Vivek Shraya
Goodreads Author
Born
Canada
Website
Twitter
Member Since
April 2016
I'm Afraid of Men
10 editions
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2018
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The Subtweet
5 editions
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2020
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She of the Mountains
5 editions
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2014
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Even This Page Is White
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2016
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People Change
5 editions
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2022
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God Loves Hair
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9 editions
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2010
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The Boy & The Bindi
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4 editions
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2016
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Death Threat
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2 editions
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2019
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Revenge of the Raccoons
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How to Fail as a Popstar
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2021
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“I have always been disturbed by this transition, by the reality that often the only way to capture someone’s attention and to encourage them to recognize their own internal biases (and to work to alter them) is to confront them with sensational stories of suffering. Why is my humanity only seen or cared about when I share the ways in which I have been victimized and violated?”
― I'm Afraid of Men
― I'm Afraid of Men
“I’m afraid of men because it was men who taught me to fear. I’m afraid of men because it was men who taught me to fear the word girl by turning it into a weapon they used to hurt me. I’m afraid of men because it was men who taught me to hate and eventually destroy my femininity. I’m afraid of men because it was men who taught me to fear the extraordinary parts of myself”
― I'm Afraid of Men
― I'm Afraid of Men
“The pressure to be “good” is not exclusive to one gender, nor is it applied equally to all genders. To be clear, the stress on girls to be “good” far surpasses any stress men might feel to be “good.” This disparity is perhaps best exemplified by the fact that when a girl does something “wrong,” few mourn her goodness. We rarely hear, “I thought she was one of the good girls.” Women who behave “badly” are ultimately not given the same benefit of the doubt as men and are immediately cast off as bitches or sluts. Men might be written off as “dogs,” but their reckless behaviour is more often unnoticed, forgiven, or even celebrated—hence our cultural fixation with bad boys.”
― I'm Afraid of Men
― I'm Afraid of Men
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