Lani Zefania N (20006079) - Resume 5 (BK Keluarga)
Lani Zefania N (20006079) - Resume 5 (BK Keluarga)
Lani Zefania N (20006079) - Resume 5 (BK Keluarga)
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MIND MAPPING
The Concept of
Children's Education in
Family
Mistakes in educating
Family education for toddlers
children
1 . Recognize the triggers of
1 . Too hard and stiff in
tantrums in children
dealing with children
2 . Create a suitable
2 . Receiving “weapons”
environment
cry to fulfill wishes
3 . Think positively
child
4 . Keep calm
3 . Always fulfill children's
5 . Give educational requests
punishment
4 . cultivate fear and
inferiority
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DISCUSSION
1. Consistent
Meanwhile, if you are not consistent, then your little one will feel
confused. For example, when one day you don't allow your small play ball
in the house but the next day you just let it. This will create a signal of advice
and prohibition on the the child's brain is mixed so that the child does not
know what is allowed and what should not. So don't be surprised if the child
gradually becomes no discipline. Do it many times, until your little one
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understands the command you gave. The little one will absorb the command
and learn to do the same thing after four or five times repeated.
But remember, your mindset is certainly different from the other person's
mindset small. Maybe for you tidying up toys is something that easy and
can be quickly completed, but not necessarily for the little one. So, try to
follow the child's mindset. In children his age, things like that are indeed a
fun activity. Also remember that you did the same thing at his age. This is
because toddler age is a time when your little one learns and gets to know
what's around him. So instead of being upset that your little one doesn't want
to be asked to clean up the toy. You can come help clean up the toys and set
a good example good to him. Let him know if this is important to do and is
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his job. That way, he will gradually get used to do it. Don't forget to give
your little one a compliment if he succeeds clean up their own toys.
Now you know that your little one is experiencing feelings endless
curiosity and eager to explore all new things. Well, to start educating
children, avoid the various temptations that can distract children. Yes,
creating an environment conducive and in accordance with the situation of
the little one is the way educating the right children
Many parents do not have the heart if they have to give punishment for
his son. Actually, this is also necessary for show a firm attitude in educating
children. But remember, You also have to measure the punishment given to
the child, don't be too burdensome. This is only done to make your little one
learns discipline.
For example, when your child hits, bites, or throw the food, take the little
one to his room or to the room more private. Then, ask him to stay in the
room and thought about what he had been doing for a while. In here invite
the child to be calmer and provide understanding that the child's attitude
needs to be corrected along with the reasons. For example,"You can't throw
food, okay? Then the floor will be dirty.”
6. Stay calm
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Avoid yelling or scolding your little one when he doesn't want to
discipline. The reason is, this will only create a positive message that You
say it just disappears in your little one's mind. When the little one catch the
negative aura of parental anger, he will only see form their emotions and
won't hear what you have to say. Try to remain calm in front of your little
one. Inhale deep, count to three, and look deep into your eyes.
Reprimanding and being firm does not mean it has to be accompanied by
emotions, no?
Then there will be symptoms that show, for example: delay, tension, difficulty
adjusting to personality disturbed even become a complete failure in the task as a
creature social skills to establish satisfying human relationships both for themselves
and for those around them. Family is the smallest unit in society at but occupies a
primary and fundamental position, because The family has a big and vital role in
affect a child's life, especially in the early and critical stages. Families who fail to
give love and attention breeds hatred, insecurity and violence to his children.
Likewise, if the family cannot create an educational atmosphere, then this will cause
children to fall or lose their way.
The environment is one of the main factors that affect child development. Broadly
speaking, there are three classifications recognized primary developmental
environment, i.e. family, school and society. In the context of education, these three
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kinds of environments called the education tri-center. The family environment is an
educational environment that first, because it is in this family that children first get
education and guidance. It's also said to be the prime environment, because most of
the child's life is in the family, so Most of the education received by children is in
the family. The main task of the family for the education of children is to lay basis
for moral education and religious outlook on life.
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c. Give examples and guidance to carry out orders religion and stay away
from prohibitions
Family is also a place for teenagers to learn cultural values adopted and
of course learn about various kinds of human nature. Like Indonesia, which
is very thick with culture, religion and also ethnic groups make Indonesia
known as Bhinneka Tunggal Ika. If a child believes that the ethnicity and
religion adopted is the true, then this means that the foundation of Bhinneka
Tunggal Ika in the family has faded so that the family has a role It is
important to inculcate this which can be done, among other things
with:
local product
3. Cultivate Love
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Adolescence is a very critical period in terms of reproduction and sex that
is useful for teenagers to really know about health reproduction so that it
can be properly maintained on the basis of values and norms adopted and at
the same time recognize the characteristics of adolescent puberty. So that
the role of the family in instilling reproductive education in teenagers can
walk well, then it can be done with some way like:
The best place to teach planning finance for teenagers is a family where the
functions and roles family in this case include:
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c. Gives the spirit to fight without giving up
A healthy and clean family must be instilled from an early age especially in
adolescents. All children in their teens must can recognize and care about
the environment that can be done in a way:
The role of the family in the development of the next adolescent is to give
life fulfillment physically and emotionally. In the modern era makes
children more interested in technology compared to its surroundings. busy
kids Teenagers with technology make children increasingly insensitive.
Method Overcoming juvenile delinquency can start from the family
environment so it has become a family duty to spend time and build good
communication with children.
10. Motivator
First, grow fear and inferiority. For example, when children cry, we scare them
to stop crying. We scare them with ghosts, jinn, the sound of the wind and others
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will take a child who likes to cry. As a result, the child will grow up to be a coward.
Afraid of his own shadow, afraid
on something that is really nothing to be afraid of. The fear will ingrained in
children to adults. Without realizing it, we have instill fear in himself. The action
This causes children to lack self-confidence. Even after when he grows up he knows
that ghosts don't exist, but he will still scared when I hear the word ghost. When the
child has not succeeded complete a task or work, we often compare with other
children. “Your friend alone is done, why are you slow for once, what a stupid
child!” These words resulted in children are not confident alias inferior.
Second, arrogant children are considered brave. Brave not being arrogant and
arbitrary with others. With proud of a mother tells about her child, "My son is brave"
tell his friend that he is the son of an official, that's why his friend in fear." That
pride contains arrogance and can boomerang on his son. The real courage is courage
to tell the truth. If a friend does error then he will remind. If the parents are still do
his work even though the time for prayer has entered, then he dare to remind his
father. The attitude of fear is when commit lies and sins, because wherever one is
he will not escape the sight of Allah SWT.
Third, get children used to living extravagantly and luxuriously. With With this
habit, the child grows into a person who likes luxury, likes having fun, only selfish,
and don't care to other people's circumstances. Raising children like this can be
damaging fitrah, killing istiqamah attitude avoiding dependence on world,
destroying self-respect and truth. Living in luxury will kill sympathy and empathy
for others. Social sense will be eroded. All he knows is that he is self sufficient.
When see others in need and in need of help, he will be indifferent. Maybe by
saying, “My own fault poor, rich dong like me."
Fourth, always fulfill the child's request. Not every one the child wants it to be
useful or appropriate to his age and needs. The obligation of parents is to meet the
needs of children, not his wish. Needs must be beneficial to him, while desire may
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be fleeting and pointless. It means, parental gifts to children must pay close
attention to worse than fulfilling that request.
Fifth, accept “weapons” cry to fulfill wishes child. When every child's cry is a
weapon so that his request fulfilled is always obeyed by parents, it can result in
children becoming weak, whiny and have no identity. Don't just based on pity, all
wishes fulfilled. The child will use that weapon to get whatever you want. If parents
can't provide a reasonable understanding to the child, then behavior it will always
be done. Worse, the child will cry to people others who feel sorry for him and fulfill
his wishes, if people his parents did not approve. If this behavior is not prevented
as early as maybe, it could be dangerous in the future.
Sixth, too hard and stiff in dealing with children, even beyond reasonable limits.
Violence can be in the form of physical or psychic. Physical by slapping, hitting,
kicking and everything physical harm. The psychic can be in the form of ridicule,
insults, innuendos, yells, and other harsh ways that can hurt his heart. In the face of
children's mistakes, parents should not direct punishment with physical or
psychological violence. How It is better to find out the cause of the child's mistakes
first.
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REFERENCES
Kodang, Rosalia. (2015). Pola Asuh Orang Tua terhadap Anak Tunagrahita di
Nanga Bulik Kabupaten Lamandau Provinsi Kalimantan Tengah. Jurnal
Pendidikan Dasar, 6(1), 79-92.
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QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
3. family has 2 meanings, namely family in the sense of broadly includes family
members who are still related by blood or descendants and also family in the sense
of narrow, namely parents and children. Then, what exactly is the role of the family
in child development? Is the meaning of family according to the point of view of
the field of science? …
a. Economy
b. Sociology
c. Political
d. Psychology
e. Law
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a. Parent
b. Girlfriend/boyfriend
c. Family
d. Public
e. School
5. family has 2 meanings, namely family in the sense of broadly includes family
members who are still related by blood or descendants and also family in the sense
of narrow, namely parents and children. Then, what exactly is the role of the family
in child development? Is the meaning of family according to? …
a. Rogers
b. Freud
c. Carl Jung
d. Prayitno
e. F.J Brown
ESSAY
6. Why educating children from a young age is the most difficult task for parents
…
Answer :
Toddler age is a time where your little one still wants to be free do what he pleases.
The way that every parent takes vary. There are those who are more patient, but
there are also those who tend to get angry or even involve violence such as twisting,
hitting, or snapped.
7. What are the consequences if the family does not provide a good education to the
children?
The family is the first education that builds the creativity of the child itself, if since
childhood the child has received less education from the family, there will be
various negative impacts for the child such as difficulty adapting to the social
environment, when entering school the child will have difficulty
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8. Explain the family as a place of education for teenagers?
Answer :
The family is the first educational environment that will accepted from infants,
children and also teenagers so that be part of education outside of school in
providing religious values, morals and skills.
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YEL-YEL
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