Qualities of A Great Mate

Qualities of a
Great Mate
LESSON 4
What do
you want in
a mate?
Thoughtful consideration of qualities is
essential for selecting a compatible long-term
partner.
Reflect on your own values and priorities to find a

mate who aligns with them.
Personal
Relationship
With God
Outward display of religious practices or
beliefs is not as significant as finding someone
who possesses a deep sensitivity and
awareness towards spiritual matters.
Pure
Both young men and women hold respect for individuals who
choose to abstain from sexual activity until marriage.
Mind purity is equally important in relationships.
Mind pollution can lead to disrespect of the opposite

sex and immoral behavior.
Trustworthy
Openness, honesty, and loyalty are A foundation of honesty and openness

consistently ranked among the top is essential for a healthy and fulfilling
qualities in a partner. partnership.
Transparency is key to building
trust and intimacy in a
relationship.
It's better to risk breaking up

than to enter into a marriage
haunted by secrets.
Responsible
Marrying a responsible person is crucial for
building a stable and fulfilling partnership.
Responsibility encompasses qualities such
as reliability, dedication to tasks, and
willingness to contribute to family and
household duties.
Here are some questions that may help
identify irresponsible behavior:
Does she choose to complete homework and study for
exams rather than party?
Has he ever held a steady job?
Does she see things that need to be done and do
them? Does he volunteer to help?
Does she get to places on time?
Does he make lame excuses to get out of
responsibilities? Does she take her talents seriously
and work to improve her skills?
Does he take care of his car or other personal
possessions?
Does she brag about getting out of work?
Not Easily
Angered
Anger is a natural emotion that requires
expression in appropriate ways.
Warning Signs:
Pay attention to behaviors such as yelling,
verbal or physical aggression, or withdrawal
and pouting.
Take seriously any uncontrolled
outbursts you observe, as they
Importance of may be indicative of deeper
issues.
observation
It's also important to approach the

situation with empathy and
understanding, recognizing that
everyone has their struggles and
vulnerabilities.
The way someone treats their
siblings, parents, or other family
members can be a strong indication
of their character and behavior in a
relationship.
Willing to Solve
Problems and
Change, If
Change Is
Beneficial
Marry someone who is willing to admit
when they're wrong, avoids blaming
others, and is committed to solving
problems, even if it requires seeking
professional help.
Importance of a Teachable Spirit
Individuals who are open to learning and
growing are better equipped to navigate
the challenges that arise in marriage."
Seeking Support and Guidance
Seeking advice from experienced
individuals, counseling professionals,
attending classes, reading self-
improvement books, and joining growth
groups can all contribute to the success
of a relationship.
Positive Self-Worth
People with such low self-worth may require careful handling and may not make
good long-term partners due to the potential challenges that arise from their
insecurities and behaviors.
Impact on
Relationships
Individuals with low self-worth may struggle with trust,
communication, and intimacy, making them less suitable
as long-term partners.
Pleasing
Personality
Marrying someone with a negative attitude,
uncontrolled bouts of depression, or a
dependency on others for happiness can be
emotionally draining.
Beware of individuals who tie their personal

happiness to external factors or others'
behaviors.
Accepts You
Unconditionally
Watch out for behaviors like constantly critiquing your
appearance or mannerisms, as they may indicate a lack of
genuine acceptance.
Affectionate
Look for genuine displays of affection, such as tender words, acts, and
touches, that occur naturally and appropriately throughout the day
Thoughtfulness
Observing how your date treats their parents
and yours can provide insight into how they
may treat you in the relationship.
Observing their behavior towards others can

reveal their values, priorities, and level of
consideration, which are essential factors in a
healthy relationship
Good Health
Habits
Teens may overlook health habits, but as we
age, habits such as overeating, lack of exercise,
and smoking can lead to health problems.
Looking for a partner who has established

simple habits of cleanliness, hygiene, and
healthy lifestyle choices can contribute to a
fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.
1. Sleeps approximately seven or eight
Look for hours out of twenty-four.
the 2. Eats breakfast.
following 3. Doesn't eat between meals.
4. Keeps a moderate weight- not too fat
health habits: or too thin.
5. Exercises.
6. Doesn't smoke.
7. Doesn't drink.
Attitude
About
Children
Compatibility in attitudes about children can
influence the decision-making process,
parenting styles, and overall family
dynamics.
It's essential to discuss and align on attitudes

about children early in the relationship to
avoid potential conflicts or
misunderstandings.
Good
Conversationalist
Being a good conversationalist involves
both active listening and engaging in
stimulating conversations.
Key traits:
1. Active participation in stimulating conversations.
2. Well-read and knowledgeable about various subjects.
3. Willingness to listen attentively and empathetically.
4. Ability to communicate feelings openly and effectively.
Intelligence
Intelligence is valued differently by individuals,
focusing not solely on IQ but also on thirst for
knowledge and common sense.
Shared intellectual interests and pursuits

can enhance compatibility and mutual
understanding in a relationship.
Physical
Attractiveness
Physical attractiveness is often valued in initial
impressions but can change over time.
True beauty lies in a person's character

and inner qualities, which are enduring
and contribute to long-term attraction.
How to be a
Great Mate
1. Become the person you'd like to find in a
great date.
2. Value and accept yourself
3. Deal with the hurts and pains in your past
Someday some
special person is
going to be
mighty lucky to
win your love.

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Qualities of a

Reflect on your own values and priorities to find a

Mind purity is equally important in relationships.

Mind pollution can lead to disrespect of the opposite

Openness, honesty, and loyalty are A foundation of honesty and openness

It's better to risk breaking up

It's also important to approach the

Beware of individuals who tie their personal

Observing their behavior towards others can

Looking for a partner who has established

It's essential to discuss and align on attitudes

Shared intellectual interests and pursuits

True beauty lies in a person's character

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