature available from related
are available or identified (in the organisations, information on local services, and relevant activities.
case of the internet). Such information is checked for sensitivity, for cultural
appropriateness and for readability (plain English).
Where a self‑help model is used, Group processes at meetings are structured to provide opportunities
it includes group processes that for airing effects of loss and trauma, for sharing coping strategies,
provide for emotional support. and for a positive closing.
Information about issues that Access to literature and resources about issues faced by people
arise for people bereaved bereaved by suicide which may include but is not limited to:
by suicide is available and is • general grief and loss theory
culturally appropriate. • trauma
• individuality of grief
• cultural differences in loss and grief
• age and gender differences in loss and grief
• statistics about suicide and suicide bereavement
• cognitive restrictions of suicidal thinking
• stigma (psychosocial, legal and religious) and isolation
• feelings of rejection, abandonment and blame
• feelings of remorse, guilt and responsibility
• feelings of anger and/or helplessness
• the need to understand why and the search for motive
• difficulty acknowledging the cause of death
• fear of hereditary susceptibility
• family dynamics
• loss of basic trust
• increased risk of suicidal ideation
• logistical and legal issues
• the therapeutic process of hope
• acknowledgement of strengths
• resilience and integration
• potential for growth
• coping strategies and interpersonal tactics.
Literature and resources are available in various communication
media (e.g. video, DVD, tape, etc).
Support group facilitators Support group facilitators are trained in all facilitation models used.
use clearly defined facilitation The facilitation model(s) incorporate(s) a communication style
models which are culturally which promotes group interaction in a safe way and facilitates
appropriate and promote healing group processes.
and integration.
Support group facilitators’ practices adhere to the facilitation
models used.
The roles of the support group Roles include, but are not limited to:
facilitators are clearly defined. • pre‑assessment of potential group members
Consideration of co‑facilitation • using referral processes for potential members not ready for
is made with involvement by group involvement
both professionals (such as
• planning and designing support group processes
counsellors and social workers)
and people bereaved by • facilitating support group processes and support group dynamics
suicide. Where professionals • adhering to the Code of Ethics (refer Standard 1.4)
are not involved as support • ensuring members know about the group guidelines
group co‑facilitators, access to (refer Standard 1.4)
professional support is available. • ensuring members know about 24 hour contact supports
• ensuring new members feel comfortable and safe
• providing direction in structured information sessions
• adhering to the ‘Above all, do no harm’ principle
• ensuring cultural safety
• mentoring emerging facilitators
• debriefing co‑facilitators
• managing self‑care
• developing exit strategies for facilitators leaving the support group
• monitoring and responding to potential suicide risk of members.
The support group has considered the need for involvement by
mental health professionals (e.g., psychologists, grief counsellors)
and/or by people bereaved by suicide.
Co‑facilitation of support groups by Aboriginal representatives may
be appropriate for groups with Aboriginal people. Likewise with
CALD facilitators and CALD members
Support group facilitators exhibit Support group facilitators have basic communication and
skills and behaviours that provide interpersonal skills, including:
a supportive environment. • ability to organise
• ability to empathise
• ability to listen reflectively
• effective verbal communication skills.
Support groups have defined the behaviours and attitudes that are
expected in their support group facilitators such as, but not limited to:
• respect
• compassion
• trustworthiness
• openness
• a non‑judgemental attitude
• retain confidences
• honesty
• an approachable disposition
• cultural considerations
• gender considerations
• age relevant considerations
• minimisation of expression of their own personal grief
• recognition of their own limitations, etc.
Support group facilitators are Support group facilitators are trained in aspects such as but not
trained in basic facilitation limited to:
models, communication • the experience of loss and grief
skills, suicide bereavement, • specific issues of suicide grief
grief, loss and trauma and
• complications of grief
psycho‑educational support
group processes. • role of trauma
• mental health first aid
• methods for assessing support group applicants
• group facilitation techniques
• eliciting skills versus lecturing skills
• strategies for increasing coping
• support group management skills
• the distinction between process and content
• methods to bring balance to group processes
• assertiveness skills
• cultural safety practices
• strategies to overcome issues and barriers
• complexity of suicide
• suicide prevention techniques
• crisis intervention processes
• health promotional approach to adversity including the awareness
and value of community capacity building
• Client centred, strengths based approach
• pathways to care and referral to other services
• strategies for self‑care.
Description Attributes
Where support groups provide Support group facilitators are trained in aspects such as but not
services to children, support limited to:
group facilitators are trained in • grief and loss for children and adolescents
child and adolescent suicide • age appropriate support.
bereavement, grief, loss
and trauma.
Support group facilitators Support group facilitators take an active role in networks
undertake professional and associations that provide continuing professional
development on an development opportunities.
ongoing basis.
Where there are co‑facilitators, Co‑facilitators know their roles and the specific tasks for which they
facilitation roles are clearly are responsible, for example, co‑facilitators may allow one facilitator
defined between the to focus on those group members who are newly bereaved and the
co‑facilitators. Transition other facilitator to focus on those who are long‑term bereaved.
between group facilitators Support group members are advised of the roles of the co‑facilitators.
is planned.
Where group facilitators change or additional facilitators are
introduced, group members are prepared in advance of new
facilitators to the support group.
Meetings are well managed to Meetings are planned and the structure and frequency of meetings is
achieve desired goals, articulated decided upon in advance.
in line with the group’s purpose The venue for meetings is appropriate. For open support groups,
and aims (refer Standard 1.1). the time of meeting and venue is fixed for a period so that potential
members who hold onto information about the group for a long time
can access the group.
The structure allows support group members to express their
feelings, thoughts and behaviours, and explore their needs. Cultural
safety is practised.
Support group facilitators put in place actions for issues that arise in
meetings that require follow‑up between meetings, particularly where
a Duty of Care arises (refer Standard 4.5).
Where appropriate (e.g., closed group format), follow up actions are
in place for people who miss meetings or who discontinue. Where
this happens, members are advised in advance of this practice.
Information about suicide Following an enquiry for information by a new member, an information
bereavement, loss, grief and pack is made available, with particular reference to the material of
trauma and people bereaved by most relevance — may include websites rather than hardcopy.
suicide is managed to ensure Exchange of information among members is encouraged and
ease of access, appropriateness supported by the support group facilitator(s).
and that information is reviewed.
Access to resources is managed so that members can obtain
information as required and which is appropriate. Information for
the family/social network of the group member is also available.
Information for children and young people is age appropriate.
Networking amongst group Networking amongst group members is a voluntary choice for the
members is encouraged. individual. Group members are encouraged to network and connect
with other members outside of the group, although this is not a
mandatory requirement.
Group guidelines or ground rules cover networking amongst group
members (refer Standard 1.4).
The support group has a network A list/database of relevant and up-to-date services in the local
of relevant services to which it community is easily accessible and is used as necessary.
can refer persons as necessary. Services might include, but are not limited to:
• Coroner’s office
• medical practitioners
• hospitals
• housing services
• financial management services
• funeral services
• legal services
• translation services
• 24 hour crisis services
• telephone counselling services
• grief counselling services
• clinical psychological services
• mental health services
• mental health community teams
• suicide prevention services.
The support group has Support group facilitators review the risks and recognise suicide
processes for proactive warning signs or signs of mental health issues in members and take
monitoring of risk for mental active steps to promote the member’s safety by linking them with
health illness or suicide further help.
warning signs. Appropriate codes of ethics and protocols are in place
(refer Standards 1.4 and 1.5).
Support group facilitators are sensitive to unresolved issues that may
arise for members and provide appropriate follow‑up and referral
(see Standards 4.1 and 4.4) as needed.
Where deemed appropriate, Facilitation of support groups through alternate delivery modes
support groups are made undertake additional measures such as but not limited to:
available through alternate • ensuring that the potential group member has the right to or
delivery modes (e.g. telephone authority to use the telephone number through which the service
or online). will be provided
• encouraging group members to have a private and safe location to
participate in the telephone support group
• giving consideration to time zone differences
• e-mailing or posting written information for members in advance
• developing additional support group ground rules to overcome
non‑verbal communication barriers
• using facilitation techniques to ensure involvement of all members
• managing the size of the group — a smaller group as compared
to face-to-face support groups may be required to address the
complexities of managing a group by telephone.
Safeguards due to ethical considerations are put in place to ensure
that communications are interpreted correctly.
To apply the ‘Above all, do no harm’ principle, groups are closed and
potential members are invited from a referral source or registration
process. Utilization of a suitable moderator may also be considered.
The support group reviews and Support group facilitator(s) adopt self‑evaluation and continuous
evaluates its services regularly. improvement practices, perhaps in conjunction with supervision (refer
Standard 1.5). Group facilitators conduct evaluations of their services
delivered and meetings facilitated.
At least an annual review of services provided is undertaken. Where
possible, consideration is given to an external review on a regular
basis to provide an increased level of objectivity.
Where members are involved in reviews and evaluations, they are
informed in advance of any requests for their feedback.