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QUARTER I
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These most essential learning competencies are covered separately in 8 Lessons. As shown
below.
Explain that knowing oneself can make a person accept his/her strengths and limitations
and dealing with others better.
Share his/her unique characteristics, habits, and experiences.
Evaluate his/her own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Show the connections between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in actual life situations.
Discuss developmental tasks and challenges being experienced during adolescence.
Evaluate one personal development through the help of significant people around him/her.
Identify ways that help one become capable and responsible adolescent prepared for adult
life.
Discuss understanding of mental health and psychological well-being to identify ways to
cope with stress during adolescents.
Identify causes and effects of stress in one’s life.
Demonstrate personal ways to cope with stress and maintain mental health.
Discuss that understanding the different parts of the brain, processes and functions may
help in improving thoughts, behavior and feelings.
Explore ways on how to improve brain functions for personal development.
Develop a personal plan to enhance brain functions.
Discuss that understanding the intensity and differentiation of emotions may help in
communicating emotional expressions.
Explore one’s positive and negative emotions and how one expresses or hides them.
Demonstrate and create ways to manage various emotions.
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IN THIS LESSON YOU WILL ACHIEVE THE FOLLOWING:
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Lesson 8 Explore one’s positive and negative
emotions and how one expresses or
hides them.
Demonstrate and create ways to
manage various emotions.
EXPECTED SKILLS:
To do well in this module, you need to remember and do the following:
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WHAT DO YOU ALREADY KNOW?
Let us determine how much you already know about the lessons in this module. Take this test.
PRE-TEST
IDENTIFICATION:
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LESSON 1
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
Self in philosophical terms, it is the being, which is the source of a person’s consciousness.
It is the agent responsible for an individual’s thought’s and actions. The self is an intangible entity
that directs a person’s thoughts and actions. It is the outside the physical realm of the person.
The self is the essence of a person: his thoughts, feelings, and actions, experiences, beliefs,
values, principles, and relationships. The self includes a person’s life purpose, meaning, and
aspirations.
In psychology, the term personality is referred to as the set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts
and motives that identifies an individual. Personality is the essence of who we are and is the
embodiment of one’s physical, psychological, cognitive, affective, and spiritual self.
PERSONALITY
Personality refers to the unique and relatively enduring set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts
and motives that characterize a person. Personality is influenced by both nature (heredity) and
nurture (environment). It is always a complex combination of genes, environmental exposures and
experiences, and cultural backgrounds.
TRAIT THEORY
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MEASURING PERSONALITY
There are different ways to measure personality. One is by observing people’s behavior
and by using different kinds of test.
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
1. How do you understand the self?
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ELABORATE:
1. Draw a symbol or symbols of what represents yourself. Indicate your explanation on blank
space on why did you choose that symbol or symbols.
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2. Explain the quotation by Oscar Wilde: “ to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong
romance”
EVALUATE:
1. Write down how you define yourself in terms of philosophy, psychology, and spirituality,
what are the differences among the three?
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2. How does knowing oneself better make a person accept his strengths and limitations, and
improve the way he deals with others?
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EXTEND:
Write a reflection regarding the question “Who am I?”
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LESSON 2
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
Id- disorganized part of the personality, acts according to pleasure principle, seeks immediate
gratification.
Ego- attempts to mediate the id to reality, organize part of mind, regulate the individual to delay
gratification, the reality principle.
Super ego- reflects the internalization of cultural rules, punishes misbehavior with feelings of guilt,
controls our self of right and wrong.
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5. Angry or disgusted
Emotion means to move or be upset or agitated. The term referring to variations in level of
arousal, affective state of mood, expressive movements, and attitudes. Feelings arises from the
brain as its interprets an emotion.
Universal Values
1. Peace
2. Freedom’
3. Social progress
4. Equal rights
5. Human dignity
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Virtues are adjectives that describe positive and desirable qualities which usually mirror a value it
represent. Here are some example:
VALUES VIRTUES
Peace Calm
Integrity Responsible, honest, reputable
Love Caring, compassionate, gentle
Respect Civil
balance Fair, objective
EXPLAIN:
1. As an adolescent which of the five aspects are you having most difficulty with?
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3. How do your feelings and emotion affect the way you think and behave? Cite some
personal example.
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4. What are the values and how are they different from virtues?
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ELABORATE:
Reflect how are you developing as a person based on the five aspects of holistic development?
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EVALUATE:
What values are important to you? What values do Filipinos commonly adhere to?
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LESSON 3
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
Identity is the concept of an individual about himself and is often referred to as self-identity.
Identity is a self-belief of what the individual thinks and feels about himself. Roles oftentimes
form part of this self-identity, such as birth order in the family, the nature of work, occupation or
title, and academic or social standing.
Role confusion is the negation of self- identity, in a sense that there is confusion over one’s self-
concept.
1. Adjust to sexually and maturing bodies and feelings-being aware of the bodily changes
happening, managing sexual feelings, and engaging in healthy sexual behaviors.
2. Develop and apply abstract thinking skills- effectively understand and coordinate
abstract ideas, thinking out possibilities, trying out theories, planning ahead, reflecting on
how and what they are thinking.
3. Develop and apply a new perspective on human relationship- developing the capacity
for compassion by learning how to put themselves in somebody else’s shoes to understand
other people’s feelings and perspectives.
4. Develop and apply new coping skills- they should be able to project toward the future
and see the consequences of their decisions.
5. Identify meaningful moral standards, values, and belief system- adolescence develop
more complex understanding of morality, justice and compassion.
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6. Understanding and express more complex emotions experiences- becoming more in
touch with their emotions and see complex variances among strong emotions and feelings,
understanding the emotions of others, and learning how to detach themselves from
emotional situations whenever the need arises.
7. Form friendship that are mutually close and supportive- learning how to trust others is
an important task for an adolescent to develop.
8. Establish key aspects of identity- be encouraged to develop their own healthy self-
concepts that reflect their uniqueness.
9. Meet the demands of increasingly mature roles and responsibilities- to acquire skills
and knowledge that will provide him meaningful careers and jobs and to live up to the
expectations.
10. Renegotiate relationships with adults in parenting roles- should be able to communicate
with their parents their need for a certain degree of independence as they mature to young
adulthood.
1. Developing occupational skills- skills that can help develop responsibility as a preparation
for gainful employment.
2. Self- reliance- the ability to identify their own skills and knowledge, capabilities and
resources and not to rely on others too much.
3. Ability to manage finances- be able to discern what is wants and needs, and be able to
learn self-control when handling finances.
4. Social responsibility- adolescent should be able to see beyond themselves.
5. Mature work orientation- develop pride in what they do and raise standards of excellence
in the quality of their work.
6. Personal responsibility- become aware of the results of the decisions they make and be
mature enough to own the results, and refrain from putting blame on others.
7. Positive attitude toward work- work is love made visible.
8. Being courageous in standing up and being different from your friends- learning to
say no.
9. Developing self-esteem- learn to understand, accept and appreciate oneself as a unique
person.
10. Being true to yourself and avoiding the tendency to please others- the need for approval
from others become less.
11. Learning how media and advertising are trying to influence your thinking and
feelings.
12. Becoming aware, critical, and being involved with social issues- ask questions and
speak up whenever possible. Let our leaders know how you think and feel about our
society.
13. Embracing a healthy lifestyle- becoming aware of your health and the food you eat.
14. Developing your spirituality- finding what gives meaning to your life.
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
1. What changes happen during adolescence?
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ELABORATE:
1. Which of these skills and task have you learned and acquired? What other developmental
task and skills do you think you need to develop and learn? Feel free to add on the list.
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EVALUATE:
1. Observe the patterns of thoughts and behaviors of your peers. What do you notice about
them? What developmental task and skills do you think they need to learn in order for them
to grow as persons and as young adult?
EXTEND:
List ways on how you can become a more responsible adolescent and develop into responsible
adults and better person. Relate your answer during this time of crisis.
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LESSON 4
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
1. Attitudes and behavior toward sexuality and sexual relationship- puberty drives the
adolescent to experience surge of sexual desires which often lead them to experimentation
and exploration. What is the proper and healthy attitude toward sexuality and sexual
relationships/ the attitude of being responsible for one’s action is the guiding principle
toward a healthy sexuality. Also implies that entering into relationships is all about genuine
loving and caring for the other person and not just satisfy one’s urges and needs. Adolescent
is also prone to exploring pornography.
2. Academic concerns- be aware that academic grades are not the only indicators of learning.
Discipline, openness, perseverance, diligence, excellence curiosity, analytical and critical
thinking, memory understanding, cooperation, teamwork, respecting other people’s
opinion and beliefs, social interactions, leadership, and followership are some of the more
important skills and values that an adolescent student can also learn while in school. What
is being tested in schools is the body of knowledge one acquires and absorbs and grades
usually reflect this.
4. Health and nutrition- a healthy mind and body is what an adolescent should thrive for.
Avoid unhealthy foods and habits. Learn to listen to your body.
6. Roles- all human beings have roles to play in their life. Roles are part of one’s identity such
as being a son or daughter to your parents, being a brother or sister to your siblings, being
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a student in school or a member in your organization. Adolescent must learn to integrate
all these roles and it should be clear that these roles are related to the task expected of them
by others.
7. Material poverty
8. Parents working abroad- how can adolescent minimize the impact of a parent’s absence?
First of all, there must be recognition of the emotions and feelings brought about by the
situations. The behavior exhibited behind these feelings and thoughts vary from person to
person. Some may react negatively or positively.
9. Career choice- identify what course to take in college and establish a career path in the
future. In finding the right career, adolescents need to know what their interest are, what
things they find exciting and challenging and what their skills are.
10. Relationship- maintaining a healthy relationships require a certain level of maturity. Envy
due to comparisons is also a major cause of breakdowns in relationships.
11. Values and beliefs- what will you fight for or die for? What can I not afford to lose? Or
what can I not live without?
DEFINING STRESS
Stress is defined as a reaction of the mind and body to a stimulus that disturbs the well-being, state
of calm of a person.
1. Stress as stimulus- cause by situations that may be life threatening or life changing.
2. Stress as response- the way the body responds to a challenging situations.
3. Stress a relational- when a person experiencing stress takes a step back to look at the
situation that is causing the stress and assess it.
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
Explain the three views on stress
ELABORATE:
What challenges do you think did our national heroes like Jose Rizal and Andres Bonifacio faced
during their adolescence?
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EVALUATE:
1. Identify other ways on how to deal with the 11 challenges enumerated in this chapter?
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2. Come up with some affirmation statements to help you a more lovable and capable person.
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EXTEND:
What have you learned from this chapter?
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LESSON 5
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
1. School demands and expectation- quizzes, test, home works, projects, oral recitation,
quarterly exam and grades, epitomize the kind of stressors adolescents have when it comes
to studying.
2. Selecting a school, college course or career- a high school student who graduated faces
more demanding challenges.
4. College life- the prospect of being by themselves in a new school in college and meeting
and adjusting to new people is another cause of stress for graduating senior students. The
unfamiliarity of a new environment can bring stress to adolescents as they set their foot in
college.
5. Romantic relationship or the lack of it- adolescents have a tendency to feel awkward when
they are not in a special relationship with someone. Somehow, having an intimate
relationship is a status symbol that says one is good looking, attractive, and interesting.
6. Family demands and expectation- to some adolescents, family ties can be a stressor. The
adolescent is still learning and yearning for independence and autonomy, but parents may
not be ready to relinquish control over their “baby”.
9. Bullying- being bullied in school can be very stressful and may cause emotional and
psychological trauma to the individual experiencing it. Many schools are aware of the
presence of bullying and have policies dealing with it.
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COPING WITH STRESS
Coping is a very important mechanism in dealing with stress. It can help in avoiding the
damages that may be brought about by severe or chronic stress to your health and well-
being.
1. Conduct creative imagery of the problem- look at the stressor as a relational situation
where you can assess and change the way you look at the stressful situation.
2. Seek group or social support- talk to people you know and trust, surround yourself with
friends who can offer you sincere understanding and empathy. Talk to an adult and
share your thoughts and feelings.
3. Get into relaxation activities- like breathing exercises, regular physical exercise,
meditation, yoga, reading a good book, or listening to relaxing music.
4. Create a situation where you can feel more relaxed- like a quiet environment or a
comfortable position.
5. Learn to manage you r time- setting your priorities is important when managing time.
6. Eat properly- selecting nutritious and healthy food. Eat regularly and avoid skipping
meals.
EXPLAIN:
1. How do stress and stressors help a person in identifying ways to cope?
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ELABORATE:
1. Share a personal experience about a stressful situation you were in and what kind of coping
mechanism helped you manage the situation.
2. If you see someone who is stressed out and needs help what do you do?
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LESSON 6
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
Dr. Roger Sperry explained that the brain has two hemispheres that perform task differently
from each other. He discovered that the left hemisphere of the brain was performing task that were
intuitive, creative , and synthesizing while the right hemisphere of the brain was more adept with
analytical, logical, reasoning, and critical thinking this theory was known as split brain theory.
Another neuroscientist by the name of Dr. Paul Maclean came up with a theory that
identified three distinct parts of the brain namely: neocortex, limbic system, and reptilian complex
which were referred to as the triune brain theory.
Neocortex or rational brain is responsible for intellectual task, while limbic system or the
intermediate brain is responsible for the motivation and emotion. Finally there is the primitive
brain or the reptilian complex which controls the self-preservation and aggressive behavior of
humans similar to the survival instincts of animals.
Herrmann came up with his own theory called brain dominance theory, which he derived from
observations and test that the human body, although symmetrical and paired in almost all aspects,
do not necessarily function equally.
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MIND MAPPING
Tony Buzan popularized the use of the phrase mind map. Mind map is a diagram used to
represent ideas and information branching from a central key word or idea. It is a useful visual
tools that help in linking together concepts and information.
TWIG
BRANCH
TWIG
MAIN IDEA
BRANCH BRANCH
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
1. Name and explain the key characteristics of the four quadrants of the brain as theorized by
Ned Herrmann.
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2. How does the whole brain theory affect the learning process of a person?
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ELABORATE:
Which brain side do you think is more dominant among these popular Filipinos and why do you
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EVALUATE:
Using the topic how to improve learning draw two mind maps. The first one will show the
dominant right side of the brain and the other map will illustrate left side of the brain.
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LEFT SIDE OF THE BRAIN
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LESSON 7
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
According to the US national institute of health, mental health includes our emotional,
psychological and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel and act as we cope with the life.
It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices.
WHO CONCEPT OF MENTAL HEALTH AND THE SIX AREAS THAT CONSTITUTE
IT:
1. Subjective well-being
One’s personal thoughts and feelings about one’s overall state of being. A person
with a healthy self-concept exudes charm and confidence, is usually sociable, productive
and can maintain healthy relationships. A negative self-concept will have a negative effect
on one’s mental health and well-being. If a person perceives herself as unattractive she will
start feeling inadequate and will compare herself with others. She will feel anxious, and
might even end up having paranoid thoughts that people are avoiding her or talking behind
her back. These type of thinking, feelings and behavior can trigger mental disorders if not
properly addressed immediately.
2. Perceived self-efficacy
Self-efficacy is one’s perception of one’s value ad worth, effectiveness and ability
in performing a task. A person with low self-esteem may exhibit types of behavior that are
self-destructive, it produces thoughts that one is not worthy of being loved or not adequate
enough to be somebody’s friend. On the other hand a person with healthy self-concept will
move toward self-fulfillment and self-actualization, have healthy relationships and live
happier and fulfilling life.
3. Autonomy
Autonomy deals with one’s capacity to separate one’s identity from other significant
persons. Autonomy is the capacity for self-direction and having a clearly defined role
identity. Lack of autonomy can lead to co-dependence among those who cannot define
themselves as separate entities form people they defend on.
4. Competence
Competence is the perfection of one’s capacity to effectively perform a function or
activity using specific skills and knowledge, and achieving the desired results at a given
time. An individual who is competent will always assume full responsibility for the actions
and result of his behavior. The ability to accept changes and being resilient is also part of
being competent.
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5. Intergenerational independence
Intergenerational independence refers to the relationship between individuals who
belong to different but may be living separately as independent.
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
1. Explain what is mental health and well-being.
2. According to the concept of the WHO on mental health, identify and briefly explain the six
factors that compromise mental health.
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ELABORATE:
1. Apply the six factors for mental health according to the WHO in your personal life and
identify which of the six factors you are strongest in and which ones you need to develop.
2. Create a mind map on how you can achieve and maintain your good mental health and
well-being.
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EVALUATE:
In your day to day observations of your friends, how does mental health manifest itself?
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LESSON 8
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?
Goleman defines emotional intelligence as the ability to motivate oneself and persist in the
face of frustrations, to control impulse and delay gratification, to regulate one’s moods and keep
distress from swamping the ability to think, to empathize and to hope.
2. Managing emotions
Goleman points out that we often have very little or no control when an emotion
occurs and what this emotion will be, but we can have control on how long an emotion will
last.
3. Motivating oneself
Research have shown that hope is a major indicator of emotional intelligence. Hope
is the element present when one is fighting some overwhelming anxiety a defeatist attitude
or depression. Goleman points out that optimism is a great motivator, and like hope, it
provides a person with expectations that things will turn out better or right when faced with
adversity.
5. Handling relationships
Emotional intelligence is also evident in the way we manage our relationships with
others.
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4 COMPONENTS OF SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
1. Organizing group- a leadership skill.
2. Negotiating solutions- bring people in conflict to talk and come up with a solution.
3. Personal connection- the talent where empathy and connecting with another person’s
emotions are manifested.
4. Social analysis- the talent to step out of the situation and objectively form insights about
the way people feel and behave.
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HOW MUCH HAVE YOU LEARNED?
EXPLAIN:
1. What are the five domains of emotional intelligence? Explain how someone who is being
bullied in school can practice them?
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2. List down the possible emotions that a bullied person experiences. If you were the person
being bullied, how would you manage your emotions?
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ELABORATE:
Share a personal story where you experienced strong emotions. What were these emotions?
What were your thoughts when experiencing the emotions? How did you express these
emotions? What do you think triggered the emotions that you experienced? How did you
handled these emotions?
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EVALUATE:
What did you learn from this lesson?
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POST-TEST
IDENTIFICATION:
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CONGRATULATIONS
YOU HAVE
SUCCESSFULLY
COMPLETED MODULE 1
REFERENCE
Personal Development
Ricardo Rubio Santos
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https://opportunitydesk.org/2018/03/06/10-tips-for-personal-development/
https://www.philstar.com/business/2019/01/02/1881538/jose-rizals-ideals-and-ideas
https://entertainment.inquirer.net/325260/lea-salonga-on-theatergoers-who-use-their-phones-
zero-manners-breeding
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manny_Pacquiao
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