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    And Peace Never Came
    And Peace Never Came
    And Peace Never Came
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    And Peace Never Came

    By Elisabeth M. Raab

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    “It is Easter Sunday, April 1945, early in the morning, maybe just dawn. We stand still, like frozen grey statues. Us. Seven hundred and thirty women, wrapped in wet, grey, threadbare blankets, standing in the rain. Our blankets hang over our heads, drape down to the soil. We hold them closed with our hands from the inside, leaving only a small opening to peer out, so that we save the precious warmth of our breath.” (from Chapter 5)

    So begins the author’s sojourn, her search for freedom that begins with the chaotic barrenness in which she found herself after her liberation on Easter Sunday, April 1945, and takes her across several continents and half a lifetime.

    Raab paints a brief yet moving picture of her idyllic life before her internment and the shock and the horrors of Auschwitz, but it is in the images of life after her liberation, that Raab imparts her most poignant story — a story told in a clear, almost sparse, always honest style, a story of the brutal, and, at times, the beautiful facts of human nature.

    This book will appeal to a number of audiences — to readers interested in human nature under the most trying circumstances, to historians of World War II or Jewish history, to veterans and their families who lived through World War II, and to those interested in politics and the evils of political extremism.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherWilfrid Laurier University Press
    Release dateJan 2, 1997
    ISBN9781554587704
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      And Peace Never Came - Elisabeth M. Raab

      Life Writing Series / 3

      Life Writing Series

      In the Life Writing Series, Wilfrid Laurier University Press publishes life writing and new life-writing criticism in order to promote autobiographical accounts, diaries, letters and testimonials written and/or told by women and men whose political, literary or philosophical purposes are central to their lives. Life Writing features the accounts of ordinary people, written in English, or translated into English from French or the languages of the First Nations or from any of the languages of immigration to Canada. Life Writing will also publish original theoretical investigations about life writing, as long as they are not limited to one author or text.

      Priority is given to manuscripts that provide access to those voices that have not traditionally had access to the publication process.

      Manuscripts of social, cultural and historical interest that are considered for the series, but are not published, are maintained in the Life Writing Archive of Wilfrid Laurier University Library.

      Series Editor

      Marlene Kadar

      Humanities Division, York University

      And Peace Never Came

      Elisabeth M. Raab

      This book has been published with the help of a grant in aid of publication from the Canada Council.

      Copyright © 1997

      WILFRID LAURIER UNIVERSITY PRESS

      Waterloo, Ontario, Canada N2L3C5

      Cover design by Leslie Macredie and Sandra Woolfrey using photographs by Sandra Woolfrey

      Cartography by Pam Schaus

      Printed in Canada

      All rights reserved. No part of this work covered by the copyrights hereon may be reproduced or used in any form or by any means—graphic, electronic, or mechanical—without the prior written permission of the publisher. Any request for photocopying, recording, taping, or reproducing in information storage and retrieval systems of any part of this book shall be directed in writing to the Canadian Reprography Collective, 214 King Street West, Suite 312, Toronto, Ontario M5H 3S6.

      Contents

      Acknowledgments

      Five Years’ Passage

      Prologue

      Our Window

      Nora

      Who in Their Right Mind ...?

      The Narrowing Circle

      Number 168

      From the Ashes

      What Remains

      The Return

      Alone

      In Transit

      Waiting

      Farewell

      Aftermath

      The Visit—My Other Self

      Historical Notes to And Peace Never Came by Marlene Kadar

      Acknowledgments

      My special gratitude to Sheila Robinson for her editing acumen and insight, for her consistent wise ways in prompting me to unfold enough to finish this book.

      I am thankful to Maria Gould, my first teacher, for her supportive encouragement to write and to continue to do so. Many thanks to Sandra Woolfrey, director of Wilfrid Laurier University Press, for her warmth and understanding. Thanks to all my friends and family who contributed silently throughout the years by accepting my chosen solitude.

      I dedicate this book to my sons, David and Robert, to their wives, Deborah and Terry, and to their children.

      Five Years’ Passage

      1 Pécs—March 1944

      4 Auschwitz—June, July, August 1944

      5 Lippstadt—September 1944-March 1945

      6 Gütersloh—April 1945

      7 Passau—August 1945

      8 Gütersloh—August 1945

      9 Pocking—June, July 1946

      10 Salzburg—July 1946

      11 Budapest—August 1946

      12 Pécs—August 1946

      15 Gütersloh—November 1946

      16 Paris—August 1948

      Prologue

      Why?

      Why am I writing this now after so much time has gone by? Why now, when what happened has become common knowledge? Why now, when the sufferings in the world have lost their ability to shock us, when inhumanity and atrocity are no longer any secret? Why my story, when there are countless others who suffered as much or more?

      From the moment I started to uncoil and allow myself to think about the past, I realized that forty-three years had passed since I regained my freedom; it has taken me this long to acknowledge that the past holds the present out of my reach, and that I am still not free. This is simply my story, my life.

      Our Window

      We often stand at the window, our favourite place, looking out with trusting tenderness toward the stamped-down, sandy roads of our village, Szemere, in the Transdanubia of Hungary. Springtime or winter, sunshine or snowfall, trees bare or rich with leaves, we are at one with the calmness of the view. My father’s arm is around my shoulders; we sway to his humming, to the rhythms of operettas by Lehar, Strauss or Kalman: Csardas Princess, Merry Widow, Gypsy Baron, Princess Marica. They radiate the promise of a beautiful world ahead.

      Nora

      She is not with us anymore. Nora passed away peacefully in her sleep was the message that travelled through the ether from overseas. Was there a better way to say it? A gentler way to bring the news to me? Why didn’t I stay with her longer on my last visit? She wanted me to stay.

      I think about her now, resting my eyes on the view of the treetops in our backyard in Toronto. I muse about being away from Hungary since 1944, the interruptions, the changes, the disconnected, unbeaten paths between then and now: unmendable.

      She was young, just about graduating age, when she heard the news: Olga has a daughter.

      On her way to catch the train to school, Nora stopped to see the new baby with her own eyes, on that hot morning in July. Nora: my father’s younger cousin.

      As she was approaching the house, friends of my parents arrived, sidetracked on their way home from an all-night party at Zöld Major farm, a few miles out of town. Equipped with a gypsy band, they stopped for a serenade under my parents’ bedroom window.

      A serenade is a nocturnal event and is usually a means of expressing admiration. The recipient is supposed to light a candle behind the curtain for a moment in acknowledgment. My father had no candle, nor any need of one; it was already 7:00 in the morning. He laughingly picked up the tiny bundle and held it aloft close to the window, in acknowledgment of the serenade.

      I heard the story of my own birth many times. The last person alive to remember it was Nora.

      I recall the last time I saw her a few years ago. As always, as soon as she opened the door, her first words were, Now you will stay with me for a while. I won’t let you go. She said that while standing in the doorway, supporting her back on the door frame.

      For years an unknown ailment had cast its shadow on her. Nevertheless, she went on with her life with gracious, stoic calm, disregarding her discomfort, holding on to her inherited rules and principles. She succeeded so well that in the course of the years we often asked ourselves if her problems were imaginary or real. After extensive investigation, her son-in-law discovered that they were very real indeed. The name of her illness was never spelled out, though in our narrow circle we knew. Nora calmly accepted her lot as if it were a natural process in life. Daisy and Walter, her daughter and son-in-law, living abroad, spared no effort to keep a steady long-distance eye on her through friends and doctors in Nora’s faraway little town. Their care kept her reasonably comfortable and extended her tranquil life for over ten years.

      It is a sad-looking town where Nora found refuge after the war, as if beauty had no place in the creation of a Communist society. Apart from a few older houses, there are mostly four-to-five-storey row houses for workers, thrown together from concrete blocks. They are bunched around untidy, open parking lots; all were built with the goal of merely putting roofs over people’s heads. The picture repeats itself through the town monotonously.

      Nora lived here in one of them.

      Approaching the neglected lots, I was overcome with gloom and dread. I entered the rusty door to the stairway. My steps echoed harshly as I climbed the bare stone stairs. Repairing the unwashed, broken windows was nobody’s business.

      Not until Nora opened her door with a warm welcoming smile was I able to leave the soulless exterior behind.

      The apartment was only large enough for one person’s minimal needs but, once inside, you felt her presence in every last corner. It was whole and complete; the doilies, curtains, pictures, plants and furniture in that single room were in harmony with her personality, with her stately self-respect. They were like a living part of her.

      Whenever I asked, How are you, Aunt Nora? How are things around here? her answer was always a steady, I am fine. I have what I need. Anybody who says differently isn’t telling the truth. That doesn’t mean we’re rich, but everyone can live, and nobody has to go hungry. That we have to grant to Communism.

      I always had difficulty choosing a gift to take to her. The easiest would have been money, but I didn’t dare, she was so proud. Most of the time my eventual choice was a dainty blouse. She used to put it on, honouring it while I was there. Look how beautifully it goes with my suit, she would remark. And the blouse from the last time, she opened her armoire, isn’t it perfect with my blue suit?

      Her favourite attire: the suit. It looked good on her, on her slender figure, as if they’d been made for each other. Sleekness and modesty were the qualities that emanated from Nora, not from her clothing and hairdo alone, but from her entire attitude and behaviour, even from her smooth, well-considered movements.

      She had been brought up by her mother, Flora, who led her five children into adulthood. Her father had died when she was still a child. Nora was the youngest of the five and the closest to her mother.

      Those were times when a young girl had to have the self-discipline to sit, if necessary, throughout a whole day’s trip, and keep her immaculate white gloves on. She told me that many years ago, with relish.

      In her later years she liked to tell me other stories, too, but for some reason she repeated this one on my visits. I was walking with Zsiga—then her fiancé—in the yard, when suddenly you popped out from a stable door. ‘What are you doing, little girl?’ I asked, and you said, ‘I just watched the little colt jumping out of his mummy’. . . .

      I remembered, too, when my mother had to go to town and took my doll with her to bring me a new one. To my joy, she left me with Nora. She was kind and quiet-voiced; it was easy to be with her. I followed her around happily; only my doll caused me disappointment when it came. My mother and Nora glanced at each other, I noticed, seeing my aversion to the doll’s garish yellow hair. I found out later that it was the same old doll with new, artificial-smelling, silky hair.

      In those days, everything had to be used to the last thread, even the socks. They were mended and mended again over the mending. My mother wasted no time in introducing me to the art of mending; I was only five. As I was sitting on my lawn chair in front of our house, absorbed in trying the darning trade, I heard, Oh please, Böske, you should never learn that. Astonished, I looked up. A rebellious outburst like that I didn’t expect from Nora, but if she said it, I thought, she must have been right. Her three brothers produced enough socks to mend, and that was her job.

      I did not remind her of this episode, though I would have loved to, and would have loved to reminisce with her about old times, mainly about people I felt close to then, but wasn’t mature enough really to know.

      My visits to her, four in all, were stolen times from European trips, or from family life. I couldn’t find a way to explain my deep attachment to her and to make it understandable at home. The absence of my family’s approval was a hidden apprehension in my short stays, while she was pressing me to stay longer. I was aware that my visits brought change and freshness to her everyday life, and provided, for both of us, a short trip to the past: for her, to her youth, and for me, to my childhood.

      I had not much time to ask questions. She loved to remember stories and I listened gladly to what she had to tell me. She reminded me of this: You know the picture where you were hiding in an armchair, you were about three? I took that with me when I got married. That picture was our ideal of a child. Zsiga and I kept pinching it from each other’s night tables.

      After hearing this story, it came back to me how I had accepted Zsiga instantly as Nora’s friend. To be the first to see him, I hid under the seat in the landau when the coachman went to pick up Zsiga at the station. That was on one of his visits before they were married.

      Zsiga was a well-to-do gentleman, as I recall, with dark hair, reassuring brown eyes, the usual farmer’s florid complexion from the fresh air; he wore a moustache. He was of average height and always well groomed. One got the impression of a jovial uncle rather than a dashing cavalier. Nora was twenty years his junior.

      Then came the trip to Vienna for Nora, the bride-to-be. In Zsiga’s opinion, it had to be Vienna, the only worthy place to shop. He didn’t let Nora or her mother, Flora, skimp: It had to be the best.

      I listened, speechless, to the wondrous tale, told as only Aunt Flora could tell it. In excited awe, silently, I looked at—but didn’t touch—the graceful luxuries, the elegant wool and silk dresses, some for the morning, some for the early afternoon, others for after five, still more for dinner and some for late evenings; a wraparound fur coat, and a black coat with a huge silver-fox collar, scarves, gloves, more and more, all so soft, and smelling so good . . . I thought, How wonderful it must be to be grown up. I asked Nora carefully, Aunt Nora, will you give these to me when I’m grown up? She drew me close and said with her calm smile, Yes, Böske, I will.

      After their honeymoon in Capri they went back to Zsiga’s estate in Czechoslovakia to live. There was a border to cross to Hungary, but she still lived close to her mother and, therefore, close to us, too.

      Nora came back to stay with her mother before her daughter, Daisy, was born. I was overjoyed to see her, and the only things I wanted were to listen to every word she uttered about her new world, be close to her, and touch the glamorous shiny dressing gown she wore.

      And now my thoughts turn to 1930, to the days of our hope and prayers for Zsiga, and to the disheartening acceptance—the first in my life—of something final and hopelessly unchangeable. Zsiga died in Vienna of blood poisoning from an infected tooth.

      Nora was back at her mother’s with her baby. She was all in black and very sad. I remember my own sadness and the pain I felt at seeing her grief. After some time, she returned to her life in Czechoslovakia, trying to take the place of Zsiga, who had been the driving force there.

      After being alone for years, she married a very nice man, Sandor, but I doubt he could ever have made up for her loss. Later a son, Peter, was born.

      Then war came dangerously close, and when it caught up with us we didn’t see each other until twenty-seven years later (in 1971), when at last I could afford to travel back to Hungary from Canada.

      It was comforting to find that Nora had remained essentially the same. The only difference came from the dramatic changes in our lives, but she spoke and acted just as she always had.

      My coming was a surprise to her, and after that first visit I arranged every visit as a surprise, so as not to excite her unnecessarily ahead of time.

      After we had sat down and discussed how long I would stay, she would rush to the phone to let her son, Peter, know the news. I would hear her leaving the message in his office to come home, for he was usually out of town. Nevertheless, he appeared every time after an hour or two. When I asked, Why are you home? How did you know I was here? his answer was, Everybody knows, the whole county knows. They phoned for me everywhere. If my mother calls, everybody stands at attention.

      In the evening of my first visit, seeing the bed she had made for me, I was close to weeping. The ironed linen pillows and sheets, starched to a silky shine and put there just so, spoke to me at once about delicate treatment and care, about respect and devotion, about beauty and tradition. It was as if a lost treasure had come alive in front of me.

      We went to bed and talked till late, or rather Nora did, because I could hardly talk; I was so overwhelmed.

      I was woken early by: Oh, I am so glad you slept well. Dear, good Nora was eager to go on with our reunion.

      Yes, I had a very good night. I slept, somehow feeling protected. Actually I felt as I felt only back in Szemere.

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