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The timing that is before 5 Nazhigai of sun rise (6:15 AM) in the morning is called as Bhrama Muhurtam.
5 Nazhigai : (1 hour = 2.5 Nazhigai) = 2 hours before sun rise (6:15 AM)
Also, this period is termed as Second half of fourth Yaamam of Previous Night.
A Bhramana should wake up in Bhrama Muhurtham. If he fails to do so, he loses his Punya Karma and also
invites the curse of Pitris. (Forefathers who have departed).
Activities to be done after rising from bed in Bhrama Muhurtam:
A Bhramana should do the following as soon as he gets up from his bed
Should mediate upon Sriman Narayana -> In Our Sath Sampradayam we chant Paramartha
Slokadhwayam by Nadadur Ammal. First we start with chanting of Hari Sabdham 7 times followed by
Paramartha Slokadwayam.
Should meditate upon Maharshis (For us its Azhwars and Acharyas)
A Bhramana after getting up from bed if sees the following gets his Paapam / Danger alleviated.
Srothriyan
Cow
Agni
A Person who did Agnyadhanam
A Bhramana after getting up from bed if sees the following will face problems and kalakams
(Confusions) during the day
A Person who always does paapa Karma (Here Nasthikas, People who frequently commit Bagavata
Apachara etc can be included)
BhagyaHeenan (A person who is not blessed with kids or merits by elders)
Excluding children those who are nude
A person who has his nose cut (Mookarupattavan)
Activities not to be done (Strictly Prohibited) in Sandhya Kaalam
During Sandya Kaalam ( 6 AM to 7 AM Pradha Sandhi) , 12 PM to 1 PM (Madhyanika Sandhi), 6 pm to
7 PM (Saayam Sandhi) the following should not be done
Aaharam (Having Food)
If a person has Aakaram during Sandhya period, he gets diseases
Stri Boham (Intercourse)
If a person gets involved in Stri Boham he gets Garbha Naasam (Vamsa Vridhi will get impacted)
Nithrai (Sleep or Nap)
Loses Wealth as he invites Moodhevi
Study
By studying in Sandhya Period his life span gets reduced.
He should go not less than 100 Koll of distance from his house towards East or South of North and reach a spot
He should Procure lot of water in his Sombu (A big vessel carried by a Bhramana always which could hold upto 1 to
2 liters of water)
He should wear his punul as Maalai and tie it over his right ear so that it is criss cross towards his right ear and
neck. (Note: Punul cannot be directly tied to ear rather it should be first put as Maalai then held towards the chin
He should then tie his anga Vastram (The 4 yard cloth a Bhramana should always wear on his waist) on his head as
a turban
Yagas or Homas
Cultivation (Nor a Fertile land)
He should then cover the ground with leaves (dry leaves)
Being silent he should pass away his Mala Mootradhis (Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam) -> He should complete
his morning bowel movement
Once completed, he should cover the ground with the remains with Dry leaves again
Places and people before which a Bhramana should never do his Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam
People before whom a Bhramana should not do his Mala Mootradi Visarjanam (Bowel movement)
Agni
Stri
Heavy wind (When there is a heavy wind blowing)
Guru (Acharyan)
A Bhramana
Cow
Places opposite which Bhramana should not do his Mala Mootradi Visarjanam (Bowel movement)
A place that is fit for cultivation (Cultivable land) => உ ற
A water (Pond or Creek or River or Lake or Well) => No place where there is a water gathering, a
bhramana should do his Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam. (Generally doing the bowel movement on a
Pond, River or Lake or even a creek or well is strictly prohibited)
Ant hill (Formation of sand dunes by Ants used by Snakes)
Hill or Mountain Top
Inside a Temple
River bed
Naanal => Saccharum spontaneum
Paddy fields (Fields of paddy or any grains)
Under a tree
Over Agni
On the Market (Grounds)
Over the cow dung
Rivers
Yaga Bhoomi (Sacrificial grounds)
Over a hole
Over a flower
Over Kusa Grass (Dharba grass)
Over a common way used by people
Over cow shed
Over Umi (Chips of Wood used for Yaga)
Over the well and inside the well
Over the four intersections of a road
On the path of Paddy boundaries வயல் வறப்
ஊஷர
உத்யானத் ம்
Near Water front
Over the grains (Rice or any food grains)
House entrance
Terrace
Stairs
Crowded place
Wearing Sandals
Holding an Umbrella
Opposite to a Temple
A Bhramana after going to Bahir Boomi should not remain there for a long time.
Rules to be followed after doing bowel movement (Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam)
A Bhramana should perform Achamanam before doing Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam
If Bhramana doesn't gather Water in his Sombu (A big vessel) before going to Bahir Bhoomi (A.K.A. Mala
Mootradhi Visarjanam) he becomes Unclean
If a Bhramana execretes (Performs Bowel movement-> Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam) with his Sombu filled
with water on hand, then the water in the sombu is equivalent to Urine.
A Bhramana after performing his Mala Mootradhi Visarjanam (Excretion) should hold his veshti over his
waist, hold his male urinal part in his hand and should raise from the Bahir Bhoomi.
3. Choucha Niyamam (Choucham = Sanitary cleanliness using Sand and water Niyamam=Prescribed Method)
4. Rules around Achamanam and associated activities
5. Rules and Method around performing Japas and Tharpanam with Wet clothes
6. The position for Devatheertham and timings around its usage
7. Information around Tharpam and Pavithram
8. Non Interpretable Grantha Lipi
9. Timings when Aachamanam should be done mandatorily
10. Dandha Davana Vidhi (Rules around brushing teeth)
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1. Preface:
The book on Dharma Sastras named Dharma Sastra Surrukkam by Sri.Vaidyanatha Dikshita is
The lucid tamil translation of Dharma Sastras abiding Parasara Smrithi helps reference all of
anushtanams in one place. This is a humble effort to translate this great book into English for the
purpose of Vaidhika Generations who has lost touch with their roots. Any praise for this translation
solely belongs to Sri.Vaidhyanadha Dikshita and the Publishers (Sri.Krishnamoorthy Sastri and
K.Sundara Raman) and any mistakes are purely due to the limited knowledge of the Translator
2. Contact of Publishers:
1.
It is recommended to have a personal copy of this wonderful grantha which supports two purposes.
Purpose 1) It gives the ultimate source of knowledge of Dharma Sastras in Tamil 2) Allowing these
great Publishers to continue the noble task of Publishing great Vaidhika Books like this.
The book can be obtained at:
Dr.R.KrishnaMoorthy Sastrigal,
No 2, Sanskrit College Road,
Mylapore, Chennai - 600 004
Phone: (+91) 044 298 4698
Table of Contents:
1.
1. Varnashrama Dharma Kandam
2. Vedas and its divisions, Sutras
3. Varnam - Definition
4. Yugas - Definition
5. Dharmas Prohibited in Kali Yuga (Kaliyuga Nishidha Dharmas)
6. Rules and Criteria for Directions (Dhik Niyamam)
7. Rules for Bhramana (Bhramana Dharma)
8. Agnihotram (Definition, eligibility)
9. Rules for Learning/Reciting Vedas outside the prescribed Veda for a person
(AnyaVedadhyana Niyamam)
10. Upakarmam
11. Anandhyayanam (Rules for days when not to recite / Learn Vedas)
12. Rules for a Bhramana to do cultivation (When a Bhramana can plough his own land)
13. Varthushvam (Primary Crime of Lending Money at higher Interest Rate -> Must to be
avoided for a Bhramana)
14. Rules/Eligibility for People aged over fifty years
15. Forty Samskaras (The Prime Forty Samskaras for a Bhramana)
16. Rutu Kalam (Season for Union)
17. Pumsavanam (Rites to be done for a child in its mother's womb)
18. Samskaras around Seemandham (The baby Shower done for the first kid)
19. JaataKarmam
20. Naamakaranam (Naming a child)
21. Ear piercing (Kaadhu Kuttal)
22. Soorya Chandra Darsana Kaalam (Time to perform SuryaDarshan/Chandra Darshan for a
baby)
23. Anna Praasnam (Introduction of Cooked Rice for the baby)
24. Choulam (Keeping Kudumi/Tuft) for a child
25. Smarta Karmas for Girl Child
26. Aksharaabhyaasam: (Introducing letters/Words to a child)
27. Rules/Restrictions for Boys before Upanayanam
28. Samskaras from Upanayanam onwards
29. People Eligible to make Yagnobhaveetham (Yagnobhaveetham = Poonul)
30. Method to make Yagnobhaveetham (Poonol/Sacred Thread)
31. Niyamam (Rules) for the Upanayana Period (Upanayana Kaala Niyamam)
32. Rules around giving Rice to a Bhramachari (Food given as Alms) (How to get bikshai
during
33. Upanayana Kalam)
34. Kaalatheetha Prayachitam (Prayachita to be done for Karmas performed outside the
prescribed time)
35. Time when Choula Karmas and like wise should not be performed (Choulam -> Keeping
Kudumi/Tought)
36. People eligible to perform Upanayanam
37. Rules for performing Jatakarma for Twins (Twins -> Yamalodbhavas or Yamalodbhavargal)
38. Eligibility of Girls/ladies for Marriage (Vivahathirkuriya Kanya lakshanam)
39. Eligibility for a person to perform Kanyka Dhanam (Kartha - Person eligible for performing
the Karma)
40. Activities to be performed during auspicious times (auspicious Times - SubhaKaalam)
41. Activities to be / not to be peformed during two Sobhanams (Sobhanam -> Time when an
auspicious activity like Upanayanam, Vivaham etc is performed)
42. Rules around performing Vivaham for Foster sons (Foster Son -> Sweekara Putran)
43. Rules around Jestha Putra determination after Adoption:
44. Rules around performing Vivaham for sons from co wives (Co Wives - Sapathnee)
45. Aoupasamam and Sthaali Paakam - Rules around it
46. Rules around resumption of Aoupasanam if it has been interrupted
47. Activities to be performed during Aoupasanam and Loukika Agni
48. Rules around parting off with a Wife and re marriage
49. Rules around Vivaham (Marriage) of Brothers
50. Dharma (Rules) to be followed by a wife
51. Dharma (Rules) to be followed by a widow - Vidhava Dharmam
52. Rules as to when Abhivadhanam should Not be done with Namaskaaram
Āśvalāyana Śrautasûtra
Sāṅkhāyana Śrautasûtra
Bhodayana Sutra
Apastamba Sutra
Bhaaradhwaja Sutra
Sathyashaada Sutra
Vaikanasa Sutra
Kaadhyaayana Sutra
Traahyayana Sutra
Jaimineeya Sutra
Varnam - Definition
Yugas - Definition
Reducing the number of achouchams (Achoucham -> Cleansing after going for natural
A Grihasta (Married person) going for distant lands for theertha yaatra
For a Karma (Duty) of a direction is not prescribed, please use one of East, North or
North East
For a Karma (Duty) if the posture / position (Standing or Sitting) is not specified, use
sitting Posture
prohibited)
Agnihotra the rest of the Brothers doesn't gain right to perform Agnihotram
If the Eldest Son permits, then only the younger brothers can perform
Agnihotram
Even if a father permits his sons, if the eldest son doesn't permit, rest of the sons
Rules for Learning/Reciting Vedas outside the prescribed Veda for a person
(AnyaVedadhyana Niyamam)
A person should first complete the Adhyayanam (Learning and reciting properly)
other Veda
Upakarmam
Sangramana Days
For Yajur Vedis, Upakarma should be performed during the Parva which is udaya
For RigVedis, Upakarma should be performed during their Udaya Vyapi which is
"Sravana Nakshatra"
But when there is a need to perform Upakarma, the said Bramachari should
undergo Kshavaram
gether, then
Thitis:
Prathamai Thithi
Ashtami Thithi
Chaturdasi Thithi
Amavasya Thithi
Days
RutuSandhi
The Day Garauda Kodi is hoisted for a festival in temple (Kodi yetram)
performed
Mahanavami
Sravana Dwadesi
AkshayaTrithiyai
RataSaptami
MagaBharani
Manvadi Days
Yugadi Days
Rules for a Bhramana to do cultivation (When a Bhramana can plough his own
land)
For a Bhramana, apathvruthi is Krishi -> This means, during pressing situations,
The bull selected for ploughing land can be used for the purpose only for a period
Those bulls that are affected by the following should not be employed for
ploughing
Hunger
Thirst
Handicapped
Diseased
Those bulls which are calfs and those bulls which are old by the virtue of losing its
Varthushvam (Primary Crime of Lending Money at higher Interest Rate -> Must
Varthushvam -> Getting Money for a lower interest rate and lending it to others
A Bhramana aged over fifty years should also not eat nimanthranam
prescribed to be followed.
Emperuman.
AsramaSweekaram (If a Bramachari becomes Grihasta -> Marries and gets into
1. Garbhadhaanam
2. Pumsavanam
3. Seemandham
4. Jaatakarmam
5. Naamakaranam
6. Annapraasanam
7. Choulam
8. Upanayanam
9. Praajapatyam
10. Sowmyam
11. Agneyam
12. Vaisvadevam
13. Snaanam
14. Vivaham
1. Devayagnyam
2. PitruYagnyam
3. BhutaYagnyam
4. ManushyaYagnyam
5. Bhramayagnyam
2. Seven Paakayagnyam (7)
1. Ashtakai
2. Sthaalipaakam
3. Maasisrardham
4. Sraavani
5. Aagrahaayanee
6. Chaitree
7. Aasvayujee
3. Seven HavirYagnyam (7)
1. AgnayaDhaanam
2. AgniHotram
3. DarsaPoornaMaasam
4. Agrayanam
5. ChaaturMaasam
6. NiroodaPasupanthanam
7. Choudraamanee
4. Seven Somasamsthai (7)
1. Agnishtoomam
2. Adhyaagnishotomam
3. Ukthyam
4. Shodasi
5. Vaajapeeyam
6. Athiraathram
7. Aptoryama
Additional Smarta Karma
There is a third school of thought which includes all the above four and
The period between start of Menstrual cycle till 16 days is called Rutu Kalam.
The following days in the 16 day period are not suitable for union of a husband
and wife.
Chaturthi thithi
Sashti thithi
Ashtami thithi
Ekadesi Thithi
Trayodasi thithi
Chaturdasi thithi
The remaining days are fit for union of husband and wife.
Out of these days fit for union the following criteria is considered most suited.
Wednesday
Thursday
Saturday
Rohini
Utthiram (Utrashada)
Hastam
Swati
Anusham
Moolam
Sravanam
Sadayam
Revati
Vrushabham
Mitunam
Katakam
Kanni
Tulaam
Danusu
Kumbam
Meenam
Mrugaseersham
Ponarpoosam
Ketai
If the day of the 16 day period is even then the union will result in Male child.
If the Day of the 16 day Period is ODD, then the union will result in a Female
child.
For instance, excluding the first four days, on the remaining 12 days, if a day is
Allowed Thithi
Allowed Nakshatra
Allowed Day
And that combination results in any one of 1,3,5,7,9,11th day of the 16 day
Hastham
Moolam
Sravanam
Punarpoosam
Poosam
Mrugaseersham
The above said Nakshatras are male Nakashatras and hence Pumsavanam should
be performed on them.
There is a belief that Pumsavanam is essential only for the first pregnancy.
A Person aspiring for a Male Child should always perform Pumsavanam for each
Samskaras around Seemandham (The baby Shower done for the first kid)
"Seemandham"
Seemandham
Since Seemandham also purifies the baby in the Mother's Womb, there is a
certain school of thought that it should be done for each and every pregnancy
woman has gone for distant lands, or has passed away, Seemandham SHOULD
Brother
Guru
JaataKarmam
When a Bhramana becomes a father (As soon as the wife gives birth to the child),
If the bord child is a Male child, the Bhramana is eligible to perform Dhaanam
throughout the day and there is no dhosham in getting Pratigraham from the
Bhramana. This is because a Male child makes the father purified throughout the
day
do Jaatakarmam.
Since a Male child relieves a father from all sins, when a Person begets a
On the 11th day from the day of birth, a child should be named.
Atleast within the completion of the first year of the child from the birth, it
should be named.
Chitra (Chitirai)
Karthigai
Thai
Panguni
When a child is has started getting its teeth and it is able to get into the lap
of mother and out of it by itself, the child is fit for ear piercing.
A silk thread should be sewed into a needle and both the ends of the
Surya Darshan: During 3rd month from the time of birth of a child, Surya
Chandra Darshan: During 4th Month from the time of Birth of a child,
During the 6th month from the time of birth Anna Prasnam (Introduction
During Anna Praasnam, Cooked Rice should be mixed with Ghee, Honey
performed.
Saturday
Tuesday
Saturday
Pratamai
Chaturthi
Navami
Sashti
Chaturdasi
Kartigai (Krithika)
Pooratadhi
Uttaratadhi
Aswati
Thiruvonam
Swati
Chitirai
Poosam
PunarPoosam
Avittam
For a Girl of a Bhramana, All samksaras from the time of Birth till
Girl Child.
Samskara of a boy.
Marriage.
be performed.
Restricted Thithis:
Prathamai
Ashtami
Amavasya
Poornima
Preferred Nakshatras:
Thiruvonam
Hastham
Poosam
Mrugaseersham
Avittam
Swati
Sathayam
Anusham
Kettai
Chitarai
Hari
Lakshmi
Saraswati
Maharshi
Vidhyai
Placing the child facing the west Direction, A guru should face east
But drinking Alcohol, Kal (Juice of Palm tree made to an alcoholic beverage) is
severely prohibited.
Mahapathakams (The greatest sins) should also not be practised by Boys before
Upanayam.
These prohibitions are applicable even after Upanayanam till last breathe for a
Bhramana.
For a Boy / Girl after they reach the age of five, they should not be left to go by
their own Intent. According to the Ashrama of the Varna (For a Bhramana its
When a boy or Girl of a Bhramana is less than six years of age and if he/she is
When a boy of a Bhramana completes 8 Years starting from the time the boy was
formed in Mother's Womb (Note: Its not 8 years completion, its completion of 7
performed.
Favourable Months -
Prohibited Days
Exceptions:
Anadhyayana Day
Maasam.
Horoscope)
a house which is a neecham for him, then chandra will Diminish). Likewise
Anadhyayangal
Triyodasi thithi
Chaturdasi
Parva
Prathamai Thithi
Chaturthi
Sapthami
Ashtami
Navami
Ekadasi
Position from the Lagnam) then performing Upanayanam on that day gives
lot of grace.
A Widow
Sitting in a pure place, the lady should keep four fingers of her right palm and
Wrapping these three threads around the palm for 96 times we get One Poonol
(One Yagnobhaveetham)
Once cleansed, it should be folded into three layers and twisted and turned
After this, the Poonol obtained will have nine Dhantus due to the folding
This Poonol should be decorated to have Knot (Often this Knot is called as
Bhrama Knot)
If the length of Yagnobhaveetham is too short it impacts the life of the Boy and
too long makes all of the Karma performed by the boy as meaningless.
Rules around giving Rice to a Bhramachari (Food given as Alms) (How to get
Bhramayagnyam
2.
Next day after Upanayanam or 4th Day from the Upanayanam Bhramayagnyam should be
performed daily like Sandhya Vandhanam. Daily Frequency: Once a day
prescribed time)
If any of the Nithya karmas prescribed for a Bhramana is not done on the prescribed time (time
of the day or time of the age), the Karma should be done with Prayaschitartham before
proceeding to Next Karma. Here Next Karma is the karma that immediately succeeds the missed
karma. For example, if Pratha Sandhyavandhanam is skipped, before Madyanya
Sandhyavandhana (Sandhyavandhanam during Noon) is said to be the Next Karma. Before doing
Madhyanyakam, Pratha Sandhyavandhanam should be done with Prayaschitam and
Madhyanikam should be performed.
Food to be Served during Various Karmas:
Choulam - Food to be served for 50 Bhramanas
Upanayanam - Food to be served for 100 Bhramanas
Vivaham - As much as possible to the extent of financial ability
Adhanam - Food to be served for 100 Bhramanas
RutuSaanthi - Food to be served for 10 to 12 Bhramanas
Seemandham - Food to be served as much as possible to the extent of financial ability
Garbadhanam - 2 Bhramanas should be served food and ONLY after that, a Grihasta can get into
Married life with his Wife (Samboham)
4. Time when Choula Karmas and like wise should not be performed (Choulam -> Keeping
Kudumi/Tought)
If Mother is a Rajaswalai (In her Menstrual Cycle) If Mother is Pregnant and if her pregnancy is
more than 5 months
Choulam or Upanayanam or Vivaham of the Putran should not be performed.
If Upanayanam is performed by a Bandhu apart from his father, the Bandhu's wife if pregnant
should be less than 6 month in her pregnancy. If her pregnancy is more than 6 months, the
Kartha (Bandhu) performing Upanayanam is unfit to perform the Upanayanam.
Father
Grandfather (Maternal/Paternal),
Brothers,
Gnyathis, (People who are 10 days Dayathis for 7 generations)
Brothers belonging to same Pravaram (For Pravaram please refer to below table)
If people specified above is NOT available for a person, then people belonging to Same Sutram
(For Ex.Apastamba) can perform. More details On Sutram can be found at the beginning of the
post (Sutras are organized by Vedam one follows)
If a Person has LOST his wife, he is UNFIT to perform Upanayanam. (Anashrami Na thisteth)
Pravaram details (Courtesy:
https://www.trsiyengar.com/id138.shtml)
Brugu (Briku) - Twenty sub-lineage Rishis
Aangirasa, Bhaarhaspathya,
04 GaargEya Bharatheevaja, Sainya, Gargya -
Pancharsheya pravaranvitha:
Aangirasa, Paurukuthsa,
06 Paurukuthsa Thraasathasya - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aangirasa, Paurukuthsa,
07 PaatharaayaNa Thraasathasya - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aangirasa, Bhaarhaspathya,
09 Bharatwaja Bharatwaja - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aangirasa, Pauruguthsa,
12 Vishnuvruththa Thraasathasya - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aangirasa, Thraasathasya,
13 ShatamarshNa Pauruguthsa - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aathreya, Aarsanaanasa,
02 Mauthgalya Baurvaathitha - Thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aathreya, Aarsanaanasa,
05 Muthkala Baurvaathitha - thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Aathreya, Aarsanaanasa,
06 Gauriveetha Baurvaathitha - thrayarsheya,
pravaranvitha:
Vaiswamithra, Kadhaka -
05 Kadhaka
Dhwayarsheya
Vaiswamithra, Devaseevarasa,
09 Kamakaayana
DaivaTharasa (Rethasa) - Thrayarsheya
Vaasishta, Aindrapramatha,
06 Aachvalaayana
Aabarathvasasya - Thrayarsheya
Vaasishta, Aindrapramatha,
07 Upamanyu
Aabarathvasasya - Thrayarsheya
Vaasishta, Aindrapramatha,
08 KaaNva
Aabarathvasasya - Thrayarsheya
Vaasishta, Aindrapramatha,
09 JaadhookarNya
Aabarathvasasya - Thrayarsheya
Vaasishta, Aindrapramatha,
13 Vaasida
Aaabarathvasasya - Thrayarsheya
Agasthya, Dhradyavrutha,
04 Agasthi Aidhmavaaha - Thrayarisheya,
pravaranvitha:
Yamalodbhavargal)
For Male Twins : Karmas from JaataKarma till Upanayanam should be performed in Same Lagna
with Same Acharya in Same Vedhikai (Vedhikai - Agni and Manai) For Female Twins: Jatakarma
till Vivaham (For girls, Vivaham is equivalent to Upanayanam) should be performed in Same
Lagna with Same Acharya in Same Vedhikai (Vedhikai - Agni and Manai) For Twins (Male &
Female) - Same as applicable above Sapatni Putras (Yamalodbhavas)
If for a Bhramana two babies were born on same lagna through two wives, if Karmas has to
be done on Same Lagna, the following Rule should be observed.
The Karma should be done in two different Vedhikai (Manai + Agni) with different
acharyas. Nandhi is also to be done separately.
The following girls are not to be considered as a Kanya fit for Marriage.
Nakshatra (Stars -> 27 Stars namely Aswini, Bharani, Kritika, Rohini, etc)
Tree (Vriksham)
Mountain
A Girl who has bad odour throughout her body (Someone like MatsyaGandhi who
If a father has ONLY one Girl (Having two kids one boy and one girl seems to be fine)
A Boy's age should be atleast 1 year greater than girl's age. If not the marriage is not
recognized by DharmaSaastram.
8. Eligibility for a person to perform Kanyka Dhanam (Kartha - Person eligible for
Father of the Bride Father's father (Paternal Grandfather) of the Bride Brother Paternal Uncles
(Chittapa, Periyappa) Maatamahar (Maternal Grandfather) Uncle (Mother's brother - Maama) A
person belonging to same gotra of Bride's father A Relative of the bride If above said people are
NOT available then
Persons belonging to same Sutram Close relatives
Persons not fit to perform Kanyaka Dhanam
Even if a person qualifies with above criteria, if the person is having disease or the person is
mentally unstable he is not fit to perform Kanyaka Dhanam.
Anytime a SubhaKaryam is performed at home, sarees /dresses should be purchased for Sisters
of the house and women of the house (Wives, Sisters, Mother, Grandmother and all ladies
related to the house) At no point in time, a Mother should wear saree of her daughter.
10. Activities to be / not to be peformed during two Sobhanams (Sobhanam -> Time when
At no point in time, two sobhanam (Auspicious and mangala Activities) should be performed
together. Marriage timing for Brothers and Sisters :
If there are brothers and sisters in a family, at no point in time, marriage of brother and
sister should be performed at the same time. When doing marriage, the Brother should be
wed first following which after 6 months, the marriage of sister can be conducted.
Marriage timing for Two sisters:
If there are two sisters, Marriage should not be done for both of them at the same
year. Atleast 6 or 3 month gap should be present between both the marriages. If between
two marriages, there is a change in Varsham it is said to be most auspicious.
Restrictions on Upanayanam:
If a person has two kids, one boy and one girl, once the girl is given as KanyakaDhanam,
YagnopavidhaDharanam should not be performed for the boy. For Two brothers when they
are not twins, Yagnopavidha Dharanam should NOT be performed at the same time.
As a general rule of thumb, Two Sobhanams (Sobhanam = Auspicious Mangala Activities) should
not be combined.
When in case, if Two Sobhanam has to be combined, then acharyas should be separate. If due to
unavoidable circumstances, Marriage for Brother and Sister from the same mother has to be
done at the same time, then those two marriages should be performed in two separate villages
or two separate mandapams or two separate Lagnam.
11. Rules around performing Vivaham for Foster sons (Foster Son -> Sweekara Putran)
For Foster Son (Sweekara Putran) during Marriage, the gotram of the girl and that of the boy
should be different and it should not be One of
Gotram of the Boy during his birth Gotram of the Boy after Sweekaram (After seekaram,
Gotram of Boy changes to the gotram of the adopted father) Gotram of Rishis belonging to
the same Pravaram of Birth Gotram of Rishis belonging to the same Pravaram of Sweekara
Gotram.
12.
Rules around Jestha Putra determination after Adoption:
After adoption, the adopted son becomes Jestha. If a son is born to the foster parents, then
the son by birth becomes Jestha and is called by name Orasan The Adopted son, even if
elder becomes a Kanishtan. The Adopted son is called as Uthan For Marriages, the son by
birth should be married first followed by the Adopted son.
Rules around performing Vivaham for sons from co wives (Co Wives - Sapathnee)
The determination of Jestha (Elder) and Kanishta (Younger) brothers between sons from co
wives of a Bhramana is dependent upon the time of their birth The boy/girl born first between co
wives becomes Jestha and rest all becomes Kanishta in the order of their birth time As long as
the Father of the kids (Boy/Girl) belonging to the co wives is alive, marriage should be done in
the order of Jestha followed by Kanishta In case if father of the kids have passed away, there is
no rule of Jestha/Kanishta between the kids of co wives and no restriction is applicable in the
order of marriage. Vivaha restrictions for Jestha Putra/Jestha Putri (Seemandha
Putran/Seemandha Putri):
Marriage should not be performed on the following day(Vaaram)/thithi/Month/Nakshtram for
Seemandha Putran (Jestha Putran)
Month restrictions:
Aani Month (Aani Maadham) - July - August Janma Maatham (The Month in which
the Seemandha Putran/Seemanda Putri was born)
Thithi Restrictions:
Janma Thithi (The Thithi in which the Seemandha Putran/Putri was born)
Nakshatra Restrictions:
Janma Nakshatram (The Nakshatram of the Seemandha Putran/Putri)
Day(Vaaram) Restrictions:
Janma Vaaram - The day the Seemandha Putran/Putri was born
General Restrictions:
The Place where the Marriage is to be performed, if the deities of the place (Village
or Town) has Utsavams going on, then Marriage should not be done during the
Utsavam (Marriage should be done ONLY after the Utsavams)
Non Intrepretable:
மாற் க் ம தைல வஹம் டா
If a Bhramana has two girls then he should not give both of them into marriage for
the same Bhramachari
If a Bhramana has two girls and another Bhramana has two boys then both the girls
(Sisters) should not be given in marriage to both the sons of another Bhramana.
By doing "Agni Santhanam=ஆக்னிஸந்தனம் " the Bhramana should perform two Aahudis for
the prescribed time According to Aapasthambar's Matham, Only two Aahudis should be given as
a part of AgniSanthanam Including previous Night's Aahuti (Per Sandhi two Aahudis), four
Aahudhis should be given according to Bodhayanar's Matham According to Yama's Matham,
When there occurs two SvisthaKruths (ச ் ஷ்டக் த்) ONLY one Aahudi should be given. The
Akshadha used in Agni of a Homam or anything that is put inside the Agni should be fully
consumed by Agni of the Homam. Until the Akshada or the Havis poured into the Agni is fully
consumed, Aoupasanam should not be started. If Aoupasanam is done in that manner, then the
Homam done prior to that becomes useless. Also the Kartha of the Homam might get
KunmaRoham (A sort of disease). During Marriage, If Poornima thithi occurs after the prescribed
time of Aoupasanam and before the start of Sesha Homam, we can start Sthalibaham. If
Amavasya thiti comes instead of Poornima Sthalibaham should not be started
(Sthaleebaharambham). Aoupasanam should be started after the start of Night and within 9
Nazhigai of the start of Night (Nazhigai : 2.5 Nazhigai = 1 hour). In case if Aoupasanam is not
started at the start of Night (Within 9 Naazhigai of start of Night) then Aoupasanam should be
started next night). First PoornimaSthaalibhagam should be performed then sthalibagam should
be performed. If Marriage happens during Krisha Paksham, the Poornima Sthaaleebagam should
be done till Chaturdasi and then Sthaalibagam should be started. If the month of Marriage is one
of Aadi, Puratasi, Maargazhi or Maasi then Sthaleebaga aarambam should not be started. If
Sthaaleebagam is not done during Marriage, it should be done atleast within 6 months after the
completion of Marriage. If Sthaaleebagam is not done within 6 months of marriage, then Punar
Vivaham (Re marriage of same couples) needs to be done. (There are certain exclusions that are
mentioned in Grantha Lipi which Adiyen is trying to translate but couldn't).
This section is currently in Manipravala (Grantha) Lipi. Adiyen is translating it and would update
this section once the translation is complete.
If a wife has any of these qualities, according to Dharma Sastra, a husband has right to void the
marriage with her and can remarry another fit girl.
A lady who drinks Sura Panam (A form of Liquor)
A lady who is accused by Sadhus
A lady who does harm to her husband (Harm - Physical and mental)
A lady who is ailing from incurable disease
A lady who insults and harms the servants
A lady who sells items and makes cheap (wrong) profit out of it Or lends money
A lady who wastes the household items (Here Household items includes perishable and non
perishable items)
A lady who never begets baby (Male baby)
A lady who begets baby but lets it die
A lady who begets only girl child (Here even if there is a male child this criteria is not
applicable)
A lady who talks in such a way that hurts her Husband's feelings
A lady who has jealousness and Dvesham (Anger on someone)
A lady having the above said Dhurgunas (Bad Qualities) can be forsaken by a Bhramana by
disolving his marriage with her and he can remarry
If for any other reason than the above mentioned, if a Bhramana forsakes his wife, then his
entire lineage would be destroyed and his vamsam would never survive.
When deciding to dissolve a marriage, the following rules should be followed.
If a Lady has not begotten any child, then the Bhramana should take care of such a wife for
10 years and then he can re marry
If a Lady has begotten children but none of them survives, the Bhramana has to take care of
such a wife for 12 years
If a Lady has begotten ONLY girl Children then the Bhramana should take care of such a wife
for 15 years.
After taking care of such a wife for the prescribed time, the Bhramana becomes eligible for
remarriage.
If for any reason, a wife who has only good conduct, gets incurable disease, or becomes
infertile, then by making her happy and getting her permission, the Bhramana can remarry.
At no point in time, a Bhramana can do a third marriage. If for any reason, a Bhramana has
to remarry for third time, he has to do the third marriage as arka vivaham and then do the
fourth marriage.
Without finishing marriage for elder brother, the younger brother should not marry.
If an elder brother is Eunuch or has an incurable disease, or has a hunchback, or blind or deaf or
mentally ill (unstable), then the younger brother can marry without completing the marriage of
elder brother.
If for any reason, an elder brother not having any of the above defects is not married but has
gone to a different country or distant land, then the younger brother has to wait for 12 years
before getting married.
In terms of girls also, if an elder sister is not married, then younger sister should not be given in
marriage.
Even if a Bartha (Husband) is poor, or has disease, or even if not intelligent or stupid
(Moorkan), if a wife insults him, then she frequently gets a birth of a Dog or Pig and suffers.
If for any reason a Stri (Wife) has to observe any of Vratham (Pious duty), she should always
do it with the permission of her husband. If she performs any of pious duty (Vratham) without
her Husband's permission, then such an activity reduces the life of her husband. She also goes
to hell.
If a pativratha (A wife who is steadfast by mind, body and soul to her husband), keeps
performing pati sishrusha (Services to her husband) consistently then no sin touches her in
She should not sit or relax in a place where there is Ural or Ulakkai
She should not spend time by continuously sitting or standing or sleeping for a long
time.
She should not be anywhere near a kanapu chatti or Pot full of ashes (Vipudhi Paanai)
She should not handle coalfire or wood fire or any kitchen related fire.
She should not talk aloud or laugh aloud. She should also not go near any tree or stay
She should never use scents or any fragrance like sandal paste
She should never take thaamboolam (Betel leaves). Betel leaves are consumed after lunch or
A widow should not wear sacred threads like Rudraksha or Tulasi Mala or its equivalent.
If a widow sleeps in a comfortable bed or bed, she causes extreme harm to her husband in
pitru lokam or para lokam. Due to this a widow who seeks comfort for her husband in
The ultimate dharma for a widow is to meditate upon and worship Sriman Narayana and
Trees, Sacred Agni, Sanyasi he should prostrate before them completely (Saashtanga
Abhivadhanam.
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