Person Centered Approach & Class Behavior
Person Centered Approach & Class Behavior
Person Centered Approach & Class Behavior
THEORYAND PRACTICE
Person-centredapproachinschools:Isittheanswer
to disruptive behaviour in our classrooms?
FRANCIS GATONGI
Rothesay Academy, Rothesay, Isle of Bute, Scotland, UK
Abstract
The person-centred approach based on the work of Carl Rogers (19021987) was
designed to promote openness, growth and change in understanding the counseling
processes. It is an approach which is practical and helpful in education, because it can
solve some of the problems outside the curriculum faced by students. For example it
provides a way of understandingand solving issues of relationships,emotional
development and ethical behaviour that seem to be at the root of most of the problems
in school and society at large. However, it is essential to incorporate some accelerating
ingredients to inform conditions which facilitate growth. These include acceptance,
empathy and positive regard from others. For example it has been realized that if an
individual is denied acceptance and positive regard they fail to relate the meaning of their
experience to themselves and positive growth in such a relevant way is inhibited.
However, the approach is faced with some drawbacks which will be explored. Teaching
today in British schools is a very challenging job. It is becoming increasingly difficult to
establish a classroom environment that is free from disruptive behaviour. The personcentred approach, where the student as the client is made responsible of his or her own
behaviour, could be part of the solution. This could be the focus of an educational yet
assertive discipline program. This paper will discuss the person-centred approach in
counseling touching on the process of the helping relationship, empathy, congruence,
unconditionalpositive regard as important conceptsof the approachand some
suggestions on classroom management.
Correspondence: Francis Gatongi, BEd (Science) MEd, Rothesay Academy, Rothesay, Isle of Bute,
Scotland, UK. E-mail: [email protected]
ISSN 0951-5070 print/ISSN 1469-3674 online2007Taylor & Francis
DOI: 10.1080/09515070701403406
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of congruence, empathy and unconditional positive regard, which were reduced
from the original six and which the counselor alone brings to the relationship
(Carkhuff, 1969a, 1969b). The person-centred approach is not concerned with
finding out the causes of the problem and finding the best solution possible. It is
the individual client, in an open and accepting relationship with the therapist,
who is empowered to take control over his or her own healing. Healing is then
seen as something which must originate from the client and not from any
professional technique provided by the helper (Barnard, 1984). The helper is only
meant to be a useful companion in the process. Person-centred therapy does not
therefore have any specific techniques which are applied in every situation; each
helper chooseswhat is most appropriateaccordingto the case at hand
(Clarke, 1994, p. 1).
Empathy
One of the most important core conditions is empathy. Although congruence and
unconditional positive regard sometimes take an important position, empathy
takes the highest priority (Patterson, 1980). Empathy basically is the attempt by
the helper to enter the world of the client and really come to know it (Thorne,
1984). The helper therefore in a sense enters into the shoes of the client. And
according to Rogers it is to sense the clients private world as if were your own,
but without loosing the as if quality (Rogers, 1957, p. 99). It is not an easy task
to get as close as possible to another persons way of seeing reality or construct
system and here lies the difficult part for the helper. It even becomes more
difficult especially when one still wishes to hold onto ones own reality. True
empathic understanding development can take a long time to achieve.
It is important for the helper to feel comfortable in their own identity for them
to give empathy (Mearns & Thorne, 1988). It is thus basically important for the
helper to hold on his own identity, because this will be necessary in creating the
needed growth in the clients self-concept. An important condition for empathy is
that it must be accurate and that it must be made known to the client. Both of
these skills can be learned and they have been known to make a big difference to
the existing relationship between a client and the helper (Clarke, 1994, p. 2;
Nelson, 2000, p. 43).
Congruence
Congruence,sometimescalled genuineness,is a characteristicof being
transparent, real, and honest in a helping relationship. In simple terms, the
helper must be able to be genuine about the way he is feeling and let the client be
aware of this, rather than play professional and keep the feeling to himself.
Dryden (1990) argues that the helpers should be ready to be as ready as is
therapeutically desirable to their clients to a level of displaying their personal and
private experiences to their clients, if the situation demands (p. 17).
Normally empathy is conveyed through active listening to the client while
genuineness is about listening to oneself, i.e., being aware of everything that is
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Advantages and disadvantages of the person-centred approach
In the person-centered approach no condition is attached. Therefore, a helper
should display a caring respect for the clients, which allows them to be themselves
and overcome the temptations of criticizing their behaviour or suggesting to know
a better way of solving their problems. There should be respect and no judgment,
however bad the behaviour, thus separating the person from the bad behaviour.
But the respect is not a condition for an acceptable behaviour and neither is it an
approval of bad behaviour. Therefore drawing a line between what a person does
and who they are, it becomes possible to show warmth at the same time as setting
boundaries, and expressing different opinions and wishes.
The core conditions stated above of empathy, congruence and unconditional
positive regard are very important qualities that any person would desire to
receive from fellow human beings. All human beings wish to have an environment
where there is acceptance, non-judgement and warmth. The core conditions
enhanceeffectiveand caring relationships.They are not only useful and
applicable in counselling but to all dealings with human beings outside the
counselling room. In such an environment a person will reduce the need to
defend his/her self concept and begin to accept and value him/herself. He/she now
has the capability of re-evaluating him/herself and is relaxed. Therefore he/she
feels the motivation to focus on the present and ready to make use of the helper.
However, a helper is in an awkward position because he/she is not supposed to
seek to guide a client to a particular goal, while at the same time he/she is
explicitly and actively guiding the client towards contact with his/her client
organismic self and away from external authorities. Therefore, the person-centred
approach is not a neutral method, as is claimed to be. If it is taken as a philosophy
of life and not just a psychotherapeutic approach chances are that it will foster a
quasi-religious movement or a sect with all the dangers of dogmas and rituals.
This would reduce it to the level of faith, magic and religion (OHara, 1995;
Vitz, 1994).
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their own perceptions. There is a feeling of security and worth by the pupils when
their views and ideas are taken and respected. This works well for example by
bringing objectives to the open, agreeing how they could be achieved, methods
or approaches to use and allowing pupils to express their wishes and their fears
(Hill, 1994).
Conclusion
In conclusion, the relationship that exists in the person-centered therapy between
a helper and a client is such that the clients world is the central context for being
in the relationship. Ideally it is hoped that upon entering the person-centered
therapy,clients will experiencethe three core conditions of congruence,
unconditionalpositive regard and empathy. A teachercan approachthe
management of student behaviour in a more proactive manner through building
a positive and a trusting relationship. The teacher establishes himself/herself as a
teacher who cares about the pupils well being in and out of school. This can help
create an atmosphere in which the student self-esteem can flourish.
The core conditions then interact with the clients conditions of worth, which
kick start a helping relationship within which change and growth can then occur.
What is of importance to the helper is the establishment of an appropriate
environment under which the self-healing process occurs. Therefore, the personcentered helper is not likely to offer ready made solutions or to direct the client to
follow a particular coping strategy. What the helper does is capitalize on a trusting
relationship through which the worth of a client is recognized and therefore issues
which are of concern are sorted out. Overall, the client is assumed to posses the
ability to come up with a solution to their problem, the helper only acts as an
important companion in the healing process.
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