Handout Module 3 Keeping Things in Perspective
Handout Module 3 Keeping Things in Perspective
Handout Module 3 Keeping Things in Perspective
MODULE Our comfort zone is the area in which we operate and feel comfortable. Sometimes
OVERVIEW we are pushed or push ourselves past our comfort zone and this can feel uneasy.
When this happens, putting events into perspective can de-escalate the situation
and even broaden your comfort zone.
This starts with being less hard on ourselves and by becoming more aware of how
our inner dialogue can misinterpret situations which influences our views and our
mood-- think back to those childhood cartoons where a devil would appear on one
of Donald Duck’s shoulders and an angel on the other.
Inner dialogue is linked to emotions and everyone can develop the ability to
influence this. In uncomfortable situations, influencing your inner dialogue allows
you to slow down your thinking and creates room for making choices. This can be
particularly important when making choices that affect safety.
Internal monologue:
1. They knew that it was their responsibility to do this.
2. This isn’t the first time I’ve been left having to do their work too.
3. I will be blamed for missing the tide and not leaving on time.
4. The previous watch is lazy and incompetent
I was looking forward to having a cup of coffee while on my watch tonight only to find, when I go
to make it, that the coffee container is empty.
Now I have no coffee for the rest of my watch.
Internal monologue:
1. Why would someone use the last of the coffee and not replenish it?
2. Someone here is inconsiderate and lazy.
3. The last person here was the new guy.
4. It must have been him.
CHALLENGING QUESTIONS
You can interrupt the climb up the ladder of inference, by asking yourself some of these challenging
questions;
2. This isn’t the first time I’ve been left having to do their work too.
Challenge – Am I focusing on the negatives and ignoring other information?
Challenge – Is there another way of looking at this?
3. I will be blamed for missing the tide and not leaving on time.
Challenge – Am I being too inflexible in my thinking?
Challenge – Is it as bad as I am making out?
Please take the time to fill in this anonymous feedback form at the end of the module and hand it to your
facilitator.
WHAT WAS YOUR KEY LESSON THAT YOU WILL TAKE AWAY FROM THIS MODULE?
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WHAT TECHNIQUES THAT YOU LEARNED ABOUT IN THIS MODULE WILL YOU USE IN
THE FUTURE?
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