Soliman, Dian - PRELIM OUTPUT
Soliman, Dian - PRELIM OUTPUT
Soliman, Dian - PRELIM OUTPUT
August 4, 2024
AR-503 4145-ETHICS
Throughout our lives, our moral compass is continually refined by the countless
experiences we encounter. From childhood to old age, we are constantly learning what
it means to be ethical. This process is complex, shaped by personal encounters, cultural
influences, and societal expectations. Every day presents opportunities to define our
values as we grapple with decisions both big and small. These experiences build our
character and direct our actions. Essentially, life itself is a crucible for moral
development, shaping the ethical individuals we become.
Growing up in a conservative home taught me a lot about what was good and
wrong. My parents instilled in me the values of mutual respect, honesty, and hard work.
We talked a lot about our family and how vital it is to be together. I understood I needed
to obey the rules and be responsible. It seemed like there was a clear guideline on how
to act (Kochanska, 1997). While it was occasionally severe, it helped me figure out what
type of person I wanted to be.
However, it is not a perfect path, I, too, have made mistakes along the way, just
like everyone else. There were times when I questioned the rules such as curfews and
deadlines, but now I appreciate how they prepared me for the challenges of the real
world.
My close friends have evidently influenced who I am now. Hanging around with
them taught me what it meant to be a good friend, to be there for others, and to have
fun. Some encouraged me to explore new things, while others kept me rooted. There
were moments when I felt compelled to do things I didn't want to do, but my closest
friends always supported me. It's incredible how much effect they had on my decisions,
both positive and negative.
SOLIMAN, Dian L. August 4, 2024
AR-503 4145-ETHICS
Even though my outer group of friends was not as intimate as my inner circle,
they continued to influence my decisions and form my morals. Their opinions mattered,
and I frequently found myself contemplating their ideas while making decisions. For
example, if I was hesitant to attempt anything new, their support may motivate me to
take a chance. Alternatively, if I was planning something controversial, their opinions
might affect whether or not I went ahead with it. In a manner, my outer circle influenced
my societal consciousness and knowledge of diverse points of view.
Since I grew up in a conservative family, respect for elders has become one of
the factors that shaped my morality as it is deeply ingrained in Filipino society. It's more
than just politeness; it's a core value shaping our interactions and relationships. The use
of honorifics like "po" and "opo" isn't just a linguistic custom but a clear expression of
respect. This extends from core family members and goes beyond immediate family to
the wider community that fosters connectivity.
Understanding diverse cultural viewpoints may also help people spot potential
biases in their moral thinking. Individuals who put themselves in the shoes of someone
from another culture may become aware of their own preconceptions and prejudices.
Self-awareness is essential for making ethical judgments that are fair and equitable.
Moreover, just like people in this community, how we think about what's right or wrong
comes from many places. Things like our family, friends, and the place where we live
teach us about being good or bad. Our experiences, what our family teaches us, and
the rules of our community all help shape our ideas about what is right. At the same
time, the traditions and beliefs of our culture give us a bigger picture of what people
think is good and bad.
It’s like solving a complex puzzle. Each circle is a piece, and by fitting them
together, I can create a clearer picture of the situation. While there might be missing
pieces or unexpected challenges, having these circles as a framework helps me
navigate uncertainty and make informed choices.