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ST. ANDREW MONTESSORI AND HIGH SCHOOL, INC.

Nancayasan, Urdaneta City


S.Y. 2021-2022

GRADE 11- Personal Development

LESSON 7

Mental Health and Well-Being in Middle and Late Adolescence

CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health. It’s the way your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors affect your life.
Good mental health leads to positive self-image and in-turn, satisfying relationships with
friends and others. Having good mental health helps you make good decisions and deal
with life’s challenges at home, work, or school.
It is not uncommon for teenagers to develop problems with their mental health.
Problems can range from mild to severe, and can include depression, anxiety, body
esteem issues, and suicide, among others.
Unfortunately, most young people with mental health problems don’t get any
treatment for them.
Research shows that effective treatments are available that can help members of
all racial, ethnic, and cultural groups.
If you broke your leg or came down with pneumonia, you wouldn’t let it go
untreated. Often however, young people ignore mental health problems thinking they
will “snap out of it,” or that they are something to be ashamed of. That kind of thinking
prevents people from getting the help they need. Sometimes getting help is a matter of
understanding mental health issues and changing your mind about them.

Activity: MEDIA MOTIVES

1. What type of product or service is featured in your ad?


2. What approach has the advertiser used to promote or sell this product or service?
Here are some of the methods that advertisers use to attract consumer:
 Sex Appeal
 Join the Bandwagon: Everyone is getting one!
 Highest Quality Available
 Financial Plans/Installment Incentives
 Negative Advertising
 Homestyle or Traditional
 We Try Harder
 Best Value
 New & Improved
 Name Brands & Logos
 Health & Safety
3. What message does this ad give the consumer?
4. How would you define or describe this approach to advertising?
5. Do you think that this approach is effective advertising for the product? Why or why
not?
6. In what ways, if any, could any part of this advertisement impact a person’s body
image? (e.g. you could take into consideration: the product itself, the models selling it,
the way it is being presented, etc.)

Additional Information: Strategies for Becoming a Critical Viewer of the Media

Media messages about body shape and size will affect the way we feel about
ourselves and our bodies, only if we let them. One of the ways we can protect our self-
esteem and body image from the media’s narrow definitions of beauty is to become a
critical viewer of the media messages we are bombarded with each day. When we
effectively recognize and analyze the media messages that influence us, we remember
that the media’s definitions of beauty and success do not have to define our self-image
or potential.
Remember:

• All media images and messages are constructions. They are NOT reflections of reality.
Advertisements and other media messages have been carefully crafted with the intent
to send a very specific message.
• Advertisements are created to do one thing: convince you to buy or support a specific
product or service.
• To convince you to buy a specific product or service, advertisers will often construct an
emotional experience that looks like reality. Remember that you are only seeing what
the advertisers want you to see.
• Advertisers create their message based on what they think you will want to see and
what they think will affect you and compel you to buy their product. Just because they
think their approach will work with people like you doesn’t mean it has to work with you
as an individual.
• As individuals, we decide how to experience the media messages we encounter. We
can choose to use a filter that helps us understand what the advertiser wants us to think
or believe and then choose whether we want to think or believe that message. We can
choose a filter that protects our self-esteem and body image.

Through the use of magazine advertisements, we have discussed what


motivates the advertising industry and the effect that media has on body image. A final
conclusion is that each student is left with strategies about how to strengthen
themselves against these messages.

What Influences a Person's Self-Esteem?

Puberty and Development

Some people struggle with their self-esteem and body image when they begin
puberty because it's a time when the body goes through many changes. These
changes, combined with wanting to feel accepted by our friends, means it can be
tempting to compare ourselves with others. The trouble with that is, not everyone grows
or develops at the same time or in the same way.

Media Images and Other Outside Influences

Our tweens and early teens are a time when we become more aware of
celebrities and media images — as well as how other kids look and how we fit in. We
might start to compare ourselves with other people or media images ("ideals" that are
frequently airbrushed). All of this can affect how we feel about ourselves and our bodies
even as we grow into our teens.

Families and School

Family life can sometimes influence our body image. Some parents or coaches
might be too focused on looking a certain way or "making weight" for a sports team.
Family members might struggle with their own body image or criticize their kids' looks
("why do you wear your hair so long?" or "how come you can't wear pants that fit you?").
This can all influence a person's self-esteem, especially if they're sensitive to others
peoples' comments.
People also may experience negative comments and hurtful teasing about the
way they look from classmates and peers. Although these often come from ignorance,
sometimes they can affect body image and self-esteem.
ST. ANDREW MONTESSORI AND HIGH SCHOOL, INC.
Nancayasan, Urdaneta City
S.Y. 2021-2022

GRADE 11- Personal Development

Worksheet 4

NAME: ____________________________________________DATE: _____________


GRADE: ________________________ SCORE: ___________

Activity: Media Influences (How Ads Affected My Self-Esteem)

INSTRUCTIONS:

Name some ads that appear on TV, billboards, the internet.

1. What messages do these ads give to middle adolescents like you?

2. How have these ads affected your lifestyle, self-esteem, and values?

3. How has this lesson changed your perception about ads?


ST. ANDREW MONTESSORI AND HIGH SCHOOL, INC.
Nancayasan, Urdaneta City
S.Y. 2021-2022

GRADE 11- Personal Development

LESSON 8

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

More Than One Kind of Intelligence

You may have heard people mention "IQ" when talking about intellect and how
smart someone is. (For example, "My brother doesn't need to study as much as I do
because he has a really high IQ.") IQ stands for "intellectual quotient." It can help
predict how well someone may do academically. IQ is just one measure of our abilities,
though.
There are many other kinds of intelligence in addition to intellect. For example,
spatial intelligence is the ability to think in 3D. Musical intelligence is the ability to
recognize rhythm, cadence, and tone. Athletic, artistic, and mechanical abilities are
other types of intelligence. One important type of intelligence is emotional intelligence.

What Is Emotional Intelligence?

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand, use, and manage our


emotions. Emotional intelligence is sometimes called EQ (or EI) for short. Just as a high
IQ can predict top test scores, a high EQ can predict success in social and emotional
situations. EQ helps us build strong relationships, make good decisions, and deal with
difficult situations.
One way to think about EQ is that it's part of being people-smart. Understanding
and getting along with people helps us be successful in almost any area of life. In fact,
some studies show that EQ is more important than IQ when it comes to doing well in
school or being successful at work.

Improving Your EQ

Emotional intelligence is a combination of several different skills:

a) Being Aware of Your Emotions


Most people feel many different emotions throughout the day. Some
feelings (like surprise) last just a few seconds. Others may stay longer, creating a
mood like happiness or sadness. Being able to notice and accurately label these
everyday feelings is the most basic of all the EQ skills. Being aware of emotions
— simply noticing them as we feel them — helps us manage our own emotions.
It also helps us understand how other people feel. But some people might go
through the entire day without really noticing their emotions. Practice recognizing
emotions as you feel them. Label them in your mind (for example, by saying to
yourself "I feel grateful," "I feel frustrated," etc.). Make it a daily habit to be aware
of your emotions.
b) Understanding How Others Feel and Why
People are naturally designed to try to understand others. Part of EQ is
being able to imagine how other people might feel in certain situations. It is also
about understanding why they feel the way they do. Being able to imagine what
emotions a person is likely to be feeling (even when you don't actually know) is
called empathy. Empathy helps us care about others and build good friendships
and relationships. It guides us on what to say and how to behave around
someone who is feeling strong emotions.
c) Managing Emotional Reactions
We all get angry. We all have disappointments. Often it's important to
express how you feel. But managing your reaction means knowing when, where,
and how to express yourself. When you understand your emotions and know
how to manage them, you can use self-control to hold a reaction if now is not the
right time or place to express it. Someone who has good EQ knows it can
damage relationships to react to emotions in a way that's disrespectful, too
intense, too impulsive, or harmful.
d) Choosing Your Mood
Part of managing emotions is choosing our moods. Moods are emotional
states that last a bit. We have the power to decide what mood is right for a
situation, and then to get into that mood. Choosing the right mood can help
someone get motivated, concentrate on a task, or try again instead of giving up.
People with good EQ know that moods aren't just things that happen to us. We
can control them by knowing which mood is best for a particular situation and
how to get into that mood.
e) EQ: Under Construction
Emotional intelligence is something that develops as we get older. If it
didn't, all adults would act like little kids, expressing their emotions physically
through stomping, crying, hitting, yelling, and losing control! Some of the skills
that make up emotional intelligence develop earlier. They may seem easier: For
example, recognizing emotions seems easy once we know what to pay attention
to. But the EQ skill of managing emotional reactions and choosing a mood might
seem harder to master. That's because the part of the brain that's responsible for
self-management continues to mature beyond our teen years. But practice helps
those brain pathways develop. We can all work to build even stronger emotional
intelligence skills just by recognizing what we feel, understanding how we got
there, understanding how others feel and why, and putting our emotions into
heartfelt words when we need to.

ACTIVITY: WRITE SHOP (Long Bond Paper with margin and indention)

Reflection on “Exploring Emotions” and “I Am”

Write on:
1. The emotions you have felt recently and the circumstances in which you felt them;
2. Your emotional self-awareness; and
3. What you learned through these exercises and how you can use these learnings to
improve your emotional development.