Table Sitting Manners and Etiquettes in Islam:: Always Say Bismillah (In The Name of Allah)
Table Sitting Manners and Etiquettes in Islam:: Always Say Bismillah (In The Name of Allah)
For us as Muslims however, Allah (swt) has given us through his messenger a flawless
example of how one should eat, and the mannerisms involved in eating. A few among these
would be saying ‘Bismillah’ before starting to eat and to say ‘Alhamdulillah’ when we’re
done. Washing our hands before and after each meal. Eating what is in front or nearer to us
and always using our right hand.
The noble prophet Muhammad (PBUH) used to always use his right hand when
eating and advised others to do the same.It was narrated from Umm Kalthoom
from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allaah
(PBUH) said:
“When any one of you eats, let him mention the name of Allaah. If he
forgets to mention the name of Allaah at the beginning, then let him say
‘Bismillaahi awwalahu wa aakhirahu (In the name of Allaah at the
beginning and at the end).”
Since, if we eat Haraam (unlawful) food, then our prayers will not be accepted.
Wash both hands and mouth before and after having food (if can, do
miswak as well):
Anas Bin Malik (RadhiAllahu Anhu) narrates that the Beloved Prophet ﷺsaid,
"Whoever wants that Allah Ta'ala increase blessings and goodness in his home then he
should do wudu when the food is presented in front of him and do wudu when it is
picked i.e., wash the hands and the mouth.
Wahshi Bin Harb (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrates that the Beloved Prophet ﷺsaid,
"Eat together and read Bismillah, in this, there is blessing for you." (Musnad Ahmad,
Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah)
It is a sunnah of our Beloved Prophet ﷺto sit down while eating. Also spreading
a table cloth down and keeping the foods on the table cloth.
Sit in a humble position with your knees raised or legs crossed or with one knee prostrate and
the other one raised.
Abdullah Bin Umar (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrates that Beloved Prophet ﷺsaid:
"When one eats then he should eat with the right hand and when one drinks then he
should drink with the right hand.
A Muslimah should not eat very hot food or drinks since beloved Prophet ﷺhas
forbade it.
Jabir Bin Abdullah and Asma (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrate that beloved Prophet
ﷺsaid, "Cool your meal because there is no blessing in hot food.
It is not permitted and unethical to blow our breath into food or any drinks.
Abdullah Bin Abbas (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrates the beloved Prophet ﷺsaid,
"Do not blow from your mouth into food and water."
Food has to be picked up:
While you are eating or once we finished eating, if any food had fallen on our table cloth,
pick them up and eat. It is the sunnah of our Beloved Prophet ﷺ
Aisha Siddiqa (Radi Allahu Anha) narrates that beloved Prophet ﷺentered the
house and saw some fallen bread. He picked it up, wiped it, and ate it. Afterwards He said,
"Aisha, respect good things. When this thing (bread) runs away from a nation it doesn't
return." (Ibn Majah)
Abu Saeed Khizri (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrates that the beloved Prophet ﷺused
to recite " Alhamdulillahil-ladhi ath’amanaa wasakaanaa waja’alanaa min al muslimeen"
after eating food.
Once you finished eating, you should lick your fingers properly and should wipe the dish the
fingers and lick them as well.
We should not criticize the food which was presented to you. If you like, eat it, don’t like,
then leave it.
Abu Hurayrah (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrated that beloved Prophet ﷺnever
criticized any food. If he liked it he would eat it and if he did not like it he would leave it. (
It is prohibited to eat and drink in gold and silver plates or vessels. Our beloved Prophet
ﷺsaid: “Do not wear silk or brocade, and do not drink from vessels of gold
and silver, or eat from plates thereof. They are for them in this world and for us in the
Hereafter.”
ETIQUETTES AND MANNERS OF DRINKING:
Anas (Radi Allahu Anhu) reported beloved Prophet ﷺdisapproved the drinking
of water while standing.
Abdullah Bin Umar (Radi Allahu Anhu) narrates that Beloved Prophet ﷺsaid:
"When one eats then he should eat with the right hand and when one drinks then he
should drink with the right hand.
Beloved Prophet ﷺsaid, "Do not drink in one gulp like a camel, but in two or
three (gulps). Mention the Name of Allah (i.e., say Bismillah) when you start drinking
and praise Him (i.e., say Al-hamdu lillah) after you have finished (drinking)."
Our beloved Prophet ﷺsaid: “Do not wear silk or brocade, and do not drink
from vessels of gold and silver, or eat from plates thereof. They are for them in this
world and for us in the Hereafter.”