Be Mindful and Simplify Your Life
By KATE JAMES
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You are not your mind.
One thing at a time.
Be aware of the “busy” trap.
Slow it down.
Know how your feel.
Respond rather than react.
Turn toward discomfort.
In Be Mindful and Simplify Your Life, you’ll find simple tools to help you savor the good times and roll with the punches when things don’t go according to plan. Filled with wisdom on being aware, being accepting, and being kind to yourself and others, this little book offers calm and comfort in the face of stress and uncertainty.
KATE JAMES
Kate spent much of her childhood abroad before attending university in Canada. She built a successful business career, but her passion has always been literature. As a result Kate turned her energy to her love of the written word. Kate's goal is to entertain her readers with engaging stories featuring strong, likable characters. Kate has been honored with numerous awards for her writing. She and her husband, Ken, enjoy traveling and the outdoors with their beloved Labrador Retrievers.
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Be Mindful and Simplify Your Life - KATE JAMES
Praise for Kate James and Total Balance
I absolutely adore Kate. She is a highly skilled, generous, and enormously gifted business coach, especially for those who don’t traditionally consider themselves ‘business people.’
— Clare Bowditch, Big Hearted Business
Kate really ‘walks the talk’ and is clearly someone who has a great deal of expertise to share. Thank you, Kate!
— Robert Gerrish, Flying Solo
Kate James is a generous, creative coach who is passionate about helping others fulfill their dreams and brilliant at helping people move through both inner and outer obstacles.
— Elise Bialylew, Founder of Mindful in May
I would not hesitate to recommend Kate James of Total Balance to anyone who has goals and dreams, be it for life or business, that they want to achieve and don’t know where to begin, or how to get there.
— Jodie Holmes, Director of Seaside Creative
Put simply, working with Kate helped me to get clear—which has been nothing short of life changing.
— Leanne Clancey, Food & Travel Writer
Contents
Introduction
1. What is mindful living?
2. Are you living mindfully?
3. The opposite of living mindfully
4. Be present and withhold judgment
5. You are not your mind
6. Mindful meditation
7. Find happiness within
8. One thing at a time
9. Be aware of the busy
trap
10. Savor the good
11. Seek joy
12. Slow it down
13. Be grounded
14. Practice gratitude
15. Develop equanimity
16. Create positive touch points
17. Create routine
18. A visual reminder
19. Use positive language
20. Get into the real world
21. Appreciate beauty
22. Savor food
23. Mindful movement
24. A mindful approach to sleep
25. Know how you feel
26. Be with your thoughts
27. Let go of stress
28. Accept others
29. Be with positive people
30. Cultivate compassion for yourself
31. Cultivate compassion for others
32. Forgive
33. Learn to listen
34. Respond rather than react
35. Manage your energy
36. Manage your time
37. Be a role model
38. Take breaks
39. It’s just passing by
40. Connect with nature
41. Live simply
42. Mindfulness during difficult times
43. Make a contribution
44. Sustainable living
45. Shape your spirituality
46. Develop nonattachment
47. Do more to do less
48.Uncomplicate
your life
49. Turn toward discomfort
50. The middle way
Introduction
Mindfulness is about being aware, being accepting, and being kind to yourself and others as you navigate your way through life. You could say that living mindfully is learning to value being
as much as you value doing.
In the work I have done with clients over the past eighteen years, I’ve observed that the happiest people usually keep things simple. They know how to enjoy the present, they spend time reflecting on their choices, and they are proactive about making changes in their lives. They do all of these things in a mindful way. They accept that life won’t always be easy, and they’re willing to roll with the punches when things don’t go to plan. Crucially, they live on their own terms, without being overly caught up in what everyone else is doing.
These people are proof that one of the greatest ways to encourage happiness is to fully embrace mindfulness.
The basic principles of mindfulness include:
› Awareness (of your senses, breath, your body, your environment, your thoughts, and your physical experience).
› Being non-judgmental (allowing things to be as they are).
› Practicing compassion and acceptance (learning to be considerate of ourselves and others).
› Savoring the moment (not worrying about what happened before or what might happen next).
Within this little book, I’ll introduce my version of what it means to live mindfully. I’ll provide you with practical tips on how being mindful can lead to a less complicated and more fulfilling life.
Explore the book in your own way. Read it from front to back if you feel so inclined, or open it at a section that draws your attention. You’ll find that certain aspects of mindfulness appeal to you more than others, and you’ll know intuitively which areas need to be addressed first. The most important thing is to be open to the idea of being mindful in all areas of your life. The very fact that you’re reading this is a good start: you’ve set the intention, so you are already on your way.
1. What is mindful living?
Understanding mindfulness is only a starting point—to live mindfully, you must take the basic principles outlined in the Introduction and apply them every day. This means:
› Making contact with the present moment.
› Being aware of your thoughts and feelings.
› Being mindful of your behaviors and actions.
› Taking a mindful approach to longer-term planning.
› Making a mindful contribution to something bigger than yourself.
In many ways, we can use the word mindfulness
interchangeably with awareness.
Living