Self Esteem

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Self-Esteem

Presented By: Mehrin Farhan Sheikh


Table of content:
Introduction & Definition of self
esteem
High Self esteem
Characteristics of people with High
Self Esteem
Importance of High Self Esteem
Low Self Esteem
Characteristics of people with Low
Self Esteem
Importance of Low Self Esteem
How to nurture your Self Esteem
Final Words
Definition
• Self-esteem is the
judgment or opinion we
hold about ourselves. It’s
the extent to which we
perceive ourselves to be
worthwhile and capable
human beings.
• Self-esteem is the picture
we have of ourselves.
Continue …..
Self-esteem is made up of all the
experiences and relationships
we’ve had in our lives. Everyone
we’ve ever met has added or taken
away from how we see ourselves.

Self-esteem can be changed


and changed at any age.
High Self-Esteem

• People with high self-esteem:


• Like to meet new people
• Don’t worry about how others
will judge them
• Have the courage to express
themselves
• Lives’ are enriched with each
new encounter
 Are nicer to be around.
 Ideas are met with
interest because others
want to hear what they
have t say.
 Are magnets to positive
opportunities.
 Have an “ I THINK I
CAN” attitude!!!!!
Low Self-Esteem
• People with low self-esteem:
• Don’t believe in themselves
• See themselves failing before they
even begin
• Have a hard time forgiving their
mistakes and make themselves pay
the price forever
• Believe they can never be as good
as they should be or as good as
others
• Are afraid to show their
creativity because they
will be ridiculed
• Are dissatisfied with their
lives
• Spend most of their time
alone
• Complain and criticize
• Worry about everything
and do nothing
• Have an “I CAN’T DO
IT” attitude
Some common signs of low self-esteem
• Exaggerated bragging
• Resorting to numerous attention-getting
behaviors such as clowning, acting overly
silly, teasing, complaining, exhibiting both
verbal and physical aggression
• Very reactive to ups and downs of daily
life – failure can be devastating, even on
minor issues
• Being self-critical and always
• apologizing
• Easily influenced by
peers
• Blaming
• Reluctance to learn new
things or avoiding a
challenge
• Over-reacting to things
and situations
• Being unable to make
choices or solve
problems
• Putting themselves down
Take a minute…

Think about a
positive
experience in
your life.
The positive experience that
you remembered can most likely
be described by one or more of
the these feelings:

• You felt secure, safe, and trusting


of your environment.
• You felt special or unique. You felt
worthwhile.
• You felt important and
appreciated by someone whose
opinion you valued.
• You had a goal or purpose.
You were successful in
achieving what you wanted.
• You felt that you made a
difference. You felt capable.
The positive experience
that you had probably
satisfied a basic emotional
need. It helped reinforce a
belief in your own value as
a person.
There are five feelings that nurture high self-
esteem:
1. A sense of Security: a feeling of trust or
safety.
2. A sense of Self-hood: knowing who you
really are.
3. A sense of Affiliation: a sense of belonging.
4. A sense of Mission: a feeling of purpose,
direction and responsibility.
5. A sense of Competence: feeling like you are
capable and successful in the things you do.
Here are a few steps you can take to improve your
Self-Esteem:
1. Forgive yourself for past mistakes.
2. Focus on your positive attributes.
3. Follow the example of successful people.
4. Become a self-talker.
5. Exhibit a good attitude.
6. Get plenty of rest.
7. Make your work/study skills your own.
8. Practice your talents.
9. Become physically fit.
10.Learn new things.
11.Improve your personal relationships.
12.Dress well!!!!
Let’s Review
• Self-esteem comes from every
experience of your life.
• How you view yourself affects
everything you do in life.
• High self-esteem gives you a GOOD
feeling about yourself.
• Low self-esteem distorts your view of
yourself.
• Self-esteem can be improved!!!
FINAL THOUGHT
• You are a unique individual.
No one else is like you in
the whole world. This
makes you special already!

• Our time in this world is


limited. Make it happened
for you so you leave your
mark in this world!

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