Father Absence and Self Esteem
Father Absence and Self Esteem
Father Absence and Self Esteem
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FATHER ABSENCE AND SELF-ESTEEM AMONGST ECONOMICALLY
DISADVANTAGED CHILDREN
Casey Kevorkian
Providence College
Providence, Rhode Island
2010
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Casey Kevorkian
Father Absence and Self-Esteem
Amongst Economically Disadvantaged Children
ABSTRACT
Children begin to build self-esteem in early childhood based on social and emotional
development. Previous research has shown that children inhabiting homes where the biological,
adoptive, or step father are present have shown to exhibit higher levels of self esteem and social
functioning. However, further information regarding the positive male influence, lesbian
parenting, or the absence of “paternal absence” stigmas have show to contradict the previous
research. This study investigated the self-esteem of economically disadvantaged children using
results from the Devereux Early Childhood Assessment as it relates to the levels of father
involvement. 115 children ages 3-5 involved in a governmentally subsidized pre-school and case
management program were studied using a composite DECA score as rated by both parents and
pre-school providers. Family case managers and student files were used to yield demographic
data and data regarding paternal presence and involvement. To determine possible relationship,
this information was synthesized into charts and analyzed using non-parametric correlations
(Mann Whitney Test and Spearman’s r). The findings revealed no significance between the
levels of paternal involvement and participant’s self-esteem. The findings of this work are
intended to inform the social work profession of the benefits of further inclusion of fathers in
social service interventions and promote social policy to advocate for the rights of fathers in the
human services field.
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OUTLINE
I. Introduction
a. Problem Formulation
i. Economically disadvantaged children who do not have fathers present have
shown to have lower levels of self-esteem and security as compared to peers
who do have fathers present.
b. Problem Justification
i. Numbers – Who is effected and how many involved
1. Between 1960 and 2006, “the number of children living without
fathers in single-mother homes grew from 8 percent to 23.3
percent, while 34 percent of children currently do not live with
their biological fathers” (U.S. Bureau of the Census, 2007 as cited
in National Fatherhood Initiative, 2008).
2. According to the 2005 U.S. Census Bureau “there are
approximately 13.6 million single parents in the United States, and
those parents are responsible for raising 21.2 million children”.
Of these families, 84 percent are custodial mothers (U.S. Census
Bureau, 2007)
3. Approximately half of divorces involve families with at least one
child, which affects about one million children a year (Fields,
2003).
ii. Social work practice- Understanding any possible correlation between self
esteem and father absence can inform social workers of risk factors involved
in an attempt to do better work with clients in understanding the full breadth
of issues surrounding a problem with low self esteem. A better informed
practice will aid social workers in competently assessing situations and
providing higher quality care to clients, which is required of social work
professionals (according to the NASW Code of Ethics).
iii. Research – The outcome or finding of this study could raise a flag to the
roots of emotional health concerns, such as low self esteem in children, and
support further research efforts to locate more profound environmental
concerns to protect this vulnerable population. Gaining the basic
understanding that this fist study may provide may open doors for further
research to explore the complex connection of child-father relationships and
the meaning they may have on the overall well-being of the family system.
iv. Policy – support for policies surrounding reunification of the family can be
strengthened by any results that point toward better social and mental health
of children if their fathers are present. Also, further programs can be created
that would support fathers in gaining better parenting skills to assist in more
healthy family functioning.
II. Main Points
a. Definition of father absence –
1. Paternal absence or father absence can be defined as “families
where a biological, adoptive, or stepfather does not live in the
same household as the children” (Nock & Einolf, 2008). This
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i. The stigma that children experience when they are members of father absent
households involves illegitimacy, divorce, and abandonment which can be
destructive to a child’s development. However in locations and communities
where father absence is the norm, these stigmas are not present and father
absence does not have the same impact on these families. Places where
father absence is high, such as among blacks in the United States, the
Caribbean, Brazil, and the Caribbean coast of Central America there is no
stigma and thus no negative impact. (Austin, 1989, as cited in Coleman,
1996, p. 124)
1. “father absence has a negative impact on achievement only among
groups where middle-class values are the accepted norm”
(Heatherington, 1983, as cited in Coleman, 1996, p. 124)
2. “Several studies have shown similar results among Black children
researched in housing projects. Results failed to show that this
population of children who had fathers who were absent achieved
lower in regards to academic achievement as compared to peers
from father present homes” (Herzog & Sudia, 1973, and
Wasserman, 1972, as cited in Coleman, 1996)
3. “Among Black children in inner city settings, the absence of
fathers did not have a significant effect on sex role development.
However, a surrogate male adult was usually present in place of
the biological father” (Heatherington, 1983, as cited in Coleman,
1996)
ii. Benefits of Maternal presence
1. “Strong family networks among African American children are
prevalent and provide friendship groups and access to community
support. Financial assistance and support are frequently
exchanged and the presence of the maternal grandmother is
common” (Coleman, 1996, p. 125)
b. Benefits of presence of other adult figures: Gay Couples
i. “Responsible fathering can occur within a variety of family structures” as
neither the mother or the father are essential to child development.
“Heterosexual marriage is not the only social context where responsible
fathering can occur” (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999)
ii. For children raised with an all-female parental team without a male present
in the household, “the female couple tend to be more involved in the
children’s lives and is in greater harmony in terms of parenting approaches”
(NARTH, 2008)
iii. “Data on gay fathering couples have convinced us that neither a mother nor
a father is essential”; “Children need at least one responsible caretaking
adult who has a positive emotional connection to them, and with whom they
have a consistent relationship” (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999)
1. Gay and lesbian parents can create a positive family context
2. “Neither the sex of the adult(s) nor the biological relationship to
the child has emerged as a significant variable in predicting
positive development”. The strongest indicators instead are
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INTRODUCTION
Economically disadvantaged children who do not have fathers present have shown to
have lower levels of self esteem as compared to peers who do have fathers present (Pruett,
1987; Wineburgh, 2000; Glennon, 2002; Nock & Einolf, 2008; Beaty, 1995). Modern society
has given rise to a number of varying family system shifts in recent years. An “intact” family,
one in which both mother and father are present, is no longer the norm as alternative family
structures have become more prevalent (Beaty, 1995). One major alternative family structure
that continues to increase is that of paternal absence. Paternal absence or father absence can be
defined as “families where a biological, adoptive, or stepfather does not live in the same
household as the children” (Nock & Einolf, 2008). This absence can be due to death, divorce,
career demands (military service for example), or separation. In these instances, the caregiver
and guardian most often becomes the mother and results in a female-headed family. Problems
occur when a child must grow and develop in an environment lacking paternal supports where
he or she may harbor feelings of shame, doubt, and blame for the loss of the father in the home
(What it means to be a father, 2007). These troubling feelings have shown to manifest into
properly addressed (Wineburgh, 2000). For children who undergo a loss of paternal presence
before the age of five, the effects have been characterized as profound and long-term (Beaty,
1995). Furthermore, children who grow up living with never-married mothers are more likely
to have been treated for emotional problems (Remez, 1992). The complex string of emotions
surrounding the loss of paternal supports in a child’s life has been termed “father hunger”,
where a child “experiences longing and desire for a male role model and attention” (Herzgog,
1982, p. 165). Further feelings of rejection occur when subsequent males cannot fulfill the
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child’s emotional needs sufficiently which can result in lowered self esteem and self worth
(Wineburgh, 2000). It has been proven that “fathers provide both economic and social capital
development, peer relationships, self esteem, and adult outcomes such as achievement, marital
happiness, and strength of social networks” (Krampe & Newton, 2006, p. 160). Due to the
previous research conducted surrounding the effects of children living in fatherless homes, this
study will address the levels of self esteem and security in children with absent fathers. Being
able to identify a correlation between the two variables of absent fathers and self esteem of
children would be important in understanding key links to emotional well being and health of
children.
Father absence has risen greatly over the past four decades. Between 1960 and 2006,
“the number of children living without fathers in single-mother homes grew from 8 percent to
23.3 percent, while 34 percent of children currently do not live with their biological fathers”
(U.S. Bureau of the Census, 2007 as cited in Nock & Einolf, 2008, p. 3). According to the
2005 U.S. Census Bureau “there are approximately 13.6 million single parents in the United
States, and those parents are responsible for raising 21.2 million children” (U.S. Census
Bureau, 2007). Of these families, 84 percent are custodial mothers (U.S. Census Bureau,
2007). In addition, approximately half of divorces involve families with at least one child,
With attention to the aforementioned emotional burdens that have been established with
children from absent father homes, the current number of children effected is overwhelming.
Understanding any possible correlation between self esteem and father absence can inform social
workers of risk factors involved in an attempt to do better work with clients in understanding the
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full breadth of issues surrounding a problem with low self esteem. A better informed practice
will aid social workers in competently assessing situations and providing higher quality care to
recommendations can be made with children of father absent families to safeguard against
potential self blame, lessening of self esteem, behavioral problems, or other negative emotional
effects that have been previously studied. This information can be used to help maintain a
healthy emotional environment for children in this population as they are vulnerable due to their
inability to advocate for themselves and draw attention to this potential issue. Feelings of self
esteem and self worth are vital to the healthy development of a child. In maintaining the
objectives of National Association of Social Workers, protecting and advocating for vulnerable
The outcome or finding of this study could raise a flag to the roots of emotional health
concerns, such as low self esteem in children, and support further research efforts to locate more
profound environmental concerns to protect this vulnerable population. Gaining the basic
understanding that this first study may provide may open doors for further research to explore
the complex connection of child-father relationships and the meaning they may have on the
Support for policies surrounding reunification of the family can be strengthened by any
results that point toward better social and mental health of children if their fathers are present.
Also, further, higher quality programs can be created that would support fathers in gaining better
LITERATURE REVIEW
Father Absence
The family structure of a home with father absence can be operationalized as a family
where the father is not present in the same household as the children (Nock & Einolf, 2008). A
partial absence of a father has been termed for a living situation where the father may live in a
separate household due to divorce, separation, or otherwise, yet still maintains frequent contact
with the child (KIDS COUNT, 2009). A father who lacks contact with a child due to death,
incarceration, or abandonment is termed as fully absent (KIDS COUNT, 2009). The prevalence
of partial absence is alarmingly frequent, as nationally it has been cited that approximately 40
percent of children in father absent homes have not seen their biological fathers in the past year,
while another 50 percent of children in father absent homes have never entered the actual home
of their father (National Fatherhood Initiative, 2004, as cited in U.S. Department of Health and
Human Services, 2009). Even with a father’s frequent contact, the quality of the physical
attendance may not be measured as being responsibly present in the child life. Fathers who
cannot fulfill certain responsibilities as a parent can be considered “physically present but
technically absent” (LaRossa & LaRossa, 1989). A responsible father, as defined by the U.S.
Department of Health and Human Services, “waits to make a baby until he is prepared
emotionally and financially, establishes legal paternity, actively shares the continuing emotional
and physical care of the child, and shares continual financial support of the child from pregnancy
onward” (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 1998, as cited in Children’s Trust
Fund, 2004).
exponentially in recent history. Nationally, in 2005, 12.9 million families consisted of single
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parents raising one or more children (U.S. Census Bureau, 2006). Of these families, 10.4 million
were single mothers (U.S. Census Bureau, 2006). Nationally, this accounted for more than 21
million children living in single parent homes (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services,
2009). Rhode Island families are no exception to this phenomenon. Of the 228,391 Rhode
Island children, 67,978 are living in single parent homes, which is a total of 30 percent of
This increase in absent fathers can also be attributed to many environmental factors.
Since the 1950’s, there has been a steady increase in the number of children born to unmarried
mothers (Wineburgh, 2000). Children who are born into family structures where the mother is
unwed yet cohabitates with the child’s father are three times more likely to experience father
absence, while children born to unwed, non-cohabitating parents are four times as likely to
experience father absence during their childhood (U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services, 2009). The prevalence of adults marrying later in life or forgoing marriage by opting
for cohabitation has risen, which again results in higher prevalence of births to single women, at
about 34 percent (Nock & Einolf, 2008). Furthermore, a high divorce rate (of 5.4 percent in
2005) leaves many families with children involved in custodial agreements where mothers are
more frequently granted guardianship (U.S. Census Bureau, 2005). The stress and painful
emotions that accompany divorce may at times be a factor in alienating a father from his children
(What It Means to be a Father, 2007). Also, 43 percent of first marriages have been cited to
result in divorce within the first 15 years. Of these divorces, 60 percent involve children, the
majority of which are under the age of 18 (U.S. Department of Health and Humans Services). In
the latter part of the 20th century, popularity has grown with single women who chose to adopt a
child or become pregnant through artificial insemination (Wineburgh, 2000). Another factor is
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the intense pressure that fathers may feel assuming the role as the child’s main source of
financial support. Fathers may harbor false ideas about this role and believe that his only
parental responsibility is monetary. A father feeling that he may not be able to meet the societal
expectations of this financially centered role may flee the situation, especially if he already is of
low income status (What It Means to be a Father, 2007). However, this is not to say that
individuals in poverty do no value marriage and commitment, as they aspire to marriage at the
same rate as the rest of the American population (KIDS COUNT, 2009). Although, individuals
in poverty have shown to have barriers to marriage of low income men due to low educational
achievement, substance abuse, mental health concerns, and high rate of incarceration (KIDS
COUNT, 2009).
For children who grow in families where the father is not present, the implications can be
severe to their mental and emotional health. Children who are born into father absent homes are
at greater risk for undesirable outcomes due to the lacking social, emotional, and financial
resources that are not present (McLanahan, 1995). For children who have constant contact with
their fathers in a responsible and appropriate manner, the ability to take initiative and gain self
control is present, while they also exhibit greater coping and adaptation skills (Pruett, 1987).
Furthermore, children also are better equipped to handle emotional, stressful situations and
empathy if they have had an involved father (Pleck, 1997). Further research has yielded that
children with fathers present do better in school, are less prone to violence, and have better
mental health such as self esteem and self confidence (Children’s Trust Fund, 2004; What It
Self-Esteem
covers a wide range of emotions and behaviors. Rosenburg (1965) provided the most widely
attitude toward the self” (Rosenburg, 1965, as cited in Adler & Stewart, 2004). Further
definitions have amended this to include additions of attitudes toward capabilities and feelings of
love understood by the individual (Sheslow, 2008). The importance of such attitudes toward the
self can be crucial links to mental health conditions involving “social and emotional milestones
made my making secure attachments, satisfying social relationships, and effective coping skills”
(KIDS COUNT, 2009, p. 54). These negative attitudes toward the self are detrimental to the
functioning and achievement of social emotional development in all stages of life (Sheslow,
2008).
surrounding foundational learning and experiences. Self-esteem has shown to have a strong
relation to overall happiness (Baumeister, Campbell, Krueger & Vohs, 2003). Children with
high levels of self-esteem have shown to exhibit many healthy qualities that work to advance
their social, emotional, and academic standings. Such behaviors of children with high self-
esteem include taking responsibility for one’s own actions, acting independently, taking pride in
new tasks and challenges, and offering assistance to others (U.S. Dept of Health and Human
Services, 2002). Appropriate use of such coping mechanisms in early childhood has shown to
lead to growth and mastery of milestones (Brooks, 2008). These foundations begin in infancy as
children develop strong attachments for the individuals who care for them, as they become their
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natural supporters of life (Katz, 1996). From this beginning bond, children develop trust for
individuals that are responsible for their healthy cultivation and gradually feelings of being
wanted and valued emerge. In addition, children with high self-esteem are more likely to have
an understanding that adults that are important to them (especially parents) accept them, care
about their well-being, and would actively ensure their safety (Katz, 1996). Children desire the
assurance that these important adults would miss them or become upset if they were separated at
the same rate that the child would long for the adult (Katz, 1996).
The risks associated with enduring low levels of self-esteem are broad and differ
situationally. Many people with self-esteem deficiencies may be “depicted as uncertain and
confused about themselves, oriented toward avoiding risk and potential loss, shy, modest,
(Baumeister, Bush & Campbell, 2000, p. 27). The associated effects of poor self-attitudes may
also include a tendency to be overly critical of the self and works produced and a propensity to
give up easily on tasks that may not prove to be outside of the individual’s capacity (Sheslow,
2008). In such cases, individuals with low self-esteem understand “temporary setbacks as
permanent and intolerable conditions” which lead to an attitude of pessimism (Sheslow, 2008).
the consequences may manifest into further social, emotional, and behavioral concerns in later
stages of life. Emotionally, lowered self-esteem has been directly linked to outcomes of
depressive symptoms over time (Roberts, Gotlib & Kassel, 1996). Also, lowered self-esteem is
linked to feelings of inferiority and shame which can be externalized by blaming others and
result in “feelings of hostility and anger toward others” whom are deemed responsible
(Donnellan, Trzesniewski, Robins, Moffitt, & Caspi, 2005, p. 328). Feelings of inferiority
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caused by rejection and humiliation that are built in early childhood experiences at times can
result in aggression and antisocial behaviors (Horney, 1950 & Adler, 1956 as cited in Donnellan,
The issue of poverty directly affects individuals in early childhood as they are of a
vulnerable population and lack the ability to provide for themselves if adults are incapable of
doing so. Economically disadvantaged children are the “percentage of children under the age of
18 who are living in households with incomes below the poverty threshold”, as defined by the
U.S. Census Bureau (KIDS COUNT, 2009). The federal poverty threshold maintains the income
that families must earn before they are eligible for many governmentally funded welfare benefits.
In 2009, the poverty threshold for a family of three in a single parent home was set at $18,310
and the threshold for a family of four with two dependent children was $22,050 (U.S.
The use of a measurement for the federal poverty threshold has introduced many conflicts
in evaluating a family’s needs based on a standardized assessment, which in turn may be a root
to the problem of poverty in the United States. A main concern is that this method of calculation
has not been adjusted since its initial development in 1963-1964 by Mollie Orshanski as part of
the Social Security Administration’s effort to accurately measure the nation’s state of poverty.
The measurements were based on the cheapest food plans as established by the Department of
Agriculture. More than 40 years later, this tool is in continued use although the prices of
childcare, housing, transportation, and medical care have inflated over time (KIDS COUNT,
2009). The inaccuracy of this tool has been studied by the Poverty Institute of Rhode Island,
which has developed a 2008 Standard of Need report. This study revealed that a three-member
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family earning 175% of the federal poverty threshold ($30,800 annually) will still fall short of
affording basic needs by $48 per month (KIDS COUNT, 2009). This tool thus proves to be an
inaccurate measure off the state of economic need of individuals, which leads to various
The effects of poverty on children cover a wide expanse of functioning and need. Risk
factors associated with children in poverty include inadequate nutrition, maternal depression,
trauma and abuse, and parental substance abuse (National Center for Children in Poverty, 2002).
Parents in poverty frequently lack the knowledge of available resources for health care and
insurance due to isolation, which impacts the health of a child as they do not receive frequent
check-ups from a physician or dentist. Children who do not receive proper preventative care will
be more likely to endure illnesses that can become life long problems, such as ear infections
leading to deafness (North Carolina Public Health, 2009). Furthermore, children who live in
poverty are more likely to have health and behavioral concerns, difficulty in school, become teen
parents, and become unemployed as adults (Moore & Redd, 2002). These factors interfere with a
child’s social and emotional developments, which are crucial in the years of early childhood in
Children without fathers tend to be included in the statistics of families that fall below the
poverty level. This can be attributed to many factors, especially the loss of income that occurs
OPPOSING POINTS
Although much evidence has been cited supporting the positive impact of father presence
upon children’s functioning, specific instances and situations can yield results that are not
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concurrent with the previous data. Children may still function normally without father presence
under conditions where father absence is not viewed as veering from the normal family structure
(Coleman, 1996). The stigma, or mark of social disgrace, that at times accompanies the lack of a
father in a family can produce negative experiences for the child which can be destructive to the
prevalent that it becomes the norm, these stigmas are not attached to this family structure and the
family does not experience the same social impact (Coleman, 1996). The places where father
absence lacks such a stigma include communities of poor Blacks in the United States, the
Caribbean, Brazil, and the Caribbean coast of Central America (Austin, 1989, as cited in
Coleman, 1996). In these situations “father absence has a negative impact on achievement only
among groups where middle-class values are the accepted norm” (Heatherington, 1983, as cited
in Coleman, 1996, p. 124). Black children in United States housing projects have illustrated
similar results where children who had fathers who were absent did not test lower in academic
achievement or social functioning as compared to their peers who had fathers who were present
(Herzgog & Sudia, 1973; Wasserman, 1972, as cited in Coleman 1996). Furthermore, in sex role
development, Black children residing in inner city settings did not show that father absence was
a factor, but in many cases these family structures included an older male figure in place of the
Child development has proven to advance normally in family structures where neither
parent is male, such of a family consisting of lesbian parents. “Responsible parenting can occur
within a variety of family structures” as neither the mother nor the father are essential to child
development because “heterosexual marriage is not the only social context where responsible
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parenting can occur” (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999). Neither a mother nor the father is essential
as long as children have at least one responsible, dependable, caring guardian who has a positive
emotional connection and a consistent relationship (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999). The sex of
neither of the parents “has emerged as a significant variable” in predicting positive child
development (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999). However, instead, the strongest indicators for
positive child adjustment have been shown to be an emotional connection and predictability of
the care taker relationship (Silverstein & Auerbach, 1999). In this way, parenting roles can be
interchangeable where neither the mother nor the father are unique or necessary to healthy
development and adjustment as gay and lesbian parents can create positive family unit.
Children raised by lesbians without a male figure or father present are just as well
adjusted socially and emotionally as children with fathers present (Belkin, 2009; Grohol, 2009;
NARTH, 2008). An all female parenting system raising children, without the assistance of
males, can tend to “be more involved in the children’s lives” and can be in “greater harmony in
terms of parenting approaches” (NARTH, 2008). Females raised by lesbians are more likely to
have high aspirations for professional careers such as doctors or lawyers compared to girls raised
by heterosexual partners who more frequently want to be teachers or mothers (Belkin, 2009;
Grohol, 2009). Males raised by lesbians show less aggressive tendencies and more nurturing
characteristics than males raised by heterosexual partners. The positive outcomes of these
children that are reared without biological or surrogate male figures illustrate that family
This type of family context is growing nationally due to greater social acceptance and
emerging laws that protect the rights of lesbian and gay partners and their children. Currently in
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the United States there are 115,772 same sex couples. Of these couples, 1 in 3 are female
Although many children lack fathers in their family context, strong family networks
provide a positive environment for growth and success. Strong family networks among Black
children are common and provide support systems and friendship groups that provide access to
resources and community reinforcement. In Black families, the rearing of children often
includes the maternal grandmother as a consistent care taker. The extended family often
provides financial support and assistance which can negate potential losses that father absence
may encourage (Coleman, 1996). Furthermore, positive male influences can come from adults
outside of the family system such as coaches, teachers, or childcare providers. The strength of
the power these individuals has shown that the presence of a father is not as vital as “the
importance of an individual who fills this role and all that it engenders” (Coleman, 1996, p.125).
Older male siblings also have the same positive effect on younger siblings if responsibility, care,
and consistency are present, just as with any adult in a child’s life.
HYPOTHESIS
The increasing nature of father absence has brought attention to the consequences of this
multidimensional phenomenon. Due to the various issues that compound responsible fatherhood
practices, fathers experience barriers to fulfilling these parental duties and at times lack the
ability to participate in the lives of their children. Furthermore, societal norms play a part in the
social education of males as to what their paternal role entails. The factor of economic scarcity
enters as resources may already be lacking for these families, and the absence of a paternal
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resource impact the family system on social, emotional, and economic levels. The consequences
for improper male attachment and attention that children endure have shown to have serious
detrimental effects on self esteem and social functioning, especially if this occurs in infancy and
However, further research has found contradictory results in attention to lesbian parenting
and the typical development of children. This information has yielded results that the gender of
the parents may not be the most critical variable, but the quality of the relationship in terms of
development. Furthermore, both male and female role models, as surrogates to absent paternal
roles, have again shown to provide a child with the appropriate social and emotional experiences
This study will seek to uncover information regarding the self-esteem ratings of children
disadvantaged homes will have lower levels of self-esteem if the father is absent from the home.
Absent in this study will be in the case of fully absent, or a father who lacks contact with a child
due to death, incarceration, or abandonment (KIDS COUNT, 2009). The economic levels will
be judged from the U.S Department of Health and Human Services 2009 Poverty Guidelines.
METHODOLOGY
This study was conducted using convenience sampling. The participant pool came from
children who are enrolled in a governmentally subsidized pre-school and social service agency
located in two semi-urban towns in Rhode Island. Data was gathered from 115 children enrolled
in the classrooms of the aforementioned agency, which contain children from 3 to 5 years of age.
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Parents of the children were notified and given informed consent forms prior to reviewing child
files and granted the opportunity to withhold information (see Appendix A).
Children’s levels of self-esteem were rated using The Devereux Early Childhood
Assessment tool (henceforth referred to as DECA). The DECA meets professional standards for
assessment instruments established by the American Psychological Association and the National
Association for the Education of Young Children. Thirty-seven hypothetical situations are
assessed by the raters (completed by parents and by teachers) on a five point Likert-like scale
Samples of questions asked include “How often does your child fail to show joy or gladness at a
happy occasion?”, “How often does your child make decisions for him/herself?” and “How often
does you child say positive/optimistic things about the future?” (in compliance with the
copyrighted nature of the DECA questionnaire, a copy of the assessment tool cannot be
replicated and presented in this study). The DECA questionnaire assesses a child’s social and
emotional health as well as skills in adaptation and resilience. The concept of self-esteem, as
defined as an attitude toward one’s own capabilities or a favorable or unfavorable attitude toward
one’s self, as a compounded issue concerns these levels of functioning in early childhood as a
means of measuring these attitudes. The rating provides a composite score of initiative (“child’s
ability to use independent thought and action to meet his or her needs”), self control (“child's
ability to experience a range of feelings and express them using the words and actions that
society considers appropriate”) and attachment (“measure of a mutual, strong, and long-lasting
relationship between a child and significant adults”) (Devereux, 2010). These scores together
function as an assessment of the individual’s attitude of capabilities and toward the self, thus
yielding a self-esteem rating. The DECA has been assessed as a highly reliable instrument as
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each of the alpha coefficients for the protective factor scales meets or exceeds the .80 “desirable
child’s files regarding income eligibility for the agency’s programs. Information regarding
paternal levels of involvement and level presence will be gathered through verification with
knowledgeable and informed family case managers. The variables regarding children
demographics include age, race, gender, father absence or presence, male figure present in the
home (if not the biological father), siblings, age of siblings, and family income (see Appendix
B).
Demographics
Of the participants studied, 31.3% were 3 years of age, 61.7% were 4 years of age, and
7% were 5 years of age. In regards to the gender distribution of children sampled, 61.7% were
male and 38.3% were female. In terms of racial backgrounds, 57.4% identified as “White alone”,
“Two or more races”, 3.5% identified as “Other”, and 2.6% as “Asian”. According to the child’s
approximate annual family income, 91.3% of participants were below the 2009 federal poverty
threshold, while the remaining participants scored no more than 200% of the federal poverty
level.
The family make up of the children studied consisted of 50.4% of participants that had
fathers who lived in the home and 49.6% of participants did not have fathers present in the home.
Of the children who do not have fathers who live in the home, 45.6% have frequent contact with
The majority of all children sampled were rated as “Typical” in areas of development
such as initiative, behavior, attachment, and self-control by both the child’s parent and the
child’s teacher. Ratings regarding the participants’ behavior were the only variable of the
Data Analysis
This data was analyzed by first looking at Spearman’s r for non-parametric correlations.
When correlating the resulting data from whether the child’s father lives in the home or not, and
the results of child’s self-esteem from the DECA questionnaires, no significance was found at r=
.362.
Similar results were calculated for further variables of male involvement such as
frequency of paternal contact, incidence of other male adults living in the child’s home,
incidence of male siblings in the home with regards to both number of siblings, and age. For
frequency of contact r=.642 for the parent rating of the child’s self-esteem and r= .422 for the
teacher’s rating. In regards to the presence of another male adult in the home, r=.219 for parent’s
DECA results, and r= .124 for teacher’s ratings. The presence of male siblings produced the
results of r=.331 for the parent DECA rating, and r=.452 for the teacher’s rating.
Table 2: Spearman’s r for Non Parametric Correlations: Other Potentially Influential Factors
“If the biological, adoptive, or Correlation Coefficient: .044 Correlation Coefficient: .076
step father does not live in the Sig. (2 tailed): .642 Sig. (2 tailed): .422
home, does the child have N: 115 N: 115
frequent contact with him?”
“Other than the biological, Correlation Coefficient: .115 Correlation Coefficient: .144
adoptive, or step father, is Sig. (2 tailed): .219 Sig. (2 tailed): .124
there another male adult living N: 115 N: 115
in the home?”
Further non-parametric tests were run, such as the Mann-Whitney Test, which also
concluded that the variables did not show significance. Again the DECA ratings of parents and
teachers were scored against the grouping variables representing paternal presence.
Very similar results were found again when analyzing other factors of male involvement
and the subsequent self-esteem ratings of participants. Factors of incidence of other male adults
living in the child’s home and incidence of male siblings in the home with regards to both
number of siblings, and age were analyzed. From these variables, no significance was resulting.
Findings
The results of this study concluded that in regards to the DECA assessment of child self-
esteem and the various factors of paternal presence, there was not any significance between these
two variables. In the case of the parent’s ratings of child self-esteem and the teacher’s ratings,
the results remained to present no significance to paternal involvement. The two variables of
self-esteem and paternal presence or absence did not correlate with one another to refute the
study’s hypothesis that the child’s would have lower self esteem if the there was not paternal
presence (and there would be higher levels of self-esteem if there was paternal presence).
CONCLUSION
Father absence is a highly charged topic in the debate surrounding its relation to the
social and emotional development of children in early childhood. As previous studies have
shown, damages to development in early years of life can solidify and be maintained in later
years, severely impacting a child’s chances of success. Low self-esteem and further emotional
maladjustments have previously been studied with their relation to unpredictable patenting
the father are heightened. Inversely, children that are reared in settings with responsible,
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predictable adults have revealed comparable levels of resilience and typical social-emotional
development, despite the gender of the adults involved. Understanding the roles that father’s
ensure that children are provided with the opportunities for healthy emotional growth. It was
hypothesized that economically disadvantaged children (ages 3-5) who do not have fathers that
live in their homes or have frequent contact will have lower ratings of self-esteem, as tested
using the Devereux Early Childhood Assessment. However, with the data collected, similar
results were not evident in comparison to the aforementioned studies. The results instead
exhibited no significance between the factors of parent and teacher rating of self-esteem when
analyzed with factors of the father living in the home, another male adult present in the home,
male siblings in the home (regardless of age), and if the child has frequent contact with the
father.
An interesting finding from data collected in this study proved to combat the myth that
children in low-income homes primarily are members or female-headed households where the
father does not contribute. However, information retrieved has shown that in this population,
while over 90% of children were below the federal poverty level, 50.4% of fathers resided in the
home with the children. This data can be used to inform individuals of the misconception about
the ignorant prejudices regarding “dead-beat dads”, where fathers are thought to abandon their
family and neglect parental roles. Eliminating this misconception can help to built a positive
regard for fathers in this field, further empowering them to maintain their responsible practices
Although results did not provide data on the relationship between father presence and
child self-esteem, the social work profession is still responsible for promoting human
relationships as the basis for supportive and predictable family structures. Best practices to
include fathers in child welfare agencies would involve a multifaceted approach to shift agency
culture and practices to a more holistic view of the family. As research in this area is fragmented
and can provide contradictory results, the importance becomes unclear to professionals working
in this field. The sizes of caseloads are often too large for an individual social worker to
adequately assess each case and understand complex structures of the family systems. When the
caseloads are too large and social workers are over extended, good work cannot be accomplished
with the family in attending to all family needs and having the time to reach out to family
members, such as fathers, that may not be easily located or easily engaged in the process. In an
attempt to correct this disparity in treatment of fathers, social workers must cultivate more
efficient organizational skills to find time to reach out and engage fathers as an important factor
in the success of the children represented. Supervisors also must understand this as a standard of
practice and encourage their co-workers to use such practices in the promotion of the dignity and
Furthermore, in addressing the issue of poor practices in involving fathers, education and
training must focus more on the promotion of positive, strength based views of the father as a
means of eradicating harmful stereotypes from agency culture. Social workers must understand
the vitalness of the father in the promotion of human relationships and the rights of fathers to be
included (as a part of social justice). In doing so, one must engage in a comprehensive
assessment of family systems that include the strengths and needs of all family members. As the
National Association of Social Workers calls for “social workers continually strive to increase
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their professional knowledge and skills and to apply them in practice”, gaining an appreciation
for the significance of male involvement would result in more masterful work with individuals,
Due to the sample size of 115 children, the resulting data cannot be generalized to the
grater population of children in early childhood. The sample included participants of both urban
and suburban locations in Rhode Island with family incomes qualifying the child as “low-
income”. To yield more generalizable statistics, an increased sample size would be desirable
including participants from various regions of the country, and a more racially diverse
backgrounds.
This study was also limited in the ways of data collection. Questionnaires collected
quantitative data on the level of paternal involvement based only on numerical counts of time
spent with the child. Several case managers interviewed for this data questioned this method as
yielding appropriate information. It has been suggested that in future research, information
regarding the quality of time spent between fathers and their children be recorded as a qualitative
section. This information will provide results of active play, attention, and appropriateness of
interactions between father and child to gain further insight into the beneficial nature of parent-
The use of the DECA questionnaire may have also proven to hinder results of the study.
The validity for the instrument at rating self-esteem is in question. In future studies, utilizing a
tool that more directly assesses the factors of self-esteem would be helpful in establishing more
valid data.
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Creating services and programs to address the needs and vulnerabilities of the father
would be fundamental in understanding the complexity of the issue from the father’s perspective.
Again, although this study did not result in data to support the hypothesis that father absence
negatively effect’s child self-esteem, the acceptance of fathers in legislation is a crucial part of
social justice for this population. This approach would involve policies and protocol in
individual agencies and in larger federal bodies to embrace the importance of paternal
involvement and create mandated procedure to ensure this population be given equal attention
and respect. Regardless of the information provided with the use of this study, social work, as a
holistic method of intervention, must include all levels of family contribution therefore
embracing both the mother and the father of children in social service agencies. Policies that
incorporate both highly influential members of the family will serve to provide a more
Social Work Code of Ethics, it is vital that social workers advocate for policy that uphold the
purposeful effort to promote, restore, maintain, and enhance the wellbeing of individuals,
families, social groups, organizations, and communities” (NASW, 1996). As attitudes and beliefs
are altered, respect and trust can develop and guide future work in the direction of celebrating the
vital role of the father in the formation of policy and protocol, rather remaining ignorant to its
relevance.
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Appendix A
Dear Participant,
I am a senior social work major at Providence College and I have been working as an intern at
[agency name removed for confidentiality] since January 2009. For my senior thesis I will be
conducting research regarding self-esteem and family structure of children ages 3-5. A study
will be conducted using data already recorded in your child’s file. The information recorded will
be entirely anonymous. No identifying information regarding your child, family, or agency will
be revealed in any way in the subsequent research findings.
There are not anticipated risks involved in your family or your child’s participation in this study.
The benefits will involve a deeper understanding of child self-esteem that can be used to inform
the social work profession in establishing more effective policies, practices, and further research.
Upon completion of this study, your family may request the results through contacting the
researcher.
If you would not like data from your child’s file to be used in this anonymous study, please leave
a message at [contact information removed] and state your child’s full name and classroom. I
appreciate your compliance and if you have any questions regarding the nature of the study
please contact me at the same number as above.
Thank you,
Casey Kevorkian
Providence College
Department of Social Work
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Appendix B
Section I: Demographics
1. Age of child when DECA was administered: circle one
1 2 3 4 5
2. Gender: Male Female
3. Race of child: check one
__White (alone) __Black or African American
__Hispanic or Latino __Two or more races
__American Indian or Alaskan Native __Unknown
__Native Hawaiian or Pacific Islander __Other:____________
__Asian
4. Number of male siblings in the home: circle one
1 2 3 4 + no sibling
5. Age of male siblings in the home: circle all that apply
Infant 2‐5 6‐10 11‐15 16+ no sibling
6. Annual Family income:
___No income ___$15,001‐20,000
___ Unknown ___$20,001‐25,000
___$1‐ 5,000 ___$25,001‐ 30,000
___$5,001‐10,000 ___$30,001‐35,000
___$10,001‐15,000 ___$35,001+
7. Is the income of the family considered below the 2010 federal poverty level?
___Yes ___No ___Unknown
8. Does the biological, adoptive, or step father of the child live in the home?
____Yes ____No ____Unknown
9. If the biological, adoptive, or step father does not live in the home, does the child have
frequent contact with him? Frequent is defined as contact on a weekly basis. Contact can be either
meeting in person or via telephone.
___Yes, there is frequent contact
___No, there is not frequent contact
___Unknown frequency of contact
___This question does not apply/I answered YES to question #8
10. Other than the biological, adoptive, or stepfather, is there another male adult living in the
home? Examples include but are not limited to uncle, grandfather, boyfriend of mother, friend of the
family, etc.
___Yes, there is another male adult in the home
___No, there is not another male adult in the home
___Unknown
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