I. Attending Skills Ii. Bracketing Iii. Leading Iv. Reflecting Skills V. Probing
I. Attending Skills Ii. Bracketing Iii. Leading Iv. Reflecting Skills V. Probing
I. Attending Skills Ii. Bracketing Iii. Leading Iv. Reflecting Skills V. Probing
What is counselling?
Counselling is a talking therapy that involves a trained therapist listening to you and
helping you find ways to deal with emotional issues
Depression Counsellor
Steps to take:
If you know of someone who is suicidal, do not leave the person alone.
Attempt to get them immediate help from their medical provider, hospital, or call 911.
Hopeline Cebu’s hotline is 0917-558-2919
I. ATTENDING SKILLS
II. BRACKETING
III. LEADING
IV. REFLECTING SKILLS
V. PROBING
Attending skills thus refer to the way in which we use our bodies to communicate the
message nonverbally that “I am listening to you” (or, as the term suggests, I am paying
“attention” to you)
Leaning towards the person
Tilting or nodding the head
Raising the eyebrows when the person makes an important point
Maintaining eye to eye contact
Poor attending skills
Leaning backwards
Looking away from the patient
Crossing one’s arms--these communicate the message that one is not interested in
what the patient is saying
Habitually twirling pencils, scratching, or tapping our feet
Staying too close to the person can be threatening
Staying too far away can be interpreted as an unwillingness to get involved
BRACKETING
Is a mental skill
When we listen to someone speaking to us about his problem
we automatically want to ask for more information
we make hypotheses in our minds as to what the problem might be
we start thinking of what we want to say to the person once he stops talking.
Bracketing means setting aside these feelings and thoughts and judgments temporarily so
that there will be space in our minds and in our hearts for what the patient is really saying.
LEADING
There are two kinds of leads: the indirect and the direct
Indirect leads are open invitations made by the listener for the person to talk about
anything that he wishes
The choice of what to talk about depends upon the person and not upon the
listener.
Indirect leads may consist of questions such as: “What would you like to talk about?”
or “What can I do for you?”
Alternatively, indirect leads can also take the form of words or phrases, such as:
“Yes,” “Go on,” “And then?”
REFLECTING
In this set of skills, the listener takes the verbal content of what the person says,
repackages and rephrases it so that it becomes clearer, and gives it back to the
patient.
There are two ways of doing this: paraphrasing and perception-checking
In paraphrasing, the listener listens to what the person is saying and then, using
fewer but clearer words, summarizes to the person what the latter has just said.
Another way of putting it would be “to summarize in 10 words what it took the
patient a hundred words to say.”
Persons who are confused or emotionally pained often struggle to articulate what is
happening to them and what they say may be muddled up precisely because of that
pain and confusion.
PROBING
Probes are questions that are asked in order to elicit more information
How does that make you feel?
Can you tell me more about that feeling?
What is it that makes you feel that way the most?