Per Devt Lesson 7&8
Per Devt Lesson 7&8
Per Devt Lesson 7&8
LESSON 7
Mental health. It’s the way your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors affect your life.
Good mental health leads to positive self-image and in-turn, satisfying relationships with
friends and others. Having good mental health helps you make good decisions and deal
with life’s challenges at home, work, or school.
It is not uncommon for teenagers to develop problems with their mental health.
Problems can range from mild to severe, and can include depression, anxiety, body
esteem issues, and suicide, among others.
Unfortunately, most young people with mental health problems don’t get any
treatment for them.
Research shows that effective treatments are available that can help members of
all racial, ethnic, and cultural groups.
If you broke your leg or came down with pneumonia, you wouldn’t let it go
untreated. Often however, young people ignore mental health problems thinking they
will “snap out of it,” or that they are something to be ashamed of. That kind of thinking
prevents people from getting the help they need. Sometimes getting help is a matter of
understanding mental health issues and changing your mind about them.
Media messages about body shape and size will affect the way we feel about
ourselves and our bodies, only if we let them. One of the ways we can protect our self-
esteem and body image from the media’s narrow definitions of beauty is to become a
critical viewer of the media messages we are bombarded with each day. When we
effectively recognize and analyze the media messages that influence us, we remember
that the media’s definitions of beauty and success do not have to define our self-image
or potential.
Remember:
• All media images and messages are constructions. They are NOT reflections of reality.
Advertisements and other media messages have been carefully crafted with the intent
to send a very specific message.
• Advertisements are created to do one thing: convince you to buy or support a specific
product or service.
• To convince you to buy a specific product or service, advertisers will often construct an
emotional experience that looks like reality. Remember that you are only seeing what
the advertisers want you to see.
• Advertisers create their message based on what they think you will want to see and
what they think will affect you and compel you to buy their product. Just because they
think their approach will work with people like you doesn’t mean it has to work with you
as an individual.
• As individuals, we decide how to experience the media messages we encounter. We
can choose to use a filter that helps us understand what the advertiser wants us to think
or believe and then choose whether we want to think or believe that message. We can
choose a filter that protects our self-esteem and body image.
Some people struggle with their self-esteem and body image when they begin
puberty because it's a time when the body goes through many changes. These
changes, combined with wanting to feel accepted by our friends, means it can be
tempting to compare ourselves with others. The trouble with that is, not everyone grows
or develops at the same time or in the same way.
Our tweens and early teens are a time when we become more aware of
celebrities and media images — as well as how other kids look and how we fit in. We
might start to compare ourselves with other people or media images ("ideals" that are
frequently airbrushed). All of this can affect how we feel about ourselves and our bodies
even as we grow into our teens.
Family life can sometimes influence our body image. Some parents or coaches
might be too focused on looking a certain way or "making weight" for a sports team.
Family members might struggle with their own body image or criticize their kids' looks
("why do you wear your hair so long?" or "how come you can't wear pants that fit you?").
This can all influence a person's self-esteem, especially if they're sensitive to others
peoples' comments.
People also may experience negative comments and hurtful teasing about the
way they look from classmates and peers. Although these often come from ignorance,
sometimes they can affect body image and self-esteem.
ST. ANDREW MONTESSORI AND HIGH SCHOOL, INC.
Nancayasan, Urdaneta City
S.Y. 2021-2022
Worksheet 4
INSTRUCTIONS:
2. How have these ads affected your lifestyle, self-esteem, and values?
LESSON 8
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
You may have heard people mention "IQ" when talking about intellect and how
smart someone is. (For example, "My brother doesn't need to study as much as I do
because he has a really high IQ.") IQ stands for "intellectual quotient." It can help
predict how well someone may do academically. IQ is just one measure of our abilities,
though.
There are many other kinds of intelligence in addition to intellect. For example,
spatial intelligence is the ability to think in 3D. Musical intelligence is the ability to
recognize rhythm, cadence, and tone. Athletic, artistic, and mechanical abilities are
other types of intelligence. One important type of intelligence is emotional intelligence.
Improving Your EQ
ACTIVITY: WRITE SHOP (Long Bond Paper with margin and indention)
Write on:
1. The emotions you have felt recently and the circumstances in which you felt them;
2. Your emotional self-awareness; and
3. What you learned through these exercises and how you can use these learnings to
improve your emotional development.