Friends To Lovers PDF
Friends To Lovers PDF
Friends To Lovers PDF
friend into a
lover
Kate Taylor
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What Works
Conclusion
It is possible to dig out of an uneven,
"friend zone" exchange with a
little persuasion and influence. Just
remember to focus on your own worth,
don't be desperate, and be willing to
walk away. Allow some space for the
other person to miss you. Make some
friends outside of that friendship.
Finally, let that friend invest in you and
reward them for it. If they truly value
you in their life, then they will be much
more likely to take the relationship to
the next level. If they don't, you already
have some new friends, your self-
respect, and one foot out the door.
How To Turn A Friend
Into A Lover
by David Kwan | Dating Advice
I’m about to reveal to you some pretty advanced
knowledge – turning a woman friend into a lover
isn’t only rare, it’s also extremely difficult. Most
“unenlightened” men simply won’t be able to do
this. If you don’t know what you are doing you
could easily lose everything – even the
friendship.
But, if you can get good at turning friends into
lovers you will have an invaluable skill… you’ll be
able to go in “under the radar” so to speak by
befriending a woman before trying to “pick her
up.” Sure, the process is slower but for men who
aren’t in a hurry it’s great. I will actually do this so
that I can get an idea of a woman’s true nature
while we are “friends” before I begin to date her.
I use it as a screening process so that I don’t end
up with shallow, unscrupulous, or dumb women.
Here’s the difficulty …
The woman considers you a friend so, when you
start laying the moves on her, she is going to get
freaked out, resist your advances, and probably
avoid you for a while. So, the challenge is this…
getting her to like you before she knows that you
like her. It sounds a little like grade school when
you put it in those terms but that is the essence
of the solution.
But, the nature of friendships is one where you
just “let your hair down” and “be yourself.” You
are just supposed to relax and have a good
time… it’s a whole other world compared to
dating where you are always supposed to be
putting your best foot forward.
And this is precisely where men run into trouble.
You cannot act like a friend with a woman and
expect her to become attracted to you. Instead,
you must begin acting like a lover (whether you
are one or not) before she can begin considering
you as a lover.
Makes sense, doesn’t it ?
Now, allow me to clarify, when I say you are
supposed to start acting like a lover I do not
mean to make advances on her and, above all, I
do not mean that you should start acting really
“nice” around her. What I’m saying is that you
should start to exude the qualities that women
are attracted to. The qualities that women look
for in lovers. The qualities that are outlined in
my book The DateSTACKER Program.
Avoid these typical friend behaviors:
1. NEVER allow her to talk to you about
other men she is interested in. Change the
subject, without being obvious about it, if this
ever happens. If she is talking to you about other
guys you have become the equivalent of a girl
friend – not good.
2. Don’t be available to her 24/7. Yes, a
friend is always there but, remember, you aren’t
trying to be a friend, your trying to be a lover. In
order to be a lover she needs to like you – but
not like you as a friend.
3. Don’t “just hang out” and do boring stuff.
Women want excitement, they want
entertainment, they want to go out and have the
time of their lives. This is what women are
attracted to. Friends hang around the house and
watch movies, lovers go out and spend money
(just kidding, you don’t have to spend $$$ but
you do need to put some effort and planning
into the activities).
4. Don’t spill your guts. Best friends talk
about all the embarrassing, idiotic things they
have done. Lovers, on the other hand, highlight
their positive, admirable qualities and
experiences. No matter what she says, she WILL
look down on you for telling her about all the
CRAP you did in the past.
After a while, she should start to give off some
signals. Maybe she will look deep into your eyes
for longer than normal, maybe she will make
subtle hints (that you probably won’t notice
unless you are watching for them), or maybe she
will just come out and say she is interested in
you.
The funny (and magical) part about this process
is that, whether she realizes it at first or not, you
guys WILL be dating. When her friends and
family see you guys going out and having fun
together they will say things to her like “Are you
guys dating?” and “Are you interested in him?”
Regardless of her answer, the probing questions
of her friends will get her mind working in that
direction. The next time you guys go out (and
have a blast together) it will be in the back of her
mind. While she is having a great time with you
she will be thinking “Gee, maybe Jenny is right,
maybe I do like him… he sure is fun.”
And, that my friend, is how it is done.