Women in Islam (Varshney, 2014)
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WOMEN IN ISLAM
In Islam, the role of man and women is complimentary not contradictory. Roots of
economic rights of women are directly related to Islam which does not restrain women
from going to job like, Bibi Khadija (may Allah be pleased with her) wife of Prophet
Muhammed (PBUH) was one of the most successful business women of her time
who did the transaction through her husband. Islam strictly prohibits killing of infant
female children and refers woman as ‘Mohsana’, a ‘fortress against the devil’. Marriage
is considered as a misaq, a sacred agreement and contract among husband and wife.
There were a lot of misconceptions created by west related women position in Islam
which were removed by quoting in Quran as follows:
Whosoever has a daughter and he does not bury her alive, does not insult her, and
does not favour his son over her, God will enter him into Paradise (IbnHanbal,
No. 1957). Whosoever supports two daughters till they mature, he and I will
come onthe day of judgment as this (and he pointed with his two fingers held
together).
As a Wife
The Qur’an clearly indicates that marriage is sharing between the two halves of the
society, and that its objectives, besides perpetuating human life, are emotional well-
being and spiritual harmony. Its bases are love and mercy. Among the most impressive
verses in the Qur’an about marriage is the following:
‘And of His signs is that He created for you from among yourselves couple that
you may find repose in them and He put love and mercy between you. No doubt,
in it are signs for a people who ponder..”(Qur’an 30:2 1).
According to Islamic Law, women cannot be forced to marry anyone without their
consent. Ibn Abbas reported that a girl came to the Messenger of Allah, Prophet
Muhammed (PBUH) and she reported that her father had forced her to marry without
her consent. The Messenger of God gave her the choice... (between accepting the
marriage or invalidating it) (IbnHanbal No. 2469). In another version, the girl said:
‘Actually I accept this marriage but I wanted to let women know that parents have no
right (to force a husband on them)’ (IbnMaja, No. 1873). Besides all other provisions
for her protection at the time of marriage, it was specifically decreed that woman has
the full right to her Mahr, a marriage gift, which is presented to her by her husband and
is included in the nuptial contract, and that such ownership does not transfer to her
father or husband. The concept of Mahr in Islam is neither an actual or symbolic price
for the woman, as was the case in certain cultures, but rather it is a gift symbolizing
love and affection. The rules for married life in Islam are clear and in harmony with
upright human nature. In consideration of the physiological and psychological make-
up of man and woman, both have equal rights and claims on one another, except for
one responsibility, that of leadership. This is a matter of nature of Islamic duties in
applying equally to males and females unless special exemptions are specified. This is
natural in any collective life and which is consistent with the nature of man.
The Qur’an thus states:
‘And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them, and men are
a degree above them.’ (Qur’an 2:228).
Such degree is Quiwama (maintenance and protection). This refers to that natural
difference between the sexes which entitles the weaker sex to protection. It implies no
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superiority or advantage before the law. Yet, man’s role of leadership in relation to his
family does not mean the husband’s dictatorship over his wife. Islam emphasizes the
importance of taking counsel and mutual agreement in family decisions. The Qur’an
gives us an example:
‘...If they (husband wife) desire to wean the child by mutual consent and (after)
consultation, there is no blame on them...’ (Qur’an 2: 233).
Over and above her basic rights as a wife comes the right which is emphasized by
the Qur’an and is strongly recommended by the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) kind
treatment and companionship.
The Qur’an states:
‘O believers! It is not lawful for you to be heir of the women forcibly, and prevent
them not with this design that you may take away part of what you had given
them as dower except in this shape that they commit an act of flagrant indecency
and treat with them fairly; then if you dislike them, it is likelihood that you may
dislike a thing and wherein Allah has placed much good” (Qur’an 4: l9).
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH):
The best of you is the best to his family and I am the best among you to my
family. The most perfect believers are the best in conduct and best of you are
those who are best to their wives. (Ibn-Hanbal, No. 7396).
Behold, many women came to Muhammad’s wives complaining against their
husbands (because they beat them)—those (husbands) are not the best of you.
As the woman’s right to decide about her marriage is recognized, so also her right to
seek an end for an unsuccessful marriage is recognized. To provide for the stability of
the family, however, and in order to protect it from hasty decisions under temporary
emotional stress, certain steps and waiting periods should be observed by men and
women seeking divorce. Considering the relatively more emotional nature of women,
a good reason for asking for divorce should be brought before the judge. Unlike the
man, however, the woman can divorce her husband without resorting to the court,
if the nuptial contract allows that. More specifically, some aspects of Islamic Law
concerning marriage and divorce are interesting and are worthy of separate treatment.
When the continuation of the marriage relationship is impossible for any reason, men
are still taught to seek a gracious end for it. The Qur’an states about such cases:
‘And when you divorce women and their period are completed, then, till that
time either retain them kindly or release them kindly, but there should not be
retention to hurt them so that you may transgress the limit and whoso does this,
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he wrongs his own soul, and do not make jest of the signs of Allah and remember
the favour of Allah upon you and the Book and Wisdom which He has sent
down to you for admonishing you, and remain fearing Allah and know that Allah
knows all things”. (Qur’an 2:231). (See also Qur’an 2:229 and 33:49).
As a Mother
Islam considered kindness to parents, next to the worship of God.
‘And We have stressed on man concerning his parents, his mother bore him undergoing
weakness upon weakness and his weaning takes two years that give thanks to Me and
to your parents. Lastly, the return is towards Me.’ (Qur’an 31:14)
Moreover, the Qur’an has a special recommendation for the good treatment of
mothers.
‘And your Lord Commanded that worship not any else excepts Him and does
good to parents. If either or both of them reach old age before you, utter not even
a faint cry to them and chide them not and speak to them the word of respect.’
(Qur’an 17:23).
A man came to Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) asking:
‘O Allah’s Apostle! Who is more entitled to be treated with the best companionship
by me?’ The Prophet said, ‘Your mother’The man said. ‘Who is next?’ The
Prophet said, ‘Your mother.’ The man further said, ‘Who is next?’ The Prophet
said, ‘Your mother.’ The man asked for the fourth time, ‘Who is next?’ The
Prophet said, ‘Your father.’ (Bukhari 8.3).
A famous saying of The Prophet is:’Paradise is at the feet of mothers.’ (In Al’Nisa’I,
IbnMajah, Ahmad). ‘It is the generous (in character) who is good to women, and it is
the wicked who insults them.’
PERSONAL LAW
There are two different conceptions of law: as divine and as man-made. The latternotion
is the guiding principle of all modern legislation. Law, according to a modernJurist,
is the ‘distilled essence of the civilization of a people, it reflects the people’ssoul more
clearly than of any other organism. As far as the literal meaning ofShariat goes, it
is considered as ‘the road to the watering place, the path to befollowed. However,
the technical meaning of Shariat is the Canon law of Islam, thetotality of Allah’s
commandments, and is the central core of Islam, whilejurisprudential law is called
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§ Social: Islamic law gives the woman an important role at home and in the society.
The Prophet, both by example and precept, encouraged the institution of marriage
and recognized it as the basis of society.
§ Religious: The Prophet had said ‘Marriage is my Sunnah and who ever do not
follow my Sunnah is not my true-follower’ (IbnHaiah, BabunNikah).
Marriage is a mechanism of regulating human relations with religious sanctions and
therefore termed a sacred covenant. The Prophet was determined to raise the status of
women and accordingly attributed legal and religious importance to marriage.
Islam, unlike other religions, is a strong advocate of marriage. There is no place for
celibacy. The Prophet has said,’there is no celibacy in Islam.’ Marriage is a religious duty
and is more safeguard as well as a social necessity. Islam does not equal celibacy with
high ‘taqwa’/’Iman’. The Prophet has also said, ‘Marriage is my tradition, whosoever
keeps away there from amongst’ (Warsi, 2011).
Shariat Act 1937—An Act to make provision for the application of the Muslim
Personal Law (Shariat) to Muslims. Notwithstanding any customs or usage to the
contrary, in all questions (save questions relating to agricultural land) regarding
intestate succession, special property of females, including personal property inherited,
or obtained under contract, or gift, or any other provision of Personal Law, marriage,
dissolution of marriage, including talaq, ila, zihar, lian, khula and mubaraat,
maintenance, dower, guardianship, gifts, trusts and trust properties, and wakfs (other
than charities and charitable institutions and charitable and religion endowments) the
rule of decision in cases where the parties are Muslims shall be the Muslim Personal
Law (Shariat) (Kazi S., 1999).
The Dissolution of Muslim Marriage Act, 1939–An Act to consolidate and clarify
the provisions of Muslim law relating to suits for dissolution of marriage by women
married under Muslim law and to remove doubts as to the effect of the renunciation
of Islam by a married Muslim woman on her marriage tie.Whereas it is expedient to
consolidate and clarify the provisions of Muslim law relating to suit for dissolution of
marriage by women married under Muslim law and to remove doubts as to the effect
of the renunciation of Islam by a married Muslim woman on her marriage tie; it is
hereby enacted as follows (Caroll L, 1987):
A woman married under Muslim law shall be entitled to obtain a decree for the
dissolution of her marriage on any one or more of the following grounds, namely:
§ that the whereabouts of the husband have not been known for a period of four
years;
§ that the husband has neglected or has failed to provide for her maintenance for a
period of two years;
§ that the husband has been sentenced to imprisonment for a period of seven years
or upwards;
§ that the husband has failed to perform, without reasonable cause, his marital
obligations for a period of three years;
§ that the husband was impotent at the time of the marriage and continues to be so
§ that the husband has been insane for a period of two years or is suffering from
leprosy or a virulent venereal disease;
§ that she, having been given in marriage by her father or other guardian before she
attained the age of fifteen years, repudiated the marriage before attaining the age
of eighteen years;
§ provided that the marriage has not been consummated;
§ that the husband treats her with cruelty, that is to say.
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The provision of this Act has provided a statutory right to Indian Muslim woman
to inter_caste marriages on voluntary basis, though the earlier Act did not permit this.
It means that the latest legislation has provided a new dimension to the right of
Indian Muslim women to enter into inter-religious marriages, though the Act is not
in consonance with the provisions of the Quranic Law. Nevertheless, its inevitability
cannot be denied in the Indian social condition. The Act has served a great cause to the
society by providing legal shelter to those unions which are bound to suffer the agony
of being called illegal relationship in the area of matrimony.
if we always give her a share equal to the man’s, it would be unjust to him. So, instead
of doing injustice to either side, Islam gives the man a larger portion of the inherited
property to help him to meet his family needs and social responsibilities. At the same
time, Islam has not forgotten her altogether, but has given her a portion to satisfy her
very personal needs. In fact, Islam in this respect is being more kind to her than to him
(Warsi, 2011).
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