Habits of Effective People 2008
Habits of Effective People 2008
Habits of Effective People 2008
HABIT 1 BE PROACTIVE
This habit is also called Habit of Choice. It also mean, how to behave to things that happen to us. Proactive means taking initiative, to act and not be acted upon. By being proactive, it enable us to choose our response to particular circumstances. We are value driven. Some example of proactive languages are: 1.lets look at our alternatives 2.I can choose a different approach 3.I can create an effective presentation
Proactive people focus their efforts in the circle of influence. Work on the things they can do something about. Proactive peoples energy is positive, enlarging and magnifying causing the circle of influence to increase. Circle of influence is filled with bes I can be more patient, be wise, be loving. Its character is focus.
Quote by Viktor Frankl When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
1. Hear both sides before judging 2. Defend those who are absent 3. Maintain a positive attitude 4. Keep a sense of humor 5. Do not fear mistakes fear only the absence of creative, constructive and corrective responses to those mistakes. 6. Facilitate the success of subordinates 7. Listen twice as much as you speak. 8. Be sincere yet decisive 9. Remember the people involved 10. Plan tomorrows work today.
Whatever is at the center of our life will be the source of four factors1. Security which represents our sense of worth, identity, emotional anchorage, self-esteem, basic personal strength 2. Guidance- source of direction in life, standards or principles that govern moment by moment our decision making and doing. 3. Wisdom-perspective in life, sense of balance, understanding of flow the various parts and principles apply and relate to each other. It embraces judgement, discernment, comprehension. 4.Power capacity to act, the strength to accomplish something. The energy to make choices and decisions. When these four factors are present together, harmonized and enlivened by each other, they create the great force of a noble personality, a balanced character, a beautifully integrated individual.
HABIT 6 - SYNERGIZE
This is a habit of creative cooperation. Synergizing is a process of interacting That highly effective people used. It is result-oriented, positive energy, win-win cooperation, having a mutually agreed-upon end mind and discipline process. It is also a creative process that explores new possibilities to benefit all parties involved.
SUMMARY OF 7 ( SEVEN HABITS ) 1. Be Proactive 2. Begin with the end in mind 3. Put first things first 4. Think win-win 5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood 6. Synergize 7. Sharpen the saw