Multi Faith Guide PDF
Multi Faith Guide PDF
Multi Faith Guide PDF
patients.
Every effort has been made to ensure that the information given
is up to date. If there are any questions for which you cannot find
the answers then please do not hesitate to contact one of the
Trust Chaplains.
Introduction.
What should we call people? Can we use their first name or would
they prefer a more formal style like Mr, Mrs or Ms? How should we
address a Sikh or a Muslim? If we are visiting new neighbours should
we take off our shoes? Do we need to cover our arms or legs? Is it
polite to look someone in the eye? This handbook does not attempt
to answer all such questions, but it highlights some important
aspects, alongside some background information and basic
principles.
Such considerations may pave the way for meeting people from
different cultural and religious backgrounds, but we must be aware
of stereotyping. Nobody can or should be neatly categorised.
Certainly we can tell very little about each other from the colour of
our skins. Our religious and cultural backgrounds, our individual
experiences and our aspirations may be harder to discern, but they
can have far more influence on us.
Each Caribbean Island has its own identity and people do not necessarily feel
any affiliation towards the other islands. Religion plays an important in
people’s lives, particularly for the older generation. Attending church on a
Sunday is a big occasion for which people are expected to dress smartly.
Gospel music is an important part of the culture. The church is a great source
of support in times of illness, poverty and distress.
Birth
It is expected that babies will be christened around the age of six weeks and
that children will be confirmed by the age of 11.If these customs are not
followed, the family may feel ill at ease within the community. Many African
Caribbean women are opposed to abortion. In cases of divorce there is often a
strong feeling of shame, and also concern about being criticised by members of
the family and the church.
Death
People prefer to die at home with their family around them. Funerals tend to
be big affairs. Families are usually prepared to contribute towards the cost.
Coffins are open for family and friends to view at the church.
Diet
The typical Caribbean diet includes yams, rice, okra, breadfruit, cassava and
maize, plantains and bananas. Spices are widely used. Fish, chicken and goat
meats are popular meats. Pork is not acceptable for Rastafarians and Seventh-
day Adventists.
Family Values
Traditionally women have had a leading role in the home. This is reflected in
the fact that sometimes the family name passes along the mother’s line.
Members of the older generation are held in respect by the younger and often
prefer to be addressed as Mr and Mrs.
Grandmothers have traditionally had a significant role within the family, often
bearing the main responsibility for the upbringing of the grandchildren,
enabling the mother to work. Older people support each other, share produce
and help out in times of trouble – doing jobs and delivering meals to peoples
homes. Those living alone will often be invited out for meals.
Generally black people find it hard to discuss physical ailments with strangers
and there is a tradition of keeping personal issues in the family. Most people
are prepared to consult GP’s, but illness is often viewed as punishment.
Sickle cell anaemia is an inherited disease specific to this community and the
incidents of hypertension, strokes and diabetes has been found to be higher
among the African Caribbean population than amongst the world’s population
in general.
**For more information on the faiths of African Caribbean people please see
other sections of this file.
Asylum Seekers and Refugees.
Asylum seekers and refugees are unlike the other groups
listed in this file in that they are not a group defined by one
particular faith or culture, but rather by their status as victims of oppression.
Therefore they come from a diverse range of faiths, cultures and backgrounds.
The movement of asylum seekers is like a mirror reflecting the world’s hot
spots, an indicator of war, conflict and oppression. In July 2004, the majority of
asylum seekers entering the UK were Muslims from the Middle East, especially
Iraq and Iran. Previously there were many fleeing Afghanistan, since then there
are increasing numbers from East and North Africa from such countries as
Sudan and Liberia.
People who are requesting refugee status are normally called asylum seekers.
Once they have been granted leave to stay, their immediate family members
may join them. However, the urgent circumstances in which many refugees
have to leave their homes mean that families are often split up. For example, if
there is only enough money for one person to travel, it will often be the man of
the household who goes ahead, in order to find a safe haven where he can
earn enough money to have his family join him. This is especially true of Islamic
and other traditional societies, who would often be reluctant to send a woman
on her own to a country where she does not know the language, is
unprotected and does not have her usual support network of friends,
neighbours and extended family. This explains why the majority of asylum
seekers in the UK are young men who have travelled on their own.
There are many other problems for refugee communities. Theses include
language difficulties, culture, shock, different climate, difficulties with
accommodation, unfamiliar diet, unsuitable clothing, lack of money, feelings of
isolation from starting life again in an unfamiliar and very different place, and
the fact that they face much negativity from both the press and the general
public. Many refugees have faced persecution of some form, as well as varying
degrees of physical and psychological trauma and in some cases torture. Many
refugees feel insecure because of the separation from their families and
uncertain legal status. Consequently their mental and physical health can be
affected.
All public service providers should be aware that refugees may be wary of
people in authority, and may react badly to uniforms. They may feel that by
discussing their problems and being open about the past they will jeopardise
their situation further. Refugees need support and advice in accessing public
services in an unfamiliar country. Language difficulties can compound potential
difficulties in becoming familiar with procedures in the UK.
There are various support systems in every region of the UK, which can advise
on any issues that they may have, access translating services and provide
information about other helpful organisations.
Baha’I Patients.
About the faith:
Most Baha’i’s in this country will be Iranian, but many are British and their
needs whilst in the hospital are the same as those of any other patient.
Baha’i’s should perform ritual washing before reciting the obligatory prayer. If
water is not available or cannot be applied to the hands and the face, the
believer may recite 5 times the verse “In the name of god, the most pure, the
most pure”. The obligatory prayer is performed facing the holy shrine at Bahji
in Israel. There are alternative forms of obligatory prayer. In the West the short
form is usually recited, once in 24 hours between noon and sunset. Those who
are ill, or over 70 are exempt. Menstruating women are exempt if they recite
95 times “Glorified be god, the lord of splendour and beauty”.
Remember Baha’i’s are from diverse backgrounds and if English is not their
first language they may need an interpreter.
There are no problem areas, but some may be vegetarian. Baha’i’s fast from
the 2nd -20th March, but this is not expected of sick people. During the fasting
period (2nd-20th March), Baha’i’s are not permitted to eat or drink between
sunrise and sunset. Fasting is not obligatory for those under the age of 15 or
over the age of 70, menstruating women, pregnant or nursing women, the sick
or for travellers.
Other considerations.
Festivals.
The Baha’i New Year (Naw-Ruz) is on 21st March. No work is done on this day
and they may wish to be at home for this occasion. The period leading up to
the Naw-Ruz (2nd-20th March) is a period of reflection and preparation for the
forthcoming year, and it is marked by fasting. Another important festival is
Ridvan, from 21st April – 2nd May; this celebrates Baha’u’llah’s declaration of
his mission. The 1st, 9th, and 12th days within this festival are holy days on which
work is suspended.
Greeting.
Some Baha’i’s might shake hands, some might bow, and some might hug close
friends. Often they will greet each other by saying “Allah-u-Abha”.
In Baha’i homes.
There may be a plaque with the Arabic inscription “Ya Baha’ul-Abha” (O Glory
of all the Glorious).
Birth.
This is a happy time. The couple should be allowed to decide whether or not
the husband is present.
Dying patients.
Baha’i’s believe that there is an after life and may like members of their
congregation to come and pray with them.
Relatives will wish to say prayers for the deceased. They believe that the body
should be treated with great respect, but the usual last offices are appropriate.
Talk with the family to find out their exact needs. Baha’i’s must be buried not
cremated, and this must not be more than an hour’s journey from where they
died.
Buddhist patients.
About the faith.
Buddhists also believe in reincarnation, and that actions in this life will affect
the quality of life in a future reincarnation.
There are a number of different schools of Buddhism and all have different
customs so ask the patient about their specific needs.
Use the straightforward usual method. A Buddhist may have a lay name and a
Buddhist name, which is worth noting for any contact with the Buddhist
Monastery or other organisations.
Diet.
Some Buddhists may be vegetarians. There are several days of fasting. Ask the
patient about these. On these days Buddhists do not eat after noon.
Other considerations.
Peace and quiet for meditation is appreciated, as are visits from other
Buddhists.
Organ donation – May not be acceptable as many may wish for their body to
be buried or cremated whole.
Blood transfusions and transplants – Are acceptable but ask the individual.
Festivals.
Greeting.
In a Buddhist home.
Many Buddhists prefer showers to baths. A Buddhist may wish to sleep on the
floor. Traditionally Buddhists treat Doctors with respect. However since much
emphasis is put on the importance of having a clear mind, Buddhists may be
reluctant to take medications that are mind altering, and will need side effects
explained to them thoroughly. Buddhists may prefer the use of home remedies
– for example, rice porridge (one part rice to two parts water) may be
considered beneficial for convalescence.
Buddhist monks and nuns would prefer to be treated by members of the same
sex.
PUJA.
The terms prayer and worship are not really appropriate to Buddhism since
there is no god figure. Puja meaning ‘the acknowledgement of the ideal’ is
better, though not all Buddhists will use or be familiar with this term. Some
Buddhists use the word ‘prayer’ to mean a devout personal determination,
without the connotation of praying to a god. A space should be set aside for
Puja, which may involve chanting. Incense, flowers and candles may be used,
and they wash before Puja. A Buddhist temple is called a Vihara. When
entering a Buddhist centre, visitors will be expected to remove their shoes.
Some Buddhists consider pointing the sole of the foot at the figure of Buddha
disrespectful.
Birth.
Dying patients.
The patient would probably value open and honest communication about their
own death in order to prepare. Similarly, they like a reduction in drugs given so
as to approach death consciously and with a clear mind. The patient should be
visited by a Buddhist monk.
Diet.
A strong preference for home cooking and a belief that rice is the only staple
food, means that patients will require rice based meals and these may be
brought in by relatives. Well boiled soup is thought to purge the system and
promote a speedy recovery, particularly after surgery.
Other considerations.
Generally Chinese women are modest and would prefer a female professional.
Clear explanations of medical procedures and why they are being given will
gain co-operation and trust.
Post mortems – Chinese who are of the Muslim faith may object.
Family life.
Festivals.
The most significant festival is the Chinese New Year (Yuan Tan). It is
celebrated in Jan/Feb. Business accounts should be settled and all debts paid
before the New Year. It is everyone’s birthday and everyone becomes a year
older. On New Year’s Eve everyone is supposed to return to the family home
for a reunion dinner. On the first day of the New Year, young people go to pay
respects to the older generation, and prayers are offered to the dead. The
festivities come to a close on the 15th day with Yuan Sin, the Lantern Festival.
In the UK, celebrations last from one new moon to the next.
Other important festivals are Ching Ming, the Festival of Pure Brightness
(April), Dragon Boat Festival (June), and the mid-Autumn Festival of Moon
Cake (September). At Chung Yuan, the Festival of Hungry Ghosts appear
(October), paper objects are made up to aid the dead who have no resting
places or descendants, and paper boats are burnt at temples to help the dead
on their way.
Greetings.
When greeting each other, many Chinese people will place their hands
together in a prayerful manner and bow. When greeting a Western person
they would use Western customs.
Names and titles.
Traditionally the family name is written before the personal name. This may
not be the case for Westernised Chinese people. A persons’ family origin is of
great significance, so many Chinese women often retain their maiden names.
Some add their husbands’ family name to their own family name. Children
take their fathers surname. Through respect for elders, a person would be
unlikely to call their parents’ friends by their names, but would call them ‘aunt’
or ‘uncle’. A friend of an elder sibling would be addressed as ‘older brother’ or
‘older sister’.
Birth.
Mothers may be unwilling to bathe for a few days after giving birth.
Traditionally they should rest. Presents are brought for the new baby. The
baby’s head is often shaved about a month after the birth.
When an adult dies the body is washed. Some Chinese people will want to
clothe the body in white or in traditional clothing. Relatives and friends will
want to see the body before the coffin is closed.
Christian patients.
About the faith.
Christian denominations.
Anglican- These include The Church or Ireland and The Scottish Episcopal
Church, The Church of England and The Church of Wales.
Free Church- These include Methodists, Baptists, The Salvation Army, The
United Reform Churches, The Society of Friends, Presbyterian, The Church of
Scotland and others.
Roman Catholic- The Roman Catholic Church is the religious group which
accept the Pope as their spiritual leader.
Ask the patient if they would like the Hospital Chaplain to call. Messages may
be left on the Chaplaincy answer phones.
Practicing Catholic patients usually wish to see the priest whilst in hospital.
Staff should never hesitate to call in the priest fro the patient or their family.
Patients may wish to receive Holy Communion regularly whilst in hospital.
Anointing with oil is a very important aspect of Catholic patient’s care and this
together with confession may be sought before an operation or if a patient
deteriorates.
Anglican and Free Church patients may also wish for prayers, Holy Communion
or anointing. Please ask the patient about this.
There are no particular requirements. Some may wish to abstain from meat on
a Friday, and others may wish to fast before receiving Holy Communion.
Other considerations.
Fasting.
During Lent, the 40 days of preparation for Easter, many people choose to
observe some kind of fasting. This may mean moderating the diet or total
abstinence for that period of time. Fasting is a recognised part of an Orthodox
Christian’s life. Wednesday and Friday each week, and a long period before
Christmas and Easter have traditionally been times when no meat, fish, dairy
products or alcohol have been consumed. In the Roman Catholic Church, Ash
Wednesday and Good Friday are days when meat is avoided and only one main
meal and two lighter snacks are taken. This does not apply to those under 7 or
over 60, or to those who are sick. Latter-day Saints hold regular fast days,
usually on the first Sunday of each month during which neither food nor drink
are taken. This is not expected of children, of the sick or women who are
pregnant or breast feeding.
Festivals.
Sunday has been celebrated since the beginning of Christianity as the day of
Jesus’ resurrection from the dead. Most Christians meet for worship on this
day. They also try to honour the day by avoiding unnecessary work. The
important feast days are Christmas Day (25th Dec), celebrating the birth of
Christ, Easter, remembering his death and resurrection, and
Whitsun/Pentecost, which celebrates the coming of God’s spirit and the birth
of the church. Most Orthodox Christians celebrate Christmas Day on 25th
December but some follow the Julian calendar and celebrate it on 7th January.
The orthodox Christians celebrate Easter on a date which is often considerably
later than the Western Easter. The Western dates of Whitsun and Easter vary,
and they are linked to old Pagan festivals of spring and are based on a lunar
calendar. There are many ancient symbols associated with Christian festivals,
some of which are also shared by people outside the church.
Prayer.
The Lord’s Prayer taught by Jesus to his disciples, is treasured by Christians and
is used both in private and public worship.
“Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come,
they will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and
lead us not into temptation but deliver is from evil. For thine is the Kingdom,
the power and the glory, for ever and ever. Amen.”
Dying patients.
Christians believe in life after death. As death approaches some may wish
prayers to be said or anointing to take place. The Chaplain is also available to
comfort the family and is also available to support non-believers or non-
practicing people. Ask the patient or family about their needs.
Anglican and Free Church – Ask the family about their needs. Prayers may be
said by the bedside at the point of death or over the body soon afterwards.
Sometimes prayers are said in the mortuary viewing chapel. The last offices
can be carried out according to normal practice. Burial and cremation are both
acceptable.
Roman Catholic Church- The priest is often called at the point of death or soon
afterwards to administer the Last Rites. The last offices can be carried out
according to normal practice. Traditionally burial has been preferred but
cremation is acceptable. The main reason to call the priest out when the
patient dies is to pray with and help console relatives. It may not be necessary
to call the priest out when there are no relatives present.
Greek, Russian and Syrian Orthodox Churches- Can be referred to the Church
of England Chaplain.
Christian Scientists.
About the faith.
The Church of Christian Scientists aims to bring back the last element of
‘healing’ into Christianity, prayer is crucial for the healing of sickness and
disease, so treatment is purely spiritual.
This church does not try to control the actions of its members or prevent
conventional treatment.
Diet.
Privacy- This would be appreciated. The patient will wish to pray silently and
have access to a Bible and “Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures”.
Family or friends may be able to provide these.
Children- Christian Scientists accept medical care for their children and would
not object to blood transfusions or other treatments being given.
Post mortems and organ donations- Christian Scientists would prefer the body
to be kept inviolate unless a post mortem is legally required. Christian
Scientists would not normally wish to receive or donate organs.
There is no ceremony for a sick patient, but they will make their own silent
prayer.
Dying patients.
Death is seen as ‘the last enemy that shall be destroyed’. No one is believed to
be beyond the healing power of God. There are no last rites or rituals.
Routine last offices are acceptable, but a female body should only be handled
by female nurses. Cremation or burial is a matter of personal choice.
Hindu patients.
About the faith.
The divine dwells in everyone and so a Hindu will show practical care and
concern for all around them.
Most Hindus pray at least once or twice a day, usually at sunrise and sunset
and the patient may wish to wash and change before doing so. Some Hindus
prefer washing in free flowing water and they would require water to be
available for washing in the same WC.
Hindus in Britain may speak one of several languages: Gujerati, Hindi, Punjabi,
Tamil, Malayalam, or others.
The patient may not use the family name and just give two. It is a good idea to
use the name given on the medical card or on the GP’s register.
Diet.
Many Hindu’s are vegetarians, but not all. These patients may not be prepared
to use crockery and cutlery, which have been used for preparing meat or eggs.
If this is so, consult with the catering manager. Do not remove meat from a
plate then give the plate to a patient.
Some Hindu patients will want to wash their hands before and after meals and
may wish to rinse out their mouth.
Some Hindu patients may have set ideas about not eating certain foods at
certain times, for example, if you have a cough it is unwise to have milk or
citrus fruits or ice cream as it exacerbates cold symptoms.
Fasting.
Very few Hindu’s would insist on fasting in hospital. Even fasting Hindus would
eat fruit and drink milk. However at the end of a religious fast, which has been
kept at home, relatives may bring small quantities of food offered in
thanksgiving to God for the patient to share.
Festivals.
Notable festivals are Holi (in the spring to mark the death of winter) and Diwali
(the festival of light, celebrated with lamps and candles).
Greetings.
When a younger Hindu greets an elder, the younger may touch the feet of the
elder, as a mark of respect when a younger Hindu greets an elder, the younger
may touch the feet of the elder, as a mark of respect. When meeting with a
family, or another group of Hindus, it is usual to begin by addressing greetings
to the eldest member first. Public displays of physical intimacy such as kissing
and hugging are not the norm amongst Hindus.
In a Hindu home.
Most Hindu homes contain a small shrine to one or more gods. These will often
feature a statue perhaps an Aum symbol, candles and an offering of food or
other gifts for the deity. It would be disrespectful to remove or handle things
placed at the shrine.
When receiving a visitor it is considered polite to offer some food and drink
and it could be seen as offensive for the visitor to refuse such offers.
Worship.
Hinduism is based on the community, rather than the congregation. The home
is a place for devotion, but worship also takes place in the temple, or mandir.
Visitors to a Mandir will be expected to remove their shoes and cover their
heads. They should also dress modestly. Seating is on the floor, and it is
considered disrespectful to sit with feet pointing towards the sacred area at
the front of the temple. Mandirs are only likely to be found in major cities.
Footnote.
Cleanliness – Hindus like running water for washing in the same room as the
toilet. If a bedpan is used a bowl of water must be provided afterwards. Also,
patients prefer to wash in free-flowing water so a shower is preferable to a
bath. If there is no shower the patients may wish to pour water over
themselves from a small bowl.
Jewellery – This may have religious significance, so always ask before removing
it. Some jewellery may be taped to the patient’s body during an operation if
necessary.
Post Mortems – Are not liked but are acceptable if unavoidable. The family will
be most anxious that all of the organs are returned to the body to safeguard
peace in the after life. If the coroner is involved, make sure the family know
why as they like the funeral to take place within 24 hours or as near as
possible.
Birth.
During their pregnancy and delivery, mothers like to eat hot foods, also nuts
and have hot drinks such as milk.
Mothers rest for 40 days after the birth and relatives may be anxious to see
that this happens – indeed they may even be worried if mum has got up for a
bath within the first few days.
Traditionally mum and baby are given body massages with almond, coconut
and jasmine oil.
Mothers are given a diet of chapattis with plenty of ghee and sweets mixed
with brown sugar and nuts. The family may bring this for them. Breast feeding
mothers avoid food containing chillies.
Dying patients.
Hindus would prefer to die at home, and every effort should be made to make
this possible.
In hospital, customs and needs will vary depending on the devoutness of the
patient and family.
Relatives may wish to bring money and clothes to be touched by the patient;
which are then distributed to the needy. If the relatives cannot do this, they
may ask a nurse to do so. They may wish to sit with the patient and read from
the Holy Book (The Bhagavad – Gita and The Ramayana). Some patients want
to lie on the floor to symbolise closeness with Mother Earth or desire to give
the bed to someone in greater need. Staff should be able to facilitate this if it is
the wish of the patient.
Ask the patient/family if they would like the Hindu Priest (Pandit) to be called.
Some rites that the priest or family may perform: to put a thread around the
neck and wrist as a blessing, sprinkling Ganges water over the body or place a
tulsi leaf and Ganges water in the mouth.
Ask the patient if they would like to perform the last offices. Treat the body
with great respect. Some Hindus may not like non-Hindus to touch the body. If
this is so, wear disposable gloves.
The family will want to wash the body with Ganges water (which they will bring
with them from the temple). They will also put on new clothes. It is necessary
for the eldest son to participate no matter how young he is.
Diet.
No special considerations.
Other issues.
Birth.
Dying patients.
There are no particular rules or rituals but ask the patient about their needs
and always respect privacy and dignity.
Routine last offices are appropriate. Both burial and cremation are acceptable.
The British Humanist Association has a national network of officiates who
conduct funerals for their members and anyone else who requires a non-
religious funeral.
Jainism.
About the faith.
Ablutions.
Jainism has no dogma, so each individual decides how much to adhere to the
Jain code. Strict Jains, such as Mendicants, often give up washing in deference
to the two main principles of Jainism. The principle of renunciation teaches
that the body is unclean and that spiritual enlightenment can only be attained
by austere detachment from material cares (such as hygiene or personal
comfort). The principle of non violence means that Jains avoid killing all
creatures, including tiny bacteria on the body. They might also wish to avoid
polluting water with the dirt from their bodies.
Clothing.
Jainism has adapted to the modern world and attitudes towards clothing will
vary, but the Jain code of purity and non possession makes it likely that simple
and practical clothes will be preferred. Leather is unlikely to be worn. Jain
worshippers, especially Shvetanbara monks, often wear a piece of cloth over
their mouth to prevent them damaging the creatures that live in the air and as
a symbol to their dedication to purity to all things. Often a small brush is
carried to sweep insects away in their path to avoid killing them.
Compassion.
Death.
Diet.
Jains are usually strict vegetarians, although they may have adapted their diet
to the modern world. Some are vegan. Jain monks, and others who wish to
observe Jain principles rigorously, may avoid all foods that destroy life, such as
root vegetables, or fruits with lots of seeds. Eggs, honey and alcohol are also
often avoided. All mendicants and some lay people only eat in the daylight, to
avoid hurting insects in the dark. Fasting, often protracted, is an integral
element of Jainism, in line with the philosophy of renunciation. Salekahan, the
act of fasting to death, is considered a holy way for advanced mendicants to
choose to die. The craving of food is seen as the most material, basic instinct
that humans possess, tying us to a life of suffering, so ritual fasting represents
an attempt to escape this.
Employment.
Jains avoid violent professions, such as the meat trade or military careers. Even
farming is considered destructive, since activities like ploughing the earth
destroys minute creatures and disrupts the earth itself. Manufacturing
presents problems, since Jains believe metal and wood have feelings. Jains
tend to engage in trade or become tertiary services providers, such as doctors,
lawyers and accountants.
Festivals.
Diet.
Blood transfusions.
Other considerations.
Dying patients.
There are no rituals, but family, friends and elders of the congregation will
want to visit. The routine last offices can be carried out, but there are no
particular rites. Burial and cremation are both acceptable.
Jewish patients.
About the faith.
There are about 13 million Jews in the world, and after many years of dispersal
from their land or origin, traditions will vary from place to place. Four kinds of
Jewish people are distinguishable.
Hasidim – Identifiable by their black coats and curls of hair, who try to
live in isolation from the gentile world.
Secular Jews – Are those who identify with Judaism through culture
rather than religion.
Diet.
It is important that diet is talked over with the patient and family fully
involving dieticians and the catering staff as appropriate, because Jews have a
code of dietary laws to ensure that food is fit and clean (kosher) to enable
them to maintain their religious purity. How strictly this is adhered to will
depend on how orthodox a person is. Most hospital kitchens provide kosher
meals with separate crockery and cutlery. Observant Jews may like a
vegetarian diet or ask their family to bring food in.
Some orthodox Jews keep separate crockery, cutlery and utensils for meat and
milk. Do not remove meat or milk based from a plate and then give the plate to
a Jewish patient.
Cheddar cheese may not be acceptable. Eggs and white fish are acceptable but
shellfish and fish lacking find and scales may not be.
To avoid deterioration in health, some laxity may be allowed. A Jew who would
not normally eat out because of the risk of inadvertently eating from plates
which have contained forbidden foods will take a cup of tea or a bowl of cereal
in order to avoid undue health risks.
In consultation with the patient, their families and the Rabbi in exceptional
cases, the laws may be relaxed. Staffs are reminded that specifically prepared
kosher meals are available.
Fasting.
The most prominent fast is Yom-Kippur, a 25 hour fast, usually falling in late
September/October. If health permits, a Jew would prefer to keep this fast, to
be quiet, to pray and to be penitential.
Other considerations.
Post mortems – The family will be unhappy to consent unless legally required
to do so.
Dress.
Orthodox Jewish men keep their heads covered at all times, and all Jewish men
do so in the synagogue. Orthodox women also keep their heads covered and
some will wear a wig. Some will not wear trousers or sleeveless tops. Liberal
Jews may not be distinguishable by any dress code. Some observant Jews will
have a beard and may also have side locks. During various periods in the
religious calendar, some Jews will not shave at all.
Festivals.
The Jewish calendar is a lunar calendar, and so festival dates vary from year to
year when compared with the secular calendar. Amongst the most important
festivals are Rosh Hashanah, which is the New Year, and Sukkot, the autumn
feast of Tabernacles. Another is Pesach, or Passover, celebrated in the spring
and commemorating the Exodus of the Jews in Egypt. In preparation for the
Passover, the house is thoroughly spring cleaned and all traces of leaven are
removed. It is important for families to gather together for the major festivals,
which like the Sabbath begin at sunset and end an hour after sunset.
Greeting.
There are no fixed forms of greeting. Orthodox Jews would not expect overly
physical displays of affection between those of the opposite sex. A very
Orthodox Jew will not touch any women other than his wife and immediate
family.
In the Jewish home.
Birth.
Judaism is a family orientated religion. The birth of a child is a very joyful and
shared occasion. If the child is a boy, circumcision will take place on the eighth
day after birth, providing the child is well; the circumcision is always delayed if
there is the slightest doubt about the child’s health. The ritual is performed by
a trained and medically certified religious functionary, of the local Rabbi. If the
mother and child are still at the hospital, a small room may be requested and
the men of the family will attend the ritual and name the child. Today it is
usual for the mother and child to have returned by the eighth day so that a
hospital may not be called upon to participate in any way.
Coming of age.
Jewish boys are Bar-Mitzvah at the age of 13, when they take their full part
with other men in the life of the synagogue. Girls are Bat-Mitzvah at 12 years
of age.
Dying patients.
The idea of life after death is expressed in the faith although it remains true
that Judaism is concerned primarily with this life rather than the next and
obeying the Law of God in the present rather than speculating about the
future.
Death has its rites. Family and friends will want to be present, as according to
Jewish law and traditions, a dying person should not be alone. Visits by the
Rabbi and religious leaders will often be requested. A Jew will want to say a
special prayer of confession (Vidui) and the words of the Shema (the essences
of the faith found in three passages of scripture learned as a child and said
every morning and evening). The presence of a Rabbi is not essential for this
and if these prayers are not said nothing untoward has occurred.
When a Jewish patient dies.
At the moment of death those present may make a small tear in their clothes
as a mark of grief. The family may want to wash and prepare the body for
going to the mortuary and might want to remove the body from the hospital as
soon as possible. This will depend on how orthodox a family is and with the
help of hospital administration there should be no problem. It is important to
allow the family to be involved at this stage and to check with them before
doing anything. It is usual for the family to arrange for the body to be washed
and therefore staff should not wash the body without family’s consent.
Funerals.
A funeral will normally take place within 24 hours of death. Orthodox Jews can
only be buried, but some reformed Jews allow cremation as well as burial.
No prayers for the dead are offered but Caddish, a prayer of praise to God is
recited in their memory. It is the particular responsibility of a son to say
Caddish on behalf of a deceased parent.
After the funeral the close relatives return home for seven days of private
mourning. This period is known as Shiva, during which prayers are said and
mourners visit the bereaved household.
Mormon patients.
About the faith.
Mormons believe in “Pre-Existence” that is, in a spirit world which we are prior
to birth, and also after death, the spirit of the body will be resurrected and
return to live in the presence of Jesus Christ and God the Father.
Diet.
Mormons do not eat much meat, do not drink tea or coffee, do not smoke or
drink alcohol. Some will not have any hot drinks. Water, milk and fruit are good
alternatives.
Other considerations.
Blood transfusions – Are both acceptable. Organ donation is a matter for the
individual and the family to decide.
Post mortems and donations of the body – Are also a matter of family choice.
Birth.
There are no specific needs. Sick children are not required to be baptised.
Children are usually baptised around 8 years old.
Dying patients.
No particular rituals are required by the patient, but they would consider
spiritual contact important. Members of the Mechizedek Priesthood will come
to minister to the sick if asked.
Church members may well visit the patient in hospital and make the
appropriate contact for you.
Routine last offices are appropriate. If a sacred garment has been provided it
should be placed on the body. Burial is preferred although cremation is not
forbidden.
Muslim patients.
About the faith.
2. Prayer (Salat). Every Muslim believes he/she has to pray. Such prayer is
an attitude of mind, but also a ritual of bodily postures. Prayers are said
five times a day, (early morning, noon, afternoon, sunset and night). On
a Friday the noon prayer is a major congregational assembly at the
Mosque.
Generally, every Muslim respects his own identity and that of others, therefore
if staff listen sensitively to a Muslim’s needs and are respective of the patients
choices, a good relationship should be established.
Admitting a Muslim patient.
A relative or someone else who can act as an interpreter will probably come
with the patient. Any information needed should be obtained from the family
now. To avoid confusion it is a good idea to write the patients name as given
on their medical card or other official document.
Please ask the patient what name they prefer to be called whilst in hospital.
Diet.
A vegetarian diet, and also fish and eggs should be satisfactory. Fresh fruit and
vegetables are fine, otherwise Halal food is required as animal fat, and alcohol;
pork and bacon are not permitted. Only vegetable oil should be used for
cooking. Allowing relatives to bring in supplementary food could be helpful. If a
patient is fasting remember that they can eat before sunrise and arrange for
them to do so.
Other considerations.
A high standard of cleanliness is required. The Prophet Islam said, “God is pure
and loves purity and cleanliness”. A patient may wish to wash their hands
before eating. A bowl of water or a flannel for this purpose would be
appreciated by bedridden patients.
Birth.
Birth is seen as the Mother’s domain and Fathers tend not to get involved.
There is a definite preference for the birth to be attended by female medical
and nursing staff. Some women may refuse to be examined internally before
giving birth; indeed they may object to a male doctor being present in an
examination suite. If the woman is in any danger and only a male doctor can
help, rules do change but consult the next of kin.
As soon as possible after the baby is born an elder of the family or a religious
leader is required to recite a short prayer into both of the baby’s ears. Within 6
weeks of birth the baby’s head is shaved and male babies are required to be
circumcised as soon as possible.
Mothers are thought to be unclean for 40 days after birth. They are given a
special diet of nutritious concentrated chicken soup.
Fasting.
During the month of Ramadan, a Muslim does not eat or drink (even water)
between sunrise and sunset (between the first and fourth prayer of the day).
Fasting is exempt for women during menstruation, pregnancy, after recent
childbirth or breast feeding. It is excused for all who are very old or young, sick
or on a journey. It should be noted that fasting may be interpreted as not
accepting anything into the body in any way, including medication by injection.
Festivals.
The major festival is Eid-ul-Fitr, which brings Ramadan to an end, and Eid-ul-
Adha, which marks the end of the time of the pilgrimage to Mecca (Haj). These
are important times for families together.
Five pillars.
The five pillars of Islam are the tenets and practices essential to faith. These
are: The proclamation that God is one and Muhammad is his prophet
(Shahadah), offering prayer 5 times a day (Salat), almsgiving (Zakat), fasting
during Ramadan (Saum) and undertaking a pilgrimage to Mecca (Haj) at least
once in a lifetime if possible.
Greetings.
When two Muslims greet each other they might say “Assalamu Alaikum”
(peace be upon you). Modesty discourages physical forms of greeting (kissing,
hugging etc) between members of the opposite sex, unless they are related.
For some Muslim communities, shaking hands is acceptable, even between
members of the opposite sex. In some Islamic countries such as Morocco,
young men may have close friendships and hold hands in public, but this
practice is cultural rather than Islamic.
In a Muslim home.
You might see a copy of the Qur’an in pride of place and you might also see
prayer mats ready for use. You should offer to remove shoes when entering a
Muslim home.
Mosque.
Visitors to a Mosque will be expected to dress modestly, with legs and arms
covered. Women should have their heads covered too, and are asked to avoid
visiting a Mosque when they are menstruating. Shoes are removed before
entering a Mosque. Women and men sit separately in a Mosque. Seating is on
the floor and care ought to be taken not to point the feet towards ‘Qibla’ (the
wall niche which shows the direction of Mecca – the directions Muslims face
when praying). Music and raising one’s voice in the Mosque is forbidden.
Dying patients.
Life and death are two realities accepted in Muslim culture. The Holy Koran
says “We belong to God and to him we return”.
A Muslim believes in One God, all of his prophets, including Adam, Noah,
Moses, Jesus, Christ and Mohammed (peace be upon them all), and also
believes that there will be life after death.
Life and death are in the hands of God. The Holy Koran says, “Every soul shall
taste of death”.
Death is looked upon as a change from this world into the other. The patient’s
family will try to help them to make this transition and so it is a good idea to
give as much privacy as possible. Parts of the Holy Koran will be read out and
the patient may say them too, silently or gently aloud. Ask them if they would
like the religious leader of their community to be there and if they have any
other needs you can help with.
When a Muslim patient dies.
The next of kin should be advised to contact the Mosque for funeral
arrangements to be made. If no family are available, contact the local Imam or
a Muslim Community Leader and seek advice.
If the family do not or cannot, for some reason, take charge of the body, it
should be prepared for transfer to the mortuary in accordance with the
standard procedure for all patients.
The Muslim Community will then support the bereaved family during the
funeral period and in the time ahead.
Pagans.
Pagans are those who follow the polytheistic and /or
pantheistic religions of pre-Christian times in a way
appropriate to modern life. Paganism is a name for
nature based religions. The word ‘Pagan’ means
‘peasants’, named after the country people who first
practised this way of life. Pagans see the divine in everything around them,
especially in nature. Each tree, rock, river and creature is believed to have a
spirit. Therefore the sanctity of life is important to Pagans. Pagans also
emphasise environmental concerns.
The beliefs about gods are varied in Paganism. Some Pagans believe in many
gods and goddesses, whilst others see them as symbols that help to
understand the world. Pagans believe that divine forces can be seen in terms
of male and female, and can be found and approached both within and
without one’s self. Pagan traditions tend to stress the importance of the
female, especially in the face of patriarchal society.
Pagans have no founding father or holy book, but derive their teachings from a
variety of sources including ancient mythology and a study of nature.
Therefore Pagan groups tend to see all morality as being relative to the
situation. It is the individual’s responsibility to make ethical choice for them,
whilst trying to live compassionate lives.
There are many pagans around, but because of misunderstandings about their
beliefs they sometimes choose to be anonymous. For example, Pagans do not
believe in a devil.
Since Pagans stress the importance of personal freedom, they think people
should choose their own spiritual path. Therefore the children of Pagans are
allowed to choose for themselves. Proselytising (persuading to convert) is
regarded as inappropriate and ill mannered.
Death.
Many Pagans allow the corpse to rest for three nights before the funeral, to
allow the soul to depart. The corpse is normally kept at home for the wake.
Pagans usually have no objections to autopsies, if they are considered
necessary. Allowing the body to rest inviolate for three nights will obviously
render organs useless for donation. However, the choice to donate body parts
is an individual one.
Diet.
Festivals.
One might expect to see statuary of various gods, connected back to those
cultures to which the individual Pagan is drawn (Ancient Egypt, Greece, The
Heathen Tribe lands, Ancient Britain etc.). Pictures and iconography are very
common too, and various shrines or altars to different deities might be seen
around the house. Sometimes the icons and statues may have a strongly erotic
element, which could surprise some visitors. For a visitor to handle religious
items would be considered inappropriate, but the householder will probably
be happy to answer any questions as to the nature of the items and pets are a
common feature of Pagan homes.
Marriage.
The Pagan marriage ceremony is called a hand-fasting. The usual form is this:
Initially Pagans marry for a year and a day, at the end of which they can renew
their vows. Paganism is fully accepting of same-sex marriages. The rights of the
marital partner to be with their spouse should be acknowledged.
Medicine.
Homeopathic and other such remedies are commonly used by Pagans. Patients
will make doctors aware of any such remedies they are taking and these
should be integrated with mainstream treatment, not denigrated or rejected.
Some Pagan patients may wish to be attended by a spiritual healer whilst in
hospital. Such healings could take place within a quiet room, or more simply by
drawing the curtains around the bed to give privacy both to the Pagan and to
other patients who might consider such behaviour bizarre.
Pagans believe in a spirit world, and often feel that psychoactive drugs can
disturb their interactions with that world. Except in the case of emergencies,
doctors should always make clear to the patient any psychoactive side effects
of medication before drugs are administered. A Pagan patient who reports
seeing spirits (perhaps the soul of a dead relative, or some form of nature
spirit) is not necessarily exhibiting signs of mental disturbance or distress, nor
having a bad drug reaction. Within Paganism such spiritual visions are
considered quite normal and even desirable.
Symbols.
Many Pagans use ritual weapons, such as a knife (known as an athame) in their
personal worship. Such are kept for purely symbolic purposes, but may cause
concern over security. There may be a talisman and objects of reverence which
Pagan patients wish to wear. The pentagram is a well known Pagan symbol,
representing the five elements of earth, air, fire, water, and spirit. Please
behave sensitively when requesting a Pagan to remove jewellery.
Worship.
Pagan worships seek to honour divine powers and to bring the participants in
harmony with them, to celebrate the turning of the seasons, and to mark the
transitions of human life with appropriate rites of passage. Rituals usually
begin with the marking of sacred space. They may involve meditation,
chanting, music, prayer, dance, poetry, drama and the sharing of food and
drink.
Rastafarians do not see themselves as Christian. They accept the Old and New
Testament as scripture but they think that Christ’s spirit was reborn in Ras
Tafari who is the new Messiah.
Routine procedures are appropriate. Remember to ask about diet and any
religious needs. Patients may not be willing to wear hospital garments,
(pyjamas, and theatre gowns etc. that have been worn by others).
Cleanliness.
During her menstrual period a woman is considered unclean and requires free
flowing water. The same applies to men who are being treated for venereal
diseases.
Diet.
Women dress modestly – Be sensitive to their needs for privacy and dignity,
and remember that they may object to second hand garments.
Blood transfusions and Organ transplant – May not be rejected outright, but
the patient may need information that backs up that disease will not be
transmitted this way. Donation/reception of blood from family may be
considered. Patients are unwilling to participate for fear of contamination.
Also, Rastafarians believe that to have a transplant is to interfere with God’s
plan for mankind.
Birth.
Dying patients.
There are no last rites, although the family may pray by the bedside.
Rastafarians believe in the resurrection of the soul after death.
Death.
‘Dead’ and ‘death’ are considered negative words and are rarely used by
Rastafarians who follow the more positive concept of ‘ever living’. ‘Passed’ or
‘passing’ are terms often used; reinforcing the Rastafarian belief that life is
eternal through the spirit. Some believe is reincarnation. There are no religious
rituals and a priest is not required, however the head of the ‘Twelve tribes’
may be sent for. Rastafarians have no objection to cremation but most prefer
burial. Attendance at funerals is not emphasised as Rastafarians celebrate life
rather than death.
Seventh day Adventists.
About the faith.
Seventh Day Adventists accept the Bible as infallible and require a lifestyle of
strict temperance. The Sabbath, a day to be kept for rest and worship, lasts
from sunset on Friday to sunset on Saturday and is considered to be a day of
delightful communion with God and one another. This day is special and this
should be kept in mind.
Diet.
Birth.
There are no special rites associated with birth. Adventists believe in Baptism
by total immersion and therefore baptism of children should not necessarily be
a major issue. Some form of thanksgiving, blessing or dedication service might
be appropriate.
Death.
There are no special rituals but patients and family may request visits from
their local pastor. Chaplains will help in arranging this if necessary and are also
available to visit themselves. Burial is preferred.
Sikh patients.
About the faith.
1. Kesha – uncut hair (Sikhs may be distressed if hair on their head or body
is shaved or cut).
Prayers are said five times a day. There are Priests called Gianis, but any
competent person can take a service at a Sikh Temple (Gurdwara).
Punjabi is the first language of most Sikhs, so help may be needed to interpret
through a family member or a recognised interpreter.
Be sensitive to individuals needs, and find out about their dietary needs.
Remember that Sikhs dress modestly. Women would prefer to be seen by a
female doctor and would always want a women to be present during an
examination. Do not ask a Sikh to remove any of the 5 K’s unless absolutely
necessary, and certainly not in front of others.
Diet.
Many Sikhs are vegetarian, this applies particularly to women and they will not
eat meat, fish or eggs, or anything made with these. Non-vegetarian Sikhs will
not eat beef and some will not eat pork.
Please explain what kind of meat is in different items of the menu, for example
shepherds pie. Sikhs do not eat halal meat. Most Sikhs don’t drink alcohol or
smoke. Sikhs may fast on certain days, it is important to ask the patient about
this.
Other considerations.
Cleanliness – Like Hindus, Sikhs prefer to wash in running water and a shower
is preferable to a bath. There should be water in the same room as the toilet
and if a bed pan is used a bowl of water should be provided. Before meals,
Sikhs will want to wash their hands and rinse their mouth.
Greeting.
As with people from most parts of South Asia, Sikh men and women do not
usually tough each other when greeting. Many Sikhs greet each other by
putting their hands together and bowing in respect for the divine in the other
person. People of the same gender do touch, shake hands and even hug. Sikh
greetings are: Sat Sri Akal (the timeless one is true), and Vahiguru Ji Ka Khalsa,
Vahiguru Ji Ki Fateh (the Khalsa is with God, the Victory is with God). When
meeting a group of Sikhs, it would be normal to greet the eldest first.
In the Sikh home.
On entering a Sikh home you should offer to remove your shoes. Some families
keep the guru Granth Sahib in a special prayer room. That room has then
become a Gurdwara and should be treated as such by visitors. It is customary
to offer refreshments to guests and it is seen as impolite to refuse them.
Principles.
Sikhs believe that an individual should make every effort to overcome anger,
greed, pride and passion and should work hard to earn a decent living. Sikhs
recognise three levels of service: Physical service, which is being of assistance
to those who require help; mental service, which involves enlightening others
about God and righteousness; and material service, in the form of financial
contributions to noble causes. Sikhs are very tolerant of the view of others,
seeing all as friends and respecting people of different faiths.
Worship.
A devout Sikh will rise very early, bathe then spend some time in meditation
before saying the morning set of prayers. There are also evening prayers.
These prayers may be said privately or with the family. In the UK it is usual for
collective worship to be on a Sunday.
At the Gurdwara, visitors will be expected to dress modestly, with legs and
head covered. Shoes are removed and seating is on the floor. Sometimes men
and women sit separately. Care should be taken to avoid pointing one’s feet
towards the dais on which the holy text sits. At the end of the service, Kara
Prashad, a holy food, is given to the worshippers. The service is followed by a
shared meal in the Langer (community kitchen/dining hall).
Birth.
The family will want to visit the mother and baby as soon after the birth as
possible. Mothers rest for 40 days after giving birth and the family look after
the baby. The mother does not bathe for 13 days after the birth.
Bear in mind the usual ideas of modesty, privacy and dignity.
After resting for 40 days, the first outing will be to the Gurdwara.
Dying patients.
Sikhs believe that those who have the spirit of God are not afraid to die; death
is God’s will.
There are no last rites but there are Gianis who will visit and say prayers with
the family. However, the dying person should be encouraged to say ‘Waheguru
Wahegurull (wonderful lord), and the patient, a relative, a friend or
representative of the Gurdwara may read from the ‘Adi-Granth’.
Death.
If no family members are available, limited lying out is acceptable. Leave the 5
K’s intact. Leave hair covered and do not trim the hair or beard. Cover the body
with a white sheet. Only Sikh children are buried, adults are always cremated.
South Asians.
The term ‘South Asian’, is a loose term generally applied
to people from the Indian subcontinent – i.e. those from
India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal and Sri Lanka. This
land mass is larger than the size of Europe, and contains
many different cultures, religions, languages and
ethnicities. There are however some common cultural
beliefs.
In India, around 85% of the population are Hindus and 10% are Muslims.
Prominent also are Sikhs, Christians, Buddhists, Jains, Jews and Parsees
(Zoroastrians). Most Sikhs are from the province called Punjab. There are 17
major languages in India, and over 500 dialects. The most commonly spoken
languages are Hindu, Urdu, Punjabi, Gujarati, Bengali and English.
Pakistan is an Islamic state, which means nearly all Pakistanis are Muslim. The
main language spoken is Urdu, although Sindhi, Pashto and Punjabi also
feature prominently. India and Pakistan each have a state called Punjab, since
the original Punjab region was divided when Pakistan was created in the
Partition of India in 1947.
Bangladesh is only two thirds the size of the UK, but has twice the population –
it is therefore one of then most densely populated countries in the world.
Most Bangladeshis are Sunni Muslims.
It is important to recognise that not only are there different cultures within
South Asian Groups, but that other factors will influence behaviour. For
example, attitude in urban areas are often different to those in rural areas.
Migrants to other countries may adapt to the majority culture and thus put
less emphasis on tradition; alternatively they may adhere to traditions in a
more rigid fashion than those in the country of origin, which feel no threat to
their culture and so can adapt with the times.
Diet.
Diet will vary according to region, religion and custom. Many South Asians,
especially Hindus, Buddhists and Sikhs, follow a strictly vegetarian diet, eating
neither meat nor meat derivatives. Some will also avoid eggs and root
vegetables. Hindus do not eat beef. Muslims do not eat pork, and only eat
meat that is Halal. Many South Asians eat only with their right hand, since the
difficulty in obtaining water has made it a custom to designate the left hand for
when using the toilet. Historically, those who ate with their left hand were
more likely to be diseased, and so were shunned.
Dress.
Most South Asians dress with modesty. This can be interpreted in a number of
ways. People may cover their heads, especially in a place of worship. This is
especially true of women, particularly married women. Women will usually
cover their legs also. South Asians, especially those from the older generation
are often reluctant to undress in front of, or be handles by medical staff,
especially those of the opposite sex. Jewellery and other articles about the
person, such as bangles, threads and turbans, should be treated with respect,
as these items often carry religious or cultural significance.
Family.
South Asians tend to share certain family values. Emphasis is placed on the
importance of family. The elder generation is respected, and usually looked
after in the home. Families often live in extended relationships, with several
generations and sisters’ and brothers’ all living together in one house.
Although family planning is more acceptable, abortion is generally frowned
upon. Fertility is privileged, and for many it is particularly important to have a
son to carry on the family name. Relatives of the mother are often anxious to
see that she has had 40 days of rest following giving birth. Divorce, though not
forbidden by any of the religions, often carries social stigma and is avoided. Pre
and extra marital sex are not generally condoned and married couples are less
likely than Westerners to indulge in public displays of affection. Arranged
marriages are common, but all of the religions state that they should not take
place without the consent of both parties.
Gender.
Although customs are changing, people are often still expected to flow specific
gender roles. Women increasingly work, but are frequently also expected to
fulfil a domestic function. This is a valued role, however, and does not mean
that they are considered inferior. Women are the primary educators of
children, and so are often the most devout followers of their religions. Both
Sikhism and Islam state that women and men are equal, and Islamic law
protects the rights of married women to retain their name and property, to be
able to be educated and to work, and still be financially supported by their
husbands. Some separation of the sexes takes place, particularly in places of
worship. In some Muslim homes, women have their own quarters and will not
see men who are not family members. This separation means that certain
western tactile forms of communication may not be considered acceptable, or
may cause discomfort to some people of South Asian origin.
Health.
Since Indian food is rich in saturated fats, people from the subcontinent tend
to suffer more with food-related disorders, such as heart disease, diabetes,
obesity and strokes. Although all the religions discourage the consumption of
alcohol and tobacco, this is not borne out socially in the UK. For example, in
certain British Muslim Communities, nearly half of the male population
smokes. Some of these same communities are 2 to 3 times more physically
inactive and obese than the national average. South Asians generally prefer to
wash in free flowing water (showers not baths), so will need this provided for
them when they are in hospital.
In the home.
Since many South Asians sit on the floor, they will usually wish visitors to
remove their shoes before entering the house. Hindus may have a shrine of
worship in their homes, and any religious items should be treated with respect.
Social customs regarding the importance of hospitality are upheld vigorously,
and it may be considered offensive for visitors to refuse refreshments when
offered.
Spiritualists.
Modern spiritualism began in March 1848 in New
York as a result of the psychic experiences of the Fox
family. The first spiritualist church in the UK was
opened in Keighley, Yorkshire in 1853. The
Spiritualists’ National Union Ltd was formed in
1901. It acts as a trustee and support to the churches and provides educational
courses.
Ethical teaching.
We are all part of a divine plan involving the whole universe. Spiritualism is
concerned with the way we live here and now. We should live harmoniously
with others, doing unto others as we would wish others to do with us.
Mediums.
The work of a medium is to prove the reality of survival after death and to pass
on practical help and understanding when needed. The advice given should
add meaning and a deeper sense of purpose to life.
Spiritual Healing.
Worship.
Tao means, ‘the way’ and the first cause of the Universe: force that flows
through all life. It is the producer and source of order and stability. Taoists seek
to live in harmony with that force, by leading a balanced life. Taoism is thus a
nature-based philosophy, embodying four principles: Oneness (whish starts
and ends with the observation of nature), Dynamic Balance, Complementary
Cycles and Harmonious Action. For Taoists, time is cyclical, not linear like in
western thinking.
Taoism encourages its followers to accept life, with its good and it’s bad. It
teaches that most suffering and weakness comes from resistance to natural
processes. This is evident in the principle of harmonious Action, which can be
illustrated by the example of the bamboo stick bending with the wind. It
overcomes the wind by yielding to it. If it were stiff it would break, but because
it yields it overcomes. This can also be expressed in the art of wu wei, which is
to let nature take its course, but also to be kind to other people because such
actions are reciprocated.
Another Taoist principle is that each person has a life force (known as Chi) that
should be looked after, and so health is considered very important. An
individual’s chief task is to develop their virtue – especially the three jewels of
compassion, moderation and Taoism emphasis’ the individuals responsibility to
react to the situation, and is more concerned with guidelines for harmonious
living than rules. Matters of dress etc. are, therefore, determined by the
culture of the person concerned.
Taoists do not pray, rather they seek to answer life’s problems through inner
meditation and outer observation. Many Taoists practice Tai Chi, which is a
slow, controlled technique of movement and breathing.
Many Taoists believe in spirits of nature, or personified gods. Some may not
believe in these as actual entities, but as symbols that help them to understand
the world around them.
Irish Travellers came to England in the mid 19th Century to take advantage of
economic opportunities. Their origins can be found in early Irish history.
Invasion and famine caused many sedentary families to lead a nomadic
lifestyle. Intermarriage with the indigenous travellers has led to a community
with a distinct culture.
In recent years many have adapted to meet the demands made by economic
and social change, from living in wagons drawn by horses to travelling in
modern trailer caravans from earning a living doing farm work, fruit packing
and hawking handmade goods to collecting scrap metal, tarmacking, tree
pruning etc. Legislation has made it more difficult to live in a mobile lifestyle
and many families have been forced to settle on permanent sites or to move
into houses. There is also a variation in lifestyle through choice, with some
travellers being generally mobile, others travelling seasonally, and others
mostly sedentary. Distances travelled vary from weekend visits, to traditional
horse fairs, to inter-continental journeys.
Many adult travellers have not had the opportunity to attend school and are
non-literate. Some cannot tell the time. Documentation (such as birth
certificates) may not be readily available. Children are taught the skills to
support their lifestyle within the family bay example and practice.
Gypsies have their own language, which is Romanes. They also have their own
work for certain things, e.g. Non-gypsies are called Gorgios. It is important to
remember that some travellers consider their language and many of their
traditions as secret and no business of Gorgios.
Death
Diet.
Many travellers will not eat hospital food, nor food offered to them in Gorgio
households, for fear of it being unclean. They prefer to eat food prepared for
them by people they know.
Dress.
Traditionally gypsy women dress modestly, with legs covered. They will also
have heads and arms covered. Gold jewellery worn is a symbol of status and
wealth.
Family life.
Visitors should wait to be invited into a trailer by the occupant, who may
prefer to talk outside the family home. They should avoid any mention of
anything at all sexual or related to bodily functions. If tea is offered it should be
accepted as it is a sign of acknowledgement of the family’s cleanliness and also
of acceptance by the family of the visitor.
Hygiene.
Traditionally there have been strict rules about hygiene. The customs are
known as ‘mochadi’ (ritually unclean). As opposed to ‘chikli’ (merely dusty or
acceptably dirty). Most of these rules derive from a strict separation of inner
and outer – e.g. the area outside of a trailer can be untidy and dirty so long as
the inside is clean. Food preparation techniques are of upmost importance. For
instance it is ‘mochadi’ to have a toilet in a caravan where food id prepared or
to wash one’s body or hands in a bowl for washing crockery. Tea towels are
washed in a separate bowl and menstruating women might not be permitted
to prepare food. In some families cats are seen as ‘mochadi’ and dogs should
not be allowed in the home. It is ironic that whilst gypsies have often been
stereotyped as unclean by the majority culture, gypsies are just as likely to
consider Gorgio practices unclean.
Marriage.
In past years marriages might have been arranged – often between 1st and 2nd
cousins – to strengthen family ties. Sometimes a couple would ‘run away’
together. Today young people usually choose their own partner. Marriages are
an opportunity to bring friends and family together and take place in a church
or registry office.
Medicine.
In the past, traveller gypsies were skilled in the preparation of herbal cures for
most diseases and illnesses. These may still be used by the older generation,
but most travellers use conventional medical treatments today, although it can
be difficult seeing a doctor or keeping appointments at hospital if you are not
legally registered anywhere. If a traveller is hospitalised expect lots of people
to visit – especially if a new baby is born. Some gypsies think of hospitals as
concentrations of Gorgio disease and will only resort to using a hospital for
emergencies – for instance when a baby needs treatment.
Names.
An individual may use either of their parent’s surnames dependent upon the
situation. Strangers should be guided by the individual as to how they would
like to be known.
Prejudice.
With membership of the 4 Eastern European States in the EU, gypsy travellers
have become the largest ethnic minority in the EU. Despite this, gypsies and
travellers probably experience more social exclusion than any other
marginalised group in the UK. Many members of the travelling community will
experience the following problems:
The highest infant mortality rates of all groups.
Privacy.
Religion.
Travellers usually adopt the religion of the country in which they live.
Therefore most gypsies in the UK are Christian. In recent years evangelical
Christianity, particularly the ‘Gypsies for Christ’ movement, has won many
converts. Irish travellers follow the Catholic traditions.
Vietnamese patients.
About the faith.
Diet.
Rice and vegetables form the staple diet. The rice should be fluffy, and not
washed as this removes the taste. (Most complaints made from people in
hospital are about the food).
Other considerations.
Vietnamese women, like Chinese women, are mainly rather shy and may
prefer to be examined by a female doctor.
Blood transfusions and transplants – Discuss with the family as they may well
be suspicious.
Birth.
Soon after giving birth, the mother will be brought some special food called
‘Keung CHOW’. This food is believed to prevent infection. Showers and baths
may be considered bad for the health of the mother.
Relatives and friends may want to say prayers or will accept prayers from a
chaplain to appease the spirits of the dying person.
When a Vietnamese person dies.
The body of the deceased person will be taken to the Chapel of Rest before
burial. This will enable the relatives to view the body and will mean that the
spirits do not stay in the home of the deceased. There will be a service of
prayers where a chaplain would be acceptable. Alternatively, local Buddhist
monks or teachers may officiate or the family can arrange for a Tao leader to
attend.
This will be followed by a ceremony to thank people for coming to the funeral.
A photograph will be taken and sent to be enshrined in the Buddhist Temple to
enable someone to pray for the soul of the deceased. The relatives will want to
choose the land where the person will be buried. Joss sticks will be burned and
the time and place of the burial will be very important so that the soul of the
deceased is at peace.
West Indian patients.
About the faith.
“I am feeling sick” does not mean physically sick, but unwell/in pain; the
patient would say directly “I want to vomit”.
Diet.
Other considerations.
Ask the client/family sensitively and refer to the appropriate section of this
document. Bearing in mind diversity and it is very important to ask the family
about these. Not doing so may disadvantage the patient.
Dying patients.
Ask the patient/family about their needs and then where appropriate refer to
the section of this document.
When a West Indian patient dies ask the family about their needs.
Zoroastrian patients.
About the faith.
When a girl gets married, her middle name is changed to that of her husband.
Most Zoroastrians speak English, but Gujerati is also a major mother tongue
and an interpreter may be required. The language of ancient Iran – called
Avesta - is issued for prayer.
Talk with the patient and discuss any special needs they may have.
Diet.
Some Zoroastrians may not eat beef or pork; also some may not eat any meat
on certain days of the month, so a vegetarian diet may be preferable.
Other considerations.
Death.
Routine last offices are appropriate. The body should be bathed and wrapped
in white. The family may provide a ‘Sadra’ to be worn under the shroud next to
the skin; they may also wish to cover the head with a scarf.
Zoroastrians believe that the soul is earthbound for three days after death, and
so prayers should commence as soon as possible. This can be a problem if
there are no relatives. To request that death ceremonies and prayers should be
commenced and pending further instructions from any traceable next of kin
contact.
Zoroastrians like to be buried quickly and the family may become distressed if
there is a delay. Some families may want to prepare the body themselves. Both
cremation and burial are accepted.
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